I cannot finish this story! This nyab makes my blood boils.

Good story for the sons who love their in laws more than their parents. Brother be happy she left, you can start over but make better decisions. Only God knows what's best for you.

The wife is in the wrong. She loves her parents and she should know that he also loves his parents.

I see thus generations 70 -80 % men are going through this situation. The wifey wear pants men wear dresses. Men careless about their parents while women's love protected their families more of not letting the husband hurt her side at all. Its sadness.

This is one of those stories where the wife is wrong with no reasons and the husband is not man enough to stand up for what’s right… 🤦🏻‍♀️ I’m just shaking my head the whole time listening to this story… I just feel bad for the guy’s parents

Cov niam tais yawm txiv no tsis paub txaj muag tseem Yuav nrog ntxhais Vauv nyob los tseem ua teem meem Peb yeej yog niam tais thiab os tab peb tsis coj li ntawd Peb ua neeg nyob yuav tsum paub cai.

This kind of daughter(s) wasn’t proper family values trained! The in laws needs to understand..especially the dumb brothers!

Life lessons for you, do better and find a better person to married and be with. They took advantage of you and you know it. Learn, move on and do better.

What an evil wife. You love your parents is good but you must also love your inlaws the same. Those that are evil will get their karma one day

No wonder your wife is like that, she got those moms that think she’s still the sh!t!!! If my parents can’t come live with me, my spouses parents can’t come live with me either. Marriage is a two way street, respect goes both ways. But as a Hmong son or daughter, we all know our place. You can get a new wife, new family but never get parents again.

This is what we are going through now with our son and his wife. If you are a mother, daughter, wife, or nyab, know that your parents, siblings and relatives are NOT the only one that exist. There's also his parents, his siblings, and relatives that he would also wanted to be involves in their life as well.

Both sons & daughters are precious. Both parents are precious, but there are STRUCTURES in every race and cultures that hold a marriage and family together. If you're a daughter, understand your role as a daughter, sister, wife and mother. Same goes for a son, a husband and a father. A son is very precious to a birth parents because of bloodline, family legacy and hope for the future when the parents old. A daughters' role will always be to marry off to support her husband and their side of the family primary. A sons' role will always be to carry and continue the legacy of your parents and the parents before. It's not just a job, but a responsibility, hope and honor. If you're a daughter and can't or don't want to accept or understand this, you're going to make your and everyone's life around you very difficult & you will soon understand with a tough lesson. If you're a son and doesn't understand the responsibility of your role to take care of your wife, children and your parents (when old) you will soon. If there are no sons, then both son in law and daughter will need to step up your game

It's sad how some daughter inlaws are like this. They only want to love their parents but do they ever think if their brother wives did what they do, will they like it? Or when she becomes old and her daughter in law does the same to her? What comes around will go around. She will get a taste of her own medicine and knows how it feels when her DIL does the same to her.

Bless you brother 🙏 you're a good son and a good husband. You'll receive blessings soon

Love your parents-in-law the same way you want your Nyab to love your parents.

So sad that your dad died of a broken heart because you chose your wife’s parents over your own parents. I hope you learned your lesson and love your mom a lot more. She doesn’t have many years left with you so I suggest not getting married so soon so that history won’t repeat itself. Like the old saying say…the same eyes will pick the same thing. Karma is real when you don’t value your parents. You didn’t stand up for them and just let your wife walk all over you. So what if you have to divorce her for being a major B to your parents. You can never replace your parents. When they’re gone they’re gone. In your case you replaced them with your in laws and look how that turn out for you.

Don’t blame others for the decisions you made. You are as much to blame as the other person because you made those decisions with her!

It’s a bad choice to let the in-laws live with you. It’s best to live as far as you can from the in-laws.

Glad that your dad & mom not living with you since you couldn’t be a great son to them but at last your marriage broken itself. Your dad was a wise man didn’t wanted any part of the blaming from your wife & you. Hope that all the son, txiv tsev learn from this story of being a great leader for the family!!

