Hoarders: 40 TONS of Junk From 52 Years Of Hoarding

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Tim has amassed 40 tons of junk from 52 years of hoarding in this clip from Season 12, Episode 6, "Tim".
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@juniorjake3818 3 жыл бұрын

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@chelongogan3904 2 жыл бұрын

May the Lord bless you and keep you, may His face shine upon you and give you PEACE ✨

@itsacarolbthing5221 3 жыл бұрын

Tim clearly, as a retired psychologist, *knows best* and is a master manipulator. He shuts down his wife and doesn't allow her to have a choice and he turns around everything that anyone says.

@rbud57 2 жыл бұрын

Gaslighter, for sure, I'll bet.

@gentlegiants04 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. He made sure to shut his wife down totally, the minute anyone tried to ask her about her feelings/opinions.

@Hiwaii224 2 жыл бұрын

Did anyone hear her have a full conversation with anyone?

@annwilliams6438 2 жыл бұрын

Yup. Classic narcissist. She needs to divorce him.

@ENFPerspectives 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly what thought. Knew how to spin what everyone said against them. The psychologists deserve gold medals.

@lindaj171 3 жыл бұрын

If Tim's wife is fragile, it's because he's destroyed her sense of self. He's a selfish old man who took advantage of her ill health to hoard up the house.

@VintageRose75 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, and so proud of it while he was describing it, too. Like, he was getting revenge for her not allowing the first half of their marriage. Makes me so mad. He's despicable. Poor Wilhelmina. 😞

@Jibbie49 3 жыл бұрын

I assume he bought the house across the street 30 yrs ago, when Code Enforcement came down on him about the hoarded yard. In 15 yrs he had that 2nd place full, then she probably had a stroke that left her catatonic and thus he was able to start filling up the inside of the house. He sounded "elated" that he was finally able to do that.

@lindamusser7370 3 жыл бұрын

He's lucky she didn't hit him with that 2x4.

@VeganJustToAnnoyYou 3 жыл бұрын

Yes. This is what happened to most women in the 30-40-50-60-70-s. They had no choice.

@andrewlenihan6548 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree.

@belindaroberts3090 3 жыл бұрын

He seems like he would be a nice guy at first, but he's a bully. He isn't being protective of his wife, he's being controlling. Won't even let her speak for herself.

@Brucev7 3 жыл бұрын

He runs on two rails

@Brucev7 3 жыл бұрын

@Sunny Quackers Are you OK? Why do you say that?

@missbutterfree 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@happydays310 2 жыл бұрын

Typical gas lighter.

@makali13 2 жыл бұрын

@Sunny Quackers And you're a nice person? Shut up Sunny and go to a therapist instead of spazzing out on reality tv videos on KZfaq.

@AnnikaOBrien 2 жыл бұрын

When Tim said “don’t change me” she should have run the other direction. Everyone adapts to their partner when they get married - Tim used his education to keep his wife from having any opinions, expressing desires or being healthy in exchange for buying and filling their home with dangerous trash. She’s clearly in distress and has nobody to help her out of this situation. He’ll never change, he said so 52 years ago.

@tarag7292 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. When someone says "don't change me," that typically means that there are toxic behaviors that they don't want to change and they expect the other person to put up with it no matter how deeply and painfully it affects them.

@CreditR01 2 жыл бұрын

When someone shows you who they really are, believe them. :(

@gillianbrookwell1678 2 жыл бұрын

Sadly he won't ever change; they never do, even when their marriage breaks up, as mine did after forty years, partly because of my husband's constant hoarding.

@gillianbrookwell1678 2 жыл бұрын

@@CreditR01 I agree. I wish I'd listened to my wise Aunt when she said, 'Your husband will never change.' He didn't, but it took me 40 years to pluck up the courage to leave.

@val_nightlily 2 жыл бұрын

@@gillianbrookwell1678 Better late than never. Well done. 👏

@marinadubois7347 2 жыл бұрын

He knows he’s sucked the life out of her and enjoyed it. He chuckled when he said his wife was too sick to stop him from hoarding their house. The stress of living with him probably impacted her physical and mental health. He stopped his wife from talking by berating the therapist for asking a simple, standard shrink question. “How does Wilhelmina feel”? That question threatened him.

@queenbee3647 2 жыл бұрын

Fragile ego.

@baileydavenport744 2 жыл бұрын

man, you said it! emotional vampire to the max.

@christinebravomom5711 Жыл бұрын

This is what I thought when they said she had become catatonic. That's like one step short of suicide.

@tweetscotchy1093 3 жыл бұрын

When the hoarder is intelligent, educated and well-spoken, this process is FAR more difficult. His disorder has been so ingrained and rationalized for so long that he can not always see it in himself. I feel for his wife!

@brianlanders5306 3 жыл бұрын

I agree, she's the victim of a spouses mental health disorder, but she didn't give up on him, which is surprising when divorce seems the easy way out. I think she's more deserving of therapy for putting up with him so long. A lot of that stuff was recyclable, they could've gotten enough money to at least pay the helpers.

@birdieorourke5507 3 жыл бұрын

@@brianlanders5306 that is what annoyed him about the good timber plank. I thought the same scrap metal and cars , motor homes, pumps, and iron. Think he probably bought them all. The 10 foot 2 by 4 was a timber that was just dumped. No wonder he was a bit annoyed.Usuable material.They were rude too.

@mcdanielwright9172 3 жыл бұрын

Wow 🤩nice comments You comments so good where are you from?

@tweetscotchy1093 3 жыл бұрын

@@mcdanielwright9172 Washington state, USA.

