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How I deal with having a stutter

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Ezinne Zara

Ezinne Zara

Күн бұрын

This is the story of my speech impediment and how it has affected my life. Some people might be surprised to find out about this but everything I share, I do to bring God glory and my prayer is that this story shows you how Jesus Christ can (and if given a chance, will) use every single thing including our weaknesses to bring glory to His Holy Name. He doesn’t waste anything.
“But to keep me from being puffed up with pride because of the many wonderful things I saw, I was given a painful physical ailment, which acts as Satan's messenger to beat me and keep me from being proud. Three times I prayed to the Lord about this and asked him to take it away. But his answer was: “My grace is all you need, for my power is greatest when you are weak.” I am most happy, then, to be proud of my weaknesses, in order to feel the protection of Christ's power over me. I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and difficulties for Christ's sake. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” (2 Corinthians‬ ‭12:7-10‬)
P.S: This video was inspired by a wonderful girl named, Deborah who struggles with this same thing 👉🏾 • My stammering story

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@DrChioma
@DrChioma 4 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate, I stammer also and all my life I have kept shut, I recently started my KZfaq channel to overcome the anxiety of speaking and because The Holy Spirit has put a lot in my mouth and they certainly have to be heard because I am tired of being held back. Thank you for sharing your story, I’ll share mine one of these days ❤️ BTW you just gained a new subie 😊
@ityyyyyy
@ityyyyyy 2 жыл бұрын
I have a lisp and have been so since birth. People make fun of how I talk even family. Days ago my colleague did it again and I noticed it didn’t affect me as much as it used to in the past. Instead I laughed it off and acted unbothered. When I returned home I told my husband because it kept ringing in my head and I tried fighting self pity and he encouraged me…. The next day while in my quiet time with God, God started to speak to me about it and how He has made me fearfully and wonderfully and this lisp was intentional. In fact He told me that there are people who will be attracted to me because of how I speak and it will be used for His Glory. I started to ask for Mercy and thank Him for creating me this way, special and beautiful. I thank God I talk with my tongue, and not like people say I should… I serve and preach and haven’t really paid much attention to my lisp since I became saved. Sometimes I am conscious and try to hide it but when the Holy Ghost takes over me it don’t matter. God led me to seeing this video in my feeds because it spoke greatly to me even more. Thank you Ezinne. Thank You Jesus
@otunoluwatobiloba4978
@otunoluwatobiloba4978 3 ай бұрын
2024 FAM!🧡💐. Thanks for being a blessing Ezinne!
@andreaozuem5206
@andreaozuem5206 2 жыл бұрын
I think God directed me to you with an image of His plans from me. I've never met someone so similar to me in this way; from the stuttering to the picture of speaking. Wow. I admire you alot
@nikkinyokabi6111
@nikkinyokabi6111 2 жыл бұрын
This healed a part of me... I want to be a speaker but because I stammer, I feel disqualified... But God will use this to get even more glory... Amen Thank you 😊
@virginieeletana9304
@virginieeletana9304 Жыл бұрын
You can do it I believe in you
@abolacadernos7164
@abolacadernos7164 Жыл бұрын
I suggest reading Lee Lovetts’ How to Stop Stuttering & Love Speaking and checking out his WSSA program. I’ve benefited from those two things immensely and I hope the same for you.
@verilyadedigba9141
@verilyadedigba9141 Жыл бұрын
❤ thank you so much. I stutter and I'm studying law. Infact I already gave up on the dream. I don't even read or study with passion. When I see people present and give speeches,I just feels sad and angry at God. I know I have a lot of hidden beautiful potentials but why stutter as a limitation? Sometimes my siblings mock me, teachers, friends...some would just want to get under my skin and they'd attack my stutter. I remember in boarding school, a thought of suicide crossed my mind I have prayed to God countless times. I have made promises that if He heals me,I will speak with judgement and charity, but no changes. Literarily,I gave up on myself. Thank you Ezinne. Please pray for Verily. My name is Verily
@abolacadernos7164
@abolacadernos7164 Жыл бұрын
I suggest reading Lee Lovetts’ How to Stop Stuttering & Love Speaking and checking out his WSSA program. I’ve benefited from those two things immensely and I hope the same for you.
@obiebere
@obiebere 3 ай бұрын
I relate to you, but God will speak through you
@favourugochukwu7655
@favourugochukwu7655 4 жыл бұрын
My sister told me to look you up and it has been a revival.
