People and the media need to get a grip, you are NOT responsible for your sister and her husband's actions. If the police and CPS couldn't do anything the multiple times they went to the home, what do people expect you to do? Your sister is just that, your sister, she is responsible for herself. And you are not her. You carry on being you, we support you and your family

Bonnie this is your channel, your life, your story. Don’t let people make you fear telling YOUR story. You aren’t obligated to tell your story but we have the privilege of learning about you and your family and seeing you grow. I hope you find peace, I hope you and your family heal on this long journey ❤

I was always a quiet viewer, but i have the need to say some kind words under every video since this happened. Stay strong. This is YOUR story. And only YOU can tell the story, nobody else. Surround yourself with good people, who make you feel good. ❤

Such a heart wrenching story of abuse, and unfortunately it's horrendous for all involved but those precious, innocent children is where the focus needs to be ❤

Dear Bonnie, You have a whole community that supports you and your family. I can understand that you are afraid of being judged but you have done nothing wrong. I am so glad to see you and wish you the best. Give our regards to the rest of the family. We miss them!❤

This just proves that no one knows what your family (Griffiths) has really been through over the past month. I’m always thinking about you all and hoping your strength continues. How blessed it is to have such a strong, supportive family. ❤

Never have I felt the need to support a channel SO MUCH! We love you Bonnie. Keeping your chin up. Sending love and prayers your way x

I can’t get over how generous you are being with your time and willingness to share what you can. You are really taking on the role of leader in your family during this, and I have to imagine everyone really appreciates you saying what I suspect everyone is thinking. My favorite videos of yours have always been the ones where you sit down and just talk to the camera. You’ve honestly been preparing for these hard conversations throughout your whole time on KZfaq, and just didn’t realize it. ❤

The fact that you stopped those sleep overs saved your own kids from suffering the same way...Im so sorry that your family is suffering. It never easy to deal with something like this.

I love that even though you, your siblings and mom and dad all live far away from eachother, that your still able to find comfort in eachother and lean on them. I think about you guys often and just pray that you feel the love and comfort from us all. ❤️

I appreciate how open you are with your kids. So many parents shelter their children. We've always been open and honest and answered any questions best we can with our 11 year old. And if it's something we don't think he should know we just say "you aren't quite old enough yet to understand"

Bonnie, in 2015 I was 19 and taking an insanely difficult chemistry class at UC Berkeley. Your videos that summer got me through. I remember thinking, I wanna be in love just like Bonnie and Joel. I’m 27 now, and I periodically watch those old videos as a comfort, I also found my own Joel . I used to watch Ruby’s videos too.. but you just brought a light and I was drawn to you. What happened was so tragic, and I think about you and your family every day. I know you guys will make it through. As a doctoral student in clinical psychology, my advice is you guys as a family really need to support each other. This is not the time for blame, but for healing and a way to move forward.. not only for yourselves , but for those innocent kids who were abused. We support you and your family here. ❤❤

I'm glad that your kids listened to their guts and knew that the situation was weird. It shows that you are doing a good job raising your kids by teaching them to listen to their own intuition.

I had a cousin that had some horrible issue and when we heard about it, we felt frozen and powerless for weeks. We as a family could only go to each other for support. We were embarrassed and ashamed to talk about it to anyone. I cannot imagine it being on Social Media and the National News Outlets. You Bonnie, are so brave, compassionate, empathetic and strong! You always have been and that is why I started watching your channel. You have always been “real”. There are so many family vloggers that just show a false life, only the fake versions of life, you have shown reality. Struggles, good times and, tons of growth. You have such an amazing family, your kids are absolutely wonderful, you and Joel are amazing parents, your parents are amazing grandparents and I role model me being a new grandparent after them! Joel’s parents are awesome grandparents! I do know who you are and have since Boston was 2 years old. I have laughed with you and cried with you. You have gotten me through tons of surgeries, Sepsis, which almost killed me and my daughter’s infertility. Now we have a beautiful, funny, adorable 20 month old granddaughter that I kiss and love and make her do the happy face, sad face, grumpy face like you did with Boston! I love your honesty and transparency. You are amazing. You have a lifelong friend in me. Even though you don’t know me, know please, I support you and your family and pray for your entire family, including Ruby.