For all u out there just remember that if someone that is not good in ur life replace them but not the one that cannot be replace like ur parents n kids

Omg, she married him knowing that he is the ONLY SON!!! 🤦🏻‍♀️ shouldn’t marry the ONLY SON if you can’t love his parents. 💀

zoo siab tau mloog koj zaj dab neeg qhia txog tau nyab phem tu2 siab los2 kua muag li os

Txhob tus siab os kj yog neeg siab zoo yeej yuav muaj hnub kj lub neej rov zoo xwb os

Txhob tus siab mog tu txiv tsev tu tswv zaj neej neeg ntawm no.tsi yog tim leej twg tim koj ua tsi tau txiv koj thiaj tau lub neej zoo li ko yog yuav chim ce chim rau koj tu kheej xwb nawb mog

Thanks for sharing your story brother. Peb tib neeg lub neej ces zoo tam li tus dej nws muaj ntu tus, muaj ntu txaws ntxhee, thiab muaj ntu poob tsag. It's sad but that reality.

Mloog nawb cov niam tais yawm txiv xav2 mus nrog ntxhais vauv nyob na es tsis paub cai na

Txhob tus siab os mog muab xav tias yog ib txoj kev phem2 ua yus tau txais xwb vim ua tsi tau txiv es hlub tsis tau yus niam tus txiv xwb. Nrog koj txiv tu siab kawg.

Im not surprised the nyab is like that, the in laws suck too! How they stayed with no shame after all the issues. Smh.

Vim li cas es peb cov ua hlub niam pog thiab txiv yawg es peb tus txiv ho tsis xav hlub peb thiab saib tsis taus peb li, cov ua tsis hlub es lawv tus txiv ho hlub hlub lawv kawg .

Ruam tsis dua koj os thaub!

My parents would know better even if I offer them to come stay with my husband & I

Love yourself and your immediate family first, especially your parents, because women come and go. Today she's your girlfriend, tomorrow she's someone else's girlfriend. Today she's your wife, tomorrow she's someone else's wife.

Es yus ua maum cuab pob tw rau poj niam thiab niam tais yawm txiv npuj xwb es yus tseem muaj plhus thov koob hmoov ntawm yus txiv thiab 😂😂😂😂

You got used by your ex in laws. Plus those kind of in laws have no manners.

Your in laws, you can only love them as much as your wife loves them. Your parents the love is a 100%. I told my wife that I only married her to come help expand my family. I gave her decision to stay girlfriend and boyfriend vs being husband and wife. This wro g for an only son.

Cas pab koj niam thiab koj txiv npau taws tshaj, muaj tub zoo li tsis muaj

😭😭😭😭

mug nyob lub teb chawm niam vam2 meej ntuj aw siab me li me.noj vauv qab ru yaig ua2 teeb meem rau nej me nyuam ntaum kawg tseem rov taw tuam ntuj yuav npam xwb mas

Peb cov poj niam es yog peb hlub peb tus txiv ces peb yuav tau hlub nws niam nws txiv thiab os vim nkawv es thiaj muaj nws rau yus os

Cov neeg uas tsis ncaj ces zoo li no ntag, Nkag poj niam ob ceg txhua hnub hmo xwb ces lub neej thiaj muaj kev bam . Yog koj Txiv yug nej muaj li 2 leej tub ces cov laus twb tsis tuag Vim koj, Qhov no yog nyuam qhuav pib xwb nawb. Neb 2 niam txiv txawm yuav sib nrauj tag lawm los kev khaum tseem yuav raws neb mus ntej222222.....

Koj ces tsim nyog kawg lawm. Txoj kev ua tsis taus txiv ces zoo li ko ntag

When you let your wife run your life and turn blind to your own parents than whatever karma comes your way, sorry but you deserve it. STOP blaming your wife for everything that happened. You had a part in it too. She’s the idea but you are the action. How dear you choose your in laws against your own parents. If your in laws are that ignorant and stupid and your willing to obey than you deserve it too.

Throw away that dress and put the pants back on. Should NEVER let the old lady make you wear that dress the first place.

Koj yog ib tug tub tsis muaj NOOB QES. Koj cov neej tsa tsis yog neeg yog dev xwb thiab tsis tswj koj tus maum dev liam txwv los nrog koj hlub koj niam koj txiv. Nrog koj tu siab heev.

Niag NiAm tais yawm txiv liam tiag tiag

Happy hmong new year to everyone

Niag niam tais yawm txiv ntawv los yeej txhob txwm ua kom muaj teeb meem xwb

Why can't these evil nyabs realize that one day they will grow old too! Jeez! It makes my blood boil. If my wife ever does this, I will have her arrested and charged!

