These men usually only exist at the expense of other women, and either don’t exist in the wild (in a commitment,) got re-released after ruining a relationship and will come with lots of baggage around pride for having “seen the light,” or got “raised right” and usually has an unhealthy relationship with his mother on some level while still internalizing misogynist ideologies from his father while mistakeningly assuming he “knows better” so he’s subconsciously even more resistant to the idea of needing to change unless it’s HIS idea. Reading “The Creation of Patriarchy” by Gerda Lerner was painful but freeing, helped me make peace with this reality by changing my relationship to the inherent disappointment that comes with it.

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They are out there. I married one.

@@LaTostis they do exist, it’s true. But the original comment had me rolling because of the Sasquatch reference 🤣

I found one, they're real! He's asleep with the baby after 4 loads of laundry right now! Don't give up! They're just an endangered species, I believe 🥺 we'll need to improve conservation efforts!

So true

Bullshit so why they cheat under stress?

who hurt you Clarence? As a mother myself, I can tell you that this statement is in fact true.

​@@-Clarence- affairs are like a fantasy land. when you meet with your affair partner, none of the regular life stresses exist that exist in normal relationships. that's why people can feel stressed and not want sex at home, but can go out and cheat and feel desire, it's like an escape from all the stress at home. not that that justifies anything.

​@@-Clarence-he probably did a load of laundry 😉

👏👏💯💯

Yeah, I didn’t realize this about myself until this post.lol

It’s probably the hottest thing my boy could say. My body temp just goes 📈

True lol

Omg… right? I was looking for the right words to describe them.. you nailed it

Mama's Thirsty😏🫠🌋

emotional thirst traps is INSANE and accurate

Ah so that is what this is 🤭

Yesss!

ehhhh notice when women acts of "service" as if a man is a tool not a human. never heard a real man say anything wifey as "service" duties. the irony i told my mother about difference between men and womens romance novels movies ect. womens romance novels movies, guy is overly feminine in how he acts to point metrosexual and simp like behavior treats him like a lesser ie a slave. mens romance novels, intelligent attractive funny youthful most the time mature when its needed self sufficient when needed caring loyal lets her man do as he needs to protect her (overkill in terms of self defense) loves him even if he is average in looks lets him crumble when mental stress is beyond capacity doesnt put him down for it, you know logical shit. womens romance

Mine to! Was getting tingly!

It's not an act of service, you do it for your own existence, other people can too 😂🤷

I thought it was just me. I got a little choked up. So romantic. 😂 He gets it

You have a very piss poor lifestyle

Does absolutely nothing for mine unfortunately. It's sad that a man who is attentive to acts of service that does nothing for his wife's love language. I mean it's not why I do those things but. Whatever

I see your dishes and raise you to vacuuming or even better, doing his own laundry! 🤣😆👏🏻

​@@bonesworld7178😅 I feel your pain bro. I cook do all the cleaning. Do all the child care. And she does barely does the bare minimum... But she does love playing mind games with me. I speak all of her love languages without expectations. But I'm still having to initiate non sexual intimacy half the time I feel like she doesn't even think about me while I'm over here making her gifts by hand and shit.

@@greefo wow. We are worth more than that. We are lovable and I don't think you should have to earn love

Shame on him ew

I'm so glad you said "ex". That is a disgusting way to speak to another human being, especially if you're asking them for the privilege of them sharing their body and heart with you. You deserve infinitely better and I hope you find it.

My jaw literally dropped reading that first sentence

Ewwwww 🤮🤮🤮

You're not his slave. That is for sure such a turn off. I would've gotten so mad.

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What filth? He did all the chores and cleaned everything, didn't he?

​@@blauespony1013😂😂😂😂

​@@blauespony1013 he was turning his wife on. And thus, everything he said was lewd. It's a joke about how he made his wife feel appreciated

I think all the women watching this are collectively turned on right now 😂

Amen sister.

@@printingwithpeek4897 Aren't you a gem.

No shit sherlock

If I had an apple I wouldn’t be appleless

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My kids think I am going crazy because I laughed so hard at this! My hubby is such a good man whom I love. There are things that I can tell go unnoticed for me and vice versa. These videos have been helping to see where I fall sort, too.

​@@mamajewels8481 Glad you ve married a good man 😊 I agree, these videos are great for both men and women as there's always something to learn. I see many men in previous videos talking about Jimmy only telling men how to behave as they totally disregard the parts where jimmy is giving advice to both parties involved.

