How I Stopped Being AFRAID of Making Mistakes in English

How I Stopped Being AFRAID of Making Mistakes in English - PODCAST

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REALLIFE ENGLISH PODCAST - EPISODE #396
CHAPTERS:
0:00 Intro
1:03 What's a way to reduce your fear of making mistakes?
4:00 Embrace the idea of acting like a beginner
6:04 How do you feel when talking to foreigners in your native language?
8:44 Fear of being judged
11:15 You never lose. You either win or learn.
13:05 Owning your mistakes
15:11 Connection over Perfection: Don't play the Perfectionism game
17:31 Try identifying your bad habits
21:00 Being present: Exercise mindfulness
22:55 Embrace the process
24:47 English as a life-changing adventure
27:21 Being a part of a global tribe
30:39 Ksenia's trip in Ukraine
34:39 Connecting with other people
36:19 Support us!
LINKS:
► Salma Hayek on Owning Your Mistakes
• Bystander Revolution: ...
► Huberman Lab Podcast - How to view STRESS as EXCITEMENT
• How to Enhance Perform...
Check out our other channels and website:
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@RealLifeEnglish1 15 күн бұрын

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@lulu-lx8zh 14 күн бұрын

"Your mistake it's a valuable tool for growth and for life,don't be afraid to make a mistake it's better than to do nothing and learn nothing and not evolve your greatest opportunity and If somebody's making fun of you because you made a mistake,don't go down becoause of it . "I really liked the clip of selma.

@RealLifeEnglish1 14 күн бұрын

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@aijukim-457 15 күн бұрын

I am from Turkey and the structure of English and Turkish is really different . that's why, I always make a lot of mistakes when I am speaking English but thanks to your podcasts , I try to deal with this problem . Thank you so much ❤

@RealLifeEnglish1 15 күн бұрын

Hey there aijukim, don't worry about the mistakes. Keep up the great work and soon you will become the confident and natural English speaker you're aiming to be! ❤️

@bewater5178 9 күн бұрын

그럼 터키어가 한국어와 어순이 같은가요?

@aijukim-457 9 күн бұрын

@@bewater5178 yes, turkish has a same word order with Korean .

@bewater5178 9 күн бұрын

@aijukim-dq9g7sq7d For real? I think Korean learn Turkish easily right?

@aijukim-457 9 күн бұрын

@@bewater5178 yeah , some people also say that Turkish people can easily learn Korean in a year .

@richardh.r.1589 15 күн бұрын

I am Mexican, I am really glad to hear in your podcast to Salma Hayek, thanks a bunch

@RealLifeEnglish1 15 күн бұрын

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@hoangtroc-skater6476 15 күн бұрын

I will learn this phrase " a bunch "

@leonardomesquita4801 11 күн бұрын

"Practice makes confidence", great lesson. Thanks 😊

@RealLifeEnglish1 8 күн бұрын

We’re glad that you enjoyed it, leonardomesquita. Thanks for watching our videos and learning with us! ❤️

@PaoloAntoine 15 күн бұрын

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@JessicaLee-ld3pz 14 күн бұрын

Thank you for encouraging me a lot. I'll keep in mind "practice makes confidence."😊

@RealLifeEnglish1 14 күн бұрын

We're glad to hear that our lesson was valuable for you. Keep up the great work! ❤️

@user-wn2ic9eb6s 14 күн бұрын

Wonderful teachers and wonderful episode .

@RealLifeEnglish1 14 күн бұрын

We’re glad that you enjoyed it. Thanks for watching our videos and learning with us! ❤️

@_kawya_7561 13 күн бұрын

I'm so elated to see this channel growing!!! I've been a huge fan of this channel ever since this channel begins. Now I'm at a level where I can communicate effortlessly.

@RealLifeEnglish1 13 күн бұрын

Amazing! So happy to hear that kawya! Thanks for your amazing support and, above all, your success! ❤️

@asther1991 6 күн бұрын

I must write down and quote this: A journey is a destination .

@RealLifeEnglish1 6 күн бұрын

Way to go! ❤

@codigodavidsc 15 күн бұрын

Hello guys, thanks for this episode and your useful tips, and yeah connection is better than perfection. Amazing job guys.

