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@Hamza974 ай бұрын
I just won a massive business competition and came FIRST PLACE: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/id99edOZprncaZ8.html
@MoeIsHere.4 ай бұрын
First one seeing this in this specefic vid
@CaseOH_clipsdaily4 ай бұрын
Yo
@geoffreykioi32722 ай бұрын
I'm Geoffrey, and you think you have it rough listening to these videos 😂
@MoeIsHere.2 ай бұрын
@@geoffreykioi3272 who even are you bro
@user-es8zy9zr7t2 ай бұрын
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
@Torantes2 ай бұрын
Dark mind tricks? Ayanokouji reference 😱
@ShawnEverson-mq9vfАй бұрын
Send me the link
@sunnyrito667410 күн бұрын
Who is the Author of the book. Will you kindly say us the name of the author?
@masonthaumiel6643 Жыл бұрын
I have aspergers, diagnosed at 12. My psychiatrist told me to get on disability and push carts at public. I was a super cringey kid, but from working hard and learning how to socialize I actually got into a relationship with this incredibly pretty girl in freshman year of high school. I just talked to her super well off the bat, didn't try too hard. I think that's confidence, feeling like you don't need to force anything. Confidence is the belief that you are all you need- that no external thing is necessary for you. On the flip side of that coin, is that there is so much in the world to experience. I can't believe I dated that girl, a cuban gothy girl named Natalie. On our first date, we made out in an elevator in barnes and nobles. I was pretty overweight and honestly awkward internally, but I carried myself well and I got better at flirting. We only dated for 4 months, but I was rarely single after that. I have never settled for a girl that I don't find attractive. And I don't just mean physical looks, but personality, intellect, perspective is all attractive. This mega sperg, that was bullied relentlessly from grades 1-6, has been married for 2 years to a 10/10 and everyone says "how did you end up with someone so out of your league?!?" I never pretended to be anyone but me. I am a crybaby, I am an introspective dude, I am a weightlifter, I am a cinemaphile, I give my money away to those that need it and I have a job I love in the health care field. I have given dying men cpr and saved their lives. I have talked people out of suicide. I was suicidal myself at a time, and I stopped self harm. I have lived a thousand lives. I have a 4 year diploma and we are trying for a baby. I am 26, and I am alive. And the craziest thing, I quit League of Legends. Edit: we are expecting a child in September! We just bought a townhouse as well. We are so blessed. Thank you all for the positive comments. I wish the best for everyone here.
@phillip5967 Жыл бұрын
As someone who recently got diagnosed with klinefelter and autism this really motivates me. Thanks
@HThB Жыл бұрын
Damn bro good to hear this. Very motivating
@bruhhh5631 Жыл бұрын
wow, bro, that's inspiring
@farisa1116 Жыл бұрын
But the fear doesn't end when she says yes you wonder if you'll be able to handle the relationship or if you might screw it up what do you do then or should I stop overthinking
@TheJoeyfleming Жыл бұрын
W
@markyu2216 Жыл бұрын
key takeaways 1. have courage - you can do the action even if you feel scared. - rejection is better than regret 2. be honest and upfront - this builds trust and a connection - being authentic makes you able to connect with them too 3. (how to talk to girls?) have exciting conversations - be playful and tease her - avoids dryness & interview - show your ambition, don't be afraid to show your pride
@AHeroWith1000Names Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@helloquestionmark9942 Жыл бұрын
ben
@user-wp8ot2ny2m Жыл бұрын
Be chad
@ANKIT-kc3sg Жыл бұрын
Playful and tease her how?
@azzim24 Жыл бұрын
Pride is a sin
@Adonisrose7493 Жыл бұрын
Bruh I hate that my name is actually Adonis and I thought he was talking to me😭😭
@bhaigreat54314 ай бұрын
Damn you lucky
@relaxedlooksmaxxer4 ай бұрын
Atleast you are not Jeffrey
@madsharkz86403 ай бұрын
@@relaxedlooksmaxxerunfortunately I can’t say the same
@Invadedargument5150-qi6lf3 ай бұрын
I know a guy named jeffery
@Zimcautions_a23 ай бұрын
Why girls are watching this?
@babylegs5049 Жыл бұрын
"You can't be scarred of rejection, because regret hurts more than rejection." That line is about the most true statement you can find out of the whole video. I can't tell you how many times I wanted to approach a girl and didnt, then beat myself up and got depressed afterwards. If I had one piece of advice to my younger self it would be this, just try, you'll regret it if you don't.
@eyoo369 Жыл бұрын
But in the end don't beat yourself up too much... there is enough fish in the sea. Just focus on yourself and keep building king ;)
@babylegs5049 Жыл бұрын
@@eyoo369 thanks dude, everyone needs that pick me up sometimes
@nature_people Жыл бұрын
So true. Simply the best explanation of a psychological phenomenon that all of us experience in our lifetime. Best regards.
@zidane8800 Жыл бұрын
Yahh there was this girl I had a crush on but didn't have much courage to ask her out later I got to know by a mutual friend that she too liked me at that time nd she is now dating someone else so yahh that regret really hurts me a lot now
@babylegs5049 Жыл бұрын
@D34DB34T honestly in a lot of young guys heads, the mindset is unfortunately set to oneitis. And that fear of getting obliterated by a girl overcomes the norm which is a way less intense rejection. Not saying your wrong, just saying not everyone handles shit the same, but I appreciate your perspective man.
@Roby-SelfImprovement Жыл бұрын
Getting girls is a really important part of self improvement. Getting girls make you think thay you are good looking and this leads to you feeling better about yourself and feeling more confident. Am I right?
@unusualswoop7660 Жыл бұрын
@UC0DdWSiA_oLMeUj7QeCZKxA based
@Roby-SelfImprovement Жыл бұрын
Coming from a 14 year old you may be thinking that all I said is false. But trust me, I have learned a lot in the last 1 year self improvement journey and I am much more mature than others my age. Hamza has given a lot of young men hope and i one of them
@STAIR_WAY14 Жыл бұрын
@@Roby-SelfImprovement you are not wrong friend, you are good.
@lennarttruthspeech Жыл бұрын
To the point where it actually contributes to your mental health / confidence, probably yes. But there will probably be a point where you find yourself getting diminishing returns from it eventually
@gibrilsi Жыл бұрын
YEah, man. I see a good future ahead of you. But for the people that can't get girls, you can still live a happy life which I'll try and help you guys out with my platform like Hamz! Keep working, my people! 🙏🏾🖤‼
@thebatman7730 Жыл бұрын
“You can’t be scared of rejection because regret hurts more than rejection” those are some wise words and I can confirm that they are very true. Last year I waited too long for the “right moment” and I spent most of the days daydreaming about the conversation that would win her over, and I never did anything. Now I realize that I never did anything last year and I got nowhere with her, she still isn’t my friend and I haven’t talked to her. Now I am lucky enough to be a the “right moment” and I just can’t let this opportunity slip especially since it has already been set up for me. I know that if I let this opportunity slip I will regret it.
