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@208913 жыл бұрын
Better than CNN, ABC, NBC, PBS, CBS
@rudes440sb3 жыл бұрын
Especially better than Fox. Haha. But seriously too many foreigners whether Westerner, Asian etc think they're hot shit cause they have a little bit of money.
@floundergiggingcharters82262 жыл бұрын
i agree. i completely stopped watching the news. In fact, i quit watching tv all together and got a you tube premium membership for $11.xx/mo watching all the ad-free videos I want. I watch anything i want and its a learning experience.
@keiscott29532 жыл бұрын
One point I much agree and have to point out guys, whether you know it or not you are representing all white men or brown or black whatever color you are or if you ride a motorcycle and it's a big loud one such as a Harley in Asia.... hopefully you can realize you're representing a lot more than just your own image there and I resent really crappie Foreigner Behavior right before or while I am present, it just makes it bad name for all of us and some people ought to just grow up... If you like to drink a lot well stay in the city and that party scene will fit better, with its own hazards.. but you never went to mess with Philippine or most Asian police, unless you know someone high up.
@brian_atc2 жыл бұрын
@@keiscott2953 THANK YOU!!! I've seen too many loud mouths absolutely ruin situations (restaurants, bars, etc..) for everyone else. Why go to a different country if you expect it to be like the one you left or think you'll change it to your liking because you're the big stud expat. Nobody is impressed.
@acornsucks21112 жыл бұрын
@Mike Oxlong Right on Mike. Some people like being lied to by the lamestreamedia .:)
@Hayden-jm9um3 жыл бұрын
Wise counsel. Do not get involved in local business. Earn income from overseas. Do not discuss your finances with others
@mayofw31633 жыл бұрын
True
@SuperTruthful2 жыл бұрын
That's the key and the truth. I don't talk bout my finances in the states and if someone asks me about my finances i shut them down right away.
@Hayden-jm9um2 жыл бұрын
@@SuperTruthfulBest way to be my friend.Your finances are nobody’s business but your own
@robto56833 жыл бұрын
Very solid advice, without sounding like a know-it-all or being condescending towards Filipino’s. Going on 25 years married to one, I have visited there 6 times, starting in my late twenties. First time, drank way too much with my newfound brothers in-law’s. Everywhere I went, someone would offer me a drink. Then realized that’s not who I want to be known as over-there. And as the only white person I have ever seen in her town, you stand out. Over the years I believe I have developed a mutual trust and respect with the town folks. Stay away from the booze.
@elementalview13 жыл бұрын
Be humble and empathetic, whether you're in the Philippines or in your own country.
@waterheaterservices3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@BULLARDtheOKIE2 жыл бұрын
Character is everything!
@Music-gw4qf Жыл бұрын
In your home country US Australia Canada Britian, sometimes you gotta stand up for yourself. People will step in you, if you don't. Western culture is different like that.
@komments3 жыл бұрын
I have been watching videos from the Philippines since 2014. This is by far the best video I have seen. Bar none.
@mela60463 жыл бұрын
I agree,,,I only started watching since I cut the cord I refuse...REFUSE to pay 4 cable....
@madmaxrerisen3 жыл бұрын
Giving them your DNA? Are you nuts?
@craigsphilippines4663 жыл бұрын
I have 2 businesses, it took me 6 years before I was confident it was the right thing to do and only because I was married and I had a good group of friends I knew I could trust. You cannot do business in the Philippines without Filipino support. 12 years ago I had an export business to Manila from Australia and my partner was Filipino with very good connections. My advice is to come to the Philippines with enough money and income to support yourself, make sure you have money coming in from back home, the Philippines is not a good place if you don't have much money, the locals are already struggling to get ahead the last thing they want is a foreigner struggling to. Forget about relying on a job, wages are extremely low and not everyone can be a successful KZfaqr
@mela60463 жыл бұрын
U should start a U tube how to start a business in PHILs... many expats or foreigners would love to know... U can film the town hall & interview a lawyer an accountant..etc...
