I feel so bad for her. She’s trying so hard to convince men she’s the perfect catch, but no one wants her. 😢

​@@kiwik2951but she knows what men want and don't want 💀😂

@@kiwik2951in an alternative universe she is a married housewife with 3 kids and is making a cherry pie for her husband who’s coming from work

she's braindead

But yet when men lament their cheating, abusive wives dragging them through divorce court and using children as weapons, men are told we picked the wrong one.

Exactly

Who said that?

Huh? It’s actually the other way around, That’s why 80% of the divorce fillings is from Women.

⁠@@michaelanderson9914Pearl said it, the whatever pod cast said it, most Red pillers would agree that if a man doesn’t want to be in a relationship he has the right to leave. Where as women need to stay or she will put the nuclear family into impending doom.

Stevie wonder can see the hypocrisy 😂

Oohh...can you elaborate?

How do u figure??

agree

He hit a woman in the face with a glass and went to jail ​. You can google it @lilyann168

Hahahahahahhahahahahahaha so true

Yep, just did a 16 hour oil rig shift. Now about to go do a quick tour, I’m also on Seal Team 6. Just an average day, no big deal. 😂

@@BluEyeZ93 😂

I mean the problem with Pearl is she spends so much time dealing with internet incels she forgets what other men really are like. Something like half of what she says is just nuts (as a man who dates women). But it, like the rest of the pilltard movement, gains traction mostly because the other half isn't being talked about by anyone else, this in turn is why the left is driving the environmentalist arguments and why everything to do with the wifi password community is defined by the liberals. She's bougie and hates women and sorta reminds me the kind of person I'd be friends with, in some respects. She just, idk let me put it for you this way, the majority of my closest friends throughout my life have been women, often women that hated other women. Read from that what you will. So for me I just don't, really know a lot about men, as a man, in that regard. I just do not gel with them real well and I'm used to women being nice to me or at least not openly meanspirited or a pain in my ass except that like one stumpy little tubby white girl who's at every other job and is a pain in the dick they're just easier to get along with and talk to. Pearl goes so hard in, it's clear she's taken that whole "middleschool was awful and I hate you all I'm going over to play with the boys" thing to an extreme. Like, I don't *hate* men, I just don't understand or like or get along with them very much. I'm not ignorant of men having their own plight (well that's totally not true I legitimately didn't know how hard it is for other men til I found manpill videos last year). It can suck both ways, both people have problems, and both groups of people are people. The issue is people like Pearl literally talk about women like they're objects or second class citizens. Also yeah most of the people on those shows are messed up, including Tate, they're literally psychopaths and clinical narcissists, abject retards and mentally and sexually damaged fools. A lot of whom "HVM" are themselves being cheated on, don't have kids, aren't married etc. Divorce might actually be worse. I'm speaking as someone from a background of abuse and neglect, that while I don't think it was *that* bad, it was certainly bad enough to have permanently affected me and fucked me up in all kind of ways, I think the one thing they did right? Didn't divorce. I've often thought what would we be like if my parents did get that divorce. And I can't actually imagine it being much better honestly. The main thing is having a provider dad and a mom kind of mom. If you have that the rest isn't as important, depending how bad is the abuse.

agreed.

It's not and what makes me more upset are these are guys claiming to be Christian men, but abusing your husband or wife is not loving as God commands us to be in marriage. Crazy.

It's absolutely NOT a conservative view.

They look like they would defend Steven Crowder 🤮

@@rebeccakings754 also sleeping around and fornication against Christianity

Lol probably

OMG!!!

Valid

😂😂😂

Y'all are clowns.

THANK YOU Even when divorce was prohibited here in Russia families were able to deal with it via separation or returning back to the family of a wife. Some wives even left their abusive/infertile husbands and went to live unmarried with a another man. Where oh where in the bible did these people read the line "it's ok to beat your spouse because she/he cannot leave you" lol

The "leave us alone" is so real💀 that so much of the problem, people inserting themselves in shit and then getting offended by shit that doesn't concern them.

I feel this so hard. I'm not queer, i know what I am. Im not confused.

Amen. In my case, my asexuality is a trauma response and even though I've healed through the most of it, that sexual interest never developed. I don't consider myself queer for that at all, just a survivor that lost a chunk of my flesh but I'm still kicking.

I'm trans and i opted out of community, people are crazy. You're 100% right about it having no sense joining. Besides, i find so disrespectful to put people one doesn't even know in a category without their consent. I have a friend that thought she was asexual because of trauma until she started healing and meeting a decent person. But i'm pretty sure that isn't everyone's situation. Whatever the reason, i respect anyone's choices as long they don't hurt a 3rd party. I find very hard to understand why people gets on other person's business...