@birdieorourke5507 3 жыл бұрын

@@tweetscotchy1093 I now pronounce you Robin McDaniel....dah da da dah 😃

@liamchandler1907 2 жыл бұрын

Given how he talked down to everyone, the idea of him being a practicing psychologist is frightening

@marinam.2293 2 жыл бұрын

It is frightening, I was thinking that while watching. Someone who knows how to twist around everything you say, and sounds so intelligent and knowledgeable while doing it...he shouldn't be around anyone who's emotionally vulnerable.

@braveheart7203 2 жыл бұрын

It is easier to help others than it is yourself. Your mental health conditions don’t necessarily affect your work with clients, but applying the same theory to yourself can be extremely difficult. This affects his personal mental health, that’s why he reacts so strongly. He’d probably be completely different with clients.

@dysonmadison1016 2 жыл бұрын

Yes indeed !!!

@dietotaku 2 жыл бұрын

@@braveheart7203 at the same time, there are absolutely people who get into the psychology field because it affords them an opportunity to manipulate and control others and boost their own ego.

@uyoebyik 2 жыл бұрын

He's a narcissist

@isabelchaparro2608 3 жыл бұрын

Omg he is taking advantage of his wife’s failing health so he can continue to hoard. He even got defensive when his wife was asked how she felt about the board 🤦🏻‍♀️

@emmacassidy8482 3 жыл бұрын

100%

@lisefrydenlund4147 3 жыл бұрын

100%. I got angry, they had been married for over 50 year, his wife is sick, do ut for her, at least.

@KATingler 3 жыл бұрын

my point exactly.

@purpleflametarot39 3 жыл бұрын

He was the one stressing her out, but he didn't want that acknowledged.

@kellyshaw5428 2 жыл бұрын

Tbh when he was telling them that she's fragile I got the feeling that he was infantilizing her as a form of abuse to keep her dependent on him. He's a control freak.

@graceaxisa4213 2 жыл бұрын

Tim forbidding his wife to convey and express her feelings about his hoard is cruel and manipulative. His claim that he is protecting his wife from the emotional impact of Dr Zasio's question is just a load of rubbish!

@psilver Жыл бұрын

even sadder is she probably believes him when he says he’s standing up for her. not realizing he’s isolating her

@janesmith9024 Жыл бұрын

I think he knew that she would say what everyone around her wanted her to say though so I was not 100% sure his comment was as bad as it seemed. Despite that he never seems to consider her feelings - she wants it gone so why cannot he let it all go to be kind to her? I am sick of people with mental ilness being selfish and everyone having to be so nice to them as if others around them don't count.

@emmalynne7851 3 жыл бұрын

It's obvious his wife is emotionally abused and he is extremely controlling.

@brianlanders5306 3 жыл бұрын

You're right to a point, but she knew he had a problem before they were married and she thought she would change him, which never works.

@frelnc 3 жыл бұрын

Oh - no doubt. That confrontation he had with Corey and Dr. Z was a giant red flag as to just who they were dealing with. He spoke about her as if she was an object - not a human being with feelings. There's no doubt that her catatonia was exacerbated (not caused-it's most often caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain) by him!!

@katymcginn4644 3 жыл бұрын

@@frelnc 💜 MY HEART TRULY BREAKS FOR HER 😢 HE'S SO CONTROLLING & VERY CONDESCENDING. I CAN SEE THE SADNESS IN HER EYES. I PRAY THAT SHE TRULY FINDS PEACE 🙏🤗😇💜💜💜

@laurenm9956 3 жыл бұрын

I have no doubt that this living situation is a big part of what made her ill.

@brianlanders5306 3 жыл бұрын

@@cristinaeus3845 : So, do you want to live with me? I didn't think so, so your comment doesn't make any sense. He's a manipulative fool, most women can see right through that if they're not desperate. His wife was desperate.

@frelnc 3 жыл бұрын

Tim will re-hoard as soon as he gets the opportunity. We learn halfway through the project that his friends and family have "helped" him TWICE before to declutter his home and properties. Dr. Z was right when she said he isn't interested in changing, he's interested in keeping his stuff.

@mcdanielwright9172 3 жыл бұрын

Wow 🤩nice comments You comments so good where are you from?

@sunniedaize3445 3 жыл бұрын

@@mcdanielwright9172 Can you stop please? This isn't a dating site.

@smileyone1612 2 жыл бұрын

@@sunniedaize3445 😀😆😄😂

@blessedbeyoutubeministries5267 2 жыл бұрын

@@sunniedaize3445 why? Everyone's free to pursue a connection

@patriciafry8634 2 жыл бұрын

Very true. My experience with serious hoarders is that they have a will of iron, and care for no one but themselves. He will continue to hoard, and I could tell it was bs about agreeing to go to therapy. They will evict him from the second house for sure. Yes , it’s a mental illness, but one not quickly or easily resolved.

@Survivor-mf1nm 3 жыл бұрын

Word of advice -- Leave someone, before they turn you catatonic.

@Picca65 3 жыл бұрын

Or in any other mental or fysical illness.

@EVERGLOW828 3 жыл бұрын

@@Picca65 physical illness ♥️

@Jibbie49 3 жыл бұрын

Google says catatonic can be a result of a stroke. They've been married 52 yrs, so I'd think they are pass 72 at this point, or even older as he had gone to Graduate School.

@Picca65 3 жыл бұрын

@@EVERGLOW828 thanks. English isn't my first language.

@rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 2 жыл бұрын

Catatonic appears to be a result of severe narcissistic abuse...hoarding can be categorized as narcissistic sociopathic mental disorder.

@dbentleyto95 3 жыл бұрын

He wears the problems with the authorities like a badge and seems proud of it. He is an amazing manipulator.

