I hope you enjoyed this one. This video is different than the normal format. I'd love to hear what you think. Should I animate more sections of my discussions? I'm trying my best to add value in as many ways as possible. To listen to my full podcast episodes, please subscribe to "Before Skool" kzfaq.info/love/5S-og4jjdFo8FqoM8D42DA Thank you!

The problem is “it” is basically a drug and that when you start viewing it’s so hard to quit even when you know it’s bad. 2024 is the year I’m going to try and stop, and abstain from it. We can do this boys

The most dangerous part of what's going on is that we're not talking about it. Discussions like this one are helpful. Thank you for covering this issue.

My relationship was ruined because of porn. I hate when other people talk about porn like its harmless when it has ruined so many relationships and lives.

I work in a high school with students who are at risk of dropping out, and I’ve definitely noticed a lot of these cultural shifts that have happened in how people are relating to one another, and even themselves. A couple of weeks ago a student was preparing for finals. She became frustrated and was like “whatever, I’m just going to become a stripper.” I mean no disrespect to people in that profession, but I’m worried that young women feel that is where all of their worth lies. I’m nearly 10 years older than most of the students I work with, and I was definitely taught to be well rounded and apply myself in school, sports, and other activities. But a lot of the teenagers I work with are getting the message that those things don’t matter. With so much emphasis being on social media and one of the top careers young people aspire towards being an influencer, a lot of them are getting the message that what matters most is how they look and what their online presence reflects. I see all of the students as multifaceted individuals who are capable of more than selling products- or themselves- online. More messages like the ones reflected in this video need to be online to reinforce that. So, thank you for this content! And to all of the gen z people who might see this post, I want you to know that you are so much more than your appearance , and you deserve love and genuine human connection.

Let's talk about how fantasy in general distorts intimate relationships. Sit coms, soap operas, rom coms. People model their relationships subconsciously as if they are in a TV show or movie.

I used to think watching porn was harmless. It's not, it's self destructive, and destructive to humanity.

As a 20 year old guy, I grew up as the guinea pig for social media apps. The last few years I have constantly wished that I never joined these apps and think about what life would be like without them. Crazy thing also is that I’m certain 90% of people between the ages of 25-18 wish the same thing as well. This video is the turning point for me, and just motivated to delete every social media page from my phone. Thank you guys for spreading positivity and hope for the world.

As a child who found porn young and got addicted pretty much my whole life 39 years old now I now see the damage its done. I have always been disconnected in my relationships. I have been off porn for 8 months and have seen some positive changes but neural plasticity does degrade as you get older. I really hope you younger guys an girls listen to this video and take heed. Dont make the same mistakes we made. Learn from the past to change your future.

i’m a woman and i discovered porn by accident when i was 8 years old. it ruined a lot of my childhood for me. completely changed who i am and my sense of self. i attribute a lot of my mental health issues to my early porn addiction.

Been saying it for years. Needs to be a movement to do away with social media period. We clearly can’t handle it and it is destroying us. We don’t connect anymore or strive for deep relationships. There’s no romance. It’s all on the surface. I was born in the 80’s and was a teenager in the 90’s. I remember when people connected. I remember finding love and the excitement of that connection. Now it’s such a foreign thing. I don’t feel or see it anywhere. One of the main driving factors is social media and yes the easily ready porn everywhere. Everything is hyper sexualized. And I mean everything. There needs to be a movement of disconnection from our phones. Do your part. Spread the word. Limit your time online and for Peet’s sake delete the social media apps. You don’t need any of them. You never did. Let’s get back to being human.

