People: crying in front of camera while making videos of their conflict and clarifications things Kittendust: crying in front of camera while talking how great God is. THE DIFFERENCE GUYS.

I don't know why this video is very emotional for me. You're very lucky Chia, as you have maximized every aspects of yourself toward growth, and boy do you do it beautifully. It's been amazing watching you bloom. You've been able to touch millions of people with your work, follow your creative passion, make a name out of yourself.. And now you're back on track to be who you're supposed to be and I'm very proud of you. But life is hard when it is devoid of purpose and meaning, and you keep searching for them everywhere, hoping that you can do something big while you're still here. Suddenly you look around and get a revelation that you're not that different from anybody else. I can sense that my life will be the same, will be as mundane and passionless as anybody else. And it's killing me because it is the last thing I want. Feeling like my time is running out and unlike you, I won't be able to share something, anything, meaningful to the world; a life wasted on trivial things, you can't help but ask, what is the point of it all? I don't know why I feel the need to share all of this here. I just want to thank you for this video. The way you say we, as human, are in this wave of messy confusion and how it is okay to be confused is, I don't know, a comforting relief for me, as if I'm hearing it through the voice of a dear friend, the one who's been through it all. I'm wishing you good luck, dan semoga Allah bersama setiap langkahmu kak❤️

jujur gw jg nangis nonton ini hahahahhaa gw udah tahun ke 5 kuliah belom lulus juga, temen temen udah pada kerja, ada yg bisnis udah lancar, ada yg udh nikah. stress sendiri ngerasa "ko gw msh gini gini aja" ya tapi emg semua orang punya jalan hidupnya masing masing, gw jg selalu blg sm diri sendiri "mau ada yg kerja duluan kek, nikah duluan kek, apa duluan kek itu ya rezeki dan jalan hidup mereka, dan gw juga bakal ngerasain itu jg soon or later. HAHA semangat to myself and u all

bener banget, gue lulusan 2014 baru dapet kerja awal 2015 jd reporter kerja di tv jam kerja gak jelas slama 2 thn sampe ada tawaran gue kerja freelance profesional gaji tiap bulan yg jauh mencukupi dan gue bsa kerja dimanapun 😂 depan laptop ... dlu ini cita2 gue biar bsa sekalian travelling TERNYATA gue ngerasain persis kaya lo ada yg kurang, gue jd gak ngerasa kerja, recehnya gak punya temen makan siang, gbs ngomongin bos 😂 kerja di perusahaan, team work, create something dengan goals yg sama itu cita2 gue ... ya skrg jalanin aja dlu, berharap kedepannya bsa bikin kantor sendiri 😅 good luck for us, for our career, and our dream ✌

jgn bandingkan prosesMu dg org lain tdk semua bunga tumbuh mekar bersamaan tetaplah berusaha untuk maju jgn berhenti jangan kembali

Dear Chia... It's Oke ko memilih kerja, Please siapapun jangan underestimate sama orang yg ujung2 nya bekerja kantoran lah, seolah2 they're stuck in their life. Just calm down girl, semua pengalaman hidup lu itu bakal jadi pelajaran kok, belajar saat jadi youtuber, blajar saat jadi Influencer atau ini next belajar masuk di dunia profesionalitas. Sukses ya chia, serap bnyak pengalaman di dunia kerja, ktemu boss yg aneh lah, partner kerja yg julid lah atau sgala hal bahagia yg ada. Biar nnti pas s2 udah mantap 💪💪💪

KAK CHIAAAA OH GOSH PLEASE DON'T CRY! Yang kamu lakukan semua pilihan kamu, itu semua ada karena izin Tuhan juga. Semuanya sudah benar, kamu dikasih hidup yang luar biasa. Tinggal bagaimana kamu menikmati alurnya, jangan lupa tersenyum disetiap liku-likunya. Selalu bersyukur kak Chia! I love you :) ps : thankyouforhavebeeninspiringus!

I know exactly that feeling, setelah gue lulus dan jadi pengangguran 1.5 tahun, jiper rasanya liat temen satu jurusan yang udah kerja di perusahaan ternama ini dan itu sementara gue masih stay the same as ever. Tapi beneran, tadi sore gue ditlp salah satu perusahaan kalo gue lulus interview dan keterima disitu *iniceritaaslisuer* padahal gue lagi belajar buat SIMAK UI hari minggu ini buat lanjut S2 di Linguistik. Kadang semua berjalan tidak seperti apa yang kita harapkan, saya bersabar dan terus berdoa akhirnya dikasih jawaban. Mungkin S2 nya bukan untuk sekarang tapi masa depan :)) Have a good day everyone

Selamat datang di dunia orang dewasa

Kadang dalam pandangan kita rumput tetangga selalu lebih hijau...nikmati hidupmu dan syukuri setiap kejadian...