@Picca65 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, he is proud of it. He is an abusive jerk.

@Brucev7 3 жыл бұрын

that comes from insecurity, which builds up in pride

@suzymarshall4898 3 жыл бұрын

His poor wife. She had a medical issue and he used her inattentiveness to hoard the home. Because she was catatonic he got to be greedy. Horribly selfish and such a waste of money.

@lifeseries7944 3 жыл бұрын

@@Brucev7 Exactly.

@shaniadirstein3650 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I thought when he said "30 years" he sounded smug

@Danni611 2 жыл бұрын

I've never had such a physical reaction to a show before. I was with a guy like Tim once (as in manipulative, not a hoarder). Living with that kind of gaslighting, derision and inflated sense of self importance was difficult. Getting away from him was equally difficult. My dog is also perminantly changed after living with him, even over 3 years later. I was shaking with anger by the end of this. I'm worried about that shell of a woman living with him. Those shots of her sitting in that junk filled room on her own made me tear up. That guy is toxic.

@scmontgomery Жыл бұрын

I'm glad you got out

@janesmith9024 Жыл бұрын

I agree although she had had catatonia so probably has resulting disability so a bit hard to work out what is caused by the husband and what by that.

@a.kara0101 2 жыл бұрын

Oh Whilimena 💛 Those photos of her smiling made me cry 😭. She seems like such a sweet soul. It’s so sad to see all that joy drained out of her.

@gregoryh9442 Жыл бұрын

I agree. She seems like someone I would love to have as a neighbor. But without Tim.

@declamatory 3 жыл бұрын

When he told her to not try to change him, she should have run away!

@brianlanders5306 3 жыл бұрын

You got that right, and never look back, because that should've been her first warning sign.

@aedooland1824 3 жыл бұрын

GIANT red flag right there.

@sylvia6959 2 жыл бұрын

is it a red flag? why? bc the statement acknowledges that something is wrong w him?

@ijustrealllylikecats 2 жыл бұрын

That's literally an upfront warning that there's going to be something wrong in the relationship, but worded in a manipulative way. Tim is extremely manipulative.

@ijustrealllylikecats 2 жыл бұрын

@@sylvia6959 It's not a red flag that it acknowledges that there's something wrong. It's a red flag that it acknowledges something being wrong with no intention of ever working on it. He could have just said "I have qualities that I know will make you unhappy, but you'll have to just deal with it because I don't want to even try to come to a compromise on any of it. But I'll buy you whatever you want so you can't complain."

@shannonbuchanan1843 3 жыл бұрын

He's one those "i'm better than you" psychologist

@jakob9292 3 жыл бұрын

I mean, he's got more experience in psychology/therapy then Robin has been alive, and she's atleast 40

@LisaJohnson-dx1dp 3 жыл бұрын

A.K.A., a liberal.

@tonyarichards5430 3 жыл бұрын

The worst kind.

@summersojourner 3 жыл бұрын

@@LisaJohnson-dx1dp and a California liberal to boot! They can’t see the forest for the trees!

@emmacassidy8482 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing how self serving he is

@ranitatodd 2 жыл бұрын

What a selfish, narcissistic, ungrateful, old codger! I feel so sorry for his poor wife. Very sad she wasted her life on someone like him.

@mmegraham Жыл бұрын

Maybe, in the afterlife, he'll have to complete ALL the projects he envisioned when he hoarded all this crud.

@carolannpacificadam1944 Жыл бұрын

She would probably end up in a psych ward if her reality hit

@tonyarichards5430 3 жыл бұрын

I always feel so bad for the neighbors who had to live near this.

@petmomful2260 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, because they probably want to move, but cannot sell their house with that mess nearby. Also it probably lowers their property value. Truly a selfish man.

@kaseys2004 2 жыл бұрын

It does lower the property value. My parents house would be an easy $180,000 with the building my dad has but nope because of the neighbors he's lucky if they would get $80,000. Then the insect, mice, and flea issues are insane. My dad is constantly spraying his and my yard to try to keep them out. (I live across the street). The neighbors have ruined our values. I could easily invest $50,000 into my home updating the kitchen and making it really nice but I'd get no return value in selling it bc of them. I have to look at their place everyday and i have since they moved in when I was 5. I'm 35 years old now. Its pathetic, frustrating, and sad

@pauline4581 2 жыл бұрын

I live next door to a hoarder. It is awful.

@Rain_dear 2 жыл бұрын

@@kaseys2004 have they been reported? I would until something was done! I'm sorry you have to deal with that!

@kaseys2004 2 жыл бұрын

@@Rain_dear There house has been like that since they moved in and i was about 5. I'm 35 yrs old now. Until it falls in nothing will be done. The kids putting a metal roof over the old shingle one without replacing saw to that. Its fluctuated over the years. Sometimes its not bad sometimes it is. She plans to give it to her grand daughter i believe in February. I know then something will change bc she complains about it a lot. So its one of those time will change it. I hate an HOA i don't want someone pestering me if i cut the grass at 3" instead of 2". I wouldn't mind some rules but u cant have that without establishing one and no one wants to pay someone $150-$500/month to be bossed around

@danielledriffill-shelmidin2098 3 жыл бұрын

Tim was not only incredibly rude to his wife, but rude to Dr. Zazio.... to question her credibility in helping his wife was incredibly disrespectful... I also think Tim is a huge risk of relapse

@mcdanielwright9172 3 жыл бұрын

Wow 🤩nice comments You comments so good where are you from?

@wioi 3 жыл бұрын

@@mcdanielwright9172 uuum.. Are you alright dude? Or why you write the same comment everywhere?