The way i felt that lol

Is it even male privilege? Isn’t it beyond that? It’s just psychopathic

that has nothing to do with male privilege. thats just their wishes and thoughts. is it female privilege if I said I want my husband to bring me flowers very day, clean the house, repair everything... i can ask for everything and perhaps I am lucky. perhaps I am not. nothing to do with privilege

Yes and at the same time they say men can cheat because it isn’t the same as women cheating

It's so funny, they're so happy to describe themselves as alpha's and how they are independent revolutionary thinkers, but not one of em can say " wait hold up wtf did I just say?" 1 of the dudes said cheating is 100% justified divorce and the rest just parroted him and jumped on the opportunity to agree, ironically they make themselves look very weak and easily swayed

It's part of the agenda to make the Islamic mindset normalized in in the west. This is the eastern way they deal with women and always have. Women in the east are sub-human property you can literally murder if they offend your "honor".

He is an abuser. Was arrested in Japan for beating on a woman lol it came out after this clip went viral

Yesss! 😂

​@@bleechrcreechrr😲

Just like Michael Knowles. He believes that divorce is NEVER acceptable, even in the case of abuse and violence. I wish I was kidding. He's insane. And I believe he outed himself as an abuser by saying that. Although I'd still probably think that even if he hadn't said that.

Rumor was he assaulted a woman so 🤷

They're trying to scare you because they won't date single moms, and that reduces their dating pool. They're condemning you for leaving when they couldn't. You'll be okay. Don't let the negativity get to you. Remember, all the water in the world can't sink a boat unless it gets inside, and if you don't let the negativity in, you'll flourish.

The men that think that way and would shame you for being abused are the same men who would abuse you. So think of it as protection. I have trauma too, it weeds out so many crazies we are blessed ❤

Thank you for your service

@@briskettacosthank you for your kind words💞

@@Em-jj2hpthank you for this!💞💞

She’s just desperate for attention. And will say the things she knows will upset ppl because it gets her more attention

She's definitely giving "hit me harder daddy" and a touch of "he knows where his home is" vibes

It's the only way Pickme Pearl can attain any male attention. She is only a 4/10 on her best day.

And they way she interrupts people, insults them "if they insult her", and chews with her mouth open, is quite unladylike and non-traditional. She gets off on talking down to women and it's very weird. She is a pickme girl.

23:45 who is this guy ?

She was easily destroyed by H3H3, which is HUMILIATING and as much as I don't like Ethan, he wiped the floor with her

Uh, I think you are being generous and naive about these mxn. As people generally are with men and their bs. Most Incels/MRAs have NOT been “hurt by women”. They hate women and girls simply b/c it makes them feel superior to have a group to abuse when they feel like pathetic losers compared to other men. They gravitate to the existing misogyny of their male predecessors and want to bring in a world order of universal female slavery so they can have an absolute higher status. As long as they can have their boots on women’s necks, they aren’t - in their warped perception - the lowest caste. They aren’t happy with regular male privilege - being of higher status compared to their female equivalent. They want the entire female population in servitude. Stop coddling their bs. Men created things like Nazism. Let’s stop with the denialism about how things go when men are unregulated.

Parents fighting is abuse and they usually take it out on children. These people are so stupid.

I think it isn´t comparable. The trauma of divorce and having one parent stripped from their lives is a different pain to physical abuse or witnessing their parents fight. I guess it depends on the situations, sometimes one is worse than the other and depending on that I would advise to either divorce or endure, one of them is usually the lesser evil, but both are evil.

They’re acting like we have to pick one - BOTH situations are bad!

Wish my parents would have just divorced. So weird.

@wolfsmaid6815 As far as I'm aware, that's just not what the evidence/research suggests. Abuse witnessed by children gets reflected back on their development - it teaches them unhealthy relational skills whether they become vulnerable to OR perpetrators of (or both) violence/abuse in relationships. Divorce DOES harm kids but only compared to households with healthy marriages ~ when comparing divorced and unhealthy marriages, divorced kids have better outcomes. They learn that it's better to walk away from conflict than endure harm or become violent yourself. Not to mention, in certain cases there is extreme violence happening that has caused spouses to murder their entire families...or gotten children removed completely because the couple refuse to separate. So definitely, children remaining with a stable parent or 2 coparents is better than being in foster care, murdered, or learning very toxic relational behaviours.

I mean, I wish 😂 I graduated last may so where tf was my magical sugar daddy to sweep my virgin college girl ass up😂

They are super salty because they're not desireable, so they amplify and exaggerate the experience of those who are desired, and its so ridiculous.

Psychopaths

Right? He's probably just as dangerous as these abusive men they're discussing. You can just tell by his whole vibe that he's probably abusive as hell.

They would a hundred percent go get their daughters if they got that call. But they’re telling other women to endure, knowing full well they wouldn’t let their daughters endure that.

But Pearl really can’t debate at all it’s hilarious how dumb and fake she is so actually yes I agree with you it would be good to watch!

