How I figured out what to do with my life 🤷🏻♀️
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5 жыл бұрынCasual car vlog sharing how I figured out my career & what to do with my life. This was unplanned so it's messy & I didn't share all the details or tips that I could have. But hope you still got something from it nonetheless 🙃 Your early twenties are a time for self discovery and figuring things out (aka "soul searching). But it's also a beautiful time to decide HOW you want to create yourself and your life. That's what being an "artist of life" means.
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@lavendaire Жыл бұрын
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@kassandrajohnson9241 5 жыл бұрын
"I've always been a good student, I knew how to get good grades and do well in school because there was a syllabus and homework and guidelines, and I felt like I had the rules set out and I knew how to work within the rules, but when life happened, I was like, there are no rules to life, it's too open-ended that I don't know what to do with my life." GIRL, SAME!!!
@donutcare6929 4 жыл бұрын
Yes. What scares me the most. Life have no rules or instruction manual for us to follow. You yourself need to figure it out.
@ToriH 4 жыл бұрын
SAME!!!!
@rndmkt 4 жыл бұрын
True 💯😭
@tinafang5168 3 жыл бұрын
exactly this is so relatable
@laur7841 3 жыл бұрын
That kinda reminds me of Kafka's little fable
@AbdRahman-ly1ku 5 жыл бұрын
feeling of failure is way more bearable than regretting not doing something and continue wondering what if i did it what could have happened
@NenaLavonne 5 жыл бұрын
Abd Rahman 👏👏👏👏❤️
@carrielo5478 4 жыл бұрын
really grateful for this, this quote really made my day
@dilarakal4333 4 жыл бұрын
It’s still taking me a while to learn that
@sylviasadiah2001 3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU, I NEED THIS! Was looking for a sign until I stumbled upon this. ❤️
@squidward9 3 жыл бұрын
needed to hear this !!
@nka30 5 жыл бұрын
I’m in my late thirties and wish I had this advice in my twenties. I am now on a different path and spent many years struggling due to not finding my passion. But one piece of advice for those of you still searching, if you love your job but find that it doesn’t tick all the boxes, you can still have side hustles and hobbies or even volunteering on the side to fulfill other parts of yourself. Especially if you feel like it would be too tough to leave your job completely.
@theluschmasterjournals 4 жыл бұрын
yes .. also one of the encouragement I wish I had received when I was younger would have been to explore side hustles while I had my first job because I think it was after that job that I just became more confused at people throwing jobs, learnerships and studies at me that I had no passion for .. which, I guess had me jumping from job to job .. but also, I probably had to go through those things to learn certain things about myself and the life that I am supposed to live .. thanks for sharing ..!
@zdango9279 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 29yrs. But age doesn't matter,keep on moving and be positive.❤
@teenytinyteetee 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this comment !
@rndmkt 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, we'll never stop learning til the day we die.
@huynhmai7385 3 жыл бұрын
I am at the beginning of 30s now and I wish I heard these advices earlier. I am trying differnt side hustles. Hope I can figure out what actually align with me soon!
@linty2747 5 жыл бұрын
“your failures will lead you to where you’re meant to go” 🙏🏼🙏🏼 ty aileen!
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
yes!!
@NenaLavonne 5 жыл бұрын
Lynne Zhang ❤️🦋
@barryseaworth 5 жыл бұрын
What if you're meant to go to a bad place? Lol
@InnerResearcher 5 жыл бұрын
Lynne Zhang amen yes!!!!
@aanchal2303 3 жыл бұрын
I failed my college entrance exams today
@Zarghami 5 жыл бұрын
*Don’t worry about figuring it out...* Figuring life out is the fun part!
@cheska3002 5 жыл бұрын
Truth!
@Vrinder94 5 жыл бұрын
Fun? I'm not finding it that much fun tbh...