Life as it ‘should’ be! 🩷☀️🌿

Are we still talking chores here???

@@redinabloogs8477 no reason to stop there

Can we clone him?! 😂

@@hiannahgus574 It took a few years to get him to see the light. LOL But, we have a lot of fun. It takes a sense of humor, too.

and im sure his degraded from exhaustion, ex chewed me out before because i wanted take a day of rest because we'd have sex every single day for 3 hours. sleep deprivation does eventually catch up. but my god if a man needs to rest once in a while. issue i didnt get to relax once in while not that i was getting daily sex. both have high labidos.

@@BleachDemon69 You are beyond miserable dude, get professional help.

​@@BleachDemon69 r/ihavesex

😂😂😂😂

Lol 😂

The most important point out of the whole video. 😂

🤣🤣

Me too lol

That's really sad. I'm sorry for the pain you've gone through. Praying you grow better and not bitter through these trails. 🙏

Your comment pierced my heart. I thought the last man who would shoot his family's dog died with my father. I'm sad to know that isn't so. My mom never left him. But he left her after she developed cancer. I hope you and your children live wonderful lives away from the dysfunction of an emotionally unhealthy human. My own childhood memories are full of scars from my father. I often wonder how my life would have changed if my mom had found the courage to leave him. Best of luck to you and your children.

@@dawnk4588 thank you so much for your comment. I don’t want to be bitter. I have to be careful every day where I am mentally and what I say. Thank you again for your kindness. 💙

@@ssmith5127 thank you. Unfortunately he isn’t letting me take all the children. I have no money to fight him with in court and can’t afford a lawyer. I have the youngest two though. I just got a part time job and I hope to save all I can. His family are well off and can afford corrupt lawyers. They are all prideful and emotionally immature people. When I woke up from the trauma bond and stood up, they cut me out, slandered and spread lies about me and kicked me out. He’s cheating on me as well and it started before I left. I can’t prove it, I live in a state that needs concrete evidence of adultery. Them going out on dates isn’t enough proof and the messages I found between them are long gone. We’ve been separated for 10 months and we can’t go to court for no fault divorce until after June. I’m hoping my name will one day be cleared (I’m not perfect, he used my depression and therefore unkept house against me saying I’m neglectful). I hope whoever judge we get will see what’s really going on and intercede for me.

God bless your soul and your children in the name of Loving JESUS our Savior The Light 🤍✨ JESUS Loves you 🤍✨Glory to JESUS praise the Lord 🤍✨ Amen 🙏

clearly not women in comments calling it a service as if men are not human.

@@BleachDemon69 I don’t think you understand what people mean by service in this context. People often use terms like “acts of service” to describe just doing something to help someone, or in reference to one of the 5 love languages that one guy who’s name I don’t know came up with. They are just using it to describe husbands doing something nice and helpful for them, and how that helps them feel more loved. Service goes both ways and happens in all sorts of contexts, not just romantic relationships. Growing up at home, I would sometimes decide to serve my mother by giving her a shoulder massage, since she has a lot of tension there that worsens my headaches. It’s a way of showing care for her. Or a time where my older brother was feeling really sick and I wanted to help out so I was going around getting a cup of water and other stuff for him. That was me serving him. Men are just as human as women, and of course they deserve the receive love and service from their loved ones too

@@BleachDemon69acts of service is a way to express love, do you even know what affection is 😭

It's a simple matter of respecting, anticipating, meeting and reciprocating each other's needs!!

Hahaha lol

A little TOO much methinks…😂

@@lynnodonovan4204just the right amount imo😂

He is equally hot as a man or woman- i know im the female equivalent of a chauvinistic poop for sayin it but facts is facts!

I love it, when people in skits have chemistry with themselves. Reminds of @shawnathemom

notice how only in terms for women not men. men arent allowed time alone let alone relax. if a man sits in his car after work its his alone time because he know soon walks into that door its time do more labor work.

If you need a man to do all your chores on top of his work and his chores so you maybe consider having some intimacy later... You have some serious issues.

​@JumpOverYourShadow if you think this man taking the occasional things off his wifes plate as an issue, then it seems you're the main problem. When both partners take time and effort to have their partner relax and unwind will 100% improve the relationship on both sides. You should not be expecting sex just for the bare minimum of going to work that almost all parents and partners do these days because it's almost impossible for a single income household to survive.