@VelocityOfficialz Жыл бұрын
Go at it king 👑
@26Wyatt Жыл бұрын
Update?
@GalaxialMoonflower Жыл бұрын
update
@justnotme6886 Жыл бұрын
did you smash bro? :))
@dtgoldensniper677711 ай бұрын
update
@The4Tifier Жыл бұрын
I really like your point about how rejection and pain gets easier the more you're exposed to it. I think it's also a reason why successful and amazing people first went through a lot of failure and rejection; they persevered through the pain and no longer have anything holding them back from being the best version of themselves and pursuing what they truly want. If any and all paths can lead to failure, and most of your life is completely outside of your control and understanding, why fear failure and rejection when its inevitable and will only make you a better person in the long run?
@otify480 Жыл бұрын
There was this girl i had a crush on for so long and i finally got the courage to say it to her last year. I believed regret is worse than rejection. I just told her everything i had in my my mind and she opened up and said she liked me as well. Man that was probably the best feeling. Take your chances bois, this time aint coming back
@xXHalo4Xx117 Жыл бұрын
@@Vatzaa Man up that shit bro. Fuck what they think. If you really like her, you let her know. Breathe in, Chest UP bro. Gossip is beneath you, so if they are going to gossip like the infantile rodents that they are, ignore them. Don't even have them in your thoughts. I'd recommend spending 10-20 minutes a day meditating. Perhaps you'll get your chance to express your feelings to her bro. Best of luck. 💪
@lochamabro3638 Жыл бұрын
@@Vatzaawhat happened
@restartleno5714 Жыл бұрын
I can't man . She has a boyfriend.I think I will hide it in the deepest part of my heart to never bring it up again.
@nobodyofimportance9317 Жыл бұрын
I know you've seen and heard it but,Keep working on yourself,keep grinding, don't worry too much about her focus on yourself
@gutsssz Жыл бұрын
@@Vatzaa update?
@gfysproductions1971 Жыл бұрын
I’ve used to have a tough time talking in general. One of my professors in college had made a statement that has stuck with me, “ people tend to remember how you make them feel, not what you say.” Ever since then that somewhat relieves the stress of conversation and makes it more fun.
@WiseRetar Жыл бұрын
If you have hard time talking, remove your vocal cord, you wont have trouble talking if you can't talk in the first place.
@testovaciucet Жыл бұрын
@@WiseRetar Wow, do you have a netflix special?
@Wallmart5 Жыл бұрын
I’m not that afraid of rejection, I’m more afraid of the girls friends making fun of me for talking to her and then them spreading that everywhere. That’s when the huge regret hits and then my reputation at school is ruined.
@Ice_friend16 ай бұрын
It's alright bro don't care whatever they say or do like bro that's what happens with me also
@gwd1st Жыл бұрын
Hamza saved me bro. I remember when before I was plainly introverted and every convo with a girls ended badly. I was tall and considered handsome by some of them lucky I saw this video. I'm still working on becoming less introverted and my social skills. Thanks Hamza ❤
@michaelarmstrong8166 Жыл бұрын
I used to hate small talk but as I got older, I learned to accept it. I thought something was wrong with me for not asking boring questions, so I learned to talk small. This video was very validating to me. I don't ever want to have small talk with someone again. To me, you are the first indicator that people like creative conversation. I realize I've been living in fear, thinking people wouldn't like what I actually want to say.
@gibrilsi Жыл бұрын
I despise it. I'm actually going to make a vid on my take on small talk.
@prolofmeister Жыл бұрын
Small Talks are for the weak
@nickp3949 Жыл бұрын
It’s used to hate small talk too, but now I love it. It’s my favorite way to connect with someone because it’s basically an art form. Small talk is not actually about the content of what you’re talking about. It’s about everything else…vibe, tonality, body language, etc. So if you can hav fun with small talk knowing it that it’s really not about what you did over the weekend, and actually use that to your advantage, the ability to be able to spin a conversation like that into something fun and flirty is amazing. It’s a skill.
@raheemcamal998 Жыл бұрын
@@nickp3949 exactly
@miniweeddeerz1820 Жыл бұрын
Small talk isnt about the words you say, normally yes, very mundane. Small talk is about the vibe you create with a person using very open, non polarising common topics to create good connections with said person so you can delve into deeper more meaningful conversations in future. But you can't get to deep conversations without the small talk first. It's an essential skill and really should be enjoyed because it's establishing first contact with someone.
@derbacksteinbacker4942 Жыл бұрын
„Regret hurts more than rejection“ this is 100% true and that’s actually how I approached my first girl, I was scared out of my mind that I couldn’t sleep again because I always had to think about what could have been. She rejected me, it was a bit okward but still much better than not knowing how it would have ended. And after this rejection I felt actually way less scared of trying it again
@WiseRetar Жыл бұрын
gunshot wounds hurt more than both combined so it's not true,
@cagedinsane9929 Жыл бұрын
@@WiseRetar What happens if your regret is being kind, to women as in at all, how do you get over that "red pill" rage? I am genuinely asking, not just for myself, but for younger males as well? I will add with no short or long term agendas at play, especially for those who just don't feel sexual attraction quickly
@lehisena3443 Жыл бұрын
Holy moly bruh, WHY I DIDN'T SAW THAT VIDEO A MONTH AGO😭🤣😂 it's funny cause, literally a girl that i was just thinking about and kinda stalking(a bit) called me out of nowhere in the middle of the night, like we really never talked for real about interesting things before, but somehow she said: "I was thinking about you recently" and then i started having a good conversation but days later i didn't know what to say then i asked these boring ass questions to her like: "What kind of music do you like?" She stopped answering me in the following week. Dude i was so, so, but SO SAD....geez
@nature_people Жыл бұрын
Yeah, it`s more like working out your biceps (let`s say). Next day, sore muscles. Then, repeat, work out every 2, 3 days, and no sore muscles anymore. Just big arms. Best of luck to you!
@nature_people Жыл бұрын
Don`t be afraid to experience. Life is an experience itself. Best wishes.
