How Generosity Became A Burden - The American Tipping Crisis

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Tipping has become a burden. 25, 35, 45% tips for a takeout order or mediocre service. If you don’t shell out a tip though, you often become the villain as you’re that one customer who didn’t leave a tip, but how did things get so bad? Well, tips weren’t always a part of American culture; in fact, early Americans were strongly against tips. It wasn’t until the mid-1800s that wealthy Americans learned about tipping from European serfs. These wealthy Americans would bring this practice back to the states but it by no means caught one. This was the case until the Emancipation Proclamation which freed slaves resulting in most of them working in service industries. Many business owners would not pay these workers any base salary and they would be completely dependent on tips for income. So, it’s no wonder why people who were anti-slavery started tipping these people on a regular basis. This quickly became customary within American service industries and legislation only strengthened this trend. Pair this with the ease of paying and calculating tips offered by technology and you get to the tipping crisis that we’re currently in. This video explains the history of tipping and how generosity became a burden in America.
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0:00 - The State Of Tipping
2:15 - A Checkered History
4:52 - Resistance Falls Out
8:23 - The Tipping Burden
10:54 - The Anti-Tipping Movement
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@ytht21
@ytht21 Жыл бұрын
I hate it when people say "If you can't afford to tip, you shouldn't eat outside." - well, it's a bl00dy food court, not a fine dining restaurant
@Frexuz
@Frexuz Жыл бұрын
LOL 😂
@whyyeseyec
@whyyeseyec Жыл бұрын
Those are the same type of people who say - "If you have nothing to hide, why not let the police search your car".
@LutherMahoney
@LutherMahoney Жыл бұрын
@@whyyeseyec Bruh. You just hit the nail on the head.
@anonymousnearseattle2788
@anonymousnearseattle2788 Жыл бұрын
And that's just weird too, because the restaurant is still making money if you pay without a tip. Would they really prefer that we didn't go at all? I think they'd go out of business. And that's exactly what happened during "COVID."
@lasgio_
@lasgio_ Жыл бұрын
​@Johnny Botts actually it's the same people advocating for a living wage that are wanting the same poor people to tip. I always tell them, if the case is to not go out to eat if people don't have money, then people at restaurants wouldn't have jobs.
@DougBurgum4VP
@DougBurgum4VP Жыл бұрын
I don't go to any business that asks for tips upfront. It's that simple. A tip is supposed to encourage good service, if I'm tipping you before I even get my product it defeats the purpose
@me-myself-i787
@me-myself-i787 Жыл бұрын
A tip does encourage good service. The tip they're asking for is what they'd get for average service, while exceptional service warrants a higher tip and poor service warrants a lower tip. Having the standard tip baked into the price removes the option of punishing bad workers by withholding a tip.
@aryajpegasus
@aryajpegasus Жыл бұрын
​@@me-myself-i787fear of failure is never a good motivator. all it does is stress the person out and make them feel helpless. the best conditions for growth happen when you remove/lower the cost of failure but reward success. punishments accomplish nothing other than creating misery.
@keanuortiz3766
@keanuortiz3766 Жыл бұрын
​@@me-myself-i787 bro the payment they get for service is called a wage 💀 💀
@mjc0961
@mjc0961 Жыл бұрын
@@me-myself-i787 Did you even read what you replied to? OP said businesses that ask for tips UPFRONT. They ask you to tip before you even know how the service was and how much you want to tip.
@moderatelyapathetic3280
@moderatelyapathetic3280 Жыл бұрын
That’s pretty much your only option at this point. Also, you can tip in cash. Better for the person you’re tipping too.
@coachingmanagersandleaders
@coachingmanagersandleaders Жыл бұрын
I went to a deli where I picked up a pre-packaged sandwich and bottle of water and the cashier rolled her eyes at me when I put zero tip. Never again.
@Alias_Anybody
@Alias_Anybody Жыл бұрын
"I'd tip the engineer who designed the machine making these bottles"
@Aviator7477
@Aviator7477 Жыл бұрын
Wow
@wolfgangfegelein2450
@wolfgangfegelein2450 Жыл бұрын
Cashiers expect tips now? What the actual fuck?
@vijayjayaraman5990
@vijayjayaraman5990 Жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me at a Food court at Las Vegas show. The guy had to give me a packaged drink and packaged snack and threw up his hands in disbelief when I selected zero tip
@beatrixk.6723
@beatrixk.6723 11 ай бұрын
@@vijayjayaraman5990 The Americans are really funny with their tiping culture. Why are customers required to pay a tip and subsidize the wages? It is the responsibility of the owner to pay his staff a decent wage. If he cannot do it than he should shut down his business.
@chad7982
@chad7982 Жыл бұрын
A waitress tried to give me the guilt trip because I wouldn't tip on a order to go. And yes, I'm at the restaurant to pick it up myself. Her guilt trip failed. Screw those people who want money for very little work. The hell with them.
@mjc0961
@mjc0961 Жыл бұрын
There was no service provided, and if there was it would be poor service due to the attempted guilt trip. Both are no-tip scenarios.
@user-db4ke3if6t
@user-db4ke3if6t Жыл бұрын
I'm getting tired some there bs. Slot time friendly or genuine. Then it's like they just accept 20 percent no matter the bill. Hell like go out for a nice steak dinner for two. The probably literally do about 20 minutes of work for 20 bucks. Tikes by three tables hell probably making 50 to over 100 an hour.
@chad7982
@chad7982 Жыл бұрын
@@user-db4ke3if6t Yes. And how many times do you even get offer a refill on your drink? In my experience is one time to no times. It's rare that I go out to eat. I cook over 80 percent of what I eat. Just lazy people in the dining industry. I mean lazz--ee.
@natas2350
@natas2350 Жыл бұрын
​@@chad7982Your whole comment sounds like petty garbage ,why can't someone just wait on me while I order them around and than they want a dollar for being my servant while I eat like a pig Thats you
@beaniemac
@beaniemac Жыл бұрын
I will never tip for carry out
@rayoflight62
@rayoflight62 Жыл бұрын
Here in the UK, tipping is not even a consideration. There is a big difference with the USofA. Personally, I consider tipping a very confusing practice, better avoided...
@93gus
@93gus Жыл бұрын
I've lived in over 20 countries: America, East asia, Europe and Australia. I've only ever tipped in America.
@andrewvirtue5048
@andrewvirtue5048 Жыл бұрын
As a Statesman: I don't tip for service, like waitresses or cashiering. I will tip skills though, who have authentically done a good job. Chefs, hair stylists, back breaking laborious furniture movers.
@javohnbdyer5456
@javohnbdyer5456 Жыл бұрын
@@andrewvirtue5048Even this is odd outside of the US. People have their salaries difficulty is expected in the labour its why youre paying in the first place. You dont have to justify the proper situations to pay someone outside of their salary 😭
@ehrenloudermilk1053
@ehrenloudermilk1053 Жыл бұрын
So do we
@nicoinformatics
@nicoinformatics Жыл бұрын
@@andrewvirtue5048 I live in Asia, do you know why we don't tip? Because it never ends well, for ANY reason. Not even "good service". Tipping when "the service is good" is not a good idea, because it promotes expectations towards the servers to receive tips, as long as they did good work. This is bad, really bad. It's so bad that in my country, the law strictly prohibits tipping on some services. It is literally illegal for you to tip, because biases that come from people who tip and those who do not is dangerous. You're not going to like it if you're getting bad service because the other guy tips better than you. You want to tip? Tip homeless people, orphanages, churches/mosques, those who actually need the money. Don't tip good services, if you think they did excellence, keep using their service/keep going to that restaurant or whatever, if the service was bad, never go back to it. That's how you do tips, and that's how it's done here in Asia.
@mikeschmitty4438
@mikeschmitty4438 Жыл бұрын
I spent a week in europe and It was painful to come home... its not right owners try to put the burden on us.
@Bullminator
@Bullminator Жыл бұрын
You can always move. Us is shithole anyway.
@patrickriley9419
@patrickriley9419 Жыл бұрын
Oh okay. Then people want to introduce tip credit. Fuck off.
@Valentin-oc5nh
@Valentin-oc5nh Жыл бұрын
and things are still cheaper in europe…
@UserNameAnonymous
@UserNameAnonymous Жыл бұрын
The burden is ALWAYS on you. Do you really think the owner is taking home less money just to be generous to you?
