HOW THE FATHER WOUND IMPACTS A WOMAN'S RELATIONSHIPS

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HOW THE FATHER WOUND IMPACTS A WOMAN'S RELATIONSHIPS
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@onevenus6040 4 ай бұрын

"Whenever a woman tries to fix a man, she breaks herself!"

@godzillamanstreb524 4 ай бұрын

Love!

@Kayla_chosen1 4 ай бұрын

So true

@sherylannagard2011 4 ай бұрын

This is so true

@LethalWeapon73 4 ай бұрын

Something I wish I listened to the warnings

@malessiaweatherby3893 3 ай бұрын

Yes indeed!!

@evawilliams2873 4 ай бұрын

Ladies you can't fix a grown man he has to fix himself ❤❤

@BelleMaria267 4 ай бұрын

1) chooses emotionally unavailable men. Seeks out a man that mirrors the characteristics of her father and tries to get his approval. 2) tolerating poor treatment or abuse. 3) overcompensating in relationships; coping mechanisms to prove your worth/approval. Phil. 2:3-4 4) seeking validation through sex or physical affection. I Cor. 6:18-20. You’re sinning against yourself. 5) repeatedly testing a partner’s commitment. Hard to trust loyalty of others because of fear. I John 4:18. 6) difficulty with emotional intimacy. She can’t be transparent or vulnerable. 7) attempting to fix or save a man; tries molding him into what he should be. Gal. 6:2-5 8) power struggles in relationships. Becomes aggressively resistant to male authorities. 9) fears commitment. II Tim. 1:7. 10) sabotages relationships. Prevents her from being optimistic about making this work. Compounded with dreadful fear of being disappointed again. Hope deferred makes the heart sick. Titus 1:15.

@godzillamanstreb524 4 ай бұрын

Thank you

@donnastotts6816 3 ай бұрын

Wow.....I have been so guilty

@Cindy-qp1cq 4 ай бұрын

I am so very thankful my father taught my sister and l that we are the prize. Therefore, when l got married my husband treated me like a queen. However, about 6 years into our marriage he began to be controlling & jealous. There was no need for this. He became jealous when l would talk to my grandmother and friends on the phone. My parents had moved to Washington, D.C. After my parents relocated. He began to "run in the streets" womanizing. I would not tolerate that kind of disrespect & abuse from my husband. I divorced him and never looked back. I raised my 3 children and graduated from college and got a good job. I've never remarried. Simply because l haven't met a man that is deserving of me. I don't say this to sound arrogant, but as a truth because l know l am intelligent, a God fearing woman and attractive. Thank you Pastor for your wisdom ! in

@godzillamanstreb524 4 ай бұрын

Wow….you have great courage to move forward like you did

@kelrubino340 4 ай бұрын

Good for you from DC/NW

@onyxbellz 4 ай бұрын

sending you hugs!!!!🤗🤗🤗🤗

@Raven_Evermore 4 ай бұрын

Better single and happy than to be with someone who makes you feel lonely and terrible.

@user-jo9kz5sq1z 4 ай бұрын

Yes, and when a woman has standards a lot of men shy away from her.

@BelleMaria267 5 ай бұрын

I had an absent father and a narcissist mother. It’s been tough.

@ThePinkPillOfficial 5 ай бұрын

Same here

@Kashmir-lt4cx 5 ай бұрын

@bellenee when I hear absent, I hear both are narcs! Ijs. Why else would you be absent from your child, but for selfish reasons?

@iamtestamoni 4 ай бұрын

Me too

@wannadonna1074 4 ай бұрын

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@fionakarbel258 4 ай бұрын

same 😢

@ruthbyrns8841 5 ай бұрын

At 6 yrs old, my father was murdered and my mom was an absent parent (no love) 😢. So after he died, I was lost. I'm looking forward to this teaching. Thank you Pastor Blakes for your guidance. ❤

@godzillamanstreb524 4 ай бұрын

♥️♥️♥️

@FAVOR232 4 ай бұрын

I LOVE YOU

@angelahudsonTeachTECH 4 ай бұрын

Wow have you taking ancestry

@Jessica-vl3od 4 ай бұрын

You're loved ❤

@nicoleross1635 4 ай бұрын

I understand no father and absent mother.

@ruthwells3990 5 ай бұрын

I believe this is root of problem many of us had in contributing to our poor decisions. Thanks

@ginab.4605 4 ай бұрын

My “dad” not being there was one of the worst things that has happened to me. The worst!!I’m 44 yrs old and still struggle with father wounds. Not feeling good enough hit the nail on the head!!! I’ve put up with reckless relationships because that’s all I thought I was worth. I am now finding my self worth and am healing from past hurt. God bless y’all!