@luckyb45412 жыл бұрын
Totally agree I live in cebu
@craigsphilippines4662 жыл бұрын
@@mela6046 that is interesting
@bobinthewest85593 жыл бұрын
It's worth remembering that... an immigration officer (literally) can deny you entry, simply for being rude. More generally speaking... YOU are the visitor... it's ON YOU to "fit in".
@saca19514 ай бұрын
All of the topics Mark talks about here is right on...I lived in the Phil (Mindanao) for three years. Be humble, Remember your a visitor there.
@barry48483 жыл бұрын
Top notch advice, live below your means, do not boast, be humble, be polite....learn to bite your tongue and walk away. It is just not worth it. Mark is bang on with his advice. Be safe, but don't just sit on the couch- see the world, be adventurous, take the first step. I have travelled to 130 plus countries. I still get disoriented in a brand new place the first day or two....it is amazing going back to a place you have been to previously, it is so easy... Travel very light, listen more than you talk, dress clean and neat, not flashy, hide your wealth. I have never been robbed or assaulted in over 35 years of travel. If you are drunk out late at night in a sketchy area, then you are asking for trouble anywhere in the world. I really enjoy this you tube channel, no agenda, great advice, great stories from a humble, modest man, living his best life, and encouraging others from a safe and non rose colored perspective
@marichutesado1803 жыл бұрын
I appreciate so much how truthful your analysis how is it to live in our humble country the Philippines. Wish other foreigners who plan to come and been living here find inspiration for this kind and honest revelation. Thank you, continue doing what you do so the world may know we love to have foreigners who embrace our own culture.
@universityinstructorj.p.sm5360 Жыл бұрын
I like that, "time and first impressions are irreversible." A keeper indeed. Tremendously valuable advice as well.
@robertparker61413 жыл бұрын
When I was there in 2016 and I yelled at my gf in public about something, not thinking it was a big deal. Just like you said, she didn't talk to me the rest of the night. Said she was very embarrassed, bc Filipinos will think she is a bad girl and side with the foreigner, causing her to lose face. I once got upset with a pharmacist and my gf said I embarrassed her again. In the states that is not a big deal, but there it IS, like you said. Thanks for the good advice.
@nookam3 жыл бұрын
A foreigner who drives in the Philippines should equip the vehicle with quality front and rear cams to record video. It will save you if you’re in an accident and get the blame when you’re not at fault.
@Tuxedo_Cake3 жыл бұрын
That works in The West, but in the PH, they’ll still make it somehow your fault, or they’ll just ignore the video footage.
@moreontitodong26463 жыл бұрын
@@Tuxedo_Cake it's not true that because you're a foreigner its automatically your fault even if there is video...
@Tuxedo_Cake3 жыл бұрын
@@moreontitodong2646 I’m sure that many transactions in the PH are honest ones, and I’m sure that video footage can sometimes bail a person out, but corruption is a problem in the PH, and so there is no guarantee of fairness and due process, that’s all I’m trying to say. Even in the West, there is no guarantee, but the greater the percentage of corruption in a country, the less guarantee there is.
@moreontitodong26463 жыл бұрын
@@Tuxedo_Cake bro likewise in US corruption is chronic too that's why Donald Trump was defeated in election...hehehe...
@jimmyhvy22773 жыл бұрын
@@moreontitodong2646 Ha Ha , good funny :)
@kinhason463 жыл бұрын
Very good presentation! I've been here for many years. Thank you
@stevenboldt64893 жыл бұрын
Be humble, don't be loud. You should always be that way in foreign countries.
@dud3man69693 жыл бұрын
Good advice bo matter where you are.
@waterheaterservices3 жыл бұрын
Works well for me in my country too .
@kimtoftjohannsen90993 жыл бұрын
Trust me Americans and germans NEED that advice 😀😀😀
@luislacno70793 жыл бұрын
Mark you have a nice barritone voice. So soothing.