@blueprint7
@blueprint7 Жыл бұрын
@@UserNameAnonymous L
@RhythmGamer
@RhythmGamer Жыл бұрын
I flat out do not go to restaurants because of tipping
@DougBurgum4VP
@DougBurgum4VP Жыл бұрын
I don't go to sit down places that often because of this.
@LogicallyAnswered
@LogicallyAnswered Жыл бұрын
Fair enough
@lucjanl1262
@lucjanl1262 Жыл бұрын
Can't you just not tip?
@hiyaimamelia
@hiyaimamelia Жыл бұрын
I live in the uk and here tipping isn’t really a thing. The cost of the food already charges you enough to pay the staff a living wage so it isn’t necessary. The only time my family tips is if they’re exceptional, like they look after us well, chat to my younger brothers, make us laugh, etc. and even then it’s not a percentage and the card machine doesn’t ask you to tip, you can just hand them a £5 or £10 note and even on a £150 bill that’s considered a generous tip.
@lucjanl1262
@lucjanl1262 Жыл бұрын
@@just_another_bot0110 I don't live in usa so I might be clueless but what can the servers realisticly do, follow you home or smth?
@hotrodhunk7389
@hotrodhunk7389 Жыл бұрын
I went to pick up pizzas and they wanted a tip I am not f****** tipping someone if I'm driving there and picking it up. Honestly the audacity to ask for a tip makes me not want to go back to that place. I don't understand why people can't just get paid well and you just charge me whatever you need to make money on the food. Oh wait I do know because all the waiters just pocket the money and don't pay taxes on the money they earn.
@aeelinnannelie5651
@aeelinnannelie5651 Жыл бұрын
That's something people does not talk about. Waiters are not the victims here. I was talking with a waiter of a fancy restaurant: he makes about 80k a year. Way more than people with a degree. But they like to be called the victims just because they do not get a living wage from their employer. If that would to happen and therefore tipping disappeared, they would loose those exaggerated, tax-free "salaries" coming from tips. The victim here is the client. Waiters and employers are partners exploiting us
@time502
@time502 Жыл бұрын
Fun fact of the day, the only way it's tax free is if you tip in cash, any other way and uncle Sam gets his piece to spend on killing children overseas
@mjc0961
@mjc0961 Жыл бұрын
Same. Tips are supposed to be for the service. If I'm driving there, picking up my food, and leaving, what service am I paying for? I didn't receive any service. So why am I being asked to tip? Maybe just charge enough for the food so all employees can get paid a proper wage, and let tipping die.
@jmlainez
@jmlainez Жыл бұрын
Actually, tips are still being taxed by good ol America. I have an aunt that drives taxis in Las Vegas and they are taxed some additional percentage because the IRS assumes you get tips either in cash or kind. Lots of laws and policies should change in the US to fix this.
@jadenpark7943
@jadenpark7943 Жыл бұрын
believe me you dont want restaurants to charge you "whatever they need" to make food lol it's cheaper to just tip. and are you a socialist or something ? why bring up taxes that's just low. government already steals all of our money and never fix potholes
@deltapi8859
@deltapi8859 Жыл бұрын
What an outrageous thing it is to pay exactly what was asked.
@JakoWako
@JakoWako Жыл бұрын
Waiters ask for a tip. Usually 25% nowadays…
@FTBASTAR
@FTBASTAR Жыл бұрын
​@@JakoWako F that, I stick to %15
@guotyr2502
@guotyr2502 11 ай бұрын
Lol sheep, stop being simple animal, don't tip
@beatrixk.6723
@beatrixk.6723 11 ай бұрын
@@FTBASTAR I only tip if I eat out at a restaurant but not for picking up coffee .
@cindyhammack68
@cindyhammack68 9 ай бұрын
If someone comes to my table to take my order and brings me my food, I tip. Stand in line or drive thru to get my food: nope. I do tip delivery drivers because that's a real service I genuinely appreciate. I tip them well and up front. I don't blame them for waiting for a good tip to go pick up. Gas and maintenance on their car is expensive, and they make next to nothing from Door Dash et al. I tip Uber and Lyft drives well, too. That's a dangerous job not knowing who's getting in the car with you.
@matbhz
@matbhz Жыл бұрын
When I first came to North America 10 years ago, I was told tipping was used as mechanism to improve the quality of service you’re given in a restaurant. I realized quickly that this doesn’t work as the service is always terrible, people interrupt you when you are clearly eating with a mouth full and calling your server when you _actually_ need them is considered rude (?!)
@OfficerPapi
@OfficerPapi Жыл бұрын
@Cecilia Cole that’s also dumb. If they actually went above and beyond I would be embarrassed not to tip. Tip when people do right by you, and don’t when it’s mediocre or bad service. It’s that simple.
@asdfasdfasdf1218
@asdfasdfasdf1218 Жыл бұрын
@@OfficerPapi Nah, people say you NEED to tip regardless of service because servers are paid so little. Besides, all they do is carry stuff, so it's not like there even can be much variation anyway.
@alainportant6412
@alainportant6412 Жыл бұрын
@Cecilia Cole You are a woman, so let me break it down to you in simpler terms : "your opinion" can be factually wrong, even when it contradicts with your gut feelings. As it happens, you were both factually right, so I don't know why your interlocutor felt the need to be rude.
@alainportant6412
@alainportant6412 Жыл бұрын
@@asdfasdfasdf1218sure, so then your food gets spitted on if you dont tip enough
@politiekhistorie
@politiekhistorie Жыл бұрын
What state did you visit? My experiences in the south (Florida, South Carolina, Georgia and Tennessee) were the exact opposite: A lot better service than in Western Europe. For me it confirmed that tips do have a great effect. One big advantage is that people that are working in more expensive restaurants earn a lot more than those people would earn in Western Europe. I've seen waiters with a lot of experience while most servers in the Netherlands, even in more expensive restaurants, are below 40 and often much younger as they do it as a side job.
@7rich79
@7rich79 Жыл бұрын
It seems to me more indicative of a wider problem. The price for consumer electronics? Sorry, doesn't include sales tax. Four people seated at the table? Sorry, doesn't include the service charge. The hotel room rate? Sorry, doesn't include the resort fee. The airline ticket? Sorry, doesn't include the seat reservation. The concert ticket? Sorry, doesn't include the booking fee. But I almost don't blame them for this. Just look at what financial institutions and insurance companies do for hidden charges.
@InventorZahran
@InventorZahran Жыл бұрын
I wish there was a worldwide law requiring that all applicable sales taxes (and any additional fixed fees) be included in the listed price of every item for sale, and any variable fees be clearly and simply explained. This would prevent so much of customers' confusion, and make it far easier to know the actual cost of a potential purchase.
@Compu-Doctor
@Compu-Doctor Жыл бұрын
What is worse I remember the day when you rented an apartment and your parking was included and free, your water, Sewer and garbage fees were also included in the final rent value. Now they give you the base rent and then charge you extra for every car you park (They tell you there is free parking, but good luck finding any) then they slap you with additional fees that were historically part of the final rent price.
@sn5301679
@sn5301679 Жыл бұрын
USA problems? Sounds this doesnt happen often in other countries.
@Priyajit_Ghosh
@Priyajit_Ghosh Жыл бұрын
This issue is well countered in India. Here everything has MRP (maximum retail price) which includes taxes and transportation costs. There is absolutely no tipping culture here, except some people get influenced by Western Tipping culture and tips. In restaurant, there is service tax of 5% which is divided by 2 for both State and Central (and this is optional). If you want to buy something online, like in Amazon or Flipkart, the price stated there include taxes. Heck, now it's mandatory to write price/gm or price/ml for essential groceries and foods because that eases the mind calculation we Indians do before buying something (eg: Biscuit A costs 30 rs for 400gm and Biscuit B costs 40 rs for 500 gm... Which one is cheaper).
@Rsonny
@Rsonny Жыл бұрын
​@@Priyajit_Ghosh Really makes you think which country is the backward one 🤔
@bethclark9319
@bethclark9319 Жыл бұрын
Sorry, I didn't tip when I purchased a hair brush and detangler comb at my local beauty supply store. I actually pressed no tip.
