I understand her and feel her pain. For the husband, you get exactly what you deserve….

Peb​ poj​ niam​ mas​ tu​ siab​ tshaj​ cas​ niam​ tsi​ muaj​ cai​ xaiv​ li​ vim​ koj​ txoj​ kev​ quab yuam luag​ thiaj​ tsi​ hlub​ koj​ nyuam​ qhuav​ haum​ mog

This is a great example of "money cannot buy love and happiness ". So sorry for both of you.

To the owner of this story and many like minded individuals out there; just because you covet someone for their beauty, does not mean you love them. You have demonstrated that you love your self more than anything by entrapping her against her will and disregarding her wishes. I feel sorry for the lady whom remained a prisoner in her marriage. I feel that she embraced death because it was sweet release from the lonely, miserable life you forced upon her.

Siab zoo kawg li os yuav ib tug tshiab mog

Cas yuav tsis tsimnyog los ua neej ib zaug li os. hlub koj tus pojniam kawg li. Raug quab yuam yuav ib tus neeg yus tsis nyiam ntshe lwj siab txog hnub tuag li no. koj txhob chim nawb. Tim koj xwb

There are so many stories like this one, mostly older couples form the old country, but the people involved did no wanted to let go. They either want to make each other miserable because they've been forced to married someone they didn't like/love or they didn't want to, "lose face" with their families and/or their Hmong community!

You forced her to marry you so what did you expect?

Tsis tau tus neeg yus hlub yeej tu siab ib sim nawb txhob txiav lwm tus txoj kev hlub yog yus paub tseeb tias luag muaj luag tug zoo2 lawm

nrog kj tu siab thiab yeej yog tim kj thiab lawv twb tsi nyiam kj e kj ho kj yv thiab ce txhob tu siab tag2 thiab o nawb

I feel so sad not for you but for your wife. I can feel her pain 😭

Tu siab ua lauj li os,😔

Niam yog dev. Txiv yog aub. Thiaj ua tau lub neej seev lub neej saub!

Nyuam qhuav ntxim!

Koj tuag zoo dua!!!!…..Pweeeeeeeee

Tu sia hv

Wow...good story. It's sad that you both lived a loveless life for so many years. You had hoped that as time pass she would love you and in return she tortured you because she didn't get to be the the man she loved. Many of our older couples learn to just live without love nowadays younger couples just move on without looking back. Some traditions are good to keep, this one definitely is not one.

yog ner tus txiv ntxawm yeej hais yog

Koj ces nyiam qhuav haum xwb os. Leejtwg kom koj mus txeeb luag tus hluas nkauj. Yog kuv los kuv yeej tsis hlub thiab.

Very sad story but I don't blame her. Glad it's 2022 and this doesn't happen much anymore.

Ca yuav pab hlub koj tus poj niam ua luaj nrog nw tus siab kawg

Txhob xav tias Koj thiaj li txawj tu siab, Koj tus poj niam tseem tu siab tshaj Koj lawm thiab os.

Tus me nus tsis txhob tu siab mog mam mus nrhiav tus hlub hlub yus los ua lub neej mus ntxiv lub neej thiaj siab mog yus yog tus zoo yeej yuav tau qhov zoo

Wow… 😢koj siab ntev kawg

Tus txiv tsev kev hlub tsis yog kev quab yuam. Yog ib tug neeg tsis txaus siab hlub yus txhob yuam nws. Koj twb tsis nyiam lwm tus yuam koj es koj ho yuam koj poj niam ua dab tsi. Tso tseg mog.

Yog kawg lub neej li no kuv yog ib tug li ntawv thiab os leej twg tsis tau paub txhob meej tuag nawb

Yog tsis hlub tsis txhob yuav. Xum cia nws mus. Nkim sib hawm, nkim txoj kev hlub rau tus tseem ceeb

Neeg muaj kev npam yeej muaj muaj mob

Cas pab tus txiv tsev tu siab ua luaj os ,kV yos kj kV tsis uv mob los laug li no

Koj tus poj niam mas tseem tu siab tshaj koj. Koj yog tus txiav nws txoj hau kev thiab nkim nws lub neej. Txhua yam no yog tim koj thiab koj txiv neb ob leeg nkaus xwb.

Pab hlub koj tus poj niam ua luaj Tsis yog koj tu siab xwb nws haj yam tu Siab tshaj koj lawm ntau os yawm txiv aw...