Wow, who knows someone like you can also get confused about life? I mean, your life is perfect. You got accepted in your dream company, you make money from doing what you like, you got perfect family and supportive boyfriend? What could go wrong? But yeah, everybody has their own problem. Thanks for sharing anyway. I feel the struggle.

Hallo Chia your video touched me. Aku juga ngerasa hal yg hampir sama. Aku baru mulai kuliah tahun 2017 kmrin setelah 3 tahun luntang-lantung. Its funny when I called it luntang-lantung, aku lulus SMA 2014 kmrin, niat mau lanjut kuliah keluar tapi gak bisa karena masalah visa dsb. Dalam keadaan frustasi dan bingung mau cari jurusan apa. Aku memutuskan untuk kerja tahun 2015, hampir 2 tahun kerja masih aja merasakan "kehampaan" kayak yg kamu bilang tadi. And finally aku kuliah lagi. Di tahun 2018 ini temen2 angkatanku SMA udah lulus pendidikan S1 mereka. Dan di tahun 2018 ini aku baru semester 2 menuju semester 3. Sedih dan nyesel kalau diingat ada perasaan iri juga sebenarnya. Dan kenyataan nanti aku lulus umur 25 tahun, dan kalau itu lancar dan tepat waktu (semoga aja) membuat aku takut juga. Tapi apapun yg terjadi, ini pilihan kita. Tiap orang lahir membawa rejeki mereka masing2. Jangan takut terlambat, kita harus bangga dengan pilihan kita. Dan selalu konsisten untuk memperjuangkannya 😇

"It's okay untuk melakukan hal yg lo suka tanpa alasan apapun" -Chia

Lagi usbn dan nonton video ini, jadi semangat aja belajarnya jadi mikir semua kalau dijalanin dengan baik pasti hasilnya baik dan jadi spirit buat masuk kuliah trus jadi yakin sama cita2 sama lakuin apa yg kita suka, ily teh cia❤

This is what 'fresh-graduate' literally think :" banyak orang punya planing ini itu ina inu ketika kita semester awal, gimana rencana kita setelah lulus dan blablabla, tapi menjelang atau setelah lulus, ternyata dunia after-graduate nggak sebercanda itu :""" banyak org kantoran mikir "ena ya jadi yutuber, haha hihi dapet duit. Lah kitaaah, depan laptop mulu kapan liburannyaa" tp ternyata yutuber juga mikir "ena ya kerja kantoran, blablabla". Ternyata semua hanya soal citacita dan melihat satu dgn yg lain. Ternyata, semua memang 'perlu dicoba' dan harus dijalanin dgn rasa syukur. Dan, ternyata sejauh apapun kita berencana, Allah punya rencana terbaikNya 💕. Gitu deh pokoknyaaa 😢 Maap kepanjangan. Thanks chia, curhatan kamu di video ini pun mewakili kita, the anak-anak-baru-lulus-yang-masih-galau-harus-berbuat-apa. Salam hangat, peluk erat 💓

yang membedakan manusia yang satu dan yang lain nya dalam hal cita cita adalah dia mau bertindak atau tidak ,dia mau mengejar atau tidak.

Sebenernya ya walaupun banyak orang yang bilang harus semangat atau bla bla kadang dalam diri kita tuh susah banget melaksanakannya ..

Gue kuliah 7 th baru lulus...temen2 dah pada lulus,sempet down juga sih, gue cm tinggal ber-3 ma temen, cb memotivasi diri sendiri, akhirnya lulus juga..coba bersyukur dan tetep semangat, Tuhan punya rencana...

Hai Fathia! Gue jadi pengen sharing pengalaman gue ke lo (or kalian semua). Kebetulan gue juga sealmamater dgn lo, plus seangkatan dengan lo. Gue lulus 4,5tahun haha. Gue ngerelain ga lulus tepat waktu karena gue dulu mendalami teater. Disaat yang lain sidang gue ke jepang untuk show teater disana, didepan ibu negara jepang. It just like a dream. Tapi kemudian gue ambil keputusan out from the theater dan lulus. Finally gue lulus. Struggle real life baru kerasa. Udah pernah ngerasain nangis2 karena kerjaan ga mulus lalu pindah kerja. Finally now gue jd konsultan, alhamdulillah masih lancar bagus sampai skrg. Tapi! Kemudian teman2 gue satu persatu menikah have their own life. Pengalaman indah gue semasa kuliah, main teater dll terasa itu cuma kesemangan fana doang! Lalu mulai mikir lg "gue hidup buat apa". Yak! Disitu, setelah lulus ga perkara cuma duit doang yg kita butuhin. Tapi kita butuh TUJUAN dalam hidup. Ketika kita sekolah kita langsung tau oh tujuan kita untuk lulus. Tapi after that, kita harus nentuin tujuan2 kita yg pilihannya absurd, kita harus tau sendiri. Disitu challengenya. Gue pun masih cari tau untuk apa. Gue yakin lo bakal ngerasain itu. Dan gue harap lo segera menemukan tujuan hidup lo. Cheers! 💕

