How Micro-Cheating Can Lead To Major Marriage Problems

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In this episode of Relationship Radio, we delve into the intricate and often overlooked concept of micro-cheating. Through a personal story of transparency in marriage, we highlight the importance of candid conversations as a cornerstone of trust between spouses. We unravel the layers of subtle behaviors that, while seemingly harmless, can plant seeds of doubt and lead to emotional infidelity. By dissecting the nuances of micro-cheating, from understanding underlying intentions to recognizing early signs, we demonstrate how addressing these issues directly can help realign a marriage that may have strayed off course.
As we navigate the challenging terrain of trust and temptation, our discussion shifts towards effective strategies for discussing sensitive topics within a marriage. These include handling flirtatious behavior and addressing the use of explicit online material. We guide you through the process of initiating open and empathetic dialogues with your spouse, emphasizing the importance of focusing on feelings over fault, and establishing boundaries to protect the sanctity of your marriage.
Remember, the journey through marriage isn't just about enduring difficulties; it's about actively constructing a robust, shared foundation. In this episode, we provide you with the tools and insights needed to fortify your relationship. Join us as we offer guidance and support in strengthening the bonds of your partnership.
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Micro cheating and its definition.
1:02 - Maintaining a healthy marriage through open communication.
4:42 - Handling micro cheating in a marriage.
7:28 - Protecting marriage from external threats.
11:15 - Rebuilding trust in a marriage after micro cheating.
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@ssing7113 5 ай бұрын

Micro cheating is every woman who has men on social media Micro cheating is keeping exs around Micro cheating is anything that you wouldn’t do in front of them. .

@andersnielsen6044 5 ай бұрын

Micro cheating will only occur if you are not in love..

@michellesimmons3150 5 ай бұрын

I have men on social media, but its not cheating buddy, my brother, my cousins, my son...you need to be more specific because you broad statement makes you sound like a control freak.

@awakentotruthmichaelsmith4698 4 ай бұрын

@@andersnielsen6044that’s a pretty idealistic view

@witblitsfpv1265 6 ай бұрын

"Just friends" are usually not just friends. The "just" gives it away... It's better to get them defensive now than later when they have established an emotional connection with the person, by that time you are just fueling the fire.

@ninjaspam2000 5 ай бұрын

I love that you said lead with curiosity. The thing is you followed with a perspective of an accusation. One thing that should always be considered when getting information from an outside source is their a potential motivation. Sometimes nefarious people will use people's personal lives as a means to attack them. If something happens where a third party tells you something about your spouse. The first thing that should happen is you give your partner the benefit of the doubt and ask curiously whether it's true. Then follow with how it made you feel. Then if it is true or not come up with strategies to prevent it from happening together by asking them what they think would be a good idea.

@brightpage1020 5 ай бұрын

Hello, Beautiful! Stylin' as usual today. Love the points about forces in the world which may be trying to bring down marriage and how we fortify our unions by discipline and self control. Thank you!

@raygreeninfo 5 ай бұрын

This is why I choose to remain single. I can do what I want when I want while being the best I can be for those close to me.

@biersmorgen6609 6 ай бұрын

Yup I've been micro cheates on,....if u wouldn't do or say it with your wife standing there dont do it

@donh1572 5 ай бұрын

Just remember that every cheater says “nothing physical happened”. Even God says cheating is a dealbreaker in marriage and that Guy doesn’t let you out of your marriage contract for anything!

@heathploski1819 5 ай бұрын

God didn’t say that Paul did.

@donh1572 5 ай бұрын

@@heathploski1819 Matthew 19:9

@SamAtBeaconPay 5 ай бұрын

which means God did@@heathploski1819

@thatguy7085 5 ай бұрын

Exactly what my ex said all the time.

@scotopicvision 5 ай бұрын

@@heathploski1819 no, you should try reading the Bible

@uncle0eric 5 ай бұрын

YES YES YES! I have been thinking exactly this same thing: Identify the small steps that lure one down the path into the dark forest, and tell your partner about the temptations, uncomfortable feelings, or 'sketchy' actions you've experienced.