THIS THIS THIS PLEASE BLAIR!?

Co-sign

yes! and go on that podcast with the cringy abusive guys.

They would never agree because they know Blaire would destroy them 🤭

I lived in a small town for a few years where a woman was stabbed to death while she slept on the couch by her abusive husband. She managed to crawl to the front yard before she bled out... right in front of their 6 year old son. Don't endure abuse, folks. This is where it could get you.

I'm so sorry about your cousin. May you be healed and comforted from your loss.

😣 second time I’m heading this first was from a friend . Really sad. Going thru it with the person I love/father of my kids

@@kyrajoshuaurban3534 I'm sorry this has happened. May you and they each also be comforted and healed.

Absolutely you should leave if someone becomes a severe abuser, but more important that you guys never seem to talk about is make sure your communication skills are rocksolid before you marry someone or even date them. If you are actually having strong conversations and asking hard questions, you can weed out abusers from your life almost always. The problem is a lot of people get all giddy and just wanna have sex and have fun and they are not asking the serious questions and figuring out who the hell it is they’re about to give their time in life to.

how is lgbt an extreme ideology?

Calling feminism extreme tells me you don't know what feminism is.

@@singlecow3895 Noun. idealogue (plural idealogues) One given to fanciful ideas or theories; someone who theorizes or speculates. Someone who espouses a particular ideology, particularly a political one.

@@akashajones6079 Noun. idealogue (plural idealogues) One given to fanciful ideas or theories; someone who theorizes or speculates. Someone who espouses a particular ideology, particularly a political one.

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I'm really sorry, pal. That was not ok. I truly hope you find a partner or friend who makes you feel completely safe❤

I am so sorry you had to endure this brother… you’re not alone. Abuse can affect much more than the person being abused as well. I hope you are doing okay these days. Sending healing vibes 🫂

Sending positive energy, love, strength, kindness, and most important healing (onyourown terminyourowntime)your way. Just know that acceptance never has to be a part of your life with this situation. So many people will tell you to accept what happened to you and move on. Fuck that bullshit you never have to accept it. You have the right to say fuck you for what you did to my mother and to me. I will never forgive you and move on. I will always fight to expose you and your kind to the world so that I can help save at the very least one person. I will never forgive you because if I do then you will not feel the full wrath, hatred that you deserve. So fight like hell for the children and mothers out there that are going through exactly what you and your mother went through and say “NO MORE” Take care my beautiful young man. Hello from A grandma in Florida.

@@DeatrahBello Thank you for your words. You echo my mind and that is exactly what I will do. Thank you.

They still are.

Yup

Exactly - so childish! It’s no wonder they are single; they haven’t learned to cooperate or compromise.

Children yes

Throwback to 2nd grade telling girls were smarter than them😂😂 girls go to Jupiter to get more stupider

I had a very similar experience. I was so happy when my parents got divorced. If the wife is being abused, most likely the kids are too. Even if they're not, being exposed to that violence is traumatic and does harm development. Cheating is wrong, but the kids don't necessarily know about it, so automatically it's way less harmful for them. Plus, if you're abusive, you're probably cheating too. I don't like divorce, we need to take marriage a lot more seriously, but sometimes it is the right decision.

I wish my mother did that. My dad has very bad anger problems and would beat me whenever he was in a bad mood for no reason. My mom never did anything about it and so I struggled a lot as a child. I suffer from a lot of mental disorders and have brain trauma from all the beatings that will never fully heal. I’m 31 now and still unable to have kids due to the beatings and my mom is still with him. She use to give us kids the excuse that she was staying married for us kids cause we needed a father but she was doing it for her because she couldn’t live without my dad even if it meant sacrificing us kids. My mom never had the backbone your mother has and we suffered the consequences. People like these red pillars are a dangerous voice to society but they must be heard so people like us can share our experiences and how their advice is harmful.

My parents divorced when I was 5 too. The abuse was causing me so much anxiety that I bit my nails till my fingers would bleed. I was so happy when my mom packed us up and left. Red pill would say my mom brainwashed me but that’s not the case. I vividly remember the fear, and the songs my mom would sing to calm me down.

Facts 💯% 😔

My husband had the same exact experience. We are both Christian and we can’t see each other ever getting divorced, but if he were to start having a substance abuse problem, I would leave.

thank you for saying that because i was a fan of the podcast i believed everything they said but now as a woman and nursing student. i know that what we do is tough but rewarding. I'm getting tired of those podcast being mysgonist

Thank you for serving your community! God Bless ❤

Lmao, 5.3% of linemen are women. How many lives can you save without access to electricity? 5.3% of plumbers are women, how many lives are you saving without access to running water? Women are 10.9% of the construction force, how many lives are you saving without a building? You think you're special because you're a doctor saving lives while in a first world country built by men? It took hundreds of men for you to have your cushy life, and you're nothing without them. As a matter of fact, given your position, are you really saving lives or are you ensuring the hospital, insurance companies, and pharma all profit? The medical industry is one of the corrupt and profit driven industries on the planet, so congratulations on your role in it. You're not a doctor to save lives, you're a doctor for the money. Quit pretending otherwise.