@RealLifeEnglish1 15 күн бұрын

Aww yeah! Most definitely! Thanks for learning with us. ❤️❤️

@HasanMahmud-mk5mm 10 күн бұрын

Its a tremendous podcast for all specially beginners, who want to speak English clearly.

@RealLifeEnglish1 8 күн бұрын

Thanks for your kind words, HasanMahmud! ❤❤❤

@gautamkumarverma2929 15 күн бұрын

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@RehanKhan-zv2vs 14 күн бұрын

Thank you very sir and madam to encourage us I really love the moon to listen this

@RealLifeEnglish1 14 күн бұрын

Our pleasure! Thank you for learning with us! ❤️

@faatushciise5426 14 күн бұрын

Thank you for the video it's really helpfull and inspire me for keep things up 😊

@RealLifeEnglish1 13 күн бұрын

Great to hear that our lesson was helpful for you! Thanks for learning with us. ❤️

@debduttapoddar5577 14 күн бұрын

Thanks a lot it's helpful and this is really improving my vocabulary and spoken

@RealLifeEnglish1 14 күн бұрын

Amazing to hear that our lessons help you improve your skills! Thanks for learning with us! ❤️

@debduttapoddar5577 13 күн бұрын

@@RealLifeEnglish1 Actually one thing I was forget to say that I'm from India 🇮🇳

@leandroleaofaula5411 13 сағат бұрын

I Loved this content. It's perfect for me. I'm feeling so confident right now. Thanks a lot.❤

@RealLifeEnglish1 9 сағат бұрын

Wow! We couldn't be happier to hear that! Thanks for your amazing support and for learning with us! ❤️

@user-eo7nw3np8t 15 күн бұрын

Fabulous conversation ❤thank you Couldn’t see earlier as I am not feeling well

@RealLifeEnglish1 14 күн бұрын

We’re glad that you enjoyed it. Thanks for watching our videos and learning with us! ❤️

@corinthiansfiel5510 15 күн бұрын

There's no doubt about embracing adventures and making mistakes; it's totally normal to me, and thanks to them, now I know way better than before, but I can't deny that it haunted me at the beginning. Bit by bit, I'm learning, with enjoyment, new stuff in English, though, and your video is very useful; it just clarifies some things in my head that I never thought I was confused about.

@RealLifeEnglish1 14 күн бұрын

Aww yeah. We couldn't agree more. Great to hear that our lesson was helpful for you! Thanks for learning with us. ❤️

@user-dg3eh9bc8y 4 күн бұрын

Your know i have never judge sombody or was afraid to use language by myself my problem that i dont remember dirent words in most important moments and its only practice can help Another way is try to teach and show or underline mistakes as you can do seen this comment but its only practice too

@caocheranofarinha 15 күн бұрын

Like dropped, good content as always.

@RealLifeEnglish1 15 күн бұрын

Aww yeah, thank you so much, caocheranofarinha! ❤️

@user-dg3eh9bc8y 4 күн бұрын

I tried to learn 5 languages but frencly spreakind i m confident only in English cos i can hear french but no practice and i dont know enouch words In German unfortunatly i cant hear And i have a dream to know it better Cos i really like languages If you want to be confident in language you must know whis who you speak And if you are comfortable with this person you will be comfortable in language Second you must know on what deep in language you can go And if you have no importance not to leave you comfort language zone I m really jealous to you cos i tried to learn spanish and wasnt too sucessful

@krishnarai2045 14 күн бұрын

I am from heaven and I want to learn english and want to speak english...

@dilshan5384 12 күн бұрын

It was a wonderful conversation ❤ I enjoyed it & listened to it several times. Now it's time to study with it 😊 Can you make a lesson on phrasal verbs & common English expressions? or maybe a lesson analysing a song or a clip.

@RealLifeEnglish1 12 күн бұрын

Aww yeah! We're thrilled to hear that you enjoyed our lesson and you're ready to study. Thanks for sharing your suggestions! You may check these lessons about music here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nZxmbMpk27GveWg.html and kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qtt7YNuhqJucYGg.html ❤️

@KadKad-pk8pe 12 күн бұрын

I think in general ppl overthink about mistakes. Ofc, especially if you are learner you are afraid of judging. Its naturally and i think each person need to overcome that. Its not easy but step by step. I ve learned english actively, seriously since last year. Iam not a beginner but still far away from ideal level. Currently i learn for B1 level. Iam happy because i can understand 95% of this podcast. I can even speak in english if i have enough time (at least few sec think about that what i want to say), but still i cant react fast and it frustrate me a lot :D. But its in common problem and i think its a proces.