@anthonymonterosso7472 5 жыл бұрын
I hate it! Im so stressed and feeling so much pressure to figure out what i want to do. Im 21 and I have absolutely no clue! Feels like everyone around me knows what they want and I cant even figure out what things I like
@sofiasantiago2293 5 жыл бұрын
I find it fun but im not sure how to explain why I find it fun to people that don’t find it fun 😕 can’t seem to find the words
@karstdeviz3858 5 жыл бұрын
i hate it
@MissDarcei 5 жыл бұрын
Unrelated but I just want to say I love your makeup in this video. The way the sun is hitting your cheekbones is just beautiful.
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
aw thank you 😊
@idfkidfcidgaf7711 3 жыл бұрын
Hey guys!! What’s up? It’s your favourite 😍 Bald headed 👩🏾🦲 Bit*h✌️
@nicoleleary1000 5 жыл бұрын
"passion is the result of action, not the cause of it" - one of my favorite quotes, which seems to fit very well with this video!!
@Possibleivlogs 5 жыл бұрын
Nicole Leary this is so true! I feel like that’s where the true potential lays within people, the power to Do
@floragcaldeira 4 жыл бұрын
I find it fascinating when people know at least what makes them feel joy. I tried a lot of things, tried college, tried working, but never found joy. I'm 24 living with my parents and just failed again in life. Not knowing what you like it's frustrating. But seeing time passing with no accomplishments and no money it's even worst.
@julinielawrence1903 4 жыл бұрын
Same girl. I'm 22 and I'm not working atm but I'm using this time to study spirituality, yoga, meditation, chakras and trying to understand why we're all here. I find myself being at peace and then I started watching martial arts videos and I'm trying to get into "krav maga" (best self defense art for women) and then I'll get a part time job to work around my schedule. I have a feeling it'll bring me joy and take away all this feeling of failure. But I'll stop ranting, maybe you can look for a hobby or volunteer. Goodluck 😘
@ame_vagabonde 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you're doing better now! But if not, it's alright, because your only real job in life is to figure yourself out. That said, I really think the best advice is to try more things and keep going. There is so many things in the world that obviously we haven't tried them all. So, let's experience more things, new sports or manual activities. Have you ever gone hiking? Did you try pottery ? Sculpture? Learnt a new langage? What about teaching young people, carving wood, scuba diving, planting crops, taking care of animals, decorating a room?
@kumadori9627 Жыл бұрын
@@ame_vagabonde thank you, this helped me a lot!
@wenjunbleeker6020 Жыл бұрын
I'm 26 and I relate so much to what you say! I just dont know what I would like or have passion in...
@ailysvt 5 жыл бұрын
_"How can you be 23, still struggling in life, struggling to make money, struggling to figure out what you're supposed to do."_ To be honest, I'm so happy to hear this. Currently 23, just graduated and in lost. It make me think how if you can do it, I should be able too. I am so glad I found your channel. Been marathoning your lifestyle videos and you've inspired me so much.
@yoongis.tangerine 3 жыл бұрын
i am 23 and i am currently unemployed. i feel so so lost
@TechWriterToolkit 5 жыл бұрын
I love that you mentioned you were envious of other KZfaqrs' lifestyles, but instead of harboring or spewing malice, you saw it as a huge clue as to what you really want for yourself. That's very mature of you on an emotional level. I think people need to learn how to transform that emotion into a positive like you did.
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
your envy is really telling :) it's a clue of what you desire, and instead of letting it be negative, you can let it fuel your growth!
@navi3430 2 жыл бұрын
@@lavendaire Definitely! If you ever find yourself jealous, it is better to use that person as an inspiration for what you want!
@kendrickear5441 5 жыл бұрын
"Your failure will lead you where to go" love that part.
@m.jenkins3012 5 жыл бұрын
Her hair is giving me life ..and so is her message.
