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There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

I have aspergers, diagnosed at 12. My psychiatrist told me to get on disability and push carts at public. I was a super cringey kid, but from working hard and learning how to socialize I actually got into a relationship with this incredibly pretty girl in freshman year of high school. I just talked to her super well off the bat, didn't try too hard. I think that's confidence, feeling like you don't need to force anything. Confidence is the belief that you are all you need- that no external thing is necessary for you. On the flip side of that coin, is that there is so much in the world to experience. I can't believe I dated that girl, a cuban gothy girl named Natalie. On our first date, we made out in an elevator in barnes and nobles. I was pretty overweight and honestly awkward internally, but I carried myself well and I got better at flirting. We only dated for 4 months, but I was rarely single after that. I have never settled for a girl that I don't find attractive. And I don't just mean physical looks, but personality, intellect, perspective is all attractive. This mega sperg, that was bullied relentlessly from grades 1-6, has been married for 2 years to a 10/10 and everyone says "how did you end up with someone so out of your league?!?" I never pretended to be anyone but me. I am a crybaby, I am an introspective dude, I am a weightlifter, I am a cinemaphile, I give my money away to those that need it and I have a job I love in the health care field. I have given dying men cpr and saved their lives. I have talked people out of suicide. I was suicidal myself at a time, and I stopped self harm. I have lived a thousand lives. I have a 4 year diploma and we are trying for a baby. I am 26, and I am alive. And the craziest thing, I quit League of Legends. Edit: we are expecting a child in September! We just bought a townhouse as well. We are so blessed. Thank you all for the positive comments. I wish the best for everyone here.

key takeaways 1. have courage - you can do the action even if you feel scared. - rejection is better than regret 2. be honest and upfront - this builds trust and a connection - being authentic makes you able to connect with them too 3. (how to talk to girls?) have exciting conversations - be playful and tease her - avoids dryness & interview - show your ambition, don't be afraid to show your pride

Bruh I hate that my name is actually Adonis and I thought he was talking to me😭😭

"You can't be scarred of rejection, because regret hurts more than rejection." That line is about the most true statement you can find out of the whole video. I can't tell you how many times I wanted to approach a girl and didnt, then beat myself up and got depressed afterwards. If I had one piece of advice to my younger self it would be this, just try, you'll regret it if you don't.

Getting girls is a really important part of self improvement. Getting girls make you think thay you are good looking and this leads to you feeling better about yourself and feeling more confident. Am I right?

“You can’t be scared of rejection because regret hurts more than rejection” those are some wise words and I can confirm that they are very true. Last year I waited too long for the “right moment” and I spent most of the days daydreaming about the conversation that would win her over, and I never did anything. Now I realize that I never did anything last year and I got nowhere with her, she still isn’t my friend and I haven’t talked to her. Now I am lucky enough to be a the “right moment” and I just can’t let this opportunity slip especially since it has already been set up for me. I know that if I let this opportunity slip I will regret it.

I really like your point about how rejection and pain gets easier the more you're exposed to it. I think it's also a reason why successful and amazing people first went through a lot of failure and rejection; they persevered through the pain and no longer have anything holding them back from being the best version of themselves and pursuing what they truly want. If any and all paths can lead to failure, and most of your life is completely outside of your control and understanding, why fear failure and rejection when its inevitable and will only make you a better person in the long run?

There was this girl i had a crush on for so long and i finally got the courage to say it to her last year. I believed regret is worse than rejection. I just told her everything i had in my my mind and she opened up and said she liked me as well. Man that was probably the best feeling. Take your chances bois, this time aint coming back

I’ve used to have a tough time talking in general. One of my professors in college had made a statement that has stuck with me, “ people tend to remember how you make them feel, not what you say.” Ever since then that somewhat relieves the stress of conversation and makes it more fun.

I’m not that afraid of rejection, I’m more afraid of the girls friends making fun of me for talking to her and then them spreading that everywhere. That’s when the huge regret hits and then my reputation at school is ruined.

Hamza saved me bro. I remember when before I was plainly introverted and every convo with a girls ended badly. I was tall and considered handsome by some of them lucky I saw this video. I'm still working on becoming less introverted and my social skills. Thanks Hamza ❤

I used to hate small talk but as I got older, I learned to accept it. I thought something was wrong with me for not asking boring questions, so I learned to talk small. This video was very validating to me. I don't ever want to have small talk with someone again. To me, you are the first indicator that people like creative conversation. I realize I've been living in fear, thinking people wouldn't like what I actually want to say.