I think porn is only a piece of this problem. There are those, like myself, who see porn as a mechanical ritual. We acknowledge that porn is completely unrealistic, but we consume it anyway, because we're single, so might as well -- as long as it doesn't deteriorate to the point where we cannot function daily. I personally don't consume extreme content and keep my taste as grounded as possible. Something happened to me not very long ago that changed my perspective on this. I met a girl I was actually infatuated with. They come across quite rarely for me. The moment that happened, I lost all motivation to consume pornography. About a week after she told me she was not interested in dating, I returned to my old habits. So I can't empathize with anyone who is so addicted to porn that they find no interest in real sex. My problem, and I imagine there are more like me out there, is that romantic relationships seem like an unintelligent risk. Most of our modern history leading up to now has taught us this lesson. Divorce rates are extremely high, and divorce is extremely punishing for the male, which I happen to be. There is the obvious risk of becoming involved with a mentally unstable person that tries to ruin your life. However, there is an even worse, more insidious risk; a relationship of complete mediocrity and dissatisfaction. The idea that I'd waste 2+ years of time with someone only to find out I'm not really interested in them any more, or perhaps because they stopped putting effort in once they felt comfortable, is quite soul-crushing. That idea has kept me trapped for my entire life. Perhaps my romantic drive just isn't high enough. Perhaps I'm just picky. And no, most of my criteria do not involve appearance -- my friends always told me that I find women attractive that they wouldn't. But this is how my mindset approaches this problem.

People are definitely waking up! Finding a community can be hard since most of society will label those who’ve made such decisions as “prudes”, so a lot of people likely keep their decision to abstain to themselves.

We have normalized the profane, aggrandized the physical form, made narcissism the norm. What was once taboo is now mundane. What was once unthinkably violent and shocking is now readily consumable and accepted. The proverbial genie is out of the bottle; good luck getting it back in.

I’m currently with a man who actually doesn’t watch porn and the difference between him and all my exes is STAGGERING. No guy I’ve ever been with compares to him as a romantic and sexual partner. I forgot what it felt like to be deeply desired until I met him. I also forgot that sex is meant to bond couples or for procreation… not a mechanistic way to just get off. I wish my younger self knew that men like him exist, so I wouldn’t have wasted time on men who claimed that porn was “normal”

I'm not disagreeing with anything said specifically in this section of podcast, HOWEVER - I think it is also important to point out that human beings have for the VAST majority of their time on this planet, lived in much smaller pools of people. We weren't competing with so many people at ALL TIMES, which is the situation people find themselves in more and more. It's said that a riot is the language of the unheard, and I think in a similar vein, people in subconsciously feeling defeated and overwhelmed. No matter how hard they try it's not good enough. There's always someone "better" on Tinder or Onlyfans. People will spend their time, money and attention trying to get the best at all times, which leaves many people without mates or matches. Others have mentioned fantasy (movies, etc) being part of the issue as well, and they are right. We constantly raise the bar to this unattainable level, but that's what everyone is conditioned to think is normal. Yes, porn doesn't help, but I think it's the natural end result of people trying their hardest and not getting anywhere, so that's what the can turn to. Many people have staggeringly unrealistic expectations.

I wish more people were having this conversation. It's so important and overdue.

If anyone is trying to quit pornography the best advice I ever received was to KEEP TRYING! You will try and fail but keep trying and eventually you will succeed! Never give up! It will change your life!

Not only porn but the endless consumption and availability of entertainment. Which I’ve noticed with my kids and especially my friends kids. I don’t allow my kids to watch KZfaq at all or consume tv as much as possible. But I’ve been paying attention to my friends kids all ages 1-7 or so years old. But I hung out with my son and his best friend, both 5, and the friend has his own iPhone, iPad, switch etc and allowed to watch KZfaq and all that pretty much whenever. That kid is so demanding and has a horrible attention span. I think it’s that instant gratification mindset

Holy crap your illustrations are so good! They are so consistent in quality I was fooled into thinking they were generated by some kind of template somehow. Kudos!

Bret is such an incredible communicator and teacher. He is able to bring perspective to things which most people would never even consider. Thank you for sharing this--I'd love to see similar animations in this digestible format.

We are seeing some of this in Japan, especially in young men, who spend their days in fantasy, never connecting with the young Japanese ladies who can't compete with their busty Anime/Manga/Henti rivals. This subject seems similar to a story you told some time back about a young warrior distracted by an evil spirit that could show him anything he desired. Eventually, he was weakened to the point where he could not fulfill his destiny and save his people. I think the same thing is happening, and has happened to our young, seduced by the show, and sucked dry for profit, and forgetting how to actually connect.

