“A man is NATURALLY going to reduce the role of another woman in his life, when he meets his WIFE” ... 💯❗️ and he definitely shouldn’t need to be told /asked to do so ❤️

He doesn't want to let the "Friend" go because she's on another level & has his mind open, while you only have his pants unzipped. True words spoken!! 🙌🏾💯

There is NO SUCH THING as a BEST FRIEND when you are in a committed relationship!!!

That’s what I did for male best friends when they got married... I backed all the way back to be respectful of their wives and marriages and they did the same

In the past, I’ve been the “ female friend” in a situation like this. He 100% wants his friend and she probably doesn’t want him, that’s why he’s willing to stay her BFF he’ll take any title she will give him. And if she ever decides to upgrade their friendship, he’ll leave his girlfriend.

They way he do them hand gestures✌🏾🖖🏾 “ok you done already been on your back “ I hollered 🤣🤣

Female and male "friends" are inappropriate if you are married or even unmarried. You should be friends with the family.

Major lesson I will make sure I live by- do not go back to the man you rejected.. he will dog you.. men never forget when you rejected them. Wooo a word . 💯💯💯

This man is not lying. If you even smell another woman on a guy you're dating Runnnnnn. Friends of the opposite sex ain't nothing to play with. There is no such thing as a veryyyy close friend of the opposite when you're in a relationship. Boundaries (most of the times) get crossed. That is nothing to play with. Wisdom should be practiced. Also, if someone is your husband you'll know.

When you are desperate to be loved you will ignore the red flags that black right in front of your eyes .

Tony you are correct about how long a man will wait. I’m 61 years old and my husband pasted away one year ago. This man I knew 40 years ago found me on Facebook. He got married 40 years ago and now going through a separation. I had tell him don’t disrespect the memory of my husband and our 25 year marriage I am not lonely for anyone but my husband. He said we’re friends I’ve known you for 40 years. I told him go work it out with your wife your going through the midlife change. PERIOD

He’s the Daddy. And she’s about to become a sister wife..

I'M NOT PUTTING UP WITH ANY "FEMALE BEST FRIENDS" LOL WHATSOEVER. THAT TERM ALONE MAKES ME CRINGE LOL UGH & EWW

You got a friend in Jesus! 🗣That's right Tony!! 🙌🏾 The brake pedal again..😂😂😂😂😂😭😭

Spot on. Once in a committed relationship having friends of the opposite sex will only cause issues.

This is crazy!!! It’s time to start dating men the way that men date women. No man would stick around for this situation

A lot of times too women get into competition with the other woman trying to win instead of focusing on the issues the man have and that they really need to leave him.

This story is so full of holes, the baby belongs to him, even a blind man can see this.

Let him go. He is definitely sleeping with this woman. Sounds like payback.

It’s ashamed how some women can be so foolish. Because this email has so many red flags.

A male cousin once told me in order for a man to be friends with you he has to like you first. All my male “friends” tried to date me at some point. He’s sleeping with her or is interested in doing so... there’s nothing like man/woman friendship. He’s the telling the other woman you’re just a friend too.

He is with both women. Tell him goodbye and keep it moving.

I have been victim to this very topic. My ex husband got a blessing from his BF to marry me. Found out later that her very own marriage proposal did not workout. She began to confide in and pursue my husband and all hell broke loose. I saw the signs but couldn't leave yet bc I was nursing him back to health(long but interesting story), in between jobs and getting my renters out of my home. I made my plans, stuck to it and left the day after New Years. He and the BF had a child that they thought I knew nothing about. Fast-forward to the end of story... BF is single, he doesnt see or take care of the baby, she's not married. My Ex is partially paralyzed (not by me), lost everything. Im divorced and will use this story to help others. Thanks Tony for reminding me that its time to start writing my book and telling this story to help others.

"He's the last option of your life, not the love of your life." Ohhhhh I 😂 laughed, but I felt that Tony!!🤦🏾‍♀️

This video is humorous, but real talk.