@aspiringrootwoman24 4 ай бұрын

I'm 48 and ready to stop struggling. I'm ready to accept that i am differently abled when it comes to emotional connection and learn to work within my limitations and find happiness vs continually picking myself apart and never feeling good enough or whole or worthy. I'll keep healing but not expecting to show up like a person who hasn't been wounded and scarred.

@godzillamanstreb524 4 ай бұрын

Me too 🌸💛🌷….let’s heal together

@sonyau2682 2 ай бұрын

Ur not alone sister 😢❤

@Eltonscruggs 4 ай бұрын

Fascinating video, Let's stop taking relationship and family for granted. I have battled depression since my wife left me. I have tried all I can to make her see that I love her with everything I am made of but she has insisted on leaving. This has made me so empty, and I do not know what to do. I can barely function properly at work. I am frustrated and miserable. I really miss her.

@MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb 4 ай бұрын

Your pain resonates with me. Letting go of someone dear to your heart is an immense challenge. I found myself in a comparable situation when my 12-year-long relationship ended, and I struggled to accept it. Despite my efforts to reconcile, I eventually turned to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, which eventually led to a reunion. I'm now filled with joy.

@Eltonscruggs 4 ай бұрын

I'm keen on meeting the counsellor you're talking about. What steps should I take?

@MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb 4 ай бұрын

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@Eltonscruggs 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for this information. I have just looked her up on Google. impressive.

@thabangmoswetsi9757 4 ай бұрын

As a young man this is very eye opening, i will forever keep saying it, your ministry is a gift to my Life.❤‍🔥

@janellamurphy5665 4 ай бұрын

God bless you king for listening to this message delivered by Bishop Blakes. So nice to hear from brothers that are learning as well about how and why women have issues concerning relationships with men please share with you brothers ok? God bless you.

@HumbleBeauty679 4 ай бұрын

My father was in the home, but not emotionally present. I can see how the things that happened to me has negatively impacted my choices in men.

@lindab6974 4 ай бұрын

RC is my favorite internet preacher counselor guy

@KKP20111 4 ай бұрын

💯💯💯

@KariIsSoVery 4 ай бұрын

My father was an excellent provider but that's where it stopped. He left too much up to my mother who is narcissistic. These father wound lessons have helped me grow so much. 🙏🏽❤️

@aml8760 4 ай бұрын

Same!

@erikag7334 4 ай бұрын

Same situation for me! Dont get me wrong my dad tried but he just didn’t know how to treat my mother. My grandpa my dads father was a broken soul. I want to break this generational trauma it ends with me.

@KariIsSoVery 4 ай бұрын

@@erikag7334 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@remiem-iw7uk 4 ай бұрын

I am living proof that father wounds take a lifetime of work to undo. I have been triggered and pushed partner away unconsciously as a result of not recognising the narrative that I not chosen, not enough, will be abandoned after a while by my partner, be always the stop-gap/ placeholder due to dropping my standards & accepting less etc. was sabotaging my relationships up to the present

@RobetteRodgers-dq2vl 4 ай бұрын

Yes Sis I concur sooo true..😊

@Tahtiluv 4 ай бұрын

RC I feel like you and TG officially healed my father wound. I used to feel all of these things but lately have been tested in ways that showed me that I am healed from the needing the approval of any man but the man upstairs!

@Whatyousayin24 4 ай бұрын

Amen sis!!

@Tiffybunnznails 4 ай бұрын

Amen !

@fruitsarelife7073 3 ай бұрын

Amen

@ShonWoods-km1ob 4 ай бұрын

Greetings Pastor Blake’s! My father was “around”. But, we didn’t have the “father-daughter-talk. I had “strong” women in my family who stayed in my ear. I still made mistakes. But, thank God I listened. To this day I loved myself enough to leave, and recognize the “red flags”. I am so thankful for you! I listen to all your videos. I have your books. 📚 You are the “father figure” to keep me grounded, avoiding falling in an “emotional vortex”, and recognizing “Tom-foolery”, when I see it. I, along with a lot of other ladies, truly appreciate you and Mrs. Blake’s for taking the time to teach & bring value to our lives. 💙

@astravf 4 ай бұрын

He started out treating me like a queen, then changed on me, because of his mother’s wounds, it freaked me out because I felt like he couldn’t cover me like he promised in the beginning.