@InnerResearcher 5 жыл бұрын
M. Jenkins haha YESSS!
@debramayisela 5 жыл бұрын
I am 22, recently graduated. I am currently in that situation whereby I'm so confused and even starting to doubt as to whether I did the right course. However, this video has really encouraged me. Thanks Aileen😊❤
@l0lliezoe3x 4 жыл бұрын
debra mayisela same! What did you do about this x
@cayennebrownie3181 5 жыл бұрын
your aesthetics of your videos and how they have a great purpose is amazing love you so much 💜
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
thank u & love u dear
@myzone111 5 жыл бұрын
Lavendaire is like an amalgamation of art, an open journal, a book club, a mentorship, a peaceful retreat, taking tea and chatting with your amazing bestie and so much more all at once dressed in love, beauty and empathy! It’s hard to express how proud and grateful I am... Thank you so much Aileen. We love you! 😍
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
Aww I appreciate this. Thank you & love you!!
@madib.2567 4 жыл бұрын
Awwh. This is so sweet. I feel the same way but you said it eloquently
@miwakomint_bunny4885 4 жыл бұрын
You're so right Aileen. I'm just 23 but I've been experimenting with my life for quite a years now until I realised what I really want in my life. I started my career as a supervisor in one beauty company and then got promoted as a beautician and MUA in the same company after went to several classes they held. After that I quit and started my music journey. Work in a music class as a tutor. But then quit. Work as a model and quit. Work as an actress and quit. It's just not I want in my life. And then I took over my family business and never been happier. I never realised that all I want is being close with my parents. Even my financial is way more stable compared to all the works I've done before.
@soph.poe13 5 жыл бұрын
Your videos are just pure magic✨
@kkyulmin 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for that! I'm 22 and due to my personal situation I'm just going to Uni this year. I have this weird feeling that it's really late for me because most of my friends are already graduating and I'm just like...trying to figure out what to do with my life, still having Uni to get started... What I know for sure is that I don't wanna work in all those boring, generic places like corporations and so on. I just feel like it's not something for me even if it's a "comfort zone" option. Just always wanted to do something meaningful and well-payed. I know that in my early twenties, I still have time to find myself and figure out what is the best for me, but it feels like everything best around is already running out of time. Trying to convince myself that it's the wrong way of thinking, so despite of it I'm going to buy a guitar this year and start learn to sing as I always wanted (I think so) and will see if it'll work out. Maybe it's not too late ;) If not, well, I'll try something different again. Btw, lately I started listening to your podcast and girl! I'm grateful. People like you gives me hope. Thank you.
@aidanamer555 5 жыл бұрын
Hi, Sherly! I’m glad you’re pursuing your educational goals. People go to university even at their late 40s. Besides, ‘it’s never too late’. Good luck at your beginnings🦋
@julessound 5 жыл бұрын
Hey girl! I’m 21 and also searching for a degree to get at the university. Even though I tried studying linguistics for 1,5 year I dropout because it wasn’t enlightening to me. My goal is to find something finally and leave from Russia but I can’t choose because of the financial situation too. Also, I have a hobby which is singing and that’s great that you decided to try guitar! Go for it ☺️ Maybe you’ll start writing your own songs someday.
@sagejunkie7089 3 жыл бұрын
I did my degree at 40 and Masters at 50! You are never too late 🧡
@arshpreetkaur9 3 жыл бұрын
Hey are you me ? Each and every thing resonates with me. It's so depressing. But now it's been 2 years. How r u and things ?
@LyricWalker_ 5 жыл бұрын
yeah I need to figure out what I need to do with my life!😂❤️
@HangNguyen-ex4fx 5 жыл бұрын
hello
@HangNguyen-ex4fx 5 жыл бұрын
ohhh.
@nadeenrajab4490 5 жыл бұрын
My main struggle is to work and make money but also love what I do😧
@Lady_Cassandra 5 жыл бұрын
It sounds like such a simple desire but it's so difficult to attain. I feel you. I'm in the same boat right now in college. Hope you find what you're looking for ☺
@nameavailable987 4 жыл бұрын
Nadeen Rajab you and the rest of the world ):
@toughsoftieyogi 5 жыл бұрын
oh my god. This is NOT a messy car vlog. This is the best vlog I've seen on KZfaq. It's very, VERY informative and helpful. At 31, I'm still trying to figure out what I really want in life. I actually thought I had it figured out when I was 26. But things are changing now and I'm lost again. Thank you so much for this, Aileen. Thank you so SO much.