@chiomaezekwueme6680
@chiomaezekwueme6680 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Ezinne! My name is Chioma. This probably sounds like every comment you ever receive but I’m still gonna say it😂. I recently discovered your channel and I’m so grateful to God because the timing couldn’t be any better and I bless God for that. I do have a stutter and it’s something I’ve struggled with and still struggling with. Just like you said, it’s stopped me from doing a lot of things and engaging in conversations because I always feel like I sound silly. Even discouraged me from evangelising because just as you said it’s worse when you’re nervous. However, I believe God makes no mistakes and He knows why he’s chosen this one for me and just like you I prayed for it to go and it’s still here😂. I believe God does have a great plan for me and no stutter will stop me by the grace of God. May God continue to bless and protect you. Just as you have given to others, may God continue to cause others to give to you. Please keep posting and encouraging us. Thank you!❤️
@chiamakauzoma311
@chiamakauzoma311 2 ай бұрын
People think I am quite a reserved but I’m not it’s because I stutter
@AjamaChristopher
@AjamaChristopher 7 ай бұрын
Ezinne you're brilliant...♥️🔊
@joyugbome
@joyugbome 2 жыл бұрын
Lord...I can totally relate. A conversation killer, a confidence killer....I'm inspired to do a video about this and share my experience and how I've been dealing with it...thankful for KZfaq cos I get to see videos that inspire and help me.
@alabiruth9169
@alabiruth9169 Жыл бұрын
My story is changing. I cry because of this challenge. I'll be more patient. I'll always measure my word carefully. I'll always depend on God. It will be a learning experience for me.
@alabiruth9169
@alabiruth9169 Жыл бұрын
I can't really point to when exactly the disability started, as much as I could remember, I was still speaking fluently at 18, even 19, I guess. This process is teaching me a lot. I will not take myself seriously anymore and just leave everything in God's hands. Thank you for sharing, ma'am.
@abolacadernos7164
@abolacadernos7164 Жыл бұрын
@@alabiruth9169Wow. I too started at the same age for whatever reason. I let it hold me back in life so much, but earlier this year I found a book by Lee Lovett entitled How to Stop Stuttering & Love Speaking. I’ve improved my speech tremendously since. His books and WSSA are truly a God send for us PWS. Hope this helps you.
@chiamakauzoma311
@chiamakauzoma311 2 ай бұрын
I don’t always stutter but my elder brother did I thought it was a cool thing because I adored my brother so I decided to copy him a couple years down the lane i started stuttering and I had anxiety which didn’t help me I am still struggling with mine but I am delighted to see that you have overcome yours
@emike_001
@emike_001 21 күн бұрын
This is so emotional I can totally relate to this Thank you for this, I'm encouraged.
@ekwuruibemarshalnnamdi9239
@ekwuruibemarshalnnamdi9239 2 жыл бұрын
While watching your video I was very emotional and even shed tears... It made me remember myself when my stammering was bloody and how I was being mock in secondary school alongside running away from anything that has to do with speaking in crowd or talking one on one with someone I don't know.....it also made me remember how I do run to God in every speech I want to make before talking.. your experience and mine are related... Now, I am able to talk in public and I always remind God to make me confident when I speak alongside make my word come out fluently.. I just subscribed to your channel
@withtomi1
@withtomi1 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ezinne!!! I have this interview coming that I am terrified about cos of this speech impediment.. Surrender to the Holy Spirit and confess that I am not wise or fluent but he should please guide me! Amen.. God bless you greatly!!!
@abolacadernos7164
@abolacadernos7164 Жыл бұрын
I suggest reading Lee Lovetts’ “How to Stop Stuttering & Love Speaking” and checking out his WSSA program. I’ve benefited from those two things immensely and I hope the same for you.
@realprincessmay
@realprincessmay 5 жыл бұрын
Love your smile and glow gurlll Didn't even know... God has a way of making His strength evident in our weaknesses... Surely, I can only see His strength in your life, and that's super amazing. God bless you immensely for all you do and glory to His Holy Name. Amen🙏💙💃
@eikonojoo5412
@eikonojoo5412 6 ай бұрын
I haven't listen to the video but the comments and the testimonies are already blessing me Thank you all ❤
@chinenyenwaugochukwu3601
@chinenyenwaugochukwu3601 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ezinne! I stutter too but God is helping me. I just watched this and I was blessed. More grace and fire!