Haubyau, twg kom yus mus yuav tus neeg tsi tau hlub yus ces kawg tau kev mob siab xwb mos pab tsi tau os

Kev txij nkawm tsis txhob quab yuam thiaj li tsis nyuaj siab. Cia nyias yuav tus nyias nyiam, nyiam thiaj li tsis tu siab. Yuav tau pauv tsis txhob zij li cov yav tag los lawm.

Vim koj muab ntshaw poj niam zoo nkauj dhau lmkoj thj mobli ko txhob tu siab heevheev o

Yog kj yuav tu siab tu siab 6 kj tus hkeej thiaj yog

Never force anyone to marry you without love…you choose a life without love and bear the pain and miserable all your life…you don’t have to listen to your parents…😩!

Txoj kev hlub ces muaj nuj nqi npaum no. Love can make you hold onto someone even when you’re miserable. And love can cross mountains and oceans. Love transcends time. Even when two bodies can’t be together love cannot be broken. The best love is when both of you love eachother. That love is like no other. Do not force someone to stay if they don’t love you. Do not force yourself to stay if they don’t love you

Cia kom muaj cov poj niam zoo li no thiaj li pauj tau o

Koj tus poj niam chim2 thiab tu22 siab tuag kus li os.nws twb qhia koj tias nws tsis nyiam koj es nws muaj hlua nraug lawm no los koj hom yuam yuav nws es neb 2 lub siab thiaj tau qhov mob siab tus siab os.vim yog cov lau txoj niag cai thauv xwb es thiaj mob neb 3 leeg lub siab los lau li no.mob siab #1 yog koj poj niam,mob siab #2 yog nws tus hluas nraug,koj tseem yog tus 3 os

Tau tu neeg yus tsi nyiam thiab tsi hlub yeej laj ua neej mu txog hnub kawg

Remember this.... qaib tsuas nrog tau qaib nyob. Os tsuas nrog tau os nyob.

To the owner of this story, what did you expect? Love cannot be force. I feel sooo sorry for your wife. She deserves the love she desire. As for you, you chose the sad life.

cov txiv neej es nws khav tias nws muaj nyiaj es pheej yuav mu tseeb luag tug ces li no maz tau luub cev xwb tsis tau lub siab los txhob tu siab os yus txaus yus siab mu yuav tus luag tsis hlub yus los txhob tu siab os

Thaub awd! Kuv yeej tsi qhuas koj nawb. Kuv nkag siab tus viv ncaus txoj kev xav. Koj xav tias koj yog nws ntshe koj yeej xav ib yam..

Tus txiv tsev, koj muab lub txim pov tsis tau rau koj tus poj niam thiab koj tu siab tsis tau rau nws vim nws yeej ib txwm hais rau koj tias nws tsis nyiam tsis hlub koj. Tsuas yog koj nyiam thiab hlub nws xwb. Koj yeej paub tias nws lub siab tsis tuag rau koj nws tsuas raug quab yuam yuav koj xwb. Yog muab tig es koj yog tus tsis nyiam nws tab sis nws nyiam thiab hlub koj ne koj puas ua li nws? Poj niam yog neeg thiab muaj siab muaj ntsws ib yam nkaus txiv neej thiab. Pab koj tu siab los ua neej xiam tiam, tsis tim leej twg yog tim koj xwb. Yog koj muaj siab ntsws ces koj twb nrauj nws es mus yuav tus phim thiab nyiam koj lawm.

Thaub cas yuav ruas ua luaj yug tsi mus yuav tug nyiam yug. Koj Niam tiab koj Txiv ruas tias2.

Ntxub Hmoob cov niam cov txiv thiab cov txiv neej Hmoob txoj kev yuam cai li no kawg li no rau cov ntxhais/ cov poj niam mas ua tau ntxim ntxub tiag. Luag twb tsis nyiam yus es yus yuam luag xwb ces tsis tau kev hlub los pab tsis tau. Too bad!!!

I don’t understand why these hmoob men are always complaining when you only forced them to married you. So sad for her. Her whole life is wasted forever. You think you tu siab, she mas haj yam tu siab. Her entire life is cheated. Stolen away. Cov pojniam es mag yuam ces nws lub neej ces zoo li tus neeg tuag tsis tu siav xwb os.

