Saludo ako kay Toni for not asking a lot of questions about Jelai's ex. She focused more on questions that will bring out life lessons, faith in God and self love answers. ❤️

Thank you Ate Toni sa comfortable, masaya at makabuluhang kwentuhan 🤍 I love u Thank you sa mga nakinig samin. And at the end of the day I still want to be proud of the way I risked my love and soul, no hesitations from the past. I learned so much from it and I am grateful, thankful for the woman that i've become 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 There are no regrets in life, just many lessons. Let’s all be happy and excited to see what the future holds for us 🤍🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

when Jelai said na mas gugustuhin na lang niya mag-isa na hindi umiiyak kesa sa may kasama na pinapaiyak ka lang...I felt it. This interview made me realized that happy and lifelong marriage is not for everyone, even if you did your best to save the marriage. You are an inspiration Jelai and Toni G as always.

"When you started loving yourself, you become whole again. You don't need the love of a man, for you to be whole. YOU make yourself whole." Madam Toni really have the best words of wisdom.

"Ang Happiness hindi dapat naka depend sa ibang tao." - Jelai I felt that.

Kung mapapanood man ni Jon to, sobrang laki ng sinayang mo. Si Jelai maganda na, totoo at loyal pang magmahal.

"Yung masaya ka pero hindi stable, walang peace", "Mas okay na lang ako mag-isa ako pero hindi ako umiiyak" - These hit me... :(

Toni is right. If a person truly loves you he/she will never intentionally hurt you. ♥️

i felt this line “if God allows you to let go of that person but you refuse it, he will let you get hurt so you don’t have a choice, but to let go”

Sa lahat ng interviews ni Jelai, ito yung napakagandaaa. ✨ Napaka deep pala talaga ni Jelai, lalo ko syang hinangaan. Andami kong natutunan. In God's perfect time, Jelai will find her partner, Amen! ❤

the saddest thing about betrayal is that it never comes from enemies, it comes to the people who you trust the most...

When toni said: "IF YOU CAN'T VALUE YOUR SELF , YOUR LOVED ONES WILL NOT GIVE YOU VALUE TOO🥺" LOVE YOURSELF FIRST❤️ 💯🤍🙏🏼

Dati, I was wishing for a JoLai comeback. Now, I'm just praying for Jelai's true love.

"Love does not hurt. If it's hurting you, its not Love." - Toni G.

Pinapanood ko pa din to till now. 95% of healing na ako... Thank you for sharing. sobrang nakakatulong. story of my life tlg ung story mo Jelai! Happy for you and looking forward for my own happiness. :)

Kaya talaga dapat mahalin muna natin ang sarili natin at mag grow sa relationship unang una kay Lord. Para hindi tayo mamislead pag dating sa love. Dahil ang tunay na pag mamahal ay malinaw at nagmumula lang kay Lord. Thank you Ms. Jelai for your life lessons. I wish you all the happiness that you deserve in life. Godbless. ♥️

That hits hard when Jelai said, “I believe that if God wants you to let go of someone and you refused to do it, He will allow you to get hurt over and over again…until you have no choice but to fnally let go of the person.” 💔 #SoTrue

We need to protect this woman at all cost. Pure love is so rare these days.

Toni was right sa pagvalue ng sarili. I always hear from my current boyfriend na *"Even though we are in a relationship, do not forget to value yourself."* I had a relationship na forced yung sex sakin and pinapatawad ko pag nag sorry siya kasi iniisip ko na baka magbago pa. Tiniis ko for 2 years kasi hindi naman kami lagi magkasama pero kahit kasi nasa bahay kami ng parents ko nanghihipo siya. Hindi na niya ako nirespeto and at the same time hindi na rin niya nirespeto parents ko. One day, nagising nalang ako na 'ayoko na, di ko na deserve to'.

You're right Jelai....prayer is the greatest answer...it is always from Him that you can rely on❤️🙏🙏🙏

Lord, this girl really deserves someone who will keep her happy, secured, and loved for the rest of her life, please give her that someone who will treat her like a princess and a queen 🥺❤️😘 iloveyou ate jelai.

I was literally holding my tears while watching this. “Love should not hurt, Love does not, if it’s hurting you it’s not love” - Toni G.

Forgiving does not mean to bring that person back again to your life who constantly hurt you. You can forgive and continue loving that person but never let them in to your life again. It is sad that we have to hit rock bottom to realize and to find our self worth but obviously on Jelai's part and for some people who went through the same path, it is worth experiencing when you find yourself and happiness at the end of the tunnel. Always go with peace. Decisions are difficult to make but if it doesn't give you peace, don't pursue it. God bless you Jelai. You are beautifully and wonderfully made. We don't know exactly what's ahead but I can say, God was watching you. You were stubborn, and it seemed that you know what was going on but for sure God was and is with you, here you are, you found yourself, you got back up! I hope you find more happiness. I apologize for this long comment. I am just a mom of a daughter who sometimes worry and at the same time trust God for her future.

