“This moment is stressful but it doesn’t mean my life is stressful.” 🙌🏻👏🏻 preach girl!!!

That real talk was so faaaaiyaaaaah🔥

"Do something today that your tomorrow self will thank you for"- Lilly(2020) that's a quote

lilly i can't explain how much you've contributed to my self esteem. i love you and your authenticity 💗💗💗

5:08 - Scarborough barking in the background... Heart melts...

I'm a vice president at my school and you've just built my confidence 101%..thanks

Personally, for me being confident is accepted myself for who I am. I am still not there but it feels like the more I accept myself the more confident I get.

YOU have literally made me more confident about being a brown girl in america and i literally can’t thank you enough for that lilly 💛💛

I feel the same, it's like everyone on Twitter think their opinion is a fact and they literally are just looking for reasons to get offended

OKay.. the timing of Lilly giving those communication tips is ON POINT. I need to really tell my friend some of the shits she does that i haaaateee and its soo wrong but i'm always worried about hurting her feelings. Imma replay those tips again untill its in my brain

I just had a bad dream ...not just bad ..u can say the worst ...but ...ur just soothing my heart ...after receiving your notification m kinda stable now thank you. love you lils

When the camera fell, I legit thought you had taken off straight upwards like a superhero! I might need a nap haha!

I tapped faster than a Karen calling the police

"Do not take critique from people you won't take advice from" "Say what you mean don't say mean" Loved these sentences thank you for sharing and also wishing you Good Luck👍 for shooting of season 2 of your show can't wait to watch it ❤️❤️

You got this Lilly sending you so many positive thoughts for a successful shoot. Just remember you are in control love you

This vlog will definitely be useful when it comes to finding my confidence and quitting holding grudges, since it's something that I struggle with a lot.. So thanj you Lilly I hope you're doing great at shooting first episodee love you 🥰

Lilly talking about how we're human and being real with us Scarbro in the background: "I am doggo and i need attention" lol😂

When the tripod fell i thought Lilly got some sorta super power 😂😂😂😂

This was really soo beautiful! This year has been extremely difficult for all of our mental health! Thank you , Lilly for this absolutely beautiful and very reasonable ideas that can absolutely change and help to develop self esteem!

Communication tips were on point! "Don't listen to criticism from some someone you wouldn't seek advice from" is an excellent quote. Listen to hear and not to just respond to when communicating.

A few of the mottos I’ve picked up from you Lilly that have literally carved my life: 1. Happiness is the only thing worth fighting for in your life. 2. If you feel you’re working too hard, know that there is somebody somewhere working 10x harder than you. 3. Say what you mean, but don’t say it mean. I have always been the person to take a step back and ask my mind to go back to these words and re evaluate the situation whenever I am stressed.

I’ve been really big on self care lately. I needed to hear a lot of this. The things that have been helping me lately are: •Falling asleep to meditation sounds •Waking up and not touching my phone but instead making some tea and just be in the present. •When I see something that is a personal trigger I take a step back and take a deep breath. •I do something that makes me feel productive even if it’s as small as doing the dishes or writing my thoughts down. I hope this helps someone too. It’s just my experience but I’ve come a REALLY long way!

I relate to her so much when she talked about the twitter thing, tbh not only twitter every social media app for some reason has become more toxic nowadays, like the comment section in insta has a whole new level of people making fun , trolling, accusing, complaining ,thinking its funny when its clearly not.. It has become too chaotic and I feel youtube is the only safe space compared to those apps for sure

ugh i absolutely love when you do motivational stuff, so glad to have you back daily vlogging. my confidence tip, it to always put effort into yourself, wear nice clothes, treat your skin nice, wear makeup if you want to because i truly believe how you present yourself makes a big difference to how you feel. SHOW UP FOR YOURSELF. love you lillyyyyy

What's amazing is being here for 5 years and what you've mentioned in this vlog and even recent ones really remind me of the old vlogs in the sense Your Values - Beliefs - Self Improvement, Humility, Humbleness, All that love spark is the SAME. And I'm so so happy to be witnessing your journey, your growth and inturn growing alongside with you, I was 15, met you and hugged you at 16 with the most gentle conversation as YTFF 2015 you were really sick and you did such a badass show with all the energy, like you prove to be a performer in everything and I see that and we all see that and we love it so so so much. Turning 21 in 8 days and man I'm just so happy! I love you so much, Lilly! ❤️

Already can't speak English 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂 ohh my goodness Lilly I'm laughing so hard

LILLY SINGH IS THE BIGGEST INSPIRATION OF MY LIFE PERIOD.