@RealLifeEnglish1 11 күн бұрын

Hey there KadKad, thanks for writing! We're happy to hear you're taking your learning seriously and you've seen progress. Don't be harsh on yourself and keep up the great work and soon you will become the CONFIDENT and NATURAL English speaker you're aiming to be! ❤️

@hassansafaei4274 15 күн бұрын

Wow Izzy's voice is incredible nice

@RealLifeEnglish1 14 күн бұрын

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@sergioleyva9756 14 күн бұрын

I like this podcast so bad ❤💪💜

@RealLifeEnglish1 13 күн бұрын

Awesome! Thanks for learning with us, sergioleyva! ❤

@iamfinethankyouandryujin 12 сағат бұрын

Best teachers ever

@RealLifeEnglish1 9 сағат бұрын

Aww Yeah! We really appreciate your kind words and amazing support. Thanks a lot! ❤️

@negin_5784 15 күн бұрын

new video, thank u Ethan and thank u guys, please increase the time of your videos 🥺🙏🏻 i appreciate that, and about the video i could say that learning English is a long and funny journey and if you make that more interesting and have a passion about that, i promise u that you never ever geting tired of this. and about making mistake, dont afraid of. you should always write a comment underneath the every video you see. it help you so much to communicate and learning the writing. not matter how much paragragh or sentense you can write. and the end of my sentence i wanna say that the English so funny, not boring but it depends on you that how you can made it interesting and funny for yourself ♥

@RealLifeEnglish1 15 күн бұрын

Beautifully said, negin! Thanks for sharing this! ♥♥

@_kawya_7561 13 күн бұрын

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@negin_5784 13 күн бұрын

@@_kawya_7561 Hi there, of course i wanna have a practice partner and friend . how can i connect with you for practice?

@_kawya_7561 13 күн бұрын

@@negin_5784 can you email me? Is that comfortable for you?

@dilshan5384 11 күн бұрын

Ksenia said " It's so human" what is right definition of it? Looking at the context maybe it's like a weakness that is typical of people.

@alexandreleal7911 10 күн бұрын

Your definition is correct

@dilshan5384 9 күн бұрын

Most important words & expressions of this week's lesson - to overthink, to judge, without further ado, to reflect on sth, mindset, alert, to be observant, to underestimate, capacity, to lose faces, threat, to perceive sb, stance, to evolve, to go down, to mess up, powerless, so what?, break of pattern, shield, to be stressed-out, accurate, to be preoccupied, concerned, in one's favor, to figure out, to eliminate, destination, wholeheartedly, to be fascinating, to practice like you play, to take a trip, to go on a city/local tour, excursion, descent, gem, to lead to, to be obsessed with, day trip, outing, field trip/agent, extra, protagonist.

@RealLifeEnglish1 8 күн бұрын

Wow, thanks for sharing so many! You rock, dilshan. ❤

@FirasKadri-zd3hj 15 күн бұрын

I'am native speaker arabic

@Abdisa2024 15 күн бұрын

Why I can't speak like Ŝ .I love❤ her sound .

@dianach-fl7fw 15 күн бұрын

I don't know that when I listen to people who speak English, I feel like I understand it but I realise that they sounds mumbling to me. Am I pretend to understand it? I have no idea about this phenomenon

@RealLifeEnglish1 15 күн бұрын

Hey dianach, we highly recommend you check this lesson - it will be help you better understand this impression! ► Understand FAST ENGLISH: Learn the Secret of Native Speakers - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rNaaoqR4u82uaWw.htmlsi=8Y13_tHNkCYVLwVD

@vitaliyvovk9932 15 күн бұрын

Let me corect you Kseniia! Capital of Ukraine is Kyiv not Kiev!!! Maybe I didn't hear correctly?)

@kseniaaktash9242 14 күн бұрын

Yeah, probably I didn't pronounce it clearly 😊 of course, 6:05 it's Kyiv not Kiev 💙💛

@user-bq5vz6ux7f 11 күн бұрын

Ksenia's new hairstyle really suits her!

@alexisquesadaechevarria2289 14 күн бұрын

Where's Thiago?