I just have one thing to say. Ruby and Kevin weren't good parents even before Jody came into the picture. I don't want Ruby's trial is all about Jody did everything. They are (Ruby & Kevin) just as guilty as Jody. This is just my opinion

You are a warrior Bonnie. Cling to God in these trials. Rooting for your family!❤️

Bonnie ❤ Your transparency is much appreciated. You are truly an amazing person. Your entire family is much loved despite everything happening. We all ache for you guys, it is so emotional. I've been following your channel since the very beginning - I will never stop watching you. Please send hugs to your family but especially to your parents. I can't even begin to imagine their pain. We love you all, we pray for you all, we stand by you all.

It’s So GOOD to see you again. You’re in my prayers 💕

It's nice that the kids knew about it with you guys, at the same time. I agree that it was better for them to know instead of wondering about it. Thank you for sharing that with us. 💜

Just remember, with all of the chaos going on around you, dont forget to remind yourself just how awesome you are. We are all here for you. ❤ sending love.

You are ALL in my prayers. I do worry so about your mom and dad and please let them know they are loved and prayed for too.

Those feelings you have described : talking in circles trying to make things make sense, staying together not talking, not being able to hang up, the constant confusion, the constant crying…. I know these moments too well, they are horrible, you guys aren’t alone and you are incredibly lucky to have each other to support one another. These feelings shouldn’t be felt if you are isolated.

Bonnie, the way you have handled this situation is truly incredible. There’s a whole community behind you all and it’s so important to not bottle up emotions. Sending all the love and support from Australia.

Very proud of you for separating your family and protecting them from this. This is clearly a cult she is in, she was trying to persuade you of awful things that weren't true, to plant seeds of doubt in your mind. So strong of you! You got out of the mindset very early, good on you Bonnie

Another message from someone who never responded before: I didn’t ask the question, but thanks for telling us. However hard it was to share, it’s good to know how you got to know and experienced things. And I agree, kids are better at dealing with truth (without a capital!) than we adults often think. 💪🏻 Dear Bonnie, I think about you and your family so much. As a long time follower, as a survivor of childhood abuse, as a fellow Christian, this all breaks my heart and I’m glad to know you can feel our support, even from strangers. Crying is a blessing in disguise. I couldn’t for years after my childhood and still can’t, so I know it’s a blessing from God, to help us heal. As for your parents, I could always feel your mum’s love through the screen. As if she gave us all a big hug. So I’m glad she’s getting some of that in return. And I hope she knows this is not her fault or a reflection of her as a parent. My heart breaks for your parents so much and I hope they’re okay. Please let them and your sisters know we care, and will wait patiently until they’re ready ❤ As for the people we can’t talk about: yes, it will get better. It will take time, but with true unconditional love and proper therapy, healing is possible. Know you’re in my prayers ❤❤❤

Bonnie, I don’t know how to put it into words well enough but I want you to know how much of a comfort you are to so many. The events that we’ve learned about are so horrific, yet you walking us through your emotions and feelings is comforting in a way. You just have this peace when you talk and it truly makes me believe that everything will one day be ok. I cry just thinking about the pain that you ALL have been through. As someone who has watched you all since 2016, I can’t tell you how much I appreciate you opening up to us like this. Thank you 💕

It's weird to say to someone I don't know (and probably weird for you to hear from someone you don't know), but I'm so proud of the way your family has come together for each other. Stay strong, stay honest, and continue to hold onto each other.

I really respect that you were already taking steps to protect your kids from the madness that you saw developing. The people accusing you of wrongdoing seem to have no experience dealing firsthand with a high level narcissist. Trying to manage a close relationship with someone who is willing to lie, gaslight, manipulate, and set family members against each other is mind bogglingly difficult. And the fact that you two had already been close before she changed probably makes it even harder. This is a huge mess for you to navigate and you’re doing a great job slogging through it. Also - of course you’re here talking about your in your videos. That’s why I’m here, to hear your perspective on things. You’re not a news network. Thanks for continuing to share your thoughts.