@sarcasticallyrearranged 2 жыл бұрын

He’s an old school misogynistic man, who thinks women aren’t as smart as men and should have no authority.

@juliabillman1168 2 жыл бұрын

Can't relapse if you didn't change to begin with.

@smileyone1612 2 жыл бұрын

@@mcdanielwright9172 Too young for you.

@selena6071 3 жыл бұрын

I would be so tempted to call adult social services for his wife.

@rianneashleigh808 3 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't be tempted. I'd definitely call

@zxyatiywariii8 3 жыл бұрын

Ikr me too, his poor wife 😥

@chelongogan3904 2 жыл бұрын

@@rianneashleigh808 these people NEED JESUS . JESUS WILL HELP THEM TO NOT HOARD JUNK. WHICH IS IDOLATRY

@babawali3021 2 жыл бұрын

@@chelongogan3904 I may be wrong, but I don't think Jesus is a hoarding specialist. It's an equal opportunity (affects everyone) mental illness.

@ksierra4444 2 жыл бұрын

@@chelongogan3904 unfortunately I've seen several people on Hoarders who love Jesus. We all still struggle with something even when we have Jesus. We are all still flawed humans on this side of heaven

@PB-mq6hu 3 жыл бұрын

He is a selfish know-it-all. Sick, yes! But to watch your spouse go through such a terrible illness and still take total advantage of them, that is SELFISH & CRUEL!

@jacobgallagher3082 2 жыл бұрын

I watched this while my wife was at work and when she came I had cleaned the whole house, emptied all the closets, cleaned the garage, cleaned my car freaking motivated lol

@RS54321 Жыл бұрын

You sound awesome!

@janesmith9024 Жыл бұрын

What a lovely husband..... It certainly motivates me to clear up and not keep too much stuff.

@j.tt.4877 3 жыл бұрын

I never wished harder someone to lose their property and be homeless. God save that poor woman.

@dagmarl4447 2 жыл бұрын

I imagen a homeless hoarder wiring several shopping carts together and keep on hoarding. A train of carts pulling down the road. LOL

@ENFPerspectives 2 жыл бұрын

Same! Not to be homeless but to pay a very hefty fine. He needs to learn a lesson. What a waste of the team’s time. :(

@funnyusername8635 2 жыл бұрын

@@dagmarl4447 I've totally seen this in a neighborhood I lived in in my 20s. I wondered why a homeless person would need so much stuff with them then I took a closer look at the carts--full of paper, broken toys, clothes that could never possibly be worn by them, scrap metal, etc. Nice enough guy, pretty bright, but clearly unable to let go of this behavior.

@dietotaku 2 жыл бұрын

there are 2 types of hoarders: people who were traumatized and are working through that trauma and are ready to let go of their stuff for the good of their future... and people like tim who just need to be knocked unconscious for 3 days while the crew empties the property and let him deal with the conniption fit when he wakes up.

@laurenm9956 3 жыл бұрын

I hate when people say "it is what it is." They have already decided not to even try and change their situation and shame on them for putting their loved ones through their bs for years.

@RS54321 Жыл бұрын

I hate it too!! It is an empty phrase, like saying 'the sky is blue.' It basically lets the person off the hook from trying to improve or fix anything.

@drfreud65 3 жыл бұрын

Tim appears to be using his rationalization as a manipulation tool. I'd also say he's a chauvinist, since he calls Willamina "fragile" and he thinks Dr Zazio knows nothing about the process. He's his own worst enemy, and probably Willamina's. I even wonder if an old colleague of his or Tim himself diagnosed or even caused her catatonia?

@FigaroHey 3 жыл бұрын

I guess if you can't get away from a hoarder, catatonia is an option.

@bbqsauce3770 3 жыл бұрын

@tdsm19 The cat on your profile picture is really cute

@drfreud65 3 жыл бұрын

@@bbqsauce3770 Thank you! He was 20 years old in that pic, about 2 months before he died. He was an awesome kitty!

@nicole4659 2 жыл бұрын

I think if his wife would have been out there involved move the would have gotten more done. He just used what he said as an excuse

@shirleyann3344 2 жыл бұрын

@@FigaroHey Her “catatonic state(s),” in my opinion, happen because of him! She doesn’t have a voice! When Dr. Zaszio was asking her “how does that make you feel?” and she went silent, and Tim says “stay with us honey,” that wasn’t a catatonic state or fragility, that was fear to really say how she felt! He controls her and has for years. He’s a classic manipulative narcissist.

@makedaanderson 3 жыл бұрын

When manipulative narcissists hoard, “fragile” family members don’t stand a chance…

@triggeredcat120 3 жыл бұрын

Cory is absolutely 100% done with Tim, because Tim is hurting the health of his wife and himself.

@blt171 3 жыл бұрын

Not to mention this manipulator called Cory Manipulative... which was one of THE most manipulating things I've seen on this show.

@feliciafisher3748 3 жыл бұрын

I was hoping Cory would stop and leave.

@triggeredcat120 3 жыл бұрын

@@feliciafisher3748 I wish

@triggeredcat120 3 жыл бұрын

@@blt171 Hoarding is disgusting. Like c’mon.... Cory was so done with Tim and you know it.

@modchannel6414 Жыл бұрын

@@blt171 That’s Trump-level projection.

@marich91 2 жыл бұрын

What an awful, twisted, manipulative, ungrateful and patronizing monster... Poor Wilhelmina and poor relatives of him :( Sweet woman shoulda run when she heard "you can have what you want but don't try to change me"... So sorry for her!

