How My First Marriage Crashed | Part 2 | Kingsley Okonkwo & Dr. Olumide Emmanuel

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6 ай бұрын

You will never know the effects of divorce if you never hear it from a survivor's mouth, join Kingsley Okonkwo & Dr. Olumide Emmanuel as they share deep truths on Divorce.
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@chrislite9804 6 ай бұрын

Vital lessons: 1. Never ignore or downplay the red flags 🚩. 2. Don’t think you can change any grown man or woman. 3. Avoid any man or woman who hasn’t healed from past bad relationships. 4. The fact that you’re the best for them doesn’t mean that they’re the best for you.

@muibatoladapo-akinruli4722 6 ай бұрын

Very vital points you highlighted. The signs were evident from the very beginning but unfortunately ignored. I sensed in my spirit that something went wrong at a particular point( which was mentioned during the course of the interview) You are blessed for your observations.

@oge82 6 ай бұрын

I agree with you about healing but she has deeper issues. Most parents don't train their children well they focus more on religion. I see this with my sister in law children.

@jeremiahokakwu5013 6 ай бұрын

@@oge82You just hit the nail on the head!!!!

@zestfamily2030 6 ай бұрын

Healing isn't easy

@michaelokorie1212 6 ай бұрын

And the fact that he/she said sorry after heating/hurting you during courtship does not mean that he/she has changed

@elsiejune399 6 ай бұрын

History must never repeat itself, take note; 1. What went wrong? 2. What mistakes did I make? 3. What lessons have i learnt?

@kehindesherif4593 3 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@elegbeleyemayowaisaac9284 2 ай бұрын

Documents it

@eribapeters67 6 ай бұрын

My encounter with Dr Olumide Emmanuel was in 2008 as a Security Guard in his newly built house somewhere in Southwest Nigeria where I worked for about six months. He is a great mind, full of wisdom. I read one of his books then "Singles, thou arth loosed" and instantly got inspiration to pen down a book. We were told that his wife and two children were in America as he often travel to America with bags loaded with his written books. We use to wonder why a rich Pastor and entrepreneur of his caliber was living all alone. You have impacted many lives Sir and I believe those children will look for you at the appointed time.

@chefritakitchen5298 6 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏🏻 They will definitely one day

@tomiwa1a 6 ай бұрын

"We use to wonder why a rich Pastor and entrepreneur of his caliber was living all alone." This seems to happen very often.

@oghenetegaoruade5018 6 ай бұрын

I have great respect for Pastor Olumide, but this story made me even respect him more! More grace to you sir! You are unstoppable! The devil could not hinder you, sir!

@adedayoadebanjoodusanya730 6 ай бұрын

Yes, I believe so. They will look for you.

@rosekwasi3824 5 ай бұрын

Amen

@jorisjordantv7159 6 ай бұрын

I had the chance to marry a nurse and a preacher . I chose the preacher. We ended the marriage after three years . Abusive Christian relationship is the most common but unspoken dark topic happening in the body of Christ ! Most Men of God weep secretly with deep regrets. It’s now a blackmail issue with Pastors. I am a pastor although not full time , I almost chose to marry a Muslim lady why ? We need total honesty, love and Submission which is lacking in most Christian women.

@Crys0219 6 ай бұрын

This needs to be pinned

@Mrs_VOW 6 ай бұрын

God please help me 😢

@julietehikodi4753 6 ай бұрын

Hmmmm! Only a few will understand the pain.

@vimbaimupesa4670 6 ай бұрын

You need to share more

@femtey4452 5 ай бұрын

With hindsight now, I will not make that mistake again

@user-wb9fc7be3x 5 ай бұрын

Learn to leave on time, you can't change a full grown adult.

@chidinmaprecious7475 6 ай бұрын

People perish for lack of knowledge, not lack of prayer 😅

@eunicekarikari 6 ай бұрын

Please is there any link to part one

@ruthprincess6290 6 ай бұрын

Questions to ask/document 1. What went wrong? 2. What mistakes did I make? 3. What lessons have I learnt? Wow, so enlightening, thank you for sharing sir.

@chidinmaprecious7475 6 ай бұрын

@@eunicekarikari yes, just type kingsley okonkwo teachings then you can search it out.