„Regret hurts more than rejection“ this is 100% true and that’s actually how I approached my first girl, I was scared out of my mind that I couldn’t sleep again because I always had to think about what could have been. She rejected me, it was a bit okward but still much better than not knowing how it would have ended. And after this rejection I felt actually way less scared of trying it again

Breaking the barrier of cordiality is the most important part of upping your relationship with *anyone* Great advices all around on this video

I got rejected by 7 girls in less than 2 months to find my first gf right after that, and man it was worth it. That relationship is also behind me now but I can definitely say that everything was worth it.

Just asked the girl I liked because of the courage I got from this video and she said yes. You pretty much just changed my life. I can’t thank you enough Hamza. Keep making these life-changing videos. Edit: She just said she doesn’t feel the same anymore. I did the exact opposite of what was said in this video. It was my first ever relationship and I got too attached. Guys, don’t make the same mistake I made and think thoroughly on how to apply the concepts in this video to your relationships. Good luck brothers.

"You can't be scared of rejection because regret hurts more than rejection"

Man, your approach is so.. human. It's refreshing. It's almost like we're not even talking about girls here but just about how to take care of yourself. (+ the editing, the structure, the storytelling.. very nice) I rarely subscribe to channels but man would I like to see more!

I must say, you’ve really helped me overcome my anxiety regarding acne with your old video regarding how to overcome your insecurities. Realizing that everyone has their own insecurities and that rising above your own negative self view really puts you in a different league. Helped me approach a girl that the week before I hadn’t because I was overthinking my acne.

Regret really does hurt more than rejection.

Ya'll here's a tip, If you scared that you are not good enough or don't look good lack communication skills etc.. just don't chase the girl. Use her as a motivation and Change yourself, hit the gym, talk to people, take care of yourself. Do this and the next time will be different i guarantee.

The fact that we needed some courage to talk to a girl who is just human being like us of opposite gender.

I'm not in some weird cult but I genuinely enjoy some of the vids. They're really a great help and so well made and the production level is getting better and better. Keep up the good work.

Something funny, it's because of the exact things that were mentioned in this video, that I spiraled into one of the worst places in my life. Along my way in the journey of self-depreciation, I came across Hamza's channel, and he provided the insight I needed, the exact step forward in being less disillusioned with reality. Thank you, Hamza. You helped me realize what I actually needed, and what I should focus on. It's only been 5 months, and I've stuck to reading, meditation, improved my knowledge overall, stopped putting women on pedestals, put myself and my goals ahead, and I learnt how to attempt starting a business (despite fearing the horrible outcome). Hamza, the work you're doing is insanely beneficial, easily digestible to the average man. We need people like you, and Jordan Peterson representing us. Thank you.

This video is probably the best 10 minutes I invested on this website in the past 3 years. Getting girls was something I always wanted to do but never succeeded. I gave up hope until this channel. This is probably the best advice I got ever given related to girls and after implementing this process I am now dating a girl I was talking to. I hope the others find this as helpful as I did and I wish them luck. Your channel really helped improve my life unto the right direction from the unproductive and underachieving script it once was this is just my start of my self improvement journey and it will surely be a long one, Thank you Hamza

Ok as a Pakistani "who avoided taxes like bullets in fliping matrix" I can confirm the taxes part

"Do the hard work, especially when you don't feel like it." ~ Adonissss 💪🏻🚀

For the first time in my school life, I actually mustered up the courage to confess to a girl I like (and she just so happens to be one of my friends). She didn't like me back, but she said things like: - "I've actually known since the beginning that you liked me." - "Sorry if I don't feel the same way. I hope you're not hurt by that, and I assure you that we are still friends." - "Thank you for the affection and deciding to confess your feelings. I appreciate that you didn't just stay there in the background." I am happy with the way things turned out. The two of us then left the grandstand and walked across the football field chatting about random shows we watched. Although, when we returned to the classroom and people found out what happened, the boys won't stop teasing me by saying, "Damn, you just got rejected. You're a fallen comrade, bro."