Bro- her beauty made you blind all your life! Stop complaining. Beauty is pain 👽👽

zoo kawg kiag. koj yog tus neeg siab phem yuam tus pojniam yuav koj. koj txiav neeg txoj kev sib hlub. tiam koj los raug npam, lwm tiam koj yuav raug yuav ua qhev

Twb paub tia nw tsi hlub kj ca tsi tso nw mu thaum ntxov nw tseem tu siab tshaj li kj tu 100 npaug

Nrog koj tu siab heev li os nawb...koj yog ib tu neeg siab zoo yog zoo li lwm tu txiv neej es twb yuav niam nyuaj lawm os nawb.

Kav tsij Cia nss tuag mus yus thiaj tau tus tshiab ov

Tus tsis tau ces yeej khuv xim. Tau tus tsis hlub los Yeej tu siab. Qhov zoo ces sib2 nyiam thiab sib2 hlub lawm mam li los ua neej Ua kev thiaj li tsis lwj siab txog hnub tuag. Txhob tu siab os tus me yawm txiv.

koj mas hais tias tu siab tab si ho ua neej txog hnub tuag ces yeej g tu siab li os yog tu siab npaum ko ces koj yeej nrauj lm os muab nws nrauj kom nws mus nws g txog twg nws thiaj khuv xim koj los pob nkim tag koj tiam no lawm lau xaiv kom tau tu hlub yus thiab pob

Ua licas koj tsis dai tuag yawg

I don’t know what I would do if I was in her shoes. Can’t imagine marrying someone I don’t love.

There you have it. Nothing is stronger than love. Stealing someone's love away will only bring misery because it's not true love. Lesson learned I hope for our culture. Sad thing is, all three never had the life they truly wanted.

I can’t blame the wife. You stole her from her lover and she made it clear she never wanted to marry you! She choose death over you! I feel super sad for her! May she find her boyfriend in her next life and for them to end up together.

niam qhuav txim cov niag txiv neej pheej npav muab nyiaj nplawm kom tau luag cov neeg zoo nkauj

Hate the og force marriage in the old days. I heard so much Suicide from that back then.

Lawv aw, Tus Neeg yus tsis nyiam Mas ua Neej Nyuaj Tiag Tiag li os Hmoob

Koj tsis tau pojniam lub siab hlub vim koj muab nyiaj yuam nws xwb. Neb 2 leeg thiaj tsis muaj kev hlub, tim koj xwb.

Ib yam li cov txiv neej siab phem2 thb mas

It's too late but anyone out there, don't pressure someone to marry you . She or he has to come willingly !!!

Hmoob txoj niag kev yuam yuav tus neeg tsis nyiam thb hlub yus na nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb mas

Koj tsuas paub koj txoj kev chim thiab kev tu siab xwb koj tsis paub txog koj tus poj niam txoj li os

This story is so sad both ways. My heart breaks for both of you guys.

Siaj lub qab ntuj no muaj tej tug poj hmoob lim hiam npaum ko nav yog koj xwb koj thiaj yuav los lau li ko yog kuv ces kuv twb muab pov tseg thaum ub lawm

I understand she didn't get to be with the love of her life.... she held that against her husband 4lyfe...... but lady..... don't you think that's how his wife feels with you being all crazy for her husband too.....

Peb cov hmoob pheej mus xij2 luag tej hluas nkauj ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb vim luaj yeej sib hlub sib nco tsuav tuag xwb los tus ua neej muaj nyiaj zog ces saib tsis taus tus txom nyem muab luam kiag tuag los yeej tsis care hais ntau ces tseem muab ncaws xwb ciam zoo li zaj neej neeg no thiaj li paub kev mob .

To all the Hmong men..its a lesson learned. Stop kidnapping and forcing hmoob women to marry you. They're human not animals.

I don't pity this dude at all, why don't they force him to marry someone he doesn't like so he can experience what his wife experience. He got canned in his own game. Unfortunately, love can't be forced. What a miserable life for both of them. What a waste!

Kuv cia siab tias tom ntej no cov neeg pheej tseem yuam tej mi tub mi ntxhais mus yuav tus lawv tsis nyiam yuav nkaj siab txhua yam..😔

Xav tias pojniam thiaj ntsib lub no xwb…txivneej tseem ntsib thiab

Yog kuv mas kuv tseem yuav tsim nyhav tshaj no...vim yuam yus yuav xwb..

