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How one night of poor sleep can turn into chronic insomnia

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Insomnia Coach

Insomnia Coach

Күн бұрын

I hear a lot of different stories from people about how their chronic insomnia developed - and almost all of them follow a similar pattern. That's because chronic insomnia typically develops through a pathway that involves three specific factors.
First, some of us are just more predisposed to sleep disruption. For example, we may have a stressful job or just be more susceptible to worry or anxiety. This makes sleep disruption more likely at times of stress or worry.
Then there is typically an identifiable precipitating event. For example, we might move house, have an argument with our spouse, experience a health scare, travel overseas, or something else unusual might happen. This leads to sleep disruption, and such sleep disruption is normal and to be expected!
For most of us, sleep will recover once the precipitating event is no longer an issue because we don't become very concerned about sleep. We don't worry about it and we don't try to compensate for poor sleep.
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However, when we experience sleep disruption (especially if it doesn't go away after a few days) it's all too easy to become worried and concerned. This leads to more time spent thinking about sleep and attempting to fix sleep. Unfortunately, the behaviors we adopt in an attempt to get our sleep back on track usually perpetuate the problem and further entrench the sleep problem, and this leads to chronic insomnia.
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The good news is that if you recognize any part of this insomnia development cycle, then you can take comfort in the fact that your insomnia is not unusual - and, therefore, it can be addressed using the same cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) techniques that have worked for the overwhelming majority of others with chronic insomnia.
CBT-I techniques help address the perpetuating factors of insomnia to get your sleep back on track so you can enjoy better sleep for the long term.
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@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 4 жыл бұрын
All content found on the Insomnia Coach KZfaq channel is provided for informational and educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, disorder, or medical condition. It should never replace any advice given to you by your physician or any other licensed healthcare provider. Insomnia Coach LLC offers coaching services only and does not provide therapy, counseling, medical advice, or medical treatment. All content is provided “as is” and without warranties, either express or implied.
@cwoza5
@cwoza5 3 жыл бұрын
Great video! What about us first responders? I work 24 hours every third day. I feel like I always sleep with one eye open. Even when I'm at home. It's incredibly frustrating. I know it's having a detrimental effect on my health...
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 3 жыл бұрын
That heightened arousal can definitely be disruptive to sleep - I suspect that the shift work could be playing a big role, too.
@monikavarro2020
@monikavarro2020 3 жыл бұрын
I actually googled the longest time someone can go without sleep wondering when I might ever sleep again. 😞
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 3 жыл бұрын
And what did you discover, Monika? I believe the world record is 11 days - but it took the individual concerned a huge amount of effort to stay awake without any sleep for that long. Most people with insomnia don't put that much effort into staying awake so they're very unlikely to go without sleep for anywhere near as long!
@vitaminc864
@vitaminc864 4 жыл бұрын
As for me, my insomnia ignited when I got stressed on the first day of college as I was immediately bombarded Ed with assaighnents and quizzet, up till this day I still suffer from goi to bed when there is a following school day so 5 days a week I am struggling with insomnia I have developed many forms of Insomnia like paradoxical where I wake up and feel so aware of my surroundings and feels like I haven’t got any Rem sleep.
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 4 жыл бұрын
Many people with insomnia are able to recall that initial trigger for sleep disruption - however, it's very rare for that trigger to still be a problem once short-term sleep disruption has developed into chronic insomnia. By this time, it's the thoughts and behaviors we have and implement in response to that sleep disruption that actually make it harder for our sleep to recover. Since cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) techniques address the perpetuating factors behind chronic insomnia, it's the best way to improve sleep for the long term.
@jfresh2054
@jfresh2054 Жыл бұрын
I had covid really bad for two days and have chronic insomnia now. I am so sick, which is the hardest thing. My legs Ache really bad. Headaches, confusion, brain fog, stomach issues. Also have myoclonus and muscle fasciculations syndrome.
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach Жыл бұрын
That sounds really difficult, Josh. Have you found your approach to sleep is different since you started struggling with it? Is there a difference in how you approach sleep now, compared to when sleep wasn't something you were concerned about? If so, perhaps there might be a useful insight there? I wish you all the best.
@AutomotiveAnatomy
@AutomotiveAnatomy 3 жыл бұрын
This is the 5 night that I cannot sleep. I could not focus and kept walking up my partner. She did not know how to help me. Any suggestions?
@livonia1807
@livonia1807 3 жыл бұрын
are you getting sleep now?
@AutomotiveAnatomy
@AutomotiveAnatomy 3 жыл бұрын
@@livonia1807 Yes I am man!!! When I am not sleepy I do not force it. I go to sleep when I am really tired. A lot more activity during the day helps. I hope you are able to get sleep soon
@livonia1807
@livonia1807 3 жыл бұрын
@@AutomotiveAnatomy alot of sunlight and exercise is the best cure for insomnia if you ever get it again
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 3 жыл бұрын
@@AutomotiveAnatomy It sounds like sleep drive won in the end, as it always does! Glad to know you are sleeping better - and what a great insight you shared! Going to bed when sleepy, not forcing sleep, and being active during the day can be really helpful!
