"If he's too good to be true he's a psychopath" lol I love this.

This is so spot on , my ex sometimes was so clever and yet so stupid at the same time , it is a very bizarre situation , a little boy stuck in a mans body .

When I think about dating again, I turn on Sam’s videos then I remember... nope! ♥️

Ok I was a very happy, successful, well functioning adult woman going through an amicable divorce when I met a malignant narcissist at a divorce support group for children, (I had two little ones at the time). He showed up with his daughter, (the only guy in the group), looking like a lost puppy telling everyone how mean his ex-wife was to abandon him and his little girl. I felt SO bad for him and he kept telling me how amazing I was to handle divorce so well when he was just falling apart and could I please help him! I fell for it and let me tell you, within a year I was acting like a raging co-dependent borderline. These men MAKE YOU MENTALLY ILL. They absolutely find strong, caring, giving, understanding women and EMOTIONALLY DESTROY THEM.

Little wonder I Iost my sanity during periods of my life where I was surrounded by narcissists.

Brilliant explanation of a very complex animal 👏🏽 i now can see why people prefer to stay single and cohabitate with their dogs or cats instead of dating 🤣

The narcissist misjudges everything in his chaotic mind

As soon as my husband realized I no longer believed in his delusion of himself, he found a girlfriend.

As a borderline, your videos remind me to not date. Not only am I drawn to narcissists and sociopaths but I also do not have the appropriate neurotypical defenses in order to protect myself appropriately from the subsequent enmeshment.

Divorcing a malignant narc/sociopathic traits as we speak after being with him for 25 years. At the end, I was a complete shell of a person. I saw how he got off on my pain, tears and heartbreak. Anytime I was having a good day or in a good mood, he did what he could to burst my balloon and then it was like he was walking on air?! I NEVER understood that!! It took me 25 yrs to figure out what I was truly dealing with. He is a raging alcoholic & got diagnosed with Bipolar. I just chalked it up to that. I felt I couldn't leave him with a clear conscious because he is sick & these issues can be treated & helped. I put so much love, energy & tears into our life & family, too much invested to walk away. Know I have all the information and it was dire & bleak. He discarded me for a friend of mine. Who is also his own cousin & the wife of his best friend. It was a traumatizing, violent, cruel discard. I watch any video or read any article I can to help educate myself so I NEVER get sucked in by one ever again. Thank you for your knowledge!

There are so many variations of this kind of behaviour in the world around us, one wonders if there is anyone who is, actually, completely normal...? There are so many victims of our broken society out there....

I could have listened to another 2 hours of this...extremely interesting.

I have a friend who is a borderline and only married and dated narcissists. Three failed marriages. Now dating another narcissist 🤦🏻‍♀️. This video is spot on!

I grew up in a tight religious family with a narcissistic father and probably a borderline mother. My two sisters and I have inherited a lot from our parents violent relationship. Sam Vaknin is helping me a lot about my childhood and my mental illness that produced a lot of suffering. Now I'm becoming more aware and am on the way of healing myself and my relationships. Thank you for what you do despite all criticism.

Yes, in my experience many narcissists are self aware. Problem is, they're missing the narcissist word. So they proclaim that they are "misunderstood" or "something may be wrong with me" etc. Of course, the blame is squarely on the victim.

I love how you said that narcissism is a post traumatic state. As I have been recovering and healing from my ex husband, who I believe was a narcissist, I have actually recognized some narcissistic behaviors that I was participating in.

I have BPD and I’ve studied it ever since I found out I had it. But this is one of the best explanations of BPD I think I’ve ever heard because I know I cycle through a bunch of different “masks” and feel like I have no control over them. I can be ruthless, I am mostly kind, but in the blink of an eye be cold and ruthless. I’ve never understood why, and it does make me feel safe. It’s also funny how you mentioned the power because at times my BPD does make me feel powerful and invincible. Now that I’m self aware though, I do my very best not to manipulate people. Thank you for this video it was eye opening for my own experience of BPD.

Mr Sam Vaknin! One of the best teacher of all time👏🏾👏🏾 We learn and grow with knowledge.

This is crazy. I've dated one of each lol. I'm almost too scared to even date again. I'm into this one guy and he seems so laid back and normal and sane and emotionally intelligent and smart and I just can't do it. I don't know. I can't deal with any more crazy.

