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"High Value Men Get Cheated On THE MOST" - Psychologist

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Aba N Preach

Aba N Preach

Жыл бұрын

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@PJPlague3000
@PJPlague3000 Жыл бұрын
I’m worth 8 figures and I caught my girl cheating 2 times… I sent her back to street now she works Hooters
@AbaNPreach
@AbaNPreach Жыл бұрын
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@littled5986
@littled5986 Жыл бұрын
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@GarraOfTheFunk14
@GarraOfTheFunk14 Жыл бұрын
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@reservationatdorsias3215
@reservationatdorsias3215 Жыл бұрын
Ultra 🧢
@deeznutz6880
@deeznutz6880 Жыл бұрын
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@thedon0516
@thedon0516 Жыл бұрын
Alpha Male, Beta Male, Simp, Average, High Value, Low Value, Great Value, DON'T MATTER, anyone & everyone is capable of cheating or get cheated on, PERIOD 💯
@JeliTP_12
@JeliTP_12 Жыл бұрын
😂finally I found one that seems to understand
@jessieis
@jessieis Жыл бұрын
Seriously. Thank you for saying that. People think, "it won't happen to me." it can happen to anyone.
@09tashay
@09tashay Жыл бұрын
This.
@hoopslaa5235
@hoopslaa5235 Жыл бұрын
HOLY SHIT, such easy logic, doesnt devalue the men either! Holy fuck ABa, downgrading yourself with this one my guys ;) The chicks can cheat but they get kicked to the curb! Benefits revoked! Haha
@tylercarter9965
@tylercarter9965 Жыл бұрын
the point wasn’t that “some people can’t get cheated on.” it was that “rich people cheat and get cheated on the most.” to more or less break down the reality of the super red pill people expecting a one sided open relationship. the delusion to think they can make that happen when in reality they both cheat. not to say anyone else in any other situation don’t cheat, obviously they do, just that in the “high value” life, both partners are more likely to cheat.
@jarofpickles4057
@jarofpickles4057 Жыл бұрын
Imagine living a shallow, hedonistic, materialistic existence and being surprised when the people you surround yourself with are shallow, hedonistic, and materialistic.
@MoonLilly92
@MoonLilly92 Жыл бұрын
@@nolga3569 "They" are in denial!
@greedyboi011
@greedyboi011 11 ай бұрын
Amen
@theman2017inc
@theman2017inc 11 ай бұрын
NO surprise, these women go after the bag/ lifestyle… High Value Men/ Very Rich Men get the 9’s-10’s looking women but there’s no emotional connection or wanting genuine commitment it’s business/ transactional THAT’S IT!!!
@HiGlowie
@HiGlowie 10 ай бұрын
Exactly. There are plenty of “high value” folks with ethics and dignity.
@zoiladeleon9978
@zoiladeleon9978 9 ай бұрын
TRUEEE
@dextersuarez9948
@dextersuarez9948 Жыл бұрын
Can we stop calling idiots with money “high value men” ? It makes men who value character, grit, family and love look bad. Just thinking out loud here in general terms of the culture which obviously isn’t going to change.
@tiagoandraderp
@tiagoandraderp Жыл бұрын
Thank you... This "high value" thing is so cringe... Yeah, they're calling everybody who's not rich "low value". Its like every rich guy work soooo hard and thats not the case. A lot have generational wealth, heritances or other kind of privilege.
@zmx363
@zmx363 Жыл бұрын
AGREED. Anyone can have money, but money doesn’t buy class. A “high value” man is a man that has good morals, respects everyone equally, takes care of his family, is kind, caring but brave and courageous. Your comment should be right at the top 💯 Anyone can cheat/get cheated on, it might be down to some primal instinct as some may argue, but what makes us human is that we can CHOOSE to avoid lust, greed, wrath, envy, etc. That’s true love.
@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993
@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 Жыл бұрын
@@tiagoandraderp that's why they say high value, not hard working. No one cares how hard you work, just the value you bring. But keep coping of it helps you sleep better. And not many inherit like that and keeping the money takes skill (you would be broke in 5yrs if you were just given the same amount of money) Idiots are soon seperated from their money
@znail4675
@znail4675 Жыл бұрын
This is not about personal value or ethics, it's about what women value and many value income highly.
@dextersuarez9948
@dextersuarez9948 Жыл бұрын
@@znail4675 cool, you keep telling yourself that and enjoy being an incel.
@Relahxe
@Relahxe Жыл бұрын
"For some people, respecting themselves and their core values is way more important than being able to get the latest Gucci or Prada bag." After this video, I have some newfound respect for Aba.
@melancholyalexx7790
@melancholyalexx7790 Жыл бұрын
14:52 if anyone needs the timestamp for that 🙂
@lukmanalghdamsi3189
@lukmanalghdamsi3189 9 ай бұрын
​@@melancholyalexx7790we need more people like you
@nothanks1945
@nothanks1945 9 ай бұрын
I think for most people it’s intrinsically true but we’re constantly bombarded with “alpha male, hot girls, expensive cars” and we start to think that that’s how reality is and we try to make this fake reality work but when it comes to connection and love it can’t be faked or bought no matter your fake status. Some people really made it miserable for themselves out there.
@jbb3276
@jbb3276 Жыл бұрын
This is an argument that I have been waiting on hearing honestly. Grew up around rich kids while not being rich myself and those families were a soap opera.
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 Жыл бұрын
You act like poor people don't have issues too lol
@jbb3276
@jbb3276 Жыл бұрын
@@purplelove3666 im broke pipe down
@mariamb7409
@mariamb7409 Жыл бұрын
​@@purplelove3666 yeah but broke people issues are a bit different
@sexygabby30
@sexygabby30 Жыл бұрын
@@purplelove3666 yea but that’s the thing poor are expected to have issues and we don’t freaking hide it however the rich makes themselves to be better than other humans and they are just that superficial humans. Nothing more so yea we’re gonna have a say of the higher money brackets as they portray their lives are super different but experiencing higher issues but on same terms. No need to speak on poor r u nuts we the whole world of money looks down on em…let’s start with that problem.
@unHingedBaddie
@unHingedBaddie Жыл бұрын
Same 🤣🤣 rich people’s lives are mostly miserable
@Grandmaster_Vic
@Grandmaster_Vic Жыл бұрын
Not gonna lie, These High Value Man conversations be depressing as shit. People talking about dating as someone that 99% of us are never gonna be or be with. And everything sounds like a Labyrinth of complications, control, and mind games. Just enjoy your lives, be around your love ones, maximize as to what you want your life to be, continue to survive and be appreciative.
@thechosenone93
@thechosenone93 Жыл бұрын
Nah you got it wrong. Don’t be depressed. If you get depressed that means you were comparing yourself with these HVM wannabes. Just love your damn life and go do some fun stuff. You only got one life and you think it’s worth being spent on watching what other people have?
@Likelyfairy
@Likelyfairy Жыл бұрын
Before I got into my first and current relationship I would consume videos like that on the daily. My perspective was wrong on so many things. People honestly need to go out and live life and stop taking all this media shit too seriously. The real world is so different and I and so many of those around me don’t seem as fucked as the people I see online so? 😂
@K4113B4113
@K4113B4113 Жыл бұрын
Man this is so true… not only is the most extreme examples blown up on the internet but also I don’t even live in America and most of this type of content is based there. Let’s be real, the most extreme examples from such a huge country is not everyday life. Also, Americans I love you guys but y’all are freaking crazy.
@Wonderwoman79G
@Wonderwoman79G Жыл бұрын
💯
@qesther1241
@qesther1241 Жыл бұрын
@@K4113B4113 😂😂😂😂😂
@anthonyalessi6759
@anthonyalessi6759 Жыл бұрын
I grew up poor, spent a decade in the military and wound up moving to the ME for a job opportunity. Fell in love with someone far far wealthier than I and she built me up and supported my dreams. Now we both live a life I couldn't have ever imagined and we build each other up. I consider myself deeply lucky, but money never felt like a significant part of the relationship I enjoy today. Respect, communication, and joy derived from your partners happiness are what I feel make what we have so special. Money is great, but I wouldn't ever trade it for feeling complete. Why play the game if you aren't content if and when you finally win? Won't ever judge someone else's lifestyle, just my $. 02
@llewellynjameskinnaird2741
@llewellynjameskinnaird2741 Ай бұрын
Your very blessed bro.
@Breggo1
@Breggo1 Жыл бұрын
I met a client about 8 years ago and he said something similar to the theme of this. He said: "The goal in life is to make money and not be known". Or at least as little known as possible.
@Putchuon
@Putchuon Жыл бұрын
You know it’s gone be a good episode when them floor boards get to talking too
@ericapaquette9624
@ericapaquette9624 Жыл бұрын
Right 😂
@heyfindmenoob
@heyfindmenoob Жыл бұрын
🤣
@jackderaway
@jackderaway Жыл бұрын
If they get the creak fixed bc lll unsub
@allenpoe17
@allenpoe17 Жыл бұрын
Yes, indeed. Thankfully, that is seemingly every episode.