@MediumDSpeaks
@MediumDSpeaks Жыл бұрын
That one seems fine to me
@vitojosie
@vitojosie 9 ай бұрын
Huh, do they have that machine too???
@picklebob656
@picklebob656 Жыл бұрын
Service workers act like the victims but the moment you mention switching to none tip based jobs they don't argue about how it is difficult to switch roles but rather start to brag about how they refuse to switch because they make $20, $40, $50+ an hour and should not be told to switch but rather that you should tip more.
@imonbanerjee2997
@imonbanerjee2997 Жыл бұрын
You have credit card, I have debit card, they have victim card
@WhatAboutZoidberg
@WhatAboutZoidberg Жыл бұрын
Tell me you've never worked in the service industry without telling me you haven't worked in the service industry.
@WitchMedusa
@WitchMedusa Жыл бұрын
Then stop tipping, if they want to be idiots & work for a business which doesn't pay a fair wage then it's not your job to pay for their stupidity. Zero tips ever, hard policy, no exceptions. Ideally it could be made illegal.
@jadenpark7943
@jadenpark7943 Жыл бұрын
then who the f will remain to work as service workers you shortsighted dull
@jadenpark7943
@jadenpark7943 Жыл бұрын
​@@WitchMedusa hahahahaha. if you dont tip at same restaurant more than twice, you will not be served anymore. they remember and recognize. and businesses can legally refuse service to bums like you
@tinashe3753
@tinashe3753 Жыл бұрын
why tip someone who is doing their job.
@benjaminclement8437
@benjaminclement8437 Жыл бұрын
If they put in the extra yard or are hot as fk I don't mind tipping, than again I live in Australia so we don't have to tip nor is it expected.
@Fighterx356
@Fighterx356 Жыл бұрын
But they never do
@Aggie09TX
@Aggie09TX Жыл бұрын
Because their actual pay from their employer is next to nothing and you’re getting a free ride and taking advantage of others that do actually keep the operation going.
@User18dog
@User18dog Жыл бұрын
@@Aggie09TX so why is that now my problem
@Aggie09TX
@Aggie09TX Жыл бұрын
@@User18dog because if everyone had your attitude no one would wait tables without a massive raise in wages and you couldn’t be a cheap ass anymore.
@roblesize
@roblesize Жыл бұрын
Down with greed and corruption! Hold people accountable for their bullshit
@nicoinformatics
@nicoinformatics Жыл бұрын
Hold who accountable exactly? I don't understand these sort of rhetoric, it's like shouting towards the wind, it does nothing. Hold the restaurant accountable? You do realize the food industry has some of the lowest margins on any businesses right? If they raise the servers salary, they'd go bankrupt, this is what started the tipping thing in the first place, because restaurants plainly could not afford to pay proper wages. Hold the servers responsible? They need the tips to survive, where else would they get their paycheck? Hold the customers responsible? Customers already receiving the short end of the stick on this one. Hold the lawmakers responsible? Sure, they're not getting any money out of this though, and they'll be getting some insane amount of backlash from the first 2 parties. So again, hold who accountable?
@khanch.6807
@khanch.6807 Жыл бұрын
​​​@@nicoinformatics If businesses can't pay living wages to the employee the business should fail. A better business model will take it's place. That's how a healthy market works.
@nicoinformatics
@nicoinformatics Жыл бұрын
@@khanch.6807 Well yes. That's sort of the point. But what is that 'better business model' exactly? Tipping in America is that business model. It's the result of the early 20th century of restaurants failing and going bankrupt. But who's getting the short end of the stick then? Everyone. Business people don't have businesses, cooks and servers are out of job, and people didn't get food. Those early tipping days happened literally because restaurants could not afford to pay the salary, and the better business model did take place, that was the shifting of the salary to tipping.
@khanch.6807
@khanch.6807 Жыл бұрын
@@nicoinformatics Adopt what the rest of the world is doing. Increase the price of food and add a service charge that people can see. And you really don't need people to flip burger, fries and serve drink in advanced economies such as US. They can go full automation. The tech already exists.
@dzhonnikihirin4006
@dzhonnikihirin4006 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@aymane974
@aymane974 Жыл бұрын
Tips are encouraging employers to reduce their workers salaries even more
@johnnash9523
@johnnash9523 Жыл бұрын
yeah, but if they are already at 2 dollars an hour, going to zero won't mean much
@ShowalterEnterpriseCapital
@ShowalterEnterpriseCapital Жыл бұрын
What I've noticed is that servers no longer appreciate a good tip. I'm getting less value for my tips.
@Mister_Kevin
@Mister_Kevin Жыл бұрын
That's cause it's expected instead of being viewed as a gift.
@cruz5327
@cruz5327 Жыл бұрын
This is why I'm trying to tip less and less. Now I just leave 17-18% at restaurants. Soon I will just tip 10-15% at most. Like for 20% tip I better get incredible service and asked about my day and a genuine conversation
@clintmatthews3500
@clintmatthews3500 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Used to they’d have you swimming in refills and bring you whatever you needed. Now you’re lucky if they check on you at all.
@aidankelley2696
@aidankelley2696 Жыл бұрын
its so annoying because i went to buy a burrito from the drive true of a mexican restaurant near me, and i bought the burrito and then left without giving a tip, and instinctually i had that "oh no, was i suppose to give them a tip moment" like bruh the fact that this is ingrained into us to feel guilty tripped is disgusting, pay your employees and dont make it our responsibility to pay them
@JANFU_Nova
@JANFU_Nova Жыл бұрын
who's "us" cause I sure as shit don't know that feeling.
@IFRYRCE
@IFRYRCE Жыл бұрын
The worst/most awkward thing is when you are in a state where the waiter/waitress DOES make the same minimum wage as other jobs (I.E. Washington) and they STILL expect a tip and think you're an asshole if you don't. So not only are you tipping them, but you're tipping them even more than you normally would, because the regular minimum wage means food was much more expensive there, and tips are based on a percentage.
@shanejones8192
@shanejones8192 Жыл бұрын
This, I live in Oregon and its the same, went to Subway the other day they make 15$ an hour. The pay options were 15%, 18% and 22%, and I tipped 15%, but will not be back, I am starting to avoid any place that does this. The worst is when they ask for payment and tip before you even get the food, so you know they will give you crappy food if you don't tip or tip less than 15%. I hate it
@littledudefromacrossthestr5755
@littledudefromacrossthestr5755 Жыл бұрын
​@@shanejones8192 ikr
@critical_always
@critical_always Жыл бұрын
I am that asshole. I never tip unless I liked the exceptional service. Their low wage isn't my problem. It's that simple.
@Jl3215TOR
@Jl3215TOR Жыл бұрын
I started paying cash more to avoid the stupid prompt
@littledudefromacrossthestr5755
@littledudefromacrossthestr5755 Жыл бұрын
@@critical_always lol
@spicytrendz2071
@spicytrendz2071 Жыл бұрын
Restaurant and Business owners must Increase any waiters wage. Tipping is really awkward for me. Sometimes i want to give a 5 bucks but the other person seems not to happy but i didn't purchase an expensive drink to tip them more. Must resist this culture
@Fatty_WB
@Fatty_WB Жыл бұрын
If the waiter doesn’t make minimum wage of of tips the employer has to pay the worker minimum wage in most if not all states
@xiphoid2011
@xiphoid2011 Жыл бұрын
Don't be so self conscious. Nobody knows who you are, or cares about you, or how much you tip. You are just another nameless person in the daily life of other nameless people in your daily life.
@evanthesquirrel
@evanthesquirrel Жыл бұрын
If they raised the wage they'd raise prices then everybody loses. You end up paying as much for the same food with worse service. The owner who usually makes razor thin margins is pushed further. And the staff now has to report their real income to the feds and get taxed.
@Valentin-oc5nh
@Valentin-oc5nh Жыл бұрын
@@evanthesquirrel This is wrong. in europe they have a proper wage and stuff is still cheaper than in the US + in austria for example we give around 10% or we round up a few euros and that money is just for the waiters to have on top of their living wage. So no, ur theory is wrong. In a free market companies can’t just augment the price like that.
