I thoroughly enjoyed this video, Maybe because we are around the same age. All through my 20s I never made finding a husband my prayer point, the major thing in my head was getting a good job(which I eventually did when when I turned 30) infact that was the only thing I prayed and fasted about 😅. I’m living in my answered prayers.I’m 2yrs on the job now and it still feels so surreal😍. At some point after getting this job, family members wanted to rob me off my joy by reminding me I wasn’t married at 31/32, I almost fell for it but they failed. I go on dates, talk to men but nobody can put me under any pressure abeg,the right man will come when it’s time. I forgot to mention, I’m living in my dream apartment, going on my first vacation this year. The kind of people(men and women) I meet now motivate me not to be mediocre. Even my colleagues… let me stop this epistle here 😂it’s already looking like “Testimony time”

Jola is such a grounded, intelligent and funny individual; Dimma is sound normally. I genuinely enjoyed this adult conversation, it was impactful.

Love this and is still watching. I just want to note, men have a biological clock too. The older they get, the more their sperm replicate, the more errors are in the DNA. This result in a higher chance of the child having disabilities and other issues. So for both genders, the older we all get, the more complicated it is for us to have a healthy children.

Honestly! We should have a first daughter or first children conference, because Omo! There’s so much to be talked about. For me, I started being sò responsible at a really young age and rn I’m just at the point where I’m like, I want to be babied, like I want to feel taken care of. It’s so crazy 😩

Montessori is a style of teaching which encourages 'following the child' method. It is not the traditional classroom setting. It incorporates daily life into teaching from toddler age. So instead of being too focused on academic activities, it focuses on teaching skills instead for toddlers up to age 6. So activities like washing dishes, peeling an egg, cleaning up, climbing a staircase, care of self and the environment e.t.c are the primary focus at that age to build confidence and focus while building fine motor and sensory skills as well as laying the foundation for mathematics and language by exploration. the curriculum is focused on each child and not the class. In some cases, children of different age groups are put together for instance 0-3 in same class, 3-6 in same class and the concept is to build leadership and social skills such that the older kids are able to help the younger kids in learning and direction so your kids change classes only 4 times in their primary years. The classrooms are set in a manner of progression. And teaching is based on how well they are able to complete a set of tasks/activities based on the child's learning pace before they can move to the next progression. teaching is group based and one on one. The aim is to build mastery in those activities and self sufficiency. Proper Montessori is actually one the best methods of educating a child from age 1 to 6. My kids attended Discovery House in Lagos and it was one of the best decisions If you are looking for where your child can come first and read times table before they are 3, this is not for you o. lol

Contents from Dimma are like therapy and online sister giving you advice. Obviously a must watch for me when I get home, I will watch this with a snack

I genuinely suggest that Jola should write a book❤😊

Jola’s views are so refreshing. Such maturity!

the way Jola starts off so calm then bam!

Not me and my partner pausing the video at intervals to agree and chip in our two cents like Dinma and Jola can see or hear us😂Well, it's 1am here and I can tell you we haven't been able to finish the video. Well done Queen Dims, May God bless you, keep you and let His light shine upon you always.

I took my time to listen to this from A-Z. The reason why I subscribed to this channel and stayed back till date is your mentality Dinma. You literally speak my mind about so many issues.

Huge advocate of horizontal networking! Networking is just forming relationships; never force it no matter who you’re talking to or what their level is. Just be yourself, let things flow naturally, and put yourself out there! It’ll be fun

I just love how Jola talks. I’m sure she hears that a lot and see how calm and composed she is. Love it ❤❤

About finding your style, Jola spoke my mindddd. I am into bubu because my body has changed, I can't be wearing clothes and be looking like Shrek.😂. I so love bubu gowns now. I just love comfort for the life of me. I also followed Dimma because she had close to my body type. It's really important to dress according to your body type.

When I watch Dimma's Q and As, I always have a pen and book with me. The wisdom these women dish out is immaculate. I figured out a lot about myself from this channel; my body type, scent, makeup, skincare. Please, don't stop having these honest, raw and important discussions. Thank you Dimma and Jola!

With Jola?!! this is a real treat!!! thanks dimma

You two possess a wealth of wisdom and it's always a delight listening to you both.

This was such a lovely video, I enjoyed every bit of it. The importance of curating the right circle and friendship group, can't be overemphasized. I also made a friend from listening to ISWIS❤ Thank you so much for making my night😊

Thank God Dimma asked what montessori was for all of us😂😂

Love Jola & Dinma friendship so much I wish I have such friend or set of friends this way . But I have no friends around me . More like a loner now. Especially moving to a new area so far from home. Thank you so much for this Jola & Dinma ❤❤❤❤

Honestly, I think firstborns really sees how the whole family burden can be challenging and would want to do the math! It's not easy, you get to watch your siblings grow as well as watch how your parents get to handle certain situations and how difficult sometimes were. I'm a first child and the basic goal in this dispensation is to help ease of the burden from parents, especially when everywhere is not silvering. Love your video Dinma.