@allenpoe17
@allenpoe17 Жыл бұрын
​@@jackderaway I'd be sad to see it go if it ever did. It's a true part of the show now.
@SirFailsalot91
@SirFailsalot91 Жыл бұрын
So vain plastic men choose to date vain plastic women, and neither of them are happy so they cheat on each other time and time again? _Mind blown!_
@LouisaWatt
@LouisaWatt Жыл бұрын
Who would have ever seen that coming!
@Sarah-jp24
@Sarah-jp24 Жыл бұрын
They truly deserve each other!
@ZM-et7zt
@ZM-et7zt Жыл бұрын
Best comment
@diypictures
@diypictures Жыл бұрын
Makes sense. You never or rarely see the wives and gf's of high value men who this doesn't apply to. And when we do and they don't look like an Instagram model, both men and women will say "Why is he with her??!!" Well now you know why.
@geewhiz747
@geewhiz747 Жыл бұрын
This comment should be PINNED
@JackMatthew1
@JackMatthew1 Жыл бұрын
Love how balanced this conversation is. One of the most humbling talks you guys have had, and big credit to the woman for taking on both sides of the argument. What this world really needs right now
@gabrielleglenn4307
@gabrielleglenn4307 11 ай бұрын
No one who cheats is high value. Commitment and honoring your relationship is high value. I’d rather have a broke man who loves me and would never cheat over the wealthiest men out there. I was fortunate enough to have a good, trustworthy man who is also a great provider.
@terrillwilliams1515
@terrillwilliams1515 6 ай бұрын
A high-value man is defined by other means.
@gramcliches1980
@gramcliches1980 6 ай бұрын
CAP 😂 well, in all honesty its cool you speak for yourself. But many women in this world DO NOT share your sentiment. And since you alone are not enough for the millions of single men in this world (as you're probably a 1 man committed woman, which is great), I go back to my original assessment.... CAP!!!
@Your_Dad-f5z
@Your_Dad-f5z 5 ай бұрын
You’re telling fairytales, you would seriously Date a broke and loyal guy ?
@emmaaudu3461
@emmaaudu3461 5 ай бұрын
Exactly! Can we actually talk about the word "high-value"? The value is a range of numbers on a screen.
@emmaaudu3461
@emmaaudu3461 5 ай бұрын
@@Your_Dad-f5z if she does not get aids and other problems that comes with the so-called high-value men.
@sambee8815
@sambee8815 Жыл бұрын
Aba's response to this woman is on point! She low key tries to dismiss women who value a lifestyle that is based on emotional investment, loyalty, respect, and peace.
@rubenjr4908
@rubenjr4908 Жыл бұрын
Its on both sides. Female "coaches" try to shame guys into being traditional men cuz their agenda is to make more equally yolked men. And male coaches try to shame men for not wanting that "get money, pump women" lifestyle. Both arent good or bad, its how they go about it.
@georginacook1850
@georginacook1850 Жыл бұрын
Yup. No amount of money would make me want to live a shallow empty life
@bahamasbroyt
@bahamasbroyt Жыл бұрын
Sounds like experience from you🤔
@evoltaocao5078
@evoltaocao5078 Жыл бұрын
in my anecdotal life experience is as true as generalizations can be. most of very attractive women i've met do treat men as expendable. they don't pursue men at all, their relationships are all back to back, they are very egocentric and disconnected from everything else.
@bravingbrivatebrian
@bravingbrivatebrian Жыл бұрын
@@georginacook1850 think about the Bugatti!!
@truthseeker198
@truthseeker198 Жыл бұрын
It's not that complicated. If your relationship is based on status and money, there's always someone else with more. And that's really all "high value" means to these people.
@ImAgentK
@ImAgentK Жыл бұрын
Not if you're Elon Musk
@cuthelar7453
@cuthelar7453 Жыл бұрын
​​@@ImAgentKell 1 out of 8billion people, isn't a high probability, So for the rest of us it holds true,
@gemlouise1260
@gemlouise1260 5 ай бұрын
​@@ImAgentKAnd he sits on podcasts and talks about how lonely he is with tears in his eyes, and how he can't make a relationship work because no woman is prepared to tolerate his lifestyle.
@myagray4093
@myagray4093 Ай бұрын
Wealthy men then introduce these women to other wealthy men. A lot of these so called high value men literally pass around the same chick. As a woman I understand the advantage! I think men need to humble themselves because smart women will win every time.
@amalrajpr6800
@amalrajpr6800 Ай бұрын
​@@myagray4093smart women is the words of the day🤭
@onthearth1
@onthearth1 Жыл бұрын
She chooses you for the money or your looks; she's going to leave you for your money or your looks. This hits deep!
@leonhenry4861
@leonhenry4861 Жыл бұрын
It’s facts though, so even if you’re HVM you should know the chick you want other dudes also want it, until she hits 35.
@DTreatz
@DTreatz Жыл бұрын
Well that's about 8/10 women so..... it's not like they have men options 🤣
@thecaprikid1329
@thecaprikid1329 10 ай бұрын
​@@DTreatzrinse and repeat. You learned nothing 😂
@deathrager2404
@deathrager2404 8 ай бұрын
there is always someone out there better than you, looks wise, money wise or how you are as a person. lol
@a.p4066
@a.p4066 5 ай бұрын
People talk about women leaving as if she’s leaving for someone better. Most leavers in relationships downgrade and this applies to both genders
@lynnespinoza4736
@lynnespinoza4736 Жыл бұрын
There are studies on how breadwinning women are more likely to be cheated on too. Regardless of gender, people get insecure when their partner doing better than them. Reminds me of those parents who are jealous of their kids instead of being proud of them.
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Жыл бұрын
A woman can be super attractive and super loyal, by the way. So this isn’t an issue of a specific appearance but an issue of character, and about how shallow, cheating men attract shallow, cheating women.
@d1etpussy621
@d1etpussy621 Жыл бұрын
based name and based opinion 👏
@jujutrini8412
@jujutrini8412 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!! It’s all based on values. If you are a shallow person you want to be with a fellow shallow person - and guess what? They will cheat.
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Жыл бұрын
@@jujutrini8412 yes, exactly!
@winxclubstellamusa
@winxclubstellamusa Жыл бұрын
@@d1etpussy621 thank you! 😊 ❤️ I like your user name too.
@elenabob4953
@elenabob4953 Жыл бұрын
Or one can be that naive but I'm not sure how many " incidents" one needs to have in order to wake up and charge the approach.
@clairemackey7540
@clairemackey7540 Жыл бұрын
The meaning of a high value man is subjective. To me, a family man, regardless of income, is a high value man. They are leaders, protectors, providers, and teachers. Shoutout to my husband and Dad ❤ edit: Just to clarify, My father and husband are not the same person 😅😅😅
@christophervibe7430
@christophervibe7430 Жыл бұрын
It’s really not subjective. It’s what the market is willing to pay for u so if you are in high demand in the market you’re high value
@rocknjock872
@rocknjock872 Жыл бұрын
I tell women, the best way to understand if a man is high value or not is imagine we had to operator as we did 100-150 years ago. All conveniences are gone. Would the man in question be able to lead the family to survive and thrive. If yes, the man is high value because a real man can be the same man when facing all circumstances. Therefore, a high value man can have money, but money is not a determining factor.
@VeeKayGreenerGrass
@VeeKayGreenerGrass Жыл бұрын
The manosphere and their allies have decided high value is in the wallet... They don't get it. An actual high value man would not select such a woman.
@Sephiroso.
@Sephiroso. Жыл бұрын
It's subjective to a degree. The thing about language is, a word or term means whatever is the currently accepted definition by society. What you stated simply is not the widely accepted definition of what the specific term "high value man" means. Though i think a lot of women that aren't terminally online will agree with you that those qualities are what would make a man highly valuable to them.
@zainabzolita8436
@zainabzolita8436 Жыл бұрын
As long as he can support a family and isn't lazy and is good with kids and romantic, then that's enough
@NewYorkNadia
@NewYorkNadia Жыл бұрын
"If you're not covering us financially, you'd better give us all of you emotionally." Truer words have never been spoken.
@NewYorkNadia
@NewYorkNadia Жыл бұрын
@@Austenfan177 Oh I’m a HUGE fan! Don’t always agree with their take but they’re honest and hilarious, win/win! 😁
@iaindcosta
@iaindcosta Жыл бұрын
"If you're not covering us financially, you'd better give us all of you emotionally." ..so you can buy emotional distance by providing financially?
@NewYorkNadia
@NewYorkNadia Жыл бұрын
@@iaindcosta For some women, yes, absolutely. A man can’t be broke AND emotionally distant to keep a woman. You’ve got to bring value to the table in one way or another.