@50PullUps
@50PullUps Жыл бұрын
IMO tipping works differently when it comes to drinks. Ask ahead of time if the restaurant will apply a gratuity charge to things like a wine bottle that the guests pour for themselves. Tipping should be for the quality of service, so don’t let them get away with sneaky, dishonest charges like that.
@CosmicCitiZenOfficial
@CosmicCitiZenOfficial Жыл бұрын
Tipping should be done for the needy and not for the greedy
@alanvalido2548
@alanvalido2548 Жыл бұрын
I honestly get tired of hearing servers complain "they only left a $10 tip on that $120 order." "I only made $500 in tips this week." You literally only take the food to the table, get them their drinks, and then go talk shit about them, and go to ask for their bill. Also, probably shouldn't complain about 'only' making more than what most the kitchen makes to them... For every stellar server, there's 5 over entitled ones too as a result of the thing's discussed in this video
@ryanhimmelblau534
@ryanhimmelblau534 Жыл бұрын
Exceptional reward is expected for bare minimum work.
@TKOGhost
@TKOGhost Жыл бұрын
That’s not what all the servers do. What about all the prep work and cleaning duty they have to do?
@ryanhimmelblau534
@ryanhimmelblau534 Жыл бұрын
@@TKOGhost the bare minimum requirements of the job. Salary and job responsibilities should be negotiated with the employer, not the customer.
@TKOGhost
@TKOGhost Жыл бұрын
@@ryanhimmelblau534 then you should go live somewhere else
@ryanhimmelblau534
@ryanhimmelblau534 Жыл бұрын
@@TKOGhost No, I believe that I can help change my society for the better.
@gjd424
@gjd424 Жыл бұрын
Tipping when you get bad service is like tell your son that misbehaved that it’s ok! I hate tipping it’s a service charge when they don’t go above and beyond!
@wizzy7000
@wizzy7000 Жыл бұрын
This is why I love Japan, the food is almost as expensive as America but they dont accept tipping even if you were extremely satisfied with their service
@AntonioThomasDE
@AntonioThomasDE Жыл бұрын
Culture
@johnnash9523
@johnnash9523 Жыл бұрын
it may be a reason I move there one day like Pewdie Pie haha
@vitojosie
@vitojosie 9 ай бұрын
It's a lot lower than US unless you go to an exclusive one. The dollar is strong against yen.
@JudgementalGoat
@JudgementalGoat Жыл бұрын
I have traveled two times to the USA, and I never tip, the only time someone gave me attitude for it, I told them I was a foreigner doing business, on a budget, and that wasn't mandatory. Maybe I was an asshole about it, but that's how you face entitled people
@thatundeadlegacy2985
@thatundeadlegacy2985 Жыл бұрын
Good,
@E10979
@E10979 Жыл бұрын
When you don't tip these people you're only leaving them with bad impressions of the people of your country. Whenever I visit another country I know that I need to conform to the people, the people don't need to conform to me. It's not their fault they're American most young Americans I talked to want to leave the country and that whole system anyways. Be a nice person
@CosmicCitiZenOfficial
@CosmicCitiZenOfficial Жыл бұрын
yeah right true
@julieweiner1623
@julieweiner1623 Жыл бұрын
As a server, I refused foreign clients. We made 2,15 usd per hour and still had to tip our bartender and busboy based on your net total. Thank you for your business
@thatundeadlegacy2985
@thatundeadlegacy2985 Жыл бұрын
@@E10979 you tipping makes the problem consist, and worse.
@LutherMahoney
@LutherMahoney Жыл бұрын
I ordered a Keyport device for my keys. I spent 54.00 and they had a tip box which didn't make any sense since there was no service.
@fmo94jos8v3
@fmo94jos8v3 Жыл бұрын
A pizza store I go to enabled tipping on their POS terminal, so when you WALK IN to get the pizza yourself, you still get bugged to leave a tip just as your paying. I don't usually like tipping until I know the quality of the service, because tips usually are based on quality of the service. But if you are asked to tip as you pay, before you even received a pizza, how do you know how much to tip? And what happens if they mess your pizza up after leaving a tip? It always bothered me, especially when you would not normally be tipping, to ask for a tip.
@HT.100
@HT.100 Жыл бұрын
can't you make the payment beforehand online?
@johnspooner3860
@johnspooner3860 Жыл бұрын
@@HT.100 At many places sure, but doesn't that mean the cook/chef saw how much you tipped before even making your food?
@HT.100
@HT.100 Жыл бұрын
@@johnspooner3860 and?
@ethanrivers4057
@ethanrivers4057 Жыл бұрын
I'm an ex server, worked the job in college. I needed that job to survive and to get to college. That being established, I'm completely anti tipping. I hate tipping, I hate the culture, I hate overpaying for a meal simply because the employer is too cheap to pay their workers a fair salary. Tipping should not be used to replace a fair wage and as an ex server anyone that tells me "you don't know what it's liket to-" shut up. Yes I do. I do know what it's like to have the option to make 20 bucks an hour with tips, while also breaking your back doing intense work that your body NEVER recovers from.
@nunya3163
@nunya3163 8 ай бұрын
"I hate overpaying for a meal simply because the employer is too cheap to pay their workers a fair salary." - - - If you think you are over paying now, you would be appaled by the cost once higer pay is factored in. Hint:, it would be MORE than you are paying now, with a 20% tip.
@ethanrivers4057
@ethanrivers4057 8 ай бұрын
@@nunya3163 I’m not paying the tip and frankly, I’m not going out period.
@Ckawauchi35
@Ckawauchi35 8 ай бұрын
@@nunya3163 Then more people will learn to make their own food at home and stop eating out. That's what influencers on frugality have been advocating nowadays because it has already gotten so expensive to eat out in the States. As a consequence, the restaurant business will go down and greedy owners should learn their lesson. Consumers should be able to speak with their money and being abused by greedy restaurant owners will be arrested.
@jmtradbr
@jmtradbr Жыл бұрын
In Brazil no ones expect tipping. I usually do when i ask a extra service.
@nomoretears_
@nomoretears_ Жыл бұрын
Eu dou moedinhas pro pessoal do posto quando fazem algo extra além de abastecerem o carro
@aaronj3245
@aaronj3245 Жыл бұрын
no need to tip anywhere except america
@Bullminator
@Bullminator Жыл бұрын
@@aaronj3245 Well croatia costal towns are kinda used to tips as quite a lot of dumb americans visit them.
@CitizenZero1
@CitizenZero1 Жыл бұрын
I was just in France. We went out to a restaurant, and when the bill came I handed the waiter my card, he swiped it, handed me the receipt, and that was the end of it. So refreshing!
@Ckawauchi35
@Ckawauchi35 8 ай бұрын
I don't know. Whenever we were in Paris, my husband would tip and the servers would gladly accept it. A few times, there were servers who actually bluntly expected to get it. It left a bad taste in my mouth as a tourist.
@CitizenZero1
@CitizenZero1 8 ай бұрын
My sister lives in Paris and not her or any of her friends ever tip.
@zarbis
@zarbis Жыл бұрын
There is one more frustrating moment about tipping and technology. There are two apps I use from time to time: food delivery and taxi. I tip way more often in a taxi app for one simple reason - it asks for a tip after the ride, so I can reward or punish the driver according to the service. In contrast food delivery app asks for a tip before submitting an order, which makes no sense. I've had couple experiences of setting a decent tip only to have the courier get lost, get mad at me and deliver a sad cold food 30 minutes beyond estimate - I basically rewarded a poor service. And the worst part is: later on didn't reward deliveries that were on time and polite, since I was burnt on previous experience.
@mjc0961
@mjc0961 Жыл бұрын
Yeah that's insanely stupid. It should be asking about a tip once the food is delivered. Perhaps a reasonable solution in a world where this moronic tipping instead of paying employees a fair wage is the norm would be to always say no tip in the app but have cash on hand to directly tip the driver with when they hand you the food if they did a good job.
