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@vivianblack2951 4 ай бұрын

I was selling my father's house that my brother messed up and the real estate man came into the house and lectured me about the mess. I lived 8 hours away, my Dad had just died and I was in tears. I fired that guy and hired a woman who listed the house and helped with resources and was sympathetic to the situation, instead of being judgemental. Sometimes you have to earn your commission more than other times.

@coolcat121999 2 ай бұрын

Happy you fired him he didn’t care about you just saw dollar signs

@user-mz8df2tp1w 2 ай бұрын

Good for you for not taking that. Hopefully the dude learned an important lesson thanks to you!

@dianethompson2458 4 ай бұрын

Hoarding is a mental illness, and people who suffer from it, in my opinion, should never be judged. The compassion shown by the cleaners was so gracious of them. No one is perfect. My house is spotless, and all of my possessions were recently moved to my new furnished room in the back of a mini van. That being said, I have very severe anxiety which causes me to clean all the time. We all have issues of one kind or another. We all hope to be treated with care and compassion. Treat others as you wish to be treated yourself was the one lesson that my British Gran taught me that I follow to this day. Thanks for reading this. Best wishes to all three hoarders for a better life from Canada.

@janehoefle5151 4 ай бұрын

Honor ALL men...KJV. I've come to learn honoring does not mean agreeing. But I agree it is important people are respected.

@GrinderMagee 3 ай бұрын

You must be a person who has never been abused by one of these “mentally ill” people. The clutter is just one part of their sick mental and emotional abuse.

@leahtv7778 Ай бұрын

No, they should be judged. Coddling only harms them further. Duh

@patriciahadley2374 Ай бұрын

I know that being almost fanatical about cleanliness and hygiene can be sometimes stressful and tiring for you, but believe me, whoever falls in your footsteps will be very grateful to you. 😍

@audreym3777 25 күн бұрын

Very kind post for you to make. As the daughter of an obsessed cleaner (who instilled that every item has value) I now have too much stuff…it’s not trash, or animal dripping and the like, but it truly is overwhelming. Most of my “stuff” is items from several now deceased family members. It can’t be tossed, donated…so letting go is far from east. I envy those who have no connections to the items left from loved ones.

@painpatientsaddiction3640 4 ай бұрын

My heart goes out to anyone that suffers from that. After my mom died 2 years ago I can't seen to motivate myself to do things. I know things need done but it's so hard

@carolg.6838 4 ай бұрын

Speaking from my own experience, grief and depression are very difficult. Two years is not very long at all after the death of a parent, the first year was the most difficult. Might help to do routine things like dishes, laundry, as these don't require decisions) And eating well...even if you don't want to.

@greendodgy 4 ай бұрын

It's okay to ask for help.

@user-ek5ds9ty1f 2 ай бұрын

U have the right motivation now .start folding and boxing and out

@alanbirkner1958 4 ай бұрын

Near O'Hare airport. I just took 2 bags of stuff to the e-recycling. Another box is ready for Goodwill. Every day, I get rid of at least 20 items. Clothes, papers, tchotchkes, they just pile up. 3 of us are in a 2BR apartment. Tina, Al's wife

@shainazion4073 4 ай бұрын

These shows have really helped those of us that hold onto things to let go!!

@ScubaFanatic60 3 ай бұрын

Amazes me how hoarders get so upset when things they haven't seen or used in years are in the trash pile and they decide they really need each item. It's definitely a mental disorder.

@user-mz8df2tp1w 2 ай бұрын

Nice user icon!

@kyliechapman7446 Ай бұрын

I'm currently in the process of preparing to move , these videos have truly helped me to let go of things that have held onto for far too long ....it has helped me to put things into perspective. I'm grateful for the hoarders who allowed their houses to be filmed ....it has been a helpful eye opener.

@sophiegolden 4 ай бұрын

I m on a no buy, In reality, it s really difficult, it s a real addiction...but I m proud of myself... In the same time I declutter and organize my home. Those videos are really welcomed 👍🏻

@deniseroe5891 4 ай бұрын

I agree with Cass And Tea, my son gives up and does the cleaning. My daughter in law is messy, neither was raised to live like this. She has trouble getting rid of clothes and has kept 80% of clothes from their kids in case the next one needs them. Thankfully I am more of a purger sometimes to my detriment. I have lost both parents and in December I lost my husband. I don’t have an attachment to stuff, it was to the person. This is a mental illness and they need therapy along with cleaning.