@slayeroffurries1115 Жыл бұрын
Breaking the barrier of cordiality is the most important part of upping your relationship with *anyone* Great advices all around on this video
@realmarkoknezevic Жыл бұрын
I got rejected by 7 girls in less than 2 months to find my first gf right after that, and man it was worth it. That relationship is also behind me now but I can definitely say that everything was worth it.
@maz2483 Жыл бұрын
Lol u desperate af
@realmarkoknezevic Жыл бұрын
@@looooonooooooooooooooooooooong wdym I'm reading my comment and don't see where i mentioned him
@realmarkoknezevic Жыл бұрын
@@maz2483 brother, being desperate for goals is not a bad thing. I am always obsessed over my goals and one was getting a gf to test out all different things i have learned from books and videos. I was * desperate * (more like not giving up easily) over the goal and it was so worth it. If it wasn't i would also say that. I am not earning any money for saying something here. I just say that the gained experience and beautiful moments were worth everything i did to achieve the goal. Edit: fuck me if i saw that you have an anime pfp i wouldn't bother explaining this. Anyway yeah have a nice day
@Realmotion2000 Жыл бұрын
@@realmarkoknezevic don’t pay dude no mind real players know u get rejected in this game It’s a game and we the players keep grinding bro
@WiseRetar Жыл бұрын
cry about it.
@wiamsmit2003 Жыл бұрын
Just asked the girl I liked because of the courage I got from this video and she said yes. You pretty much just changed my life. I can’t thank you enough Hamza. Keep making these life-changing videos. Edit: She just said she doesn’t feel the same anymore. I did the exact opposite of what was said in this video. It was my first ever relationship and I got too attached. Guys, don’t make the same mistake I made and think thoroughly on how to apply the concepts in this video to your relationships. Good luck brothers.
@shohosama Жыл бұрын
Congrats bro I'm proud of you 💪
@farisa1116 Жыл бұрын
But the fear doesn't end when she says yes you wonder if you'll be able to handle the relationship or if you might screw it up what do you do then or should I stop overthinking
@wiamsmit2003 Жыл бұрын
@@farisa1116 nah ur good bro I’m thinking the same thing right now. Just follow some of the tips in this video to be the person she wants to be in a relationship with; the person she wants to talk to all the time. U got this brotha
@wiamsmit2003 Жыл бұрын
@@shohosama thx man
@goshko8842 Жыл бұрын
how do u approach her cus i suck at that
@snehalshrestha Жыл бұрын
"You can't be scared of rejection because regret hurts more than rejection"
@racheldevito13 күн бұрын
And you always regret what you didn't do more than what you did do.
@andy_mir Жыл бұрын
Man, your approach is so.. human. It's refreshing. It's almost like we're not even talking about girls here but just about how to take care of yourself. (+ the editing, the structure, the storytelling.. very nice) I rarely subscribe to channels but man would I like to see more!
@mt70092 Жыл бұрын
I must say, you’ve really helped me overcome my anxiety regarding acne with your old video regarding how to overcome your insecurities. Realizing that everyone has their own insecurities and that rising above your own negative self view really puts you in a different league. Helped me approach a girl that the week before I hadn’t because I was overthinking my acne.
@gibrilsi Жыл бұрын
GOOd on you, bro. I hope I help others out too just how HAMZA helped you, my guy! 💯🙏🏾👍🏾
@FadeScratch Жыл бұрын
If Zamga not only didn't destroy your courage, BUT MANAGED TO CURE YOUR ANXIETY - you must have a very, very, VERY strong emotional background.
@iamstillthinking Жыл бұрын
Hell yeah, Martynas.
@Junior-zf7yy Жыл бұрын
Doesn’t mean you should neglect self-improvement. I had severe cystic acne before, self-confidence was in the negatives, never got any attention from girls but then decided I was gonna do something about it, went on accutane and skin is totally clear now. Since then I don’t even need to approach girls half the time, a lot of times they just come to me. Was literally in the club two days ago and a two girls approached me, Turns out acne significantly affects your looks, I went from a solid 3 out of 10 to a 7/8 now. I’d suggest you get accutane depending how bad you acne is, can literally be a game changer.
@Billy-Hargrove Жыл бұрын
@@Junior-zf7yy yeah accutane also fixed my acne but I have some redness left due to the acne, did you have the same after accutane of yes how'd you fix it?
@kovius564 Жыл бұрын
Regret really does hurt more than rejection.
@mohammadsoubra3820 Жыл бұрын
Yeah..
@FinancialMotivationrealworld Жыл бұрын
Fr
@charmsly950610 ай бұрын
I got rejected by a girl. Did it hurt, yes. For only like a few days its really not as bad as long as you accept it maturely.
@KittyKow6 ай бұрын
So true
@proxima863111 ай бұрын
Ya'll here's a tip, If you scared that you are not good enough or don't look good lack communication skills etc.. just don't chase the girl. Use her as a motivation and Change yourself, hit the gym, talk to people, take care of yourself. Do this and the next time will be different i guarantee.
@abhaythakur133 Жыл бұрын
The fact that we needed some courage to talk to a girl who is just human being like us of opposite gender.
@vaice2k15 күн бұрын
Because they r complicated beings
@johnkeheno748 Жыл бұрын
I'm not in some weird cult but I genuinely enjoy some of the vids. They're really a great help and so well made and the production level is getting better and better. Keep up the good work.
@Hamza97 Жыл бұрын
yes you are, welcome to the cult. Now drink this kool-aid
@gibrilsi Жыл бұрын
@@Hamza97 You're great, bro. I will see you at the top one day. You deserve your success! 🔝💯👑🥷🏾
@KentPittsburgh Жыл бұрын
@@Hamza97 *slurps the kool-aid down*
@goodluckolaleye6386 Жыл бұрын
@@Hamza97 i need your help how do i start those conversations
@TheRonelAaron Жыл бұрын
welcome to the cult HAHA
@unalivebagel697 Жыл бұрын
Something funny, it's because of the exact things that were mentioned in this video, that I spiraled into one of the worst places in my life. Along my way in the journey of self-depreciation, I came across Hamza's channel, and he provided the insight I needed, the exact step forward in being less disillusioned with reality. Thank you, Hamza. You helped me realize what I actually needed, and what I should focus on. It's only been 5 months, and I've stuck to reading, meditation, improved my knowledge overall, stopped putting women on pedestals, put myself and my goals ahead, and I learnt how to attempt starting a business (despite fearing the horrible outcome). Hamza, the work you're doing is insanely beneficial, easily digestible to the average man. We need people like you, and Jordan Peterson representing us. Thank you.