@MayizhiKangwanda
@MayizhiKangwanda 7 ай бұрын
I am watching this video on the 6th of Jan 2024 not that i am watching it for the first time but i decided to rewatch it after awhile..i have smiled all through 😂😂😂😂and it has made me realize how much you have evolved as a person.. Count your blessings name them one by one and it will surprise you what the lord has done
@ruthngube3515
@ruthngube3515 2 жыл бұрын
Oh Lord! You have said it all... Moses is who I think of everytime I'm in this situation
@EmmanuellaBekar-ix4cw
@EmmanuellaBekar-ix4cw 6 ай бұрын
I get ur point dearie,u r such a blessing Keep looking at the bright side of everything
@kikkysamuel7180
@kikkysamuel7180 2 жыл бұрын
I stutter as well, recently I just started praying so much about it. I was almost disappointed when I heard myself stutter again.. I like this perspective, it makes it more easier...Thank you so much ❤️
@ruthngube3515
@ruthngube3515 2 жыл бұрын
Chai God! You led me to this girl... It's like she's just talking about me You are blessed Ezinne
@shesfearless_shesgodfearing
@shesfearless_shesgodfearing 10 ай бұрын
Sister, thank you for this uplifting video. I was feeling down about myself and like you, I've asked God to fix me! He has yet delivered me from my insecurity, however he has always provided for me. He led me to this video so that I might be encouraged and reminded of his grace. Thank you for sharing this video, it has truly blessed me.
@wendyshona7288
@wendyshona7288 5 ай бұрын
Ezinne you have grown so much
@rehobothfarm-house
@rehobothfarm-house 5 жыл бұрын
You spoke through the Holy Spirit all through today to my heart! Thank you
@kelechivera3718
@kelechivera3718 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy I found your channel Ezinne. God bless you❤️
@joyEsther495
@joyEsther495 Жыл бұрын
I want to say a big 'thank you' to you. It was my friend that sent this link to me and God led me to patiently watch it at the moment and I am transformed to see how I can speak clearly without stammering. Stammering has been one of my biggest challenges. To speak among friend or in public have been my fear. But now, I know I can still speak clearly with the help of the Holy Spirit and put all I have learnt here into practice. Thanks so much, sis 🙏🏿
@abolacadernos7164
@abolacadernos7164 Жыл бұрын
Lee Lovetts’ How to Stop Stuttering & Love Speaking book will help you mate. I stuttered for 15 years and found that book and his WSSA program earlier this year and my speech has improved since. I hope you can have a similar success story.
@ugboborvictoria1798
@ugboborvictoria1798 2 жыл бұрын
You are God sent Mrs. I really appreciate you. My fellowship with God has been restored. Thank you. Hallelujah ❤️😘
@Kachi_Agu
@Kachi_Agu 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, God bless. I stutter too when I'm angry or nervous and I feel embarrassed about it most times. Watching this video blessed me.
@chinyereugoala
@chinyereugoala 5 жыл бұрын
I loveee this! To tell you I was so blessed is an understatement Thank you girlie ❤️❤️ I relate so well😭 ♥️ ♥️ ✨ Needed this a whole lot. Blessings b
@appiahabigail5599
@appiahabigail5599 2 жыл бұрын
Truer words have never been spoken.... I have been stuttering for God knows how long.. I have prayed for God to take it away- since I feel I will be able to do all the talking He wants me to do when I dont anymore. And I have been mastering it with the years...Thanks for this vid.. I believe God will use it for his glory...
@sarahochoje4391
@sarahochoje4391 2 жыл бұрын
Wow... This was just for me, I stutter too.., but I am really getting better at speaking confidently. Thanks for this video 💓💓
@AuthenticAmara
@AuthenticAmara Жыл бұрын
So beautiful. May Jesus be continually glorified in you. This was super encouraging
@rubykshoniwa1398
@rubykshoniwa1398 Жыл бұрын
Thank you God for speaking to me through this video ❤
@osarugueosiyen
@osarugueosiyen Күн бұрын
Beautiful
@awitnesstograce8001
@awitnesstograce8001 5 жыл бұрын
I love your accent 😭 but the Holy Spirit is working in you 🥺💕🔥
@sharonike6117
@sharonike6117 4 жыл бұрын
God really is using you to do amazing things I was Blessed by this message, Thank God
@joyce8674
@joyce8674 2 жыл бұрын
Slimm ezinneeeee 😂❤️ You still rock. Thanks for always talking about God.