@kreh1100 4 ай бұрын

These cleaners are angels ❤❤❤

@mamabear1187 4 ай бұрын

These make me so sad: but I watch them to make sure I never get like this…

@stanleycostello9610 4 ай бұрын

I love the way Mary says "Lass" to Joy.

@SweetUniverse 4 ай бұрын

My mother was the same. She had emotional attachments to things- not people- to objects & she died that way.

@prrr446 4 ай бұрын

I feel for you. It is sad.Wish you well.

@greyferguson9319 4 ай бұрын

Less stuff, more life

@natalieholdsworth4420 3 ай бұрын

I’m sorry to hear this , I hope you are in good place

@GrinderMagee 3 ай бұрын

It’s the same for many people with hoarding disorder. Their own children don’t mean a thing compared to a bin of “stuff”. Just like a crack head. The difference is, people can understand how dangerous crack heads are, they think hoarders just need help cleaning, but it’s much more than that.

@Ohhhwehere Ай бұрын

my parents are like that. I don't really have any relation to them anymore

@katsiduzynski488 4 ай бұрын

If Seth could just get rid of the legit food garbage, keep his stovetop area clean, that would be a huge positive step. The rest can follow as he learns to be neater.

@juliecox984 4 ай бұрын

Can’t think right due to the mold.

@simply.clutterfree 4 ай бұрын

It looked like the kitchen was full of mold?

@cathtf7957 4 ай бұрын

Very dangerous and debilitating breathing any mold.

@felly5702 4 ай бұрын

Barbara is not a hoarder,she has a big trauma .

@heidihernandez5895 4 ай бұрын

By far my fav episode. I think joy is so sweet and would be fun to get to know. The young man, where is the wife? She couldn’t face the camera and help?

@TwinBleaks 2 ай бұрын

LOL she waa probably ashamed, being a cleaner by profession.

@kenpage1107 4 ай бұрын

Seth isn't a hoarder, he's just lazy.

@rubyruby1847 4 ай бұрын

I agree. Seth and his wife just need to regularly fill a few garbage bags and do some basic housework. They're not hoarders. They're just not cleaning up after themselves.

@susanpeters1092 3 ай бұрын

And they got a free clean up!!!

@KJxxoo 2 ай бұрын

I agree. I have 2 toddlers and my house doesn’t even get that bad. Even when I was working nights and getting up to 2 small children I still found the motivation to get basic cleaning done.

@patriciahadley2374 4 ай бұрын

What kind of pension do these people have to be able to buy so many things?

@leahtv7778 Ай бұрын

Not sure but they also pick up a lot of trash and hoard it. And a lot of the stuff they buy is cheap af to start. But yeah, it seems like an absurd amount of purchases even if you buy secondhand!!

@Ohhhwehere Ай бұрын

they probably dont, but if you buy a new blouse 4 times a week and never trow it away, in one year you would have over 200 blouses, its not that they buy an insane amount, they just never throw anything away

@tkatrich3 26 күн бұрын

I think they partially dedicate money that should be for stuff like house maintenance or a doctor or car servicing to hoarding instead. But also my grandfather used to steal out of people's hard rubbish so he didn't really "buy" anything. And I mean now days all the fast fashion, crappy products etc for someone with a problem. Not to mention imagine if you or I refused to take the garbage out for one year. Or organise at least a couple of "hard wastes" over ten years our houses would look just as terrible.

@arianekelly2633 20 күн бұрын

Alot of them have a thrifting problem and will spend WAY too much at thrift shops

@in9170 3 ай бұрын

Those clean as a whistle cleaners and Seth’s cleaners were incredible. The truths Seth’s cleaners told………they need to make the time to work together to cleanup every day….50|50 🎯🎯🎯🎯Seth’s Mum 🎯🎯🎯🔥🔥🔥

@annamariehewitt3173 3 ай бұрын

Hoarders consider each piece in their Hoard to be a living breathing entity that they have a personal relationship with...

@audreym3777 25 күн бұрын

Are you a hoarder? If not, how do you know what they think or consider?

@user-yo5ui5lw7p 4 ай бұрын

If the man's wife is a cleaner,why hasn't she cleaned her own home?😒He couldn't have made all that mess himself.🤨Also,I think Barbara has anger issues&needs help.😖Joy seems like a sweet lady.😊

@heidihernandez5895 4 ай бұрын

That’s what I was thinking.