Same. As a medical student who's in school where 70% of all students are female, I respect her for that

you like killing babies?

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I’m very sorry you went through that and I’m glad you got out but what I do wish women word preach to other women is to make sure you guys are working on your communication skills and asking very hard questions to men before you decide to date or spend a significant part of your life with them. You can weed abusers out of your life 99% of the time before you even start a relationship with them if you are asking the right questions and really digging in.

GGS!!!

I'm guessing you've never met a real narcissist in your life O.o MASTERS of disguise and lies.@@shasmi93

Lmfao 😂😂😂😂b

@@Cateater123how is it funny

Men too! Abuse is never ok

And before leave get a support net, community should help more when they know there's abuse in a family.

She is so funny

Such an icon 🤍

Love her ❤️

That line had me dead 😂

No I literally died 😂

These people are crazy and potential abusers. I am 32yo and i can still remember how relieved i felt as a 9 year old, when my grandpa kicked my abusive dad out of our house. We were begging our mother to get divorce but she couldn't do it. Now she is on mental meds and my sister followed too because of the childhood trauma. A divorce would have saved a lot of pain.

They have a slave fantasy.

i'm also worried about the men who would be effected by this. Men get abused ALMOST as much as women but they are far more quiet about it and don't report it because of public shame.

@@byJessChThey will read your story and blame your mom for picking him. These guys are so deranged

@@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed Let’s be honest. These people are basically male-supremacists. So *none* of these talking points are going to apply to themselves or other men. Think about the divorce conversation. They are only against it when *women* initiate it.

Totally narcissists. I've noticed that with trans/detrans children debates they have. Essentially, the most important thing is having the true trans kids to transition as early as possible. "Normal kids" who have to detransition and live with gender dysphoria for the rest of their lives - yeah, we don't care! That's so bonkers. You know how gender dysphoria feels, how can you be fine with someone suffering as much as you have? Unless they are not trans and just pretending it for views.

Thank you for tell your story. Proves that social media influences people in the wrong way by liars.

That’s why I would never do one of those til tok street interviews. Of course they edit you to look crazy.

could it be possible that these weird views are a very elaborate way to get a man?

Not a feminist. Maybe you should reread the definition of feminism.

Feminist are kinda like hare groups honestly just like the test of them lol. They don't want equality, they want to be "special"

No you’re not. Are elderly people now changing sexuality as they lose their libido or is a lack of sex drive an endocrine and/or mental disorder? 🤔

i'm also asexual and i was shocked to hear that "we as asexual don't have rights". Like, WHAT ARE YOU EVEN TALKING ABOUT😃???

Exactly, same here. there isn't a law against us or anyone coming after us for being asexual. we live comfortably celibate. These people just want to seek attention.

@@songoku8627 there are elderly people who still have intercourse. you don't know what you're even talking about

Out of interest do you know why some Asexual people want to be part of the LGTB+ community? Isn't that just for people who are discriminated and marginalised due to their sexuality, queerness or being trans?

Yeah. I don’t think she actually has these beliefs, she’s just catering to a very specific audience.

The whole manosphere/tradbro/tate psyop is satanic.

Yeah lack of accountability doesn’t make people improve, and fostering hatred from the same people you want is a recipe for disaster.

It’s far right onlyfans 😅

​@missfortune8553 she doesn't there's videos of her from a year or 2 ago where her takes were much more moderate. She just says stuff to go viral and make money

Well, damn. Now I can't unsee it.

Thumbs are way more useful. How insulting.

A sore thumb

​@@xy9287they don't, that's why she's single and hasn't been in a relationship for ages.

Hahaha now that's all I'm going to see when I look at her cheers way to funny not to comment

What do yup disagree with her?

Yea, she's trying to cause a fuss to get more "influencer" fame.

Exactly. She's no Tate. Tate could at least hold a conversation wthout giggling anytime he knew he was about to say controversial like she does. Her body language gives away that she doesnt believe what she's saying either. I dont believe she's an incel, although she gives major incel vibes. There's rumors out there that she's pregnant without a partner. Which I hope is true, bc I bet my money on it last year. If the child is biracial, I'm winning all of it. Fingers crossed!

@@patty-pat-pat😂 that’s so funny to me

​@@mmor7380she thinks women shouldnt have the right to vote, for example

LITERALLY SAME. My parents fought so much that even today, in my mid 20’s, I can’t watch a tv show if there are characters arguing. I genuinely don’t know how I can get over it. Anytime I see people even START to get into an argument, I have to leave the scene.