Girl run this is not the love of your life. This same problem with this same woman will happen in marriage too.

This is eye opening. Ladies who he confides in is who he trusts,loves,and will go to war for. How he makes you feel in a relationship is how he feels about you!

I was told this in my twenties and reminded in my thirties about so-called male bff’s. I argued who I was with and always defended my friendships of the opposite sex. I was extremely wrong and learned the hard way. Thank you and be blessed.

This sounds like a Tyler Perry movie...there is no way I would hang in there for this drama...this is like a sister-wife episode.

FRIEEEEEENNNNNNNND!!!!!?????😂😂😂 That his baby..and his girl friend.

2 videos a day that’s a blessing.

On a side note, Tony missed his calling as a comedian. LMAO! 😂

He was dead on about the way a man thinks the worst of you. I had the same experience with my husband where he said I was getting sloppy about my “cheating” and all I did was go to work and come home.

The more I listen to these videos and examine my past, what Tony has said in the past, that when we are not living in our purpose, we get entangled in so much stuff. We have way too much time to do so much damage to ourselves instead of growing, changing and healing and being an agent of change. Thank the Lord for Tony who always teaches staying on the narrow road.

This is very true. Men and women CANNOT be friends without an ulterior motive. Thank you, Mr. Gaskins.

After two husband's just love yourself

Confirmation, Confirmation, Confirmation!! That’s why ABSTINENCE = TOTAL PEACE OF MIND 🙏🏼 just saying...As always, I appreciate Life Coach Tony Gaskins unapologetic advice on everyday relationships - the truth! You and your beautiful family continue to Stay Blessed! 🙏🏼

“Hot and ready like Lil Ceasar’s.” 😩😂 lord help me

Men will get back with you to get you back and then put you on your back. 💯 I’ve seen it happen. It’s part of the game. It’s fun for him. He’s not serious. He’s just having fun. If he was serious, he would have cut her off as soon as you both reconnected. He would have ditched her pregnant and all. Men can be cold hearted like that if they need to be and choose to be

He's kicking rocks while listening to Boys to Men!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭🤣😂

I’m loving Talks with Tony because it’s great to see your advice applied to real world scenarios, no matter how outlandish they may be!

You are so right... no man is bestfriends to a woman. He will try you.. I had a guy friend who waited 4 years to try to sleep with me & at the time I was still saving myself and not sleeping around he said exactly this WORD FOR WORD LADIES “I respect what you doing and all but not tryna have any females around me that’s not trying to have s**”. Please listen to Tony!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽 he’s not wrong at all.

Nope. I would never ask a male "friend" to be in the delivery room with me.

He’s the father that’s why he can’t let her go.

-Y’all better listen to what Tony’s saying he’s saying the absolute hard truth. I once heard one of my male coworkers say “there’s not ONE of his female FRIENDS back home in TX he wouldn’t smash “ and he’s the type to have women lusting after him left & right. Don’t be naive 🤣

Video: 3 minutes in. Me: He already sleepin with her and that’s his baby.

Wow Tony thank you for saving this lady I pray ! what women wants her male friend in the delivery room with her there’s no shame or modesty in that room when pain gets severe trust me !!! that’s all the red flags she needed It’s his baby period! God Bless you my spiritual son please keep preaching the truth in Love , She’s gotta go !!

I get called insecure and controlling for not allowing all that “female friend” bs in my committed relationships. I don’t care though, because what gain would you be getting from another woman that you couldn’t get from your partner? Especially if you have other female family members in your life who play an active role. You have male friends, you have female family, and you have a girlfriend. A female friend is compartmentalism of women. You just want them so you have other women easily accessible to you if ever you get the chance to.

All I want sis to do is take this advice and keep it moving. There is no need to meet up to get to know the best friend either. Side note: When the red flags present themselves, don't come up with your own scenarios to downplay them. Just move and save yourself from a lot of chaos, confusion, and soul-ties. Have a blessed day, Blessed Tribe ❤

If you listen to/read the lyrics of “You make me wanna by Usher”, that confirms everything Tony said. Usher is a grown boy and it describes what he wants to do with his “best friend”.