@@JumpOverYourShadow the point is that if you ensure that both sides of the relationship get sufficient time to relax and have their "me time", then they will be in a headspace that is conducive to intimacy

@@izzybean9085having sex is literally one of the bare minimums for most relationships with normal people, so not including asexuals and the like

haha sorry but you calling the little robo guy your new husband made me laugh. they're cute, clean, reliable and they do things for you without asking so def not a bad choice xD

I got one as well 😂 it gave me 1 less thing to do every day and we are only 3 people but crumbs build up daily when men sit and eat on the couch. And he still found a way to complain that my robot vacuum didn’t pick up shit and that I had to use an actual vacuum. Well he’s my ex so i guess for a reason I shouldnt expect much. Id rather be single and clean after my own mess than after a man who refuses to even put his own dishes in the dishwasher cuz that’s too much work. Who raised these men!!!???

Who was making more money?

@printingwithpeek4897 I'm unsure what this had to do with anything. Everytime both me and my bf were in full time employment. I never asked about money but based on their job I would say me usually. That being said it shouldn't matter who makes the most money when it comes to taking care of people's emotional needs.

@@printingwithpeek4897 I'll be honest you sound like a lot of guys, you want to be a stay at home child with a wife who acts the part of your mother. Grow up and learn how to be an adult.

Same. And in 2 of them I was making more money. The 3rd was fresh out of high school so I made diddly squat.

@@printingwithpeek4897it doesn’t matter who makes more money. Both people should be taking care of each other, otherwise one is just a servant 💀 relationships are between people not robots.

Yes!! Loved that vacation!

Speaking from experience, it gets you nothing. This stuff is hilarious to watch, because the advice is so bad. It doesn't work, the list of demands (shell call them "needs" but God forbid you have "needs" because no one likes a needy man lol) gets longer, and the neglect from her is only going to get worse.

@@Kivlor🙄🙄🙄 You sound like a real catch. 🤢🤮

@@Kivlorin that case, why even consider her needs, right? I mean, if they're not _your_ needs, they can't even _be_ needs, amiright?

@@thedarkside7508 I guess that's one way to look at it: Only one person should have their needs met. My take was that if you go in expecting something in return, you've got the wrong attitude, because you're not going to get it most likely, and definitely not consistently. Doesn't mean don't do it, change your expectations. Jimmy, and other relationship gurus out there telling men that if they'd just do more they'd get more is setting them up for disappointment and eventually resentment.

the dudes who hear are dudes youll ignore. :) because theyre average joes joe shmoes. now if women could listen if your man works long shifts at a labor job and comes home and sits in his car its the microscopic amount of alone time he gets to have let him have it because he knows wants he enter that house its time for more labor work. a man already has deal with a boss at work he doesnt want to come home to a boss too.

Yeah basically be her slave so she might give you some intimacy... Who are you bullshitting?

@@BleachDemon69 in that case you can stay single

Or go with another one who isn't stressed and always in the mood. A man doesn't need to be a slave for a quick one.

@@costaspapas2079 yes go ahead, women are disposable right? Exchange fora new one and a new one once she stops wanting to sleep with.you, however women love your potential and have hope for you to be good to her, so once she loses hopes she will give up on you. But you think of women like a car who you trade in all the time for a new one people still need to do maintenance on every car they have, Jimmy just tried to let men know how to do maintenance gives all the technical tools for people who actually care about who they are with, men are the bringer of peace to women, Jimmy shows how to bring women peace, and this video is meant to be funny

we like physical contact, never met a man who couldnt adult. stuff men have do as adult doesn't make it easier just because a woman did it. women will expect a man after 16 hour shift at a labor job do more labor, and when he's exhausted and she wants some she gets made because he turned her down.

Nah, fulfill your responsibilities

atleast you called him husband, most women comments called it a service as if men are nothing but slaves.

Better stay single then, relationships should make our lives easier

I fail to see why someone else should take on more labour to make your life easier

Trying atleast!

@@JimmyonRelationships You are SO far ahead of the curve...Your wife is very lucky.

As a man who has been this man in the video, I've found another video that does a great job explaining things: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Y96FY7p_mJnOknk.htmlsi=cT56P4zmnkKOadIT

he was well trained by his master. its a marriage doomed to fail clearly wife is the pack leader. though he looks like office worker type so id expect him do chores.

literally same 😂

Same. Rawrr!

same

Hey man the fact that your watching this content and writing these comments suggests that you’re doing a pretty good job 👍 keep it up man 😉

Ew nah girl gtfo of there now!

Tell him that's fine and you will if he does all your tasks while YOU'RE at the gym, several times a week!!