@charlesguillergan8759
@charlesguillergan8759 Жыл бұрын
​@@NewYorkNadiaand what do they bring besides pussy, you're weird grow up
@DTreatz
@DTreatz Жыл бұрын
@@NewYorkNadia Not even remotely true. Doesn't explain the disparity of the bottom 10% of men getting women. 🧢
@israelbarron6964
@israelbarron6964 Жыл бұрын
Keanu Reeves is an excellent example of someone with money but has no desire for luxury.
@ciarathrower4622
@ciarathrower4622 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been saying this. Not all super attractive women are unfaithful but if you’re choosing these hyper desirable women they have a lot of options. No one wants to date an average person anymore and now we’re all alone.
@Dee-yj1im
@Dee-yj1im Жыл бұрын
“Hyper desirable women” man, with dating apps an average goblin gets more options than most of us. Depressing.
@burtreynolds8030
@burtreynolds8030 Жыл бұрын
That’s just because the wrong traits are seen as desirable, you think the ratajowski sisters are decent people, I doubt it, “desirable” should include traits like faithful, hard working, compassionate, not big butt, boobs and lips
@ciarathrower4622
@ciarathrower4622 Жыл бұрын
@@burtreynolds8030 thats what I'm saying but even past 'big boobs and butt' looks are fleeting. popularity and social media clout are illusions and I feel thats what a lot of people look for in partners now days rather than deep, character traits
@product_of_august
@product_of_august Жыл бұрын
@@Dee-yj1im Ciara never said anything about social apps. Stop being bitter and go outside.
@ciarathrower4622
@ciarathrower4622 Жыл бұрын
@@burtreynolds8030 also idk who the ratajowski sisters are but having money/popularity does not inherently mean people are not good people. There is typically a correlation, sure but not inherent.
@namaste348
@namaste348 Жыл бұрын
People that want emotionally investment are traumatized?? My God, we are a society that glorifies sociopathy!
@lm3729
@lm3729 Жыл бұрын
I don’t think they necessarily glorify sociopathy. I think it is just easier and less painful to be cold and calculating. With as seemingly many sociopaths out there, the average person will find it easier and easier to not want to be hurt/played/ or deal with people’s cold and calculating ways. The truth is they find themselves in those situations because 1) it is part of the learning curve of being a human and 2) they glorify the outcome more than they glorify the process. Those people want the lifestyle, and from monkey see, monkey do concept, they feel it is the only way. There are countless people who are not like that. Sadly access to social media can warp the brain into all lines of things. This is the precursor to Wall-E. We are glued to the screen with what other people supposedly have and that is the escape from what they feel they don;t have. People are easily brainwashed by things constantly plastered in our faces. You become numb to the rest. Doesn;t mean you glorify sociopathy, just the outcome of what it brings them.
@ggert23
@ggert23 Жыл бұрын
I think she got the example turned around on accident
@AndresGomez-ct7qb
@AndresGomez-ct7qb Жыл бұрын
That's a bit dramatic. 😂Some people are just masters of sophistry. It's not that deep. Also, it's nothing new. There have always been and always will be people that justify their actions with nonsensical logic to be at peace with themselves.
@zalitosway8419
@zalitosway8419 Жыл бұрын
We are straying away from god and heresy. We believe we are more animal than spirit. These are demons. A demon is just a being with no spirit or the belief that they don’t have one. Money won’t exist forever.
@hollerh7346
@hollerh7346 Жыл бұрын
@namaste you have a point. Look at the public figures we have pedestalized in the last decade. They all have have very strong narcassistic- sociopathic traits i.e Andew Tate and Donald Trump.
@Blackbirdinthedeadofnight
@Blackbirdinthedeadofnight Жыл бұрын
That girl is extremely smart. I always thought this “high value man” who only look for a brainless chick who looks like a model will get cheated on and that’s why they are so bitter. If you only want a woman for her looks and “obedience” the only thing you are offering is money. Once she had enough money and once she find someone with more money what will keep her around?
@landmindssoul4636
@landmindssoul4636 9 ай бұрын
Basically renting a girlfriend rather than development an actual relationship.
@missmcphee8859
@missmcphee8859 2 ай бұрын
Well put, exactly
@BerryKind
@BerryKind Ай бұрын
Damn straight!
@hira6560
@hira6560 9 ай бұрын
my ex husband used to cover rent and take me out on fancy dates every weekend and was paying my car insurance, etc. He was not emotionally there though. Him working all the time was fine because I knew he was paying for a lot of things; but it was his constant need to scroll through naked instagram models and flirt with women online, and get pictures from his female friends... that was so disrespectful and humiliating to me, I could not tolerate that no matter how much money you paid me.
@dannyvyzi6472
@dannyvyzi6472 Ай бұрын
Definitely he messed up
@Nah-ah
@Nah-ah Жыл бұрын
I remember my comment being attacked by many, many NAIVE red pilled men when I said women cheat on high value men! All-the-time!!! I’ve worked in the hospitality industry as well, and what Preach said was very accurate. When the high value man think he’s being sneaky or has an arrangement with his wife bc of his status, his wife has options he doesn’t even know about… or he suspects but thinks he’s more important.
@Trx957
@Trx957 Жыл бұрын
Men who only bring money to the table are no different than women who only bring their bodies to the table. Both will always get used.
@neonlighter75
@neonlighter75 Жыл бұрын
People also seem to forget that gold-diggers cheat on their sugar daddies all the time, cause the relationship is a job to them. They cheat with younger men who they find more attractive. It's not a moral thing to do, unfortunately it does happen. Edit: grammar
@aubreysong
@aubreysong Жыл бұрын
​@Broski Snowski Nah, It's more like about possesion or territorial thing, they don't like their stuff being 'touched' or their territory being tresspased by other men. These kinda men would mocked, bully, and all, any men who choosed to stay with his women even she's cheating on him. Beside, especially if a man is rich and has many option, why would he stays with a women who's cheating or backstabbing on him?
@Wavyso
@Wavyso Жыл бұрын
​@@neonlighter75 hilarious how all these arguments keep proving incels right looks are the only thing that matter and girls will value that over anything else
@-glitch-8195
@-glitch-8195 Жыл бұрын
Same here sis. I worked at a hotel and I cannot tell you how many times these chicks were cheating out in the open. They think they're the only ones doing it😂😂😂😂😂I got stories stories.
@ajtaylor8750
@ajtaylor8750 Жыл бұрын
Just because you're of high status doesn't guarantee that a woman will respect you. If anything, it puts you at more risk of being disrespected and cheated on by women who can easily get another high status guy. Just carry yourself with dignity, integrity, and honor and you'll get women who will respect you off that alone.
@JeliTP_12
@JeliTP_12 Жыл бұрын
Status doesn't matter you are at risk of being cheated on regardless, it'll all come down to the type of woman you deal with, that's it
@Farhan_049
@Farhan_049 Жыл бұрын
And what if that doesn't work?
@dudleyviban2764
@dudleyviban2764 Жыл бұрын
Men with dignity, integrity and honour are not respected by most people either. Whatever you strive for in life should be for you first.
@tacituskilgore4403
@tacituskilgore4403 Жыл бұрын
​​​@@JeliTP_12 Like the saying goes: more money, more problems. With a higher status and more wealth, there will be more leeches that will suck you dry. Just look at the lives of billionaires and celebrities, many of these people marry and then divorce quite easily. Wealth and status does not guarantee you a type of woman that is marriage material. At the end of the day, it's more of your own character that will determine your ideal spouse just like another saying, "birds of a feather, flock together".
@billusher2265
@billusher2265 Жыл бұрын
Studies find when women cheat it is almost always with a man of higher status
@TheLostOne232
@TheLostOne232 Жыл бұрын
The more content i see of all sides the more clear it is that life requires balance. Every lifestyle and choice comes with a consequence. If your able to be " high value" and have more access to women and enjoy more experiences kudos to you. But if that comes at the sacrifice of never having genuine connection or not having time to spend with your loved ones that's on you don't complain about it. Same thing with women if you wanna mess around a lot in your 20s don't be surprised if that might mess up your future. Most of us should be seeking things that give us purpose in life and that ultimately make us happy. We all need to find out what that is for us individually rather than just listening to anyone else.
@SenseiBase
@SenseiBase 9 ай бұрын
This is honestly something I wish I learned years ago. 🤦‍♂️ Thank you for sharing this with the community guys!👏👏👏
@willie9899
@willie9899 Жыл бұрын
About flaunting money: when I was working retail, I had two guys walk past me. One stopped and said " this guys got money, you better treat him like royalty". My first thought was " why is your 'friend' telling me how much money you have, especially without me even looking at him?". When you have money, a LOT of people take notice. A lot of people want to be around you just because you have money. It's disgusting. Friends shouldn't care about what you have- they should be there for you because they care about YOU. That's just friends too; I'm sure it's harder when trying to find a partner.
@reinhartgregory
@reinhartgregory Жыл бұрын
Friends have each others backs, your assumption that he was a fake friend for boosting his boy is wild.