Damn. I really needed this, I'm 21 and I've been single since Jan, got out of a 2 yr relationship and went thru a lot of healing and personal journey to get to a certain level of self improvement and I realized I was getting stuck in this "Oh I'm focused on myself, that's why I'm closed off to other girls-" bs 😂. Had a girl leave me her number recently, and found myself just in that whole 'interview' exactly how he described it but with more confidence and slightly more teasing but definitely not on the level it should've been on and I'm not surprised she stopped talking to me (I take that L, lol) Getting 'back into the game' I realize I'm doing this completely wrong by trying small talk. I've been listening to way too many red pill accounts just out of boredom and honestly think it's been warping my perception of dating and talking to women. I've been big on not rushing anything and letting it form organically but this video just perfectly described how to make it flow organically, thank you so much Hamza! Honestly if any other youtuber had a video titled this, I wouldn't have watched it. As it'd feel a bit redundant. But you got the experience, the flow, and you never fail to disappoint. One of the reasons I like your videos so much is cause you put the viewer on the spot! and it's awesome.

I also have Asperger's... But, it seems to me that a lot of these videos make all kinds of assumptions. "We'll assume that you're already out on the scene, and looking." "We'll assume that you have a wingman." "So, we'll assume that you already have a good circle of friends, most (or all) of whom are well-versed in this stuff." "We'll assume that you already have some skills in 'talking to girls', and just want to improve." "We'll assume that you regularly go to parties - rather than watching videos like this, and thinking, 'WTH would I be doing at a party?'" Finally - and here's the kicker - we'll assume that you ALREADY have the so-called 'real man' mindset, and just need a bit of encouragement to maintain it. Don't get me wrong, Mr. Hamza - I believe that you are sincere in presenting this advice to those less skilled in this area than you are. I believe, also, that you genuinely want to help other men to get better at developing conversations with women. I do wish, however, that coaches like yourself would not always insist on assuming that men who struggle with these skills are only struggling because they are either out of practice, or just need to improve upon EXISTING skills, in order to become proficient. Please do not assume that we already know much of what you are teaching us, and just need to brush up on our existing skills. Many of us are still learning these conversational skills, and need more advice on how to present ourselves to women.

NOTE: this definitely is true, but it doesnt mean 100% success. i do all of this and i get people easily, but i still fail from time to time. dont let it hold you down, just keep trying

Hamza I’m 16, and started doing PPL in the gym. Todays the one month mark, and I haven’t skipped a day, think I’m hooked, thank you Hamza.

I had known this girl for 7 years and we would see each other around 2-3 times a week. About half a year ago, we got on really well, we started messaging and we liked each other, so naturally, I asked her out. The timing was horrible though, because this was before the summer holidays, our holiday never matched up, we were not in the same place at the same time meaning we did not see much of each other although we still texted every day and hour. Once the holidays were up, since I had not seen her for a month and a half, I freaked out and hid behind my anxiety and the relationship slowly died out over the next three months. I asked her if she wanted to try again yesterday morning and she said we would be better off as friends. To be fair, she had exams, we had not talked to each other properly other than small talk in months and I was a fool not to ask her out as soon as the holidays ended, I was a fool for not approaching her during the times we would see each other.

It feels good when I see my fellow Pakistani brother inspiring millions on the path of self-improvement! *Appreciate* 🔥

I watched hundreds, even thousands of videos on how to approach a girl and what to do; I was about to go to my crush, even tho I was pretty confident I knew it would become an interview kind of conversation, and luckily Hamza came in with the save just in time. Thank you, Hamza; I am grateful for having a brother figure online.

I've been with my guy for 16 years and our relationship is like 50% making fun of each other in a playful way. As a girl and now woman I can say this is the PERFECT advice. You definitely want to make it known that you're kidding though and you have to know when to be serious especially when it comes to our feelings or we get easily annoyed with the teasing and if you don't laugh or smile to make it obvious you're kidding around then it comes off as being a complete ass. Overall though, great advice.

We do not bite. Come talk to us. Just do not touch us without consent. Too many men already do that most of the time. Be kind, and just look at it as catching up with an old friend.