I have watched a million people explain job interview answers but your advice in the middle actually gave me the most tangible responses to questions like “what is your weakness?”, “what have you learned in your previous experiences?” Etc. I have a job interview soon and I always struggling voicing my thoughts but you said it so so so perfectly, especially about the part where you hesitate to say something and it can create conflict and make you feel less confident and thus impacting relationships and how you are actively fixing that. Thanks!!!!

All the best Lilly, as you begin shooting for 'A Little Late with Lilly Singh'- Season 2!👍 You will rock it!😊 Hugs and kisses!🤗😘

Dropped everything to click this.

You are not just a person, you are a vibe. The best positive vibe I've ever come across. I wish I could express in words how thankful and grateful I am for you, I might just even cry. You are a dream. You go kipp season 2. Love, hugs, and positive vibes❤️❤️

Luckily, I never got into twitter but I'm still working on protecting my peace on the internet in general. I definitely agree with a lot of what you said about clear communication, boundaries, articulating those things, not being apologetic, addressing things as soon as they come up. I relate to the difficulty with conflict resolution based on my upbringing.

The four points on how you became confident was so relatable to me on a personal level. I too have been working on my confidence level and how to handle situations more bravely and those points were an eye opener for me. You have always been my motivation and my mantra till date is to hustle hard Love you lilly ~

I don't love motivational talks from vlogger, but it hits different coming from Lilly because she's vulnerable *and* she practices what she preaches. It's not vague, positivity inspo - it's specific, real talk!! It really helps my day to day :)

I wish that I had you to look up to when I was growing up and in my 20s but even tho I’m in my 30s the things you say really help. It helps remind me of how I can be better, get better. I really feel like what you say and do is really inspiring. I’m a little jealous that I didn’t have your words and actions to inspire me when I was younger. It might have had a bigger impact and helped me avoid some heartbreak and headaches but even tho I didn’t I feel like it’s still going to help me avoid that stuff and be my best self. I appreciate the self improvement talks. I’m really stressed in life right now and you helped remind me that it may be stressful now but it won’t always be stressful. It’s going to be okay. I’m sending you all of my best wishes and love. So excited for season 2. This is really hyping me up for season 2! You are going to rock it!!

Omg, this was sooooo helpful! I am a super confident in my personal life but when it comes to business I am the queen of fluffwords. Awesome tips and I will implement them the next chance I get! Thanks for this, girl 💪💪💪

The 3rd advice, hit deep, I talked to a friend about it the other day that I feel like I cant stand up for myself in situations and that I dont like it. It sure is different when you have a boss that dont treat you right, rather then when you are the boss, but I think that practicing with friends does a lot.

OMG Lilly got so much better dealing with her emotions!! I’ve been watching her vlogs from day 1, and today I am proud of tha way she deals with stuff, and am implementing those topics on my life!! ❤️❤️

😆 omggg the holding grudges till I resent someone is honestly the spiting image of my personality! Glad I’m not the only one 🤣😂

You can do it Bb we know that the show is gona be amazing and knowing alll the hard work that you guys put in to it . teamsuper love you and the team and scarbro so much💝💝💝💝💝

This is a vlog of a person who has truly put in A LOT of work on self & tries to embrace in perfection. Investing in yourself is always a yes, the cost is worth it!! 🖤♥️❣️

I could always use confidence boosts!! Thanks Lilly I love u💖💖💖

Lilly thank you so much for your honesty, authenticity, and openness. Reminds me that I am not the only one going through these same problems. Love you Lilly!!!

The lil dance she does between the takes❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ best thing ever

truly appreciate the confidence segment! here's to @lilly giving great advice on how to communicate effectively and a reminder that we determine our worth! all the good vibes for a little late shoot day 1!!! 🥰🤩 can't wait to see how it all comes together!

I grew up (from teenage to adulthood) watching your content as my main source of self improvement and I’m forever grateful for you expanding my horizon in this way. This vlog is truly special because I am now trying to build my confidence as well while building my business and your advice was SO on point - exactly what I needed to know right now. I definitely want more business advice and I love how your content matured as well and I can continue to watch it because it’s always relevant and relatable. :)

I really needed to hear this speak up right when it is bad .

to value good examples is to be oneself, strong bold, embrace the ease to be at ease with Lilly, and the rest will fall into place, your fabulous Lilly! Hold your head up, hold up your chin and walk like you own the place. You are a good Mom to Scarbrough!