@InnerResearcher 5 жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes i feel the same way!!!!!!!
@rainahigane5133 2 жыл бұрын
True . Me too I'm 31 and all along I thought I am doing the things I wanna do and I already doing my passion and my purpose but.... I have empty feeling right now.
@tetiana3933 Жыл бұрын
@@rainahigane5133 same for me
@foodlover3158 4 жыл бұрын
I'm in the middle of questioning my life. I want my life to be meaningful. But I don't know where to start. And then I stumble upon your video. It's a mind opening one. At least, I got myself an idea what to do first. I really thank you a lot for this video. Love from Indonesia
@FERNANDAKT 5 жыл бұрын
Best of luck to you. You are wonderful! I am on your course. You deserve all. You bring me so much joy. You radiate light.
@monique.110 5 жыл бұрын
You are so right!!! It is scary to not give up when you’re still finding your calling... but we must continue on- thank you! Love all your content!
@lavendaire 4 жыл бұрын
Vietnamese & Japanese subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributor listed in the description 💕
@carlycallaway199 5 жыл бұрын
Lavendaire definitely deserves more subscribers! Everytime i watch a video i feel inspired!💖🥰
@gamef0rtwo 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. Your heart of gold just radiates. I can literally feel how genuine you are about trying to uplift others. Stay you🌸
@BabyChi3 5 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I clicked this video! I’m 23 and lost. But you gave me hope that maybe I can find something I like to do!!
@InnerResearcher 5 жыл бұрын
Momotan same!!❤️
@samarsuwaid7578 5 жыл бұрын
I needed this so much.. I just lost my job today.. I haven't been happy there anyways, but I didn't have the gut to leave my comfort zone. This talk is very helpful. Thank you so much. You are achieving your goals and keep inspiring us ❤️
@blacklightaura6777 5 жыл бұрын
Samar Suwaid something that worked for me after leaving a job I wasn’t happy at was looking at my every day passion (makeup) and doing that commercially at cosmetics counters. I would never get promoted at restaurants bc they could tell I hated it but with makeup I got promoted in less than one year!!!! Look at what you do every day that you don’t notice :) even if it’s something weird like organizing your house or something. There’s a job for that you just need to be creative about it
@InnerResearcher 5 жыл бұрын
Samar Suwaid its all for a reason❤️❤️ something even better is on the way!!!!!
@raquelsofia1785 5 жыл бұрын
You can always give me so much inspiration to continue to figured out who I am, and what to do with my life. Thanks so much! I will keep trying
@valentinabasso1404 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I needed it, because lately I've been stuck with my fear of failure and I didn't know what to do. But now I know what to think "If you failed it means you tried" and the place where I am now feels good, I don't want to give up because my fears hold me back! Thank you, it meant a lot to me ❤️
@InnerResearcher 5 жыл бұрын
It’s no an accident that I saw this video!!! I’m a creator myself, and a girl sent me a DM saying how much my videos have helped her & told me to check you out as she thought i’d love it. Well, I LOVE YOU, and everything that you talked about resonates with me so much. I went to an acting school & thought it’s the life I wanted , but - shocker - it was not! I’m so committed to building my life as a conscious creator and I want to be a content creator like you. You inspire me SO MUCH, and it’s the only video I’ve seen of you. You’re amazing. THANK YOU.❤️❤️❤️
@mckenziekay708 5 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this raw, in-the-moment video - I felt like I was sitting with a caring friend. Thanks, Aileen!
@tokyo_fika 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Aileen! 💕💕 Early morning here in Japan and I’m glad to listen to your words of encouragement and be reminded not to settle for less and not to give up searching for ways to create the life I want and go for the things that really matter to me.