Your illustrations in this video are incredibly powerful. What scares me most is that people often choose to not believe what’s readily apparent. That people subconsciously know these things to be true but regardless continue to live hedonistic lives. It feels as if they were fated to be slaves never knowing how easily they’re influenced by corrupt societal values.

congrats and well well deserved. You illustrations are incredible and I have learnt a huge amount of information from your channel so thank you

The problem is the addiction. Addiction is an extremely difficult thing to get out of without the right motivations and that still that isn’t enough. It’s a journey into the depths of our being.

There definitely is a movement to get away from porn and other bad habits in gen z, it’s just not considered “normal” by any stretch. I think most gen z people can see and feel themselves how damaging this stuff is. Just look up no fap and there’s countless stories of how it’s changed a lot of guys lives for the better.

100% I agree with the fact about pornography. Once you seen it, you can't unseen it. Now we have 3 whole generations who have grown up with pornography and the damage it has done to male - female relationships, dating, marriage are catastrophic. AI & sex robots will completely destroy the very fabric of human relationships all together.

Phenomenal! Ive been an animator myself professionally for 24 years and i keep thinking about making content like this that might impact peoples lives in a positive way but i just work too much lol. Keep up the good work!

Mark I just want to say your animations are freakin bad ass. Love the channel and the speakers you bring. I recommend this channel all the time. Good work bro 👏

I've been following you for years now. You've been part of my healing journey and I will always be grateful for that.

As a no porn gen Z, i can tell you there are people like me who don't watch porn. We usually supplement it with erotic writing or art, the space online for that kind of thing is actually massive

This is gold. The part from 11:55 to 12:25, where Bret Weinstein talks about sex having been lost as the driving force behind humanity and men accomplishing great things as it did in the past, is a very underrated point.

My roommate watches soft porn daily and doesn’t understand why he’s not motivated. I was like ….how do you expect a drug Addict to be motivated on anything other than drugs

The thing I hate the most is that sex is considered dirty now. It should be a beautiful act of love between individuals.

i ruined mine because of this reason. I couldn’t communicate properly, didn’t show her how much i did love her, and how desensitized i was from common troubles. Even looking elsewhere for pleasure while making my partner feel like she wasn’t enough. I regret what i let it do to me for so many years. I’m working everyday to try to get her back and rebuild, but it seems like it’ll be time that i’ll have to wait, so she can see that i’m totally different.

I started viewing very young and thought it hadn’t really affected me. I started my first real relationship at 20 and we’re still together 4.5 years later. But every passing year of the relationship, specially after the first period of head over heels falling, I’ve become more and more aware of how messed up I am because of this. I’m slowly trying to “reprogram” my mind in a certain way, but its been tough…

Halfway through the video and i subscribed instantly... congratulations for the quality you are puting out in your videos...

Bro I was literally about to grab myself gorilla style when this popped up. Perfect timing

My husband's pornography addiction has ruined our family and I don't think it's going to be something that can be salvaged. My daughter is afraid of intimate relationships because of it. Thank you for your video. I hope it helps somebody.

The artwork in this particular episode disturbed me quite a lot. Well done!

Fantastic upload. Excellent artwork to further emphasise the point of the talk. Great work.

This is a great conversation, I stopped watching porn 5 months ago and have never thought about going back. Stay Safe y’all.

Mark your illustrations are fabulous thank you ❣️🙏🏼

Nice to see the artist’s face. Never thought he’d be a rooster too. Very talented man. Thank you for all of your work brother!