@riversider2506 3 жыл бұрын

The frustration levels I've reached whilst watching this video is crazy!! The old man is using his wife as an escape goat. Whenever they bring her up and say that she's not happy , he says she's fragile and they shouldn't question her but he's only saying that because he knows he can end the conversation by using that as an excuse.

@gladiammgtow4092 3 жыл бұрын

Tim is a coward.

@miipmiipmiip 2 жыл бұрын

*a scape goat

@nickydeschutter7092 3 жыл бұрын

Wow, Tim is a very stubborn and ungrateful old man, poor Wilhelmina!😳

@GIChiyo 3 жыл бұрын

WOW he tried to manipulate and gaslight the haording help team, wtf this guy is a real piece of work... His wife needs to RUN

@mj44190 3 жыл бұрын

Wow, what a thing to say. I understand your sentiment but the phrasing is unfortunate

@maryanneslater9675 3 жыл бұрын

My brother in law was a mechanic who kept bringing projects home. My sister treasured her books and craft stuff. When they both passed away rather young (for our family), my nephew and I spent a year cleaning out the house and garage for sale. There was actually a lot of nice stuff for charity, a few nifty collectibles that local dealers snapped up, and the scrap metal paid for the dumpsters for all the rest! But now I'm anxious to get rid of my excess stuff, bit by bit.

@cathieludemann5879 2 жыл бұрын

I often wonder why they don't use scrap dealers more often in situations like this. At least it would cover some of the costs or provide a bit of income to the hoarder.

@rachelelliott1674 2 жыл бұрын

Yea I think it's hard for crafty/creative people who are actually good at lots of hobbies NOT to have a stash/hoard. It's definitely tough to find that line of staying organized/manageable vs overwhelming

@Phantombucketmouse Жыл бұрын

This man reminds me painfully of my dad. 73 and absolutely convinced he's going to live forever and be able to work on these "'Projects".

@Zullala 2 жыл бұрын

So what I'm hearing is, "There wasn't any hoarding because my wife wouldn't stand for it... But when she got sick she didn't have the mental strength to do the critical thinking for both of us. So I saw this as the perfect opportunity to take advantage of her and do whatever I wanted irregardless of her health or mental well-being."

@JustMeUpNorth Жыл бұрын

Exactly. And it wouldn't surprise me if her illness was caused by his relentless bullying.

@christinebeames712 Жыл бұрын

What a despicable old msn

@d.v.crystal5589 2 жыл бұрын

Wot a surprise! Tim reneged on his agreement to see a therapist with Wilhemena. He couldn’t risk another professional helping her stick up for herself to him

@wendywobbles1 3 жыл бұрын

OMG what a selfish man, he claims to love his wife but he obviously loves his junk/ rubbish more, taking advantage of his wife's illness to clutter their home that is awful

@mcdanielwright9172 3 жыл бұрын

Wow 🤩nice comments You comments so good where are you from?

@Alex_Forlini 3 жыл бұрын

@@mcdanielwright9172 idk if you notice it but you sound super creepy. I’ve seen you comment this on other comments and it’s just weird

@katymcginn4644 3 жыл бұрын

@@Alex_Forlini 😒 RIGHT! HE ALSO SAID THIS SAME THING TO ANOTHER VERY PRETTY BLONDE WOMAN. UMM, FROM WHAT I KNOW, KZfaq COMMENT SECTION ISN'T A SINGLES GROUP PICK UP PLACE! LOL 😆 OMGOSH 😳

@feliciafisher3748 3 жыл бұрын

He only loves himself.

@michellecook7586 3 жыл бұрын

Hoarding is a mental illness...it isn't the fact that he loves his junk more than his wife...his brain just doesn't know how to tell him he doesn't need all that junk to live a happier life. I am only guessing but I would say or both of his parents were hoarders when he was growing up as well, he has lived this way for most if not all his life, he doesn't know how to live any other way

@howiewill Жыл бұрын

Imagine finding the man of your dreams and anytime you try and have a rational discussion be told “you said you wouldn’t try and change me!” … nothing like being gaslighted for 50 years😢

@howiewill Жыл бұрын

Or Gaslit. Idk what the proper term is but geez Louise.

@noahellis3672 3 жыл бұрын

This guy accuses everybody else of manipulation and forcing the cleanup process on him. But he tries to manipulate his family, even Cory and his crew into doing what he wants. I would love to see what his properties looks like a year from now. I personally don't think he'll stop hoarding and eventually will lose one of the homes if not both.

@petej.8676 3 жыл бұрын

Respect your wife!! Clean up that Mess!!!!

@donnabittner69 3 жыл бұрын

Yes indeed !!

@Beverly2020 3 жыл бұрын

I am in awe of these people. The first time he turned belligerent, I would have packed up and left…and called code enforcement on my way out of the driveway. I hate how he manipulated his wife. She had given up.

@fairladykd6734 3 жыл бұрын

That city should be ashamed of themselves as well - they let Tim get away with living like that for 30 years!

@shaniadirstein3650 2 жыл бұрын

The city needs to be more strict/actually follow through with threats instead of letting people get away with this

@cathieludemann5879 2 жыл бұрын

30 years ago this was probably considered "eccentric.". No big deal.

@ENFPerspectives 2 жыл бұрын

Right

@dietotaku 2 жыл бұрын

code enforcement really should've just said "sorry, not good enough, you're evicted and these buildings are condemned. we'll place your wife in a nursing facility but you're not welcome on any premises until you get your head on straight."

@modchannel6414 Жыл бұрын

Do these people ever actually face the consequences of their actions?

@persia888 3 жыл бұрын

He's a narcissist as well as a hoarder. God help her

@Peter_Tissot Жыл бұрын

at some point he have some clarity in his mind to understand what he is doing, and that it is wrong. But then he snaps back and does the same old things anyway.