@jareya 6 ай бұрын

@@eunicekarikariLook for the video called “Is Divorce a Sin or Acceptable by God” on this same channel, it’s the last video posted before this one

@jareya 6 ай бұрын

True… we even need knowledge to pray effectively

@bibifrancis758 6 ай бұрын

I divorced my husband- I wouldn’t say it was destructive. The marriage was destructive. But one thing I was adamant on, was to keep the relationship between the father and his children. That is important. Now myself and the father are good friends for the sake of the children! It is selfish to use the children against the father because u are not just hurting him but the children also!

@ugochichukwu4815 6 ай бұрын

Vvççz😢🎉🎉

@SGofLagos 6 ай бұрын

Valid !

@uchegodstime4714 6 ай бұрын

But note he who married a woman that is divorce have committed an adultery, am not the one who wrote it, I come in peace

@bibifrancis758 6 ай бұрын

@@uchegodstime4714 thank you

@OgunbowaleGrace-qi9qz 6 ай бұрын

Very interesting story, all l know is that no one is without a cross and no one is perfect

@kenechukwu7963 6 ай бұрын

Sometimes we feel pastors are the strongest, but they too are not exempted from the challenges of life. I feel his pain. I wish the children will reach out and learn the truth.

@ChiomaChinedu714 6 ай бұрын

We think this way,when we see these titled men as God. Having the title "Pastor " has deceived many not see themselves as brothers anymore.

@PraizConsultancy 6 ай бұрын

Most people went through this but couldn't share their experiences... Pst Olu is a real man of God whose life and ministry has blessed millions around the globe. Pst. Kingsley thanks for sharing this with the whole world!!!

@queeneva1985 6 ай бұрын

Hummm…it’s well. I could feel Pastor Olulide’s pain throughout the video. The bottom line is that divorce is destructive, but our God is redemptive 🙏🏾Thank you dear men of God for this highly educative message 🙏🏾

@princessnaomi5924 6 ай бұрын

Life is lived forward but understood backwards. Thank you sir ❤❤❤

@adewuyiolufemi9867 6 ай бұрын

A good lesson to not just judge or criticize people without knowing their story

@TheLegend-uq1gz 6 ай бұрын

But you have not listened to the ex wife either.

@chichimbamalu2088 3 ай бұрын

@@TheLegend-uq1gz there's no reason that will justify a wife's decision to keep kids away from their father, when he's not hurting them.

@sophia4christ 6 ай бұрын

Singles, never ignore those red flags in courtship! RUN! RUN AWAY! RUN VERY FAR AWAY!

@jesseludenyo6436 3 ай бұрын

but the question is, who will you find, without a red flag... Those perfect people are angels... earth itself is a biiiiig red flag

@user-tc9pc5fj8v 3 ай бұрын

These men can leave in the same house with you for 5 years before bringing out their real colour,so it's on both gender is only God that can directs us well to know original😂 😂😂

@MichaelSTR 6 ай бұрын

"People don't know the pain of divorce" still wandering why I found this today of all days!

@billionairejumzietopbabe3304 6 ай бұрын

As soon as he got to where his 4 yr old was asking after his brother and sister, I cried 😢😢. These are the issues with divorce...... It leaves a trail of broken hearts 💔

@uzomadavid651 6 ай бұрын

God help us.

@drkadoon 6 ай бұрын

So true. Divorce is not easy on anyone especially when children are involved.

@uduakobongvictoriaezekwe9352 5 ай бұрын

I really needed to hear this❤ I 'm 3 months now separated from my husband. I'm a pastor's daughter. The church has abandoned me bcos I left my toxic marriage with our 4 kids. Trying to heal n get my life back. Pt Olu has given hint on how. God bless you n pst Kingsley immensely 🙏

@theapostolicroar9168 5 ай бұрын

May the good Lord supply grace unto you, wonderful daughter of Zion. You'll conquer.

@dunniriches4539 4 ай бұрын

Sister, the church doesn't abandon people. Only congregation does, and those guys were never important na we dey overrate them. Please find a neutral environment where you are not known and begin your journey of social reintegration. Isolation can be more dangerous.