@aj3706
@aj3706 Жыл бұрын
@@reinhartgregory if he was joking around I can see that, but if he was being serious 💀
@reinhartgregory
@reinhartgregory Жыл бұрын
@@aj3706 Then that's ok, if you don't want friends who will praise you in public thats cool bro. I'd rather have friends who tell the girls that I'm with that they're lucky to have me rather than friends who joke saying "you're a lucky guy getting a girl out of your league" like a beta True brotherhood stands above, most men don't know brotherhood unfortunately
@AizenIsKubo
@AizenIsKubo Жыл бұрын
No one praises their friends randomly like that, you goof. Talking to the reinhartgregory guy and not the OP.
@ahub87
@ahub87 Жыл бұрын
I had a friend that was very successful at a young age. It seemed like a lot of his friends always expected him to pay. One time we went to lunch and he was caught off guard that I always asked for the check to be split. I was thoroughly bothered that he was always expected to pay for everyone.
@briant7265
@briant7265 Жыл бұрын
If you choose a partner for shallow reasons, you'll get a shallow relationship. And there's nothing "high value" about that.
@STREEEEEET
@STREEEEEET Жыл бұрын
When you choose people of not so strong character and morals and give them an excuse to behave poorly, guess what's gonna happen....
@MonalizanVic
@MonalizanVic 8 ай бұрын
Aba n Preach are just refreshing to listen to . Sending love from Ghana
@Chrystalaris
@Chrystalaris Жыл бұрын
I'm a plus size woman, married to an engineer who makes 6 figures. we're 30 and 32. we're together cause we have similar values, find each other attractive, and are faithful to each other. He isn't controlling or manipulative, and we aren't out here spending a ton of money on vacations and material things. We don't fit into any of these stereotypes. Clearly we should all just figure out what it is we want in life individually and be happy when we get it.
@manny7662
@manny7662 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad there are people who are happy.
@ranchdressingisablessing8082
@ranchdressingisablessing8082 Жыл бұрын
This!! I’m curvy, my husband is a metal fabricator skilled machinist who makes good money. We’ve been together since HS. Neither me or him would be considered “high value” to these foolish people saying that term lol but we are high value to each other! That’s all that matters! Blessings to you & your hubs
@bryanlopez2529
@bryanlopez2529 Жыл бұрын
YOU'RE A NORMAL SANE HUMAN BEING. the same cannot be said for everyone.
@djangomarine6658
@djangomarine6658 Жыл бұрын
He's in his early 30s. I am happy for your relationship, but honestly, odds are you'll need to hit the gym to keep it. Being successful in your 30s gets a man a lot of options and opportunities, so unless he's truly into "plus sized" women, your relationship will be in jeopardy. There are always outliers, I'm just talking odds. Good luck to you.
@brodello9249
@brodello9249 Жыл бұрын
Same. Been with my man since we were 12. We were poor then became “rich” together through everything. All of our hobbies and interest align for the most part and our values are the same. I agree these “high value” people don’t know how to cope with us 😂 they pretend we don’t exist.
@Synkotic90
@Synkotic90 Жыл бұрын
She was right about the traumatised comment too. My ex went through some shit. Her definition of a relationship was spending all of your time together and purely focusing on her. They often genuinely want you to be an open neverending tap of passion and intimacy. It was exhausting!
@DTreatz
@DTreatz Жыл бұрын
females are looking for entertainment, because they're children, and you must play the clown
@bellzhellz5922
@bellzhellz5922 Жыл бұрын
yeah and I bet if anything involved you, they would probably gaslight you into thinking you are selfish and you never listen to their needs.. very one sided
@sienkiewiczmonika1161
@sienkiewiczmonika1161 4 ай бұрын
You just describe my relationship with ex-boyfriend.
@cadetcadet1814
@cadetcadet1814 Ай бұрын
“Every other city we go… every other video… no matter where I go, I see the same …” IYKYK 👌🏾
@wouldntyouliketoknow7058
@wouldntyouliketoknow7058 Жыл бұрын
I mean she’s right, they literally choose these women. Aba was spitting facts too. There is definitely a lot of rich people that we walk past every day and you’d ever know it. I worked in a coffee shop years ago and they are serious about them discounts 😂 be raking up them savings during the holidays. It’s way better to be low key.
@MikeBarbarossa
@MikeBarbarossa Жыл бұрын
There are a lot of these chicks. The chick they call Super Head and others come to mind, that seem to have been with a LOT of celebrities. It's almost like a specialty skills. They bring looks, finesse, bedroom skills and connections these rich men like. But in the end, they are only for rent and for the streets
@moonknight4053
@moonknight4053 Жыл бұрын
Humbleness is one of the most endearing and unique quality a person could have.
@nishisalott1839
@nishisalott1839 Жыл бұрын
I agree if I had a whole lot of money, nobody would ever know.
@DTreatz
@DTreatz Жыл бұрын
What they're leaving out is the _time_ . A lot of those high functioning men don't have the _time_ to be thoroughly searching for females who are high attractiveness and loyal (which the percent is already extremely _low_ to begin with) So obviously they seek the low hanging fruit. Nor do they have the time to mate guard their females Those men are doing a lot, which takes time, time away from being able to monitor females bad behavior. It's a time trade-off. 💊
@lynnespinoza4736
@lynnespinoza4736 Жыл бұрын
I used to sell cars and our most expensive car was bought by a dude in pajamas holding a tiny fluffy dog 😂
@bbstroup2040
@bbstroup2040 Жыл бұрын
I'm a pretty plain girl and I found a simple guy and we got married last year. We are so happy. Somethings are much more fulfilling than that high value lifestyle.
@dozosfinest2010
@dozosfinest2010 Жыл бұрын
​@@SoulAtParadise They exist but most men don't want them or cheat, (they are considered to be 5 (average)on the looks scale, sometimes 4))
@edbabine
@edbabine Жыл бұрын
​@@dozosfinest2010 But, even average women im not even sure all of them looking for an average guy either. If a lot of women call themselves 10 and aren't realistic then it becomes harder for the average guy.
@regularape
@regularape Жыл бұрын
Have you lived the high value lifestyle? if not you're basically saying that oranges are more fulfilling than apples without having tried apples.
@user-qb6jl6hr1l
@user-qb6jl6hr1l Жыл бұрын
​@@dozosfinest2010 so damn true
@XGoldenPhoenixX
@XGoldenPhoenixX Жыл бұрын
@@regularapebut who cares? Do you really think that a luxurious lifestyle without any true love and deep connection is more fulfilling for the soul than having a loving, caring, deep intimate relationship with someone else, where you share your struggled, respect each other and work for the sake of the family? I look at these celebrities and rich people and they seem empty.
@mariannasenior577
@mariannasenior577 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for fantastic input😊
@naeco1602
@naeco1602 Жыл бұрын
"Money makes you more of you really are"-Agreed Money revealed who you really are.
@DohMkay
@DohMkay Жыл бұрын
I chose no luxury, I had a choice between a guy who invited me on his yacht and my current husband. I chose based on values. I knew he would be an amazing father and I was not wrong. We don't live in luxury, but we live comfortably, we have 2 daughters and we are buying a small farm. We can talk for hours, he is my best friend. I think this psychologist is very removed from real world and real relationships.
@Danny328DT
@Danny328DT Жыл бұрын
Woman's definition of high value man is status and money which is just ridiculous. Luxury isn't that important and materials can't buy you love. I'm glad there's women who understand this.
@bunnyboo6295
@bunnyboo6295 Жыл бұрын
@@Danny328DT "womens definition of high value man"? don't get confused by what red pill men find high value to what women consider high values. The red pill men aim is lust only, so they aim to please "buy" the type of women they desire and complain about. Majority of women have the same value as DohMkay they value someone that is capable of real love is best friend true partner.
@Oliver2020.
@Oliver2020. Жыл бұрын
​@@Danny328DT i wish humans understood this in general. People can be so incredibly intelligent and filled with so much information but yet be naive as hell.
@AndresGomez-ct7qb
@AndresGomez-ct7qb Жыл бұрын
@@Danny328DT Women didn't define 'high value men'. That term is something goofy grifters like F&F came up with to finesse money out of their simps. High value is just a nerdy way of saying rich. Thing is, despite what people act like, not everyone wants to be rich, most people want to be comfortable and that's why most people chase a chill lifestyle. It's the saying, "Do you want to work to live or live to work?" It's very rare to really meet someone in who's compulsively trying to turn thousands into millions into billions. When you reach the point of an upper middle class life, good vacations, owning your home, being able to retire your parents, that's enough. Plus, it's hard enough working to upkeep that, so when you see what you'd have to sacrifice to get rich you hit the wall of, "Do you live to work or work to live?" and most people want to live.
@zalitosway8419
@zalitosway8419 Жыл бұрын
Good you would’ve just been another item he bought and thinks he owns.
@WilliamGMedinaGIO
@WilliamGMedinaGIO Жыл бұрын
It's a pretty fucked up day and age when they try to make wanting loyalty a negative feature in someone. Wanting respect shouldn't be a sign of trauma. Like "I don't want you to cheat on me" "WHO HURT YOU?!" see? Does that sound stupid? That's because it is.
