Yesss very well said and yes that would love to see that a guys perspective on how they feel going through or seeing their significant other in pain or what goes through their would love stevens side story

AGREEEED! please bring steven into a video like this or ask him to upload to his channel :) i think a guys prespective should be heard

Then unfollowed. You are in the wrong channel. Where are you going that you have to do your makeup anyway.

@@almasandoval670 why comment? are you looking for someone to beg you to stay? off you go!! theres plenty of make up channels for you to get lost in. drama!

@@almasandoval670 alma baby i think you read my comment wrong hunny! but go awf

Girl same. No plans to have babies for years but here i am 😂

Same😅

Same😂 I love watching baby and pregnancy video’s but no baby’s for me right now

Sameee

Same. But I think most of us haven’t been taught about any of this. And I personally need to know what I’m signing up for before I even consider having kids 😭

sir, you dropped this 👑

@@giovannaelyssaacuna348 this made me literally LOL at work, so thank you. Hope you have a great day.

@@PharaohJay417 lol I love to see it! Same to you! 😊

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You’re such a good husband!

Ugh my experience.🙄 I had my husband ask for a different nurse. She really made me feel horrible maybe it was because I just had a baby idk but I cried.

Wow thank u for sharing this ! My son is now 8 and I had a bad experience with nurses too. I thought it was just me.. I’m 4 months pregnant and scared because I don’t want to switch doctors but she’s affiliated with the same hospital where I had my bad experience. This time around I will speak up if I’m feeling mistreated!

Yes!!!! Please!!!!

Yesss!

Yes!

😂😂😂

SAME!!!!

Literally same😂

Me, 26, single af: same.

😂😂💀

Couldn't agree more, thank you for saying this.

Ride the waves of coming into motherhood. That’s is the best description I’ve ever heard about it. 🙌🙌

I’m pregnant for the first time and since I’m so young everyone tell me you won’t even be able to tell I’ve been pregnant after birth. That freaks me out. I don’t want aaaany expectations on me and my body. It is what it is and it will be what it will be. :/

It's like people we carried and grew our baby for 9/10 months it doesn't take a week to bounce back everyone's body is different. At about 6 months postpartum I started feeling like myself again it was a roller coaster no doubt

I opted for no epidural. The nurse for my First born was a champ. The nurse for my second in a private hospital told me if you don’t want the pain that is why there is epidural. My mother in law said is it sometimes some repercussions after that. She rolled her eyes and said people all over the world came to us do you think we can tell you to do something if you have repercussions after that.

Hi! I just read your comment and I’m not a mama BUT I was 6lbs 5oz when I was born; my mom had the same experience with me when I was a baby. She thought that I was latching on and getting enough milk etc. I was her second baby so she thought things were fine and had no idea that in fact I wasn’t feeding correctly and had lost weight. I dropped down to 5lbs or something. Her doc told her to switch to formula (which TBH she was totally ok with!) so she did and it was smooth sailing. I turned out great LOL 😂 and my mama is AMAZING and strong & the BEST MAMA, just like YOU!! 💖

Agreed! Love her honesty and talk about everything! ❤️

Agree! Such a great video!!!

Agreed, my mom stayed with me for a few weeks after birth and when she left I bawled my eyes out...and the thing is I am not an emotional person..

Seriously! ❤️❤️❤️

For real everyone is different idk why we are always competing with each other 😔

👏 🙏 👏 🙏. People need to hear this. The mommy shaming, the woman to woman shaming just needs to stop. We woman are amazing, what we’re capable of us amazing. Ok that’s all.

Yes!! “Breast is best”... please, “feed your baby and mind your damn business” should be the phrase!!

For real! Like the Women That get special pretty gowns to give birth. I’m like.... girlllll you are NOT ready for the body fluids about to exit you. Lmao 😂

@@fernandagonzalez7270 Hahahah exactly! when I had my first baby, after my baby came out, the doctor told me to push again! I thought I was having another baby (twins), but it’s was for the placenta, I had no idea hahahahaha so embarrassing

I am so glad you’re here 💜

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I’m so sorry! It is so hard to go through such a huge shift. I don’t think anyone can prepare someone until they have their own baby. I’m glad you had such a great support system

@@DesiPerkins it is. I had babies 17m apart so it was a journey! We ended up stopping after two, because of how hard it was on me. But then we fostered babies for 3 years in flint and that was a blessing!!!!

🤗 BIG HUG!! Its so incredibly HARD to be a mom!! You are VERY lucky you had a supportive husband. We were on the same boat.... I have postpartum depression, anxiety, and OCD. My husband thought/thinks I made it all up and was and still is horrible with me. He absolutely does not understand anything nor can I make him understand. I can't even talk about it because it enrages him. My "best friend" just disappeared so I felt abandoned, lost, and lonely. My only support system was my mom but unfortunately she passed away the day after Christmas. You can imagine how I felt and still feel. I push through for my kids but that first year was HELL to say the least.

Postpartum nurse: I second this. I literally make all my patients take it home even if they don’t “need it”.

Yep. This! They also factor it in to the cost of your hospital bill. TAKE IT!

Me too 1997 Team 😍

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Sameeee

Thanks 💞

MEEEE

Same 🙌

Same

Me too😂🤍🤍. I'm so appreciative of her sharing her experience .

It totally does but we have to remember that some people respond better to a more direct approach. She didn’t and so she got another nurse and that’s okay.

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yes it is! I am so thankful for this!

I’m almost clocking on my 1st trimester and it’s so true this journey can be lonely because nobody is as real to sort of prepare you for the journey 😢😢. These have probably been the loneliest 3 months of my life .