Niam pog txiv yawg los 1 yam li os niam pog txiv yawg ces yeej kawg pab tub thiab tuaj tub tog hos niam tais yawm txiv los yeej kawg tuaj ntxhais tog xwb os li no es thiaj tias nyias niam thiaj hlub nyias es nyias thiaj hlub nyias niam no los mas

Naib poj Niam ko xuaj tshaj

Tsam no koj mam paub os pab hlub koj kawg li os

Cov niam Tais yawm txiv es muaj tub coob2 los tseem mus nrog txhais vuam nyob thiab ces ntsej muag yeej tuab tiag2

Niam no ces cov tub yeej nyob cov poj niam qab tiab ces zoo li no ntag mas lawv aw niam no ces yug tau ib pab tub los yeej tsis muaj kev cia siab os

Ahahah koj ces npam los mas

Every nyab should learn how to balance out their love between both parents. It would only make sense for you not to care if your mother in law and father in law mistreated you or is trying to get their son to divorce you. In this case it is pretty sad 😔.

Ua tsaug ntau2 niam tij

Nej cov txivneej yuav tus pojniam tsis nyiam nej niam/txiv, tsevneeg ces nws tsuas hlub nej thaum zoo neej, muaj nyiaj xwb. Nej yuav txomnyem siab txog hnub tuag tsis tau nws kev hlub tseeb. Ntxov tso ces ntxov pib dua neej tshiab thaum tseem hluas.

Seb koj Yuav koj Tus poj Niam Los Yog koj Tus poj Niam Yuav koj Mus tuav koj Niam tais yawm Txiv Lub neej mas, koj Niag poj Niam CES tsuas Lam ua nab ntsuab tuag Saum tsaug Thaum Lub Hauv paus Kom Tau Txiv xwb os mog 😭😭

Tos koj tus poj niam tsis paub ua ib tug nyab los yeej yog li koj niam hais, koj niam tais yawm txiv yeej tsis paub cai li.

Tus pojniam tsis kam yuav yus niam yus txiv ces yeej tsis yog tus pojniam zoo. Txhob tus siab coj lis ntawv xwb nws yeej tsis txog twg.

Alway remember blood is thicker than water. So you don’t make mistakes anymore.

Koj thiaj li coj li ko xwb os.peb yeej hwm tus hug peb xwb

Niam txiv ruam tsis paub cai ces yug tau tej tug maum dev tsis leem cai li koj niag maum dev mas thaub tsis muaj noob qes...

Apple never fall far from the tree.

Niag ntsej muag tub qias neeg koj siab phem thiaj npaum koj koj thiaj npam cas koj ho txawj nco koj pab niag kas thiab na

Cov txiv moob ua tsis taus txiv cia poj niam ua txiv ces zoo li no ntag.

Karma is very powerful. What you do comes right back at you ten times harder. Good luck to this B of a wife.

Niag ntsej muag tub liam qias neeg ko , ua g tau txiv zoo thiab tseem ua g tau ib tug tub zoo 6 yus niam yus txiv thiab es tseem muaj ntsej muag muab koj lub neej qai 2 neeg no.coj los hais 6 kom 3 mloog thiab , yog g zoo es txhob coj los hais , txawm 3 mloog tag los ua g tau ib txoj kev kawm. Zoo 6 3 kawm thiab.

Thaub, yuav 1 tug pojniam siab phem limhiam li ko los ntxub tsimtxom koj niam/txiv xwb. Zoo kawg nkaus uas tawm mus lawm tseem ua phem2 kom koj tusiab nrho. Koj txiv yeej tsis pub lawv nyob ntxiv, thiaj khiav, ntshai tsam ntiab tsis kam tawm xwb. Menyuam yeej yuav loj, them nqi zoo yeej txawj tag. Kavtsij tig hlub koj niam thaum muaj sia. Koj yuav dua pojniam tshiab tau tabsis yuav tsis tau koj niam/txiv. Ntuj nyob qis2 npam sai2 kawg li.

Koj ces yog ib niag tub siab dev tsis muaj siab muaj ntsw

Peb hmoob yuav tau ua ib siab ua li meka es txhob nrog tub nyab ntxhais vauv nyob. Leej twg los yeej tsis xav nyob tsev Laus tab sib ua li no ces menyuam lub neej pheej puas puas

This is what happens when you’re not man enough and you let your wife walk all over you. The in-laws should know better than to be living with the daughter and son-in-law.