@mela60463 жыл бұрын
yes I agree He has a gift...most ppL do NOT have a really nice voice
@mayofw31633 жыл бұрын
I have tiny bahay kubo in Nagbualao Basay Negros Oriental next to the Beach and and the highway road Dumaguete to Bacod.Anybody welcome to stay for free as long as small amount of time for free.you just pay water ant Electric.but is not fancy house just small bahay kubo.with two small 2/2 so breezy and relaxing.
@SlightlyStoopidinParadise3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mark for the info. Reminded me of the do's and don'ts when moving to Hawaii. Very similar.
@sanjuanlaunionvlog3 жыл бұрын
That's all really good information. well done! I wish all expats were like you! Talaga!
@peterjeffery95132 жыл бұрын
I think this is about the 4th time I’ve watched this video Mark. Very informative. 👍👍👍
@everymanhasastory2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Peter. I am glad you found my video useful
@israelh20673 жыл бұрын
Great advice. I was an expat living in the Philippines 2 years ago. Everything you said is spot on.
@tman56343 жыл бұрын
Mark, this is a very informative video & in all the ones you've done, it's my opinion 'your best to date' Truly excellent & i'm so happy you turned your life around since being in the Philippines. I would say you deserve it & long may your happiness continue.
@stefanexplores3 жыл бұрын
I think there are a lot of people, like myself, who have visited the Philippines for a month or so before. We feel like maybe we know a thing or two about what it's like to be in the Philippines. However, actually living there long term is probably a lot different from simply visiting for a while. This is valuable advice. Will keep this in mind!
@sanjuanlaunionvlog3 жыл бұрын
That is very true. I've lived here for a year now. Mark is giving some good advice!
@FemFred3 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@kinhason463 жыл бұрын
I live there since 2007...I can speak Visayan, read and write, although not needed. There are con artists everywhere!
@dinovalles78602 жыл бұрын
Is there a channel like yours but with a female's perspective--like, a female ex-pat?
@Hyungbu3 жыл бұрын
If I was to retire there the last thing I would ever do is open a business...Retire is Retire :D
@alanhughes12623 жыл бұрын
if ya start making money out of a business the locals get jealous and then your a target for a hit , i will ride an electric bike everywhere when i return in the province keep to my self no business dealings no money lending .make my retirement money from investments in australia not the pines.
@JWilks-ts5wo3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely would not open a business, by the time you look at any,,, profit margin your overhead will have so many "special fees" that will be re-occurring you may not be able to on a consistent basis, use the profit to restock and keep going. Check this also my man,,, If you're a new foreigner in the city you will be noticed, white, black, Indian, Korean it all applies...Instead of a new "white guy"
@pjotway37803 жыл бұрын
Got few business here have done for for about five years Have about 8 staff So few familys now depend on the shops for income Can live on proceeds easily Its good to start sone business n support locals through employment If your not rich It enables you to live in another country
@Hyungbu3 жыл бұрын
@@pjotway3780 I'm with you brother. I've retired twice already and over the years have had 3 businesses...Old boy is tired :D
@pjotway37803 жыл бұрын
Haha cant retire mate No income from anywhere had a divorce years ago wiped me out N took couple years to get out of bottle n get life together
@budawang773 жыл бұрын
Mark, you seem like the perfect expat. Soft spoken, respectful, thoughtful and street smart.
@AidaJof3 жыл бұрын
Mark, this is without a doubt one of the best videos I have seen. All great and sound advice. Take care and have a good day!
@rosegarden09882 жыл бұрын
I agree. 👍🌷🌞
@bornonjuly70522 жыл бұрын
Yeah I agree with all you said. Greater majority of Filipinos are really good, very helpful, hospitable and loyal to a friend even foreigners but it should not be abuse and we need also respect including our laws the way we also respect laws of any country where ever we maybe.