I'm crying while watching this. I felt how pure she is, she doesn't deserve all those pains. We all don't deserve.

Finally! Jelai Andres is an amazing woman. Maganda, Matalino, Mayaman, Mabait, Family Oriented pero iniwan parin at niloko. Hindi totoo na kapag ganyan ang personality mo hindi kana iiwan, meron lang talagang tao na hindi marunong makuntento. I'm glad to see na happy na si Jelai sa life nya, sabi nga nila pag may nawala may darating na mas maganda. God has a plan always! Keep on fighting Jelai!

Another lesson I've learned " Love is supposed to make you feel WHOLE, not to tear you apart " 🥺.

Bakit ngayon ko lang napanood tong video na to ? 😔 Dami kong lesson na natutunan from this video. I should love myself more than giving love to someone else that doesnt know your worth. ❤❤ Thank you ate Toni sa lahat ng mga interviews mo, halos lahat yun may moral lessons ❤ I love you both❤ Keep strong always Jelai ❤😍

My sister brought me here cause i was in pain too, thanks Jelai for sharing your story, u r such an inspiration..

I remember nung nandito pa si Jelai sa Qatar, sobrang sikat na siya dito. But still, she's one of the most approachable personalities na nandito na walang ere. I admire how Jelai is honed by time and experiences. God bless you, Jelai!

Thank you for this I can share it to a friend who experienced this kind of love. Thank you miss toni such a blessing!!

i'm so proud of you JELAI ❤️ I admire you for being so strong and tough. What a wonderful woman you become.

the way she can still laugh and smile while telling the most painful story in her life🥺 u can tell that Jelai Andres is a really strong person

Thank you for reminding me that no matter how painful some things could get.. you'll feel better one day, it's enough hope to fight again 💖

Thank you Ms. Toni and Ms. Jelai for sharing this 💞

Toni really knows when, how or what to ask questions. She's a sensitive, strong pal out there. An independent woman herself!!!

”love should not hurt, love should not suppose to hurt you, if its hurting you its not love,” felt that

Im in tears. You are such a strong person Jelai. God bless your pure heart. May you find the love you deserve ❤️

I've never known how profound this lady is until this interview. 🌱🙏

When Toni said, "Love should not hurt, love does not hurt. If it's hurting you, it's not love. Love is supposed to heal you, love is supposed to comfort you, love is supposed to give you peace. Love is supposed to give you security.", I felt that.

"Ate naniniwala ako na kapag gusto ni Lord na i-let go mo yung someone pero ni-refuse mo, hahayaan ni Lord na masaktan ka ng masaktan para wala ka ng ibang choice kundi i-let go yung tao" -Jelai Andres, 2022. I can relate! Ganitong-ganito yung naranasan ko last year. Yung pain na alam mong hindi mo naman talaga deserve pero kailangan mong maramdaman kasi yun na yung huling phase para pakawalan mo yung taong matagal ng gusto ni Lord na pakawalan mo. For everyone na nasa ganitong sitwasyon, wag ka ng mag-hesitate. Let go and Let God. You did your part, as a lover, and as a partner, there will be no regrets when you let yourself to choose what is best for you this time and please Let God do the rest for. you.

I love the way Toni does interview unlike the others her style was just let the person relay their own story that’s why the whole interview was clear and amazing

The pain she experienced,,makes her strong right now... Time heals all wound,,, Shes happy and good looking now, it sees in her eyes....🤗🤗🤗

Naiyak ako sayo jelai 😭😭 "Hahayaan ka ni lord na masaktan ng masaktan hanggang sa wala ka ng choice kundi i let go" ify jelaiiii 😭

The love of a genuine and kind woman, the struggles that she face makes her stronger! Self love is the key! Love you Ms. Jelai, you're an admirable woman!

This interview is so comforting

I really Love this show, daming learnings about life ❤️

When Jelai said: Yung binubuo ko sya, ako naman yung nawawasak. I felt that 💔💔💔

"Love should not hurt,. If it's hurting you, that's not love. Love is supposed to heal you and give you peace." ♥