My sister is an "influencer" a "tiktok baddie" and one of those "street interviewers" for RapTV. She had a video go absolutely viral for interviewing a man on the beach, while wearing a bikini, borderline harassing the guy into complimenting her appearance, while he stated multiple times he had a girlfriend. She wouldnt back off and got fucking roasted in the comments. Honestly, i feel pretty bad for her. Her generation is nothing without validation from strangers on the internet, and it mustve been soul crushing. Im glad i never felt the pressure she must feel to show her body and use her sexuality for money and "leveling up" in life. Shes only 21

It's hard to find that genuine, romantic partner -- after years of online dating, and having friends that date online, we finally ditched the apps (we tried many) and have yet to meet anyone in person. Online, I'd be ghosted, or absolutely no guy I dated wanted to commit to anything that's more than casual. Even the profiles I saw and didn't swipe on -- "just want to see where this goes" or "just casual" were the majority. Just from my POV/opinion, commitment is seen as "taboo" "crazy" or "needy" in dating culture. I assume it's it's similar for men swiping on women. I also hope for what was stated earlier in the video -- that the next generation can change how we date.

Love you so much and all you do started watching in 2020 and have been able to share your videos with so many people along with changing my life and perspectives thank you so much!

Hey Bret Weinstein. The movement you're missing has totally arisen already. It's just not so visible because we're people who don't take as much presence in the wide web as the commerce. I'd agree though that it looks like we're still a very small percentage compared to the masses who're just going along with all of the entertainment/distraction industry. Which is understandable as well. We're all addicted. And it takes a lot of awareness to notice one's own addiction and hell of a lot of strength to "opt out" as you called it. Thank you guys so much for your talk and wisdom and the beautiful art

We use it as a way to fill a void. For most of us that void is a lack of romantic intimacy. Willpower isn’t enough for most us to give it up. We need love, but since love is so damn hard, we keep going back

"by participating, by consuming that content (porn) you are destroying your sexual mind and harming your future partner." Very on point! And might i add to that: youre also minimising your chances of having a future partner at all!

It brought so much problems in my relationship, including my trust. Thank you for this video

Thank you After Skool. You are appreciated

I’m 25 so is my husband, I’m happy to see a video up like this because this is something we talk about all the time. People in this gen really need to wake up before it is to late.

I was a porn addict for 20 years or more. I discovered porn very young unfortunately and the reason I watched it was to have some kind of connection with the opposite sex. As I got older starting dating. Every single girl I met was so damaged, had daddy issues, didn't need or want a man that porn became my way to make that special connection. When I met my wife everything changed. I realized I didn't need porn to feel loved anymore. I had someone that wanted to love me for all of me. So now I'm done with all the horrible porn and happily married. I do feel finally that connection with someone I've always wanted to feel. Just to be feel and be loved is all I was looking for. Don't give up guys. She's out there. Whether she's in the Philippines or Thailand she's out there. Don't give up.

Its weird how normalized porn has become in society, rampant sexual innuendos, memes where the punchline is a porn term or hentai clip, OF seen as liberating for women. Even a lot of popular music lyrics are just straight up erotic novels, and its played on the radio with no issues at all. I honestly think sex and eroticism should be taboo once more

I'm almost 2 months clean and in a healthy relationship. I started tracking my porn use on my calendar (just writing "xp" for "no porn" in the bottom corner each day) and it's motivating to write it on there every day for my significant other to see. It becomes routine to write it and the thought of breaking it and having to explain starts to feel like a non-option.

When I was a child it was so much more difficult to access pornography. Now I have been shocked by videos shown to me by children of my wider family, videos they think are funny, but absolutely shock me. I like how one expert said, it is like we are all part of a very dangerous experiment. I had a very strict upbringing and I am very grateful to my mum for that.

The animations are incredible, Mark. excellent drawing, and fits the narrative perfectly. Keep up the great work

This is important. Thank you for being brave and sharing this message. ❤

Videos like these help the movement happen! Thank you all for the hard work illuminating some of the worst problems of the pornography industry. A succinct example of what it does to the models and consumers.

I was introduced to porn by other kids at age 12. Took me decades and years to fully get over watching it. Porn is more addictive than any drugs out there.