@reinhartgregory
@reinhartgregory Жыл бұрын
Go date traumatic women then its cool, we don't want them. I've dealt with them
@blackharpy7468
@blackharpy7468 Жыл бұрын
​@@reinhartgregory that is exactly what he said. That there is no logic in saying that not agreeing with cheating is a sign of trauma. This whole hippie movement with let's just love each other with no boundaries leads to toxicity.
@reinhartgregory
@reinhartgregory Жыл бұрын
@@blackharpy7468 Both of you guys missed the psychologist's point, she said that women with trauma expect more emotional needs vs a regular woman who is more stable and ok with physical needs. That is absolutely true. This idiot saying "I don't want you to cheat on me" "WHO HURT YOU?! This is a classic strawman fallacy argument of making crap up since nowhere did the psychologist said that. In short don't date traumatic women long term seriously
@Kirill-er9gv
@Kirill-er9gv Жыл бұрын
@@reinhartgregory you clearly did not understand the comment. He was saying a man will tell a woman “do not cheat on me, respect our relationship,” and 9/10 the woman will say “wow who hurt you?” As if infidelity is normal or okay. Do you not get it or do I need to break it down more?
@succubusny05
@succubusny05 Жыл бұрын
@@Kirill-er9gv he sllooow that’s why he gets cheated on by chicks himself
@SuberExtraMan
@SuberExtraMan Жыл бұрын
"You look like Eddie Murphy tryna impersonate Bill C...."🤣🤣🤣
@Shawndrea
@Shawndrea Ай бұрын
I love the point of view and the banter of the both of y'all
@JesterValentine
@JesterValentine Жыл бұрын
If a woman is with you for your money and life style but is not attracted to you physically then she might want someone to fill that need
@lucianaromulus1408
@lucianaromulus1408 Жыл бұрын
People cheat on hotties too, it's random...has nothing to do with the Manosphere and Feminism.
@cgigammez5749
@cgigammez5749 Жыл бұрын
​@@lucianaromulus1408 not that much random, its freedom of consequences
@lucianaromulus1408
@lucianaromulus1408 Жыл бұрын
@@cgigammez5749 it's random. I've seen hotties of both genders get cheated on.
@JesterValentine
@JesterValentine Жыл бұрын
Of course people cheat on hotties too but not being attracted to the person your with is one possible of many causes
@bibaolaitan5189
@bibaolaitan5189 Жыл бұрын
@@lucianaromulus1408 you assume everybody is attracted to hotties..
@UnknownNev
@UnknownNev Жыл бұрын
Everyone everywhere in any category one can think of gets cheated on. We need to stop focusing on the negativity and embrace well being and treating people the way you want to be treated.
@SkylarTrahan
@SkylarTrahan Жыл бұрын
Woah that’s way too much common sense
@PraisetheSun150
@PraisetheSun150 Жыл бұрын
No, these “high value” dumbasses need a reality check. They deserve this
@itsladyboss
@itsladyboss Жыл бұрын
Ikr!! Just be a decent human being damn!
@HonchoJC
@HonchoJC Жыл бұрын
While I agree with and appreciate your point of view on this, that wasn’t really the point of the video. It talked about the likelihood of being cheated on is higher as a wealthier person in general. Anyone can get done dirty obviously.
@iTzNitrOxZ
@iTzNitrOxZ Жыл бұрын
Amen
@ray-den6928
@ray-den6928 Жыл бұрын
Just the way was cheering at the camera at the end 😆 🤣 😂 had me rolling 🤣
@Zachary-
@Zachary- Жыл бұрын
I despise comfort and luxury, not because I can't access it, but because I understand how weak comfort makes you.
@portiakenney
@portiakenney Жыл бұрын
A woman who is like a grandmother to me taught economics and told me to read “the millionaire next door”. statisticians interviewed and researched the spending habits of millionaires. They majority self made and what others would call cheap. Don’t wear designer, but cars second hand. They’re always looking for a bargain and believe there’s always a better deal and are will to wait til they get it.
@thechosenone93
@thechosenone93 Жыл бұрын
I suggest buying cars second hand all the time but I keep encountering people who want to floss and make their FIRST car a BRAND NEW Benz…and I keep pushing the idea that your first car should be the one to build your driving skills with and should get you from A to B safely but people don’t listen to me because I’m ugly😂
@user-go2xi7zq5q
@user-go2xi7zq5q Жыл бұрын
@@thechosenone93 damn u ain’t have to do yourself like that with the ugly comment wth 😂😂
@foisopracurtir6389
@foisopracurtir6389 Жыл бұрын
@@thechosenone93 Damned halo effect!
@ghostofantarctica8216
@ghostofantarctica8216 Жыл бұрын
I have money. Enough to sustain me long enough If I'm unemployed. I don't spend much. All excess money other than my emergency funds go into stocks. I'm smiling Ear to ear as NVIDIA just went up 15% after they released their Earnings report. Here's my 2 cents, stop buying shit to impress other people.
@m.a.118
@m.a.118 Жыл бұрын
Women in their late teens to early 30's that got to Dubai are the equivalent of men in their 40's to 60's going to Thailand/Philippines. We know what you're doing. We know what you're up to. Edit: It's getting demoralizing how people like this "coach" just reduce people to "options" and resources like everyone's a Linkedin profile. The humanity of our societies are totally being wrecked by greed, materialism, and just straight up disingenuousness. Edit-EDIT: I fell out of my chair as the coach lady was talking about "emotional vs. financial" investment and how its okay to cheat if you have money was immediately interrupted by a mental health therapy ad.
@williamschlass6371
@williamschlass6371 Жыл бұрын
It's actually always been there. We've just had thousands of years to turn the animal instincts into various different cultural artifacts and so on.
@welcometoWWW
@welcometoWWW Жыл бұрын
In this sense, we've gone full circle in history. We have successfully reverted back to our primal nature. Difference being, whereas before we knew and had some level of honesty now we deceive and hide intent on this matter. Emblematic of the times we live in. If history has a beginning and an end, then it is of the highest magnitude of poetry that as we once was in the beginning, now we are in the end, but not. The rapture will come be prepared brothers in Christ.
@Anna1ingeborg
@Anna1ingeborg Жыл бұрын
Nope. Middle aged women go to West African countries to date younger men. That is the equivalent.(
@IHavent82Day
@IHavent82Day Жыл бұрын
She had us in the first half but Aba & Preach absolutely schooled her when she was saying women who want emotional investment are that way because of trauma. What an absolutely moronic statement. If anything it’s trauma that makes people prioritize cushy lifestyle rather than a healthy emotional bond.
@DTreatz
@DTreatz Жыл бұрын
How many females in there 30s are getting anything but pipe in Dubai lmfao 🤣 sounds cope.
@Iamaries123
@Iamaries123 Жыл бұрын
I’m a girl and I can’t imagine being with someone solely for money. I’m also not a materialistic person so if I see someone try to impress me with a nice car, sure I’ll think their car is so cool but that’s as far as it gets. It doesn’t suddenly make me attracted to you any more than before. I’m genuinely only capable of dating people I feel a connection with.
@liquidgod5606
@liquidgod5606 Жыл бұрын
So you are claiming with certainty that if a guy has an expensive car and is wealthy overall, does not contribute in any way to what you're describing as 'feeling a connection' with that someone?
@easylife6348
@easylife6348 11 ай бұрын
@@liquidgod5606 I don’t believe what she’s saying but at the same time I do when she says she won’t be with a guy because of his money. Let me explain. She won’t be with a dude who only lead and make experiences with his money because that make her feel easy, and women hates being easy even if the guy is the most attractive man in the world, a guy like that have to jump through hoops to alleviate the stress of feeling she’s too easy to have him.
@Threegreentails
@Threegreentails Ай бұрын
​@@easylife6348or she can't be with people she don't feel attracted to? Being rich doesn't automatically make you attractive...you can ve rich and still ugly, simple minded, boring and awful lol
@4nubi5
@4nubi5 10 ай бұрын
Love y'all, peace and blessings 💚
@codecatx5
@codecatx5 Жыл бұрын
Why is Aba so relatable to me. I want the money for comfort I really don’t care about fame or flashiness. I just want to be able to chill and do something Im passionate about.
@ededdneddy988
@ededdneddy988 Жыл бұрын
Well said. I feel the same way
@bblow6003
@bblow6003 Жыл бұрын
Aba wants money so he can continue paying for pu$$y
@wonderlandian8465
@wonderlandian8465 Жыл бұрын
I believe this is majority of people
@codecatx5
@codecatx5 Жыл бұрын
@@wonderlandian8465 I’m not sure about that there is a lot of corporate bootlicking, money worshipping, celebrity worshipping, billionaire worshipping that goes on. The keeping up with Jones’s and stuntin on the haters attitude is extremely prevalent. But, who’s to say that representation is actually representative of most people.