Sana dumating yung time na magkapatawaran cla n toni fowler🙏🙏

Perfect story ❤️ Thank you Ms. Jelainfor your life & story ❤️

I can totally relate to Jelai. I had my 8 years relationship. Pinaglaban ko siya sa lahat, sa mga kaibigan at pamilya ko kahit na nakikita nila yong mga panloloko na ginagawa sa ‘kin ng ex ko. Kinulong ko yong mundo ko sa kanya na parang “you and me against the world” ang peg. Paulit ulit niya kong niloloko pero paulit ulit din ako nagpapatawad. Until one day, narealize ko na tama na to. Nung nakawala ako sa kanya, ramdam na ramdam ko na naubos talaga ako. Paunti onti binuo ko ulit yong sarili ko na nawala ng walong taon. Nung mga panahon na yon, si Lord lang talaga ang kinapitan ko. Tama yong sinabi ni Jelai na kapag nirefuse mo yong sign ni God, hahayaan ka niyang masaktan ng paulit ulit hanggang sa ikaw na mismo ang kumalas. Now, I am happily engaged to my future husband 💖

*Can we all appreciate the way TONI G. interview her guest? she really know how to start the conversation, ask personal questions without offending the guest and she really has an idea about the story/life of her guest.* NICE

Full of wisdom and life’s lessons. Continue to be strong Jelai. And as always, Toni u always shine doing Toni Talks. Luv it.😍👍

Praying is the best medicine for all pain 🙏

I love what Jelai said "don't depend your happiness on others, because being happy is a CHOICE" then love your self first before you can give love to others'. ahhh another wonderful episode. what I love in watching Tony Talks is you will really learned lessons from the actual experiences of guests.

Sobrang strong ni Jelai grabeee, imagine nakaya nya yung mga emotional damage na ginawa sakanya. I hope na maging masaya sa buhay lahat ng tao na nagmamahal ng lubos. Deserve nyo nang payapa at masayang buhay!

i’ve learned so much lessons in this interview Thanks so much Miss Toni and Jelai

Brings back memories of my own heartache journey. Ang hirap tlga yung kakagising mo pa lang malungkot kana, iiyak kana tapos gusto mo na ulit matulog. Nagkasakit din ako, I also had anxiety, panic attacks but i believed prayers saved me while i was also helping myself to get back up. Isang araw nagising na lang ako na wlaa nako maramdaman kung hindi awa sa sarili ko and thats also when i began to love myself again hanggang tuluyan ko na nakalimutan na may mahal akong walang kwenta haha!

Habang nagbabasa ako ng comments na realize ko na walang pang babash sa kung sino yung dahilan ng heartbreak nya. Napaka genuine lahat ng sagot ni Jelai, totoong wala nang galit kasi maski tayong nanuod hindi na nagalit kundi mas hiniling nalang na sana matagpuan na ni Jelai yung deserving sa love na binibigay niya. Grabe yung mga love lessons. Indeed, a strong independent woman. ❤️ Loveyou Miloves 😘

"You don't find your worth in another person. You find your worth within yourself and then you find that person who is worthy of you." ❤❤❤

Ngayon ko talaga napatunayan, iba talaga impact ng marriage sa isang relasyon . Tapos biglang mawawasak dahil sa pagkakasala, yun yung masakit talaga na part

Thank you sa sa vlog nato sobrang relate much. Naging fan ako bigla ni Ms Jelai sa mga pinagdaanan mo.. More power Ms.Tony

“THE PAIN THAT YOU’VE BEEN FEELING CAN’T COMPARE TO THE JOY THAT ITS COMING. “ - ROMANS 8:18 Gandang testimony yung one day gumising nalang siya na wala na yung pain, may peace na. Thank you for sharing your life, Jelai!!!! 💓💓💓

Lesson learned: Hindi mo kailangan ng ibang tao para pasayahin/buoin ang sarili mo♥️

Sobrang pure ng puso mo Jelai Andres... You deserved a guy who can love you unconditionally. Godbless you po.💗💗

Ang sarap manuod, makinig nakaka relate, nakaka kuha ng lesson 😊😊

Tuwing makikita ko mukha ni Toni Gonzaga kahit saan, sa commercials, KZfaq, t.v., movie ay tanging pumapasok sa isip ko ay "itong taong to puno ng aral sa buhay." Yung pag Nakita mo sya andami dami mong matututuhan sakanya, para syang instrumento na mag paparealize sayo ng mga bagay. Napaka swerte ng mga taong Mahal nya at nagmamahal sakanya. Thank you Mommy Pinty and Daddy Bonoy for sharing us your Celestine. 💜🙏 Minsan gusto ko syang maka Coffee, makausap. 😊

“Pure love yung binibigay ko, pero ang laging kapalit ay pain” you can see the pain in her eyes looking back all the traumas :((

Ang ganda❤️ Ramdam ko yung pinagdaanan at yung realization.

Thanks Jelai and Toni.....dami kong natutunan. Lalo ngayon na sinusubok ako.