@768genyen 5 жыл бұрын
A shoutout to your video and the right pop ups time to show. This is like acknowledgment for me that trial, error and afraid of failure should be the ways to identify align path towards dream life. Thanks.
@amy_lee 5 жыл бұрын
this was possibly one of my favorite videos of yours! and i love a lot of your videos, it was so personal and engaging and inspirational and informative. :-) ALL AT ONCE!
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you Amy!!
@suzzshakya8968 5 жыл бұрын
“Sometimes you don’t know that it’s right for you until you get there…” This hit me hard! I’ve finally accomplished my childhood dream job but now I’m unsure if I fit into this or if it’s even right for me… But I still don’t wanna give up and gonna try find my way to make it best suitable for me. 💫😌
@MelonMuse 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Aileen! Thank you so much for creating this video. I've been feeling really lost lately with no idea as to what I want to do in life, and it's been giving me a lot of anxiety. Hearing that you also went through this stage and that you simply have to go through a lot of trial and error makes me feel a lot better. I don't feel so alone in this struggle anymore. Thank you.
@raspberris17 5 жыл бұрын
I’m right now figuring out what I want to do in life and this video is exactly what I needed!! Thank you so much you really are making a positive impact in the world💕
@AdrianaGirdler 5 жыл бұрын
I agree that often it can be trial and error combined with some deep digging to figure out what your passions really are. Thanks for sharing your inspiring story. The most important thing in life is to truly live your purpose and figure out what you were meant to do! Cheers!
@GraceLum 5 жыл бұрын
once again your videos always come in good time 😭 I'm in mu early twenties and I'm fretting over my future and I tend to overthink a lot so thank you for sharing with us your points
@InnerResearcher 5 жыл бұрын
Grace Lum yes me too! Such perfect timing!!!!
@radiaaaaaaa 5 жыл бұрын
Gosh! How amazing you really are!! After going through an actually not-at-all-wanted semester... I badly needed some practical inspirations and thankfully I got to come across Lavendaire!! ❤❤❤ I just wanna thank you for being such an amazing source of Healing the mental scars and wounds!!
@Katerina-wj2ct 5 жыл бұрын
It's incredible how people from different parts of the world go through the same things , how the sentences resemble with my thoughts is really magical, once again thank you for existing
@sharonsharing3313 5 жыл бұрын
I finally figure out “be a vblog”is my true passion for my fabulous 50+ life. Thank you for all your inspiration!
@briannamartinezwellness 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been trying to figure out which career path I want to manifest, but you just helped me find the answer. Instead of focusing on one particular career, I should instead focus on the guidelines/criteria I want out of a career. Thank you for the enlightenment ✨
@trishajodumayas4941 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Lavendaire, just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate this video. I don’t think you’ll ever understand how much this video resonated with me. Every little detail you shared is exactly the same in my life rn to the T, from the love for music/singing/piano, to being at 23 with the life shifts (I’m 23 rn), to personal development and alignment. Thank you so much.
@ikejaeilan 4 жыл бұрын
This video is pure gold, simply put. Much gratitude. Peace and love!
@purpl3gemini 5 жыл бұрын
Omg this is so me. I was always the good student and kid and I still struggle living life. There are no rules and I am lost. Thanks for creating this video. It sparked some ideas
@Tuyetnguyenvhq 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, i'm having a hard time to figure out what i want to next at age 35, after 7 years working for a company.After stop, i spent a year basically not doing anything but travel and wander around and doing yoga. I'm still on the way finding my new path, by doing different things like taking course, travel more, meet more people... Dont know if it success to be honest, but i dont regret at all. Just take it on move and see how :).
@lauraramosdelgado 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on the path of personal development and finding purpose. I believe I'm in a void but I'm trusting everything will turn out great and I will be guided. At the beginning I was so desperate because I didn't have things figured out but now I'm embracing the moment and knowing that I'm headed in the right direction.