@grantcornwell10263 жыл бұрын
Spot on advise. My wife is from Dumaguete and I have visited there a few times. An additional caution about going into business in the Philippines is be prepared to shell out substantial "grease money" for any permits or licenses you may need. Unfortunately that is how it is done there so you would need a trusted local to be on your side. Fortunately I was never in business there. I think I heard you say you are in Dmgt now. Perhaps on my next trip....
@johnruvolis8743 жыл бұрын
"There is wisdom in dimming your light" Tao Te Ching
@mapleleaf75303 жыл бұрын
unless driving in Philippines at night from what i hear ..ha ha
@johnruvolis8743 жыл бұрын
@@mapleleaf7530 Ha Ha I bet!
@hybrid711 Жыл бұрын
Good stuff Mark.
@KB3TLE8 ай бұрын
Wonderful advice Mark. -- No matter where you are or what country you might be in !
@everymanhasastory8 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching ☺️
@myrnahall61683 жыл бұрын
I agree...be nice to Filipino, just remember you are foreigner...be respectful...
@MisterMitchMM3 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice. Thank you Mark. All the best. Mitch 🙏
@alliumguy Жыл бұрын
Thank you for a succinct and drama free video. I am widowed, retired, and tired of the cold. I am actually coming to the Philippines in late January of 2023. My decision to visit was helped along quite a bit by your content and other content makers. This video was especially helpful. I am going to visit for a few weeks to see if I can adapt. Thanks for your content.
@StevenGrahamHypnotherapist2 жыл бұрын
Well done. This should be required listening for ALL expats of all nationalities. Having lived in the Philippines for 3 years, I can vouch for this meassage.
@everymanhasastory2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Steven. I am no expert on the Philippines, this video was just my opinions based on two years of observations. It helps that I have traveled to over 100 countries. Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment.
@waterlilly783 жыл бұрын
Yes, you will be respected if you’re humble, you’re right Filipinos are very helpful when you have a good reputation .🙂 Stay nice and stay safe.😀
@chillfan28773 жыл бұрын
from light to dark in 30minutes. nice touch, great video.
@roeljaramillo79843 жыл бұрын
very well said sir,enjoy your stay in the Philippines
@jimmysantiago91603 жыл бұрын
Very well said from an honest and experienced man
@mayofw31633 жыл бұрын
Every man.I just subscribe your channel today ! I love it and all you says its true If am not wrong most Filipino welcoming Expat with open arms as long as you humble and polite,respectful. But if your arrogant most Filipinos hate you and your not welcome at all. I born and raised in down South of Dumaguete.but i left Philippines since 1999 and live 7 yrs in Singapore and now here in Miami Florida for 15 yrs. I love to meet both of you and your wife. God bless and more power to your channel
@jhors77773 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this helpful video.
@marcelmaly4112 Жыл бұрын
ALWAYS GREAT!!! - as expected. Thanks.
@robertdudley87733 жыл бұрын
You make a lot of sense Mark.
@keithd12193 жыл бұрын
Such great advice. Unfortunately, there's that old saying, "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink it"
@aonjgham29203 жыл бұрын
that is true [but] you can always salt their oats...
@titanhercules3 жыл бұрын
I think this is the best video I've watched. A lot of good advise!
@stevebrodnik27752 жыл бұрын
I wish people migrating to Austria would be that humble and respectful to our culture. Especially when they are fed by our social system ... which is US paying taxes for them to get the social benefits here ...
@AM-bw8no3 жыл бұрын
The best video and advice I have found on KZfaq ever! You are a very beautiful person in and out. It was a pleasure to listen to your opinion. I am planning to visit Philippines as soon as it's possible in 2021 and you have open my eyes. Thank you again, God bless you and your family. Andy from Toronto 🇨🇦
@brianbarton7773 жыл бұрын
Watching the sun set behind you makes me want to come there even more. Thank you for the great advice in your video.