I wish they had tried to work on their problems instead. If they put in the effort to co-parent successfully, I wish they'd put in the work to make themselves the parents you deserved.

​@@mafiawaffle1386If a romantic relationship no longer works, it won't work. And it shouldn't be forced to just because the two participants have filed a legal contract to be together.

My ex husband was physically abusive to me. He didn’t start to become physically abusive to our sons until they were nearly teens. I left right away because of it. That kind of person who is willing to hurt his wife will turn on the kids too.

@@mafiawaffle1386some people can’t live together. There are a such thing as toxic combinations. Truth is, you don’t know what work they put in to try to make the relationship stay together. I’ve seen those people who keep trying to work it out until there is so much hate and resentment the relationship just implodes.

Not the Latter Day Saints. It really depends on the church

they are abusers. Actually facing charges in other countries.

Yup. Jesus Christ Himself said divorce is fine if there is adultery in the marriage. It’s literally in the Bible.

@@WeartheGoodSocksno? i thought they were allowed to divorce

@@eatsalad728sort of. You can get a marriage dissolved but a temple marriage is how you get to the highest level of heaven (they call it the Celestial) so most people are waaaay less likely to anull a marriage. plus the stigma around it.

Lot of single women are dng fine, you don't need to be happy. As long as you're content it's fine

I’m also asexual and that’s so true. People who claim that asexuals are oppressed are chronic victims. I’ve never experienced oppression for being asexual.

Like...when tf do u get outed as asexual?? 😂 it's easier to hide ur asexuality than straight, gays & bis sexuality bcuz u do....nothing.

Thankfully my sister is married with 2 kids so no one ever bothers me about that stuff. My mom already has her grandkids so she doesn't care lol.

It can be hard to find a romantic partner who’s ok with 0 sex. for those like me who still want a life partner and with other asexuals being not very prevalent That’s probably the hardest thing. Will agree though Definitely not a humans rights issue and definitely not oppressed. Just thought I’d give a asexual POV

@@idasone117 That makes sense, I have no problem with asexual people sharing their challenges but everything gets so heavily exaggerated now.

Same I don't know any Christian like this!! Almost like they are paid to say this for views as nobody is actually like this

@@aurora6920I grew up in Christianity. Many many Christians are against physical abuse. Especially the men.

@@aurora6920 or they try to make women be ruled by a mam like dictatorship and use these "older" women to do it

heres a funny anecdote i've heard Pearl give when it came to this "edure" situation by trying to do a bait and switch about the context.. she tells this story about either her grandmother or aunt (can't remember which right now), who had a husband that stepped out on her for another woman for years. Leaving the aunt/grandmother with children ghosted.. but b/c she was such a "Christian Woman".. she stayed celibate and never attempted to remarry for years. Now here's the little bait and switch.. the "other woman" her husband had left her for, for YEARS, actually passes away due to some illness.. and then returns to Pearls aunt/grandmother who took him back with "delight". B/c, in Pearls words.. she was such a "real" Christian woman that she's the embodiment of someone who takes her marital vows truly til "death do us part".. far as all the mental abuse the poor woman must have went through being left by her husband for another woman, whilst with children left without a father. Pearl told this story as if it was somehow an empowering Christian model to marriage which was absolutely insane. She didn't once chastise the husband for his sins.. which is ironic bc one of her 'bot' programs is beating single women (like herself) over the head with how they don't take " better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death to us part" seriously and will just divorce "just bc".. seriously, she thinks women divorce men on the majority for "boredom".. and as many times as i've heard her repeat this line.. i've not once heard her remember the to "love and to cherish".. she's unbearable.. oh btw.. cap on the story too.. no way in heck its true. please.

I went back and "endured" the podcast episode that clip is from, and... It just spiralled so hard 🙄

Any man who tells women to endure physical abuse should automatically get jumped by 10 full grown strong men.

"I'm high value. That's why I have to physically threaten women to do whatever I want them to do!"

They are the reason together with this fool of a girl that i am a feminist

So true. Weak men will do anything for a little power.

Cheating is domestic abuse. It is often weaponized to destroy people, often by both sexes.

“Why can’t we talk about the Jews” is a song she wrote.

Ya i think so too, she was really popular for a minute and is now grasping at straws to stay "relevant" also shes lost the side of logic and reason and thats what used to be claimed by her..all the time! So yes agree..

100%

Hopefully but honestly I am not so sure. She seems to really support these views she came from a nuclear family where her father ran the house and financially supported her mom they were well off financially so her views stem from her upbringing

It's very common. 1 out of 3 women have been abused by a romantic partner. I'm not sure what the statistic is for men, but I'm sure it isn't true because so many men are going to deny it.