Well explained, Most pshycologists cant even begin to understand this, let alone explain this.

Bottom line: psychopaths, sociopaths, borderliners, narcs...are all attracted to each other. You have to have some sort of childhood trauma or unresolved PTSD issues to magnetically be pulled to one another. And that is the most painful truth to acknowledge and realize the unhealthy patterns that keep repeating like a neverending dejavu.

Thank you so much. I’m a life long victim of narc abuse. I continued to date and befriend narcs by choice. You just made me realize that a man who almost destroyed me who I thought was a narc is a psychopath. It all makes sense now. Like you said he was perfect he was me. Definitely stalked me I now live in a different continent for my safety. God bless you, you are doing gods work ! Please keep doing what you are doing

Yes! Watching my mildly BPD partner switch from a sweet, passive personality to a smirking, cheating, abandoning identity was disconcerting, like witnessing a multiple personality. Her crisis counselor warned me about entering into a relationship with her (right in front of her too) but being a groomed 'Designated Rescuer' at the time, I dove in anyway, LoL. Great masterclass(es), Sam. Thank you!

Hi, I have borderline. My parents were narcissists. My 3 ex boyfriends were narcissist because I pick what I'm used to. I came here to stop that and to understand and to heal. Borderline is probibly what happen when someone are narcissisticly abused all life. By the way - when I figured my dad out 2 years ago and told him it's not me and everybody else who are deffect, it's him, and listed all what he had done in a letter as a reminder to him, he got diagnosed with a brain tumor shortly after and died. Probably because he couldn't stand the reality. On his death bed he still abused me verbally in front of the whole family, the other patiants and the nurses. He unfortunately didn't changed even with a brain tumor and he never had an insight of regret even when in front of God in his last moments on his death bed. Then he passed away. Once a narcissist always a narcissist. Now I will keep on listening to your speech about me as a borderline and learn how to process the narcissists who "gave" me my personality disorder. I aim to heal. Let's hear about them and myself :-)

Psychopath seems like a good match for a narcissist.

I’ve been trapped, stalked by a psychopath relationship since I was 17 years old. On/off nightmare. Now I’m 42 with restraining order that I know he doesn’t care about (he’s a convict now in and out of prisons). You are the only person that has helped me understand it completely. You nailed it. Thank you. My parents are/were narcissists. I thought life on earth was hell.

My head is still spinning from what just happened to me for a whole year. I cant get the phrase out of my mind that he repeated several times towards the end "Im very good at what I do." He told me I was preyed upon and hes very aware of his deceptions. Im not if he's a narc + plus sociopath or psycopath but based upon his idealization of murder (always joking about it, pretending it, etc) I feel hes a sociopath or psycopath and I wonder if hes hurt someone before or if I was in danger. Either way it was mentla torture. At the end he wanted to convince me how bad he was because he was discarding me and I wouldn't stop believing in the nice good church guy I first met. He finally had to yell at me "that guy is not coming back! I'm a snake! I've always been a snake!"

Sam Vaknin please never stop supplying us with such extreme erudition!🎇🌅

Thank you for elaborating on the intense complexity of borderlines. My mom lived with this all her life and only got effective help late in life. She was also highly intelligent (genius runs in that part of our family). She liked my narcissistic father because he was exciting. It was undescribable hell growing up in that combination. My only salvation was my grandfather often taking me and sister away for weekends and spending time with us. He knew something wasn't right and tried to compassionately offset the harshness.

My therapist said it's a red flag when someone refers to her/himself as an empath. She said it's almost always BPD because we can read a room and gage other's emotions for self preservation.

Just watched this entire video and I’ve cried throughout. I fell in love with a guy who turned out to be a narcissist as we dated for 3 years then kept talking for almost another year until he discarded me. I was diagnosed with BPD when I was 17 however I have tried to outgrow many of my symptoms bc I want to be better for myself and the person I end up with. However hearing all the things about borderlines reactions really hurt bc the mental rollercoaster is so true when you’re truly rejected. I would say I’m not in it as badly. I can distinct reality from fantasy but the rage and emotions vs loss of empathy that happen when someone hurts me is very true. My narcissistic ex idealized me so much and stalked and chased me until I ended the fantasy for good with something that happened and immediately found someone else and now idealizes her over me. I am nothing to him now he despises who. I am . It turned me into the one who chased. This video has made me so aware to the narcissistic abuse I endured but tried to act like didn’t happen. And it’s also making me realize that’s why he thought I was perfect soulmate for him. Most of what you say makes so much sense. It’s quite haunting. I wonder if a narcissist can change or outgrow the disorder or someone like me with borderline. Some times I feel I have outgrown many symptoms but then other times it can be very difficult.