@LifePlusRice3 жыл бұрын
Good solid advice. An interesting informative Video Mark. Buyers beware, "All that Glitters is not Gold"
@TheWaterman20113 жыл бұрын
What a rock solid video. I am planning to retire in the Philippines and have been planning strategically. Your imformation absolutely will help me make a solid plan. I have been to the Philippines several; times and will definitely take your advice.
@shasta85233 жыл бұрын
I live in Thailand, same advice applies here. Buyer beware! Nice job, Mark.
@6567GTO3 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice Mark!
@parkpllc3 жыл бұрын
Great information. I think the key is to watch this video once a month while you are there.
@colincresser34052 жыл бұрын
You are an asset to that country aswell.
@stevelawson683 жыл бұрын
Wow great advice Mark. Yes there are definitely differences between the western world and Philippines for sure. Before my first trip there with my wife to visit her family she told me do not touch my butt. She said her family would be very insulted if i jokingly smack her ass or even touch it in front of them. And as you said absolutely no foul language,which i really do not use anyway. Also i was told to be selective of my facial expressions because people will think you are upset or mad at them. Your video is full of great advice. After watching this video i will never own a motorcycle or car when i move there. We will just use public transportation. I don't want any liabilities when we move there permanently.
@TheOnememphisdude3 жыл бұрын
and...NEVER pat your wife on the head. ..love tap... dONT EVEN PAT A SMALL CHILD ON THE HEAD. Filipinos, and other Asians consider that as treating them..as a dog. Very uncool!
@eddie90763 жыл бұрын
Great advise Mark. Happy that all is working out for you in the Philippines. Be safe and enjoy.
@benh20273 жыл бұрын
Good stuff n great work I always visit the Philippines and everything you said is 100% right Cheers Ben
@pcbondart18 күн бұрын
i've been involved with a girl online while i am still here in the States, and she has been separated for many years, what you say in the last segment of your video really hits home, thank you . . . this HAS been on my mind, but you just reinforced it, friends and family con$piring against me . . . need that certificate of no marriage!
@ianphillips68713 жыл бұрын
Thanks mark for the most informative video on the Philippines,also definitely play your cards close to your chest ,be it in Thailand or Philippines
@karllarsson44693 жыл бұрын
Great video, and I've seen many about the Philippines! Thanks for sharing.
@petepinal8415 Жыл бұрын
Wow, what a great blog!!! You thought of everything, even the little things, like, will my GPS work, once I get there. Keep up the great work, and keep those informative, great blogs coming. you are living the life that we all want to live, because you have found a wonderful woman to share your life with, which is what we all want. You are a wonderful couple, and I wish you both all the happiness in the world. I’m 66, and will be moving to the Philippines in February. God willing, I’ll look forward to meeting with you, and having a cup of coffee with you, 😎😉👍🏼🙏🏼.
@zomerochavillo94933 жыл бұрын
Sound advice! Thank you, sir!
@marcrichard72513 жыл бұрын
Great advice Mark...I don’t like swearing myself but I do swear sometimes. I hope and pray I can come over at least by August....
@evankrhodes3 жыл бұрын
Great tips. 100% makes sense.
@daveuygur3 жыл бұрын
Easily one of your Best Videos!! Keep this type of content coming. Thank You Mark 😀🌴
@bettygumilao32363 жыл бұрын
You've said it all. Power on!
@Cons29113 жыл бұрын
Being nice and respectful will help anyone. It comes around, and you make friends, people will remember you for good reasons. Wherever you go, always be respectful.
@aicsusa3 жыл бұрын
Great information thanks for sharing! Take care and God bless you all! David
@ThanaykhwamMai-ff4ni Жыл бұрын
So true bro .Humility and discretion ,besides respecting each other .
@spudgn3 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Hug that lovely Gen for us all. What an angel she is.
@LL-tv9xc3 жыл бұрын
I just discovered your channel and subscribed. Very informative. Thank you.
@stutalley82963 жыл бұрын
Yep, Best video I have seen. Tons of great info. Great job man.