Jola thank you so much for that ending part of this lifestyle trap it’s not normal. Like unnecessary pressure we put on ourselves. I love this episode so much Dinma

I enjoyed this soo much ! I listen to ISWIS and love how Jola talks about her friendships whenever she has a chance to ! I've jotted down that hack about dealing with hyperindependence as a first daughter !! very very key 😂

I really loved Dimma’s response to the girl who felt undeserving. It resonated with me

this feels like big sisters chat. love you guys!

55:18 this right here is so true. When you see people your age doing great stuff, your mind can’t be at rest.

Dimma: I dont think the non-traditional men in this Lagos are more than 2 Jola: ...maybe 3 and a half.. Dimma: Let's give them 5 😅😅😅😅 Totally loved this conversation!! 100% real and relatable!!

Dimma and Jola…. A match made from heaven 😍😍😍

Woooooooow was my first thought thank you Dim dim , my friend is jealous of you she says I am obsessed with you. How can I not be , you are making me smile amidst the chaos around me rn ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Please Dimma ,tell us about your skin care routine, your skin is really glowing

I feel like saving this video till I’m in a good place to really get into it! I’m so excited🎉💃🏾 Your QnAs are elite!!! and this one features Jollz (screaming internalllyyyy)😂😂❤

My slippers almost cut running to this video!😂 I've been waiting for it💃🏽☺️

I enjoyed this conversation. It was so insightful and therapeutic. "we can talk" 😂😂😂 "Be intentional with the people you surround yourself with." 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿 I think the correct word is - Culminate. Jola was such a good guest here. 🤣🤣🤣 Everything Everywhere was so chaotic abeg. Great talking with so many tips and advice especially on friendship and ambition. Thanks, Dimma and Jola. ❤❤❤

I am in my early 20’s and this is so inspiring and informative. Love this❤

The gradual unfolding of the two of you was so fun and unexpected at the same time😅❤

Wowwwwww!!! Screaming Consistency ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ahhh !!! I tap from this strength 🤲🤲

I can’t believe I watched this Q n A Session to the end🥺 Too juicy and Educating..

“na we get am, the husband dey borrow am” is so real omg! 🤣

I thoroughly enjoyed this video!!! Kai! Maybe because it’s so relatable, maybe because they are my faves, maybe because I’m at that age. The part where Jola talked about dating first born sons being the hack for dealing with hyper independence as the first day….i screamed so much because that is so me!!! It’ll be great if someone takes the burden off me. I too am someone’s child bikozienu, I am a baby oooo. Anyway, always here to support my girls. Love you so much Dimma, thank you for these videos and the conversations that emanate from them. I wish you all the best and I hope you keep crushing it my darling ❤️

See women with common sense. Love love love Jola! 😃😃

Yaaay🎉 Dimma and Jola

I am currently doing my masters in education and I was learning about Montessori today, when Jola mentioned it, it made me happy.

I love how Dimma realises that there's the category of "people who love you are invested in your life" I really get confused when youtubers are upset with the investment of their suscribers and respond rudely to questions (you can't even get me there asking shaa😂) Dimma honours us❤. And it's why she'll continue to flourish

Dimma amd Jola the wisdom you have is too much. Oppor!!! The energy and eveything about this video is lovely.

Jola started calmly and then boom! I totally enjoyed this video. You both are around same age my Elder sister I guess that’s why I gravitate towards your contents easily. Love you both ❤❤ 1:22:04 Healthy Friendships really brings me joy.

I'm a simple girl. I see Dimma's notifications and I run here😂

Hi dim dim, I enjoyed this video so much and hate that I’m just seeing it. I work in insurance and for the financial investment part, I can help with accumulating wealth for a long period of time

Anywhere I see Dimma and Jola, I click 🥰❤️

O my Lord It's Christmas 😊 Over 1Hr video with Jola

Omg Jola's personality is amazing ❤

I always love videos with Jola in it 🥹❤️ you two talk so intelligently

Lmao! The way I “speed” click Dimma’s videos needs to be studies 😂

I definitely Love you too, I see alot of similarities in our way of thinking. Especially on the questions, can a woman have it all and also not making a man the centre of one's live. Life is more and could be more. Just discover yourself and do you.