@Raven_Evermore 4 ай бұрын

So true. I'm still healing from these predatory men who used to manipulate me. I ended up with narcissist men who turned out to be just like my own father. Sometimes I wish I can travel back in time to tell myself not to get involved with these men, but atleast I learned from these experiences and recognize these behavioral patterns. Some were communal narcissists into humanitarianism or donate to charities thinking they were good people, but I found out the hard way. Maybe it would be be an interesting topic with your take on communal narcissists. I now make art with fun, cute, and happy images to make people smile. Whenever I get triggers, I come watch you, and I feel better already. You're like the father I never had., and thank you for helping us all to reach the top!

@maricelanatalileon9757 4 ай бұрын

This is a great suggestion. I also would like to see RC Blakes to do a video on communal narcissists.

@Raven_Evermore 4 ай бұрын

@@maricelanatalileon9757 Yeah! It would be interesting too if he does some collabs with Dr Ramani, Les Carter, or Rebecca Zhung. They might bring up stuff they might not have thought of.

@SilTheWriter 4 ай бұрын

The profiles are exactly alike based on the men I USED to choose and the way my father made me feel...abandoned, unprotected, not a priority and not enough.

@Theeartofme_ 4 ай бұрын

Today is my father’s birthday. At 10/11 years old, I became responsible for uplifting him. He would vent that he didn’t feel appreciated. On one occasion, I wrote a 3 page letter ( remind you I’m about 11) to him about great memories and what I’m thankful for. Guess what he did? He got mad one day and tore it up in my face. He went on to say that I was an ungrateful and disrespectful child. I cried like a baby. My dad was a hot/cold, pastor/street runner, emotionally , mentally, and physically abusive man who would also praise me. 🥴 My dad is a selfish manipulative charming man with mother issues. I’ve dated some selfish manipulative charming men with mother issues. I’ve stopped engaging with him and also the men like him at this age and stage of my life. Thank God, I recognize my responsibilities in a relationship.

@CL-do5eq 4 ай бұрын

Wow the way you worded this is exactly what I didn’t know how to say. Glory be to god so proud of you for healing sis!

@onevenus6040 4 ай бұрын

Love him from a distance

@cassandragalloway7475 4 ай бұрын

I love most of the pastors messages to us as women. This one was a great one, even when you have fathers in your life sometimes we can still have father wounds. Men of a certain age were not taught to show emotions, or praise their girls beauty inside and out. I just wish pastor more men would be willing to receive your messages, because once we are healed where are the men we can trust not to break us again?

@CL-do5eq 4 ай бұрын

This ! Because I believe as women we are doing the healing but it seems like men are not doing the same.

@RobetteRodgers-dq2vl 4 ай бұрын

Yes That Part. If the men don't get help, 😊 healthy whole therapy and accountability from healthy holy men of God singleness is the best place... Remember ladies we can be open to all men of other nationalities ❤😊😊

@cassandragalloway7475 4 ай бұрын

Exactly, it's sad I prefer black men, but healthy whole black men that want committed relationships are becoming harder to find

@jessicascreenwritingservices 4 ай бұрын

My father left when I was 3 and I managed to find him when I was 22. Talks like these help me so much because I didn’t have him around to talk about these things, especially when it comes to choosing men. Thank you Pastor Blakes ✨🙏🏾

@M.I.S.S_BOASY 4 ай бұрын

I agree with that part when you said a woman dealing with a father wound needs to feel in control 😩

@meli7315 4 ай бұрын

Fixing the past by seeking from similar figures. Story of my life. But I woke up and Jesus and the Holy Spirit is with me ❤

@DMGDwelling 4 ай бұрын

Great discussion. I’d love to hear the inverse discussed- what happens to the man with father wounds and mother wounds? How do these men present in society as adults? I’ve witnessed behaviors that suggest secretive disdain (or even hate) of their mothers and therefore secretly hate all women (depending on the magnitude of their trauma). A quiet loathe. My belief is that these wounds run so deep with men and their ability and capacity to mask their pain is alarming and only God can change their hearts (heal them).

@janellamurphy5665 4 ай бұрын

Bishop Blakes did a teaching on Father Wounds on one of his Utube videos. I have also watched it. Check it out powerful message sis!