@sheikarose not everyone goes through this. This is dramatic. It IS painful (I didnt get and epidural with any of my kids, THATS painful.. but when you're numbed with an epidural, its so not). The afted care is definitely not a that and going to the bathroom does not hurt.. only with a c section as I did with my last. Your vagina does not hurt afterwards either. Stitches, if you have them feel uncomfortable but is definitely not painful as she describes. You've got to remember some people define discomfort as dramatic pain. It really is NOT all that she is sharing. Do not get scared or anxious about childbirth. Its the most beautiful experience ever and everyone I mean EVERY ONE is different and has a different experience. In my opinion, she is being way to dramatic. Or perhaps maybe she is not, she just may be one that is hugh maintenance and does not do well with discomfort.

Dixie Garza same here! My delibery and post partum went perfect, but breatfeeding was a nightmare and I gave up. With my second child I did not even try breastfeeding. There is a lot of stigma arround women who dont breastfeed.....

Dixie Garza I definitely agree with you. My little one is 2 weeks & 6 days old and he can’t latch on correctly. Every time I had to breastfeed I would go in so confident after watching videos and what not and told myself this is it we are going to latch correctly but @ the end of it I would just end up in tears. I thought it was my fault he couldn’t latch on correctly and that I was letting him down. I wasn’t opposed to formula but it felt like I had failed my son. It took my mother in law like Desi said to say it’s okay if you can’t breastfeed or baby can’t latch. It’s okay to give him formula, he is still going to grow up healthy and strong. At the moment all my mommy guilt went away and I felt relieved to hear someone say it’s okay if you can’t breastfeed. I read so many articles how it’s best to breastfeed to be completely honest those article and support groups only made me feel worst. So it’s refreshing hear someone say hey everything is going to be okay ☺️☺️

I FEEL YOU THANK YOU FOR SAYING IT OUT LOUD😍🙏🏻❤️ you are not alone Desi

Same

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Labor hormones along with side effects from the medicine in the epidural can lead to shivers/shakes. Uncomfortable but normal. There’s medicine that can help counteract the shakes a bit if they get too intense.

@@jenniferaragon9 My legs were trembling before the epidural or anything was given to me, when they put the balloon catheter in me and right after they had taken the balloon out of me. The shakes I got from the epidural were completely different. I think it was just my body’s reaction to preparing for the baby.

It’s a hard thing to go through for sure, but even if you had to use formula, you did what was better for your baby. I’ve had 4 boys. With my oldest had no clue what I was doing, I was 19, I went from a B cup to a DD and no one I knew had any experience with breastfeeding. With my next the baby had such a small mouth he literally couldn’t nurse, the next 2 were 4.5 oz, and 4.8 oz, and needed higher calorie intake so after the first two weeks in the hospital they needed formula too. So I pumped ever few hours, and then added formula and then fed the baby. My youngest was so small, and struggled with latching even on a bottle because he was tongue tied (but not in a normal way that was fixable) so I had to feed him a bottle every 3 hours until he was 6 months old, even in the middle of the night. Ugh.

Don’t worry ! You’re not the only one girl.. I couldn’t breast feed either. I keep telling myself maybe I didn’t try hard enough and beat my self up over it. But we shouldn’t. 🥺 We did what we could.

Awwww same babe, I felt so horrible and still sometimes do that I couldn’t breastfeed but at the end of the day our babies are healthy and loved and that’s all that matters!

@@kellykiskotagan exactly!!! 🥰🥰 wow I didn’t expect my comment to even be seen/read by anyone! Thanks for commenting and sharing your feelings too 🥰

I’m not a mama yet but I just gotta say that reading everyones comments is so heartwarming! It’s been a minute since I’ve read such genuinely kind & supportive comments on KZfaq! No matter what obstacles we go through in life it’s ALWAYS nice knowing we aren’t the only ones! You all are incredible MAMAS! 💖

Best wishes to you especially for a safe delivery! God speed.

You can do this, Mama! You are literally MADE for it ❤️ Trust your Body and your Baby ✨ (My son was born April 1st! But 11 years ago already 🙂)

This I have to do because I feel like I got so much that I never used!

I gave birth to my son at 21 and my mother in law was there for him and my daughter 4 years later

I wish you all the best♥️You can do it girl♥️😊

Same here!

Same here🥺

Fenugreek seeds really help in milk production. In India we have a whole diet for post parfum milk production

Yes! I ended up with such an amazing nurse in the end and she felt like a mom. It was so nice.

I couldn't push, and had to have a c section because of medical reasons. Not pushing does not make us lesser.

You are still wonder woman in my eyes.

Yeah two c sections as well. Emergency c section with the first and then medical reasons for the second.

Yet we keep doing it 🤣😂

😂😂😂 JUDY 😂😭

🤣🤣🤣

😂

Exactly thissss!!

Oh yes and sometimes for life:) New friends:)

My midwife told me they’re gifts our babies give to us lol like thanks.. 😂

I had two C sections.. never had to push and still have them. Most women get them during pregnancy from the pressure of the baby. And most women have them for life.

Same!!!

What i learned in school is that some people can have Post Partum Blues, which seems to be what Desi described (off days, where you feel super bad, but it’s temporary and you get better) VS. Post-Partum Depression which is more serious and does NOT get better with time

Sending you lots of love ❤️❤️❤️

@@abbey-rose thank you ❤️

I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you all the best 🖤

Sending you love

I'm so sorry 😥😥😥

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