So many likes but only 1 reply.. and FRR THO

Second reply, don't know why not many

Lol that's what I thought

That's kinda obvious when she says 7 at the end.

​@@elleohaiya

I miss my brown bear.

Yeah but threat with toys worked didn't it

The funny thing is that my mother really threatened to burn my favorite doll when I was in elementary school just to study 😂 I still remember her clearly 😂

That was mild, lol. I thought she was going for the chancla.

Kids find the dumbest things amusing- like rushing through the problem or not trying… until you make them care and they suddenly can put that brain to good use 😂😂

yup... my kids did that to sometimes just to get extra attention...

That's gen z ✋

​@@miqdad890gen alpha*

Kid just wanted some candy 💀

Repetition, baby! Does it include doing those questions again but in snot and tears?

​@@blenderpain8249yes sadly yes it does 😂

My mom would send me a flying sandal the 3rd time

@@vit91 my dad would send me the hand, the book and the other brother to my head 😂

And then they go to university and fail miserable at math and statistics, because remembering things is not enough. They were never trained think about the algorithms.

Omg yes😂

I had to write out the entire table until I could memorize them.

@@sparkleeditss yess but then i forget and then he scolds me😭

@@1dol_7 lol yes

My dad did that too

omg same here

Did she threw your toys ? 😂

@@Sara-gl2mg lmao both that and my art stuff lol

Don't ask me ,I even got hit on my head 🙂

Same but with my dad

I figured it out myself In 2nd grade and when I went to 9th grade people couldn't answer 7x7 yet 👍

In third grade!? Where do you live? I remember learning to solve for x in simple equations in third grade.

I once asked a group of students (aged 11-14) "What is one divided by 3?" Most of them couldn't get it right even though the answer is in the question!! 1/3. No surprises there.. many adults are NM smarter

@@alessandrac1940 That's pretty sad. I presume most people in here are Americans. But the Canadian education system, where I live, also seems to have been dumbed down a fair bit in the last forty or so years. 😢

@haidner yup I am also canadian.. so no surprises there

Also u have 7 like let me it make 8

thanks☺

Wellcome

Now it's 95 🥰

lol thank you so much

MV Perry s mom 😂😂😂😂😂❤

I'm so sorry you went through that. That was abuse.

@@anadd6195 It's sad but this is normal to do in any asian household and no one consider this as abuse ..... this is done so childrens don't get spoiled

​@@Harry_2003It is considered normal in india as beating wives is but we still get truama from it. So, Please don't normalize it.

@@anadd6195 umm, no we have a different meaning of "abuse" here in india. parents punish for their child's own good. (Its loving abuse)

I struggled with math as a kid and I remember the objects = numbers concept always confused me. Like okay if I have four apples and if you give me two I have six but what are two and four by themselves? It always felt like a totally different question, I mean at least when I was starting out.

This made me want to cry okay nevermind it didn't make me want to cry it it it did make me cry because I have terrible math trauma. When I was in elementary school there were too many students not enough teachers that was in a really rural town where there was you know just a lot of people but the school was literally pre-k through graduating so people went there their whole entire education at the same school. Anyways to my point. Due to being limited on the teachers they had to put certain classes mixed with other classes to be able to have enough teachers to educate however the issue within that lied in the fact that they ended up mixing together like first graders with like 5th and 6th graders and so as somebody that was in second grade I believed at the time I could very well be wrong on that but I feel like it was second grade maybe we were mixed in with like a 5th or 6th grade class and very clearly you cannot hold back the older students buy reteaching them what they've already learned and so what ended up taking place was the younger students ended up having to try and play catch-up and so going from 0 to 100within a math class to that extent was extremely drastic and I was never able to get a grasp on the most bare minimum of math before I was being asked to do more advanced math and so not knowing the basics I struggled and then my parents my dad and stepmom their solution to making me learn math because I was the only one in my household who didn't know math their solution was to starve me from having dinner if I could not complete the 100 printed off pages each with 100 math equations a piece by dinnertime which would be approximately an hour or two after getting home from school. They would also scream at me and hit me and send me to bed early they would have me so distraught that I would be vomiting and if they did allow me to eat then one of two things would happen it would either be that they would force me to eat something that they knew that I did not like and would not eat and so that would cause me to end up vomiting or I would end up with food out of the trash can that was wasted from my siblings and my stepmom like to Port ammonia in the trash can to keep the smell down so I took this day have serious trauma because of math and it gives me the worst anxiety however with that being said I had dropped out of high school because of my learning disabilities and having issues as well as issues at home but while I was pregnant with my daughter I ended up graduating from high school after putting myself back into high school and paying $3,000 to be able to actually graduate instead of getting a GED and then I went off to college and somehow I was able to pull myself together to complete some college math courses and I graduated high school and then completed like four or five college math courses with a 4.0 or higher and I don't know how the fuck I pulled that off I know a lot of tears but parents need to be really self aware of how detrimental it can be to a child to shame them and abuse them over struggling to pick up on something especially when you know that they didn't even have a fair start to learning it.