@nitalubega5534 5 жыл бұрын
i just had this conversation with my family asking them what to with my life and this video just showed up. Perfect timing!! i needed to hear this. Thanks
@pamfrt6366 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing this! “Don’t settle for less”
@user-mz9mi5wq3y 5 жыл бұрын
It's such a perfect timing to see this video since I feel lost and don't no what to do with my life recently. I'm having a pretty good job right now, but it just doesn't make me feel happy and it doesn't give me the life that I want. Thank you for giving me the courage to step out and try to find my own way ❤️ Though it might take some time, I'll still try and listen to my heart. Hope I'll find it soon✨ Thank you again for what you have done, Aileen! ❤️
@jessicaoribiana4438 5 жыл бұрын
I am so thankful that I found lavendaire. I am really struggling on what course I am going to take for college, but after watching this video, Aileen gave me an idea to explore until I find what I truly love . I love you so much Aileen😘
@nicolealexander3479 4 жыл бұрын
I'm just coming across this video because I've been feeling so lost with what I should be doing with my life. Literally typed in, "how to" and youtube filled in the rest with "know what you should be doing with your life." Among all the videos, I clicked on yours and am finding it so wild that what you're saying is resonating with me on so many levels. Thank you for following your gut, taking a chance, and making this video (and your whole channel!) - it's so inspirational and was exactly what I needed
@haseena1001 5 жыл бұрын
Hey Aileen, loving the car vlogs and vlogs in general so hope to see more of them, love your content videos too. Great share today 👑💖 Keep searching through experimentation and never give up or compromise on being happy 😊
@elaura 5 жыл бұрын
When I thought no one could understand my struggles when i decided I want to drop everything and pursue my dream and I found you. I cried watching this video AiLeen . I really felt like this video was a recorded message from you to me. i had amnesia for the past weeks because i was panicked that is already June and was afraid because I havent been seeing progression and failing over and over again. i know I should be prepared to faced all of these obstacles and challenges but sometimes i just want to hear some kind words and motivation to get back on track. I want to thank you deeply Ai Leen at least i know I can refer to this video when I need to.
@kaylinmichelle8250 5 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how much I needed this 💚 thank you. Thank you for remaining authentic and remaining loyal to intuition. So much love and appreciation gurrrrl xxx
@sarahhunter9896 5 жыл бұрын
This is one of my favorite videos! Love the sunset car vibe and hearing your journey is so helpful to where I am at now. I feel the confidence to take risks to try different things even if they don’t work out
@katharella3665 5 жыл бұрын
I relate so much to you, I feel like I could’ve said all that, I so want to do well on here but, keep making excuses. Thanks for the video 😘
@emmad.8815 5 жыл бұрын
This was so nice!! I definitely approve of the vlog-in-your-car format :)) and very helpful as well, exactly what i needed!
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
^_^ glad you liked this chill chat
@sarahbee328 5 жыл бұрын
This totally took me back to watching you when your konmari videos first came out and they were just SO good! It really resonated with me that you were cleaning out your old childhood and college stuff.
@JtruUk 4 жыл бұрын
You are so right about trying out so many things to find your true passion. Going through the journey is the scariest and the most exciting part about it.
@KatrinaAglipay 5 жыл бұрын
my goodness I can totally relate. I used to be a dancer then I also tried modelling. Then I worked as an accountant. I tried blogging. Until I end up as a KZfaqr. Finally it just feels so right! I know I'm on the right path. Thank you for your message. It encourages me and everyone for sure. ☺🤗
@komorebi3803 5 жыл бұрын
@Simply Pinay I took a quick look at you channel. Even though it isn't the kind of content that I'm into, I just wanted to tell you that everything looks very anesthetic 🤗 Keep going
@KatrinaAglipay 5 жыл бұрын
@@komorebi3803 ohh thank you! 🤗😍
@RetroYusuf 5 жыл бұрын
Wow. A youtube video hasn't felt this personal to me before. I really love the way you articulated yourself and it really motivated me. Thank you, I needed this. :)
@lepastila7088 3 жыл бұрын
I really needed this video! I told my boss last week that I quit. It was so scary but I couldn't stay in a place that wasn't fulfilling. Right now I have absolutely no idea what to do, what career to pursue etc. But I will try until I find what's mine. Very beautiful message, thank you!