@inf3rnis984 Жыл бұрын
This video is probably the best 10 minutes I invested on this website in the past 3 years. Getting girls was something I always wanted to do but never succeeded. I gave up hope until this channel. This is probably the best advice I got ever given related to girls and after implementing this process I am now dating a girl I was talking to. I hope the others find this as helpful as I did and I wish them luck. Your channel really helped improve my life unto the right direction from the unproductive and underachieving script it once was this is just my start of my self improvement journey and it will surely be a long one, Thank you Hamza
@cream469 ай бұрын
3 years is a lot of time holy shit
@varvitas8709 Жыл бұрын
Ok as a Pakistani "who avoided taxes like bullets in fliping matrix" I can confirm the taxes part
@sohummohare6364 Жыл бұрын
I need more explanation lol
@GrowthMindsetChannel Жыл бұрын
"Do the hard work, especially when you don't feel like it." ~ Adonissss 💪🏻🚀
@mihawk-7764 Жыл бұрын
Wasn't Tate who said that!? 🗿
@higher.self_.4677 Жыл бұрын
@@mihawk-7764 bro im not gonna hate on you,but in personal experience,i said and discover a lot of things by myself , just going deep in my mind. then days later i watch a video and someone said it already, i keep saying it cause i dont give a fuck if people think i copy it from someone else, this an example of hamza,he says it from years ag, maybe tate too,but tate said it like 3 month ago in the emergensy meeting.
@gibrilsi Жыл бұрын
@@higher.self_.4677 Lets just keep grinding. Soon, we'll take over KZfaq and Tiktok if we keep it going!
@higher.self_.4677 Жыл бұрын
@@gibrilsi 🔥🔥🔥✊🏽 well said brother
@WiseRetar Жыл бұрын
Who tf is adonissss? Never heard of him. Is he one of those gay acient Greek phylosophers?
@arson1tez Жыл бұрын
For the first time in my school life, I actually mustered up the courage to confess to a girl I like (and she just so happens to be one of my friends). She didn't like me back, but she said things like: - "I've actually known since the beginning that you liked me." - "Sorry if I don't feel the same way. I hope you're not hurt by that, and I assure you that we are still friends." - "Thank you for the affection and deciding to confess your feelings. I appreciate that you didn't just stay there in the background." I am happy with the way things turned out. The two of us then left the grandstand and walked across the football field chatting about random shows we watched. Although, when we returned to the classroom and people found out what happened, the boys won't stop teasing me by saying, "Damn, you just got rejected. You're a fallen comrade, bro."
@WiseRetar Жыл бұрын
grab a gun and shoot them, kill them, people who insult people shall die!
@gameseeker6307 Жыл бұрын
That's just life homie
@arson1tez Жыл бұрын
@@gameseeker6307 indeed it is
@talknight2 Жыл бұрын
Those boys are the cowards who couldn't even get as far as getting rejected, don't forget it.
@beavisbuttgoblin Жыл бұрын
Never confess your feelings. It NEVER goes the way Hollywood would have you believe it might. Women love a dude who is mysterious, hard to read, unpredictable. By confessing your feelings you are literally killing the thrill of the verbal foreplay. You want to keep her guessing. Once she's 'got' you, you're done. She's onto the next one who is a challenge.
@a1uplift21211 ай бұрын
Damn. I really needed this, I'm 21 and I've been single since Jan, got out of a 2 yr relationship and went thru a lot of healing and personal journey to get to a certain level of self improvement and I realized I was getting stuck in this "Oh I'm focused on myself, that's why I'm closed off to other girls-" bs 😂. Had a girl leave me her number recently, and found myself just in that whole 'interview' exactly how he described it but with more confidence and slightly more teasing but definitely not on the level it should've been on and I'm not surprised she stopped talking to me (I take that L, lol) Getting 'back into the game' I realize I'm doing this completely wrong by trying small talk. I've been listening to way too many red pill accounts just out of boredom and honestly think it's been warping my perception of dating and talking to women. I've been big on not rushing anything and letting it form organically but this video just perfectly described how to make it flow organically, thank you so much Hamza! Honestly if any other youtuber had a video titled this, I wouldn't have watched it. As it'd feel a bit redundant. But you got the experience, the flow, and you never fail to disappoint. One of the reasons I like your videos so much is cause you put the viewer on the spot! and it's awesome.
@banjaxed73 Жыл бұрын
I also have Asperger's... But, it seems to me that a lot of these videos make all kinds of assumptions. "We'll assume that you're already out on the scene, and looking." "We'll assume that you have a wingman." "So, we'll assume that you already have a good circle of friends, most (or all) of whom are well-versed in this stuff." "We'll assume that you already have some skills in 'talking to girls', and just want to improve." "We'll assume that you regularly go to parties - rather than watching videos like this, and thinking, 'WTH would I be doing at a party?'" Finally - and here's the kicker - we'll assume that you ALREADY have the so-called 'real man' mindset, and just need a bit of encouragement to maintain it. Don't get me wrong, Mr. Hamza - I believe that you are sincere in presenting this advice to those less skilled in this area than you are. I believe, also, that you genuinely want to help other men to get better at developing conversations with women. I do wish, however, that coaches like yourself would not always insist on assuming that men who struggle with these skills are only struggling because they are either out of practice, or just need to improve upon EXISTING skills, in order to become proficient. Please do not assume that we already know much of what you are teaching us, and just need to brush up on our existing skills. Many of us are still learning these conversational skills, and need more advice on how to present ourselves to women.
@thedudeofsomethingorsometh273 Жыл бұрын
NOTE: this definitely is true, but it doesnt mean 100% success. i do all of this and i get people easily, but i still fail from time to time. dont let it hold you down, just keep trying
@griggy_1537 Жыл бұрын
Hamza I’m 16, and started doing PPL in the gym. Todays the one month mark, and I haven’t skipped a day, think I’m hooked, thank you Hamza.
@Jan-ts5fm Жыл бұрын
Trust me bro the hard times will come and you decide rather you go trough them or just skip the gym. Mark my words.
@4kids555 Жыл бұрын
@@Jan-ts5fm ?
@Jan-ts5fm Жыл бұрын
@@4kids555 there will be a time where its hard to go to the gym that's what I mean
@marn907 Жыл бұрын
@@Jan-ts5fm Thats when the discipline comes in and u make urself go despite not feeling like it
@aetherian31 Жыл бұрын
@@marn907 discipline is everything bro
@wellimagamer8848 Жыл бұрын
I had known this girl for 7 years and we would see each other around 2-3 times a week. About half a year ago, we got on really well, we started messaging and we liked each other, so naturally, I asked her out. The timing was horrible though, because this was before the summer holidays, our holiday never matched up, we were not in the same place at the same time meaning we did not see much of each other although we still texted every day and hour. Once the holidays were up, since I had not seen her for a month and a half, I freaked out and hid behind my anxiety and the relationship slowly died out over the next three months. I asked her if she wanted to try again yesterday morning and she said we would be better off as friends. To be fair, she had exams, we had not talked to each other properly other than small talk in months and I was a fool not to ask her out as soon as the holidays ended, I was a fool for not approaching her during the times we would see each other.