@alexandraagi9485
@alexandraagi9485 2 жыл бұрын
You inspire me so much to be a bold young "Christian " girl ❤
@joycenaza27
@joycenaza27 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Ezinne
@SeyiOmoolooreofe
@SeyiOmoolooreofe 2 жыл бұрын
I found your page recently and have been blessed really. I just told myself to come see a video on your page before going to bed and this video came up and yes it's really what i need right now, now i know what to do. Thanks for being such a blessing to me God bless you❤️
@ulubaonanefe
@ulubaonanefe Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this This is exactly what God told me 💕 I’m glad I found your channel in January 2022. You’re a light for real 😊✨
@abolacadernos7164
@abolacadernos7164 Жыл бұрын
I recommend reading Lee Lovetts’ How to Stop Stuttering & Love Stuttering. His books & WSSA program will help you if you diligently immerse yourself in it. I’ve benefited so much from it. Hope this helps.
@Esther_nwachukw
@Esther_nwachukw 2 жыл бұрын
To think that you chose to learn from something seem like an affliction is actually great 👍Well done Ezinne, the lessons are my favorite part of the video.
@lasescorner2634
@lasescorner2634 2 жыл бұрын
We have so many things in common especially similarities in our walk with God
@goodnewsdavid140
@goodnewsdavid140 2 жыл бұрын
God Bless you Ma. I feel relieve by this message.
@ojelade_olajumoke
@ojelade_olajumoke 2 жыл бұрын
I love your smile and the way you are able to share your story which makes it relatable.❤
@natashashapolamwamba5683
@natashashapolamwamba5683 2 жыл бұрын
Sis 🥺😭😭😭😭 how beautiful ❤️
@margretsunday1764
@margretsunday1764 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ma I’m blessed listening to this.
@Thebusayomi
@Thebusayomi 4 жыл бұрын
I relate so much ❤️ Thank you for sharing
@truepeople3503
@truepeople3503 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Ezinne. Thank you so much for motivating us all with your videos. Can I make a request please? I would love if you start praying with us before you speak to us, I feel blessed revived watching your videos. I love the thought of praying with you. Thank you🙏
@gitudegefa1512
@gitudegefa1512 2 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of Moses 🙌🏾
@oluwabusayoodukoya1785
@oluwabusayoodukoya1785 2 жыл бұрын
Girl, you are a delight to watch😍
@chisomudeoba
@chisomudeoba Жыл бұрын
3 years later and this ministered to me.
@LifeWithAngee
@LifeWithAngee 5 жыл бұрын
You are truly blessed. Great video and very inspiring
@ifeoluwaosasona1206
@ifeoluwaosasona1206 4 жыл бұрын
lol. i can totally relate to all of this. i love you ezinne.
@daisymjs
@daisymjs 5 жыл бұрын
Proud of you!
@EzinneZara
@EzinneZara 5 жыл бұрын
Mazino Malaka aww my sweetheart!! ❤️
@nanbammutfwang4566
@nanbammutfwang4566 4 жыл бұрын
I love Moses too! Thank you so much! I needed this!
@mimiozemoya6127
@mimiozemoya6127 2 жыл бұрын
All I can say is Ezinne thank you.
@The-Haven-Cave
@The-Haven-Cave 2 жыл бұрын
I'm exactly in that season too. I had to travel out of my location to a different location with new people...you know. Retreats are my favorite thing but it's funny how I don't even realize I need one until God literally drags me there. I didn't know it had a name. I've dealt with that too and I still do but mostly when I'm nervous.
@ifeoluwaadekoya9415
@ifeoluwaadekoya9415 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ezinne💕. You're a blessing.
@abolacadernos7164
@abolacadernos7164 Жыл бұрын
To anyone struggling with stuttering please read Lee Lovetts’ How to Stop Stuttering & Love Speaking. That book will speak to your soul and you can improve your speech if you diligently immerse yourself in the authors methods. All the best to my fellow PWS.
@StevenpChotsani
@StevenpChotsani 18 күн бұрын
Share pdf of that book plz
@francisakonam5846
@francisakonam5846 2 жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful
@realprincessmay
@realprincessmay 5 жыл бұрын
Very Beautiful😊💙 God is so amazing!
@EzinneZara
@EzinneZara 5 жыл бұрын
Princess Laura Mayana He really is!
