I agree with you on that. Love will find her when she least expect it.

Kenneth Smotherman yes sir i agree all you need is a mustard seed of faith God takes care of the rest.

I met mine online. I go to church for church.

Say that!! AND....STOP BEING SO DESPERATE! I don't agree with online dating; there are nuts looking for vulnerable women. I choose to believe God will send him to me!

I agree...you don't know how GOD will send you your mate. Be prepared to be open, have fun, love yourself first.

How is it going?

Congratulations!! 🍾🎉

I met my fiance on Facebook and we are growing stronger and stronger. He's overseas and the passion we have is threw the roof.

Which dating site?

that’s sad you ignored her for 2 years 😭

Happy Anniversary 😊!!! ❤❤❤❤

I tried that app for about 2 weeks but got bored lol but I ended up meeting my husband on fb, 4 yrs ago lol

Not always true but content 56 swf

The Word says "He who FINDS a wife; not she who finds..." I just met an older gent who 'found' me, but...he lives in another state several states away. He Never calls me at night.....hmm...I'm listening to the Holy Spirit.....he's married I'm guessing. So glad I have never had any dates or anything with him. I can simply disappear.

Estella Butler 👊🏼awesome 🙏🏻

nice advice, but I rarely see it work, if you want a man be a woman men want

@diane Taylor well said, too bad most women don't know this or will take your advice, most women end up lonely and single simply because they aren't approachable or have terrible manners/issues

I thought you were referring to some "red light district" after reading the first sentence.

So how did you speak to him?

Yeah how did that go about?

Please tell us the story!

Edge omg same 😹

In the Bible, it's kinda Ruth that found Boaz though... if we read it right

@@hiwagusu Little girl you are missing the point about waiting for your Boaz. YOU read the WHOLE story again for YOURSELF. It is about the love Ruth had for her Mother-in-law that attracted Boaz to Ruth. HE saw her in the field FIRST. She didn't go running after him or no other man after she lost her husband and she was not looking and tramping around for a man either. She was dedicated and loyal to her dear Mother-in-law and it was what caught Boaz attention.

@@tcalvin4196 I'm not reading the story for myself but as it is. I don't want to be a Ruth nor to find a Boaz. And when he noticed her, it was not in a love at first sight way. Even if we use that logic in that sense, in Ruth 2:2, she went there in order to find favor in his eyes. At that time the guy didn't know she existed. He did show generosity as Ruth was an immigrant. Then Ruth talked about Boaz to Naomi. Naomi told her to, you know, dress well and make it clear she was available. And Ruth went to Boaz as he was asleep and DRUNK ???? (Chapter 3:1-8). And in Ruth 3:9, she tells him that he's a redeemer, almost basically asking him to marry her, because back in the day, if there was no man in the house, you were kinda doomed to hunger and poverty. I mean the history context here. Let's just not say "Oh wait for your BOAZ and just pray , the guy will find you". When that's not even what happened. Plus the girl, Ruth, was a grieving woman that stayed by the side of her mother-in-law. She was not a young women in her 20s starting to have a desire for partnership. So using the Boaz story to a lady that is IN A COMPLETE different context than Ruth and be like "just pray for your Boaz". I mean, it's quite being careless, lacking understanding and loveq and hypocritical. In my opinion.

@@hiwagusu Do me a favor and get back to me when you have been married for 50 years as myself and 72 years of marriage as my parents. What I said Sweet Pea is way over your head. You still are missing the simple point I was making.....you my dear are still wet behind the ears on this. Stay in your lane. If you will

Lol Boaz died the day after he married her and he actually married her because he HAD to not because he wanted to

I praise God at home

These women are getting too desperate tho they need to focus on god and let god do his work.I can see it putting stress ova them.

Too bless to be stress

Patience is a virtue.god will bring forth a wife/husband for us.I declare..

Fast and pray👏

women find more ways to reject guys than you can count, watch videos by Better Bachelor

people do what is convenient not what is smart, years ago a model turned me down for a date because she was a hs dropout, I had two college degrees, she liked me, but later she told a friend of mine " he has a college degree, and he won't settle for me", talk about insecurity--she can always go back to school, get a GED, commun. college maybe etc. -- she couldn't see she could change her situation--have no idea where she is today - she was a fitness model, had her own business, and still had issues--sad

If a woman says 60 miles is too far, it's her "nice" way of saying she's not actually interested but doesn't want to completely reject the dude to protect themselves.

😁become a nun

That's fine and always will be when it comes to the Lord. But we human beings are designed to be with the opposite sex period. Just my take.

Amen amen...👏👏👏

@@mrbdubs88 You are right...if you are one of those who needs that pleasure ... not trying to give a bible lesson but the Apostle Paul says that its better to be single and devote yourself to God but if your flesh is to weak for that calling, ... then its better to marry then to burn with lust ... just sayin

Contactpq where do I go to meet Jesus??

He's not a man he's a spirit

Wolfae Amen!

Jesus is a fictional character created by the Roman Catholic church at the Council of Nicene 325.

LOL

@@jackpea7102 wow fictional!! One day you are going to need him believe me!!

Amen!!

I hope you are married because sacking up ain't going to get you any where.

Naah, I don't believe that, we need to find why the first dude left though, we always quick to assume the guy is the problem.

Christian Clarke Single mom.... did you not hear that? Why would a good man choose a sing mother over a childless woman? Single mom= Huge red flag

Joseph Mauricio Flores preach brother, I’ve been saying she was probably riding the cc and got tired of it. Plus single mother is just asking for trouble

Very well said and I agree

R I G H T !