@liviubeschieri 3 жыл бұрын
This is one of my favorite videos from you. I love the casualness and yet the conviction you have in this one. 😊
@Middangelcj 5 жыл бұрын
Every time I watch your video, I have stronger mind to face with the challenge and the environment. Love you so much~
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
🌟 Check out the Create Your Dream Life Course! lavendaire.com/dreamlife ∙ I created this as the course I wish I had when I was lost in my early twenties. These are all the life lessons I've learned about creating yourself + your dream life over the past 7+ years. Back then, I was frustrated that there wasn't a step-by-step program to guide me to figure myself & my life out, so now I've created one for you! ∙ This course will guide you to discover yourself, build a success mindset, get clear on what you want, make a plan of how to get there and enjoy creating your dream life.
@thegoldenchild740 5 жыл бұрын
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@rainmelodiess 5 жыл бұрын
hi eileen! been watching your videos for a while now but i was wondering, do you make podcasts? if not, i’d totally would love it and listen to it if you started! you’re so inspiring!
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
@@rainmelodiess yes i have a podcast! It's called The Lavendaire Lifestyle - on iTunes/Spotify/etc! lavendaire.com/llpodcast
@altheapo 5 жыл бұрын
Is there a specific age group for this course?
@catherinemiles7260 5 жыл бұрын
I fully enjoyed this car vlog, I love the vibe. And it was just real relaxed. Thank you for this awesome video!!! #lavylove
@gagzy1989 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Lavendaire! Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Love these kinds of videos. Wishing you all the success and more! Thank you for reminding us the importance of failure. Its a tool to help shape our lives, and not a reason to stop living. x
@erikafernandezmartinez9389 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I was working hard these weeks and in my university deliveries..and now I was really exhausted but thanks to you I know what to do next, thanks Aileen!
@payaltalekar1866 5 жыл бұрын
Your story is really inspiring. Got so much practical insights from it. I love to know about journey of successful and inspiring people. Loved it..
@carlyburr 5 жыл бұрын
I love how you have kept taking action and testing and expressing your creativity to find what finally clicked for you and felt right. 💛 taking action even if you have no clue if it’s going to work is SO important!
@lavendaire 5 жыл бұрын
yes! action will bring clarity
@Possibleivlogs 5 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t agree more with trying to find what you really want to do, and experiencing all these jobs until you find what you really want to do. I feel like I’m on the exact same path as an artist and this was so uplifting. I think it’s important to learn how to enjoy the process and actively do what you set yourself out to do!
@ayugurnitha9919 5 жыл бұрын
Just wanted to say thank you for being so open and honest in sharing your personal experiences. I can relate to so many things that you've said. Thank you for inspiring
@supriyagunasegaran9294 5 жыл бұрын
Just what I needed! Thank you so much for making this video 💕
@sy20050821 5 жыл бұрын
I looooooved this video!!! I know I have to try more things to find out... thank you for your encouragement ☺️💜
@artheasana8248 5 жыл бұрын
I admire your determination and strength to find where your piece of the puzzle fits in this on growing society. I've been watching your videos for about two or three years now and currently, I'm getting close to a new chapter in my life, college. Watching your content inspires me to better myself and take a step back to look at a bigger picture. This video particularly calmed my fears of entering what they call "the real world."
@tarnielaska-wolfe7812 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like not enough people say to keep searching! Thankyou so much! I have tried so many careers and fields and I’m still searching sometimes it gets me down but I’m starting to realise that when I do find it I’ll have an amazing story and a lot of experience to go with it!
