Their lifestyles.

@@Amazingfilms148 Being gay is NOT a lifestyle, it's a sexual orientation!

NOT HOMOPHOBIA TS JUST WRONG AND PEOPLE KNOW IT REPENT!!!

brea artist Your comment is the definition of homophobia but you’re too ignorant to understand it

Lil Durk tired of hearing that the black community is homophobic! Phobic means fear! We don’t fear any gays! Stop putting us all one category! We don’t like people telling us what to agree with! Respect our opinion if we don’t agree with ur same sex lifestyle! That doesn’t mean we hate gays! Stop making people out to be villain if they are not in agreement! Stop saying the black community! A lot of communities don’t agree with homosexuality! But if my child is gay, I will still love them regardless! It’s like when a person doesn’t agree with who their daughter/son is in a relationship with, that doesn’t mean they will turn their back on them! A lot of blacks, even in the black church has changed their viewpoints concerning gays the past decade, especially when Obama was in office! My dad and uncles had changed their views when they saw Obama support gays! They are in the 60’s and 70’s, would have been taboo discussing this with them 30 years ago! Stop lumping us together!

@@christian_person5058 Glad to hear that. But we are speaking in general. And yes WE as a community still have a problem with gays.

@@christian_person5058 I dont agree with you being black, but I love you. Good lord, dude. You sound like that guy.

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✨Thank you 👏🏾✊🏾❤️

I am a 55yr old and still going very strong bisexual white man. I take offense at your supposition that white people that are not interested in black men for dating or sex are racist. What I have noticed is that black men, whether straight or not, do not want to have sex or relationships with other people of color. To get white dick is the ultimate prize. I don't know why you detest your own culture and look down on your own people. I thought black was supposed to be beautiful. White men have not placed themselves on a pedestal. It is the people that want sex with them that has placed a value on them. I think rather than complain at racism, you need to look inward as to why your culture is rejected by so many black men. And why gay black men seek validation from white men. Don't expect white men to fix your problems. You love your community and culture enough to start the institutions and venues for a vibrant black and gay community.

@@mjbaz1 YOU NAILED IT!!! ☆☆☆☆☆

@@mjbaz1 IDK what brothers you have been around but sis, I dont chase Strawberry Vanilla dick. Yes their are white men that are attractive but I mainly LOVE BLACK/BROWN MEN I'm 25 and I know better not to chase yall, yall have a problematic view of diversity, beauty, and race. I'm not saying I dont find attraction to Strawberry/Vanilla men, however having been with a few, I keep a moderate safe distance so that my mental and spiritual self isnt compromised

yes, lets make it all about race. what if we segregate all the black gays into one safe space? or have a space just for blacks, maybe their own drinking fountain and seating area on the bus

I guess it doesn’t benefit you so u don’t care...

DebtSlave you completely missed the point. It is about race. If black LGBT are being discriminated against, then they NEED support more than ever. What does drinking fountains and spaces on buses have anything to do with anything....... #makeitmakesense

@@balazamon Well we tried that...but you fools made sure we got the short-end of the stick by allocating governmental funds...that we paid into as well...but that the precious whites were the only ones getting good schools and clean water...other than that we would have gladly stayed separate from whites. Hell alot of us still do today and we are just fine with it! #blackunity #blacklove ✊🏾

@@leahmay1506 if you don't see the point, which is, ITS ALWAYS ABOUT RACE.

I love all of them 🤩

Too bad they can't find it within themselves to support their own kind. Black Lives Matter to everyone except Blacks.

You took the words right out of my mouth!!!

White Supremacist Demon just because I suffer from RACISM White Supremacy doesn't mean I should just bow down to LGBTQ, Feminism, Immigrants, Isreal or Palestinians. Fuck off. Where are my Reparations?

Neglo Blaxon no, I’m not saying your forced to but just have some compassion and empathy that’s all I’m saying. We’re all in this battle for equality

@@negloblaxon7616 get out and get a job for your reparations! You don't hear native Americans, Mexicans, or Jews asking for reparations! So just stop playing the victim card.

Terence Heesch first and forth most I’m sorry you went through that experience because nobody should but I’m going to keep it real with you and say that all I’m reading from you is a mix of “me, me, me” and THIS is why I don’t date black/African American men and here’s WHY generalizing the entire mass together because of a small percentage when that’s not what the entire race is like. All that is doing is going against the intended conversation of this video. Every race has their struggles. That’s evident. But did you ever ask them why they felt the way that they did? Did you encourage them to go seek help from a mental health professional? And it seems like you have a certain “type” from your quote “exhausted” experience with the same kind of man. The common denominator only being their “black” isn’t enough and just perpetuates a stereotype because men come in all shapes, sizes, shades, personalities, interests, etc. There’s perfectly good sociological reasons why people think, act, and do the things they do but just chalking it up as a bad experience instead of a learning one doesn’t necessarily help in this case. Does that mean excuse the behavior? Of course not. But not calling it out or trying to figure it out makes it hard to be in the relationship with ANY race. You’re just making excuses.