@yesnathan22
@yesnathan22 Жыл бұрын
There is always needy...get a job
@jadenpark7943
@jadenpark7943 Жыл бұрын
dont blame vast majority of delivery drivers for your few bad experiences you had with some low IQ slow lazy Doordashers who dont follow instructions.Yes they should be fired immediately for making us look bad. But us good delivery personnel, we deliver precise and fast with temperature protected bags. You have to tip us first, so we accept or decline in the first place. We dont work for low pay lol We pay our own gas money, our own car maintenance, so our jobs are far more risky than regular jobs . that is why tipping first to us is normal, it's far too risky to accept non-tip orders there's high chance customer DOES NOT TIP after we deliver
@jadenpark7943
@jadenpark7943 Жыл бұрын
​@@mjc0961 if you are broke, dont even use delivery apps lol food delivery is only for rich and strong middle-class income. 99.9% of all customers never ever tip after we drop off their package. they just turn off their apps and start eating. that is why you tip first for drivers who risk paying gas and car maintenance
@zarbis
@zarbis Жыл бұрын
@@jadenpark7943 when drivers don't feel like taking my order on a given price, app raises the fare price following supply and demand. So eventually either there is a driver satisfied with the price or, if I deem it's too expensive, I just bail out and find an alternative. And after all of that I tip if I consider drive pleasant. That's how things should be. I shouldn't be a part-time business analyst calculating how much I should "tip in advance" on top of delivery fee to make this delivery profitable for a courier. That's my core concern with mandatory tipping culture: You (a business owner) either setup a profitable business model or just don't even bother. I'm not willing to participate in this internal guilt-ridden bargain to subsidise unprofitable business that is not an explicit non-profit.
@LiveType
@LiveType Жыл бұрын
I confidently go and select 0% every time I encounter this which is pretty rare since I refuse to engage in the behavior that promotes this. Sometimes it's really buried, but I go through and select 0% every time. I stopped eating out a while ago because of this nonsense and the sheer condescension I started to get from the people working there. But clearly enough people are just willing to accept a $19 meal that suddenly ends up costing $33 if you weren't paying attention and go "eh".
@simonhrabec9973
@simonhrabec9973 Жыл бұрын
Yes. While in Europe (Czech Republic) I despise eating out for the same reason.
@fahimhussain1918
@fahimhussain1918 Жыл бұрын
The best thing to do if you can’t afford the tip unfortunately is to not go out at all
@simonhrabec9973
@simonhrabec9973 Жыл бұрын
@@fahimhussain1918 The whole movement against tipping has never been about saving money, but about fair competition, where people say the true price upfront and don't play these ugly, emotional blackmailing games to get the money from you later.
@hunner3606
@hunner3606 Жыл бұрын
​@@fahimhussain1918 the best thing to do if you don't pay a livable wage is to not be in business at all.
@triparadox.c
@triparadox.c Жыл бұрын
@@fahimhussain1918 The best thing to do is go out and eat and pay only the meal as tip is not mandatory. Don't like that? Include the price in the meal.
@isettech
@isettech Жыл бұрын
Between prices up on average 20% and no longer suggesting a 10% tip for good service, but recommending 20% tip just for service, I've switched to not eating out more than 2 or 3 times a year. They don't appreciate or try to please customers, but just request they be an ATM.
@DutchessFreddy
@DutchessFreddy Жыл бұрын
I also feel that expecting tips in situations where we traditionally wouldnt tip (because were already paying for the service) has become a popular way to hide price increases. It seems like the growth in tipping culture has helped america avoid admitting how dramatic inflation has actually been. You can see a true reflection of the situation in the supermarket food prices. Im dreading the day where we will be expected to tip in grocery stores... I feel like its coming.
@MetalSandman999
@MetalSandman999 Жыл бұрын
I used to work at a grocery store, and we were forbidden from taking tips, even if we did stuff like helping customers put the groceries in their car. I eventually accepted tips anyway, not because I really needed that extra dollar every week or two, but because it was awkward when customers who were truly pleased with the experience were told tips were not allowed and then were embarrassed. Everyone was happier when they offer me a tip, I tell them it certainly isn't necessary, and then when they insist I accept it and thank them.
@Bluey2600
@Bluey2600 Жыл бұрын
@@MetalSandman999 in a scenario like that, there really are no losers. you’re sincerely encouraged to treat customers better as there is a tangible reward, customer satisfaction is increased which makes them more likely to return, and you have a more comfortable wage. it’s beneficial for literally every party, your employer included. banning tips in that scenario seems odd.
@takatamiyagawa5688
@takatamiyagawa5688 7 ай бұрын
@@Bluey2600 The problem is if you accept tips, you normalize tips. If your employer realizes you get about $1 an hour in tips, they can pay you $1 an hour less, and now your income is volatile when it was previously stable. -and then people start expecting tips because it forms a non-negligible fraction of their income. The system can take a few wackos giving away money and labelling it a "tip", but not too many.
@mtd963
@mtd963 Жыл бұрын
This is what happens when people become too nice and complacent and have toxic money views
@---ze8tc
@---ze8tc Жыл бұрын
I live in France and the price on the menu is service included, you can leave a tip, but most people don't and it is normal.
@tonytins
@tonytins Жыл бұрын
The problem with the price gouging argument is that you're basically paying that higher amount by tipping in the first place.
@notorioustori
@notorioustori Жыл бұрын
Its all about privatizing profits but socializing costs & losses. Tipping has gotten out of hand. Some places even add "Show your support/thanks!" option to delivery app menus. That's what we do when we patronize the store or restaurants. If you can't afford to pay your employees a living wage & vant figure it out without your patrons basically participating in a drawn out "gofundme" campaign, maybe you should find another life-calling. Imagine if teacher, IRS employees or police officers started requesting tips!
@armeniansdoitbetter
@armeniansdoitbetter Жыл бұрын
Why not EMS. They make less than a starbucks barista here in the great lakes states. The absolute entitlement. Enough is enough with the tipping non server workers
@notorioustori
@notorioustori Жыл бұрын
@@armeniansdoitbetter lol, can you imagine a tipping jar at the interior of the ambulance door? But true. I didn't add EMT or fire dept because many of them are volunteer.
@kili2386
@kili2386 Жыл бұрын
When it comes to France, there is no 15% service charge added to the bill. The price on the menu is the price you pay for your meal, the salary of employees ( cooks, waiters, etc ... ) and any other overhead is baked into the price just like any other type of business. If the service is really good one might leave a tip but it is not expected.
@evo-infinite7171
@evo-infinite7171 Жыл бұрын
Honestly this has also become a headache in some asian countries, sometimes in some places the service is very very bad, the waiters never even care to offer even water but expect a big tip at the end. I usually only tip if i am satisfied with the service the worker might think i am a greedy but if they doesn't even service us why should we tip ? Also i never go to places that ask for tip infront. That's just a crime.
@chadgibbs3341
@chadgibbs3341 Жыл бұрын
the audacity to call you greedy when its your hard earned money, don't be phased by people you do what you know is right.
@MediumDSpeaks
@MediumDSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I am the only Westerner in an Asian restaurant, i have more or less learned the language, but before Asian customers realize I speak it even to some degree, I am often shocked at their initial rudeness. They just point, and I go, hold on, there's an order to this
@jixer1956
@jixer1956 Жыл бұрын
What Asian country expects tips? The video said it's considered rude in Japan.
@PaulJohn01
@PaulJohn01 Жыл бұрын
At restaurants ( probably where most tipping starts ) what extra service are you getting for your tip ? Tips should be for when employees go above and beyond their job description ! Someone who writes on a pad that I want a burger and then takes that to the kitchen and comes back 5/10/15 mins later after walking a few metres is not doing something worthy of a tip !
@ryanhimmelblau534
@ryanhimmelblau534 Жыл бұрын
Exceptional rewards are always expected for bare minimum work.
@PaulJohn01
@PaulJohn01 Жыл бұрын
@@ryanhimmelblau534 Politicians !
@TheDawnofVanlife
@TheDawnofVanlife Жыл бұрын
I think the issue is less the worker, more the business owners set up this expectation…don’t screw up you will get tipped AND even though I am paying you less than minimum wage, the tips will make up for it. So you have the greedy folks who get in to make the big tips for the sake of simply making them along with broke college kids and young people who simply couldn’t find another job. I will also say, some places still split tips among everyone involved in your order (including the food prep person or people) so it is more then the foot work to the kitchen and back being tipped. I still think it should be on the employer to provide the worker with firstly, a livable base wage, and secondly financial rewards for ongoing good customer service (bonus pay, raises, whatever) as they should know more about the employees standards of service on a regular basis among multiple customers as opposed to my one order on one specific day for the stretch of a meal.