Im sorry you had to go through that, and I hope you found some one better 🙏

Hope you're doing well now. Nobody should have to go through something like that, glad your abuser is nothing but worm food now. It is ridiculously common, almost every woman I know has been abused before, almost all of the women in my family were to. Will never happen to any of them again now that me and my brothers are older but it is definitely not a rare thing, not by a long shot.

@akeelyaqub2538 unfortunately, you're right. It's very common. Most women i know have been in one. There's been a couple of men I've known have been in one, too. I was in one for 15 years and finally left him 13 years ago. I still can't get into a serious relationship because I have huge trust issues. People say "why don't they just leave?" Because the abuser brings the person down so much she feels worthless. That isn't counting the people who can't leave because they don't have anywhere to go, they've never had a job, fear the abuser will hurt them, etc. There's several reasons. Leaving is the most dangerous time for a victim. Victims get killed all the time when they leave. I had to plan my escape for months and then hide from. He stalked me for a couple of years. He called my stepmother and left a message saying he was going to find me, kill me, and then kill himself. I called the cops and they didn't do anything!! I got a protection order for him and that really doesn't stop the abuser. The victim needs to have a plan when they leave. Victims can definitely leave abusive relationships, but it takes a plan. It was scary when I left but I'm so glad I did!

@@christinadodd5780 unfortunately they break you down and turn everything on you to make you feel like you are in the wrong, that's a part of the abuse. It usually starts with mental and the physical comes later. They always apologize and promise it will never happen again because they "love" you. Oh you make me a better man they say! The thought of fixing someone becomes an addiction within ourselves.

Oh, I also LOVE that you support our second amendment and your collection is AMAZING 🔫

aw yes, the solution: don't divorce your abusive husband, but cheat on him and he'll divorce you! Nothing could possibly go wrong!

makes perfect sense😝

Even worse is men are wired to cheat and the woman has to tolerate a abusive, cheating husband. But a wife cheating warrents a divorce 😂 who the hell even give these idiots a platform. I report all these podcasts

Same here ❤😢I’m completely with you

She is so childish and has zero life experience. It’s a living hell to watch someone u love get abused.

same here. 29 years later, they still fight. and it can become bad. last time i was there and they did this, i shouted how they should have just separated for their own sake and mine. i am 257 now, if that's any reference.

Divorce is sometimes the answer. If the relationship only brings negativity you shouldn’t be together, especially if you have kids. I wish my parents got divorced too.

I totally get it and understand your position... but in mosttttt situations lol it is better for the kid to grow up with a mother and father then without

i use my smart watch and set it to vibrate every 30 minutes on the "get up and walk" setting. changed my life. seriously, i can sit and do exacrly nothing for 3 hours without realising time passed 🤦‍♀️ of course, then i for get to charge it/put it on 😂

I have ADHD too and my Apple Watch is a lifesaver. There are several books out there with coping strategies, my favorite is “ADD-friendly ways to organize your life”

I said the same thing. I have it really bad but I don't expect the world to change for us few.

Exactly!! I have all my clocks in my house and my car set 5 minutes fast and I always try to leave the house extra early cause if I don’t I’m late 😂😂 you just learn to do what you have to do! Not make others work around it🤦🏽‍♀️

You kids nowadays are such a trip. time blindness??? I always been late because I suck at being responsible and that's my truth.

Ah, but remember, you exist to validate other people's sexuality. You owe other people sex! Because how will they experiment with their sexuality if they don't have access to sex?!

That’s just your experience. I’ve heard of many asexuals in the groups I’m in be sexually assaulted and/or raped as an attempt to “fix” them. Same thing happens to lesbians, it’s called corrective rape. It should be considered a hate crime as well for asexuals. Maybe it is but I can’t find anything saying if it is or not.

So that actually makes her the oppressor then, right? 😂😂😂

I've had negative experiences due to being asexual but it's not oppression. I think half the problem with people in the lgbtq space nowadays is not understanding what oppression is. Someone being rude to you or not respecting you isn't oppression.

i guess you could resent how sexual society is and how others push it onto you ... BUT i'm not asexual and i also resent all of that

@@rachelforshee6014 I'm so sorry. That's such an awful thing to say. And these people are never consistent. The same ones who supported me leaving my abusive ex condemned my friend for leaving hers as if she's less deserving of freedom from abuse because she got married. It's ridiculous

Divorce is rough but it gets harder the longer you leave it.

100%

I was married for two years (20-22) we were together 7 years total. He was emotionally abusive, he cheated, he would be gone from 3 am to 830 pm with no texts or calls but I was irrational for thinking he might be hurt.... and I was shamed for walking away from the marriage when he blamed our marital problems on our 4 year old foster child...

My mom and I only recently found out that my grandpa, her dad, had been arrested at age 77 for diddling an underage girl who lived down the street from him. And that it wasn't the first time he'd done something like that. You just never f*cking know.