I’m 27 years old and deleted all social media years ago except for KZfaq and Pinterest. I try to limit use of those occasionally. I will turn my phone off for 4-5 days at a time every once in a while just to get a clear head. I turn my phone off nearly every night before bed. I am the only person I know of that EVER turns their phone off. Does anyone else do this? It worries me how much people mindlessly scroll/ consume and it’s something we need to get a hold of because we’re screwed as a society if not.

Your animation is beautiful! Thank you!

Mate, you should show your face more often. KZfaq should see what kind of men (women are a different topic) produce the loveable, compassionate and absolutely appropriate and fitting content they adore and look up to. You are a (demi) god in animation and need to be called out as such. Thank you so very very much for all your outstanding work and please keep it up! 💚

Not a lot of people know this, but Mark was actually speed drawing while doing the podcast with Bret. He had another camera above him pointing down. THAT is how good he is. Nice to finally see the face of this great chanel.

This is a very good channel. Keep up the good work.

I’ve struggled with this for years and it really got in the way of me getting a real partner. The easiest way to understand why it should be avoided is it will never make you happy. I got back on the horse, recently met a nice girl (by pure dumb luck btw, I’m no Prince Charming) and abstaining from it has been a lot easier. I realized my personal issue causing the addiction was because deep down I was lonely and believed nobody would want me. Now that I’ve found somebody who so far, likes me for me, it’s like that issue’s being resolved piece by piece. This was a great video.

Thank you for making this! I'm so sick of the normalizing of low morals and the push to get rid of families. P is a huge problem in relationships and prevents healthy love.

Mark, i am an artist too and i really admire your art. I really think your work is not only amazing,but inspiring as well. Thank You Mark! P.S. plus you are saying some powerful stuff here!

I am 41 years old and for 25 years i have been related to pornography through the consume of drugs creating havoc in my life and my family. I am now sober from all drugs amd from the need of short gratification through pornography. Learning how to transmute this sexual energy has changed my life in all senses and using it as a extension of myself to be creative for example starting my own channel and trying to help others. Great job guys.

My pastor was a porn addict in college and even going through seminay. He is very candid about it, letting everyone know how God set him free and that porn addiction can happen to absolutely anyone. He has now done missions in Peru and has a beautiful wife and 3 kids, one grown.

Mark ! Thanks for sharing your talents. I was a photo and illustraion major in art school in the 70s who became a chef... You inspired me to start drawing again after decades of inactivity with it. Your control of those dry erase markers is amazing ! ...and so many of the videos have great content and messages. Have a great day.

So glad for this video I have had a huge struggle with pron it's affected how I've felt in my everyday life I will join the movement to opt out of this destructive habit whenever it forms thank u for bringing more light on this situation

Congratulations!! Great channel!!

I agree with the main points of the video but there’s a very important thing they did not touch upon. The same society that gives us easy access to porn, does not allow for young people to explore their sexuality in a healthy and taboo free manner, and more importantly there are no teachings of how to do so SAFELY. I think admitting that we are all sexual beings and that it is okay for us to explore sexuality with each other and ourselves from an early age with proper guidance and openness, such as with any other aspect of our lives, would go a long way.

Note that the chemical addiction to sex hormones of both sexes has not been addressed... the continual involvement of pornography allows the addiction to intensify over long periods and to become even more addictive... once the person involved tries to become uninvolved they suffer withdrawals like a drug or alcohol addict and it is not easy to quit.

I opened up email to make extra money at home, all of a sudden porn is all over my emails. Some of them are really gross, I’ve been trying to get rid of them for two months but more keeps popping up. I don’t want to see this, never did. Believe it or not I never liked porn, it ruins people’s lives. Thank you for this, I believe you put this up just in time

What a good conversation, so many good points!

Hi i have really enjoyed this. Thank you so much. I am in my 60s and have only had real relationships. now i am learning that people in their 40s even are into polyamorous lifestyles where one or two "couples" may be attached to up to 30 or more different partners/co partners. thinking of the energetic connection between hyper dimensional influences that Indian gurus and spiritual gurus advise are energetic connections between each person and every single one of each partners that they have ever had sexual intimacy and taking on some of their darkness, karma etc etc. goodness so glad that i have been celibate for decades and on a spiritual journey of evolution. God help the younger generation exploited by rapacious content creators, businesses and their own self gratification. goodness. so glad i am older and wiser and not adversely affected by this dynamic. better to have nothing than the sorry state of what is on offer and its potential "contamination"

It's not just that your artwork is so cleverly thought out and executed, what makes you stand out is that you are able to draw so quickly!