@mjc0961
@mjc0961 Жыл бұрын
Anti-tip for sure. I don't even go in and sit down to eat often. I usually order online, pick it up, and leave. And these stupid online ordering sites or apps are asking me to tip! Not only have I not received any service that warrants a tip by entering my own order online and going to the place to pick it up myself, I'm supposed to tip before I even know what happens when I get there? What if I put in a 10% tip and then arrive there at the time the online system told me to arrive only to find out that they didn't even cook my food yet, and I have to wait longer? What if I get there and it was done sooner than expected and now it's cold? What if they screwed up the order? None of that warrants a tip, but too late, it was already charged. Once I paid for an order online, went to pick it up, they said they didn't see a payment and made me pay again, I got home and ate my food, then checked my credit card online and sure enough, there's two charges for the meal pending. So I had to call the restaurant back and get one of them canceled. Absolutely not tip worthy. But yet I could have put in a tip when paying online had I wanted to. Absolute joke. Supposedly I should be pro-tip for this, because I could just continue saying no tip while picking up and enjoy lower prices, but that leaves the problem of the employees being paid poorly unsolved. I'd rather pay more knowing that everyone involved is being paid fairly and never see one of these stupid tip screens again.
@miketran4289
@miketran4289 Жыл бұрын
You already tipped by ordering only in service fees.
@cruz5327
@cruz5327 Жыл бұрын
I'm getting better at fighting through this tipping peer pressure. Tried to get some food and the cashier tablet hit me with 18% ($9.00) min tip like wtf I don't even get a free water and you want $9 extra dollars🤣🤣I changed that immediately to $2 bucks hitting the custom button. But before I found out about these bullying tactics I was hitting the minimum 90% of the time. Anyone else want to join me on the #tippingless movement?
@jacob_90s
@jacob_90s Жыл бұрын
I feel like a similar problem is happening with sites like stackoverflow, reddit, quora, etc. Originally they supplemented the documentation and support that came with a product (programming language, software, library, module, etc), but over the last few years I've been seeing more and more companies attempt to outsource support for their products to those sites, and are putting less and less effort into their documentation or support (which let's be fair, wasn't exactly great to begin with).
@TheReallyRealSunTzu
@TheReallyRealSunTzu Жыл бұрын
Ya. These days I prefer to take carryout from the restaurants and pay the bill online without tip. No awkward interaction with the person behind the register. And sometimes I just say that I am picking up for my neighbor/brother/sister etc, if the person behind the counter stares at me when they realize I haven't tipped. Haven't figured out how to get away with tipping the hair dresser yet.
@miketran4289
@miketran4289 Жыл бұрын
You are ALREADY tipping.. with service fees.
@HT.100
@HT.100 Жыл бұрын
Well you don't even need to lie. Be honest
@TheReallyRealSunTzu
@TheReallyRealSunTzu Жыл бұрын
@@HT.100 be honest and get away from tipping the barber? feels futuristic . u r right, i hate lying but given the bad economy, every dollar saved is equal to earned
@HT.100
@HT.100 Жыл бұрын
@@TheReallyRealSunTzu no tip the takeaway people if you want to; don't if you don't want to but there is no reason to lie. Just look them in the eye and say I didn't tip you guys because you guys didn't provide me a service.
@glam2gobeauty811
@glam2gobeauty811 Жыл бұрын
It's one thing not to tip for online food orders but to not tip your Hairstylist or barber is super cheap. Even if its just 5 dollars. Obviously you go to that person because they provide the style and experience you want or you would be at best cuts but don't want to tip them.....now that is ridiculous!
@creedolala6918
@creedolala6918 Жыл бұрын
The reason it's considered rude in Japan isn't really the implication that the business is failing to pay a fair wage. It's more like... you're acting like a parent or a spouse who controls the money, and is doling out a little bit to a kid. It's condescending and implies that you don't think the person isn't already giving 100%, which is expected in Japan for pretty much any job.
@FairBeautyEssentials
@FairBeautyEssentials Жыл бұрын
Well I don’t even tip anymore.. it’s getting beyond ridiculous and expensive. Yes, only in America! Other countries do not allow this. I got to supplement these workers wages when their boss gets to keep bulk loads of the money? Tell me if that is fair?!🙄MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!!!
@767corp
@767corp Жыл бұрын
OMG when I read stuff like this, EVERY Country on this planet allows tipping , there's no specific rule anywhere against it , but everywhere expect murica and canuda it's not expected that on top of a bill you have to tip because service fees are already calculated in price if they have them and workers are paid at normal hourly rates. What did murican education system done to you? Holly molly do you have basic knowledge of economics at all?
@FairBeautyEssentials
@FairBeautyEssentials Жыл бұрын
@@767corp I got to supplement these people wages when their boss gets to keep a bulk of the money? This is truly unfair and this needs to change ASAP! Why we don’t tip doctors? Mind as well tip nurses and lawyers too?!?!🙄
@MrTaylork1
@MrTaylork1 Жыл бұрын
@@FairBeautyEssentials doctors and nurses work in an industry with huge profit margins. Restaurants are lucky to make 5% profit margins. You can say “if they can’t afford to pay better, they shouldn’t be in business” but do you want to lose all the small business restaurants and be left with nothing but huge chain ones?
@Lianda360
@Lianda360 Жыл бұрын
I tip everytime, but honestly I HATE IT!!!! HATE IT with a capital H!!!!! 😩 I can't stand what tipping has become and it is literally EVERYWHERE NOW! Even at Starbucks! 😡This is literally so infuriating. Sometimes it even makes me not want to eat out, or just pay online, and select no tip! Also, I remember tipping Hairdressers back in 2010, and no one expected a tip, and were always so grateful, now it seems like if I don't tip the hairdresser, they look at me with so much resentment in their eyes... 😫
@critical_always
@critical_always Жыл бұрын
... Then muster some courage and don't tip. I know you feel bad for a while after every confrontation but it gets easier and you get stronger.
@benjaminclement8437
@benjaminclement8437 Жыл бұрын
Move to Australia we don't have to tip!
@PatrickGotHands
@PatrickGotHands Жыл бұрын
Just don’t tip it’s not that hard lol 😂 be a adult and learn to say no to your benefit
@Eduthedude
@Eduthedude Жыл бұрын
I see an increase of complaints more and more about tipping nowadays. The only thing I see increase more are tipping amounts.
@guttamonish5
@guttamonish5 Жыл бұрын
Lmao in India once we get the bill we'll ask the waiter to remove service tax which is optional😂
@bharatsadhnani4370
@bharatsadhnani4370 Жыл бұрын
Wait are you serious. I didn't know about that, I was paying 40 rupees for nothing. 😢
@Mr-iw7wd
@Mr-iw7wd Жыл бұрын
Back when I was working at restaurants as a server, I was told by an older coworker that tips is an acronym for "To Insure Proper Service". So based on that, I look the cashier in the eye while I choose the no tip option when picking up my takeout order.
@GenjiPrime
@GenjiPrime Жыл бұрын
1:40 The same goes for Australia and New Zealand as well, Here, everything is included in the payment, which make everything simple and less awkward.
@hotkeyafl
@hotkeyafl Жыл бұрын
They rip you off on public holidays.
@mingchi1855
@mingchi1855 Жыл бұрын
@@hotkeyafl But in US we get ripped off every single day.
@hotkeyafl
@hotkeyafl Жыл бұрын
@@mingchi1855 I hear you brother. I hate the tipping system.
@benjaminclement8437
@benjaminclement8437 Жыл бұрын
@@hotkeyafl Extra $5 once every blue moon is a dam side better than every time, it's fair to IMO as we pay our workers time and half or 2x time for public holiday work. The US system is so bizarre.
@GenjiPrime
@GenjiPrime Жыл бұрын
@@hotkeyafl But it's usually just so that they can play the extra few percentage on top, which imo is reasonable since it's not like there's pub holiday everyday
@scottf2873
@scottf2873 Жыл бұрын
I live in a state where waiters are all making $15 an hour wage before any tips. It's illegal to pay the $2.13 per hour here. Waiters constantly brag about their earnings, and college kids put themselves through college comfortably by working at Applebee's or Olive Garden here. I also don't see any reason to tip someone making the same amount as me for just working a cash register.