@preciousalio1052
@preciousalio1052 5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful message from a beautiful soul 🌼
@kenechukwuokoh1014
@kenechukwuokoh1014 Жыл бұрын
God bless you.
@sarahkikambi91
@sarahkikambi91 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this... I can totally relate... I also stutter...
@somebileo
@somebileo 5 жыл бұрын
First to like yaayyy!
@realprincessmay
@realprincessmay 5 жыл бұрын
😂Lol smh 😏😁
@EzinneZara
@EzinneZara 5 жыл бұрын
Lol love you ❤️
@michaelowies7084
@michaelowies7084 3 жыл бұрын
Love your optimism
@chinedumjoy6054
@chinedumjoy6054 10 ай бұрын
Please could you give practical steps on how you stopped stuttering
@faithdaudu1121
@faithdaudu1121 5 жыл бұрын
Oh my God, you're so beautiful and I loved every bit of this video. Thank you ❤️ and may God continue to do wonders through you.
@EzinneZara
@EzinneZara 5 жыл бұрын
Faith Daudu Amennnn!!
@Chisom_okoro
@Chisom_okoro 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. I also do have a stutter. Starting up a youtube channel was a big challenge, I had to take up the challenge. I remember when I had to make a presentation it was very bad......
@ebunnubi1677
@ebunnubi1677 2 жыл бұрын
My God, you look so familiar. Did you go to University of Lagos? I know I’ve met you somewhere maybe one of the campus fellowships ? You just gained a new subbie btw
@kallmekoko6277
@kallmekoko6277 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, she mentioned that in the video but has since graduated from there.
@Kachi_Agu
@Kachi_Agu 5 жыл бұрын
Oh and when you were in school as a newly converted Christian, did you have to worry about your grades or whatnot? What was your experience like? I'd love for you to do a video on that. Thank you. 💓
@EzinneZara
@EzinneZara 5 жыл бұрын
Agu Kachi oh that’ll be an interesting video to do because I do have a story about that haha
@kallmekoko6277
@kallmekoko6277 2 жыл бұрын
@@EzinneZara Ezinne, it seems like you've forgotten to do this video( I'm not aware if any video of this kind is up on your channel so correct me if I'm wrong) I'll like to hear this one because I worry a lot about my grades.
@helenogbonna681
@helenogbonna681 2 жыл бұрын
Ezinne please can you explain to me how you handle holiness and worldliness as a minister of Christ. Thanks
@ezikerita2631
@ezikerita2631 11 ай бұрын
Pls ezinne Zara your video on when you went for nysc it is not on videos list pls post any l can learn from thanks
@TooPRECIOUS
@TooPRECIOUS 3 жыл бұрын
Here for you 😘
@lifeafterkings6315
@lifeafterkings6315 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like my stammering will never leave me, I prayed about it and yet still a stammere
@vojtechsafranek969
@vojtechsafranek969 4 жыл бұрын
U must to let it go to overcome it. U can't do nothing bout it when u resist it, u gotta learn to embrace it.
@ireniajibade123
@ireniajibade123 2 ай бұрын
🙏🙏
@lasescorner2634
@lasescorner2634 2 жыл бұрын
Hiiii Ezinne I feel we need to meet one day
@joshuagbamwuan1174
@joshuagbamwuan1174 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate I stutter as well.
@resco91
@resco91 11 ай бұрын
I have some questions for you I recently met this very nice girl, i like her very much , she has a stutter but i really don't mind it , i really love her for who she is as a person, should i bring this up and tell her that i like her stutter or would it be embarrassing for you/her to bring this up ? I really don't want to make her feel bad or self conscious, and i always let her talk and finish her sentences no matter how much she is suttering ,i just keep eye contact and smile listening to her , it's the first time i meet a girl with a stutter and i really want to approach things in the best way possible to make her feel comfortable with who she is as a individual
@Annie_od
@Annie_od 5 жыл бұрын
I've been wondering, do you always draw your brows or that's how it naturally is
@EzinneZara
@EzinneZara 5 жыл бұрын
Mercy Odey my brows are naturally full and shaped well so I fill them lightly with a black brow filler (because I like a darker brow look) 😃
@Annie_od
@Annie_od 5 жыл бұрын
Ezinne Zara oh I see
@praiseodeyemi3629
@praiseodeyemi3629 2 жыл бұрын
You're so pretty
@tombaraakene9911
@tombaraakene9911 5 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@feyioni9696
@feyioni9696 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Ezinne
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