Tus viv ncaus koj ua tau yog kawg lawm os vim muaj ntau2 tus txiv neej twb siab2 phem li no rau lawv cov niam lawm thiab ne

Never go for beautiful woman when you are not good looking yourself, money can't buy love always remember it. Some people always make a mistake for marrying beautiful woman and handsome man thinking they can buy love with money 💰 🤑 💸 wrong. Lessons learned you take life for granted by marrying wrong person hoping you can change her but instead you wasted your whole life for nothing.

Niag neeg dev siab mus yuam luag Los yuav tus gub xwb nyuam ghuav ntxim xwb , poj niam tuag tas lawm lox? Nws tib leeg thiaj muaj nceb xwb Los? Yawg hmoob npus Las aw !

Mens please learn from this story. Just because u like or love her don't mean she feels the same about u. Find someone who truly luv u. Very sad story

Tos koj tus poj niam tsis ntsjai koj los vim koj ua tsis taus txiv es thiaj zoo li no.

Tu siab kawg li os..........I feel sorry for both ends 😢the raw truth burns a depth only you know

Tu siab kawg

Ntuj aw cov neeg siabdev zoo li tus txivneej no ces nyuamqhuav ntxim. Luag yeej muaj luag ibtug zoo zoo. Twg kom koj mus txeeb nws, yuam nws yuav. Chim kuv thiab laiv. Koj txiav nws txojkev hlub koj yuamcai nrog nws ua neej, nws tsis hlub ibsim neej li os. Cas koj ho siab dev li ko es yuam nws yuav koj? Zoo li koj ces qhuavntxim

I'm not sad for you but for your wife. I was forced to married my husband. After 27th years of marriage, I still not be able to force myself to love my husband. Koj yeej paub hais tias luag tsi nyiam es yus yuam luag yuav xwb ces yeej kawg li ko.

Txiv ntxawm aw koj lob nrhab rau koj taub hau lawm nes vim cas koj hos mus yuam tus tsis hlub koj yuav koj mas koj rhuav tsem nkawv txoj kev hlub ces txog thaum kawg koj txoj kev mob xwb tsis yog tau kev hlub. Txob tu siab rau koj tus poj niam os tu siab rau koj tus kheej.

Koj yeej paub tias nws yog luag tus hlub tiag2 es koj ho los txeeb ces tau lub cev xwb los txaus siab mas koj na tim koj xwb

You should trust her since the beginning that she rejected you then you won't be hurting until the day she passed away.

ความรุ้สึกเราเขาไม่รุ้

You deserve what you got because you force her to marry you

Luas twb mual 1 tug hlub2 luag lawm es cas koj tsi muaj peev xwm ho mus ntshiav 1 tug hlub2 koj na? Txoj kev mus txweb luag tus ces ua neej tsi sov siab tshuav txoj sia tsi tu xwb os.

Dude, you did it to yourself. She was completely honest with you, but you chose not to believe her. For you, you need to let go. This is such a sad story for both of you. The only person I feel sorry for is the wife of the ex-boyfriend. That poor woman had to put up with all three of you.

Zaj dab neeg no hai tau tu siab tshaj plwas mi nus 😭😭💔💔😭😭

If it's that bad I don't think you would still be with her. But your fault for marrying someone who didn't love you

What a miserable life for both of you. The choice to stay is also both your faults so you both drown in each other’s misery. The children are always used as excuse and it shouldn’t be. How sad. Don’t do this to your children. Let them have a choice. Learn from this. Men don’t ever force someone to marry you when they don’t want or love you. Same thing for women, don’t marry one who doesn’t feel the same about you or make you a priority.

Txiv hlob koj niag niam tsis mob dab tsi os yog nwg npam thiaj mob tsev me nyuam tuag xwb nws yeej xum tuag cia nws tuag nws mus

Wow...

Yus tsua nros yus ruam thiab. Thiaj lis UA lub neeb tsis muaj kev zoo siab ib sim neej lis. Nkim ob lub neej tag ib sim. Xiam tias.

Tu siab kawg os tus yawm txiv 😭 Cas koj tsis muab nws nrauj es koj mus nriam tus hlub koj os

I'm sorry but I don't feel sorry for you. What do you expect when your force someone to marry you? Would you be happy to live the rest of your life with someone you have absolutely no feelings for & have someone else you love?? Don't expect to be loved when we're forced into a marriage unwillingly.