Good boy always follow his wife and ignore his parents

Thaub aw koj los zoo li koj thiab ces kav liam os yawg. Txhob have tiab nawb.

Txhua yam yog tim tus txiv hnav tiab xwb, tsis muaj dab tsi os.

U just know. We always know about that.

Txawm hais tias niam tais yawm txiv tsis paub cai los lawv twb muaj kwv tij ne cov kwv tij yog neeg tsis paub cai ib yam thiab kuv li kuv ib leeg xwb los kuv tsis yeem nrog kuv cov ntxhais nyob vim tsam teb chaws yuav hais yus nawb

Tej tug no mas tseem tseem yogvnyab poj dab os lawv aw luag muaj niam muaj txi es mob mob luag lub siab cas tej niag nyab no es siab nyoos ua luaj

Kuv mas ntxub cov niamtais pheej cob ntxhais nrauj vauv kawg li nawb. Cov niamtais uas coj li no mas tsis paubcai hlo li os. Tseem yuav ua kom ntxhais vauv sib nrauj thiab. Niamtais phem tiag li os.

This is why Hmong girl's parents should start paying the groom for their head instead of the other way! SMH! Let your ex in-laws talk. Karma is around the corner. Soon they'll come begging you for forgiveness.

Los yuav kuva

Tsis hlub niam pog txiv yawg ces nrauj mus xwb mas

Cov niam tais thiab yawm txiv es los nrog vauv nyob ces yog tib co neeg liam xwb nawb lawv aw...

Ntshaw2 tub tuag kus los tsis tau kev lhub

Wow bro u need to talk to her brother and her side of the family seriously

Ca kj g txaj muag li kj ua g tau txiv dhau lawm tuag mu yug ua poj niam tau lawm o

Kuv muaj ob tug tub thiab kuv ntshai ib tug nyab zoo li tus no thiab ntshai cov niam tais yawm txiv tsis paub cai li no nawb

Vim koj muab koj tus pojniam tsa ua koj tus nai thaum pib lawm nws thiaj tsuj koj tuag thi txhua yam yuav tsum yog ua nyob nruab nrab xwb es kom haum ob tog siv tau xwb mas pojniam zoo tseem muaj coob mog

Tsis paub hlub niam thiab ces zoo lis koj xwb mad

Koj tsis ntse koj thiaj tso koj tus poj niam coj niam tais yawm txiv los nyob koj niam koj txiv qhov chaw. Yuav tsum raug li koj thiaj kawm tau. Koj txiv tsis tso hmoov rau tus neeg li koj ntxiv lawm.

Hanpeck

Cas niam tais yawm tsiv yuav tsis paub cai li

Mes kas txoj cai phem heev poj niam txhaum los,txiv neej tseem tsis muaj cai ib qho li,nej hmoob mes kas yuav tsum hais rau mes kas tias cov tub thaum twg lawv yuav poj niam yeej yog leej txiv ua tus nta tshoob nta kos,cov tub coj leej txiv lub xeem,

Cov niam tais yawm txiv es twb muaj tub muaj nyab tab sis ho tsis nrog lawv nyob es ho mus nrog ntxhais vauv nyob es ho tsis yuav niam pog txiv yawg yog niam tais yawm txiv tsis paub kev cai , tus ntxhais yus twb muab qua mus lawm luag muaj niam pog txiv yawg tsis tsim nyog yus mus nrog luag nyob .

Niag tub ruam niag hlwb qauj tsi muaj nut li yus nrhiav yus kev npam koj cias koj txiv nco koj es koj txiv thiaj tso moov cias koj nco koj cov los mas ntuj nyob qis2 txhob siab phem npam sais2 nos nas

Twb tsis txuag yus ces tuav kiag ne tsis txuag li thiab thiaj sib phim hos

Teeb meem ces yog niam tais yawm txiv ntag

I don’t understand why some daughter-in-laws don’t love their in-laws when they expect their sister-in-laws to love their parents. If their sister-in-law do their parents wrong, they would raise hell but can treat their in-laws poorly. Love your in-laws how you want your sil’s to love your parents.

I would like to know who are these people. I would not want any of my extended families to marry with people behaved like this.

tu txiv neej no ce ua tsi tau txiv..mu hnav tiab os poj niam tsi ta rau koj tu lawm.koj tu poj niam siab phem tiag2 yog koj xwb.yog kuv ce muab ncaw tawm lawm