I am black and unfortunately, I have witnessed as much about many black people in general. "Us vs Them". This sort of nonsense alienates many black people from others who are not concerned about race all the time.

@@ricardocantoral7672 I have noticed the same with some black folks I worked with. I would call that mindset 'racial inferiority'. One very attractive and sexy co-worker often would talk about perceived slights, and if the offender was white, it was always they were racist. But, she had no problem being totally racist herself, holding racist views of white people, jews, and everyone else. I was frankly shocked at her attitude that somehow she gets a pass to be what she seems to see hiding in every corner. That is, someone against her because of the color of her skin. The friendship wasn't destined to last long because sooner or later she would find something to hate about me. For her it was the fact that i'm a registered Republican. Oh, well. Maybe one day she'll judge people not by the color of their skin but the content of their character.

Being black is exhausting. You're tired of hearing abt, cool. We're tired of having to live it and see everything through the lense of race. When the 1st thing ppl see and base their judgments on is your skin color, everything becomes abt it. These conversations just show us time and again that black ppl whether they're queer or not, are alone in our fight

@@Enbionic_Titan Exactly. If you're tired of hearing about racism, imagine how tiring it is living racism. A lot of these comments are gaslighting black folks experience with racism as if it isn't real.

WTf, what did I just read..... but I thought white southern men were Racists

@@TrappedInTheNorth i have felt like ive been stereotyped by a few white guys at some jobs in Texas and Louisiana in my past but these are like little fast food grocery store type jobs not my big money jobs where its all about getting paid not race but usually in the gay life in the south from the 2000s i can only speak of my era i am adored and desired by white men and Latino idk why its wired but ive read and saw documentaries where it was like that with slavery woman too its a fetish to white men behind doors to me dominated by black ppl

@@indashadewithguccipaid510 Is it mainly wealthy White guys that wants you ? is that the pattern ?

Very true. I’m happy for you I was too yet Christ isn’t effectionate like I thought. I’m fact, he’s more like a teacher than a friend. It’s weird.. I’m proud u found the truth though. Amen

@@wisdomseeker0142 Celebrating with YOU!! Many thanks for your living with Wisdom!

@@wisdomseeker0142 Oh,the wonder of Heavenly wisdom from above!! He revealed Himself to me as my Song,even The Song of songs,John knew HIM!!

You need more than religion. You need to love and respect yourself, and stop playing the victim game.

@@michaelbruno1330 like I said I pray you wake up in Jesus name and be delivered from satan's influence..The devil brainwashes people like a virus His control over them is total until they accept the cure to that virus Jesus Christ. Jesus was never married physically, was surrounded by men and women one who was an ex prostitute yet was without sin. They were His disciples His family , they had brother sister love. He is Fully God but also fully human, most of them forsook him when He was in the most fire circumstances and He even told peter not to fight so He could die on purpose. If God in flesh wouldn't sin what gives anyone the right to sin? You think.self worship is enlightenment and yet Jesus denied Himself to be righteous and be like the highest . He is God but in His humanity He had to struggle to deny temptation. He understood GOD is the highest goal of life and the purpose of our existence. To be more like Him even though we cant become Him, we are made in His image. The created must become more like what created it not less. In His divinity He understood how awesome the divine actually is as the infinite trinity, He understood that Gods value is beyond description, but in His humanity He still lived a fully human existence, knowing He could leave it any time to go back to Heaven but chose to stay in human form until He accomplished His goal of resisting the devils influence for 33 years. Deny yourself take up you're cross and follow Jesus Hes the only way Hes perfect . His love is agape truly unconditional sex don't equal love. You seek the love of a Father that is what God will offer you.

pamela goudeau How is someone’s gayness,being forced in your existence ?...

Nothing is being forced down your throat, and if it was, then what do you cal all the movies and tv shows with promiscuous women and men having sex/making out with the opposite gender? The problem is that you’re not used to the visibility and it makes you feel uncomfortable. But just because you’re uncomfortable doesn’t mean that we have to hide in the closet so that y’all feel comfortable. If I’m with my partner, I’m not caring how uncomfortable you feel because I feel comfortable. And vice verse with your partner.

Y'all know this tired lie from intolerant assholes who try to act like they're accepting but are the main reason black men are on the down low.

That's the same thing i say about Christianity.

Joey Harper there’s nothing being forced. We’re just now more visible