I am so grateful for your candor throughout this whole thing. When the news hit, I was truly shocked and can't imagine how it hit you. I truly have so much love for you, your family, your parents and I am grateful that you are finding a way to continue to share with us and bring us with you through what must be the hardest time of your life. We love you Bonnie xxx

YOu did the right thing sharing with your kids. Thank you for sharing with us. We have been praying for you and your family. You Ellie Juile and your folks have been in my prayers. KEEP THE FAITH SISTER!! Much love from Kansas!

I’m sure it’s difficult to grasp, but there is video evidence of Ruby and Kevin being terrible parents before Jodi was in the picture. I know this will be said- “you can’t judge a parent from what you see in a short video clip. You don’t know what they are really like.” However, no amount of surrounding context can justify withholding food from children and using hunger as punishment. That single example (though there are many more available) is enough for me. Even aside from the very obvious instances, children of family vlog channels are going to grow up and finally prove how exploitative even the most “wholesome” family channels are.

So thankful you have your inner circle and community walking out this journey with you. Continuing to lift each of you up in prayer as you navigate through ❤️

we are praying for your family! I have followed Ellie since the beginning and then all of you once you joined in and I commend you all on your strength and how caring you are towards one another. I do not keep up with many people on social media but have always loved your family. You are amazing parents and you have amazing parents. We can’t control others actions, all we can do is pray. Don’t listen to what others post or think, and take anytime you need when you need it. Here for you ❤❤

So proud of you. This is your form of therapy, we’re here to listen and support

You've been in my heart lately. Sending hugs and healing to you and your family♡

I so appreciate this video! You all feel like family to me and have been since Ellie and Jared started their channel. I also experienced being told about my aunt getting arrested when I was a kid, and having my cousin stripped away from my family. You, Julie, and Ellie are handling this the best way that you and your family can! I am grateful for the updates to rest assured that you all are alright. ❤ I hope you all are feeling the love that your viewers have for you. Know that you are loved.

I’m so proud of you for coming out and speaking and letting your viewers know what happened from your perspective. I’m just so glad to see you vlogging again. Hopefully each day gets a little easier. Continuing thoughts and prayers to your entire family.

Hi Bonnie, I went through a family trauma and I was so grateful my parents were honest. The only thing I'd change is having counseling when it was going on. It is a lot for a little brain to grasp, and having someone untangle all the craziness going on would've saved years of confusion. Just a tip❤️

I will forever love Bonnie and the person she is. I use to wish I was apart of her family when I was going through a lot of abuse and the videos actually helped me and made me so happy when I was so alone ❤

How is Ellie, Julie, Beau and your parents coping with this? Glad you are moving forward with life here!❤❤❤❤

It is good to see you talk through your grief. I hope we (your viewers) are helping you and your family. I thinks about your parents all the time. Please let them know prayers are being said for them. ❤️

Sweet Bonnie, I totally understand taking on the feelings and emotions of those around me, whether it’s a commercial on tv, a friend, a family member etc…it’s hard and can be so draining, especially when you’re personally invested. You and Joel have handled this so well with your children, siblings and parents. My hearts hurts for all of you. Love and prayers. 🙏🏻❤️

Is Ellie okay? We’ve heard from you and Julie but her silence is scary. I know she’s battled migraines and I often thought hers were due to blood pressure.

Bonnie. You are a great mom. I’m so shocked about the 8 passengers situation. I was a huge fan of the channel and I don’t know what to say. I’m angry and upset that this has happened. Praying for you and your family. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Bonnie I have never watched you before but I can feel what your going through. I have been in the same situation but not on a global spotlight. I felt such guilt from not knowing not doing more. Sometimes it’s hard to realize you can’t change or control someone else’s free agency. All we can do is live the best life we can and focus on raising our own children as healthy as we can.

your voice and mannerisms are like Mom's. Your attitude is positive and you are very compassionate, Lady!

We met at CVX live 2018. You were so kind to talk to me for 30 minutes.

A few minutes into the video I realized that the ruby in trouble is your guys' ruby! Oh I'm so sorry your family is going through this. I hope all those babies find a safe place to heal. And that your family is able to heal from this.