@dami-2023 3 ай бұрын

God loves you sis. I pray he upholds you. Believe me you are not alone in this. Try to find your stability and your peace in it all.

@floraolaniyi73 3 ай бұрын

I wish you well darling

@user-ic5dl7pn7d 3 ай бұрын

GOD bless you my sister. Some pastors are worse than infidels

@daughterofelohim7 6 ай бұрын

Divorce isn't easy but sometimes necessary. May God help everyone who put effort to make their marriage work and still had to make the difficult but necessary choice to divorce

@worshipshortss 6 ай бұрын

Amen

@paulzerina 6 ай бұрын

Religion will destroy you if you are not careful. Be a Christian (CHRIST like) that's what we are called to be. Don't let denomination doctrines that came from a personal convictions put you in bondage. God does not have grandchildren, know God yourself. SELAH!

@KarenChishimba 6 ай бұрын

Divorce is painful and people will judge without understanding the reason for leaving the marriage. People are always quick to judge.

@omooyebj2620 6 ай бұрын

Life is lived forward but understood backwards

@carolinenjoroge1195 6 ай бұрын

Many women are prayer worries but reading the word being calm and gentle respecting their husbands that's where they draw the line😢

@oluwakemidaisi-falade3175 6 ай бұрын

That driving and loss of mind happened to me when I was going through my divorce too. Some partners are mean in divorce. God really showed up for me. His grace kept me.

@ovokeokoro3284 6 ай бұрын

It's well

@AncientHebrewNeverDied 5 ай бұрын

I woke up when a truck clipped my passenger side mirror and dented the door. He wasn't mean, his Solicitor was. 😅😅😅😅

@julietkwoba-abungu6063 6 ай бұрын

Dear Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, I wish to thank you and your wife for being faithful in your assignments! Both of you are blessings to many, including me🙋🏾‍♀ May the LORD God be with you always🙏🏾

@bestversionofme2496 6 ай бұрын

Pastor’s kids are now adults, I really hope they see this and get back with him. 😢

@patiencemusa102 6 ай бұрын

Pastor Olumide is a real man of God, I attended the wedding, he tries to make the marriage work but she was hardened.

@SuperiorClothing001 Ай бұрын

Jesus Christ God abeg oh

@adephilips9339 6 ай бұрын

Dr. Emmanuel is telling the truth. I know him personally. We lived in North Peckham Estate in the 90's.

@olusho6546 6 ай бұрын

Wao ,so you mean Pastor Olumide had lived here in the UK in the 90s?

@obiageliokobi4116 6 ай бұрын

hmnn

@preciousekpo3252 6 ай бұрын

May God grant us all, the wisdom to identify red flags during friendship and courtship without thinking we can cope with it and the courage to walk away before it ends up in marriage. Amen!

@charlesuwadiae4483 6 ай бұрын

You just spoke my mind exactly.. The struggles people face in marriages are usually as a result of the red flags they ignore during courtship..

@regina-marymalachy4082 6 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@cygwanfogbe246 6 ай бұрын

Even with green flags, people still show you shege in marriage, I tell you.

@cygwanfogbe246 6 ай бұрын

Even with green flags, people still show you shege in marriage, I tell you.

@julietkwoba-abungu6063 6 ай бұрын

Amen and Amen🙏🏾

@olalekepaul.call-it-done 6 ай бұрын

Am so sorry for the Pain... Thank you Pastor Kingsley and Pastor Olumide for this. Very Therapeutic. It is well

@damilolaodulaja978 6 ай бұрын

I am the one that filed for divorce!😊 Pastor is too real

@PhilipOlasanmi 6 ай бұрын

How I wish many singles can learn and act on this. Lessons learnt, don't push red flags aside before marriage. Two, don't allow emotion to cloud your sense of judgement in relationship...

@femtey4452 6 ай бұрын

Very true. I was thinking of getting serious with a girl which would have led to marriage, about 20 years ago. Then one day, she showed another side of her which I didn’t know existed just because of a very simple disagreement between us. That was a red flag 🚩 which I decide not to ignore and there and then I made up my mind, she’s not the one for me as wife. As of today, she’s a single mother to 2 kids after her future husband left her too because of her character.