Many narcissists have told me they are narcissists.

You are a genius at this. I have found this very healing and realise I am 100% a narcissist and was recently with the exact definition of a BPD woman. I still miss her but know I cannot be with her

Completely Impulsive !!! Omg how did I survive all this disfunction?!!!

You explain these things so throughly and it’s incredibly helpful. My mother is probably a covert narcissist and I’m trying to figure out if I have picked up narcissistic traits or if I have become one completely. This has helped me understand her a little better and that the feeling that she doesn’t truly feel anything for me isn’t something that I imagined. I actually think my father is one as well but he was different because he was more classic grandiose narcissist and I cut him off completely much sooner. Now I’m finally at the sad place where I must cut her off too. I have been observing her for a few months now and how she interacts with people and it is heartbreaking to me that all of it is a fantasy to get something. I wish she wasn’t empty and I wonder what trauma happened to her as a child to make her this way. One time my Aunt said that my grandmother was definitely one but my mother acts like she was perfect. Your other lecture on narcissists was a turning point in how I understand my life and the people around me. Thank you for making these videos they really help people.

You’ve described my STBX husband perfectly. Grandiosity, has to have the best, be the best. He laid low for years despite many instances of explosions, but something snapped and came out full swinging. He kept me home away from others, had no friends, and is leaving me with nothing. Now he discarded me, examined me for another woman. God have mercy on her. Definitely a stalker. Perhaps even closer to a sociopath. Extremely charming, but when he’s crossed watch out- he goes absolutely crazy in rage.

In my opinion Narcs are more common than we will admit to nowadays.

Wow! That was eye opening. I was raised by two narcissistic parents and I picked up traits. I've never been diagnosed with narcissistic but i do have the capacity to feel empathy. My boyfriend has BPD and we fit like a glove! You described our relationship. Thank you doctor. Appreciate it ❤

"Psychopaths are like Disneyland" LMAO this is the most truthful funny explanation of having one as a partner

My ex husband (narcissist) didn’t even care about the possibility that i might have cheated him, Discard phase is the most awful thing anybody can experience in a relationship. But the key is to realize that it was never a relationship to the narcissist. Then you can Go on with your life.

I went to a Psychiatrist today. Thank you for inspiring me, sharing with me your knowledge. I have had my own trauma, yet tired of carrying it and carrying that of my parents generational trauma. I enjoy learning about this.

I have been diagnosed with BPD and you are spot on with your assessment!😉

Having trouble managing my ADHD at times, I couldn't imagine how exhausting it must be for a narcissist when hes looking for a mask up there..

Your knowledge on this subject is incredible, thank you for putting these videos out. It's a brilliant counterweight to the frivolous, moralistic information on narcissism and psychopathy that seems to dominate mainstream discourse.

I need to watch and re-watch this a bunch of times. So much therapy packed in 48 min. My borderline girl that just monkey branched me for either a narcissist and/or psychopath that's love bombing her, mirroring her doing everything that i didn't in just 2 weeks, etc. Very painful for me... Thanks for posting this great, informative video...

Thank you Sam for pointing me in the right direction. I had been trying to figure out a problem for years (decades), and you nailed it with your description of Borderline Personality Disorder.

Briliant, amazing explanation. I was raised by a narcissitic father and an emotionally absent mother. And it really spoke to me about how twisted my family dynamic really was and is. It felt so frustrating and madening when I wad dehumanized and treated like a rug because the manipulation and lies were so much.

This is so heavy and so profound. I only find it heavy because I dated someone with psychosis and narcissism. They are telepathic almost and so coercive. He was a compulsive liar, he had an eating disorder to parade like a model, the moment he began to try and eat his whole face changed, he wasn’t even truthful about his face. He had to starve 5 days a week. He lived in a matrix where he fantasised about being a helicopter pilot. Blamed me for killing his dreams (knew him 12 months) he berated me hoping he could get access to my money (that I would pay for his flying lessons to appease him). His inner world was distorted, he would take a snapshot of what you said and say you were controlling or mean. He genuinely believed those aspects if he couldn’t have his (perceived) sexual freedom or emotional affairs. He hated people with money or success, he tried to pose as a humanitarian that we are all equal (because he had no money or material things). He tried to charm everyone but looked really crazy in places even like the grocery store. He was losing grip of trying to seek supply. Thank you for your words, so healing.