Gw nonton ini setelah capek habis nangis mikirin hidup gw setelah wisuda taun lalu. Gw kerja part time di media lokal sejak sma sampe kuliah. Dulu gw bangga banget, cuma gw satu satunya diantara temen se angkatan yang kerja sambil kuliah. Sampe akhirnya shit happen, my mom died when i did my skripsi. Yg harusnya gw lulus tepat 4 taun, molor jd 4.5 (i know masih normal ya, tapi gw stress banget) untungnya ipk masih bisa cumlaude. But then welcome to the reality, gw yg dulu ambisius banget sm target2 gw, pengen dapetin scholarship di luar, pengen kerja sesuai jurusan di perusahaan asing. It's all fucking gone. Gw ngerasa banget apa yg km rasa kak chia, i feel empty, kosong, hampa, gw udh ngerasain semuanya, cuma setelah lulus rasanya aneh. Gw ngerasa gw kuliah, struggle buat dpt ipk cumlaude, akhir2nya gw kerja ga sesuai jurusan, gw kerja sesuai hobby gw yg which is aneh. Sampe skr gw masih ngejalanin kerja part time gw di media, pekerjaan yang sama yg udh gw lakuin selama 7 tahun, yg menurut gw, gw ga ada kemajuan. Jujur aja gw jenuh, cuma gw ga tau kenapa gw jalanin ini. Temen2 gw kerja normal di kantor, sementara gw kerja dgn durasi waktu yg sedikit, yang salary oke sih. Cuma gw ngerasa kerjaan gw ga senormal temen2 gw yg pake seragam, di kantor, bisa kerja sesuai sejurusan. Ga kayak gw yg stag gini2 aja. Yg ga tau setelah ini harus ngapain. Gw udh ga seambisius dulu sebelom shit happen. But thanks for your honest video kak chia, gw ngerasa ga sendirian di kebingungan ini. Makasih ya :)

"Its okey to be BINGUNG"-Chia 2018 😄😄

jalan hidup = (ekspektasi - reality )+ spiritual 😉. selamat berproses untuk kita semua ..sukses yaa

3:45 bener kata kakak Lo.." The most important thing is how happy you are running through in this life.. "

kasusnya ampir sama sih sama gw, gw kuliah 6 tahun, baru lulus thn kmrn, dan sejak 2015 gw udh ga ada kuliah sbnrnya, tinggal skripsi, saat itu gw mulai fokus sama passion gw dan dari saat itu, gw sadar passion gw bkn di jurusan kuliah yg gw ambil, tapi skrg stlh lulus, gw ga nyesel dulu aga males2an kuliah, tp saat itu memang gw serius menekuni passion gw sendiri, sampe skrg karya2 gw itu bisa jd portfolio dan lbh pede buat ngelamar kerja karena pede sama skill diri sendiri. Jadi intinya jgn takut menekuni apa yg kita suka, meskipun kita pikir apa yg kita tekuni itu tidak ada manfaatnya pada masa depan kita nanti.

I feel you, Chia. I am class of 2012 too. I am now what you were before being graduated. I'm still struggling with my thesis and will be graduated in July. Thanks for the inspiration. I hope you all nothing but the best. Keep on making good videos and musics! 😉

Gua udh semester 4, lupa jadwal ulangan karena sibuk ngamen (sama2 anak band kita ka cma gua level pengamen masih 😂) dan kerja kantoran akhirnya gua disuruh ulang 1 semester, udh gtu bukan jurusan yg bener2 passion gua jga, akhirnya pindah fakultas ulang lg smester 1, ttep ngamen dan ttep kerja but I'm still grateful and happy for what I've become now. Intinya do what you love even if it makes you lose years in life. Because every good thing takes time ❤

Mba Chia, aku fhui semester 2 baru selesai kerjain makalah analisis kasus pidana buat uts aspid hari senin (penting gasih infonya) terus langsung buka youtube nonton Mba Chia ehehe. cuma mau bilang thankyou buat semua video-videonya, terutama yg ini. you really inspire me. aku liat Mba kemarin di DOLC, mungkin itu pas Mba taruh CV? hehe. aku jadi mikir bgt pas Mba bilang tentang jadi maba bareng makan di kantin bareng, tapi akhirnya jalan hidup masing2 beda. lulus ga tepat waktu mungkin nightmare semua mahasiswa, or is it just me? dan masuk lawfirm pake blazer keren-keren juga pasti impian bgt gasih omg. goodluck and congratulations on your new job in your dream lawfirm, terus terang aku kepo. di A*P mungkin? hehe, impian majority se fhui nan jayaa. tapi di lawfirm manapun itu, aku tetep iri:( perjalanan hidupku masih panjang. terimakasih wejangannya "jangan males" apalagi besok masih banyak uts padahal niat belajar udh kendor. karena setelah nonton video ini aku sadar, hafalin macem-macem dolus culpa belum ada apa2nya dibanding perjalananku nanti 3 tahun ke depan. proud of you, and glad to know u meskipun tidak in persoon Mba hehehe.