@roccocarlino067 Ай бұрын

Attraction or familiarity is the light intoxication of lust. There is never any "justification" for this. True friends or colleagues will never exchange chemistry.

@jgilliam1955 5 ай бұрын

I love my wife to flirt or get flirted with. She has even made out with our best friend. But we both agreed to do this. You are correct. Thank you for this talk. But both partners should have full access to each other's phones and passwords. I told my children to watch their hearts when they fall in love. Your heart only has room for one love at a time. If you are not careful, another one will come along and try to push the current love out of your heart. I had a woman coworker who got excited trying to go to bed with married men. Then, she would tell the wife her husband cheated on her. She was the devil.

@shawnmckenzie1786 5 ай бұрын

Thanks

@brandonmoskos9149 5 ай бұрын

I fell into an emotional affair without even realizing it.

@Gowalkabout 5 ай бұрын

How many different ways can you slice this pie?

@jasonw2696 5 ай бұрын

Amen !!!

@kenofken9458 5 ай бұрын

I don't worry about micro cheating, or cheating on any scale for that matter. I only do open relationships. Nobody is sneaking around behind anybody's back.

@nathanlindemuth1342 6 ай бұрын

What do you do when your bosses boss and a female co-worker are having an inappropriate (suspiciuosly adulterous) relationship in front of all those on a construction site, and she approaches you in a flirty way (several times, despite your rejection) while he is taking video to use you as a scapegoat? What do you do when the videos of this fabricated situation are sent to your wife, and she believes the lies she's been told by those covering up their own iniquities? No matter how honest I am, the situation between us only gets worse. Even after providing evidence to my wife that he has left his wife for this woman, and they have moved in together! Any thoughts?

@Random.338 6 ай бұрын

As a woman I would felt more comfortable if you brought me if I was your wife to your worksite frequently. So that she can interact with others and get a feel for what’s really happening. As women that helps. Also make sure you are introducing your wife to everyone and including her in conversations at your workplace. Let her know you have nothing to hide and that you are proud of her and want to show her off.

@brightpage1020 5 ай бұрын

Get a lawyer and a new job.

@labab1048 5 ай бұрын

Yes. Run fast. That’s more drama than a soap opera!

@alr9967 5 ай бұрын

Is it a construction site or a Jr High cheerleading squad? Seriously. Get another job. They’re everywhere

@BikersDoItSittingDown Ай бұрын

Don't ask if your spouse is okay with your actions. Instead, ask yourself if it is socally acceptable to carry out the action with a 12 year old child! Holding hands could be okay as could a hug and kiss if you would do so with a child. If you would not do it with a child then it is not appropriate.

@your_royal_highness 5 ай бұрын

Women ALWAYS have Plan B’s for other relationships as men in their orbit will look for signs of possibility. Many women feel it’s perfectly acceptable behavior to keep hooks in.

@user-ix5qd1bp4q 5 ай бұрын

Believe " book " Frankenstein" by Mary Shelly in 1818 can helpful .

@alphonse2234 6 ай бұрын

Hope is pointless. People are who they are.

@philssong 6 ай бұрын

Are you saying people can’t change?

@tresfielder3148 5 ай бұрын

@philssong Of course, people can change. But we're talking about the difference between possibilities and probabilities. People rarely change.

@philssong 5 ай бұрын

That may be true… But without Hope… Life seems pointless. Coming from someone who needed to change…finally reached a point where my eyes were opened enough that I saw the damage my behaviors had done and desperately wanted to change… And worked extremely hard to change… And ultimately saw a lot of change. I thank God for those that don’t give up on the people in their lives who others might say would never change. Hope is vital ❤

@lesboatright8364 5 ай бұрын

How do you inadvertly flirt

@jareddahlseid551 5 ай бұрын

I suppose we should applaud this lady for taking a different perspective. But anyone who truly understands human behavior and psychology knows that the reason monogamy requires such an insane amount of effort is because it is not a natural process and it will always be outdone by hypergamy.