​@@ananolastname1605 Oh my gosh! I am so sorry you had to go through all that petrifying and insane trauma by yourself. I really hope you have healed and I pray God will be with you in what ever you do🙏🏽🙏🏽.

Probably Dyslexic. My daughter had the same issue. The moment her brain locked up when there was too much stress to get things right or perfect she would just spit out random answers. She knew the math but her brain did a survival freeze every time.

I am still bad at math, dyscalulia sucks.

🤣 🤣 🤣

It's like Phoebe trying to teach Joey how to say "Je m'appelle Claude".

@@RazvanMihaeanu for real though 🤣

I was about to comment this😂😂😂

I came looking for this comment 🤣

Omg, that is so sad. My mom took on my 9th grade math teacher. Set her straight. I had to take on a teacher for my son at one time too. I feel terrible for any children who have parents who side with the teachers or don’t support their kids. ♥️

Lol same with my parents. Either that or they start spitting out random stuff about calculus and linear programming and whatnot... and I'm 11.

Well, reponsible parent made sure their kids uses their head. I use to hated my dad, but after i have to raised my younger sibling, i know how painful it was to teach children basic math, science and help them with homework. That was *draining*

What you suffered was plain abuse. I am sorry your parents were horrendous and hit you, withheld food, screamed at you and verbally abused you too. Fear doesn't make a young mind understand a subject more, but creates anxiety in them and getting it wrong brings fear of more reprisals and threats. I never understand how a parent can think treating a child like this will help them and foster a desire to learn. It creates barriers with the parents and instead a dread of getting it wrong thus asking for help is less likely from a child. Guiding, explaining, stressing that doing the best they can to achieve the grade they are capable of and it will benefit them for their future. Of course kids need to learn that slacking isn't right and there's consequences, but physical and emotional abuse should never be it. Stress and anxiety infacts impacts the development of young brains and actually impairs and decreases the area of the brain responsible for learning, memory and executive function. CPS were prejudice decades ago and ignored the kids who needed more help. I was bad at maths, my sister did well in all subjects, but I struggled a lot and mybrain can't compute numbers and science, but I did well in English, history etc. My parents helped me and just asked I tried my best and I was the times tables champion 😂

I hate how parents were I wish every parent was like the parents in that Australian dog show 😡

I have similar experiences growing up. Matured quickly and even hid my marked legs with long pants so CPS wouldn't take my mom away. So traumatized I'm afraid to become my mother-easier to just not have a kid 😅

But did you become a doctor?

@@whimsy-chan1188 no. Lawyer. But that's besides the point.

😂 Well, I would be proud because that was actually a very clever and creative answer. 😊👏

That is sad and abusive. Also, feeding your children is a duty ans it's more important than anything else. It's a crime what she did.

I had so much flashback about my frustration with my son too 😂😂😂

lol relatable 😂

I understand 😭😭

The old method is good and works 😅

Me, someone who had a lot of EA growing up: 👀 this didn’t even register as that 😅😂 (not saying you’re wrong btw, just laughing at my perceptions)

@@BeckyMesser Yeah, I had a lot of physical and emotional abuse as a kid and I don’t know if this counts. But then, I’m not good at telling because it was my normal, so I’ll just leave it for other people to decide lol. I wouldn’t do it that way if I had a kid though lol. I would definitely be the first mom.

Emotional damage as Steven He's father would say.

Math IS emotional abuse

@@BeckyMesser You're right. There is "real" emotional abuse. And there are cases where parents make the extra effort and are firm with their children for their own benefit so you give them the best chances for success and happiness in the long term. Because it's so much easier to do the opposite, let them do whatever, and focus on yourself and what you want instead. Sad that in 2023 some people can't tell the difference.