You are so brave Bonnie! Thank you for sharing, please continue with your life, we miss your laughter, your recipes, we want to know how your new house is going. Let go of this situation and trust in God, everything will be fine. I ask God to protect you and yours always. A sincere hug!❤

Bonnie, it amazes me how extraordinarily brave and strong you are!! I feel like you have taken on the role of "mom" while your mom isn't able to be here in the states with you all during this very difficult time. I feel like your videos don't just speak for you and Joel but also for your parents and other siblings as well. I can't say thank you enough for being so vulnerable and continuing to share your lives with your viewers through all of this. You are a bright light that continues to shine even in the darkness. Never forget how proud your viewers are of you and how much we love and support your whole family through all of this. I don't know you personally but I have watched your videos since before you were pregnant with Lincoln and I truly feel like you are family (hope that doesn't seem creepy! LOL). Just know your viewers are supporting you from the sidelines!!! Stay strong girl!!

Praying for all of y’all, I love how genuine you are and you are NOT to blame for anything your sister does!! 🙏

You’re all in my thoughts and prayers! You’re doing amazing ❤❤

Bonnie, you are a breath of fresh air and a voice of reason during your family’s very difficult and trying times. Keep doing you! I have watched you and your entire family since the beginning and anyone who knows you all knows the truth of it all. My heart bleeds for you all. God bless little Russell for being BRAVE and running for help. Please know I am praying for you all. I agree with your kids, why do y’all have to stop being you and filming your lives through this. I wish Julie and Ellie would start posting again in their time. I hope your mom and dad are doing ok through this. I hope sweet Shari is handling her role and responsibility and care for her siblings too! Peace and love to you all!

I can't imagine the pain you all are feeling. I've been worried about you all, and mom and dad. Please tell them we care and pray for them and you all.

You don't owe anyone an explanation. Thank you for sharing how this has affected all of you. As parents we must remain vigilant, never taking our eyes off them until they reach 18. Joel and you are absolutely brilliant parents, we would be blind not to see how much you love your children. They have manners which in this day and age is a huge plus!! I have been keeping you all in my prayers Bonnie 🙏 ❤️ This too shall pass. Keep on keeping on Hollein family, we love you. ❤️ 🙏🇮🇪

Saying Ruby lied about you and your family, just reinforces people disbelieving the awful things she accused her young son of. Thank you for this video.

Very well said. You’re very brave to share your thoughts and feelings through all of this. Sending lots of love and support your way! ❤

So very insightful on what you guys have been dealing with behind the scenes, and I'm very sure it's beyond heartbreaking. I truly believe that Jodi, although Ruby is a participating party, Jodi is truly sickening and my heart aches for everyone involved that have been impacted. I truly know we love Bonnie and her beautiful family and please don't allow the few that don't know you guys or your family to make you stay silent and not continue to show your precious family and happenings.

Having watched you for many years, i feel like I know and understand how this is impacting you personally. You mourn with those that mourn. My heart hurts for you and your family. You are so strong and brave. Bonnie, I know He will heal your heart, He will comfort you and He will bring you peace. He will not fail you and His hand is extended to you ❤ we love you and support you. Take all the time you need ❤

Keep staying strong. You have lots of amazing support.

You got this girl!! We love you Bonnie and the WHOLE family!

Bonnie, you are a matriarch. Your words and actions are those of a leader of great wisdom, caring, faith, and mental toughness. Your suffering through these life trials will help you help others throughout your life. I will continue to pray for you and all of your family. Much love from this grandmother. ❤

Thank you for sharing your journey and thoughts through all this. I send you, mom & dad and your siblings a great warm hug. This will be over and the kids will come out of this with the support and love from the family! 💛💚🧡❤

Further down the line when there is healing I would love to hear how you manage mental health and dealing witg your sister after. Because I tried to think how I would approach my sister if she did what Ruby did...I mean she did this horrid thing but it's still your sister you know? You grew up with this human being, you laugh, you played, took baths together. I would be angry and confused but I would still want answers and conversations with my sister. I would be hurt for the kids and seek to protect them from my sister, but I would need something still from my sister. I dont know if I am expressing myself right. But I know I wouldnt stop loving her