You don’t deserve that. Keep telling yourself positive messages to counter the toxicity. Please let him know how much this hurts you (now), because if you don’t you may repress this hurt & anger for years. If you try (patiently) to address the way his behaviors make you feel (lovingly), he may just change. Saving you years of misery (and saving your child growing up seeing this unkind behavior), and possibly saving your marriage. Please keep on loving yourself! You are beautiful as you are!!! 💕🥹😘

You picked him...because he's a Chad. That nerdy weird guy you passed up would do these things.

@@penguin12902 whatever “nice guy”

oh the irony of this comment

You’re kind. I know I’m a work in progress too! :)

Watch all his videos please, he cheated on her and this has been his journey to change.

@@rebeccalui4818 oh the irony if this is true. it makes all the comments even funnier know women choose these kind of douchebags

@@rebeccalui4818oh ew he would never get a second chance from me lol

Right? I see this all the time and I think a lot of relationship issues come from not being able to communicate your needs or bounderies because your afraid of being seen as weak

going off this clip and his viewer base he wont , his wife owns the whip and his viewers will abandon ship if he tries it. read the comments women think they dont have to do anything, and that sex is all they can provide.

​@@BleachDemon69you must understand which abuse you underwent and follow the appropriate channel addressing that. This channel is for the family unit specifically for avoidant men. Clearly you are not that. Follow a channel targetted at men addressing manipulation of women and also addressing people pleasing behaviours,how to recover from it and setting boundaries. Watching this channel is only going to traumatised you.

Women go trough this a lot, even more than men

@@MariaPaula-uw3ds Just because women also go through it doesn't mean we shouldn't talk about the fact that men do too

Thank you for the book suggestion!

now read or watch mens romance novels movies ect youll see mutual relationship now look at womens romance novels movies youll see hedonistic slave pact relationship

papa bear aint going have the stamina if he was a labor worker outside the house.

If the "next one" is Jimmy's brother, stand in line!!

When it become the norm to reject men's problems, treat them like an emotional punching bag, and an ATM?

women think letting a man relax after a 16 hour labor job is high standard. that man going grow to resent you.

Just curious what she does to get her man turned on or is he just expected to be a light switch

@@Denali_Rebelshe undresses as that’s all that’s needed

Exactly why I won’t ever have a relationship. Can’t be bothered with any of the steps, as the positives rarely outweigh the negatives

Organize it! Oh wait. You are just a woman..

no she just got a leash or he's just doing it to keep the peace and quiet reward cant be that good if he doesnt go above and beyond. example a local food company needed taste testers they were only offering 10k a week, for high risk of permanent health issues. or she belayed the sex so long he no longer seeks it or expects it anymore.

I thought the same thing 😂

Thank you for not just approaching this from ONLY a woman's perspective. People like you are the reason why having a relationship makes sense.

Of course. What the video doesn’t show is she told him to go golfing last weekend for 6 hours and made his favorite meal when he came back home. Great couples serve each other mutually

surprised 6 women agreed, rest are all one sided. let alone surprised women in comments didnt come after you for diverging from the hive mind.

​@@BleachDemon69You in every comment going around abusing women and Jimmy here. Why? does your insecurities can't handle real man?

Strange saying, I've never heard this as a german...

​@@brigittemerz9667me neither

happy wife happy life is in terms of wifes happiness not the mans.

You're making complete shit up. Before I met my wife, I cooked, I cleaned, paid bills, organized an itinerary, paid college off, etc. When I married my wife I still do all that shit. None of what you said makes any sense and is really stupid that you just sum up men as not being able to do that. Here's one for you. Why do women treat men like ATMs, emotional punching bags, and a means of getting material possessions they didn't have before?

ah women say few men yet ignore 95% of the pop, i have yet meet a woman who can adult. where as my bros and i can adult, i myself can hand and machine sew and crotchett carpentry basic electrical gardening, ect.

😂

Yep, you've got it. A partner taking responsibility (for the household) is sexy but also just a part of any healthy relationship 👍

@@Sandy_bones belay a man of his needs (course woman logic think sex is all man wants) relationship dies into a roommate situation. woman logic: healthy relationship is when man does majority care giving by money and doing extra chores and "might"get a treat like a dog who did a trick

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because its feministic, now written like a mans romance novel theyd shut down the channel. because mutual relationships are a nono hedonistic slave pact relationships yes yes

It's not a one day out of the blue that this works. I fell for this maybe once after that I noticed he only dis nice things because he EXPECTED sexy time. Do these things just because you want to help, never expect a return on "your investment". Women know when your playing a game with them, be genuine in your want to just make their life easier several times a month. Don't expect this every time you do chores and take her out. If you do this enough not expecting anything, you WILL eventually get a return on your investment. Genuine behavior is richly rewarded ❤

@@Kholoured clearly women dont know when men are playing games other wise so many wouldnt complain about past encounters or partners.