@itchylol742
@itchylol742 Жыл бұрын
I don't tip ever, regardless of the quality of service. No amount of awkwardness can stop me from being a greedy capitalist
@benjaminclement8437
@benjaminclement8437 Жыл бұрын
Over here in Australia no tip is expected so no awkwardness ;)
@sta1055
@sta1055 Жыл бұрын
It's crazy how service workers will guilt-trip random customers to tip them but not their own bosses to pay them more. The younger generation who risk surviving on tips instead of unionizing and collectively bargaining for fair wages have no one to blame but themselves.
@lxnd
@lxnd Жыл бұрын
your new mic sounds so much better and great video as always
@madumlao
@madumlao Жыл бұрын
This is the first time id heard that tipping literally came from slavery, and now it makes perfect sense the USians react so vehemently against tipping reform.
@cinemaipswich4636
@cinemaipswich4636 Жыл бұрын
Now you know why the minimum wage in Australia, New Zealand, Japan and Korea is so much higher than in "tipping" countries. Here a worker is treated with respect.
@WarTheory
@WarTheory Жыл бұрын
I always give a tip when I’m not asked… if I’m at a register and they turn the screen around for their tip.. I always tell them I’ll be right back I left my cash in the car… give good service get a good tip not difficult…
@otakubullfrog1665
@otakubullfrog1665 Жыл бұрын
One way to avoid a lot of the guilt tipping is simply to pay cash. Doing so let's me avoid the terminal tip at places with no waiter service and allows me to leave an appropriate tip on the table at places with wait staff instead of checking off one of the options on a credit card receipt (which are always designed to make a normal tip look like a bad tip by making it the lowest option).
@CruxisAngel954
@CruxisAngel954 8 ай бұрын
This. I either choose to pay cash or pay in full online and come to pick up I almost never used cash the last 10 years but because of tipping culture it’s surprisingly been a chest to bypass the awkwardness. I’m not tipping for pick up orders
@hello2jello4mellow34
@hello2jello4mellow34 Жыл бұрын
Tipping is just the tip of the iceberg ...
@sentiasatransformasi
@sentiasatransformasi Жыл бұрын
i heard that tipping in USA is a big thing n its a taboo to not leave a tip. it went from tipping out of generosity to just not wanting to be frowned upon. n why do they subscribe to this idea anyway😂
@gunsnrosesforever100
@gunsnrosesforever100 Жыл бұрын
I live in Canada, where I live, we have no problem telling a server or food industry employee to fly a kite if they try and guilt trip you. Skip the dishes and most restaurants have started enforcing a $5 service fee that goes to the server / delivery driver plus whatever you decide to tip so alot of the time we just don't tip and we do not feel bad for it in the slightest.
@j562gee0hdeewestsdegethemuLa
@j562gee0hdeewestsdegethemuLa Жыл бұрын
Also the part at the end about being worried about the cashier and other people behind you seeing what you tip is a bit much if anyone is that concerned about what others think they probably have severe social anxiety and wouldn't be outside to begin with
@HT.100
@HT.100 Жыл бұрын
Yup. People need to stop being pansies. Go do what you were supposed to do and get out
@karmakaruna
@karmakaruna Жыл бұрын
I've always refused to work in the service industry because of the min wage policy. Why work in a fast-paced, high-stress environment for $2 an hour when you can work in a grocer stocking at a much more comfortable pace, for at least $10+? Your time should be worth something. Never made any sense to me. I also don't feel the slightest amount of embarrassment or guilt when skipping or making my own tip manually. I'll gladly tip if I have extra and if the customer service was worth something to me beyond the actual purchase.
@heidilam1978
@heidilam1978 Жыл бұрын
You're pretty dumb lol.. in every state of US, every tipped server is guaranteed to get at least the regular minimum wage because that's the law. Even if you receive zero tip for the entire month, the employer has to pay the difference so that you end up making at least the regular minimum wage(the minimum wage that regular workers make) for every hour you worked.
@regolith1350
@regolith1350 Жыл бұрын
The entitlement & hostility of so many service workers is why I eagerly welcome our AI robotic overlords.
@ghost-type
@ghost-type Жыл бұрын
Tipping is the main reason I don't like going out. Most of the time, they expect a tip for the minimum effort. It's ridiculous.
@popquizzz
@popquizzz 2 ай бұрын
This Tipping and asking to add a donation at the POS terminal has annoyed me for years. I was unaware that Washington State required all employees to be paid the State Minimum Wage now which is $20 in the Seattle area. So now that I have learned this, I will not be tipping. If I want pizza or takeout I will go pick it up and pay with cash, so my purchase is not tracked and a customer profile is not so easily built. I encourage others to do this too as this culture has gotten out of hand. If you want to make the money of a highly skilled or professional person, then take the time to get that degree or professional accreditation. I am not required to subsidize your income because you chose a less skilled job. I am all about fairness of opportunity, not fairness of financial outcome. I do not get tipped for being an engineer, I get to keep my job, and I earn the respect of my colleagues and employer. Enough is Enough!
@yeeyw
@yeeyw Жыл бұрын
When tipping is not optional there’s something very wrong
@lostboy8084
@lostboy8084 Жыл бұрын
What I hate the most is when they add a 15% service fee automatically like you mentioned. Because if the restaurant doesn't have any signs placed up where you can read it, and are not reminded that such a few is added. I went to eat in a restaurant and nothing mentioned and no signs. When my bill came service fee ( translation TIP) was added I contested the bill. Wh
@CaoCao2025
@CaoCao2025 Жыл бұрын
in Indonesia, tipping rarely happened, some company actually forbid their employee to received tips and also inform the customer to not tips their employee. They do that because they expect their employee to gave the same treatment for all their customer. If tips is allowed, a regular who not giving a tip will get bad treatment every time he/she come back.
@AwardFabrik-SoF
@AwardFabrik-SoF Жыл бұрын
I only tip when the service was really excellent and I had an overall good experience in a restaurant. And here it is already considered pretty good tip when your meal was 53€ and you give em 60€ and say thanks, keep the change. I had a visit in a restaurant not long ago with that amount and it felt like the waitress was very thankful for that 7€ tip. I can't understand 25% or higher tips in any way - price your food accordingly, pay the staff reasonable and whatever comes on top afterwards should really be a nice to have bonus not a necessity.
@jordanmcdonald1985
@jordanmcdonald1985 Жыл бұрын
I don't mind tipping my hair guy, that's my guy. He takes care of me. Usually only 5 or 10, but yes too many business's asking for tips nowadays and those delivery apps, don't even get me started on them.
@Jenjenn1111
@Jenjenn1111 Жыл бұрын
Right… they want tips on top of service fees and higher menu prices. Ridiculous!
@cmorris9494
@cmorris9494 Жыл бұрын
I tip the hairdresser. That's about it. I don't order food through apps.
@jeltoninc.8542
@jeltoninc.8542 Жыл бұрын
Tipping is going above and beyond for good service. I have found if you take care of those around you, it comes back to you. Say a hairstylist for example… you develop a real relationship with this person. So even if they give you the same price each time for said service, the tip is about showing you appreciate them beyond the service. Same with a good bar tender. Or a yard service. The list goes on. Greed and worrying about money has made people so weird.
@25784lazza
@25784lazza Жыл бұрын
Tipping is a harmful practice that is not actually beneficial to employees and if you think that the employee gets all of the tip, think again. It makes me want to skip America for any type of holiday if tipping was mandatory. That being said if was asked to tip I would make a big deal out of telling the manager or owner (if they were there) at the establishment exactly what I thought of it.
@thatundeadlegacy2985
@thatundeadlegacy2985 Жыл бұрын
Tipping in japan is considered offensive because the best service is expected, its your job.
@mjc0961
@mjc0961 Жыл бұрын
What you described is what tipping should be. What tipping has become in reality is that you're expected to tip no matter what because many businesses don't pay their employees properly.
@wrathtard1428
@wrathtard1428 Жыл бұрын
My brother tries to guilt me. Tip culture infects familial bonds. I hate tipping because of the guilt. Your video was great and informative.