It’s very scary

It’s not really crazy that it is so prevalent we’ve pretty much evolved to seek out other humans that are showing strong signs of fertility. Who better to show strong signs of fertility than young children that have just started puberty? It’s in men’s DNA to be attracted to them. The MAJOR difference is we also have very strong brains that can think beyond just fertility and sexual attractiveness . I’m not into children because I also want a woman who I can have a solid conversation with, and we can kick ass in life together. I won’t be able to get very far in life if I have to take care of a child that is my partner. But I’ll be honest, there are young women under 18 who I find their physical body very attractive… I’d NEVER do anything with that attraction but it’s in my DNA to be attracted. So I can see why so many get caught because they don’t have a strong will and moral compass. There are people who can’t even get their life together enough to brush their teeth everyday, now we expect them to OVERRIDE their biological attraction to fertile and young women. Not gonna happen, I feel bad for them for being weak in the mind and not having strong men figures in their life to guide them around those bilogical urges.

@@shasmi93 you’re a walking red flag. Any one who tries to justify pedophilia is a walking red flag. Pedophilia is being attracted to prepubescent children there is No puberty involved with pedophilia. What you are describing is also a character defect called Hebephilia which is one step up from pedophilia and BOTH are a defect in character which has been pushed by degenerate society to be normalized as the elites in every country typically are pedophiles and Hebephiles who engage in human trafficking involving children. There is a difference between seeing that a young woman who has experienced puberty is attractive and simply just finding women who are much younger than you as attractive solely due to them being much younger than you. We have normalized the brainwashing of men and women from a young age which has created major character defects in BOTH sexes to believe this is normal human behavior when in reality it is just perverse brainwashing that has benefited “elite men” with power in society. That is also why you should Not trust religion yet rather hold onto spirituality. Mankind has tainted that as well for its own profit. Ah yes religion teaches us that the man should have as many wives as he wants including minor females while the females are silent and compliant. What a shocking revelation lol 🤢🙄

@@shasmi93 I'm sure the Catholic Church would love the idea of DNA being the reason male priests have harmed so many young boys for a millenia but fertility would play no role in that. For someone supposedly so intelligent, this take was beyond brain dead.

@@maurymalkovich8117 eh, it's a lot more secular nowadays. I was on a flyover between Australia and Europe. stayed a night in Dubai. this happened at the airport actually 😅

​@@complex_kinda nice that they didnt just "mind their business" when they saw something they thought was sus tho 🤷‍♀️ too many ppl mind their business at the wrong times

@@blah914 100%! I did not fault them at all for trying to stop what they thought was a man from going into a women's bathroom. I don't think that kind of proactive action is nearly as common as it should be nowadays.

I would say both

All your story did was make me want to move to Dubai where I wouldn't have to fear some fetishist or predatory male "identifying as a woman" entering behind me in a public restroom without three men running after him to drag him out! That sounds so glorious to a female who never wants to use another public restroom again until this unsafe lunacy ends. Ironically, I visited Dubai for two weeks in 2001. Had I even imagined what America would be like in 2023, I would have purposely missed my flight and started a new life, lol.

Same family situation here. I've had a few relationships but never lived with anyone. I've always wanted to be independent (guess I didn't want to risk being trapped by an abuser). Now, at 49, financially independent, child free, I am not controllable, I don't put up with BS and guys don't like it. I hold on to my power and few men feel comfortable with that.

My first memory was lying in my bed and listening to my Dad hurt my Mom. They got divorced when I was 6, and I was happy about it! I was physically neglected for a couple years afterward because she was really young and didn't know what she was doing, but it was better than listening to the abuse.

She’s brainwashed.

"men run society's infrastructure!" this society? THIS society? The one with roads crumbling, horrible buildings that fall in a few decades because there's no good old wood left, entering an economic crisis rivalling the great depression... THIS society? and you think that's a brag?????? Also, "men built this society" is such a garbage take because WOMEN WEREN'T ALLOWED TO DO WORK. They were home-slaves who had to breed and bake on command of their husband. "men built this society" by using the unpaid and unseen labor of women.

+@@bluesakura2092 She's trolling.

i'm sorry but as much as i love women, and am a women myself, i'm super proud and inspired by women's accomplishments and success but just because we are school teachers doesn't mean men DONT run societies infrastructure. there's a bigger picture you're not seeing and when you can accept the facts regardless if they're hard to come to terms with or not, you will have a stronger stance. feminists that acknowledge facts and history are so strong and intelligent. we must acknowledge the facts to address the issues

@@bunnysabop I would definitely agree with you that men run society’s infrastructure ; in my comment I never disagreed with that point. I think it’s an extreme statement and an oversimplification to say that women could disappear and society would still function. I don’t agree with that, when women are the mothers, the teachers, the nurses, the caretakers, etc. of our society. It’s about the harmony between men and women in my opinion, not about one being more important than the other.