@MrHockeytemper2 жыл бұрын
good point about hanging out with other expats... I live in Thailand and about 1/2 the gents I know, I would not be friends with back home.
@Val20733 жыл бұрын
This is one of the most informative channel on the Philippines. Great videos.
@Flagship7 Жыл бұрын
Great advice! Thanks.
@schuey999 Жыл бұрын
Great video. A lot to consider. Thanks!!!
@everymanhasastory Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@oyvind54903 жыл бұрын
Thanks for such a high value video, This video saves me for so much stress and money. I still want to go back to the city where you live now, because its quiet and by the sea and they have great food
@isaac00793 жыл бұрын
Really good points! I was actually thinking about eventually having some sort of business with my family here but I never really thought about red tape. I didnt consider that it wouldn't be my business. That's pretty scary. I love my wifes family but money does weird things to people.
@novicetech12 жыл бұрын
One of the best info videos I've seen. Thanks.
@everymanhasastory2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you enjoyed it. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀
@robertkay44083 жыл бұрын
Very thorough, useful, practical advice, Mark. I'm happy to hear that life is treating you well in Dumaguete. I've always enjoyed my travels in the Philippines , and have gravitated toward Dumaguete and Siquijor in the past, so perhaps one day our paths will cross. Great spots, and keep up the great posts.
@zdcruz05143 жыл бұрын
Nice video. Thank you for the kind words. Stay safe.
@raffi33133 жыл бұрын
Cool channel. Your Story is inspiring.
@everymanhasastory3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@carena84783 жыл бұрын
Another great video Mark! Thanks for taking the time to do these.
@isaacsworld92693 жыл бұрын
These videos are good Mark. You really have something here. I think its your voice and good continuity.
@napoleonmdusa88772 жыл бұрын
Another excellent video!...one of my favorites.
@MoshiraMitano3 жыл бұрын
Great video ! That information is priceless. Hope it doesn't cause you trouble cuz bad people don't like their secrets revealed.
@rickyfuller60573 жыл бұрын
You give great information like Mr Steve another expat. I appreciate you being honest about the information the sam as he does.
@everymanhasastory3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ricky
@michaelchristophergutierre72442 жыл бұрын
Great advice, one of your best videos! I learned from experience that most people in world think that Westerners all live in Hollywood and the streets are paved in gold. And I agree, some of the foriegners that are 10x worst. Solution: Vet everyone, both locals and foreigners. Lessons Learned: 1. Don't make other peoples problems your problem. 2. Don't feel bad that some people are poor. 3. If its not you, they will always find someone else to use. 4. Treat everyone with Dignity and Respect.
@marktexaspatriot25273 жыл бұрын
Fantastic video.Concise well planned advice for anyone planning to live or visit any country as a guest. 👍👍👍
@basilqaqish94803 жыл бұрын
thank you. I appreciate your honest talks man. Peace and Love
@monicachiong30573 жыл бұрын
I love Valencia! 🤗 We had our community nursing duty there when I was studying nursing in Silliman University. They got the best fruits there😀
@edic26192 жыл бұрын
Great videos.
@musicalarchi2 жыл бұрын
Great video with lots of sound advice!
@ringo-ringo2 жыл бұрын
Wow! U hit everything on the nail mark...
@murrayspiffy2815 Жыл бұрын
What a great conversation - I listened to the whole thing and forgot about time. This was two years ago - I wonder if the guy put roots down.
@gw50333 жыл бұрын
Everything you have said is bang on. I have lived in Ecuador for 8 years and it is the very same here, I married an Ecuadorian and own a small farm. Here you be respectful of others, be polite, keep it simple and lay low. The Philipines was on my radar before settling here.
@claykkari3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I learned a lot from this. Telling someone what not to do is often so much more applicable than trying to guess what they should do
@gideoncohen34273 жыл бұрын
Hi Mark ,thanks a lot for your kindness and the information you share with us .I wish you good health and all the best.