I feel the same! Lulus di semester 10, dan skrg masih nganggur. Bulan depan tepat setahun gue nganggur and still dont know what to do..... Gue jd ikut kelilipan nonton video iniii. Serius deh. Galau bangettt

Fathia, tidak mengikuti arus bukan berarti kamu salah.. Memang pada dasar nya ada dua falsafah hidup, yang mengikuti arus, dan yang melawannya.. Dan memilih yang kedua trus jalan kamu seperti ini, kamu bisa dapet youtube, ngeband dsb bayangin kalo kamu milih mengikuti arus, mungkin kamu akan langsung lulus dan kerja.. Bukan berarti itu tidak bagus, ya cuman istilahnya itu bukan kamu banget yakan. Intinya ga ada yang percuma sii semua pasti udah ada jalannya, terima kasih udah sharing ke kami + curhat sebagai subscribers kamu. Terima kasih banyak🙏

S2. 😑 gue sih banting stirr.. jadi penjual nasi bakar.. banyak temen yg mencaci.. S2 kok kerja nyuci piring. setelah 2 tahun omset gue 60.jt /bln temen gue datang.. pangill BOSSS APA KABAR.. saya jawab.. ah hhhh q cuma babu.. kalian orng kantoran apa kabar ??? Wkwkwkww

nice share, chia.. i'm also crying because i find out i'm not the only one who realizing the life after graduate. maybe in much different way. long short story gw cita² pgn kerja di publishing tapi kuliah di IPA, telat lulus karena doing this and that ( mostly because idk what to do, and not related to what i am studying). but then life hits me like BAM! beberapa tahun kemudian gw jadi manager di sebuah kantor publishing, bahkan sempet nolak lulusan terbaik se angkatan yg apply di kantor (krn dy ngeremehin ak pas wwcr dpn direktur). in the end.. well, i think life is about persistency and believe in our destiny. but most of it, saranku lebih banyak menikmati hidup dan stay positive.

This is so inspiring! I mean I watch this back when I was in high school but never really understood until i graduate. Jadi setelah lulus SMA 2018 kemarin gue decide buat gap year because gue gak dapet PTN :( and well kalo swasta I had financial issues. Gue decide buat kerja dan sempet mau lamar di bank tapi ternyata perusahaan temen nyokap ngehire gue buat masuk lagi (ya lagi krn pas gue kelas 12 gue sempet kerja as a freelancer di kantor dia dan gue kek 3 bulan pertama kelas 12 berdua sm sahabat senasib gue setiap hari abis pulang sekolah ke kantor dia buat kerja dari jam 5 sore - 9 malem setelah 3 bulan sih akhirnya dirumah). Setelah gue kerja as a fulltimer disini kek org kantoran masuk jam 9 balik jam 5, gue awalnya felt happy walau most of the time gue cuma diem ga banyak ngomong tapi akhirnya gue punya penghasilan sendiri dan bs ksh ortu tapi setelah bbrp bulan i feel emptiness inside and i feel like this isn't me at all plus gue belom kuliah dmn itu masih impian gue smpe detik ini. Akhirnya gue Maret awal decide buat izin resign di bulan April karena gue mau bimbel intensif utbk di luar kota and I wish this year i'll get accepted in PTN dan jurusan yg gue mau banget. WISH ME LUCK Y'ALL! bener kata chia pada ujungnya semua balik lagi because life is like a circle. Semoga buat kalian yg gap year bs diterima tahun ini! AAMIIN!!!

Sering sering upload kak suka sama videonya , notice dong kak

Lo beruntung thia cyrcle life lo bagus banget. You already nyicip entertainment world and when u finallu graduate you got your dream job. Thats a thing . So cuman mau ngingetin aja jangan lupa bersyukur, dan hope you had a good ending in ur life ya hehe

5.5 tahun tapi you were doing great mba and you've been nothing but inspiring!

Gpp chiaaaa, meskipun kamu ga lulus tepat waktu, tapi lulusmu di waktu yang tepat, okeyyy? Congratulation chiaaa

i was also experiencing the same problem as you (not graduated on time) and i get a little bit depressed when i see my friends get their life sorted out while i'm here contemplating on how to finish bab3&4 lol. but now i'm graduated and i get a job that i love so cheers to that. congratulations on the new job, chia! hope you enjoy your new work and still uploading some vidayos here 😁😁

Semangat kak cia....you're a role model

I LOVE YOU KAK CHIAAAAAAAA thank you very much for being such an inspirational woman! aku nonton ini pas lagi skripsian-lagi males-kemudian merasa semangat lagi. Sukses selalu untukmu!