@Someone..00. Жыл бұрын
Man,i understand you...i also have a regret of talking to my Crush before watching this Video and now everythings gone...🚬
@HuzeyfeTVizle Жыл бұрын
Messge from this story: So let the libido flow
@PS-dc6rv Жыл бұрын
Charge it and move on
@vedantjadhao8117 Жыл бұрын
I am so satisfied now 😊😊
@jackiechun5817 Жыл бұрын
@Welli'mAGamer for your future self, a girl will take you OUT of the "friendzone" if your look/physique/sex appeal has greatly improved since the last she's seen you(like AFTER a time apart) bc the "new you" OVERRIDES the version of "you" that she has stored in her memory. I've done THIS before and had the chick catering/being VERY cooperative (even buying my snacks,giving me googly eyes, and giggling at everything I said)...I could see visual disappointment when I didn't try to hookup though(I'm outta her league now...don't even want her😒). Godspeed my ninja💯🧔🏾♂️
@tosif8857 Жыл бұрын
It feels good when I see my fellow Pakistani brother inspiring millions on the path of self-improvement! *Appreciate* 🔥
@dariosz21 Жыл бұрын
I watched hundreds, even thousands of videos on how to approach a girl and what to do; I was about to go to my crush, even tho I was pretty confident I knew it would become an interview kind of conversation, and luckily Hamza came in with the save just in time. Thank you, Hamza; I am grateful for having a brother figure online.
@finnishgains9688 Жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@clipped6963 Жыл бұрын
What examples did hamza give that made your mind change?
@dariosz21 Жыл бұрын
@@finnishgains9688 It's gonna turn out tomorrow
@dariosz21 Жыл бұрын
@@clipped6963 that tease her playfully don't overthink it, and after getting closer by just joyfully hanging out, you make the next move which is talking about more serious topics... with a smooth transition, tho.
@ceoofuzbekistan4025 Жыл бұрын
@@dariosz21 good luck neighbor 👍 I rot for you from Romania 🇸🇨💪
@melissadavis4981 Жыл бұрын
I've been with my guy for 16 years and our relationship is like 50% making fun of each other in a playful way. As a girl and now woman I can say this is the PERFECT advice. You definitely want to make it known that you're kidding though and you have to know when to be serious especially when it comes to our feelings or we get easily annoyed with the teasing and if you don't laugh or smile to make it obvious you're kidding around then it comes off as being a complete ass. Overall though, great advice.
@khaganrose Жыл бұрын
congrats on 26 years
@Rjbatz225677 ай бұрын
Some girls do it in a way that comes off wrong and condescending some are smooth with it to where I can tell their flirting, but that’s why I prefer to initiate the conversations because some girls suck at it, and if you suck at it and your a girl don’t do it…
@PotatoCouch666 Жыл бұрын
We do not bite. Come talk to us. Just do not touch us without consent. Too many men already do that most of the time. Be kind, and just look at it as catching up with an old friend.
@eduardsusai559 Жыл бұрын
Yes you do.
@tomh1593 Жыл бұрын
Most women dont want to be approached by ugly guys.
@dmhplays Жыл бұрын
One thing I’ve found that helps a lot is to do your research. This is good for nerds. Find what they’re interested in, find out more about it. I started talking to a girl near the end of high school since I wanted to take her to prom. I didn’t do all of it perfectly, now I would do it significantly better. But I knew she was in swim at our high school and was in the state tournament, so I asked her how that was going. That was one of the first things I’d asked her. Little things like that are great conversation starters, then you can find natural flow very easily since she is talking about what she’s interested in. Now, I was antisocial up until high school. I was a nerd that didn’t do anything or talk to anyone, so my social development came late. COVID also impacted my social life dramatically. On our first date, I picked up this girl. I went into her house, talked to her dad, and this is how it started. “So what do you do besides Math Field Day and Tennis?” “I play piano.” (she played piano too). She interrupts and says “He can play Bohemian Rhapsody!” Dad says “Alright, let’s hear it.” Nailed it. Went to dinner and maintained 3 hours of interesting conversation with her and that was it. Went on to have a few more dates, talk daily for 4 months, go to prom together, then get friend zoned since I was going to college soon. Which is fair. If I would have been a year younger, we would be dating 100% If they drop little details, commit them to memory. I memorized all of her blocks in school by asking simple but natural questions. Then I used that knowledge to intercept her after her last block, then walk 10 minutes to our cars. Completely ditched her friend in that class. I didn’t tell her I was doing it, I just did. We proceeded to do that every day before and after school. It got to a point where if I was unable to walk with her, I would get a snap of her joking about being lonely. If she couldn’t, she would let me know in advance without me asking. It became an expectation. If you both are younger and still live with your parents, make sure you develop a good relationship with her parents too. The father is the most important. Mother is important too but prioritize the respect of her father. Her parents would even come to my high school tennis matches. She came to my state tennis matches, made numerous little signs of my face for everyone to use as a surprise. Sorry for the long comment, just trying to help my fellow nerds out there get some women. Treat it like a test. Take notes on what she says, do your homework on her interests, and just be interesting when the test comes. If you can talk to her about her interests, you’ll have interesting conversations all day long. It worked for me. I’m willing to help if you have any questions.
@ErenYeager-kr9gu Жыл бұрын
9:29 "I am going to the top, u wanna join me" Beautiful ✨
@theavastark6463 Жыл бұрын
I found the inner adoins within myself when I went to Pakistan I was so open, no tech, wasn't afraid to talk to girls actually made an effort talking to strangers, I was so smooth with it, no thinking only do. , I felt like a king, when I got back to the UK I felt closed off again, like a Jeffrey, It partly feels its because of the culture difference but also me not having a purpose here.