Praying for your healing bonnie! The kids are in my prayers too❤

I am so glad you have not kept the kids in the dark, they would have found out at school and that would be so much worse. Keeping them in the loop as things are happening shows a lot of respect for them. They might be children, but they do understand and will find out either way. They know they can trust you and will trust you all their lives because of it. I am so proud of you, Bonnie. I hope, given the circumstances, that you are having a good day today. Thank you for sharing your story. Sending my love.💕

this whole situation is so heartbreaking 💔 ruby was the first of your family that i found on youtube back in 2016, and then shortly after i fell in love with your whole family. you guys were my comfort during a really hard time in my life and it felt like you guys were also my family. i genuinely felt sick really really sad when i heard about everything. i’m so proud of you for how you’ve been handling this and i just want you to know how grateful i am for you. sending love your way always❤

I can't imagine all you guys have been through. I am so sorry. As a mother, I have often thought about your precious parents.....finding this out so far away. ❤

So nice to see you! Praying for you and your family and your beautiful children and that you can find peace in the love that surrounds you ❤️

I think it’s amazing that you can bundle up the strength to say what you want, because that’s what you should do. You deserve that freedom period.

Are you ur mom and dad ok. Just havet seen them post for a while. Just making sure they are ok and well

Good to see you. No matter what you say, people are going to put their spin on it. It’s very sad. I worry about your mom and dad and pray they are doing ok. I miss seeing your family’s videos. Prayers for you all. ❤

Thank you for speaking your truth and being so open on what you all experienced. I’m so glad you’ve continued to post. You can’t let Jodi (and Ruby through Jodi’s predatory, psychotic influence) ruin your lives, like she has done to so many other families already.

I’m just here to say that I miss your sweet parents and I want them to know they are missed!

People grossly underestimate emotions and their impact on reality, and vice versa. When something unimaginable occurs your brain is literally altered. You feel more threatened due to what your reality is and has been. Don’t be too hard on yourself. You are going to feel “different”. Sure healing will occur but it’s okay to embrace your new reality, the good and bad:) Lots of love you you and the family ❤

Oh Bonnie ❤ I don't usually comment on youtube videos, but your family means so much to me. I grew up in a very dysfunctional home and watching your family over the years has gotten me through so much and taught me so many things about what loving relationships look like (I'm getting married to my love in a month!), what a family can look like, how to find your voice and speak up, how to make a home. Thank you for always staying true to yourself and what feels right, and for speaking about how invested and emotional we can become about people we've never met. I used to watch Ruby's videos, too, and it's been confusing to watch what has happened over the last few years. I can only imagine the pain you're going through. Sending love to you and Joel, your children, your parents, and of course, the children involved.

My mom’s sister did something very similar and wanted to not be in our family anymore. I remember my mom telling us a similar thing. I’m so sorry, Bonnie.

I'm so glad those kids have a great extended family to fall on and to love them. I pray everyone is able to heal from this in the future ❤

Love ya “Aunt Momma” ❤ you have great kids.

I respect you so much being so honest with your kids through it all. Praying for your family.

Bonnie , I have been watching your parents for many years. I love your family.I have kept you all in my prayers. I know this is difficult especially since you share your lives with so many people. Taking that leap to allow people you dont know into your private family comes with good and bad. Some will understand others will condemn. I hope you all can remain strong in your family and come to terms with the situation. God heals all wounds and turns what was meant for evil into good. May God bless you all.

Late to the comments, but I can’t express how much of a warrior you are. That is an extremely hard situation to go through and I am proud of how you distanced yourself and your family from Rubi and her husband. As a long time fan, we’re all here to support you ❤️

Bonnie let the tears flow. It’s part of the healing journey. Let it all out. Praying for you all. You will get through this.

I really appreciate your candidness, Bonnie. And as much as people want to criticize, bottom line is-you are helping people. I really like how you explained that you and the kids learned and digested all of this together and it being better for you rather than a throwing all of the information at them at one time. And likewise, not shielding them from what was going on. There were times in my childhood where I felt so lost at what was so very clearly affecting my entire family and I didn’t know what to do or how to help or act and it bothered me so much, but i was always told “this is grown up stuff”. Even then, I never considered being able to be open with my kids and processing everything together (obviously, within reason). This is definitely now something I’d like to do if ever in a “situation” again. Thank you for your thoughts and insight.