@Tenamf 3 жыл бұрын

So sad his wife has to deal with him

@mcdanielwright9172 3 жыл бұрын

Wow 🤩nice comments You comments so good where are you from?

@janetpugliesi3203 3 жыл бұрын

He truly is a piece of work. I would have walked out on him They have patience of saints!!

@peggypeggy4137 3 жыл бұрын

Tim is a smarty pants. Unfortunately he is taking his wonderful wife down with him. She doesn't deserve that. She deserves a good home.

@snowwhite5842 2 жыл бұрын

My husband also said “don’t ever try to change me on our wedding day”. He ended up being a world class narcissist who has tried to control my every word. I’m getting help and working on moving out and away from him. I hope someone with expertise in NPD comes in to help her, before her entire life is ruined.

@elisahamilton73 3 жыл бұрын

The wife should leave and go live with a relative. Leave him with his hoard and let code enforcement deal with him. Send HIM to a physiologist. I bet the hoard has started piling up again

@helenburns6914 3 жыл бұрын

What a selfish old fool. I feel for his wife who probably has endured dealing with this foolishness for years He talks a good talk but that is all it is

@Ultrasilvam 3 жыл бұрын

Tim is disgusting and seems like an extremely intelligent emotional abuser. Put him in a home and give poor Wilhelmina the properties!

@howthemightyhavefallen7138 2 жыл бұрын

I don't think he's smart, I think he's an extremely transparent *sshole."

@evakroells9437 2 жыл бұрын

Yesssss

@wandahastings8470 2 жыл бұрын

So she can take a match to it all 😆

@pocu321 2 жыл бұрын

Wow he didn't want the other educated, professional psychologist to ask his wife about how she feels....control freak manipulating abuser.

@madliberal7710 3 жыл бұрын

How can any community local government allow such disregard for laws for 30 years?

@GroovyDoom 2 жыл бұрын

That was my thought as well when the caption said he'd been on the 'radar' of local code enforcement for 'decades'. Clearly there is no actual enforcement of any local code if a situation this dire has been allowed to continue for that long.

@Peter_Tissot Жыл бұрын

because the local government only reacts on disturbance calls from neighbours. And Tim owned the property right over the street facing him. And he didn't call in any complaints on himself now did he.

@ingenuity168 3 жыл бұрын

When one spouse has more say about how they keep the house, this happens.

@dayday8332 3 жыл бұрын

He has never really had consequences for his actions, starting with his wife pitting up with his BS.

@susanl8478 3 жыл бұрын

My wife is fragile ... Uh NO ... YOU are fragile. Interesting.

@Lucinda_Jackson 3 жыл бұрын

Yep, exactly. HE felt threatened by his wife being allowed to have an opinion and openly state it. I thought it was very telling that his own family members seemed to hint at the fact that he has killed the joy within in her and helped turn her into a shadow of her old self. BTW - note that after that whole exchange she never really appears again. It’s obvious that he made it a condition that they not speak to her again. And they allowed it and participated in it.

@TheAfroCentricWoman 3 жыл бұрын

Projection

@purpleflametarot39 3 жыл бұрын

Love Cory 💗. You can hear in his voice sometimes how he's trying to be patient and control himself. And he does it excellently. Edit: Tim - old dogs new tricks. SMH.

@mcdanielwright9172 3 жыл бұрын

Wow 🤩nice comments You comments so good where are you from?

@shaniadirstein3650 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah these hoarders need someone strict and firm with them like Cory and Matt

@MsBamafanatic 2 жыл бұрын

Tim is a low life. He took advantage of his wife's fragility and then he wants to preach at someone else for considering her feelings.

@collettemcquaide1662 3 жыл бұрын

Why don't his family point out that he is utterly selfish. His poor wife. X

@beachbunny7256 3 жыл бұрын

Classic narcissist!!! I feel for his wife!!😥

@mcdanielwright9172 3 жыл бұрын

Wow 🤩nice comments You comments so good where are you from?

@Picca65 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, she is too numb to see it, totally broken down.

@TheAfroCentricWoman 3 жыл бұрын

Cluster B something...

@madhatter909 3 жыл бұрын

@@horselover7744 so was I, thank God I got out

@gladiammgtow4092 3 жыл бұрын

@@TheAfroCentricWoman NPD

@102tatertot 2 жыл бұрын

Tim is a master manipulator it was fascinating watching his casual semantics to maintain his control over everything

@madliberal7710 3 жыл бұрын

Tim took advantage if her wife's illness. He should have been arrested for spousal abuse.

@Peter_Tissot Жыл бұрын

careful now, if we should lock up mentally sick people, then how far off are you from doing some hard time madliberal?

@WindQueen12 3 жыл бұрын

Definite element of narcissism thrown into the mix, which makes it hard for everyone, its all about him and his control of the situation and people around him, sad.

@plan4life 2 жыл бұрын

Seeing Tim at the beginning of this video I knew straight away I didn’t like him. He was talking about his hoarding with a big smile on his face.

@cristyknapp2889 3 жыл бұрын

I understand that hoarders are mentally ill and need help. But, I could not go through this as someone trying to offer that help because there's no way I could ever have the patience for this work. It can be so infuriating when they argue and refuse the thing that can help them.

@cathieludemann5879 2 жыл бұрын

The professional people helping are trained for this and specialize in this type of human nature. They chose to do this as their job. They know what comes with the territory. And they train to come up with solutions.