@condomgraveyard666
@condomgraveyard666 11 ай бұрын
5 nights of no sleep? Or bad sleep? Glad to see you’re sleeping better. Hitting a rough patch myself.
@backwood2203
@backwood2203 2 жыл бұрын
You just gave everyone the cure at the end of the video 🔥
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 2 жыл бұрын
I love it!
@backwood2203
@backwood2203 2 жыл бұрын
@@InsomniaCoach I'm getting a lil better some nights I can get 6 or 7 hrs of sleep some nights 4 hrs
@backwood2203
@backwood2203 2 жыл бұрын
@@InsomniaCoach And I believe that my chronic Insomnia came from my tooth infection
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach Жыл бұрын
​@@backwood2203 There are probably as many triggers for insomnia as there are people in the world - not much we can do about that! What we can do is ensure we don't turn temporary sleep disruption into a longer-term problem by trying to control sleep!
@sabihapatel2247
@sabihapatel2247 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, thank you very much for your videos. Just wanted to know could you share a video about why people with insomnia wait for sleep to come rather than just go to sleep. Is it the subconscious worry that 8s stopping them from sleep
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 3 жыл бұрын
In my experience, many people with insomnia go to bed before they are sleepy enough for sleep in an effort to get more sleep or because they mistake fatigue for sleepiness. This is why it can be so helpful, at least in the short-term, to avoid going to bed until you feel a strong sense of sleepiness. A strong sense of sleepiness can also help overpower arousal/worry that might be making sleep more difficult. You might find this video helpful: If you have insomnia, it's not always a good idea to go to bed at the same time every single night - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/j99dfbul1N7FiYk.html
@livonia1807
@livonia1807 3 жыл бұрын
@@InsomniaCoach what to do if insomnia doesn't get better and worsens over time?? i looked it up and it said it can cause death, should i be concerned about this?
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 3 жыл бұрын
@@livonia1807 Chronic insomnia doesn't cause death because sleep always happens in the end! When we have been awake for long enough, the body will always give us, at the very least, the minimum amount of sleep we need. If your insomnia doesn't get better, it might be worth looking into cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I), which is usually recommended as the first-line treatment for chronic insomnia.
@davidgreen9047
@davidgreen9047 3 жыл бұрын
I sleep 1 hour every night): its harrrrd on me
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 3 жыл бұрын
It would be quite unusual to get only one hour of sleep indefinitely, without any nights of "catch-up" sleep. With this in mind, it might be worth exploring the possibility that you could be getting a little bit more sleep than you think - and that, in turn, might help lower sleep-related worry. You might find this video helpful, too: How to address paradoxical insomnia (sleep state misperception) - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/p5yZhcmFmJ7UfY0.html
@mukyoukai2011
@mukyoukai2011 Жыл бұрын
Is it effective for insomnia in depression?
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach Жыл бұрын
I think moving away from struggling with insomnia and tackling any behaviors that might be perpetuating insomnia can be helpful whether depression is present or not. I'd always suggest discussing any such concerns with a doctor, though.
@shaanmax1721
@shaanmax1721 3 жыл бұрын
How many days does insomnia last I Quit lorazapam after taking to 6 months . 7 th no drug no sleep .
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 3 жыл бұрын
Sleep always happens in the end, Shaan! I think the record of going without any sleep at all is 264 hours - but that was achieved by someone who did all they could to prevent sleep from happening (people with insomnia typically do the opposite and try everything they can to make sleep happen)!
@shaanmax1721
@shaanmax1721 3 жыл бұрын
@@InsomniaCoach keeping myself motivated only watching ur videos 👍
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 3 жыл бұрын
@@shaanmax1721 Glad you're finding the videos helpful! You might find it helpful to shift attention away from sleep, too! Pursuing engaging, enjoyable, and enriching daytime activities - for example - can be a good way to improve the quality of your days and to reduce sleep-related worry!
@user-ts2tm7zu1b
@user-ts2tm7zu1b 3 жыл бұрын
Im quiting porn at the moment. I'm on day 3 and this has happened to me before where ill quit for a few days and have insomnia for a night. I cannot stand this and this is my last time. I will never go back to porn after this. I'm not doing this again.
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 3 жыл бұрын
When we make any changes to our lives or our regular routine, sleep can temporarily be disrupted. Sleep drive always wins in the end, though!
@endless1ox
@endless1ox 4 жыл бұрын
i got mine after a virus
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 4 жыл бұрын
Many people are able to remember the initial trigger of their sleep disruption! The next step is to identify and address the sleep-related thoughts and behaviors that are perpetuating the sleep disruption!
@endless1ox
@endless1ox 4 жыл бұрын
@@InsomniaCoach i did this kind of treatment with professionals already so many many times. i believed eight years that my sleeping trouble is normal and nothing special. but the doctors telling me now its untreatable and came with the virus, like people who have CFS/ME. now i really dont know what else to do 😔
@InsomniaCoach
@InsomniaCoach 4 жыл бұрын
​@@endless1ox Addressing the thoughts and behaviors that perpetuate insomnia is almost always helpful, regardless of the initial trigger of the sleep disruption. I am not a doctor, so I am not sure why you are being told your insomnia is not treatable. This is something I've never heard of before. If you can recognize your situation in this video, you might want to ask your doctors about CBT-I: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/hrp9fZWlmdnPd2w.html
@endless1ox
@endless1ox 4 жыл бұрын
@@InsomniaCoach thanks!!
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