This is super insightful. Knowing the difference and how they think really made me pinpoint some people in my life. Thank you

Only when one sees his/her own covert manipulative behavior at the beginning of an abusive relationship and the transition to narcissistic/psychopathic behavior towards the end of the relationship did he/she realizes the complexity of this dynamic and there is no fault to assign to except to his/herself. Only then does the "insert whatever disordered" individual starts to heal in any meaningful but very painful way(Mortification). Key: Honesty to oneself with brutality, go where it hurts the most is the key to real meaningful and not fake narc healing.

Am glad you corrected the myth that these demons are not self-aware!

Wow! Thank you! I thought I'd only watch 5 minutes but watched the whole thing and was hooked the whole time. I've subscribed

Wow, just wow! I watched this video several times, gaining deeper insight, guidance and clarity. I am so grateful for your work, Dr. Vaknin. I have closure, and therefore, direction where I need it. Best wishes and prayers for you and your wife for continued strength and inspiration! Your work is beyond valuable.

I saw my ex go through a strange change when she was insulted by someone rejecting her or calling her out for some strange behavior. She would get very upset and cry and then she would become very distant and cold and eventually arrogant. Lots of black and white commentary. We had a very difficult time keeping friends. Church was always a frightening thing to attend with her because she would get offended at so many things and often would get up in the middle of service and huff and puff and stomp out and I'd have to go get her or she would be down the road walking home. Home was very far away so it was just so strange to be married to that. I believe I may be a narcissist because she is a borderline. Or maybe I was one years ago when we met. I don't know for sure but she really liked me in the beginning. I've been away from her for 15 months. Life is so relaxing and peaceful now. I'm free and I plan to stay that way.

Thanks for your profound insights and advice. Most professional understanding available. And all your concrete examples are truly eye-opening. Thanks for your great efforts and 👍👍👍

I listened to this intensely, over and over again only to come to one conclusion: my ex "whatever he was", is it possible that he was both? I don't see how this is possible, but I also don't see how it is impossible. He fits into both categories. He was a Chamelion. If I had not stayed away from a romantic relationship for the years that I did, to avoid such disasters, this man could have messed me up mentally for life. I didn't dodge a bullet, I dodged a cannon from which there possibly could not have been a recovery possible for me. Talk about grateful I called it off. I'm amazed at how well I did it. No bragging, just astonishment. I went with the "gut instinct"... some things were not at all as he made them out to be. Like pieces that don't fit in the puzzle. I won't return so I will never know the entire facts while I'm alive. Just bewildering.

This is the exact relationship I've been addicted to. Things have escalated dramatically after the fantasy stopped and I cannot remain blind to her anymore. This all rings true and the air I waste.

14 yrs married to a man diagnosed with bipolar/BPD, 5.5 yrs with a man that was a covert narcissist and broke me, then 2 yrs with (and engaged to) a sociopath that controlled, manipulated and stole from me. I need to choose better! This video was helpful.

Your attention and follow through on the detail has me so thankful to have truth, instead of the demonizing the thereby relieving the rumination

Sam , you hold your audience captive . Really good at what you do . Educated and honest . Too many bullshit guru self made “Life coaches “ online anymore. Confusing and misguiding people.

OMG!!! my mother has borderline personality disorder and it's the first time an analysis makes so much sense. The crisis is exactly like this and it is so abusive and horrifying. So true that she sees you as an object to eliminate!!! Plus the fantasies of grandiosity!

Can you do a video of what it feels like to be a covert narcissist?

Honestly one of the best videos ive seen. I struggle to express how useful this has been.

This is the best explanation on the differences between narcissism and psychopathy. I am very grateful for such a distinction finally.

Wow wow wow..just fantastic..would love to know more about a covert narcissist with griving not just the parents but siblings thank you Sam

Perfect. this is a brilliant explanation of what is a very confusing experience. Thank you.

I have recently discovered the professor through an interview with Daria Zukowska :) .. now I watch all of you and I am very grateful for each video that explains the aspects of personality disorders and the whole range of these interdependent ones. one thing is certain, no matter how long the contact with a narcissist, or a few months or a few years, they can wreak havoc and chaos from which it takes a long way to reassemble.

