Oh wow aren’t people cruel. I featured in this episode with Ben. I thought I’d update people on what’s happened since filming and some insight to the filming itself. So firstly filming is very very staged, we were told majority of things to say and when to say it, for example going back to bed when I was “tired” after filming I obviously got back up, it’s fake, it’s for the camera. We weren’t allowed to do a food shop at a supermarket, only a corner convenience store, they couldn’t get permission for filming in a supermarket. I was studying 5 days a week during filming and after qualifying for a job as a nurture teacher in a school. Me and Ben split about a year after filming, I’ve since settled and have a little boy of my own, Ben has a partner but still lives at home with his Mum. So no I didn’t “get my tubes tied” and I’m not a “useless mum” Be nice people, you have absolutely no idea how fake tv is.

Why do parents raise children like this? It makes no sense whatsoever. Everywhere else you live you have to contribute a fair share or you get booted out.

There’s nothing wrong with staying with your parents as long as you cooperate and have a healthy balance between the generations in one roof.

Who's here from the jaackmaate podcast

Who’s here from Jaack’s video???

"How many grandchildren have I got" 😂😂

We need these types of shows in America! I watch these types of shows online so much like worlds strictest parents , rich house poor house, family cooking show down love them all

“I tried to do something nice, but he still wanted me to spend it on food. But... whatever..?” Yeah, why would you wanna buy food, if you can buy nail polish instead?🤔

lol I moved out when I was 16, I'm now 24 renting a flat, due to get my first house in July 2020, on 26k a year and starting my own business within the next 6months. It's amazing seeing people like this in my age bracket who have no life skills or even a vision for their life, I thank God for blessing me with a mother who taught everything I needed to know, and also the hardships I went trough which made me learn the hard way, I wish for the all the youngsters who have parents who haven't given them the right lessons to grow independently all the best and people can find themselves in this world

I praise these Mum and Dad for making a strong family in the long run

Ben and Millie aren’t going to make it long, he’s realizing what he’s in for!!

Matt was overwhelmed by the stove 😭

the narrator guy is hilarious

I left home at 16, never had money to burn, even now. Mom died last year, but what she left me is not being spent, most is being invested. I'm not young anymore. Thanks mom and dad. My sister's, well, they'll be broke within a year or less.

I moved out when i was 18 into a cheap nasty flat and loved it. A life of your own is so good for you. I heavily encourage any young person. Get a job and your own place. Your own life feels so good. Get out of your mums house. You have the worlds support.

I always had to fend for myself from about 6 as my mum was always down the pub so I have never had the privilege of having someone doing everything for me. But I wont be been a slave to my own. I encourage my own children to be independent and to teach them to do things themselves which their capable for their age.

I’m 23 and live at home but that’s because I look after my mother since she had a brain aneurysm

I'm enjoying this series. I love that it's filmed in Britain. Thanks from Quebec 🇨🇦 Canada 🌹

Matt and Emma Jayne did actually get married about a year ago

i can't imagine not being able to cook for myself. like, i'm 22 and my parents basically started teaching me to cook once i was above eye level with the stove so i didn't get blinded accidentally but then i know men in their late 20s who don't know how to boil an egg.

I never understood why these moms cry or get emotional when their kids leave for a freaking WEEK. I mean I get it if they’re leaving permanently but really for a week! So strange, still don’t understand it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ben and Millie are so annoying I can't believe his attitude and Millie thinks she can live off makeup instead of food.

The two white guys dancin to soulja boy was so cute!!😄...they was doin pretty good😊

Ben wants his own space but not a job...

Milly need to get your act together still Imature grow up babe

6:14 "Me and ben don't get that much time to ourselves, to escape the chaos of the house." Maybe, oh I don't know, move out!!!! I moved out of house when I was 17 and it was brilliant.

I could not imagine ever moving into someone’s house without contributing. I moved out at 17 and when I visited my parents it wasn’t to use their home as a hotel and restaurant. My kids don’t treat my home that way either, they know they are welcome but they don’t expect me to cook and do laundry for them. Emma Jane is an idiot, try turning the on/off switch to ON. Good grief, could she really not figure out that if you put a switch to ON that the electric would turn on?

I'm watching in 2016 so best wishes for your wedding ❤️😝

WOW! I have never seen a show about such irresponsible and lazy people! The parents are so immature to allow this! Just Crazy!

Milly should have bought things for the flat/house and some food, not spent it on things for herself and her boyfriend, useless!