@shafinrahman2199 Жыл бұрын
Now some racist Jeffery will take it as cue to tell us to go back to Pakistan
@goldensilverstar Жыл бұрын
Then go back to Pakistan and live on the streets there
@GuilhermeAlves-er5mx Жыл бұрын
Think UK like a challenge, the culture difference just a obstacle to you overcome to become excellent
@pomo6015 Жыл бұрын
Literally in India for a vacation and I can confirm I'm feeling the same. Been on 3 dates and I feel better than ever. I'm hoping to keep the same after going back to UK
@prakharvermaT1nO Жыл бұрын
bro found the adoins 🤪
@shinshawty Жыл бұрын
as a woman i can literally confirm this is true just listen to hamza bro
@AJMemes54511 ай бұрын
ok
@nida2319 Жыл бұрын
Bro what did the world do to deserve such a great teacher as Hamza??
@riceroyce6332 Жыл бұрын
Bro I talked to this girl right (for a week or two) and I asked her out. It was my first time and honestly I’m upset, full oh heart ache. But on the same token, I’m so glad that I finally shot my shot. I really do want to improve my social skills and I’m so proud of myself for doing so. Still down about the rejection but you can’t go from incel to chad in a month lol.
@knightm4er Жыл бұрын
YOOO My life quote is "Rejection is temporary, regret is forever" and then Hamza's "regret hurts more than rejection" is an amazing follow up to that!!
@Ken_Brz Жыл бұрын
Quick story about a courageous young dude I met recently, (probably watched some Hamza inspiration): I was at school hangin with a group of girls and this random guy shows up real nervous and asks one of the cuter ones in the group: do you wanna go out with me. She rejected him nicely, but I became his #1 fan in that moment 😂 i knew EXACTLY what he felt while all the other girls didn’t. I even went and supported him and commended the balls he had to come up to our group. When I returned I had to explain later to the girls the balls that took and what it really means. Women will never understand jooo 🙄
@Bilingueen6mois Жыл бұрын
So truuuue
@dab7805 Жыл бұрын
exactly, but I have a question. I have never been in a relationship. Is that really a normal way how a relationship start, at least in the west? If a guy directly ask a woman out for date? I always thought that shouldnt be the way how most couple you see outside would have started their relationship, I assume they become friends or coworkers at first and slowly slowly they get into the mood of dating and then everything kick off from there. Is that right in your pov?
@happy_boy8506 Жыл бұрын
@@dab7805 In my country yes bro but not everyone asks would u go out with me to a girl that they barely talked
@noemita494 Жыл бұрын
Who said women don't fear rejection aswell?
@josketakamichi7903 Жыл бұрын
You should honestly make an app for advice because i think many of us need it
@reecefagan3894 Жыл бұрын
I think this is what I needed, not an exact blueprint on what to say to a girl, but just some pointers and tips that I couldn't find anywhere else. Thanks once again Hamza
@WiseRetar Жыл бұрын
dude, stop listening to Hamza and listen to me. I know a technique that will get you as many girls and even boys if you want and this technique is easy and it's even easier if you live in USA, basicly, all you have to do is hold a gun and tell them that you like them and you want to date them, I never got rejected while using the "holding a gun" technique.
@CommanderTexas Жыл бұрын
@@WiseRetar Based
@natelofimusic Жыл бұрын
It's so weird because I actually did this with a girl without realizing it. There was this coworker that I had that was a pretty cute girl, but she had a boyfriend so I never manifested anything in feelings. But I would playfully tease her and act annoyed when she came into work in a joking way like "ugh I gotta work with you today". And OCCASIONALLY we would flirt very lightly by just saying nice things about each others appearance. Well that was in Texas and I had to come back to Tennessee to finish college, and this girl tells me that she broke up with her boyfriend and that she wanted to date me. Partly that I was funny, but because I had my own goals. Unfortunately I had to say no, but this was so surprising that a girl who was quite pretty actually approached me first and it was due to things I wasn't even putting effort into. If only this would happen with a girl I actually liked. 😂
@denotzgii Жыл бұрын
nothings as easy as impressing girls you dont want has always been like this in my life.. its because we are not chilled enough and we want everything to work out good for ourselves..
@nature_people Жыл бұрын
Cool stuff, man. Thanks for sharing your experience. Best of luck.
@imhereforagoodtimenotalongtime Жыл бұрын
@@denotzgii Indeed
@justwatchit4444 Жыл бұрын
you know the most motivating part of this video is at the end Hamza kissing the camera and giving like the vibe of the brotherhood thing
Started training my neck and attention from girls increased 10X. Now i dont even try to talk anymore, i just flex my neck.
@shrekdonkey9027 Жыл бұрын
Just flex your neck bro
@russellwestbrookyellingatw9381 Жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@gekotheshow1850 Жыл бұрын
*Regret hurts more than rejection* well that hit me now like a bus, because I had limited time to do something and missed my chance, now it feels like something is eating me from inside.
@hogan4670 Жыл бұрын
Regret hurts like a bitch and it’s honestly hard to move on
@freekillspider8890 Жыл бұрын
I feel you, same thing happened to me. I'l try to never get into that kind of situation again.
@forestt1276 Жыл бұрын
people are looking at what to say to girls, but really what most don't realize is that this dosen't come from these videos, it dosent come from an article, it comes from you.
@simarjeetsingh6284 Жыл бұрын
this video helped me so mcuh. im with the girl that i liked for 2 years tysm
@checkmate1284 Жыл бұрын
“Failure lasts a moment, regret lasts a lifetime” -Me in an essay I wrote
@joshflinchbaugh5866 Жыл бұрын
Ever since graduating high school I forget I've always had that flirty way with girls even though I was extremely shy. I know what Hamza said is true cuz every year in at least 1 class I'd make a friend who happens to be female just by teasing. In the end it never went well cuz they'd havea crush on me but I was to scared to take a chance. Also take this advice from a guy who had a crush on a girl from 3rd grade all the way to 12th and never said a word to her...GO TALK TO HER!
@rizeupacademy Жыл бұрын
Being playful/teasing is one part - but you need to have some serious conversations mixed in otherwise they'll think you're a joker/not serious - confidence is a balance of self belief, displaying mental and physical strength but you can't come off arrogant or super alpha otherwise you won't be seeing her again.
@dannniels Жыл бұрын
completely agree, i've been mostly playful with this one girl for a couple of weeks and i can see that she's getting tired of it
@rizeupacademy Жыл бұрын
@@danielwilkins4072 girls will only respect you if you are serious/respect yourself and the fun part is the icing on the cake. Good luck bro
@ANKIT-kc3sg Жыл бұрын
@@rizeupacademy icing on cake?
@rizeupacademy Жыл бұрын
@@ANKIT-kc3sg EXACTLY BRO - being playful/teasing is the icing on the cake!