Semangaaaaaat chia. Semua udah ada jalannya. Semua udah diatur. Selalu positif selalu bersyukur.

Semangat! karena hidup sesungguhnya membicarakan diri sendiri. Bukan dia atau mereka, namun, saya. Diri saya sendiri. Sukses

astaga relatable sekali. gw dulu pas smp mikir 10 taun kemudian gw udah kerja udah mapan gw yang bayarin semua tapi ternyata 25 taun gatau mau ke mana😂😂😂😂

The good thing is you directly moved on with life after you graduated. Some still postpone reality by not moving forward. It’s not a race. People have their own paths and pace in life. Focus on your dreams and keep moving forward.

Thankyou kak buat penyemangatnyaa :) aku org yg trgolong lulus cpt.. tp blm dpt kerjaan smpe skrang but i know that everyone has their own way.. semangat ajah..

Kak Chia!! Terima kasih sudah menghadirkan video ini, it seriously helps me, tho. Aku juga on repeat your skripsi song karena aku masih nge-stuck di judul, alias direvisi terus. Terima kasih sudah meyakinkan aku as a viewer and as a person who younger than you :') words couldn't describe how much I thank you for delivering this video. Dan kalau boleh jujur, Kakak sudah hidup dalan kehidupan yang aku (dan mungkin banyak orang) inginkan: ke luar negeri, bertemu orang-orang hebat, kerja di tempat yang dicita-citakan, you're doing really well! Aku merinding ketika Kakak bilang, "I took risks", dan yap, risiko itu pada akhirnya membuat Kakak mendapatkan apa yang Kakak inginkan :") I mean, ketika orang2 sibuk skripsian, Kakak tetap produktif dengan segala yang Kakak lakukan. You're living your life. And eventually, sebagai mahasiswi yang baik, Kakak berusaha selesaikan juga tugas Kakak sebagai seorang sarjana. 5.5 tahun itu berwarna sekali, kalo aku liat progress Kak Chia (meski hanya lewat social media). Dan Kakak pasti bangga dan bersyukur akan hal itu!! I want to hug you like real tight!!

YOU GO GIRL!!! Maybe i'll feel the same way as u did once i get graduated. Bahkan dari skrg udh 'bingung' nnt mau gmna stlah lulus... Insyaallah September nih.... #pejuangskripsi Semangat chiaaaa... Semangat semuaaa!!! I wish you tons of luck Chia! A challenging journey awaitsssss ❤❤🌻

Gw nonton smpe 2x sambil gw maknai banget2. Karena gw mengalami hal yg sama :’) . Sekarang lagi berjuang dgn skripsi. Udh 5thn gw dikampus, kadang sedih bgt tmn2 gw udh pd lulus duluan, tp gw postive thinking karena jalan hidup org itu beda2. Gw kuliah sambil kerja struggle nya beda sm yg cmn kuliah tho. Ngerasain bgt pedihnya bagi waktu antara ngerjain tugas, kuliah, kerja, me time, dll nya. :’) Chia you made my day. Love you chia (btw gw baru subscribe pas liat ig story lo ) perasaan gw jd bergejolak bgt. Pngn nikah aja deh gw kalo gini :(

rasanya bener2 kayak dengerin temen curhat dan pas nangis jadi pengen ikutan nangis 😭 thank you so much for being a great inspirator & motivator for me. semoga sukses selalu menyertaimu kak chia! ❤

Gue udah lulus dari tahun lalu Dan temen temen udah banyak yg kerja sementara gue belum. Orang tua udah ngepush supaya cepet dapet. Gue udah usaha sampe gue kadanv ngedown sampe bingung mau gimana. Makasih ka. Gue makin yakin kalo kita emang Ada jalan masing masing. Gue butuh video kaya gini yang ngebuat gue percaya kalo rencana Tuhan itu ga Akan pernah ngecewain. Pasti nanti gue dapet kerjaan yang layak buat gue.. aamiin. Buat kalian yg belum lulus atau lagi cari kerja. Jangan nyerah ya. Semua udah digariskan sama yang diatas. Kita hanya tinggal berusaha berdoa Dan pasrah:')

matanya bengkak penuh kegalauan dengan mimik menegaskan bahwa nggk ada apa apa, padahal seperti nemiliki beban yg berat,

Now its 1 am, I watch this video while playing 'Sadness and Sorrow' on my playlist. Man, this is so sentimental, I'm also at this state, still doing my skripsi, soon will be graduated and start the woking life. Got the point, thankyou for sharing Chia. It's something you must proud, you can encourage other people with your positiveness. thanks

"When the time has come, it hits the surface of Earth; people shall yield in admiration" 😊 aku juga udah habis kuliah..masih menunggu panggilan rezeki namun tenang menjalani kehidupan. Percaya pada tiap2 kehendak dan takdir Ilahi😊