@15thobserver
@15thobserver Жыл бұрын
@@codecatx5 True
@kjsfhjk
@kjsfhjk Жыл бұрын
I think another thing to consider is that some women sacrifice sexual attraction/satisfaction for the money that "high value" men can provide, but that lack of attraction/satisfaction reaches a tipping point and eventually they cheat with someone that they are attracted to. Not all but some. I think the more money you make the more likely you are to end up in this situation
@thezu9250
@thezu9250 Жыл бұрын
This has been happening for as long as women couldn’t make their own money and be fully independent. Why do you think all these “traditional” wives of the past never wanted to sleep with their husband? The only difference is that women had to do it for average men.
@Wavyso
@Wavyso Жыл бұрын
Lol y'all proving incels right
@skarbuskreska
@skarbuskreska Жыл бұрын
​@@thezu9250Ovid I think was driven out if town when he dared to write that Roman husbands and wifes should have fun while having sex. That what a scandal, because this was for the brothels only, and the wifes only copulated to get pregnant with kids and begged that they don't catch any STD in that time. People forget that STDs were often deadly in earlier times. Plus all the moral and sin thing from churches. As soon as there were enough kids, sex in marriage mostly stopped immediately. The wifes knew the men cheat, everyone knew. It just became drama when the cheating was in the same circles or the other woman behaved like a wife. Enough literature out there to know this. Dynamic changed when women became more financially independent, the pill was introduced and antibiotics made STDs less violent on the bodies.
@lidiagizaw3828
@lidiagizaw3828 Жыл бұрын
thank god for pool boys
@jeepersmcgee3466
@jeepersmcgee3466 Жыл бұрын
you're saying Ivanka didn't choose Donald for his rockin bod and endurance?
@blessd5062
@blessd5062 Жыл бұрын
Preaches train of thought and the realization of ppl he knows not showing off their money was the best. Lol
@yasminogbu8929
@yasminogbu8929 Жыл бұрын
Agreed! When men are obsessed with looks they don’t even look any deeper than looks! Looks don’t suggest they make a good mother, partner or wife. Majority of people grow out of it tho in time. When you get burnt many times - people should become wiser
@DucksUpDogsDownCatsSlide
@DucksUpDogsDownCatsSlide Жыл бұрын
Str8 up!
@daryusi9347
@daryusi9347 5 ай бұрын
great comment, ma'am. it took me getting my heartbroken to finally realize all of this.
@superduperdebegoat4042
@superduperdebegoat4042 Жыл бұрын
“Maybe they should pick better”. -RedPill 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Anna1ingeborg
@Anna1ingeborg Жыл бұрын
💀
@kristopherwillis8075
@kristopherwillis8075 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@killaswing1000
@killaswing1000 Жыл бұрын
But that's true. Red pill or not. Lool
@superduperdebegoat4042
@superduperdebegoat4042 Жыл бұрын
@@killaswing1000 It is.
@Snailshroom
@Snailshroom Жыл бұрын
I had an Ethiopian friend in elementary school and he brought his food in for the class to experience and that shit was fire!!
@Pressure314
@Pressure314 Жыл бұрын
That injera and doro wat be on point
@WilliamsPinch
@WilliamsPinch Жыл бұрын
Spicy Injera will have you sweating🥵
@ThaKenMan
@ThaKenMan Жыл бұрын
Bruh I went to my Ethiopian friends house to help them move and her mom had the whole spread laid out on the table . I left that house 10 pounds heavier.
@chief2665
@chief2665 Жыл бұрын
How'd lost this comment 12 days ago ?
@yz8504
@yz8504 Жыл бұрын
@@chief2665 channel members get early access to videos
@Monsterized301
@Monsterized301 Жыл бұрын
Man, I'm glad that my girl doesnt care about fancy shit. She's very honest. Spoke to my girl about what car she'd like, and she straight up told me that she doesn't care, so long as it gets to where she's going. Taco trucks before fancy dine-ins. Walmart before Botique.
@zezeti2246
@zezeti2246 9 ай бұрын
Got a keeper😊
@emmanuelkofyagyapong6382
@emmanuelkofyagyapong6382 Жыл бұрын
I live in a big city in the USA, and what they said about women and men at the top dating each other and being unable to keep their partners is true. I have worked in a restaurant where I saw what I should not have...
@JustGriftyThings25
@JustGriftyThings25 Жыл бұрын
I’m just here for the pin of shame
@onemorescout
@onemorescout Жыл бұрын
great username
@DavidRealMusic
@DavidRealMusic Жыл бұрын
Pin of cap today
@Gilgamesh_The_Moon
@Gilgamesh_The_Moon Жыл бұрын
That's a pin I wouldn't want to show up just for.
@bawbq5305
@bawbq5305 Жыл бұрын
Pen of shame, pen of shame, pen of shame!
@JustGriftyThings25
@JustGriftyThings25 Жыл бұрын
@@onemorescout it’s getting pretty grifty today in these streets
@raydromeda3777
@raydromeda3777 Жыл бұрын
'High value' is a subjective phrase. Most men considered 'high value' are just men with wealth, but wealth is not the only value. Two, some wealthy men, are perhaps not looking for loyal women, but mere arm candy. Gold diggers will dig their way to men like that.
@Woodsaras
@Woodsaras Жыл бұрын
Also, they can be plain dumb or ugly, or have zero character.
@Vergil14
@Vergil14 Жыл бұрын
Imagine how many people have been saying what you said but get shut down because “provision”.
@riddlesangerissues3127
@riddlesangerissues3127 Жыл бұрын
I agree. Value is assigned by the people who desire it, which is why it is subjective. A "high value man" who is wealthy and likely immoral in character is valuable to a lady who is just interested in luxury. But for a lady looking for a husband with whom to raise children, that man is of little value. I believe that certain communities geared toward men have the flaw of focusing solely on the first aspect.
@saffy771
@saffy771 Жыл бұрын
100%
@Likelyfairy
@Likelyfairy Жыл бұрын
Good call because to me a high value person is more about character than money. Anyone can attain money, a terrible person can be rich tomorrow but are they suddenly high value? People need to reevaluate a lot of things lol
@elgatomoscato230
@elgatomoscato230 Жыл бұрын
For the later section of this video: I barely scraped the six figure ceiling last year and nobody knows it. I'm 5'1" and weigh 100 lbs, wear a sweater with small stains, shoes with holes in them, drive a modest 2016 civic and I'm basically invisible. It was only when I started talking to some older guys about investment strategies, that I realized I was brushing shoulders with millionaires without realizing it. There are MANY people who keep a low profile and you only realize it when you break into that level and start speaking the same language
@blaccpanther777
@blaccpanther777 10 ай бұрын
5:36 “You look like Eddie Murphy tryna impersonate Bill Cosby” 😂😂😂😂😂 if you know you know
@Victoria_Viray
@Victoria_Viray Жыл бұрын
I think she's a very intelligent and well spoken person. Her thoughts in the beginning are very agreeable and I would like to see her in a red pill podcast like Fresh and Fit. However, she lost me at the end. I think her Eco chamber if filled with professional gold diggers that she no longer relates to what normal women fundamentally want in a healthy romantic relationship. Not all women are gold diggers. Wanting a partner or a husband that has a stable job and good finances doesn't mean they're a gold digger that wants a luxurious life.
@MKULTRA_Victim_
@MKULTRA_Victim_ Жыл бұрын
I mean at a certain point it's just logical to want a financially stable husband.
@krissysherrell6625
@krissysherrell6625 Жыл бұрын
Financially stable isn’t the ability to have a luxuries. It’s the ability to provide needs within reason. Anything that crosses into wants doesn’t count.
@theezenriarinze9203
@theezenriarinze9203 Жыл бұрын
All women are gold diggers by proxy of that all women like you said will make a mans income a pritoirty while men dont' that for women.
@TheMentalArchitecture
@TheMentalArchitecture Жыл бұрын
​@@krissysherrell6625boom. Exactly financially stable doesn't mean rich.
@Plasmon19
@Plasmon19 Жыл бұрын
I agree, we men are only as good as our financial stability and wealth allows.
@marisatran8821
@marisatran8821 Жыл бұрын
That’s what happens when you base your relationships solely on transaction - you end up purchasing a product.
@hollowfied702
@hollowfied702 Жыл бұрын
Bars.
@Eking-su3tr
@Eking-su3tr Жыл бұрын
Every relationship is transactional. Literally. What ur just gonna talk and talk? Is that how u think it goes😅
@marisatran8821
@marisatran8821 Жыл бұрын
@@Eking-su3tr there’s a difference between reciprocity and transaction.
@zuricrewe3898
@zuricrewe3898 Жыл бұрын
Not y'all changing your pic to "peaches n cream" hahahah
@7ackass
@7ackass 11 ай бұрын
Damn I just learned something I knew but never put it together in that way. I love it when that happens. Give me more!!!
@4elizabeth
@4elizabeth Жыл бұрын
A woman of character will be loyal to a broke man or a rich man. It’s not about the man and who HE IS, it’s about the woman herself. When will people get it lol
@StoneAgeWarfare
@StoneAgeWarfare Жыл бұрын
It's because that person is rare nowadays. I'm not defending anyone, but's hard to believe in something you don't see very often.