😂😂😂😂 I love Jola cos that second question!!! 😂😂 she’s me!! I wish many more women view it that way ❤

I actually watched all 1hr+ of this video…even the ads Because DimDim and Jolz were dropping gems 💎 🙌🏽 Thank you for filming and sharing❤️

I am so glad the children conversation came up because this question of children eh. I don hear am tire. People should just allow people live their lives abeg😂

This video is very entertaining, enlightening, and informative. Dimma's videos always have a positive takeaway. Love your friendship.

Jola is such a riot omg! 😂

Such a wholesome session. Well done Dimma and Jola ❤❤. Your friendship shone through this video ❤❤

What Dim Dim said about personal style is so on point. That is exactly what I am doing

Jola has to be my favourite person 😂😂❤

The amount of time Dinma said “yeah” can build a house 😁…..enjoyed this video ☺️❤️

Rich rich chat. Thank you Jola and Dimma 😘😘

The moment we entered 2024 everyone started wishing me marital break through, I’m like what’s wrong with all of you, I get it I’m already in my early 30’s but I still want something else before a marriage nah only me understands Ike gwuru 😂

I thoroughly enjoyed this. JOLA IS SUCH A VIBE!!!😂😂😂❤

Commenting even before I watch because I know it’s gonna be premium content🥳🥳🥳

I totally,thoroughly,deeply everyly😂 enjoyed this chat. E deep and e sweet. High point was the advise to the younger generation to 'calm down ' live real. I grew up an orphan and seriously, I can't be bothered to be fake. I no get ur time. I'm 💯% Juliet (organic, yet evolving to a better version of me) so love me or leave me. Chao

This combo 😭❤️❤️❤️

I enjoyed every minute of this! Thank you Dinma! You and Jola gave me snippets of life that I needed!

Jola makes me happy, her answer to the dream destination question was so funny to me

I love watching your videos EVERY TIME! There are lessons and love in every one.

Awww I love how they got into reading 🥺

I can totally relate to how you felt with “Everything Everywhere All At Once” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I enjoyed this video. The raw honesty. God bless your friendship.

Jola is just that friend that is always a joy to be around. Lovely video❤❤ and funny too.

Jola’s SKINNNNNNN✨✨✨✨✨✨ My goodness such a babe!

A good watch to relieve stress from hospital workkk… my night looks so sweet already 🎉

My faves in one videoooo💃🏼💃🏼😍❤️❤️

Dimma and Jola.... I love you guys so much... Thank you so much for the many enlightenment on issues bothering young ladies ❤❤❤❤❤

You ladies are hilarious 😂😂😂😂

Fear is real, I will be 31 soon, my birthday is so close and my heart won’t stop beating, I’m scared, cus I feel people will talk about me . They will say 1 she just graduated 2 no husband 3 no kids But watching this today, gave me so much hope, I will never shrink myself for anyone. Thank you so much ❤️❤️

Yay!!!! This video is long overdue!!!

Some firstborns/first daughters/first sons don't really know how to shoulder responsibilities though.

The synchronized “HEI”😭😂😂😂😂😂😂

Wait I'm confused! This is February 2024 and Jola has read 100 books??? hah! I have to pick up reading again! Love you guys!!

Jola is such a beautiful woman ❤🥺

I'm so glad I stayed till the end It felt like big sisters and the conversations were so relatable and I learnt a lot.

I really enjoy this duo's Q and A's. I'm a first daughter and first child as well and these advice somehow feel like they're coming from a big sister perspective. I love you guys❤

Omo! I just buy things and now I have a wardrobe with a lot worth decluttering because my style is still unsettled. I am still dabbling between my need to be very very comfortable and still be a girly modest corporate babe sometimes. Plus I am not so fashionable so putting 2+2 is not my strong forte.

Just the notification I was waiting for. Well done Dim Dim

Wholesome AF!🥺

Love the content. Suggestion: when you have a guest, y’all should sit sort of facing each other. Makes it a bit easier when y’all turn your heads to look at each other.

Dim Dim.. you know what? You’re my younger big sister. This was so therapeutic to watch. And I laughed at you crying with “concerned well wishers”. 😂

I loved Enid Blyton books as a kid too!!! Brought back so many memories!

See eh.... I feel like walking into the screen to join this gist live... Chineke... I always enjoy your content

This was so refreshing as always. I enjoyed watching and i love Jola's personality. Thanks for sharing quality content always.

Not me watching and making my nails myself! i really love you guys. so relatable

I totally enjoyed this conversations and most especially Dimdim’s content. Thank you for bringing Jola again. 👏🏻👏🏻🤗🤗🥰🥰

This video is so sweet and insightful🤩. Thanks Jola & Dimma 🤩

I've been expecting this video for forever. Thank you ma'am. 😊❤