DAMN I COULDNT RELATE MORE TO ANYTHING THAN TO THIS VIDEO (at least for today) (w jg lulus 4.5 tahun gara2 lupa daftar ulang dan keenakan bisnis, baru lulus bulan lalu, merasakan hampa apa cuman gini doang, apply2 kerja, bedanya w belom ditrima dan w juga apply s2 beasiswa yg belom dapet, kynya hidup w lebih abu2 deh) hahahaha i swear i reeeeeealllly want to meet you in person tho and collab (i also made youtube videos) hhahaha ya kan apa salahnya ngmg disini siapa tau mau

Kak fathia izzati, coba deh beli buku trus baca "THINK FRESH" yg covernya itu warna orange. Itu rekomendasi kak bukunya bagus

Dudee, you’re doing awesome in life. You’re quite an inspiration. Most of us don’t what the shyt we’re doing at this stage in life but knowing someone like you who is going through it too makes it idk as if we’re not doing ‘life’ alone. Keep us updated yeah. Loving the daily vlogs btw 👌

It's all about passion, when you are really into the entertainment industry such as being a content creator, you will work hard to stay there, but when deep inside you are into something else then what's the point to continue staying, just do whatever you wanna do after all, semangat kakak

yeah i like it,daily video :)

For seriously? Menurut aku pilihan yg bijak bangettttt.. Semangattt 💪🏻 All the twenty something having the same dilema🎉 Sukses fathia!

Makasih buat videonya kak, aku juga jd emosional nntonnya krn skrg juga aku lagi alamin itu liat temen2 udh pada lulus aku kapan. Ya seperti kata kakak good luck, aku jd ada harapan baru dan mudah mudahan aku juga cepet lulus. Wish me luck amin 😀

Thank you so much for sharing your life experience and showing that hidup ga selalu mudah, ga selalu sesuai apa yang direncanain, but at the end of the day, ketika lo tetap berusaha untuk ngejalanin hidup dengan sebaik mungkin, bakal selalu ada jalan untuk mencapai apa yang udah dicita-citain:")

I can totally relate to your video. Back in 2009 when i graduated, i was jobless for 11 months. Not technically jobless, because my job back then was hunting for jobs (ironic). When i finally landed a job, it wasn't my dream job. And i ended up staying there for 7.4 years. Seven point Four Years. Now i recently resigned from my post, hoping to get admitted on one of the top uni in SG, taking the risk. Even if it doesn't work out, it's not the end. I'll figure it out.

Gue tau perasaannya, sekarang juga gue lagi Skripsi. Iya skripsi only, tapi ngerjainnyaaaaaaaa...... Paham banget kalo sampai 1,5tahun. Dan bener juga, kuliah bertahun tahun dan endingnya kerja di kantor yang begitu gitu aja. Ketika itu inget lagi, buat apa kuliah bertahun tahun tapi....... Sedihlah pokoknya cerita perih jadi mulai dewasa itu hahahaha. Goodluck chiaaaa.

Ga ada yg sia-sia selagi itu bermanfaat, chia. Keep doing what you think is right

Semua yg punya rencana hanya Allah kita hanya menjalankannya. Nikmati aja prosesnya. Tak perlu ada penyesalan, karena sebenernya tak ada hal yg sia2. Semua pasti ada hasil dan hikmah yg dapat dipetik. Thank you Cia.

Congrats Fathia, maaf telat !!! Sukses buat kerjanya! Gpp medok jd lucu haha.. btw backsoundnya ariel apakah ada pengaruh dari skinnyfabs?

For me, this is the best video out of your best videos. I've been following you since the '21 accents' video, and I just believe in you since then. I dk what makes me believe in you so much, your life is so inspiring! I just believe one day you're going to be one of the impactful young speaker in the United Nations. (AMEN) At first, I thought you have been graduated from your uni life, and I'm wondering how could you've been doing such great job at both KZfaq & college life. It's really AWESOME! but, after watching certain videos in the past few years, I figure it out how struggle you were in uni life. I feel you, Chia. This video is very related to me...you're not alone.... At first, I thought it would be easier to get my dream job, if I had an excellent GPA, doing great at intern, be diligent and so whatever. no! Not at all. When I graduated, life changes a lot. There are certain times, where we "bingung" (confused) about what, where, whom, which, when and how our life goes in the future; i've been through it. Many questions of life popped up on my mind, I was depressed and perhaps that was the lowest point of my life (so far). Then, I PRAY, I WATCH inspirational person videos (you too 😘), I JOINED several workshops that I'm interested to, I MEET, LISTEN AND LEARN everyday just to find what the the purpose of my life. And still I haven't found the "ideal" one for me, yet. But what I believe since a long time ago, in everything I do, I just do it all heartily for God and to make others people happy. (My parents) A brief story, I quit from my dream job to makes them happy. I may not be that "successful" right now, (able to see my friends are working in their professional attire and in a company is soo true) but I just believe in what I'm doing right now, start up a f&b business and sharing cooking videos on KZfaq. You'r right, Chia, life is a circle, we never know where life brings us, we may at the lowest or we may at the top, no matter what, just keep doing and never stop praying and learning just like Chia said, at some point you will figure out your life. (Purpose of life) thank you! Lastly, all the best of success to you, Chia. Congratulations for your new chellenging job, I hope still able to see your vlogs quite often. 🙏🙌 God bless