Your animations, Mark, are brilliant, every one of them. It is really what caught my attention way back when. Combined with well selected music the effect is very powerful. I cannot say I agree with everything said, but I watch and listen anyway to gain those other perspectives we need to better understand each other and see the world through new eyes each time.

Your animations are Fabulous. Well done.

Nice very well made. Perfect symphony!

Mark, you are so talented! I love your art work, it is so inspiring and educational...I always wondered who was behind this amazing channel. Thank you for all you do! 💗

I have always sought a connection through porn that I have never found. Last year I met a girl I love so much I think I would be doing her a disservice if I were to watch porn videos again. And we are not together. But I can see how much harm I have done to the people I have met by behaving in a totally unusual and inhumane way. Here I understand the cruelty of this industry that chooses to use human biology to its detriment having only one goal in mind, which is money and power (and forgetting who we are).

Great channel keep growing 🌸

This is so good! Thankyou

I love After Skool - your illustrations add so much to the topics of the videos - they are incredible. Thank you!

Some of us have started the movement. I'm a millennial technically and I was told today that I can't tell men that I'm not interested in a casual relationship. That I want a family and a child and a dude who doesn't watch porn or follow women who post half naked photos on Instagram. A gal friend told me that I can't just come out the gate with it. My response? Yes I can. If the dude can't handle it, then better not to waste my time or theirs. In my opinion, no one has to do those things, but if they want to be with me, they do. And I already 100% follow through with mutual respect on my end.

Excellent episode!

Your art always hits hard.

I have to disagree with this guy when he says the desire to become worthy of a sexual relationship is what has motivated men to accomplish great things... If anything, it's the complete opposite. If we look at many of the so called "geniuses" and men who accomplished truly great things, it was infact do the transcending, or, rather, the Sublimation of the Sexual impulse that allowed them to accomplish those things. The Sublimation of the sexual energy and redirection of it towards more lofty goals, rather then its dissipation on the temporary satisfaction of carnal desires is what has produced the true polymaths and prodigies, helped awaken their creativity and allowed them to produce such incredible feats and lasting contributions to society. Many were celibate, or never Married, like Nikola Tesla. It doesnt seem that difficult to become worthy of a sexual relationship either tbh... Take her out to dinner, chocolate and flowers, one thing leads to another, etc... She isn't expecting you to chisel out a marble bust of her... The ones who could accomplish those incredible feats of architecture or timeless works of art were the ones who werent worried about "getting the girl" and instead understood the inherent power of harnessing the Sexual Energy (Which is the creative power in the Universe) to be used for more lasting achievements of renown and acclaim.

I tell ya what; I quit drinking and drugs almost 15 years ago, quit smoking cigarettes about 12 years ago. I thought it was tough at the time. Porn has been so much harder to get away from. There's an insidiousness to it, where you're convinced it's not hurting anybody. I just turned 40 and have been on and off trying to get away from porn, it's the hardest addiction to quit for me.