@@Kholoured wow he might get some, while past flings didnt have do shit. honey work yourself to death you might get something out of it once a year. and government is confused why men are retreating from relationships and CDC is confused why mens life expectancy is 60 now. damn if men do damn if they dont. women seem to ignore men are physical creatures its how we show our love, plenty of stories and every man will tell you the same, belay sex for to long he'll see it as the norm and no longer find you attractive or just not bothered by lack of sex as it slowly turns into a roommate situation. men who dont act like jimmy in terms average joes had their mothers and other females offer some kind reward only to belay it and so we learn when woman offers rewards its all BS. plus if we're doing a task that has a high risk we need equal or higher reward as we are logical creatures reward must meet the risk at the very least, like i wont take a bullet for random woman, not my woman so the risk to my life isnt worth the it. now if its a lover i would take a bullet as she is a partner and future mother to our kids..

never women only like a relationship where man does everything without reward, course their past pretty flings didnt have lift a finger and could smash like the hulk without needing worry about working for it. as the comments have shown.

@@BleachDemon69exactly quite many relationships are just for shmucks. There definitely are healthy and equal relationships but they’re probably not the majority, at least we don’t hear about them.

Why? You are an adult, take care if your diet. He isn't your servant

sounds like a employee talking to his female boss. youll never hear a guy talk like this to his male boss. its how i talk to my female bosses so i dont get written up for relaying problems. i now practice the Madagascar "smile and wave boys smile and wave" its sad in this day and age men have act robotic for womens pleasure.

You set the scene then expect reciprocity. Nice. Controlling but smart.

​@@sunbeam9222how is it controlling to want my partner to show he cares? You're part of the problem.

@@Alixir1228 yes that's controlling and you probably call your partner narcissist or avoidant when they do not comply with your wishes. Let people be, control freaks never know they are controlling. They believe they are just doing what's good for humanity ofc. Codependents will be "going out of their way to please." In truth, no one is really pleased and no one asked them for this. You're doing as you wish, you're not sacrificing honey. Caring is free you don't get extra points for it. Asking for reciprocity is when controlling happens ' you cannot make someone care or act a certain way. If it's not reciprocated so be it. Accept it. It's ok. Not your person. Don't be a weirdo.

girl how you look, you look like your to scared pick up a sponge because it involves filth. And no brownie points for adulting. weird how women want points for adulting.

​@@sunbeam9222he agrees he is avoidant. It sounds like you've had previous complaints in your relationships as well and instead of taking in that criticism, you see another person complaining about your behaviors and are projecting. I'm not wasting any more time with you. Stop liking your own comments, it's pathetic.

I’m so sorry. That’s not love :(

@@JimmyonRelationships thanks for acknowledging that, but he was a great guy and so nice everyone thought so (he’s passed). Me, I’m tired of being gaslit still, and don’t trust people. 🤷‍♀️

I don’t know if she “should” be with you regardless but if she’s still with you and you are only contributing to the household with the chores you consider exclusively “yours”, then things are working out for you, maybe even the two of you. The short is just showing a guy doing something extra and nice for his partner and his partner responding enthusiastically because she feels special and appreciated in that moment.

@@LaTostis his point is he no doubly the breed winner and he's at this point doing far more yet she only feels need reward him like a dog for doing a trick. thats a one sided relationship. and doing chores is far from exhausting i had 16 hour job when i got first girlfriend i did chores and still had energy every night have sex. i am no means skinny either, just excuses to shift work off to someone else. women do it at work too and guys like me dont get any benefit. notice how yours and most other womens (excluding the 3 women who dont conform to the sisterhood logic) all say her happiness what about his.

dont bother the women will crucify you for making a point.

@@BleachDemon69you assume too much, both about the guy you are defending and about women in general. If things are working out for you, you have nothing to worry about: you have the person who likes you with all your assumptions. Good for you. If things aren’t working out, I suggest you look in the mirror before you ask another “lazy” woman out. Good luck.

​@@LaTostiswhy should the man do extra work when he has his assigned duties? Why does she get the right to feel appreciated