she is judging japanese people and culture.Respect each other.Why are you guys always complaining?Just ignore negative comments.she looks so negative.This is her problem not japanese people and culuture.Don’t blame us, japanese people.
シンプルに日本の嫌なところなら1日中話せるけど好きなところがないは、日本人と結婚されてるのに残念です。。。とても感情的になられているのですごく伝わりました。とことん縁がなかったと思うので、いつか日本のいいところも見つけられるといいですね:-)私も20代アメリカに住んでいた頃日本嫌でしたが、今はどっちも好きと嫌いなところがあって、どっちも大切です:-) It’s simply unfortunate that you can talk about things you don’t like about Japan all day, but don’t have anything good about it, especially you are married to a Japanese person. You seemed very emotional and I’m sorry to hear that happened. People shouldn’t judge by their looks, but also people try not to be effected by those people calmly with Smiley confidence and yea it’s hard. Of course you don’t need to force yourself to like japan, but it’s too bad you never got a chance to see good sides of it, nor got introduced by Haruki. I lived in the states in most of my 20s and I used to get very frustrated about japan in the same way, but as I get older, I see both good and bad sides of the both countries and they are both special to me;-) I hope you get to come across some kindness and beauty of Japanese culture sometime in the future. :-)
I understand what you guys are thinking. In Japan, there is a culture of peer pressure, and people don't like to do things differently from others. But on the other hand, you are so immersed in the American culture that you don't really understand the other culture, the Japanese culture. So, I don't want you to talk about Japan with a wrong or narrow understanding of Japan. People think they have a broad perspective, but in reality, they can only see things from the environment they live in. But your videos are the best. Thank you very much. I will keep supporting you!!
Japanese people suppose social harmony is very important in japan. Every time western people criticize Japanese, they are affected by others' eyes. but it's a result that social compromise will be needed in the near future. Japanese recognise that social harmony is an important thing in the long historical experiences. For example, we have to keep silent in the subway , bus ,train and have to musk in crowded places even in the passing corona period . By the way , Haruki used a take back box but Kayla didn't, what do you think about food loss?
I really understand you as a Japanese what you felt and acted in your life. I've been fighting those negative Japanese mindset, but I know it's hard to change environment. Finally I changed myself and lived in abroad. Although there were many culture shocks at first, those were just laziness or sloppiness of them, or it was annoying to tell even small things for Japanese . I know there're people who have similar questions and try to keep where we have to stay. Your videos are helpful and brave me anyway!