Ideal ideas of perfection always existed, you do not need porn for that. Pornography is simply the result created as a representation of sexuality in a different way. Pornography is simply put just media, this can be a video, a picture it can be even a fantasy. We cannot deny to have fantasies like this, because then we would deny ourselves, or the things we do not like on us, therefore the existence of porn is simply a manifestation of those fantasies, while as it progressed people started to moneytize it etc, it became a medium to view in mass consumption. So it is our responsibility how we deal with this medium and it is understandable that people who do not have a partner consume this medium as a replacement. While again the reason why they are single must not be porn itself but the expectations you have to a partner or what your partner should look like. Now offcourse this idealof a partner can be affected by porn consumption, but that is still up to the person. If they get now immersed or not is up to their responsibility, because blaming porn for that is just like blaming ourselves for having fantasies. Those fantasies just took form to catch our awareness, to make us see, that this is somewhat part of us and through this we can encounter this partof us. In terms of addiction i have to say, really everything can make addicted, but again addiction comes from the lack of something. To understand the root of why this happens we have to look further to find a existential question. Is there a meaning to life and what fullfills me? So our problem is not porn, porn is just a facette of the problem, our problem is that we have to learn to control lust and balance it to our life. Now you can argue if a couple has sex 3 times a day, is a lack of control over lust or not, to give an example or if it is normal because a natural act, but so our fantasies natural, while they can lead to overconsumption if we do not pay attention. In ancient times even, there was such a classifcation of beautiful or less beautiful, acceptable as sexual partner or not acceptable and back there, there was no pornhub existing or porn studios, yet people developed the same twisted idea about beauty and sex. We should rather question why this is part of us and how to learn to live with it. Besides that, even without porn, things like :bdsm, rape and other taboo sexual themes have been there since always, porn just gave a form to what was already inside our being. It does present somewhat a dangerous spiral into this things, but those things prexisted before it. Sex is dirty and sex is romantic. By the way, not every insta model does photoshop their pics and the decision to do so, comes from the ideal of beauty that humans have. How long is makeup existing now, i could aswell say makeup should be avoided because we distort natural beauty ? Why was it invented ? To fullfill this ideal. I could bring this even further, sculptures of gods have been made in countless cultures, and they in most cases was made according to what humans percieve as perfect. Angels are described as perfectly beautiful, aphrodite is described as the idol of beauty, what those ancient gods are that we attributed with our idea of perfection and beauty is today models in magazines, instagram and A.I. pictures. Which means the way we view beauty and sex did not change, it just took on a different form, but is basically the same wishful thinking of sex or beauty, the same expectations. Makes sense, because how else could it reoccur over and over through generations, or how else would it been possible to create porn if not through fantasies we already have. We are just facing ourselves, till we overcame and learned to live with things. Just as wars have always been, only when we overcame them they will stop appearing, only when we understood the root cause their manifestations tries to show you. We cannot just pretend we are all pure, cause the world is a product of u, but we can learn to live with our darker side without it hurting others. We invented Dall. E, Dall E. did not tell us we should use it to make Ai. Porn, we decided that, it just gives us the possibility , and we decided to visualize it. Every invention starts with an idea and so also does porn. If i build a sexbot to fullfill all your sexual desires, you do not have to use it or you can decide how to use it , how often etc. But the bot was created based on what people sexually desire, it did not create the desire, it just fullfills it.

women consider 80% of guys "below average" and compete for the top 20%. honestly, what are the bottom 80% of guys supposed to do?

I'm relatively old (38) compared to the average college freshman and find myself back in school in a mid-life career pivot. It's absolutely mind blowing how socially inept 18-year-olds are compared to my first college experience. I know being fit and attractive is a factor, but I find myself innocently flirting with girls in my classes and the thirst for male attention is also mind blowing. I have a gaggle of giggling girls constantly fawning over me. I don't mind the attention, it's flattering to my ego, but I am left more sad than anything. I have tried coaching up a few guys who have come to me for advice, and my biggest piece is stop watching porn. Broke free of that trap in my early adult life and haven't looked back.

Stop looking at porn and stop using dating apps. Just go into public and talk to people that attract you: It’s so simple and the best approach

Congrats on 3 mill 🎉

What works for me best is that I have an allowance. I only view it once a week and that suited me perfectly. It is a tool of self discovery and the loosening of taboos/shame around sex so I definitely recommend this approach instead of just forbidding it.^^

This is beautiful, Man. I've watched you since the beginning and this, to me, is a breakthrough video. Btw. Congratulations on the subscribers. You so deserve it. Also, I loved seeing you as you were executing your art. What you do is amazing. A good British term would be "brilliant". Thanks for all you do. I'm looking forward to your next production. Peace and blessings.