@neilkingham9198
@neilkingham9198 9 ай бұрын
My wife and I had the opportunity to travel to the US recently. Being Australian, tipping isn’t that much of a thing here. So I spent quite a bit if time researching when and how much to tip in the US. I didn’t want to insult anyone or cause problems by either not tipping when I should or not tipping enough. I was actually looking forward to seeing how it worked in reality. But what we found was totally different to what I understood. If tipping is a mechanism to reward good service, why do most businesses require you to tip before the service is provided? And places where we got our own product from a shelf or fridge and presented it to a cashier still wanted a tip - but what service did they provide? Throughly confused. If a tip is really just a tax, make it standard and call it a tax or overhead. It made it hard when we did come across exceptional service, but had already paid a tip when paying for the product, how do you reward that person more? A very confusing system. BTW, if a tip is paid at a cash register when ordering, how do I know that the person who showed exceptional service actually gets a better share of the tip?
@norvynhill
@norvynhill Жыл бұрын
Anti-tip. It has become a problem. I agree they should just charge a flat rate and be done with it. You can always remove the added charge for those who are doing a pickup.
@lycorisradiata9617
@lycorisradiata9617 Жыл бұрын
It like in South Park. The forced donation episode. They should make another one about tipping too.
@srj607able
@srj607able Жыл бұрын
I don’t tip anymore. If the boss can’t pay their staff properly, then it s not my responsibility to pay their salaries.
@Lady-V
@Lady-V Жыл бұрын
I am poor, so I don't want to eat out in the first place. I definitely don't want to eat out if I feel like I have to tip.
@ancienbelge
@ancienbelge Жыл бұрын
What percentage of the "digital tips" actually ends up in the pockets of the tipped worker, and how much is "skimmed off" by the management, the kitchen, the...? Here in Israel, people routinely leave cash tips in restaurants, instead of credit card, if they want to ensure the server gets them. (If they decide to pool tips between themselves, that's their business.)
@Zjarcal
@Zjarcal Жыл бұрын
I never go to restaurants in the first place (prefer cooking myself and eating at home anyway), so tipping hasn't been a problem for me in a long time, but holy hell did I hated it on the few times I did have to. It's just such a dumb concept, just include the worker's wage in the price of the food damnit.
@maliciousfry
@maliciousfry Жыл бұрын
Thank you for addressing the minimum wage laws, not a lot of other channels provide this information.
@mhfs61
@mhfs61 Жыл бұрын
When I was in New York the restaurant charged my creditcard even after I denied tipping. Another time a lovely waiter turned into a devil because I hadn’t tipped her. In the Netherlands we do tip, however, it’s not a essential and certainly not mandatory.
@its4theer
@its4theer Жыл бұрын
I live in Asia and i've never tipped or goten a tip in my entire life
@biakeller
@biakeller Жыл бұрын
Omg! I'm 40 and live in USA. Imagine all the money I've given away as tips! 😮😢
@46620
@46620 Жыл бұрын
Im a Dunkin Donuts worker who is lucky to work for a franchise that allows tips. we get paid minimum wage (in MA its currently $15/h) and the only positions that don't get tips are managers and above. I'm pro tip as long as the worker is paid fairly and not forced onto the customer by a kiosk. I dont ask people for tips and i treat all customers the same. If they tip i might throw an extra munchkin or hash brown in the bag, but usually they tip after we hand them their food and drinks
@borisyeltsin6606
@borisyeltsin6606 Жыл бұрын
The problem is that so many small businesses have opt out tips, where the tip is selected by default. Large franchises like Dunkin intentionally foster an environment where tipping is opt-in and politely optional
@avirei98
@avirei98 Жыл бұрын
Exactly tipping in America. Feels like a service charge now. It doesn't feel like a tip anymore. It's atrocious to even call it a tip and the fact that people who chose to work a job. It's the worst deal you could ever take. I would be done to take that deal but work a job where your pay is based on a generosity of others. They rather be mad at the customer for not tipping than be mad at the company who hired them who won't pay them. It doesn't make any sense to me. It'd be like if my job right now cut my pay in half and I chose to be mad at all the customers instead of my job. Outside of social situations, I don't even eat at restaurants because of this because it's absolutely ridiculous. And the crazy part is some restaurants will tackle and gratuity and still expect you to tip
@RonakDhakan
@RonakDhakan 24 күн бұрын
There can 2 price lists: one for dine-in and one for take-out. Or dine-in can have a fixed service charge, that is previously disclosed, added to the bill amount for extra service received. Or maybe people can choose to just give no tips. It is mostly optional anyway.
@bobcharlotte8724
@bobcharlotte8724 Жыл бұрын
Here in Japan tipping is an insult... And I love it that way.
@JakubH
@JakubH Жыл бұрын
I don't like tipping either, but one can kinda get used to that. But the one thing I do not understand at all, is the mandatory tip for groups of 4+ people in some restaurants. Like what the hell? Economy of scale suggests we should actually get a discount. Or do you actually make less money when you have more customers? Is sitting at a 4-table in 4 people less profitable for you than if only 2 people sat at the same table? Please someone explain this, it makes zero sense to me.
@MaxMustermann-ri4is
@MaxMustermann-ri4is Жыл бұрын
in restaurant yes, groups of 4 person's mostly sit longer and eat on average less than groups of 2, so groups of 4 less profitable. but differences not significant so nobody calculates this
@danielvasquez3758
@danielvasquez3758 Жыл бұрын
Great video brother!! Thanks!
@attache675
@attache675 Жыл бұрын
As American living in Japan for 5 plus years where it’s actually rude to tip, I love it that there’s no tipping. I’ve always felt the idea was just a scam and judgmental. The idea of someone not having a decent wage from the beginning and rely on tips to make ends meet is incredibly dumb and nonsensical.
@LoveHandle4890
@LoveHandle4890 Жыл бұрын
You can be generous. But only with the right people, in my opinion.
@sternendrache
@sternendrache Жыл бұрын
12:01 Restaurants can't just raise prices, or we'd choose competitors with better deals. When we experience bad service, they won't see us again. But if we return, it means they're doing a great job! Separate dine-in fees could help keep take-away prices competitive. No tipping needed - our repeat visits prove their quality and value!
@BriefNerdOriginal
@BriefNerdOriginal Жыл бұрын
In Switzerland there's been a big turmoil and then the decision many years ago to pay workers more, and eliminate the tipping as a must. You always do it if you want, but there's no specific percentage and they cannot ask for it.
@Juice8767
@Juice8767 Жыл бұрын
I haven't had a problem with tipping personally until recently. My wages are dependent on tips as well so I haven't seen an issue with returning the favor when I'm out spending (the system isn't great but it is what it is). About month or so ago I ordered a hungy howies pizza online. I don't mind making the drive to avoid delivery fees nor throwing on an extra couple bucks on for the employees working the hot oven but I was caught off guard when I went to sign the receipt that I had pre-paid with my card on the website that showed the tip I had made and had ANOTHER line that said 'additional tip'. I just scratched it off since I had already done so and also picked up the food in person but It'll be a long while before I go back there now, felt like an overstep that hit me hard.
@Rohith_0110
@Rohith_0110 Жыл бұрын
It is a problem, now that the industry knows they can charge more, if the tips are cut they will just raise the prices to compensate for their lost profit. It is a classic case of the cat is out of the bag, now they know they can charge more they will charge more. This should have been eliminated at the root, now there probably nothing we can do about it.
@sal5440
@sal5440 Жыл бұрын
I stopped tipping when they started asking for tips. It's rude as hell to just throw up a tip screen and then say "How much would you like to tip?", none.....if I wanted to tip you I'd have just done it. Watch how tipping becomes more and more rare since many people aren't happy throwing money away before you even see if the service was worth tipping for.
@cruz5327
@cruz5327 Жыл бұрын
Hopefully but we need more people to wake up. Like in the video tips are up 80% when they use the tablet and set the min tip. Best way is to spread the words to others to always leave custom $1 tips or no tips at all. Tired of this bs and I'm spreading the word
@blitzkr5329
@blitzkr5329 Жыл бұрын
I know this will be an excellent quality content but I have just watched this topic on other channel and made me took time to play this video.
@chomihai
@chomihai Жыл бұрын
I never tip more than 15%
@DodgerX
@DodgerX Жыл бұрын
I never tip more than 0%
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