One thing I’ve found that helps a lot is to do your research. This is good for nerds. Find what they’re interested in, find out more about it. I started talking to a girl near the end of high school since I wanted to take her to prom. I didn’t do all of it perfectly, now I would do it significantly better. But I knew she was in swim at our high school and was in the state tournament, so I asked her how that was going. That was one of the first things I’d asked her. Little things like that are great conversation starters, then you can find natural flow very easily since she is talking about what she’s interested in. Now, I was antisocial up until high school. I was a nerd that didn’t do anything or talk to anyone, so my social development came late. COVID also impacted my social life dramatically. On our first date, I picked up this girl. I went into her house, talked to her dad, and this is how it started. “So what do you do besides Math Field Day and Tennis?” “I play piano.” (she played piano too). She interrupts and says “He can play Bohemian Rhapsody!” Dad says “Alright, let’s hear it.” Nailed it. Went to dinner and maintained 3 hours of interesting conversation with her and that was it. Went on to have a few more dates, talk daily for 4 months, go to prom together, then get friend zoned since I was going to college soon. Which is fair. If I would have been a year younger, we would be dating 100% If they drop little details, commit them to memory. I memorized all of her blocks in school by asking simple but natural questions. Then I used that knowledge to intercept her after her last block, then walk 10 minutes to our cars. Completely ditched her friend in that class. I didn’t tell her I was doing it, I just did. We proceeded to do that every day before and after school. It got to a point where if I was unable to walk with her, I would get a snap of her joking about being lonely. If she couldn’t, she would let me know in advance without me asking. It became an expectation. If you both are younger and still live with your parents, make sure you develop a good relationship with her parents too. The father is the most important. Mother is important too but prioritize the respect of her father. Her parents would even come to my high school tennis matches. She came to my state tennis matches, made numerous little signs of my face for everyone to use as a surprise. Sorry for the long comment, just trying to help my fellow nerds out there get some women. Treat it like a test. Take notes on what she says, do your homework on her interests, and just be interesting when the test comes. If you can talk to her about her interests, you’ll have interesting conversations all day long. It worked for me. I’m willing to help if you have any questions.

9:29 "I am going to the top, u wanna join me" Beautiful ✨

I found the inner adoins within myself when I went to Pakistan I was so open, no tech, wasn't afraid to talk to girls actually made an effort talking to strangers, I was so smooth with it, no thinking only do. , I felt like a king, when I got back to the UK I felt closed off again, like a Jeffrey, It partly feels its because of the culture difference but also me not having a purpose here.

as a woman i can literally confirm this is true just listen to hamza bro

Bro what did the world do to deserve such a great teacher as Hamza??

Bro I talked to this girl right (for a week or two) and I asked her out. It was my first time and honestly I’m upset, full oh heart ache. But on the same token, I’m so glad that I finally shot my shot. I really do want to improve my social skills and I’m so proud of myself for doing so. Still down about the rejection but you can’t go from incel to chad in a month lol.

YOOO My life quote is "Rejection is temporary, regret is forever" and then Hamza's "regret hurts more than rejection" is an amazing follow up to that!!

Quick story about a courageous young dude I met recently, (probably watched some Hamza inspiration): I was at school hangin with a group of girls and this random guy shows up real nervous and asks one of the cuter ones in the group: do you wanna go out with me. She rejected him nicely, but I became his #1 fan in that moment 😂 i knew EXACTLY what he felt while all the other girls didn’t. I even went and supported him and commended the balls he had to come up to our group. When I returned I had to explain later to the girls the balls that took and what it really means. Women will never understand jooo 🙄

You should honestly make an app for advice because i think many of us need it

I think this is what I needed, not an exact blueprint on what to say to a girl, but just some pointers and tips that I couldn't find anywhere else. Thanks once again Hamza

It's so weird because I actually did this with a girl without realizing it. There was this coworker that I had that was a pretty cute girl, but she had a boyfriend so I never manifested anything in feelings. But I would playfully tease her and act annoyed when she came into work in a joking way like "ugh I gotta work with you today". And OCCASIONALLY we would flirt very lightly by just saying nice things about each others appearance. Well that was in Texas and I had to come back to Tennessee to finish college, and this girl tells me that she broke up with her boyfriend and that she wanted to date me. Partly that I was funny, but because I had my own goals. Unfortunately I had to say no, but this was so surprising that a girl who was quite pretty actually approached me first and it was due to things I wasn't even putting effort into. If only this would happen with a girl I actually liked. 😂

you know the most motivating part of this video is at the end Hamza kissing the camera and giving like the vibe of the brotherhood thing

0:55 Alpha, Bravo, Charlie, Delta, Echo, Foxtrot, Golf, Hotel, India, Juliet, Kilo, Lima, Mike, November, Oscar, Papa, Q?, Romeo, Sierra, Tango, Uniform, V?, Whiskey, X-Ray, Yanke, Zuzoo?