And the family pets. Don't leave them behind to bear the brunt of his bad temper. It's not their fault

😂😂me too .. blaire is something else! Haha love her

Same 😂

Yeah I was laughing pretty hard at that one myself.

My first laughter of the day 😆

And says women should be virgins and isn’t a virgin herself 😂

Do you have to experience rape to assert that rape is bad? She grew up watching her parents in love and in a healthy, happy marriage. I don’t get this argument.

@@beanybabyrabie That means literally nothing. She has no first hand experience so what's her advice? All she does is demonstrate and guide people on becoming and staying toxic and bitter. That's not cute or attractive. I've experienced people poisoned by that type of venom.

She also said she wouldn't accept relationship advice from women who have never had a successful relationship, and yet here she is, dishing out just that.

Facts

OMG! I experience this all the time! I am also a 6'3" woman and it's been happening since I was a teenager. Over the years, I find that it's older people that do this.

I'm a 6'3" man with a beard and Popeye arms, and have been called ma'am before. Can't read much into these things.

Yes but sometimes people misgender trans people on purpose .. bc they know it bothers them .. and that’s when it’s messed up and becomes harassment … if a trans woman looks as transitioned as Blaire white, why bother her about her trans identity? I really don’t get stupid people lol

Happens to me all the time too since I have short hair and I’m 5’8”. When they do actually look at me full on instead of peripherally, they apologize.

@@disposablehero9968lol

They don't believe anything a woman says just because she says it, nor should they.

Last I heard, Mr. “Endure” was facing allegations of beating up a woman. Soooo (I’ll have to double-check later, I’m on mobile + on break.)

@@KlutzyNinjaKitty It suddenly makes perfect sense. They need society to be desensitized to certain groups of people because they want the ability to exploit or harm them with impunity. It’s very transparent. Almost none of them actually live “traditional” lives. It’s a scam.

@@LoneWulf278 - Exactly. Two other guys here on YT, Aba and Preach, just made a good video/point recently regarding Andrew Tate (who has admitted, on his website, to making women fall in love with him only to pimp them out online. But now he suddenly has a problem with camming and all that.) These guys just prey on sad, lonely people on all fronts. Whether it’s by exploiting women via sex work, or by inciting gender war bullshit, by dishing out bad takes in the form of “dating advice,” whatever. They sell the disease AND the bogus cure for it, but they’re also warping western society as a whole just for the sake of their pockets.

@@KlutzyNinjaKitty So true. It’s really insane how a lot of young men will sacrifice anything and anybody just to feel masculine or powerful.

I used to be into those kind of channels, the manosphere types, I agreed with a lot of what they were saying especially when it came to criticizing extremist feminists and leftists who would say crazy things like all men this and all men that, what made me rethink my beliefs and viewpoints is when a couple of them started to say things like "women should be able to vote" and "women are should only do household chores" and such, I really had to be honest with myself and consider wtf was I watching

You are taking the words out of my mouth every single sentence even liking Destiny part!!!! ♥️ Sometimes, I just feel so alone as a Christian conservative one these things it almost feels like I’m in a dream and my own people don’t agree with me.

What's the elephant in the room

@@dont_think2xHey, I’m glad you found your way out of those circles if they were getting too extreme. I don’t know, but I’m sure there are some men giving good advice, too. I’ll tell you from personal experience, if a man has extreme views and threatening vibes like especially one of the guys shown in here, women sense danger and will run.

@@ambermoon719 I'm glad too, there was good advice but I started to notice there was also bad ideas and sprinkled in, for example.. when it comes to marriage laws favoring to women, pretty reasonable that men would be angry about that and want to vent their frustrations, then they would say "and that's why women shouldn't vote". If you're a guy that has had bad experiences or many with women, you can see how easily you can be pulled in to that way of thinking, there's more to it but you know, I was young maybe 18 or 19, this was years ago

The fact that we're really having this Debate is Insane. That man's wife needs to buy a pepper spray, a taser and maybe a Gun

same. my ex is still a major problem but my kids watching that and accepting it as normal was weighing on me more that 20 years gone

Pearl still lives at home with her well off parents. She has no value.

Hell, I'm 5'5, 200lbs and managed to get myself one. I chalk it up to the fact that I can cook, because it sure as hell ain't my looks!

​@AngryReptileKeeper You can be beautiful inside and out even being heavier!

I would not call myself slim but I snagged myself a prince 20 years ago. A good honest manly man who can chop wood, fix his own car, doesn't trim his chest hair or pluck his brows. Besides that. Based on my past experience, most guys don't like having sex with skeletons. Their words. Gotta give a guy something to hold on to right ladies?😉 they love it!

@@anniegoulaheee8025I hate when y’all call skinny women “skeletons” to uplift yourself. get a fuckin grip.

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@@mooma10 💛🤎