@luisbolanos3524 15 күн бұрын

Justo special blessings forever coulden't be better

@RealLifeEnglish1 15 күн бұрын

Awesome! Thanks for watching and learning with us, luisblanos! ❤️

@user-dg3eh9bc8y 4 күн бұрын

You know Base on my own experience language is a flight Communication skills is other i can say that i saw a lot of people in net who have a millon contacts but do they really be connect with this people I can say that maybe the best connection lesson is to know do you really want to connect with sumbody and unfortunatly its only practice too

@user-bv9os7cx4p 11 күн бұрын

Could we open the limite area in China at Apple Podcast. I'm a English learner, I love to listen this chanl, But in China , It's not easy to listen any podcast at KZfaq(unless use VPN). So I hope we can heart RealLifeEnglish Podcast in Apple Podcast.Thanks a lot.

@RealLifeEnglish1 11 күн бұрын

Hey there, thanks for writing! You can open to our podcast lessons on the RealLife English app! We have tons of people from China who joined us! If you need further assistance, please write us at fluencyteam@reallifeglobal.com - we will be happy to help! ❤️

@JacsonFreitas18 10 күн бұрын

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@JohnRR89 15 күн бұрын

I feel what overcomes me is the fear of making mistakes, I know what I want to say but when feel it's likely to make a mistake I get blocked. 😢

@RealLifeEnglish1 14 күн бұрын

Hi John. It's challenging but keep practicing and with time you will feel more comfortable. Thanks for learning with us! ❤️

@korteliawalli1164 9 күн бұрын

I really like the app and the podcast cast of real life English but I got really some troubles of speaking with the other non native speakers some of them start sexual harassment , and start to ask me to show my face . I felt too scary . I just want to be honest with you guys becouse I found this podcast is great way to learn English so please can I. Have another way to practice speaking without feeling afraid of having this types of issues .

@RealLifeEnglish1 8 күн бұрын

Hey there korteliawalli, Thanks for writing. We're so sorry to hear that! I want you to know that 99% of our users are learners just like you - people who are willing to practice, LIVE and ACTIVATE their English, make friends, learn about other cultures and share their own, and so on. We also take swift action on any misbehaving! Please, write us at appfeedback@reallifeglobal.com so we can assist you!

@anasteishn_ 2 күн бұрын

You know, guys, I once said "cock" instead of "rooster" because I forgot how it's called and for some unknown reason decided to bring this word from french, wich is "coq". And then, a moment later, I realised what I just said😅 So now I think, I will never ever be afraid of making mistakes

@boomerangerful 15 күн бұрын

Unless you're aiming for a band 9 on ielts, yes

@ahmedhussen6390 15 күн бұрын

I am Subscribed you channel real English 6 years before and until now I'm beneficial from this channel so why you not invite me to talk with you on you KZfaq channel. I want to talk more things I benefit from this you channel and I want to address the difficult I get on English learn and how you channel help me.thanks .I'm you students Ahmed hussen from Ethiopia. Thanks .

@RealLifeEnglish1 14 күн бұрын

Hi Ahmed! We're thrilled to hear you've been enjoying our channel for so long. We'd love to connect with you. Write to us at hello@reallifeglobal.com. Thank you for learning with us! ❤️

@ahmedhussen6390 14 күн бұрын

OK. thanks will connect with you now.

@AndriiYevtushenko-cl5lc 13 күн бұрын

Glory to Ukraine 🇺🇦

@IkranMclahi 14 күн бұрын

@user-dg3eh9bc8y 4 күн бұрын

Stress never be good cos its very bad for your heath if you are in stress for a preaty long perion it could be unreversibe problem for you in future And you saying that is good only because now you are in a comfort zone If you dont beleve me try to read specual literature Of corse sometimes we all in stress zone its life but it never be good for you if you are in it for a long period

@RealLifeEnglish1 4 күн бұрын

Hey there, thanks for writing! I believe there's a misunderstanding - we do agree that stress can be bad! But it can also help us take that necessary step outside our comfort zone and face our fears and challenges. ;)

@Hanna2024-q3s 3 күн бұрын

i so proud 👏 that Ksenia is from Ukrain. I was really surprised when i knew this : the best international chanel in KZfaq with ucrainian partisipant 🎉

@RealLifeEnglish1 Күн бұрын

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