I love when Bonnie says "all the way ready" it reminds me of when she used to say that to her kids when they were little. I love the way she speaks. It's very gentle and nice.

Love you Bonnie! Please continue your videos and Vlogs! You did nothing wrong, it’s your sister I don’t know why you have haters when you have nothing to do with her. Love you and your videos❤️ I been watching you for years!!!!

It’s so good to see you posting again! We missed you and I hope your siblings also return to vlogging! God gives battles to his strongest soldiers and you know how hard your family has fought the past three years!

I’m so glad to see you again! Praying for you and your family! You will get through this! We are here with you and by your side 100% of the way! ❤❤❤

You are worth it and DON'T LISTEN TO RUBY SHE DOES NOT HAVE ANY RIGHT TO BE IN YOUR BRAIN you are beautiful and very strong 🫶 greetings from Ireland 🇮🇪🫶

You are in your new home❤❤❤, how I've missed YOU and your FAMILY, SENDING PRAYERS TO YOUR WHOLE FAMILY WE LOVE YOU, WELCOME BACK.

It is so good to see you again and to hear the saws in the background! Your family together will pull through this! Sending big higs!

I started watching you or listening during my morning commute to college every morning. And than turned into getting home and watching the voices I listened to for 2 hours a day. You are a special human bonnie. Your entire family is. I'm sorry one bad egg is causing issues for you right now. Know you are a huge part of my routine and I love you guys ❤

I just wanted to tell you that I respect that you feel good when you have your makeup on. Today you look so natural and I want to tell you how beautiful you are naturally without your makeup. Heavenly Father is with you and your loved ones during this trial. His Spirit is with you as you figure out and observe your multiple feelings you are experiencing. You are loved and we appreciate you sharing. Please tell your Mom and Dad that we love them too and miss them. ❤❤ Hugs from Fort Myers.

I am just praying for healing and peace for this family. I can't wait until you can all spoil little R and E again with LOVE.

Glad everyone is supporting each other. Will Ellie be making any more vlogs? Will your parents be returning home early because of this ? I can't even imagine how hard this must be for them, being so far away. ❤

You're so strong Bonnie! Keep on going 💪🏻 my whole family is sending you love 💕

I have been praying daily for your family and also wanted to say.. that I listened very intently in conference for words that could help or comfort your family in this situation. I heard a coulpe of talks that stood out. I heard a talk about THE source of truth that we should turn to. I also heard a talk that answered the question you asked a couple videos ago about how people respond or react to challenges in their lives. ..and who they should get or obtain comfort from. I hope all of this makes sense. I dont know your family IRL..but I also have watched and grown to love your family..and feel as if I do know you. I live in Burley and think about your fam as I drive past your favorite RV park that is close to my daughters house. Though I know your fam is not there.. I just have a feeling of connection with your family. As a pulled out the cookbook and looked through the recipes and pictures that are in it, I also contemplate how things have come to this. I KNOW there is a purpose for everything. I feel..over time, that your entire family can and will be made whole and look forward to following you along the way..even if we never meet. I am prayerful daily also regarding your parents. I have a son who is 9 months into his mission...as a service missionary and cannot even imagine how they would deal with it..being all the way in Serbia. I dont know if they stayed out or came home.. but please let them know that they are in prayers.. either way, PLEASE!! Sorry for the long comment..just wanted to let you know you are in thoughts and prayers.. and also on our temple prayer roll.

I think the best thing to do so we can heal is to not just push something aside , in order for us as humans to heal we need to talk about it even if it is the worst thing. And also cry, cry as much as you need and don’t feel ashamed for giving yourself that comfort, I hope you and your family is doing well we all are here for you and love you! Prayers… 🙏🏻 💜

I’m so proud of you and your family! I was worried for you all, and gave advice from my experiences. I don’t usually give advice unless people ask for it, it was given to you from a loving place. Peace and love! Very proud of you all!

Prayers, LOVE and warm thoughts for you and your whole family, in these difficult times! Bonnie , you are strong and brave - thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings! ❤️❤️