@erdooinspiringwomen 6 ай бұрын

I can completely relate with you sir. In my case it was my husband who was a pastor married to him for almost 9 years I experienced all the forms of abuse but before the marriage I saw the red flags but I thought he was a pastor things wouldn’t be bad… I entered and for almost 9 years with four children but I am out now doing amazingly well with my children. The matter is currently in court… thank you for sharing your story.

@jayceestv 6 ай бұрын

Hmmmm one thing I have seen here is never let your guards down even if he or she is a pastor...... You may likely regret it

@omoyeusifo-bj8pt 6 ай бұрын

Yes o

@ao4514 6 ай бұрын

We also need to stay away from toxic doctrines. I.e let's ask God for the grace to forgive others and also watch out for the root of bitterness!

@Shemdastores 6 ай бұрын

Story of my life

@penniekabiredi8243 3 ай бұрын

Can i please contact you?

@apostlep01 6 ай бұрын

1. What went wrong? 2. What mistakes did I make? 3. What lessons did I learn? These are the three processes of healing.

@official_solomonijigade 6 ай бұрын

Hmmm...I noted that too

@alexdaddario2732 6 ай бұрын

Respectfully, healing is not for everyone because either one or both entered the relationship with a wrong intent.

@opeyemiodugbesan4522 6 ай бұрын

@JesusMyIshi 6 ай бұрын

Lord I pray his first 2 kids make contact with this video. Those kids remember their Dad and deep down they know him by the spirit. God bless him for sharing this testimony

@rapturevic 6 ай бұрын

Amen!

@francessjacob336 6 ай бұрын

Amen

@RT-pt6dy 6 ай бұрын

My prayer is for God to keep him alive and in sound mind to make up for whatever has been lost in time. I also pray for the Children that they realise soon enough and things will nit be spoilt by the time they come out of this hypnosis.

@alogbamike7129 4 ай бұрын

Amen

@StevenSsamba 3 ай бұрын

The mental anguish he mentioned is my exact life. At 50 years, I still cry missing my children and the life I envisioned for them.

@olayinkaflorence5849 6 ай бұрын

How i wished i had this kind of enlightenment, i would not have wasted 10years of my life, waiting in a marriage that was already over.

@ivyagbemadzo2914 6 ай бұрын

Hmmm

@lucialucia9697 5 ай бұрын

Chai I pray God to heal all your broken heart Amen 🙏

@Terrijennipher 6 ай бұрын

We thank God for this testimony. I got a divorce and I thought it was my end but God is good I know I will speak of my marital settlement very soon.

@oluwoleodetola1626 6 ай бұрын

Amen!

@sarahakuaayebea 6 ай бұрын

Please tell me

@dinahabubakar1461 2 ай бұрын

Amen

@lolathompsonduke4975 6 ай бұрын

I got a divorce because of toxic family interference but I ensured the children had their father in their lives at all costs. Women must not make their children pay for the divorce by demonizing their ex-husbands regardless! Its harder when the west legal system seems to reward you more if the man is totally enstranged from the children's lives. We need to keep praying for Christian marriages. Especially those with huge western influence.

@joshuakehindekolo 6 ай бұрын

Thanks for your thoughts: they are instructive.

@victorynnaemeka 6 ай бұрын

MAY THE GOOD LORD GOD JESUS CHRIST ALMIGHTY NAME AMEN

@BenJay70 6 ай бұрын

Wow! You're of a rare breed my sister....your 'kindred' more often than not take the contrary stance, sowing seeds of bitterness and discord in the heart of the kids; worsening the situation. Kudos my sister..kudos!!

@abbahomon8781 6 ай бұрын

Family interference is the worse that can ever happen in marriage. Especially when they're so so toxic and hate boundaries

@SealedByYah 6 ай бұрын

1 Corinthians 7:39 - The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord. Mark 10:12 - And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery. Romans 7:2 - For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. 1 Corinthians 7:10-14 10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: 11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

@isaacatima89 6 ай бұрын

" You need help, but i can't help you to the detriment of myself." Wow well done sir. This man is too practical.