@prestonmccoy7097 Жыл бұрын
Much love to you guys who keep trying to help us out. Really things come down to us seeing ourselves as attractive or as prizes. My nature my whole life has been to be VERY playful and witty but ever since my teenage years I bombed into what I am now. If there has ever been some sort of opportunity with a woman since my adolescence, I have always eviscerated it. Either knowingly or unknowingly. I’m that bad. On top of just going blank with attractive women, I just never think they want to hear provocative lines from me, so I don’t want to make them uncomfortable by saying them. Either way, thanks for the advice dude.
@daleferia1640 Жыл бұрын
I get rejected left and right but instead of letting it put me down it brings my confidence up knowing that I at least have the courage to talk to a girl while everyone else just stands there watching them pass by
@yarou26thewise_yt8211 ай бұрын
i come here after a year of listening to him. i let go self improvement but still managed to get females my best tip. BE FRIENDS WITH EVERYBODY DONT FORCE 2 BE SUMONE UR NOT
@johnny1max113 Жыл бұрын
the fact that you talk about how many times you have been rejected. that takes king level kind of honesty.
@bubblegum7489 Жыл бұрын
This man speaking faxxx . I just conveyed my feelings for this girl I liked for about 8 months now who I never even had the courage to even talk to before . I got rejected but the fact that I was able to talk to her and make my move and then get rejected is still a huge W for me . I won't atleast have the regret that I wasn't even able to talk to her and make my move , and trust me that regret hurts more than the rejection itself. So gather whatever little confidence u have and talk to her.
@zvezda4994_ Жыл бұрын
you have my support king 👑🐐‼️
@c2h3cl82 Жыл бұрын
You're correct about courage. It isn't about not having fear, it's about not letting the fear be in the way of your decision to walk up and ask your that crush out. Great vid
@salt5458 Жыл бұрын
MAN MAN MAN I love the comments section here so much, all dudes pouring their heart out wish we had a dc channel to talk about all this would be so fun.
@Bigpoppastunnin Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@cadealtom90898 ай бұрын
You've been so inspiring for me, and I have just started really getting bingo your videos man, thank you. Im actually improving my life and I'm already becoming so much more confident! While it is still so hard for me to talk to girls out of no where, I definitely feel that pull when I try to talk to girls, I just get a feeling like "No, I have to wait, I don't even know her" and it hurts so bad when I go back home and didn't talk to one girl. So I just have to send it, go for it and really break that repeated regret cycle. Thank you!
@wz1932 Жыл бұрын
Hits too close to home. You're describing EXACTLY how I approach girls and sometimes it works but I find it weird when girls don't return the same kind of energy as I expect them to. You were right Hamza, my perception of "game" was very naive, I shouldn't expect them to be interested with interview like questions. Thanks for this lesson!
@saulgoodmangaming3460 Жыл бұрын
I cannot believe I completely avoided this advice until now. Thank you Hamza for helping me reach first base! I couldn’t do it without you.
@louannebvb Жыл бұрын
When I was 13 in Grade 8 there was this cute girl in grade 11 (so she was 17) that I had a crush on. She was the daughter of my teacher and I had so many excuses not to ask her out "oh she's 4 years older than me" "oh I don't think it's right" "oh this could complicate my relationship with my teacher" so I just gave up and started pursuing self improvement. This all happened a few months ago and I even told a few friends, but they kept mentioning the fact that I had a crush on a 17 year old girl... Funny story just thought I'd share with you
@user-tl2lh8ww8i10 ай бұрын
Bro is obsessed with the "what type of music do you like"😂😂(lmao)
@playlist9151 Жыл бұрын
2:37 I felt that
@HA-pf6oq Жыл бұрын
I don't feel the urge to talk to girls as much anymore. A couple of years ago I had a bit of game and attraction but now I have become a zombie who is addicted to pron and I feel so inferior to the people around me. As soon as I make a little a bit of progress it feels I am back at zero. I have become the type of person who has become complacent and weak. With each passing year I become more and more inferior to my peers. At this point even my family has figured out I am not capable. I know only I can make the change but I can't conquer my mind. When I am at Uni or around my peers and they talk about all the success they are achieving I feel like just shutting off everything.
@iamstillthinking Жыл бұрын
Brother, you can turn your entire life around in 30 days if you can make yourself do this one simple thing and that is to abstain from watching pron. Even more, I actually guarantee that your entire mindset will improve drastically if you can challenge yourself to commit to NoFap for 7 days ATLEAST. You can ignore this comment, I'm just a KZfaq stranger. But if you do decide to do this, I will be here and you can message me anytime for anything. You seem like a very intelligent and self-aware dude, I would hate to see great potential like you become wasted due to modern poisons like P. I truly want the best out of you, H A.
@HA-pf6oq Жыл бұрын
@@iamstillthinking Thanks man. I will push myself to hit that 7 day mark. I know no Fap works but it is the complacency and the fact that I have accepted the weakness. But I will definitely hustle for the better.
@atischtm8833 Жыл бұрын
Brother thank you for sharing this. It shows that there is part of you which is 100% Adonis, let him speak, let him feel you feelings, let him be the best you. I swear I feel everything that you said bc I was kinda in the same place, but because of my height. The best thing and the strongest thing you can do is, sit down, be alone for a moment, say and be sorry that you didn’t show the respect to yourself that you deserve. It takes strength to actually be really real with yourself. But you are the one who got all the beautiful thoughts and strength inside you. you are a universe inside an universe. You are limitless, understand this forreal, it is all in your head. The Version of you that you see right now is not the only version of you, the opposite exists and he is waiting to be finally you. Keep you faith, dignity and heart strong. I believe in you, we are here to get better and so we do. It is up to you, you set your own boundaries, but as real human being let me say this, you decide where you boundaries are and how much of limitation you give yourself, You deserve Love, Honor and the feeling of completion. You are energy inside flesh. You are the one of the fascinating things that god created, a consciousness which can reflect, change, adapt and most importantly create. Only you create your perfect life and it will come as soon as you understand for yourself why you deserve it. Love and respect to yourself is the answer.
@Unknown-wl7vl Жыл бұрын
I know it's a personal question but may i know how old are you ?
@Sully_one Жыл бұрын
@@HA-pf6oq buddy just stop watching. Don't count the days, act like you never heard of it. it doesn't exist.
@beenakukreti3147 Жыл бұрын
The pain in first half of this video I can feel it from my deepest part of my heart .
@awmgamingbgmi16157 ай бұрын
" Regret hurts more than Rejection "
@leonardobeducci9347 Жыл бұрын
fucking hell bro, in one month you completely changed my life, I cannot stress out enough, how much I am grateful
@tempestandacomputer6951 Жыл бұрын
Your editor is doing a great job! Your comedy in sync with the animations makes the videos very engaging.