“Loose booty 901” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Oh my lord, when Tony started singing "It's been a loooooooong, long time coming" 🎶 I lost it 😭😭😭

I don't normally comment but I was not expecting a WHOLE ROAST tonight! put everyone and their motives on blast fr. This video offered the whole perspective and reality of many relationships 😳 haha listen to it twice!

20 years and now divorced. Do you know these so called "friends" have hit me up.............and they are married? Listen to Tony. He ain't lying. Just keep living. Keep those legs closed ladies.

Man, you are so entertaining while giving solid information!😂😂❤

I LOVE Tony Gaskins!!! SO GOOD! Some women don't know boundaries. They can't be talking to married men and expect to be respected by other females. No female likes homewrecker or women who flirt or send mixed messages to married men!

Tony, I wish I had your advice about 20 years ago. I've been through so much with different men. You could've saved me some heart ache. I am now happily celibate and not dating for the past 2 years.

Every time I think the video won’t apply to me, I always learn something new.

Uncle Tony is always spot on. Recently when he mentioned that when you go on a date with a man and offer to pay YOUR portion, it makes you stand out in his mind. Welp.. Uncle Tony was right. Tuesday I went on a first date. When the check came I offered to pay my portion. He looked at me and said "of course not" the next day when we were on the phone his exact words were "it's refreshing to go on a date with someone that offered to pay for something. Although, I wouldn't allow you to pay but it means a lot. Because nowadays ppl are takers"

Dude was hurt now he wants to run her through the mud...

Omggggg.... that’s his baby 🤔 lady WAKE UP. Who wants to be in a delivery room for a baby who’s not his. Plus they lived together 😂. Don’t be 48 & naive.

He sure has a lot of female friends don’t he?? 🧐... Girl Bye!!

“Look at me, I’m Captain Save ‘Em!” TG. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

“Lil ugly in the background “🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

He’s the daddy. The end. He Only told her she got pregnant by someone else. No male “friend” would want to be in the delivery room to see all that. There are some many 🚩! 🤦🏽‍♀️

That women is his sunshine you like a candle 🕯 in the sun 😂😂😂

I have watched this probably about 5x. I can’t with this man 🤣🤣

“Once you know how to ride it you know how to ride ittttt” and “you’re like a candle in the sun” omg lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 i can’t take him with all of these faces he be cutting up lol

It’s very true. Men and women can’t really be friends without emotional feelings being tied. I’m friends with an ex and he likes to say “best friends”. I just say “friends” because he is here for me when I need him and vice versa. we do talk about his dates he goes on and all. He is even here for me when it comes to my kids. He just took my son to his first job interview. So yes we are friends however, I’m no fool. This man is very genuine yes but at the same time this man is still in love with me. This is why he sees me as his “Bestfriend” wishing one day that I will see him the way he sees me.

All of that friends stuff is nonsense. It sounds like CB female friend likes the benefits of being in a relationship minus the commitment. CB female friend will continue to over step the respect line and ask CB for favors that she should be getting from a single man. CB keeping that female close and doing favors like helping her move, and anything else that she will be asking of him down the line because it makes him feel like a totally competent man. All this just friends stuff means sex in the past or future. Neither person wants to move on to actually become available mentally, morally and physical. Women love getting favors from another woman's man.

He's so right straight men don't normally have female friends unless something else is going on. My friend thought she was friends with a guy for 10 years n recently he confessed he has loved her for years smh. Now she still trys to be friends but it's just not possible.

Gotta go!!!✈

Sis wake up, he getting you ready to be a babysitter so he can go on dates with her

All I need to here is hey hey Tony Gaskins here and it’s a like! Already know the message gonna be good! Those dislikes are the adversary.

This sound so familiar...I'm in the same situation as a best friend to a male friend...Thanks for eye opening AGAIN

The straight men I know want to be sexual. They refuse to be friends with me. My male best friend is gay. I tried to be friends with straight men over the years to no avail. A woman told me that women have to teach men to be friends with them. It hasn't worked for me. Gaskin is right on this.