@TessJordan-lp5sc 2 ай бұрын

Why does everyone seem to think it should be the wife? She cleans all day long! Last thing you want to do is clean some more, when the other person in the relationship is just leaving everything for you to do alone.

@laureldiane1364 Ай бұрын

The one lady cleans all day for her job then comes home to a pigsty. Imagine having to clean another few hours every night.

@user-yo5ui5lw7p Ай бұрын

@@TessJordan-lp5sc Don't do it for others,if u can't do it for your own family.

@user-yo5ui5lw7p Ай бұрын

@@laureldiane1364 As a mom of 3,who also homeschools,&has a husband on disability,u don't know anything about what I do.

@kathleenlucht1921 4 ай бұрын

Thank you. All worked very hard! 🌹

@greyferguson9319 4 ай бұрын

So many items to donate and help other people. Hoarding seems sort of selfish.

@leahtv7778 Ай бұрын

They also impose on their neighbors with their hoards.

@frothe42 4 ай бұрын

I wouldn't have done an evaluation until all the hoard has been rid of.

@audreym3777 25 күн бұрын

What’s truly underestimated is that the same people who have great emotional attachment to items related to loved ones, are the same ones who bring to this planet empathy. To be an empath is a blessing and a curse as you feel EVERYTHING, including others sadness….so to let go of things can often mean letting go of the memory/person and that’s a heavy burden to bear…for empaths. And I’m not talking about a collection of trash or animal feces and the like…but watching that lady hold the teddy bear brought it home.

@heikemckelvey6863 4 ай бұрын

His wife is a cleaner and she's OK with that? What is the one woman doing with strollers, toys as she doesn't have children?

@riseevolution 4 ай бұрын

yeah really strange!

@prrr446 4 ай бұрын

Chapeau! This man is the first hoarder i hear say he is lazy. I compliment him for his honesty! All these people have too much to spend and do have overweight.

@trinitywahyu8740 3 ай бұрын

The hoardes are angels when they give their things away to the people in need. ❤❤❤

@DRventura333 4 ай бұрын

It's always when someone passes or someone is very ill and you are the caretaker. But it doesn't stop to detriment of many, either mentally or physical illness/incapacity, due to the hoarding. Hope she is able to release the pain of her Son and Husband's loss.

@DominionFenrir 4 ай бұрын

I feel so bad for Barbara. What a sad lot in life.

@user-zt5do4mi9d 2 ай бұрын

I made a previous comment about this before watching it nothing funny about grief I know from experience l have had to much grief I know I'm alone in this best wishes to all going through this

@getin3949 3 ай бұрын

I'd like to have all of the cash these people have spent on "stuff". They must be loaded to be able to keep buying and buying. If they would put that energy into doing something for the poor or volunteer to work in a soup kitchen they might feel "happy." Doing for others always makes YOU feel good.

@tkatrich3 26 күн бұрын

My granddad used to steal out of peoples hard waste collections. My grandmother used to be obsessed with the junk in those Chinese $2 shops. That's how they afforded it.

@marie34K Күн бұрын

And one of them said it’s been 40 years , so you can accumulate tons without spending a lot every month

@gulnarayun 3 ай бұрын

Oh, I do like the fact that the team's brought Mary on board! I remember her from one of the previous episodes.

@theropesofrenovation9352 4 ай бұрын

If she won't let go of anything, then leave. Let her brew on that!

@gillianbrookwell1678 4 ай бұрын

There's always loads of excuses for these hoarders; I'm in my 70's, I have chronic Osteoporosis. Like many, I've lost loved ones too, and my marriage ended, yet my home is spotless and clutter free. Hoarding, being a mental health issue can't be cured, and 90% of hoarders will continue to hoard and re hoard for the rest of their lives.

@triggeredcat120 4 ай бұрын

It’s considered a mental illness. People cope with things differently. You should have a little more compassion from such a comment of ignorance.

@17lage 4 ай бұрын

As a former hoarder myself, I can tell you the reason behind making "excuses" is mostly due to shame and embarrassment. It's hard to tell people that you hoard because of mental illness, or that you're afraid of further loss or because you suffer depression. It's so much easier to say that you suffer MS or arthritis, people tend to understand better if its due to physical rather than mental pain. You'd be surprised at how many people think mental illness isn't real.