@oluwolecrowther9390 6 ай бұрын

I never knew Pst Olumide was the preacher of that popular sermon titled *common sense* for the singles. That sermon has been richly blessing my life since 2018. In short I still listened to it yesterday.

@oluwafemikuyooro1849 6 ай бұрын

Pls, how can I get that particular sermon?

@oluwolecrowther9390 6 ай бұрын

Just search for common sense by Olumide Emmanuel

@janetdonaye3528 4 ай бұрын

God take control over our lives

@jamkidzzone4103 6 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor Olumide for making yourself vulnerable to help many. We indeed overcome him by the blood of the Lamb and the words of our testimony. Church needs to be real and relevant. Thank you for your contribution to this noble cause.

@Uuo241 6 ай бұрын

Wow! Just wow! This Pastor is too real. Didn’t know of him until this video. Learnt a whole lot. Thanks for being open and transparent for us younger ones to learn 🙌🏾

@oyinvalada 6 ай бұрын

His children will soon come back looking for him. Mark this chat.

@kyenpiyanyabam9122 6 ай бұрын

I feel so too

@anuoluadesuyi9885 6 ай бұрын

Amen

@alogbamike7129 4 ай бұрын

Amen

@newgenerationmanwithsegunbash 6 ай бұрын

The respect, I now have for Dr Emmanuel has gone up by 1000%. Wow. You are such an inspiration. I am speechless.

@papsybabe2096 6 ай бұрын

Man of God. I salute and respect you for being so honest dealing with bitter but important truths. God can never bless you enough. I am the one that speaks bitter truths in my circles. People don't like me cz of that. But I still stand my grounds. Its a hard road to travel. But my Jesus loves those who tell truth in love until we wake up from our blind slumber

@julietkwoba-abungu6063 6 ай бұрын

I concur! We must not give up the habit of praying for men and women of God🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙇🏾‍♀️🙇🏾‍♀️

@temiladeshodiposavethem2420 6 ай бұрын

As in 2000%..hmmn!

@davideffiong9974 6 ай бұрын

As a child that experienced separation of my parents I can totally relate. My dad had custody of me and one of the effects is that I almost have zero relationship with my mum. We are both still trying to build a relationship. And when I was also around 10 years old, I asked my dad why he wasn’t with my mum when the Bible said Divorce is a sin 😊 (Dad is a Pastor) and he explained. We bless God for the family now and how he has helped us build and I’m grateful that I was brought up to believe and trust the Bible as God’s Word.🎉

@Yemifolorunsho 6 ай бұрын

What was the explanation

@veetellsit 6 ай бұрын

please what was the explanation

@davideffiong9974 6 ай бұрын

@@veetellsit Well, mum & dad were in a relationship… and I was born. They were never married but the relationship got strained and they separated and dad had custody of me. So there couldn’t be a divorce in this case as they were not married. Context: All these happened before dad gave his life to Christ. Years later, he would become born again, get married, become a pastor… to God be the glory. The only not so good thing is that I and my mum’s relationship was strained by proxy and we still trying to build. PS, I’m an adult now 😁

@joygirl7427 6 ай бұрын

I can relate with your story. My story the reverse is the case. Mom took custody of me and my siblings. Till now almost zero relationship with my dad

@doinglifewithkingwoman 6 ай бұрын

Divorce is painful. Very very painful!! May God help us all

@Va-WaBwanaYesu 6 ай бұрын

Wow! This was really something!! One of the things I am learning this season is that if you ignore red flags, their effects will remain raised in your presence forever!! The fact that he still hasn’t seen his children is really heartbreaking!! Hope the children will know the truth and look for their father!!

@moses8581 6 ай бұрын

They sure will

@TheLegend-uq1gz 6 ай бұрын

He is not making enough efforts to build relationships with his kids.

@Apeke 5 ай бұрын

@@TheLegend-uq1gz how sir?

@fionalewinson5199 6 ай бұрын

I like how open and honest this Pastor is. Life is real. Divorce is real and it can cause stress.

@gloriamutola3057 6 ай бұрын

This is powerful,am glad I get to hear this from a man of God.