Mannnn I missed your motivational talk. It feels great to see it again

WAITED FOR THIS ALLL DAYYYY

If you can get asapscience Greg or Mitch from asspscience on your pod i will literally cry for days in a happy way cause I remember you being on their channel and your energies were so amazing!

You definitely gave some good advice on how to build and maintain that confidence, Lilly. The influence of others whether negative or positive always seems to have the biggest impact on how it's shaped for each of us. That's where those moments of self-doubt are ultimately triggered from. So, no, you're not alone on how you feel towards all of those naysayers on Twitter or any other social media platform. That can always be a lot to take in regardless of how thick someone's skin may be. Yet, taking back control through such moments was a very important thing for you to mention. Who we are is something only we should determine for ourselves. As someone who has struggled with confidence, I appreciate you shedding light on this. Among other things, enjoy your big day for the start of putting together Season 2. I love you so much, Lilly

I really enjoyed the four things you came up with to be more confident and conflict resolution. I feel the last point you made about who your getting critique from and how you determine your value really resonated with me because recently there have been people in my life who I barely met but made hurtful comments. I knew in my head it shouldn't bother me because they don't really know me but it still hurt. Sometimes I find myself reflecting and that negative moment pops up and I have to remind myself they have no value in my life so why I am I lingering on that moment. I would love to hear more of these talks or a full video of this, it really cheered me up and made me feel like I wasn't alone in feeling this way.

Literally the best part of my day is taking a break from my uni work to watch Lilly’s vlogs.

"Say what you mean but don't say it mean" is practically the definition of tact and it's a really good quality to have 😊 but anyways this video really helped me a lot because I'm smart so people automatically expect me to be a leader but I'm shy and really insecure. Thank you soo much Lilly and good luck on season 2!💖🥰

That first point was for me. I felt that one.

THESE ARE AMAZING JUST LIKE YOU

9:18 TAYLOR 😂😂😂

Taylor always cutting to commercial when you’re doing a funny face 😂😂😂

Oh. N ones u shared "i m worthy of time. I m worthy of the space. I give good to these ppl" before entering a meeting, has changed my life for good sis! 🥰

Almost to double digits! Take a deep breath! You can do it!

I need this video.. :] we love you Lilly!! ❤ Edit: I'm 15 years old and my self confidence is definitely better than what it was last year.. Ways I help my self confidence is tell myself positive things even if I don't believe it I just say it. Example: I am beautiful, I am great, I am having a great day.. I also do things that make me feel more confident like listening to girl talk videos, taking care of myself, home exercises (recommend Chloe Ting), etr. My new's thing is I have a little white board from dollar tree and I write "Quote of the day.." And proceed to write quotes either I searched up or I made (recommend writing your own it feels more personal). I listen to music 24/7 because music is great and important to me. Now we're all human so I'm guilty of this but I despise crying infrount of people so I'm still working on this but hey when you're hurt cry, when you're happy smile, when you're sad don't pretend to be happy, when you're scared scream etr. Be true to your emotions and also remember it doesn't matter what else anyone thinks of you only what you thinks will affect you at the end of the day.. Keep your self worth high and no one can bring you down :]. This is all coming from someone who has depression, anxiety, social anxiety, and life issues just remember you'll get through it all eventually and God has a plan for you (if you believe in him) last note... YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL, YOU'RE SMART AND YOU'RE WORTH IT don't let anyone tell you other wise ❤💕💓💖💞

Thanks for the pep talk Lilly👍🏾 I need to work on not letting other people's negativity rain on my positivity. And good luck on season 2, you got this!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Thank you Lily for the reminder that views and subscribers do not equal my worth, that was exactly the reminder I needed today

My parents' major professor in their Ph.D. program always gives this famous lecture called "Who Claps for You" that you summarized perfectly by saying "if you would not take advice from them, don't let them critique you". A constant reminder I need to give myself...

It brings me so much peace listening to you. I learn sooo many things, and you show the different perspectives from all angles. I missed your vlogs sooo much ♥️ watching u here makes me so confident, your open, your real and that's what should always matter.

The biggest reason for visiting your channel is your “Attitude".I really like your attitude.

GOLD!!! “When I’m stressed it’s because I’ve given up control. Take control back”! Yes! We have more control than we often think!!! 🖤♥️❣️

Great advice! Shifting your language is super important if you want to elevate your confidence. Especially with being clear on your preferences. It let's ppl around you know who you really are and how they can treat you. Thanks for sharing Queen! 😍💖🔥✨

You'll nail the second season Lilly!!