This was great! Every person should watch these. These people are out there!

Brilliantly described. Thank you!

I've always wondered the distinct differences between the two. I love this thoroughly explanatory video.

Fascinating facts!!! I’m blown away I was barely blinking and rewinding so much i can see the connection and by living it I can definitely say your on point. As always thank you for the great content

Fascinating stuff Sam. It clearly makes sense the way you explain things.

Finally I understand why he called me "evil" a few times which is just very odd... No one in my life ever called me that. and it was so out of blue..

8:46 - 100% feel this way all of the time. No one understands when I explain while looking to understand myself. I always come off as "Leeyore" and piss everyone off.

You are wonderful. I have read listen and also know your book many years a go. And you are one of the few professionals who explain it and helps widely.......thank you. You are a blessing.

I felt joy and laughed for the first time today, it is nearly midnight, at 8 minutes in, borderline being failed narcissism, absolutely brilliant!

Yes, my ex starts the argument asks a question, when you have too good of an answer, that makes him look bad, he will start over with the same question, you will say, you answered that already, and he will demand an answer, he then brings you full circle and continues this gaslighting until you are exhausted and he wins. He cannot be alone for a second. He actually has a friend that lives in his house with his family (wife and kids) and I never see him in a car alone. He has actually called me to " shoot the shit' because he cannot stand being alone in his own thoughts for literally five minutes. He is very smart. He REFUSES to use email or text because he is then liable for his words. He demands to use the phone which I cut him off from after 11 years...finally. When he argues it's such a show that over those 12 years of living with him, I always found myself saying " it's just you and I here, there is no audience". He is VERY lazy. He is a hard worker at work because that is the outside world. His friends and family adore him. At home, he won't clean, he won't do anything with kids, he does nothing. I put a basket in his closet for dirty clothes and he purposely would throw the clothes on the floor, next to the basket. When my son wa 5 mo old we showed up at his families house for a party. He ripped my son out of my arms to walk into the house because he wants to SHOW how good of a father he is but then leave the child with me the entire time with no help for hours. He HAS to attend every party every scene to be there, be known. He is very very loud, he has to be heard across all the rooms so that everyone knows he is there. He is very charming and funny (to others not me) very jovial. He undermines women because his father did too. Women are beneath him. He will talk you up to others in front of you, but belitte you in private. Everyone loves him and you look like the party crasher, well, I did. I am in introvert, so he loved making me do things I didn't want to do. I tried to talk at a party once and he literally stepped in front of me to talk and shut me up and made me feel stupid. I am going throug a custody case with him now, he is pulling every dirty thing he can, he would have me executed if he could get away with it. I know narcissm, all too well.

Still listening. This explains so much. Why when we were dating, you felt like I’ve never been so loved. I could be so ugly or gross & knew he wouldn’t care bc he loved me sooo deeply. Then we’re married & I’m afraid to even eat in front of him sometimes bc if I get food in my teeth he’s so disgusted by me

Thank you Sam. 2 years ago you’ve seriously helped me understand and be aware of what was going on.Get out before I was totally crucified!! Work on me on my shadow!! I have experienced narcissistic all mental illness from family’s friends especially partners. It took me 22 years to understand that some were just born like that! I am always listening and observing carefully words actions patterns!!

I've been learning from your blogs & videos now since 2001. Always focused, clear and revealing.