@bmom3191 3 жыл бұрын

If they’ve already torn one house down and that didn’t faze him then he is never going to change. Sadly in this case he’s putting his wife at risk of being homeless along with him. I almost wish someone in the family take her away from him and get her therapy and let him suffer the consequences of his actions

@KATingler 3 жыл бұрын

He then will blame the person who helped/helps her. People like Tim (narcissists) never accept responsibility, condescend and most often, will never apologize unless there is a "win" in it for him.

@imho2278 3 жыл бұрын

He got enough done that neither of his houses were demolished.

@wandahastings8470 2 жыл бұрын

@@imho2278 goody for him🙄😒

@janisdrew-cross4417 2 жыл бұрын

Yet

@amyatchley1093 3 жыл бұрын

I hate how he treats his wife

@kadeelacayo4806 3 жыл бұрын

This is why we need to stop pushing marriage on young women.

@agatakowalik9457 3 жыл бұрын

If they have 2 houses, the teem should be able to clean one for the wife. She will be safer.

@kaseys2004 2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree.

@BrianSmith-yq7ys 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I know F the other house. They should have brought all the junk over there so code could take the property.

@deirdreblignaut7390 2 жыл бұрын

He said at the end it was never about him, but nevertheless does not acknowledge what negative impact his hoarding had on his wife. I feel sad for her. She deserved a better life.

@Fush1234 3 жыл бұрын

My sister was a hoarder. We discovered this fact after she committed suicide last year. We hadn’t been allowed into her house for 27 years. We always wondered why. Now we know. Very sad mental illness.

@Lucinda_Jackson 3 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss. Your sister’s pain must have been overwhelming, but she loved you and wanted to spare you from seeing it.

@Fush1234 3 жыл бұрын

@@Lucinda_Jackson - 🙏🏻 thanks. The signs & signals were there. No property maintenance for years, a build up of rubbish, threadbare curtains that you could see from the road, gardens unkept. But we were naive & blind I guess. We never realized. Life can be cruel.

@Lucinda_Jackson 3 жыл бұрын

@@Fush1234 The fact is that you don’t know what you don’t know. You weren’t in the dark because you were uncaring or because you didn’t want to help. Ou were in the dark because that was her choice. You had no way of knowing - some people just choose to keep their blinds pulled and curtains closed and aren’t able to keep up with yard work, etc. You did the best you could with the knowledge you had and you respected your sister’s wishes and maintained your relationship. 💕

@katymcginn4644 3 жыл бұрын

@@Fush1234 💜 SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. PRAYERS FOR YOU & YOUR FAMILY 🙏 PLEASE TAKE CARE 💜

@katbar6066 3 жыл бұрын

@@Fush1234 Very sorry for your loss but don't blame yourself for not seeing the signs. From watching these shows it seems it is almost impossible to make them see what is happening in their life is not healthy or normal.

@mareebrown2163 3 жыл бұрын

His arrogance and selfishness deprived his wife of a real home for decades.

@okbaumgaertner7126 Жыл бұрын

I am always thinking “Do I want my children to deal with my mess when I’m gone?” This is what motivates me to continually reduce clutter.

@susansmith493 3 жыл бұрын

Tim is a selfish, passive aggressive, abusive man.

@mcdanielwright9172 3 жыл бұрын

Wow 🤩nice comments You comments so good where are you from?

@gladiammgtow4092 3 жыл бұрын

Another narcissistic boomer...

@shirleyann3344 2 жыл бұрын

100% agree! Her “illness” is because of him! I don’t think she’s catatonic, just fearful of having a voice because of having been controlled and manipulated by him for so long!

@mgparis 2 жыл бұрын

Also mysogynistic in the way he responded to Dr Zazio

@karenashton5053 3 жыл бұрын

I am currently cleaning a hoard from a deceased relative it is both good and bad. I feel such pain their lives ended up this way. But also anger at being in charge of this.

@JoshuaSkummer 2 жыл бұрын

That old photo of his wife tripped me out.. I can't believe what aging does to us humans

@happycook6737 2 жыл бұрын

Not aging. Living in a hostile environment with a narcissistic manipulator. Imagine living in a dirty trash heap like his poor wife.

@RS54321 Жыл бұрын

I know...she was stunning. I'm sure living with this narc aged her very quickly.

@josefinapaje8220 Жыл бұрын

That is life

@joankersting2358 3 жыл бұрын

It’s not a good thing to ask my wife’s opinion about moving MY things. This psychologist has “Total Self Absorbtion Disorder

@vintagegirl68 3 жыл бұрын

Me, Me, Me, my life is only about Me! This man needs a clue!

@marvezuniga9132 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@marvezuniga9132 3 жыл бұрын

Lmao 😂😂

@Picca65 3 жыл бұрын

His wife shoild divorce him and go in therapy for years

@amramallick Жыл бұрын

I love how he takes the chair to sit while his wife who’s body hurts stands

@maneckineckbeard1749 2 жыл бұрын

One of the things that strikes me the hardest is how many of the hoarders on the show appear to have severely neglected dental care. And I have no doubt that had they spent even a fraction of the money on their teeth that they did on their hoarding, they'd be suffering far less dental pain. It's so sad.

@RS54321 Жыл бұрын

Yes!!

@grettagirl2884 2 жыл бұрын

Tim is incredibly sarcastic. He gets in the nerves immediately.

@swanerz211 3 жыл бұрын

How do people tolerate hoarders without going mad I don’t know.

@laurafulop2486 3 жыл бұрын

It slowly grows on you - then one day you realize you cannot have a space to sit down.

@smileyone1612 2 жыл бұрын

Left my hoarding husband of 27 years. He's been remarried for 17 years and has managed to hoard 2 beautiful wooded acres. Looks just like Tim's yard.

@babycakes8434 2 жыл бұрын

@Scott Swanton They get catatonia in result.

