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Looking at life with Dee

4 ай бұрын

Sharing my feelings about home and a poem reflecting on a childhood home.
#home #childhoodmemories #childhood #memories

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@lsalinas2573 4 ай бұрын

Lovely poem, lovely reading and lovely flowers. Have a lovely day Dee!

@ainawinter 3 ай бұрын

Hi Dee! I’m a 22 year old girl from Istanbul. I really loved your channel. I find your videos quite helpful and inspiring. I hope you can upload more. Have a lovely day. 🤍

@lm9753 4 ай бұрын

"What goes around, doesn't always come around." Thank you for saying that. How very wise you are. I'm sending a big hug and a kind ear. More stories! XXOO

@Cheshirelass 4 ай бұрын

The setiments sent are much appreciated. I have been fortunate in being able to pack in a lot of experiences in my 76 years - it is so good to have people to share the experiences and stories with. Thank you so much.

@jacqui9176 4 ай бұрын

What a beautiful poem Dee. My mum used to say to me, " do good to others, then your living shall not be in vain." x

@Cheshirelass 4 ай бұрын

I so agree with that - we don't have to make a song and dance about it as some folk do. Simply do it in a caring, loving way.

@lm9753 4 ай бұрын

Wow! What a beautiful sentiment!

@Cheshirelass 4 ай бұрын

@@lm9753 It is something about which I feel strongly. Good to hear of celebs who have done lots for others without getting publicity for it.

@maireadosheehan Ай бұрын

Try some hot milk before bed . My latest is putting some small pieces of good ginger biscuits into some milk and heating it , stirring it and having it in a bowl before bed . It really helps . Thank you for your gentleness and wisdom . Thank you so much . From Ireland 🌺

@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын

Thanks for the tip! Could I just dip the ginger biscuits?D

@caroledrury1411 Ай бұрын

Thank you for the heartfelt commentary. I could so relate having come from loving parents myself and adoring them back. We were best friends and I miss them terribly every day of my life. It’s hard as we get older to not find like-minded people around us. I do enjoy giving little workshops to the younger generation but it’s not the same.

@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын

Well done with the workshops - D

@pcavesnana Ай бұрын

Sweet dreams, Dee ❤

@michelleuk676 4 ай бұрын

Hi Dee, what a lovely poem and a great start to the day. Unfortunately my only safe spaces as a child were school and my grand-parents little flat. Over many years I have been able to create my own safe home. It's not much but I love it. Although I grieve for my childhood I could never resent others for their fortunate ones. As an adult I can parent myself now and work towards supporting myself and self compassion and compassion for my fellow humans. ❤

@Cheshirelass 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Michelle. Sadly, I have worked with far too many who had the same experiences as yourself. It is hard - but well done for creaating your own safe home and moving from surviving to thriving through your self care. It is natural to grieve for your childhood - no matter how long ago it was. Never lose sight of the strong, caring woman you are - head high and shoulders back as you go on through life. Take great care. Dee

@michelleuk676 4 ай бұрын

@@Cheshirelass Thank you Dee, your kind, wise words are very welcome 🦋

@Cheshirelass 4 ай бұрын

@@michelleuk676 My pleasure Michelle. Please do take the very best care of yourself that you can. Dee

@juliemetaxa1480 3 ай бұрын

How lovely. I truly agree with you.

@rememberabc 2 ай бұрын

❤

@pennylane7943 2 ай бұрын

Well done for defending your parents and childhood memories at the psychologist. I think that the psychologist's suggestions were both ignorant and disrespectful, and that you did just the right thing. A happy and loving childhood home should be cherished, and, no doubt, your parents would have been very proud of you for doing just that.

@Cheshirelass 2 ай бұрын

I am sure they would have been amazed as most of their generation would not dare to question the words of someone 'in authority!' D

@sharonedwards1610 4 ай бұрын

Do good to others today is so important! Lovely poem ❤

@Cheshirelass 4 ай бұрын

It is isn't it - on both counts! Thank you for commenting Sharon. Dee

@c007zy 2 ай бұрын

Nice topic

@yvonnebirch6026 2 ай бұрын

You look so beautiful. ❤

@debrawright9275 2 ай бұрын

That is such a sweet poem. Thank you for sharing. I hope the nightmares have stopped. Do you drink relaxing teas before bed? It helps.

@Cheshirelass 2 ай бұрын

Yes I do! D

@loryseller6450 Ай бұрын

Love your up Loads. I just can't hear them and you always have beautiful flowers in the background ❤️

@Cheshirelass Ай бұрын

Sorry about that. I have ordered a lapel mic, but I have seen similar on other channels where the sound is fine for most, but not for a few. D

@pcavesnana Ай бұрын

Use the "Closed Captions" setting. It's wonderful ❤

@YanaWanderlust. 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Dee for this poem and for the talk about your childhood. Well in my case, my parent's house is the last thing I would ever wanted to visit (that appartement has been sold for years now anyway). I came from an abusive and toxic home with all the type of violence. No safety at all. So no, thanks. I guess as a former counsellor you have met many clients like me. Greeting from Russia❤

@Cheshirelass 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Yana - In fact, I worked as a voluntary counsellor for 20 years with people who had been abused- all forms. I hope that you are now able to be happy - and it is no wonder that you wouldn't wish to visit your old home. Sending a huge hug - D

@YanaWanderlust. 3 ай бұрын

@@Cheshirelass thank you for your answer, it means a lot to me. I would like to know, if it's possible to make a video on how did it feel - working with abused children/clients, especially if yourself you have never experienced stuff like that. Yeah, I am pretty ok nowadays in my 37 years old. I have done many years of therapy and counselling and also self-work❤

@Cheshirelass 3 ай бұрын

@@YanaWanderlust. Added to my list. I will have to take care with my words as YT can get angry apparently. D

@yvonnebirch6026 2 ай бұрын

Dear Dee, may I be so bold as to recommend Eckhart Tolle to you and his book: The power of Now. The Universe jut brought him to me. I feel very present and grateful. I am sorry for interrupting you.. with deep love and blessings. ❤ Yvonne

@Cheshirelass 2 ай бұрын

Thank you Yvonne. You are the second person to mention this to me this week.

@yvonnebirch6026 2 ай бұрын

@@Cheshirelass surely that is a sign from the UNIVERSE ? Wish you PEACE 🙏❤️🙏

@yvonnebirch6026 2 ай бұрын

@@Cheshirelass tonight you happened to be on the same page on my tablet. You and ET. Short for Eckhart Tolle. I must sleep. I listened to you earlier. Can’t ever skip that ! Blessings and much LOVE 🥰🙏❤️🙏🥰

@Cheshirelass 2 ай бұрын

@@yvonnebirch6026 Sleep well. D