I just finished listening to your extremely interesting, and honestly quite frightening descriptions and differences concerning the mind boggling disorders of psychopaths, narcissists & borderline personalities. I've UNFORTUNATELY been entangled with this man over 7 yrs at this point! After our 'twin flame'..or whatever kind of crazy attraction that seemed to draw us together, and he moved in with me with supposed intentions of starting a life together and making plans for the future..my already complicated life began to take on nightmarish new levels of CRAZY that finally had me researching multiple personality disorders because, and I might add I had begun re- naming him in kind of a joking way to express or describe some of his ever changing attitudes and behaviors/personalities. OMG!! I had no idea what kind of a tumultuous frustrating confusing, DANGEROUS & life-changing path I was putting myself on. I'm absolutely exhausted! Today is Christmas Day 2020 and I have somewhere to be and I'm always running behind, but it would be wonderful to be able to talk to someone with the knowledge that you have to help me! To maybe get some answers or more information because I'm clearly not handling any of his personalities correctly. And of course I've never met anyone like that so I was treating him and his moods and behaviors trying to apply logic, some kind of understanding, a lot of empathy, and the belief that he must have had a horrible lies and childhood him something must have damaged him horribly and if someone just loved him enough (me), that I good help make him am a happier, more trusting & confident, less angry/suspicious calmer person. Because in this video he absolutely came more closely to identifying with your third choice of multiple personality disorder but he also identifies with narcissistic personality disorder and Psychopath! I thought he was a narcissist after endless research online! It's been a push-pull boomerang 'I love you I hate you' nightmare. He's also extremely dangerous! I have so far escaped extreme injury but only from years and years of past experience with my husband that drowned in 2007. anyway if you'd like to get in touch with me or have a way to reach me so I can reach you would you mind putting your email address I'm here where I can be notified I started to put mine on here and that wouldn't be very smart at all🙄! I'm so happy I happen to run across your video today everything happens for a reason I guess. Merry Christmas to you!

The more I listen to you, the more I realize that I am probably doing as well as I can be considering, I keep listening to become more like the person that I want to be. I have nothing to measure against because of my skewed upbringing. What I learned from you is, as long as I stay in reality and I am not going to drift off into crazy making behavior. It really doesn’t matter what it’s called or what mental issues I might have, as long as I like myself and I don’t hurt others… let the rest go. Enjoy life. Thank you for your help.

This is incredibly true to my borderline personality and my x narcissist, and all my relationship with narcissist. I learned so much thank you!

Thank you for distinguishing the differences in the psychopath and narcissist wow i had no idea!

Thank you, once again, for a fascinating presentation. Very informative!

With the narcissist - what you say about reality vs fantasy. So, you try to tell them about reality - their eyes glaze over as it breaks the fantasy. In the experience I saw … you could see him unable to comprehend gravity/space and time (in reality). So sad. This is so sad. But it’s these types of videos that help us change the course and save lives, the lives of the victims.

Wow this was so enlightening. Amazing information and amazing delivery with the words, Professor.

Thanks for this video. I've tried to explain my ex with BPD to people who have never experienced it, and from now on I will just send them this video and tell them at which point to start watching.

This is wonderful, Dr. Vaknin! Could you do a similar video on a cerebral, vulnerable, covert narcissist? Thank you for all that you do!

Dr. Vaknin, Thank you always for your professionalism and for your insight. You have also displayed a sense of humor. (:

Very insightful, *frightful*, and full of so much detailed/explanatory information. Very appreciative of your videos. (ps-I must say I did like that last calling out on the ones that jump on you in their *never thought about cheating* BS and misunderstanding your conveyance. Even though I was not unfaithful, I admit there is a context to thinking about anything, especially when one realizes the depth of the reality of the nightmare; or perhaps part of my falling deeply intrinsically for this last guy, was *excitement searching* gone bad. I have to own it. Also, when I don't get it the first go around, from either being interrupted, distracted, or not comprehending; I rewind/replay, as there are a lot of nuances to your detailed examples. I would rather the detail than lack of it and thank you, again.)

I don't know what to say... But my eyes fill with tears, my soul falls. But now I can understand everything I went through with a narcissistic mother and father. All actions and reactions, how I suffered!!! How I suffered!!! And I thought I was guilty, Jesus was my relief, he took care of me and is healing my wounds. Sam, thank you for your work, now I know that it was God who made me watch your videos and is helping me to understand myself and my parents. Im from Brasil

Very interesting and informative clarification of the differences.

Loved that. Can see so much in the explanations.

Rewatching this one today, always learning more when I review these videos, thx Vaknin

Oh my. Now I understand! The other videos I see regurgitate the facts but miss the real meaning behind them. Now I know why I couldn't find out if a friend(enemy, stalker) was a narcissist or borderline! Borderline is a failed narcissist!

Great content! Yes it“s like that, I have experienced with my narcisstic father. A narcissist refers anything!!! to himself. They are not able to perceive other persons as individuals with their own values but you are just a mirror to them. Always. It“s scary and weird but it“s the truth. I asked myself if it“s more a neurobiological issue or the result of developmental-psychologically causes.

Thank you for your existence!

The borderline part is so spot on. You are amazing.

Fascinating. Thank you for your insight.