As a parent you pay rent no boyfriends allowed to stay over you clean your own rooms you help around the house you do your own dishes and keep things tidy you cook if you want to everyone’s happy happy days and when they do leave home they can look after themselves am their mother not their slaves my daughter went to uni and was happy she could do everything and sort her money out x

She is planning her wedding two and a half years prior.. Bruhh

I love this show. Such a unique show hahah

The fathers are to the side in these families, it’s the mums that are in charge and enable this irresponsible behaviour

I taught my kids how to cook and clean and budget money and the value of work. They had jobs they got paid for and had to budget their allowance for candy and games and sometimes pool money for pizza night. Both my kids are very self sufficient and resourceful. They'll never go without because they know how to get by on very little. I'm always proud to see what they've done with thrift store finds or found on road stuff. The dollar store is a life saver for basics like soap, shampoo and toothpaste etc. Some of our best memories were trying to make a great dish with what was in the cupboard. They can create a wonderful food with top ramen,lol!

Even mommy birds push their babies out of the nest when it’s time to fly!

I blame the parents for quite a lot of their behaviour. As for Emma-Jane, what a control freak.

Everyone who’s here for Jaackmaate, I think he’s on s1ep3

Turning on the gas was so stressful that he had to leave the house and tell her how to fix it over the phone? Wtf? They have to be kidding me. He's gonna be with his parents forever if that's all it takes to put him over the edge. What a catch...not!

Millie is sweet with those kids, childcare is definitely her calling. She's a natural with them and will make a loving mum.

I would be ashamed if I did not teach my children how to take care of themselves.

I would hate to live with my boyfriend’s parents, I don’t have anything against them I’d just feel so awkward. Emma Jane seems like a control freak. I wonder if they’re still together.

HOWS MATT GOING TO HANDLE A SCREAMING BABY? WILL HE RUN AWAY WHEN IT GET'S DIFFICULT?

If i had millie as a daughter in law i would be.. Worried to say the least

Millie is useless. If only one of you works and you are gifted £50, only spend some of it on gifts not all of it. His mother shouldn't have told him off for saying she should have bought food too.

I moved into a bedsit aged 16, done all my cooking, cleaning etc whilst maintaining a full time job, they all need to grow up.

Millie.....housewarming gift is for the house. Millie.....Time to put big girl pants on, and grow up. It’s about putting home, before yourself. The roof over your head, and food in your stomach, is the most important thing. It’s what we all have to do. What would you do if you had little ones to ensure a home, and food, for?

Does anyone else think the couples should swap? Millie go with the stroppy guy and Sarah Jane go with the bearded chap?

why can't she go out to work? LOL 4 hrs a week LOL they ain't got a clue!!!! LOL

U know what’s sad Matt’s already balding at 23 👨‍🦲 😢

I don't care much for Emma Jane. She's a bit too controlling and bossy. She comes off rude

i'm speechless.

I would rather have gone to bed hungry than eat that hot dog spaghetti "meal"

I'm not understanding the hate towards Millie? It was stipulated several times at the beginning of the show she was in education studying childcare. As someone who also studied childcare, you usually work 2 days in college & 2-3 full days in a placement + coursework was absolutely insane (days of placement may vary depending on what qualification you're going for). To come home after working with children (& from my own experience, I was doing what all the 'qualified' workers were doing + extra, because as soon as someone comes in who isn't technically 'qualified' they'll treat you as an absolute skivvy.. I was far too naive to catch on in my mid teens) to a house full of kids & a newborn baby.. I'd be exhausted & 'lazy' too. It's no mean feat taking care of children & any mother will tell you that. Since the mother had an open door policy it seems all the grandkids would pile in while the parents worked, so Millie clearly helped out with them. Could she have done more? Probably. But she's got her entire life ahead of her to cook, clean, budget & pay bills. If her 'mum' ('mother in law') never once felt the need to boot her out & just asked for the odd helping hand with the kids - it's no one else's business when she & her partner move out. I know far lazier 30 year olds than that! I hope they've all found their feet, wherever they are & whatever they're doing now :) x

So glad our kids were raised with responsibility and common sense.We let them all stay with us after they had been on their own for at least one year. During that year they were expected to bank their rent money, help around the house, pay a share of the food, and utilities. Worked out great. Our house wasn’t a hotel and they paid down most of their bills and had money in the bank to purchase a home of their own. The couples finally learned to communicate with others.

The children are supposed to move out eventually anyway, that's life!!

2:00 mins in: hate them both already

That millie need to start from kintergarden...poor guy is already suffering without the job he dont need a moron under his roof...and what a great mother in law , bless her.

2016 has passed if u r watching this in 2017 put a 👍

Do they not rinse the soap off their dishes

How Matt just left her bugged me

Poor blokes, on both sides

Millie is so dim bless her

They see Mike they really love all the grandchildren and miss being around them which is really great for the little ones.