Started training my neck and attention from girls increased 10X. Now i dont even try to talk anymore, i just flex my neck.

*Regret hurts more than rejection* well that hit me now like a bus, because I had limited time to do something and missed my chance, now it feels like something is eating me from inside.

people are looking at what to say to girls, but really what most don't realize is that this dosen't come from these videos, it dosent come from an article, it comes from you.

this video helped me so mcuh. im with the girl that i liked for 2 years tysm

“Failure lasts a moment, regret lasts a lifetime” -Me in an essay I wrote

Ever since graduating high school I forget I've always had that flirty way with girls even though I was extremely shy. I know what Hamza said is true cuz every year in at least 1 class I'd make a friend who happens to be female just by teasing. In the end it never went well cuz they'd havea crush on me but I was to scared to take a chance. Also take this advice from a guy who had a crush on a girl from 3rd grade all the way to 12th and never said a word to her...GO TALK TO HER!

Being playful/teasing is one part - but you need to have some serious conversations mixed in otherwise they'll think you're a joker/not serious - confidence is a balance of self belief, displaying mental and physical strength but you can't come off arrogant or super alpha otherwise you won't be seeing her again.

Much love to you guys who keep trying to help us out. Really things come down to us seeing ourselves as attractive or as prizes. My nature my whole life has been to be VERY playful and witty but ever since my teenage years I bombed into what I am now. If there has ever been some sort of opportunity with a woman since my adolescence, I have always eviscerated it. Either knowingly or unknowingly. I’m that bad. On top of just going blank with attractive women, I just never think they want to hear provocative lines from me, so I don’t want to make them uncomfortable by saying them. Either way, thanks for the advice dude.

I get rejected left and right but instead of letting it put me down it brings my confidence up knowing that I at least have the courage to talk to a girl while everyone else just stands there watching them pass by

i come here after a year of listening to him. i let go self improvement but still managed to get females my best tip. BE FRIENDS WITH EVERYBODY DONT FORCE 2 BE SUMONE UR NOT

the fact that you talk about how many times you have been rejected. that takes king level kind of honesty.

This man speaking faxxx . I just conveyed my feelings for this girl I liked for about 8 months now who I never even had the courage to even talk to before . I got rejected but the fact that I was able to talk to her and make my move and then get rejected is still a huge W for me . I won't atleast have the regret that I wasn't even able to talk to her and make my move , and trust me that regret hurts more than the rejection itself. So gather whatever little confidence u have and talk to her.

You're correct about courage. It isn't about not having fear, it's about not letting the fear be in the way of your decision to walk up and ask your that crush out. Great vid

MAN MAN MAN I love the comments section here so much, all dudes pouring their heart out wish we had a dc channel to talk about all this would be so fun.

You've been so inspiring for me, and I have just started really getting bingo your videos man, thank you. Im actually improving my life and I'm already becoming so much more confident! While it is still so hard for me to talk to girls out of no where, I definitely feel that pull when I try to talk to girls, I just get a feeling like "No, I have to wait, I don't even know her" and it hurts so bad when I go back home and didn't talk to one girl. So I just have to send it, go for it and really break that repeated regret cycle. Thank you!

Hits too close to home. You're describing EXACTLY how I approach girls and sometimes it works but I find it weird when girls don't return the same kind of energy as I expect them to. You were right Hamza, my perception of "game" was very naive, I shouldn't expect them to be interested with interview like questions. Thanks for this lesson!

I cannot believe I completely avoided this advice until now. Thank you Hamza for helping me reach first base! I couldn’t do it without you.

When I was 13 in Grade 8 there was this cute girl in grade 11 (so she was 17) that I had a crush on. She was the daughter of my teacher and I had so many excuses not to ask her out "oh she's 4 years older than me" "oh I don't think it's right" "oh this could complicate my relationship with my teacher" so I just gave up and started pursuing self improvement. This all happened a few months ago and I even told a few friends, but they kept mentioning the fact that I had a crush on a 17 year old girl... Funny story just thought I'd share with you

Bro is obsessed with the "what type of music do you like"😂😂(lmao)

2:37 I felt that

I don't feel the urge to talk to girls as much anymore. A couple of years ago I had a bit of game and attraction but now I have become a zombie who is addicted to pron and I feel so inferior to the people around me. As soon as I make a little a bit of progress it feels I am back at zero. I have become the type of person who has become complacent and weak. With each passing year I become more and more inferior to my peers. At this point even my family has figured out I am not capable. I know only I can make the change but I can't conquer my mind. When I am at Uni or around my peers and they talk about all the success they are achieving I feel like just shutting off everything.