#Mgtow that is why many ladies are single

@@peridozq9390 eww

Amen Tianna

Belinda Joy that's very true joy I also have been online looking for my soul mate but I still have faith and patience that one day I will get my right woman I don't mind age as well,so I agree with Steve

Online dating can be dangerous also. I’ve tried it. I have friends that’s been on those sites for years unsuccessful and they meet guys but when they decide to get into a relationship they have discovered that the guy never left the dating site as he claimed he would once they were in a relationship, and dating multiple women. I remember one time two of my coworkers were dating the same guy online and had no idea until they compared stories and pics because it sounded familiar and they were friends also one of them had been dating the guy for over a year. I found that it’s best to wait on God and enjoy the wait as you enjoy your life and the right man will find you!

@Brooklyn Dreams, you are correct. Trust me I agree with you. You and I are in the minority however in terms of waiting contently until our soul mate or "Godsend" comes into our lives. I'll take quality over quantity any day. :-)

Yes ure true but there are kind of us u wished to marry white ladies not to get anything apart from love but to change our lineage coz of the beauty comes out of the product of mixed blood But just to see one white lady it takes years yet coming to the anthill of them(which is where they live) we're blocked. I wish somebody can help me out for sure. Tried all dating sites but all in vain

@@shanb4520 There are players everywhere, in church, school, the bank, etc etc etc! Just be smart and take your time, getting to know a person! Plenty of warning signs! One needs to read between the lines, as well! Go to paying sites, more likely to have less players! Christian sites out there, also! Even there, you need to watch out! Just like anywhere else!

same thing happend with my sister she met her husband in mmorpg game

Same thing happened to me SIMs.

MAN_ON_WHEELZ hey! I recently went on a dating site and sadly did the same thing. However, I messaged back this guy who wasn’t initially my type, he was a lot older and kind of shy. But after speaking with him, I noticed how great and nice a person he was. We started dating and he is awesome 😄 I hope more women don’t turn down anymore of these great guys on these sites.

Morgan Nixon - See? You're one of the smart ones! You gave a regular guy a chance and he turned out to be a decent guy! Good for you for giving the guy a chance! I'm telling you, that's where it's at! Too many women think that because it's online dating, they can treat it like online shopping and get EXACTLY what they want. It don't work that way! We are humans, we come with flaws and differences, even with dating sites you have to accept your person lacking several things you want, and not put too much requirement on too many things. Only put "definite yes/no" on things that really matter in a relationship. Everything else needs to have some leeway.

Totally disagree.

Estella Butler - With what? and why?

Average and ugly is two different things.

Jeni Ruiz congratulations darling it’s not bad at all I know a few happy couple who also met through Facebook and are happily married.

I met mine on Tinder, so you're good lol

Not ideal but it happens.

Iceman0113 she low key said she done that but wants “good man” when she,herself has been riding the cc. She,herself isn’t a good woman

If your profile is on the front page you will get plenty of emails and it's not because of looks.

Are you married? If so How did you find your love one

Omg I been saying soulmate since never knew it was solemate! Thought sole was a fish. How wrong was I (lol)

@@whitneyhouston114 are you being sarcastic?

@Round Robin OMG these comments made me laugh so hard. The solemate will brings shows and pop her cherry.

preach

Darling unless when are feelings are dead dats when we can ignore this fact that we all need pipo who gives our body feelings wat it deserves. God can provide us with a man or awoman from any place be it chr, school, funeral right, club, train, malls name it

Proverbs 21:9 9Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.

@alex Steve isn't telling em about the percentage of women who gets stalk, con, robbed, used, killed etc.

What does what he says have to do with kidnapping? People get kidnapped who meet in person too.

@@abx6539 A very small percentage may be abused! One needs to be wise reading between the lines, etc! On the other hand, you could be stalked by your work colleague, ex-husband, etc! So, there are no assurances in life! Can't live in fear!

There you go she wouldn't know know a good man if he showed up at her doorstep a million times

She's not smiling because she's not interested.

tea interested in what?

@@kevada1222 The Man

@@Abena_Goddess87 she'll be "not interested" and alone at 70 same way she is now. Only with some regret.

Which dating site did u use if it was the one . thank u

Online dating sucks...does not work

Lol I see you

So true..I met devil in the church...stay away from men in the church they are no good....

Not all men in the chruch are bad.

I got married to one. He turned out to be narcissist. He used to serve in church and very active in church activities. He knew the Bible like the back of his palm. 2 weeks into marriage, he had already started abusing me. The marriage ended after 2 and a half years. He abandoned me at my lowest point. He left me when I had just given birth through CS and developed post partum complications. It was hard. Am healing and I thank God for saving me.

@@beckykwamboka7668sorry about what you had to go through. I pray God's healing upon you.

@@s.Kim34 Amen. Thank you.

joseph robinson dating sites don't work for men. Women are all visual. Be good looking. That's it.

True but a love of our life can be found any where be it a funeral right, or club name it

Sure!? Which one do u used?

I know 3 couples who got married from meeting online. There's nothing wrong with online dating. It gives you a chance to weed out those who you are not interested in.

I'm glad to hear you two made it work despite distance. I'm facing a similar problem atm. So it gives me hope we can work it out.

@@h.s.6269 I hope it worked out for you. We have been happily married for 4 years, still feel like newlyweds.

Yes I have

Have you ever had a 2-9yr old manly boys sit on their mother mean mugging you,had one push my arm off,mom thought that was cute,had a girl's dog,do the same thing.ladies it ain't easy,I'm into easy mode.you me date.