@blacksaint202 6 ай бұрын

This is exactly my case. It's almost 4 years I haven't set my eyes on my kids. Divorce is so so bad, it dealt with me ,but I prefer to remain strong. When you're getting married, vet properly , ensure your partner has the value of marriage imbibed in them, make sure she contributes something tangible in the marriage, there must be commitment. My marriage lacked that everything that stood the marriage Wass by me from the beginning. Divorce is actually messy, it's just more painful that the innocent children bear the brunt. Most women are just bitter and lack what it means to understand that the divorce is between them and the man, not the kids. Regardless, we move.

@theresaekpenyong7914 6 ай бұрын

Omo!!!! This discussion is loaded with gems( lessons to learn boku!!!!) Deep stuff!

@olukemialatise5708 6 ай бұрын

The lord is your Strength sir, this is so touching !!!!

@sunesis101 6 ай бұрын

Chilling to watch. Thank you so much for sharing. Dear Lord!!!

@erykado 6 ай бұрын

The mental health challenge that men face from divorce is something most people that has never experienced it won’t understand. It lives even with the kids. Be very careful who you marry because the wrong choice will not only ruin you but can ruin future generations.

@johnmajor2193 3 ай бұрын

Pain makes people extremely wise

@Fortune_Chioma 6 ай бұрын

Life is lived forward but understood backwards!! Deep!!

@ayobamisalako8592 6 ай бұрын

This is so deep! May the perfect all that concerns you Pastor Olumide. Thank you for sharing your pains and your words of wisdom is highly appreciated. God bless you Sir!

@adebisiamida2080 6 ай бұрын

This is too real. This man of God is a loaded with gems

@ejirougono7150 6 ай бұрын

I love his sincerity snd openness.

@AJOYOSOWANDE 6 ай бұрын

It is now very obvious that some Pastors preach in a certain way from the depth of life’s experiences and pain. This message was inspiring and uplifting. I pray Pastor Olumide’s two children find God and be led home.

@jesusbaby-lk9zs 6 ай бұрын

I love how you talked about mental health, more especially in our church

@delightoluoma1275 6 ай бұрын

Many lessons from this story. God bless you Pastor Olumide, for opening up. We are blesses.

@victornafwa2471 6 ай бұрын

I love the shock on pastor Kingsley's face.

@deborahebong 6 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor Olumide for sharing your story. It's really a source of wisdom and life lessons to guide the younger generation.

@mosmirakobidiche4241 6 ай бұрын

I thank God for listening to this message. God revive me now

@yemisiokagbare3268 6 ай бұрын

Hmm, o ga. May the Lord continue to strengthen you Pastor Olumide. Thank you for sharing your story for people to learn.

@Ositaukamakaschooloflife 6 ай бұрын

Wow i have had pastor Olumide as a mentor for a while now. Listening to this i now know where the wisdom is coming from, experience is the best teacher indeed

@OdogwuRealtor 6 ай бұрын

Chaii this is so touching 😢 Thank you for enlightening us. Breakout of religious slavery and get help if need be.

@outofnaija 6 ай бұрын

Wow. what a story. Must have been so tough to go through this for so many years. I trust that the Lord will continue to help Pastor Olumide

@zobottiano8446 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for being so sincere and laying this out straight. God help us all

@enemaryjames2336 6 ай бұрын

May God restore your children back to you, this is same issue my uncle is currently facing.

@JoeyAdoga 6 ай бұрын

Thank you Dr. Olumide for showing your scars. It brought hope. Thank you Pastor Kingsley, let's just say because of you I can see better. May oil and grace never depart from your heads and homes.

@lagosmarketgirl7747 6 ай бұрын

Oh my God. This was so real 😢 God bless Dr. Olumide Emmanuel

@lightful_ 6 ай бұрын

Thank you sirs for this video. What a blessing! This has brought further deliverance. Thank you for opening up sir, the Lord rewards abundantly.

@jacobisrael6591 6 ай бұрын

Such a role model and prolific teacher @Dr Olumide. Your ministry is strengthened and fortified. Your family remain blessed

@Cherishjoy_042 6 ай бұрын

I will testify my own story one day,God knows everything,am a great testimony, but when I get money am coming out, honestly

@mirabelalex6976 2 ай бұрын

Same here 4 years gone but I am hoping for the better

@queennyx4264 6 ай бұрын

His story is quite relatable. May God continue to help us.