I love these tips so much, thank you! Something I’ve been working on is to stop apologizing so much- I think it’s something as women we feel like we have to do all the time but it definitely takes away from self esteem and we want confidence only here!💗 I have the red grey and white sweatshirt and I love it!❤️ Sending all the love and good vibes🥰

I can't wait for little late with Lilly! You're gonna kill it. Sending you all the positivity and love bawse lady ❤️

Good luck for S2! We believe in you! Thank you so much for always guiding me towards self-improvement. I'm in the process of becoming a better person every day and you play a big role there ❤️

lily u truly are a superwoman!!! u inspire and empower everyone around ya..u d best!!!!!❤️

Taylor's editing and Lilly's motivational points... the perfect combination to make my day better ❤

The only thing I've been binge watching is Lilly's Vlogmas, I love it! ❤️

I had to delete most of my social media apart from this account and Reddit because I absolutely agree the self entitlement but not just that, the lack of self awareness, that we are all human beings that make mistakes started affecting my mental health. It's just so messed up to expect 100% perfection from people. So I absolutely hear you, take care of yourself.

I recently got back into watching/rewatching your content again and I am so happy I did! I love the self-care and improvement tips. I agree about the honesty and communication, two things I have learned immensely and practiced (often critiqued for being too blunt), but I love your take on it. I wish you all of the best positive and great vibes, you are one of the most hard working and inspiring people to watch out here & I can't wait to see what you will come up with! Love you Lilly, stay humble and blessed 🙌

This was so valuable! Also, it has been so good watching you improve and evolve more and more for all these years.

I'm so glad that I clicked on this video. Let all good things happen to you Lilly ❤️❤️

sending out good vibes lilly! you are gonna kill it in shooting! can't wait for what you have store in for us for season 2!!

I appreciate you being so positive and never giving up it really makes me want to be like you

I think it’s important to incorporate the negative with the positive on some occasions. Some people choose to hide the negative, which I believe can lead to signs of toxic positivity. I think when we take the time to acknowledge the negative, it helps us become more balanced and inspire others to adopt a similar approach in their own lives. I also think it’s important to be open to multiple perspectives from different kinds of people, including people we may not admire or even have a relationship with. I don’t think the perspectives of haters are always rooted in destruction. According to this one quote I found, “One thing’s for sure, haters will help you grow by telling you sh** nobody has the guts to tell you.” People we associate with may not always be right and haters may not always be wrong. By the way, I agree with a lot of what you said, this is just a different take on some parts in particular. Best of luck with season 2!

so proud to see lilly grow and be confident in her vision! this is so helpful and inspiring!:)

Thanks for the solid advice, Lilly!

The best advice ever!!!! Don't take critic for someone that you don't take advice!!!! 💗💗💖💖💖💞💞💓💓

consistency, persistence, being gritty ...how to develop them , to reap the benefits over time.

Super helpful tips on how to be confident and say what you mean in the work place. Flag things right away. Gonna work on that. Love you

Thanks for all the pro tips Lilly💕I hope your shooting of a little late goes extremely and don't get too stressed out. TAKE BACK CONTROL👏🔥

Never have I ever had problems with school but the online tests have been really unfair and bad for me. My anxiety and self doubt are at an all time high. Thank you for helping me queen ✨🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Hey Lily! It's been 4 years since I have started watching your videos and believe me, I have said this plenty of times on my own videos, that you are my 'KZfaqr' Idol. You inspire me in every way possible and give me hope to keep making videos no matter what happens. Thank you so much. And yeah, take care of yourself, also, don't stress out😄.

IT IS GOING TO BE GREAT!!!! YOU GOT THIS LILLY!!! sending you all the positives vibes!!!!

Lilly is the best

I love your timing ! Just what I needed. Thank you Lily ♥️ Good Luck with your show, rooting for you!

I'm happy Lilly is vlogging again... Thank you for doing this in spite of being so busy...

Been praying for you Lilly. I pray the peace of God rests over your mind so that you can continue to execute at a high level. Not only that I pray the peace of God over your crew, writers, production team, camera people and etc. You will do amazing and better than you expect.

'My Pishaab...' hahahahahahaha😂😂😂

Loved the self improvement talk, Always my favorite conversation to have late at night, would love to hear more advice/ talks like this 😊

Yeah Twitter is the worst. Also " taking things in your own control " gonna practice that and see if it could make my life a little less of a mess

Thank you for sharing the ways you battle the things many of us face everyday.