@mkzzzzzzzzzz1
@mkzzzzzzzzzz1 Жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHAHA. WOMAN OF CHARACTER? WOMAN HAVE ONE JOB AND THEY CAN'T DO THAT CORRECT. Whether you're a man and worth $10, or if you're worth $10 billion dollars, you ain't getting a virgin wife. So what's the point. HAHAHAHAHAHA. ONE JOB.
@ML-cg9rh
@ML-cg9rh Жыл бұрын
If you raised your daughter right, she wouldn’t pick a broke man to begin with lol
@4elizabeth
@4elizabeth Жыл бұрын
@@StoneAgeWarfarein my world, the opposite is true. I don’t see nor am I around, women who step out on their partners or women that want to. Maybe it’s the internet that makes it seem that way; like women want to cheat. Idk.
@ZeRo-yc7zf
@ZeRo-yc7zf Жыл бұрын
Honestly either you haven’t put yourself out there enough or you’re in the wrong pool. Chances are, you haven’t been with enough people to determine how common loyalty is. Even if you’ve had 200 partners you can’t say there’s not a real one out there
@dennisyoungblood7752
@dennisyoungblood7752 Жыл бұрын
I'm not a "high value male", but my girl values me highly and I value her highly. I think I prefer it this way, I'm finally in a healthy relationship and I can trust her. So, looking at it like that, I don't want to be a "high value male"
@bobbob-vw4cc
@bobbob-vw4cc Жыл бұрын
sounds like a simp..yikes.
@thechosenone93
@thechosenone93 Жыл бұрын
That’s literally all you need to be honest. Follow your own doctrine and you will win
@J_A_P_E
@J_A_P_E Жыл бұрын
She's cheating on you right now
@dudeorduuude5211
@dudeorduuude5211 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like you won in life Dennis.
@sugarwaterpurple5280
@sugarwaterpurple5280 Жыл бұрын
A lot of women like the sound of a "high value man", but in reality that's not what most women want.
@tori168
@tori168 Жыл бұрын
“Red Pill GOOBERS”!!!!! Omg I love the word goober. Aba lmfaoooooo
@mikeg3728
@mikeg3728 9 ай бұрын
If a relationship is transactional then one should expect the loyalty level to be a variable.
@monkeyddizze
@monkeyddizze Жыл бұрын
I feel bad for every human that gets cheated on rich or poor ugly or great looking It´s just a tragedy for everyone
@Werewolf.with.Internet.Access
@Werewolf.with.Internet.Access Жыл бұрын
I’m enjoying this trend of calm, calculating women tearing apart the “alpha male” mentality with brutally honest and fair logic
@cantbecanceledpodcast
@cantbecanceledpodcast Жыл бұрын
It’s not logic… what part is logic?
@balbeaniegg5895
@balbeaniegg5895 Жыл бұрын
@@cantbecanceledpodcast there’s no none some people just like this typa content lmaoo
@Luhiner
@Luhiner Жыл бұрын
high value man is not about money, you can have money and be a dork just like andrew tate said
@Wakanda4bigmama
@Wakanda4bigmama Жыл бұрын
"Alpha male" don't go around to tell they're alpha or talk about it
@gimpinainteasy
@gimpinainteasy Жыл бұрын
@@cantbecanceledpodcast oh? Logic is thinking that high-value men are the only ones stepping out. LOL. But you know.. enjoy that cap.
@mrfullcrcl
@mrfullcrcl Жыл бұрын
Abba is a great example of being higher valor than high value
@cyberingcatgirls7069
@cyberingcatgirls7069 Жыл бұрын
"I always put on my flasher" and then that sh!t eating grin I was laughing so hard I had to pause the video. 😆🤣😂
@moroccanmecrazy
@moroccanmecrazy Жыл бұрын
Having lived in sin city as a single, young girl and being propositioned by these so-called "high value" men I had to decline because: -They are not high value to me -If you lead with your money it might mean that you are insecure, don't think or have anything to offer besides money, you might expect some kind of transactional love/sex which I am not about -What I look for in a partner money can't buy (love, respect, loyalty, care, emotional safety...) At the end of the day it does not only come to options but also values, education, lifestyle choices. Do not buy this "high value" men concept but rather seek the right value(s) partner.
@jujutrini8412
@jujutrini8412 Жыл бұрын
The ones who you tell them that you are in a relationship but still relentlessly pursue you with the line of “so what if you have a boyfriend” are the ones who will cheat on you. Why any girl would want to be with them is beyond me.
@elenabob4953
@elenabob4953 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes persistence is seen as a quality in men nevertheless you are right regarding that particular situation.
@sumayyahadetunmbi4347
@sumayyahadetunmbi4347 Жыл бұрын
yeah
@sabastiansteve
@sabastiansteve Жыл бұрын
Sin city wasn't made for youuu, angels like you
@chiefbeef3587
@chiefbeef3587 Жыл бұрын
100% correct.
@goodtreasureministries9008
@goodtreasureministries9008 Жыл бұрын
I always thought high value men cheat and knows their wives cheat. It’s the agreement. The whole pool boy, gardener scenario. People in those lives move with nda’s. High price call girls, top name strippers. Look at Will and Jada. August got permission. Guaranteed Will was doing his thing too.
@elenabob4953
@elenabob4953 Жыл бұрын
Nah, I really doubt Jada is kind of person that will accept that and itt not because he really cares about Will but because it would hurt her pride to let someone else encroach on her "territory". She has that kind of vibe.
@milton7763
@milton7763 Жыл бұрын
I think that youtube is giving you a very false picture. There will be some like that. Most will be quite normal people.
@aubreysong
@aubreysong Жыл бұрын
No way! Strong independent women like Jada don't need permission from any men.
@aubreysong
@aubreysong Жыл бұрын
Btw, I think we have different view about 'high value men' definition. Imho, a good and strong men who fear God, has moral, values, loyalty, and honor is the real 'high value men'.
@milton7763
@milton7763 Жыл бұрын
@@aubreysong That’s a High Values man. And amen to that
@poondaddy9992
@poondaddy9992 Жыл бұрын
you know what's better than first class/business class? coach with all 3 seats in a row to yourself.
@dallasspitfire1780
@dallasspitfire1780 Жыл бұрын
The older I get the more disgusting the idea of relationships become. I will die single and drama-free.
@thegrey53
@thegrey53 Ай бұрын
Broski, it gets better...
@electricmiragemedia
@electricmiragemedia Жыл бұрын
When I was younger, I would try to validate my insecurities by dating the girls who I felt proved my insecurities wrong. And those were almost all superficial relationships driven by superficial values. I am very happy I outgrew that -- I would never have found a fulfilling relationship.
@dahaka_scares_me909
@dahaka_scares_me909 Жыл бұрын
Could u elaborate?
@robertnoble7554
@robertnoble7554 Жыл бұрын
It's possible at an at fault state, as per custody if the woman doesn't have residency the court could award the husband full custody
@Kurio71
@Kurio71 Жыл бұрын
Speak English
@xbabu142x
@xbabu142x Жыл бұрын
Haha we wrote almost identical stories. It's a humbling experience when you realize your own part in things, at least it was for me. Cheers to that and to continued future growt!
@troll4life127
@troll4life127 Жыл бұрын
I need y’all to explain and spread some wisdom my brother
@tinygypsy3707
@tinygypsy3707 Жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head. I’ve got oil all over my area, the lands been passed down in the family for generations. We’ve been a millionaire family since the 1900s. Yet we live in our small country homes, taking care of our cattle. I wouldn’t trade my simple life for anything.
@tony_5156
@tony_5156 Жыл бұрын
Oil? Would be a shame if BP didn’t make some sweet sweet profits from that. Or the American industrial complex
@arnoldfromspace7465
@arnoldfromspace7465 Жыл бұрын
Would y'all consider adopting me?
@combatveteran240
@combatveteran240 Жыл бұрын
Wonder if you'd feel differently if you weren't blessed to have land on oil and not a millionaire family, would you still love what you do about your life?
@evoltaocao5078
@evoltaocao5078 Жыл бұрын
live however you want but I could never live with myself if I were rich. riches necessarily comes from exploitation and having extra while others starve is insane.
@babystrokessr
@babystrokessr Жыл бұрын
Lemme hold sum Oil
@jakubport7361
@jakubport7361 Жыл бұрын
18:00 I wish I met one day a girl that looks at me the same way Preach looks at Aba 😂
@johnhughes6819
@johnhughes6819 Жыл бұрын
The creaky floor is the best too. Everytime yall walk away because of cringe or a valid point made 😅😂
@Techcypherpunk
@Techcypherpunk Жыл бұрын
One more thing to add - people have replaced the value of a relationship and love with materialism, hedonism and narcissistic values. It’s sad really! Find someone you can have a deep connection with and who shares the same value as you.