@josephasoh2669 6 ай бұрын

This life testimony is a blessing to the body of Christ

@florinekemmegne8892 6 ай бұрын

This video is so full of wisdom. May God bless you, pastors, for the work you are doing.

@ashayhemy3617 6 ай бұрын

I have watched dis 3x, Thanks pastor Kingsley okonkwor and Pastor Olumide

@loisdavidtoma4943 6 ай бұрын

Pastor K thank you for bringing pastor Olumide. This interview is so helpful for this generation. Thank you for opening up Pastor Olumide

@temitopejewoola3208 6 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor Olumide for sharing . Appreciate your straightforwardness . God will continually be with you & eventually every go be! The truth will prevail & your joy shall be full . I am a product of divorce so I speak from what I know & could relate with some of the things you mention . PK 👍

@tobigeary 6 ай бұрын

Grace to never ignore the red flags🙏🏽

@princeadeoluwa 6 ай бұрын

The children are coming for you soon. Thank God you are finally able to air it

@nuggetzman77 6 ай бұрын

Wow... men of God also cry. Thank you for being this vulnerable to share your story...

@chineloiluba6540 6 ай бұрын

Am so blessed listening to pastor Olumide, God bless you Sir

@SGofLagos 6 ай бұрын

We need to speak up more about men in abusive relationships !

@danielle6723 6 ай бұрын

I feel like there’s more to this video. Pk please we need more. Can he talk more about wounded soldiers? Coz it’s something we don’t talk about in church. How do we attend to wounded soldiers who’ve gone through experiences like this? What does counseling look like for them? Etc etc

@simeonogunlade 4 ай бұрын

Yes yes yes! I'm a victim of wounded soldiers in the hand of brethren. But I thank the God of all healings

@joa1511 6 ай бұрын

Felt like my life's story 😢. Thank God for His great redemptive power that restores and restires completely

@mabelemmanuel1374 6 ай бұрын

Wow, listening to this was such a blessing. Thank you for sharing.

@unathitwala613 6 ай бұрын

Shoo! The vulnerability of this interview. Really appreciate it. More men need to talk and share their journeys! Wow! More grace to you sir

@akandecynthia4275 6 ай бұрын

Wow! We salute you Pastor Olumide for sharing your pain and scars with us and thank you Pastor Kingsley for insisting we know and grow in the truth. God continue to bless and prosper you both. 🙏🙏

@mercyodion9892 6 ай бұрын

Thank God for this interview because I learnt alot.. Sir is will heal your heart in Jesus name

@dorcasdavou3373 4 ай бұрын

I pray and hope the wife's family can help him reconnect with his children. Lord have mercy

@afolakemijalekun7374 6 ай бұрын

Wow! I pray his children find their way back to him, why am I feeling so sad🥲may God heal him completely.

@envoysofzion6163 6 ай бұрын

😭😭😭😭😭😭 God strengthen you sir. I always tell my friends that men of God are among the most oppressed n abused set of men - especially those that are truly committed to God

@honouroluyemiajepe4609 6 ай бұрын

Waoooo! Thanks so much Pst Olumide and Pst Emmanuel! Despite abusive words even after divorce he has free access to his children! Your words liberated me from the prison of my past! Asking myself where did l go wrong! Good one! For younger generation to learn! God bless u real good sir

@mindinemasafingwente6816 6 ай бұрын

Im with you pastor, no reception, wedding gown. Thank you for the message

@TomiwaAdegbola 6 ай бұрын

So much to learn, Thanks a lot Pastor Olumide for sharing this. I always know there's more than meet the eye, when it comes to divorce/dissolution, unfortunately people with not even up to 1% of information judge a lot, and sadly they often have the loudest voice or platform. I am learning a ton. God bless you and KO

@user-lu1nm5tk9w 6 ай бұрын

Sir,you have impacted many lives.I have some of your books and has really helped me in Pastoral ministry of 27 years.Am highly touched by your story sir and your courage is a great source of encouragement to me.Keep on with the good work sir,may God continue to keep you sir