The pain in first half of this video I can feel it from my deepest part of my heart .

" Regret hurts more than Rejection "

fucking hell bro, in one month you completely changed my life, I cannot stress out enough, how much I am grateful

Your editor is doing a great job! Your comedy in sync with the animations makes the videos very engaging.

Hey the teasing a girl stuff is litterally what I needed to hear. Back in middle school I would see a classmate have this sort of teasing relationship with a gal friend n their conversation was somehow interesting cause he’s teasing her making her react. N I’m like what sort of power is this? I later fell for her but was never ever was quite able to form any sort of relationship with her :(

He talked about one of my all-time favorite lines "what type of music do u like" I guess now my favorite line is "what type of food do u like"

There is this girl in my class and I would like to speak to her etc. As a disclaimer I am fairly confident and literally speak to random strangers so often and get girls numbers on the street, gym etc. The thing with this girl is that she is in my class and I am in my last year of school. I don’t want her to reject me and that entire class make fun of me etc and make it hard to focus on school.

masteroogway once said- if you run after butterflies, they will run away but, if you spend your time building a nice garden, the butterflies will come

Regret is in infinitely worse than rejection.

0:24 i am a pakistani and i totally agree 😂😂😂

Rejection feels good to me , call me insane but it makes me feel stronger

i used to have game but no confidence, now i can muster the confidence and have no game

Andrew Tate Far from weak Hamza David googins Love these guys i love that they teach masculinity Thankyou

rejection is way better than no reply. trust me.

I was in elementary and I liked a girl and I wasn't worried about rejection I was worried about being made fun of or being called disgusting. I wanted to confess on the last day of school when she's alone but she disappeared before I could. I still regret it, as there was nothing to lose.

Imagine if that girl is watching you now🤣🤣

man i just fumbled an opportunity with a girl i really like and im gonna see her again tomorrow and try to be more confident :/

Even though I got rejected by girls, but after hearing this I think I should be practicing this method. Tease her in a funny way but not in an offensive way. Keep up the good work hamza

Some say "ignore her and she'll chase you" others say "take the risk and tell her how you feel" but i say..."all you need is food to make you happy"😊💕

Man, I swear, all this advice you're giving us is gonna make my life so much better.

I think the main problem in general is people who can't be honest, you can't expect confidence when you're hitting on a girl unless you have the experience, but exp is secondary, the main thing is learning the social cues, understanding timing, the subtle things, so I suggest that If you want to be able to talk to girls, instead of focusing on being flirty try to be openly honest, don't force your words, try to go with whatever is happening and just don't try to "get" her, that will come after you understand how to approach people.

best video you've put out in a while bro, love when you tell personal stories and we can feel your personality coming through the video. keep it up 💯

Get Desensitised to rejection ASAP. If she likes you, she will give you plenty of chances. Talk to her as soon as possible.

All through middle school I had two different crushes neither of them I had the balls to talk to now I’m a fresh men in high school and took my chances with a girl and tried talking to her, I’m almost certain she likes me too because of the huge amount of things she’s done that a girl who wouldn’t like me wouldn’t do (like touching me or writing on my paper) I honestly didn’t think I’d get this far and now that I’m here I don’t know how to progress further 😭

Holy shit this is so true . I see all the guys in my uni class and it’s so funny how much each one of them “teases” the girls : they playfully make fun of her , let the girl hit them back when they mock them , hug to say hello and so on . And most of them aren’t even chads , just normal dudes who have no trouble talking to girls ( it’s not only about making her feel excited , it’s doing it everyday to even the girls you’re only friends with ) and here I am just saying ahi with just a smile cause I’m way to shy to give them a hug .

"Regret hurts more than rejection" Daaaayuuuuuummm

The truth is, most men haven’t done the “work” yet. Which is, exposure therapy of teaching your brain that there is no real danger. I recommend for men to start taking Ice Cold showers in the morning starting from however long you can stand and working your way up to a few minutes. This shock will help correlate when you practice taking action through the resistance related emotions of approaching women. In reality, most rejections aren’t even bad. The worst I’ve had is a women simply dismissing herself from the interaction. Not to say that some men had a non-typical bad experience, but the majority of most rejections is nothing.