@samanthastaley8836 4 ай бұрын

Just like drug or alcohol addiction, hording is never cured, you take it one day at a time. I have lived in a clean home for just over a year. I will notice clutter starting to build and then panic clean. It's going to take me a long time to become "normal" but I'll always be a horder

@GrinderMagee 3 ай бұрын

They gaslight, manipulate, lie and abuse their loved ones for DECADES to justify the behaviors. You have to experience it firsthand to understand how demented the minds of these sick people can be.

@sandi4215 2 ай бұрын

Well aren’t you nice 😒

@anemarie2984 3 ай бұрын

I Wonder where they find the money ? GIVE ME A HINT ?

@paulademarco1585 4 ай бұрын

No one contact donation places to pick up items?

@jb6712 4 ай бұрын

Most donation facilities won't take hoarder items simply because of the risks of bed bugs, roaches, mouse excrement and urine, fly and other insect dirt....they can't have that filth contaminating their facilities, and who in their right mind wants to try and clean it all? No laundry facilties want the obviously mistreated and nasty-filthy garments in their places of businesses, not with all the awful things the fabrics must harbor, including such things as hanta virus from mice, not to mention what rats have likely done to everything!

@17lage 4 ай бұрын

What's the point of blurring out the company names when they say who they are anyway??

@vickiesmith3021 Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your video.

@getin3949 3 ай бұрын

JOY has never been ahead of her hoard and neither has any of these other people. To say "shopping is my life" is about the saddest thing a person could say. Buy someone else something instead of adding to your hoard. At least the guy admits that he's lazy. Finally an honest individual. From my experience with men, most of them would never change their sheets or clean the toilet. Men are basically hunter gatherers and somewhat piggy.

@sawahtb 7 күн бұрын

Seth's health is extremely poor, he's only 28.

@prrr446 4 ай бұрын

The cleaners ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤! ! !

@user-zt5do4mi9d 2 ай бұрын

One positive about hoarders,no one can break in! Great security!!!

@helenamulder6977 Ай бұрын

😂😅

@donnasummers6534 4 ай бұрын

17:57 lazy lazy lazy. Throw stuff away. The wife being a cleaner why wont she help clean their house.

@TessJordan-lp5sc 2 ай бұрын

Likely because she feels like Seth takes it for granted that she will do the cleaning, when both of them should be doing their part. I used to clean for a living, and all day long I would clean up after other people. You know what I didn't want to do when I got home?

@lashundahouston7910 14 күн бұрын

Hoarders don't take baths

@patriciaducharme7801 4 ай бұрын

Who pays for this?

@myoldvhstapes 4 ай бұрын

The TV show does.

@user-ek5ds9ty1f 2 ай бұрын

Good going

@Bcaus3_ Ай бұрын

I could have went with out seeing the maggots 🤮

@montypython32 4 ай бұрын

Take the people somewhere away from their homes and let the cleaners get on with their jobs obviously the cleaners can put aside personal papers

@gerdaoomens2878 4 ай бұрын

That will not change anything for the hoarder, no it s a illness..they do need to see the root of their habbits..

@prrr446 4 ай бұрын

The second woman was not that tired to not go shopping 🤣 I should get extremely tired to fill up my home like that.Both ladies better go to a hair dresser. They both can look so much better! They have extremely many clothing but do not have any sophisticated fashion style. They simply have no clue. They both are ready for a make over.

@jb6712 4 ай бұрын

You're hyper critical of them, but you are very obviously utterly imperfect. English may not be your first language, but if you're going to make rude and unkind comments, then at least learn proper grammar and syntax before you make them!

@cathtf7957 4 ай бұрын

When you have anxiety disorder, greif and depression, maybe you don't care too much about yourself.

@ScubaFanatic60 3 ай бұрын

I'm so glad I don't enjoy shopping. I don't browse on Amazon, I get what I went on there to buy.

@carstenkh 4 ай бұрын

Most of the hoarders are plain and simply lazy, they sit and complain, get up and start clearing out - garbage first of all.....

@grinning_owl 3 ай бұрын

@24:45 "We just don't have the space." That statement defines the "REAL" problem. It's not that so-called hoarders have too many things and should remove some from their homes. It's just that they need more space in which to house the things they have acquired and wish to keep. If a person owns one million dollar bills but has only enough space in his/her wallet to hold 100 bills, the solution is not to throw or give away those bills that won't fit in that space, but to obtain a more spacious wallet.

@ghhtdesfh 4 ай бұрын

Hoard, hoard, hoard!

@getin3949 3 ай бұрын

These people have odd taste in decorating. Nothing seems to go together and there is a mish mash of all kinds of colors and textures. WOW, not my cup of tea.