@Superbatmanbro
@Superbatmanbro Жыл бұрын
Exactly and wealthy fruits ain’t worth the squeeze when you find out it roughs faster
@victoriaagu4272
@victoriaagu4272 Жыл бұрын
Ain't no love , get your money and leave girls .. . Sprinkle Sprinkle 💅
@xMckingwill
@xMckingwill Жыл бұрын
Welcome to capitalism 🤣
@XxElJefe
@XxElJefe Жыл бұрын
I think everyone wants this deeply but would never admit it because they are afraid of being hurt or have been hurt too many times they give up and turn to this lifestyle as a way of coping.
@blazers4life994
@blazers4life994 Жыл бұрын
Well said.
@ianorchard7178
@ianorchard7178 Жыл бұрын
Man it makes it all the more wild seeing Pete Davidson being that gender flipped version of the chick that gets tossed around by rich dudes
@ZYaKnoe249
@ZYaKnoe249 Жыл бұрын
It’s hilarious
@501Labs
@501Labs Жыл бұрын
Do you really think Pete is suffering dating desirable women?
@TheStuntastik
@TheStuntastik Жыл бұрын
Bruh Pete's having the time of his life
@ianorchard7178
@ianorchard7178 Жыл бұрын
@@501Labs not at all, dude is thriving, that's what I meant though, I don't imagine these girls getting tossed around by rich dudes are too unhappy either
@501Labs
@501Labs Жыл бұрын
@Ian Orchard I don't think they're unhappy right now .... but that realistically wont last forever ... there's a new 21 year old everyday.
@bomapeter6026
@bomapeter6026 Жыл бұрын
Aba is preaching!! 💯👏
@bankoleojo-medubi4452
@bankoleojo-medubi4452 Жыл бұрын
The divorce rate appears to decrease as income increases, particularly for those earning between $10,000 and $200,000 per year. After that point, the divorce rate seems to level off around 30 percent. It's important to note that for higher incomes, there is some fluctuation in the divorce rate, but it's uncertain whether this is due to actual changes in divorce rates or simply fewer data points available for these income levels.
@bankoleojo-medubi4452
@bankoleojo-medubi4452 Жыл бұрын
Once a household income reaches around $600,000, the rate of divorce drops closer to 25%. However, when income exceeds $600,000, the rate of divorce begins to steadily climb back up to 30%
@yurishorino633
@yurishorino633 Жыл бұрын
It's rare to find people with those values like Aba so cheers to that, I had the chance to live in both conditions (poor and rich) and I've always had a disgust for the "High Value Life". The only value in life is the relationship with yourself and your loved ones, the rest is plastic. I can't wait for the economy to crash and see these mfs realize that the real value in life is as simple as growing your own garden like I do.
@jessbess394
@jessbess394 Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@naglfar6305
@naglfar6305 Жыл бұрын
Dont worry, you dont have to wait long for the crash
@jarongriffin8514
@jarongriffin8514 Жыл бұрын
As a man with a lisp, if i ever met a librarian with a lisp, the thex we would have would be legendary
@BerryKind
@BerryKind Ай бұрын
😂😂
@clementomoregie9093
@clementomoregie9093 Жыл бұрын
This was an eye opener... I learnt alot 😂😂😂😂
@springy9959
@springy9959 8 ай бұрын
What’s high value to some might be different for others. I married a high value man: loyal, solid work ethic, reliable, trustworthy, honest and funny. I don’t care what money he makes because he will always put his family first and that’s worth more than anything. I know I’m bloody lucky 😊
@ShaShe2371
@ShaShe2371 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been saying that since day one. Women who are okay with cheating cheat too. Women just don’t brag about it. They’ll cheat with the nice average guy that spoils her emotionally and spend their husbands money. That’s extremely common.
@KingAP33
@KingAP33 Жыл бұрын
I agree but women definitely brag about cheating in this day and age
@clarkkent2005
@clarkkent2005 21 күн бұрын
Why with an average guy?
@ShaShe2371
@ShaShe2371 21 күн бұрын
@@clarkkent2005 An average man will do almost anything for an attractive woman, including listening to her complain about her cheating spouse. Once a man has money, many of them become jerks. 😂
@seanmc5949
@seanmc5949 Жыл бұрын
I feel the bigger issues is that men and women have weirdly began to flex cheating and there's been a horrible back and forth if who's worse when each side is wrong!
@leonhenry4861
@leonhenry4861 Жыл бұрын
I think men cheat at 24% and women at 21% but the study says men’s number largely is the same since the 50s and women’s has grown significantly.
@TT-ee1vv
@TT-ee1vv Жыл бұрын
True, it's a cheating Olympics with both sides making excuses as to why it's okay for them to cheat but bad for others
@asiamwithraenetteleepodcast
@asiamwithraenetteleepodcast Жыл бұрын
Facts 💯
@sharpaycutie2
@sharpaycutie2 Жыл бұрын
Watching divorce court you see couples always do this tit for tat cheating thing, it’s dumb and then both parties have the nerve to be mad at the other 🙄
@mineralgrey8332
@mineralgrey8332 Жыл бұрын
And that’s why it doesn’t matter wether your hot or ugly , rich or poor, beta, alpha, etc. You can be cheated on, the person that cheats simply doesn’t respect you and doesn’t love you. Keep your success silent, if you wanna be successful keep it quiet and be realistic, the woman you go for is the women you want. If you want a good women get a good women.
@k.weirdo7747
@k.weirdo7747 Жыл бұрын
I agree with Aba. That over, extra, greedy thing is uncomfortable to see in others. They start acting like they thing on Lord of the Rings. I also agree about the traumatic response of wanting integrity. Regardless of the past, you should want to be respected and should give it when necessary.
@silentrain1203
@silentrain1203 Жыл бұрын
Many of these dudes have subscribed to the idea that they can sleep with as many women as they want and still retain a loyal girl at home. Cheating on women, regardless of how much money you make, is going to make any woman jealous. Woman can be petty and vindictive when you cheat on them, as they should be. Guys think because they are “high value”, their girl won’t step out, but in reality they’ll probably just hide it better and try to end the relationship by extracting as much money and resources as they can before they leave.
@RV-fo8xj
@RV-fo8xj Жыл бұрын
Come to think of it, this might be the reason that we’ve been seeing so many red pillers trying to convince women that men cheating is something they should not care about. They know that’s a deal breaker for a huge majority of women but they still want that fantasy of promiscuity without consequences.
@madmank7881
@madmank7881 Жыл бұрын
Who actually believe that besides pick up artist
@Altair-El-Haddad
@Altair-El-Haddad Жыл бұрын
That's why as muslims we can marry upto 4 wives (if only we can provide them their rights equally)
@roadmaster9777
@roadmaster9777 Жыл бұрын
So the dudes want what some women did or doing
@houseofhas9355
@houseofhas9355 Жыл бұрын
Yeah you risk her going crazy and cutting your Pee pee off. 😂
@Bboytraxx
@Bboytraxx Жыл бұрын
You guys are spot on! There is a book “The millionaire next door” talks about how most millionaires don’t flaunt their wealth. Highly recommend reading it. On the topic of infidelity, here is some life advice for everyone. Most people end up with a partner with a very similar personality to their own. If you’re the type to think you can get away with infidelity without getting caught, your partner is probably the same. Be who you want to be with.
@Plasmon19
@Plasmon19 Жыл бұрын
Because being a millionaire now means being upper middle class. I know several millionaires who are business owners and managers. The high cost of living in CA would guarantee bankruptcy for them if they spent their cash doing stupid shit like a lot of these social media types do. They're also far more concerned with the well being of their families, their kids educations, and their businesses to care about flaunting. However they do have some high value expenses here and there when it comes to hobbies for instance.
@SamanthaP48
@SamanthaP48 Жыл бұрын
These are facts. The richest people I know look like basic people driving basic cars. One would pick up a penny on the ground & wore shoes until they had holes in the soles.
@jeepersmcgee3466
@jeepersmcgee3466 Жыл бұрын
my college roommate started making six figures shortly out of school. He grew up lower middle class, worked hard, and didn't take risks. He says the best part about being a millionaire in his 20s is pretending not to be one. He buys, wears, and does all the same stuff as before, so only the real ones ever find out that he could live lavishly if he wanted to
@elenabob4953
@elenabob4953 Жыл бұрын
In France is like this and this is why they didn't love Sarkozy very much.
@moniquevandeplas5210
@moniquevandeplas5210 Жыл бұрын
omg that is so crazy. This was literally my first comment and then I started reading comments and see you talk of this too! You also should read the next one which is "The Millionaire Mind" which delves more into the psychology of what drives people and money. I talked about it my comment.
@Pro-dp3sh
@Pro-dp3sh Жыл бұрын
Her definition of ‘high value man’ = rich men with no values. So ‘rich men with no values ‘ get cheated on the most should be the title of her argument
@vikkipink1288
@vikkipink1288 Жыл бұрын
The more I watch of y’all the more I like y’all. Seriously y’all are the role modals these dudes should be looking to rather than these obnoxious red pill losers.
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