@babycakes8434 2 жыл бұрын

@@laurafulop2486 I agree. It is like boiling the frog, little by little.

@RS54321 Жыл бұрын

Most of them are enablers. I think we all do things (or put up with things) for some benefit (he provides her shelter and food).

@Vb-fy4sv 2 жыл бұрын

Tim said it was the” BIGGEST MISTAKE OF HIS LIFE “ what an UNGRATEFUL MANIPULATIVE MAN ! His poor wife has made” THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF HER LIFE MARRYING HIM “. Omg he wants reporting to adult services because he is ABUSING his wife she dare NOT go against him , ..he even sat down while his wife was stood up at the end, THATS how much he “cares “ for her …

@amazingseniors5770 3 жыл бұрын

Since watching your videos. I asked myself what are the items I need to let go that others can use. I started with my headbands and some clothes.I feel good. My husband is a hoarder. I follow where he puts his hoards and throw them away little by little. I'm a collector not a hoarder. So I sit down after watching and learning from your videos like Who will get this collection when Im gone? So I finally decided to let go of them little by little. Im happy. I learn much from you. God bless!

@gokaren420 3 жыл бұрын

This show helps me to NOT hoard.

@KATingler 3 жыл бұрын

That's so funny. lol I say the same thing!!!

@KATingler 3 жыл бұрын

and I love your screen name.

@fred6059 3 жыл бұрын

It forces me to clean.

@jenniferwang3489 3 жыл бұрын

I know, right? When I'm feeling lazy about cleaning my house, like I just don't care. I just need to watch an episode or 2 of Hoarders and I get all the motivation I need to clean the whole place! I was interviewed abotu this once and said its a great motivator and it also helps you to go through the process of getting rid of things. I grew up losing so many things becasue we would move and sometimes have to leave things behind. As an adult, sometimes I become attached to things because I was not able to keep them.

@katbar6066 3 жыл бұрын

You and me both. Every 6 months I have a clear out. It might be only 1 small bag or bin full of stuff but out it goes if it hasn't been used.

@ramirogarcia1967 3 жыл бұрын

These shows always motivate me to clean up and throw away stuff..

@vicj2141 2 жыл бұрын

Right? I just started second-guessing the dress I bought today. Only have a few dresses, but still...

@chesbrocrysta 3 жыл бұрын

I love that they are posting these on youtube. I wish there premium account could make longer episodes. We missed so much and the whole episode felt rushed

@declamatory 3 жыл бұрын

*their

@sarcasticallyrearranged 2 жыл бұрын

The episode was 2 hours long. We’re watching a clip from it.

@karmamiracle8705 3 жыл бұрын

Take the wife out of there and let him live alone with his precious things.

@karenmbbaxter 3 жыл бұрын

The wife should be allowed to take money out of the property of the land and live alone in an apartment without him or his junk but he should have to live in his junk.

@jthoen61 3 жыл бұрын

I'm glad that you showed even a therapist can be a hoarder. It's unfortunate that Tim hasn't contacted the organizer or therapist. I just hope that their place doesn't get the same way it was. I know for a fact that the police can determine your house is uninhabitable. If they do that you are forced to clean it up or you will lose your house. They can even get your house torn down if it's too far gone.

@mcdanielwright9172 3 жыл бұрын

Wow 🤩nice comments You comments so good where are you from?

@howthemightyhavefallen7138 2 жыл бұрын

"even a therapist?" Therapists at heart, are commonly more sick than the people they treat.

@RS54321 Жыл бұрын

It's more frightening that a therapist could also be a narcissist.

@blackcoffee. 2 жыл бұрын

Tim would be super frustrating to be around! He's sucked the life and health out of Wilhemina.

@jennifercoleman6218 3 жыл бұрын

Mental health professionals are the worst at admitting they also need help. Ive almost dated a couple of them who kept on me but wouldn't admit they were the ones who had issues

@vampiraJ 3 жыл бұрын

I always heard they went into the mental health profession to get help for themselves 😆

@maneckineckbeard1749 2 жыл бұрын

Whoa. Jaw drop!! My entire house is the size of his first floor...and it feels HUGE!! (Plus, there's a handful of people and a few pets living in my house.) I truly wish that their next 52 years are happy, hopeful and healthy, so I'm so sad that he decided to not do aftercare. Wilhemina seems like a very sweet lady. She deserves happiness.

@patmcbride9853 3 жыл бұрын

I'm not bad enough to be called a hoarder (outside of family) but I've already taken 3 trailer loads of trash to the landfill while preparing to move. Some of it was carpeting, flooring and other renovation debris, but still a lot and more to go.

@Ken0604 3 жыл бұрын

The really sad part of these shows is that most end up back doing the same thing. If they revisit in two years most will have more stuff hauled in.

@bbgxo7967 3 жыл бұрын

Imagine having him as your Therapist 😂 you’d need a therapist for a therapist 💀

@jenniferking4682 2 жыл бұрын

I feel so bad for his wife. He took advantage of his wifes medical issue and acted like a selfish 2yr old only thinking of himself! Oh n sorry to tell you Tim but things are only worth what people are willing to pay!

@BlueLiminality 3 жыл бұрын

Wilhelmina, get out of there!

@yvonnemurray5537 2 жыл бұрын

This was the ending that I expected…he thinks he’s smarter than anyone else. And I don’t think he sees hoarding as a psychological, mental health issue. So until he does, it will never end. Please someone…get his wife out of there.

@goingbacktocable7777 3 жыл бұрын

poor Wilhelmina, its her I feel sorry for , Tim is a therapist, he should know better, all tims hoard along with his arrogance probably made her sick in the first place