They living in the paranents house and complaing about no privacy! Pretty simpel get a job and get your own place to live!!!!!

Anyone else watching this in the 2020 pandemic wondering how that large family coped on lockdown, or if they even kept the rules seeing they all seem to visit one house all the time!

I wanna know if Emma Jane had her baby as it is 2018

Love the always sunny music used haha

Wow. Lots of mean and hurtful comments here. Cut them some slack. You know, we were all young once and had to learn stuff. Even when you do learn stuff, WRT the gas and electricity supplies, it doesn't necessarily follow that what applies to one building applies to all of them. With both gas and electricity there are isolators at the supply point and local isolators too. These are often hidden and not necessarily where you might expect them to be.

Although I love my parents I could not stand to live with them longer than I did (I moved out at 17). They agree too that it just couldn't work. While I am glad people get on with their parents are there really that little differences between the generations that they can stay together for ages?

Wow even matts hair has moved there's no way any child of mine is living in my home like it's a hotel

why doesn't millie get a job to help with the grocery bills?!

4:17 narrator 🤣🤣🤣 And 7:19 !!! Omg 🏌️‍♀️

FOUR HOURS A WEEK

Ive only seen maybe 6 episodes of this show but it seems like every one of the girls is either absolutely terrible or just as bad as the guys. Its insane they all act like princess. This episode wasn't too bad comparatively but still

It's now 2018 wonder if Emma Jayne has had a baby or is pregnant

".. you stole him basically" lmao,tru

Emma Jane is actually really great. Matt is lucky to have her. She is quite mature and is very thoughtful of Matt's feelings. Her organizational nature is good for their relationship.

IT'S ONLY FOR A WEEK…GEZ 😂! Crying?

I can’t understand how/why these moms don’t want their adult children to leave?!? I love my kids more than anything but they CAN’T STAY FOREVER!!!

What happened to wanting to move out and live on your own, I couldn't wait to get my own place support myself and live as an adult.

These parents keep their kids dependent deliberately because they dont want to be alone.

Ummm No way I could live with that many people ever

why do all the children who aren't the kids of the homeowners keep calling someone else's place home? if they don't pay rent it's a squat for them, not a home.

If you came from the JaackMaate video, his part starts at

Pizza, garlic bread, and chips in one meal? Hasn't that woman heard of vegetables?

Brook Louise Stacey, I would never have guessed...

Matt can dance 😅

Wow laziness not even looking at other flats. The engaged couple will survive.

why didnt they find out how to turn everything on when they looked at the apartment. Young couples want to have a party,but can't pay their bills. I think this is true of most young couples and they are testing the waters. I spent our first paycheck on everything, food,,I thought a newlywed couple should have. we had a tiny referigerator,so I had to buy a lot of shelf items and only meat for two days,so we ate a lot of meatless caseroles. We were blessed to have received many house hold items. I never really cooked,because my. husband was the better cook,but he tolerated my casseroles. We ordered a lot of pizza. and chinese. take out. These two couples did well,but I think they should have kept their own places and if the parents could help,fine. THE PARENTS REALLY NEEDED HELP. I LIVED AT HOME UNTIL I WAS MARRIED. WE HAD A SMALL WEDDING,BUT. MY GRANDPARENTS HELPED. WE HAD A CHURCH RECEPTION, SO THAT CUT COSTS. WE DID FINE,RAISING OUR CHILDREN AND GETTING 3 COLLEGE DEGREES. IT WAS A STRUGGLE BUT WE DID IT. I WISH THESE COUPLES ALL THE SUCCESS and HAPPINESS

What in the he'll didn't their parents teach them? Jack!

"Ben did it" ... cuz you burnt frozen food😉

If you are going to live at home then pay rent, clean the house, cook your food, and just be helpful

fun part is when someone walks in to shit while your showering lol

Hotel of mum and dad is shelterd but chaotic. But they have role models and learn a lot from the extended family.

Only BBC 3 would fund young couples to 'test run' moving out. I never got that treatment and a lot of other people didn't. Seeing as the demographic for BBC 3 is 12-18 year-olds, this is an incredibly misleading program. Good job again BBC 3.

I could not. These type of channels that depict loads of kids yelling and running around and then if there’s anything to be prepared for dinner they’ve got their hands in it and they’re up on the bench and I’m going crazy. My worst nightmare

Jaak maate!!

Start working at 16. Save for 2 years til 18. This is the age you should be out of your parents house at. Money saved during these two years should be more than enough to get set up in your own place !

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