Girl.. this is confirmation for me.. glad I clicked on your video. This is my exact story.. except I was in my mid-late 20’s… in Alabama (family in NY), no support around me except my daughters dad and his family. At least your daughters father proposed to you and wanted to take care of you, even if it wasn’t a good deal in the end. Breaking up was very emotional for me too, but I’m so glad I left out of state and two years later I’m doing so much better in life. I could’ve stayed and had more kids too.. but like you said this is a moment I had to use my logic. Despite the comments I understand you. Because I relate. Better to leave and get on your feet than to stay and get left while you’re unstable (financially or otherwise). You did the right thing. And so did I. ❤ New subbie babe. Thank you for this.

Thank you for the great advice. This is an area of growth l need to do more turn the emotions off to be who l need to become ❤

I hear you Sis. Thank you so very much. YOU are BEAUTIFUL 😍 I AM using My Soft Life Season to Build an Empire 👑 l thank GOD for the time and support of masculine energy to be able to do it as it’s a Jungle out here for ambition women. I have done soooo much ALONE 😅 for my entire adult life and truly grateful for the soft season I have been blessed with BUT l AM “still” pushing forward with My Dreams and Visions but with some much needed support from someone other than myself. One thing that kept me in “my man-mode” was actually not having a “sufficient” man in my life. Now, having the appropriate masculinity present in someone else, I have been able to resume or rise in my femininity and let go of the overbearing masculine energy within myself. REAL MEN do want to take care of us BUT they do not want us to be completely helpless and dependent upon them. We are helpmates both men and women to one another. Having a GOOD man in our lives should empower us to do what we may not be able to do alone…but we should not be “helpless” but allow them to be “helpful” for our highest best good. 👑 Thank you sis. I appreciate and respect your inspiring journey and thoughtful insights. Many Blessings 🙏🏾❤

This is very very valuable information. Thankyou for sharing this‼️💎💎💎

Very well done you. GOD BLESS YOU.🙏🏾

It was really nice hearing your story. Do you have any advice on how to turn your emotions off?

You're right :)

Omg same I lost my virginity and got pregnant as well. I had my son young. Yess we lived the same childhood but I was in 8th grade 🥴. My first born is 19 now, first year in college🙌🏽. So everything you’re saying I went through as well.

Very valuable information! Thanks Adrianna ❤

Crazy that he would want you to have another baby right away. You would have seen pepper! 🤣 You always have to have a backup!

You are neither crazy, nor wrong. Women do have the ability to regulate our emotions and turn them off - we see this especially with women who have experienced severe trauma. You are simply advocating for choosing to turn them off, or at least down and tapping into logic to enable sensible decision making.

Soooooo…. How do I do that😅

Had I did what you did, I would be like you 😂

We should normalize not proceeding with a pregnancy or give up kids for adoption for the next generation as a child.

You manifested failed relationships. Masculine men desire to take of their woman. When you show and tell a man you don’t need them they are going to find someone who does. Nothing wrong with wanting to learn responsibility. But if I am hearing you correctly, you had a man willing to allow you to learn that with him. Emotional stability is embracing someone loving you and knowing who to be vulnerable with and not.

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