this video makes me feel better! aku juga anak hukum yg ngambil hukum internasional sebagai peminatan khusus. im currently doing my skripsi dan meskipun aku jalan hampir 4 tahun kuliah, it makes me really sad to see my friends graduating while im still doing all these. and to be honest im really afraid of what will happen next, i still dont know what im gonna do with my life after i graduate. watching this video makes me realize a lot of things and somehow it makes me feel a lot better now so thank you for making this and sharing this to us all! your content is really good!

"it's okay to be Bingung" :') thanks chia... pas banget aku diposisi dimana aku sedang frustasi karena gak bisa lulus tepat waktu sementara teman-teman yang lain pada duluan selesai :'( video kamu ini seolah mengulurkan tangan untuk mengajakku bangkit. so, thank you so much!

saya juga lulus kuliah mbk.. telat lulus tepat waktu gara. gara suka mancing. saya juga bingung setelah lulus mau ngapain??? tapi ternyata kembali ke tujuan awal mengapa saya kuliah 😅

Welcome to the Kuliah-Lima-Setengah-Tahun-Club, Chia! 😂😂😂😂 Selamat karena akhirnya kamu udah berhasil menyelesaikan apa yang kamu mulai. Semoga kariermu ke depan makin cemerlang ya!

Setelah nonton video lo, gw semangaet lg ngerjain skripsin. Lo sll mengisfirasi gw 😍

makasi kak chia, makin semangat liat video ini, semangat juga mengejar keinginan kak, god bless u😇

sending ❤️ from 🇲🇾

hello, fathia!! i do not know if you will ever read this.. but yeah, here goes it~ i heard a lot about this video from my mutual but i was too afraid to watch as it sounds very relatable to me. i do not want to face the truth that i am not advanced like anyone else, just how you said in the video. but my little sister eventually sent me a link to this video with the words "you have to watch this." so i take a brave step and watched it. as i watched this, i did not know how and why but i get sentimental and sad because what you faced is my reality right now. i just finished my school like almost 2 years ago. 3 months after i was done with my school, my mum had a surgery on her waist and was not able to walk for a few months. this made me stay at home with her everyday for at least 6 months.... my sisters were all working and studying. as i was the only one who has plenty of free time on her plate, i dedicated my time to do the chores and took care of her. in that 6 months of taking care of her, i was offered to further my study by my dream university but with the condition of my mum, i silently declined the offer and stayed quiet about it. after the 6 months of resting, my mum slowly started to walk again and it was the best moment of my life because she was able to do things she could not do and she went through her depression. i tried to apply universities to further my study after that but i did not get in. i was devastated and down. 4 months after my mum able to walk, things got worse. my mum had leukemia and it broke my heart twice as before. i did not know what to do. i stayed in the hospital for weeks with her and gave her all of my supports to her. it seems like i am not getting anywhere again this time. she is still under chemotherapy and medication. last month, i got an invitation to my friend's wedding. it hits me so real that the invitation made me cried. it is not that i want to get married sooner. but, how fast their boat are moving. then, i saw my former classmates are now in their final year to finished their thesis. and i am here... doing nothing but doing chores and watch Korean dramas. watching how everyone's boats are moving everywhere makes me sad because mine is not moving at all. i was depressed with the thought that i am nothing right now. it is like i do not have something to look forward to or to achieve. i am applying to my dream universities and hoping for a better results now. i am also going to travel with eldest sister and now is having a stable mind... well, i feel at ease for now.. at the same time, i am looking for a job as my second plan because we never know what is going to happen, right??? i seriously do not know where my story is going but i hope you know that i feel so relatable to you and you inspired me. good luck for your new job!!!!!