@ThinkCitric 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! 🧡 I think I feel the same when you've just started Lavendaire. Next month it's going to be a year since I left my day job and started to pursue my dream. Same as you, I didn't have any income for a whole year, and a very little proof that I'm doing the right thing for me. So far the only thing that proves that I'm on the right path - is my own feeling of joy when I push my own boundaries and create a new character or a new level. I'm just not ready to give up without a fight, without knowing that I've done everything I could. Thanks for giving me hope!
@zeinvisiblethread 5 жыл бұрын
More videos like this Aileen! It feels like I am having conversations with a friend. 💕
@summerblairh 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so grateful that I found you! You are so helpful to me now, and I feel like I have a clue about what to do after watching your video. Thank you!!!
@aidanamer555 5 жыл бұрын
Aileen, I loooved this video of yours! It’s very warm. You’re very warm. Loved everything you said. Thank you😍💕🦋🌈✨
@ashleysalvatore884 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for following your dreams! - maybe you should make a second channel showcasing how people can get started on KZfaq and tips\courses we can do to get started and become better - all from your perspective of course 😘
@myzone111 5 жыл бұрын
8:15 The fact Aileen made/makes her videos from a perspective of documenting progress, I believe, is one of the exact reasons why Lavendaire is so brilliant and why we connect so much with her! She’s teaching through sharing her own process of growth, overcoming her fears, learning from her failures and celebrating her successes big and small, authentically and in real time. The way she collaborates with and interviews other Artists of Life through her podcast and videos too is beautifully done. As well as the hard work and focus, it surely must require sooo much vulnerability and selflessness to open up like this? Honestly it’s just so special, refreshing and inspiring!
@usajohn1399 5 жыл бұрын
True
@bjzzzz 5 жыл бұрын
I love everything about this so much! I'm definitely learning that the process and journey is just as important as the destination.
@Shanacee 5 жыл бұрын
This video was super reassuring. I have always been conflicted about feeling called to help others but not feeling like I have it all together just yet to do it. You mentioning your start and how you didn't know but imagined it as your documentation of the process is exactly what I try to do. Thank you for being open and sharing.
@daughterofchrist4726 5 жыл бұрын
It's so nice to see your vedio ..it's always leaves my mind with positive vibes...You're so positive,happy soul and beautiful inside out...Keep going...love you.
@TheGanation 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing your story! It was very inspiring but you did not mention how you supported yourself through all these creative pursuits.
@putribrilliany1182 5 жыл бұрын
thank you for always radiating positive energy! keep creating, love🌸
@LouLou-wn2lt Жыл бұрын
I really needed this . Thank you so much . May god bless you for helping everyone 🥰🥰I love you ☺️☺️
@nadlycelestin2066 5 жыл бұрын
Relate 💯. From rules/step in school to no rules in life: the transition is hard.
@suesheification 5 жыл бұрын
Yep. 39 and still haven't figured it out
@keleshalove8477 5 жыл бұрын
I literally watch your videos every morning
@Jade-jy4qw 5 жыл бұрын
This is such an important message and you explained it so well and comfortably!! I’m so happy for you that you kept exploring and found what fits for you. You do an amazing job :)
@tianaleigh7984 4 жыл бұрын
Can’t across this video while watching someone else on here I swear I needed to here this I’m still only so young and rediscovering myself & life had been a complete turn over from where and what I was doing . Currently on a path of finding myself and where I want to be .. this was purely an eye opener for me to hear . Thank you 🙏🏼
@mahamo92 5 жыл бұрын
I love to see you more in car yay 😍👏 The sun is beautiful out there 😍🙌💜
@mikaelatheartist6204 5 жыл бұрын
I needed this, Aileen. Divine timing. Thank you for sharing ya light on us today! 😁
@andreanajarro7123 2 жыл бұрын
There is so much beauty in the journey. You're doing great!
@thuyvu6886 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your sharing. I've lost for almost 2 years after working restlessly in an agency and been searching for these kind of video to find out what I want to do with my life (yes i'm really desperate). Your video is the most powerful and helpful tbh. Tysm
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