It really hits different when people talk about “love.” :((

"Hindi ako nag sisisi kasi ginawa ko ung part ko" Ito ung part na wala kang guilt or pag sisisihan sa relasyong nasayang dahil alam mo sa sarili mong ginawa mo ung part mo bago ka SUMUKO. God Bless Ms. Jelai

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Sobrang natutuwa ako sayo ate jelai 🥺❤️ sobrang strong mo na parang wala kang pinag daanan ang cute mo inteviewhin tuloy tuloy lang ang pagiging masaya ibibigay din ni lord ang karapat dapat na magpapasaya sayo ❤️😘

Sobrang relate sa experience ni Jelai. I was once a martyr in love. Paulit ulit kong pinatawad, 1st yr nagloko, 2nd yr nagloko, 3rd yr nagloko, 4th yr nagpropose, 5th nagloko ulit. 6th yr, after all the wedding preparations nagloko na naman. Darating ka talaga sa punto na susuko ka na lang. Naubos ka na. Minsan may mga regrets pero okay na rin kasi it made me stronger and made me the woman I am right now. Tama si Jelai, di bale ng single basta hindi naiistress, hindi gabi gabi umiiyak na nagtatanong sa sarili bakit mo deserve to. Laban lang Jelai! I've always believe in the saying that "God's plan is always the best for us." Godbless you more.

Grabe tagos na tagos sakin yung episode na to. I can totally relate to what Jelai went through with the cheating and all. I definitely agree na kung paano mo mahahanap yung peace and happiness mo is when you start loving yourself more🤍 Self-love is the key🔑 Promise it really works!💖

Ate jelai, napaiyak mo ako sa interview mo. God bless u. You deserve to be happy

I am always looking back at this vlog whenever I relapse. We both share the same experience. The pain will end soon. Time will heal everything

Didn't notice that my tears were falling from my eye when am listening to her story. I felt the pain. You are a strong woman. You deserve someone that could offer you the same love that you give. Am sure that God will give it in the right time. May God Bless your kind and pure heart ate Jelai 💕

I feel Toni's genuine happiness for Jelai throughout the interview.

Di ko alam bakit naiiyak ako sa love experiences ni ate jelai 😭😭 so happy for you ate jelai, may tamang tao na darating sau po someday., Godblesa po ate jelai and to ate Toni also. ❤️❤️

Anhedonia - One of the classic signs of Major Depressive Disorder. I am glad that Jelai was able to pull through. Major Depressive Disorder is one of the hardest mental/psychological disorder to crack. You have to really get into the inner psyche of a patient. A good tenet when it comes to LOVE... "Learn to love yourself first for it is the only way that you will gain the capability to love others." - NURSE VIN

moral lessons: don't give so many chances to people because you're only delaying the person you truly deserve and you're also putting your own happiness on hold.

one of the best/saddest videos ive watched but i learned alotttttttttttttttt . :(

Thankyou god, for giving this genuine happiness and love to ate jelai she really deserve it she really deserve this. ily ate

I'd like to see Pau Fajardo with Toni G. soon, she has an amazing story of strength to share and so much more 🥺

Love shoud not hurt Love does not hurt, If it's hurting you it's not love... Love is suppose to heal you.. Love is suppose to comfort you.. Love is suppose to give you peace .. Love is suppose to give you security.. 🖤 - Toni G. Thanks Jelai & Toni!! ❤️

Love ko talaga to si Jelai.. sobrang pure ng heart niya. God bless you Jelai.❤️

That " mas masaya nalang maging magisa na hindi umiiyak" 🧡

I don't know her, but wow! Her interview is like a crash course in self love. ❤💯

I love how ate Toni, don't judge easily but understand each story of them that's so me🌷🌷

Thankyou ate Jelai for sharing your story, I thought ako lang ang naka experience ng ganyan, ikaw din pala. Stay strong ate, e laban natin to! Mag pray lang tayo, di tayo pababayaan ni Lord para malagpasan ang ating mga pinagdadaanan na problems 🙏

Can't wait to be like you miloves. Yung tipong nakalaya na sa past, nakalaya na sa toxic na relationship. Masaya na kasama ang mga kaibigan at pamilya ❤️

Please lord protect this girl!!! Give her a man that will love her pure and genuine! 😭 she's so brave 😭❤️

thanks Jelai for sharing your stories subrang iyak ako sa shinare mo God bless your heart

youre so pure and deep ate jelai, I always loveyou miloves, nakaka proud kang tignan na minsan narin akong dumaan sa situation mo, and im so happy to see that anpther woman surpass that kind of situation.

Dear Ms. Jelai, I misunderstood you not until i heard you today. I questioned you for always giving the man the forgiveness that he doesn't deserve. Now, you gained my respect. I pray that you continually heal and find the hapiness that you deserve, coz you deserve it. Godbless

Love is supposed to heal you.

Another food of our soul. Thanks to God and to those strong people na ginamit niya to touch our hearts para magising sa mga bagay bagay. God bless to y'all

thank you Toni..i really love this another interview of yours..🥰🥰🥰