Yeah, saya setuju dengan keputusan kamu. Mimpi itu jangan sampe dilupain

I’ve heard a lot about mid life crisis or twenty’s life problem. And yis, kita suka iri dan ngerasa not that good kalo ketemu sama orang yang seumuran tapi lebih “hebat”, entah pencapaiannya, entah duluan nikah. Anything. But kak Cia, everything has their own perfect timing. For whoever that feel that way and end up with anxiety too. You’re MORE WORTH than you ever think. God may plans the best for y’all! Keep faith❤️

ketika semua orang indo coba speak english fluently with american accent. dan chia kesusahan ngomong indo tanpa medok 😂😂 tapi ngomong inggris kyk napas 😂

Oh my god chia.. i just shocked when Mamah Dedeh appear hahaha. Good opinion good information

Thankyou kak video ini buat aku makin termotivasi supaya gak males buat ngejar cita"ku. Semangat kak ini adalah proses hidup yg hrs dijalani

I am working on my skripsi right now and u know what? I feel what you felt back then. Being "bingung" between want to do what I want to do and finishing my skripsi right now. It's really amazing how life can make us think deeply about life that we never thought before. Thank you Chia for your sight, I never regret to spend minutes on this video. Congratz for the new job! Wish it can be an answer for your emptiness 😊

video perpisahan :(

Baru komen setelah beres nonton. "It's ok to be bingung" -Chia 2018 Ini bukan video perpisahan kan?

U know what? I love this video. Entah, jujur lg drop karna gw telat lulus dan perasaan sama bgt sama yg di video ini. Mood booster bgt! Semoga bisa nyusul wisuda. Aamiin. Thanks.. Love u ciaaa.

Heyy. Do the things you love, and you will do with passion. Thats how I live my life. Not that it didnt end up with some mistakes but you learn from it . Thats all that matters. Congratulations Fathia!

If we're talking about life, it'll never comes to an end because just like u said, this life is like a circle u will go back to where you start and it's just blew my frickin mind away when u told ur struggle stories smh😅 keep it up chia, have been watching your vid before 100K subs tho hahaha btw, ga tahan ama lesung pipi nya sumpah...

*RELAX*. You’re not late You’re not early You’re very much on time, and in your time zone. semangat kucing berdebu

Love you kak chiaa.. You do what you love.. Chase your dream.. We will always love and support you..

aku jg lulusnya bakal telat.. and i am sad today temen temen seangkatanku pd sidang while me lulus setaunan lebih lagi. seharian kepikiran sambil nugas ngeratapin dpn laptop and chia was uploaded a video........ lgsg buka youtube dan abis nntn ini bukannya pembelaan buat yg lulusnya telat sih but i get soo emotional too... semangatku mayan nambah 25% i wish i can be success as you chia.. and you all too.

Wow 10 menit 😍

"kaya hubungan aja" baru mulai aja saya sudah galau

all the right things will fall in place! much love from your fan in sg ✨

Nooo mba ciaa do not ever doubt yourself. Gaada yg wasted kok! Selamat memulai rutinitas baru bulan depan dan congratsss udah diterima di lawfirm impiann. Godspeed 🙏🏻

I feel y chia! We're in the middle of quarter life crisis!!!! But chill! We'll figure it out soon! ((Talk to my self)) ha ha ha

Gua suka bgt lagunya Reality Club yg Elastic Hearts 😁

Chia, aku juga sampe sekarang belom kelar kuliah dan aku ngerasa juga sama dengan kamu ketika udah ngeliat teman-teman bahkan adek kelas aku pas sekolah dulu udh pada lulus bahkan kerja dan udah dapat gaji sendiri. tapi aku yakin sih, Tuhan udah punya jalan masing-masing buat kita. makasih buat video motivasinya Chia. lots of love xx

This a very emotional video for me as someone who just graduated and waiting for a job offer.. this motivate me to stay strong and have hope. we were all struggling, and everyone have their “right time”. semoga kita semua terus sukses ❤️

Internship or fulltime? Either way, good luck. Btw I graduated 7 years, and it turns out well for my career.

Penenton tahun 2020 Gw ngalamin fase ini 😂

Video ini bener bener menggambarkan perasaan gue saat ini, hidup dalam kekosongan, nontonin hidup orang yang kayanya enak banget udah sukses. But, gara gara video ini juga gue kembali bersemangat dan yakin kalo pasti ada masanya gue menikmati kesuksesan gue sendiri. Makasiiiihh ka ciaa!!

Terimakasih atas videonya, lebih lega banget tyt ada yang ngalamin hal yang sama meski kondisinya berbeda, kalo gue lulus tepat waktu, tp kuliah pertama gue gak berhasil karna dari awal gk suka dengan jurusannya dan lingkungannya, dan mulai lagi dengan jurusan yang gue suka dan menyukai lingkungan perkuliahan. Tapi gue mendapatkan pengalaman dari kuliah pertama yang berhenti di tengah jalan dan gue perbaiki di kuliah gue yang baru, dan itu berhasil banget. Jadi selama gue kuliah apapun masalahnya gue bisa hadapi, lalu mbak bener banget orang punya kesuksesannya masing2 dan di umur berapa aja, sbelumnya punya pemikiran kaek mbak, kenapa? Kenapa? Akhirnya itu jadi tidak 'kenapa' lagi, dan berubah jadi rasa syukur, dan gue bersyukur banget sekarang gue bisa menjalani dan lebih berani untuk melakukan apa yang gue mau