As soon as she said “friends for 15 years” I was like nope, he’s not the one sis. It does not take years for a man to know that you’re the one. I hope she moves on.

Dude waited 25 years to plow the field. Girlfriend about to be rode hard and laid out to dry.

Tony is on point , he’s never been wrong never !we really don’t know men , thought I did until I started listening to Tony I recognized a lot of things immediately.

What you allow is what will continue!!! He making a fool outta you and you in yo feelings !! If he knew you was the "one" then he would come in knowing and showing you that! He running game and you need to be running!!!

Warning ⚠️ ⛔️ Watch this in a secure place that allows you to take notes, scream, & 😂 ! Thank you Tony 🙏🏾

Dang Tony Broke it Down to the Ground!

This is a fact. I have a girlfriend that was friends with her male bestfriend for over 15 years as well and ended up dealing with him on the side while he was with another women. Telling her all her business and she would come back telling me. I had to cut her off. Things like this may sound crazy but it actually happens!

This story might have some holes like Swiss cheese now ... Tony!! You’re going there. So many women need to hear this. At 20 I was the female friend. We were in undergrad, worked together and lived in the same complex as a result of our jobs. His Gf was in a different city but would always come to see him at his job (our job) - she knew he was a dog in heat . I was naive and really appreciated a male friend for campus escorts , and just genuinely believed we were best friends until the inappropriate comments started. Obviously I kept boundaries but he tried it! And when I shut him down, he dropped his “bestfriend”. These lil boys do what you allow. His girlfriend married him...

He probably the daddy lol

Some of you all in the comments judging and making fun of this lady need to stop. You've looked the same way she has and someone had to have patience and grace with you. I'm just saying, no need to rub it in in that manner.. Be nice because guess what.. all these vids y'all watching.. but YOU'RE NEXT.

Blessings Tony to you and your family! Lord, it sounds like that lady baby is really his!

Tony Gaskins got me ROLLING!!! 😅😂 Almost died when he started singing "It's been a looooooong time...." DEAD! 😂😂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😂

Two✌🏽 divorces already and now this balderdash. Maybe I'm speaking for myself, but I can't keep putting my poor heart through the wringer. We gotta heed the warning signs. They're definitely there. A man dealing with multiple women, DON'T care about any of them. Only himself!😔

Tony is hilarious and super gifted!

I’m 24 and I have a guy friend I’ve known since I was 16 and he just recently tried sleeping with me. I had to check play boy real quick “nah it’s not that type of party”

PLEASE explain why men think about their women that way! Blessings to you and yours eternally Mr. Gaskins.

Put ya Nikes on and Run girl Run 🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾

Idk how I found this channel but this is my 3rd video this weekend and this is the comedy relief I’ve needed all pandemic long! Great messages though!

Merry go round you don’t know him just because y’all knew each other yeaarrrssss ago...give yourself time to heal...moving too fast & doing too much too soon

I LOVE Tony's impersonations 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂

Looooordd this man got me over here holllinnn laughing 😂 😂 😂 Po Tink Tink AINT learned nothing in 48 years! Help her Jesus

😂 😂 TONY U ARE NEVER LYING! Men are really untrustworthy like that. I got these type of questions all the time. Still do and I haven’t done nothing! Lbs a woman can be modest, abstinent, God fearing and just to herself and he will still question and be a bit possessive lbvs TONY HAD ME BUSSING UP ON 27:17. Be blessed ❤️

I wish she hadn't got on her back so soon 🤦🏾‍♀️cause she's created a stronger soul tie with this man and its setting up to be like a competition between the two ladies for this man's attention (ya'll know how some of us are🙄) It would have been ideal to have peeped his situo from the jump and told him "yeah you handle all that over there and I might or might not be over here when you, her and the baby figure stuff out." I can't do drama no more, especially drama that's not of my own making. God Bless her

Hey Bro! I pray you and your family are safe in the storm🙏🏾 God bless