@WiseRetar Жыл бұрын
Too bad that editor is probably underpaid or not payed at all LMAO
@golden1_1dragon12 Жыл бұрын
Hey the teasing a girl stuff is litterally what I needed to hear. Back in middle school I would see a classmate have this sort of teasing relationship with a gal friend n their conversation was somehow interesting cause he’s teasing her making her react. N I’m like what sort of power is this? I later fell for her but was never ever was quite able to form any sort of relationship with her :(
@ANKIT-kc3sg Жыл бұрын
How do they tease in some conversations?
@golden1_1dragon12 Жыл бұрын
@@ANKIT-kc3sg honestly I don’t remember I’m also a poor listener
@samuelomali1480 Жыл бұрын
He talked about one of my all-time favorite lines "what type of music do u like" I guess now my favorite line is "what type of food do u like"
@urvakshbagwadia8007 Жыл бұрын
There is this girl in my class and I would like to speak to her etc. As a disclaimer I am fairly confident and literally speak to random strangers so often and get girls numbers on the street, gym etc. The thing with this girl is that she is in my class and I am in my last year of school. I don’t want her to reject me and that entire class make fun of me etc and make it hard to focus on school.
@zombiebean6191 Жыл бұрын
Perhaps I would suggest that you wait out your last year to confess. Once you graduate, tell her how you feel. If she rejects you, okay well move on. If she accepts you, then you guys can see how the relationship turns out afterwards. It's not like you're not gonna see her after your last year of school, unless you guys start dating and making things work.
@vang117 Жыл бұрын
bro dont listen to this Jeffrey who tells u to wait. If youre a man, just start talking to her and ask her out casually, no need for confessions and all this shit. If someone from your class laughs at you theyre losers who would never approach a girl they like themselves, so it doesnt matter. Just do it
@Aixmad Жыл бұрын
I sense Grade-A copium right there bro. Ask yourself if thats really your fear or just a way to escape the situation, take your time to think about it.
@krasench0400 Жыл бұрын
Cmon man like you said you are fairly confident. we believe in you bro. and also why would anybody make fun of you for liking someone at the end of the day man if you tried and get rejected atleast you tried thats whats important. its not a big deal if you get rejected . and if its the last year try to be the best one you got yet. be the guy who other guys want to be.
@HibiTeamQueso Жыл бұрын
Go for it. You don't know what might happen in the future. It's not worth it to be waiting.
@roysinjan9817 Жыл бұрын
masteroogway once said- if you run after butterflies, they will run away but, if you spend your time building a nice garden, the butterflies will come
@nictibbetts Жыл бұрын
Regret is in infinitely worse than rejection.
@vyegaming63 Жыл бұрын
0:24 i am a pakistani and i totally agree 😂😂😂
@UltraEagleZeusYt Жыл бұрын
Rejection feels good to me , call me insane but it makes me feel stronger
@mochiisntbad6762 Жыл бұрын
i used to have game but no confidence, now i can muster the confidence and have no game
@ahmadeditz5641 Жыл бұрын
Andrew Tate Far from weak Hamza David googins Love these guys i love that they teach masculinity Thankyou
@vilaskerezius6470 Жыл бұрын
rejection is way better than no reply. trust me.
@Minizu4 Жыл бұрын
I was in elementary and I liked a girl and I wasn't worried about rejection I was worried about being made fun of or being called disgusting. I wanted to confess on the last day of school when she's alone but she disappeared before I could. I still regret it, as there was nothing to lose.
@anshulchaturvedi5305 Жыл бұрын
Imagine if that girl is watching you now🤣🤣
@AJMemes54511 ай бұрын
Suii
@damnson6556 Жыл бұрын
man i just fumbled an opportunity with a girl i really like and im gonna see her again tomorrow and try to be more confident :/
@jassteowjiahee9869 Жыл бұрын
Even though I got rejected by girls, but after hearing this I think I should be practicing this method. Tease her in a funny way but not in an offensive way. Keep up the good work hamza
@user-es6bx5kz6p3 ай бұрын
Some say "ignore her and she'll chase you" others say "take the risk and tell her how you feel" but i say..."all you need is food to make you happy"😊💕
@jeteamleider3714 Жыл бұрын
Man, I swear, all this advice you're giving us is gonna make my life so much better.
@emanuellopez8578 Жыл бұрын
I think the main problem in general is people who can't be honest, you can't expect confidence when you're hitting on a girl unless you have the experience, but exp is secondary, the main thing is learning the social cues, understanding timing, the subtle things, so I suggest that If you want to be able to talk to girls, instead of focusing on being flirty try to be openly honest, don't force your words, try to go with whatever is happening and just don't try to "get" her, that will come after you understand how to approach people.
@glass_wrld Жыл бұрын
best video you've put out in a while bro, love when you tell personal stories and we can feel your personality coming through the video. keep it up 💯
@kevinroark5815 Жыл бұрын
Get Desensitised to rejection ASAP. If she likes you, she will give you plenty of chances. Talk to her as soon as possible.
@miguel_rxo Жыл бұрын
All through middle school I had two different crushes neither of them I had the balls to talk to now I’m a fresh men in high school and took my chances with a girl and tried talking to her, I’m almost certain she likes me too because of the huge amount of things she’s done that a girl who wouldn’t like me wouldn’t do (like touching me or writing on my paper) I honestly didn’t think I’d get this far and now that I’m here I don’t know how to progress further 😭
@aminm7714 Жыл бұрын
Holy shit this is so true . I see all the guys in my uni class and it’s so funny how much each one of them “teases” the girls : they playfully make fun of her , let the girl hit them back when they mock them , hug to say hello and so on . And most of them aren’t even chads , just normal dudes who have no trouble talking to girls ( it’s not only about making her feel excited , it’s doing it everyday to even the girls you’re only friends with ) and here I am just saying ahi with just a smile cause I’m way to shy to give them a hug .
@cj5171 Жыл бұрын
"Regret hurts more than rejection" Daaaayuuuuuummm
@joeljohnson4465 Жыл бұрын
The truth is, most men haven’t done the “work” yet. Which is, exposure therapy of teaching your brain that there is no real danger. I recommend for men to start taking Ice Cold showers in the morning starting from however long you can stand and working your way up to a few minutes. This shock will help correlate when you practice taking action through the resistance related emotions of approaching women. In reality, most rejections aren’t even bad. The worst I’ve had is a women simply dismissing herself from the interaction. Not to say that some men had a non-typical bad experience, but the majority of most rejections is nothing.