@neoyorquina59 4 ай бұрын

Whew. I listened to this with tears. Some things I thought I healed from are still sore spots. Thank you for the message, love, and genuine care. 💛✨

@georgiaware6504 4 ай бұрын

Looking forward to listening to this. Iam so glad that I came across your channel. I didn't have a father in life. When I wasin the 9th grade I had this teacher he fared about all of his students. Wr developed a father and daughter relationship that lasted for 9 years. I believe that GOD put him in my life for a reason. I saw the love of GOD through him and that was a blessing for the good Lord. He is now deceased but his values and principles is still in my heart and mind what he has taught me in 9 years. Very grateful to GOD for that.😊

@ThePresentTimeNow 4 ай бұрын

I gave up. I was played out then hung to dry. It hurts. I didn’t have my father at all in my life. Just completely absent. All of these points are spot on and accurate. I just can’t seem to get it right. Not one man in my family ever gave me any tips or help with this. I’m just tired and some days I just don’t feel like moving forward. I received no preparation, no insight, nothing.

@edithhopkins4956 4 ай бұрын

Hi Bishop Blake you are so on point that is the root cause of women wounds of fatherless father wounds I'm 72 gone through deliverance and healing now I know myself worth and love myself now thank you so much

@yolandaburrage4848 4 ай бұрын

I've been following you for now for 4 years ,and I have really learned a lot. I'm looking forward to my next relationship, but if it does not come I am okay with myself. I want to thank you, thank God for sending you for helping me accomplish a lot of these things.

@aftoucoly3572 4 ай бұрын

"They're not your type, they're your pattern"

@thabomanda5080 4 ай бұрын

Dear Lord,help us heal😔

@roseep1 4 ай бұрын

Yes my father didn’t have his father so I understand now why he was the way he was

@shewins3775 5 ай бұрын

In my opinion, mother wounds are worse.

@RCBlakesJr. 5 ай бұрын

I think you’re right. I also think the difference might be that mother wounds are often more obvious while father wounds are often unconscious.

@schlindaflynn8854 5 ай бұрын

I've always known it affected me somehow I just didn't know how please help me understand thanks in advance Mr. RC Blakes

@shewins3775 5 ай бұрын

@@RCBlakesJr.I so appreciate the work you do.

@Kashmir-lt4cx 5 ай бұрын

@shewins I don't find it hurts more, it's that you expected your mom to do better cause she carried you, birthed you, and is a woman. However, I find the father neglect and/or reject hurts more, it's insidious, it's supposed to be the first loving great example relationship with the opposite gender.

@macareuxmoine 4 ай бұрын

We are just all more used to the father wound. I think both can be soul crushing. As humans we need both parents equally.

@sheilamc3420 4 ай бұрын

I am so grateful God brought me to your channel, Bishop! You have taught me more than any one else in these last 5 years, and it was a complete accident that I did stumble across your channel. You are so right on about all of this and you really have described my life and upbringing accurately in this program. Thanks to your guidance, I Am making better decisions now. But I did make every one of these mistakes in the past. You have also helped me learn to forgive myself and put my crown back on...Thank you for your kind service to Planet Earth! God Bless you and yours, Sir.

@CL-do5eq 4 ай бұрын

It was no accident ❤️

@margaretgabriel5185 4 ай бұрын

I praise Jesus for His work through you brother Blake. Thank you so much for helping women. My children grew up without a father’s emotional support or other support and our adult children are struggling with relationships. Thankfully we got divorced by God’s grace (10 years ago). But, God has been intervening and changing their hearts and removing the wrong significant other from their paths. Praise Jesus! Brother Blake please pray for me and my family, as I’ve been leading by example in Christ Jesus and sometimes my heart gets so tired , but my hope in Jesus is always strong. For all mothers who are trying to guide their children, please turn all your trust to Jesus. First to mold you as a Godly mother and woman then pray revival prayers for your children. Healing and restoration will occur. God bless and protect us all!

@Blessseddbb 4 ай бұрын

Such great lessons.. my father beat both me and my mom and many other woman senselessly and it caused me to attract the same type of guy until I veritably told him forgave him but deep down that’s not true moved from Cali to Houston all alone to start my life over with no family ❤

@carmimoultrie1448 4 ай бұрын

I'm still dealing with anger and disappointment regarding my father and his emotional unavailability, infidelities, drinking. It was common to see these types of men behaviors in the community and was considered a norm between friends and family.😔 Ironically, all of these feelings Bishop is stating in this message manifested in me during mid life. I recognized so much of myself in this teaching. Praying to forgive and be completely released.

@elfgirl415 4 ай бұрын

SO true about not ever feeling we belonged..and needing to. Or "good enough". Definitely. Thank you, Pastor Blakes. 💓🙌✝️🕊

@janellamurphy5665 4 ай бұрын

Bishop Blakes I always look forward to seeing & hearing your teachings! Thank you for addressing this very important issue, since not growing up with my father and not knowing or seeing a godly relationship in my home left me void of this! Now that I know what I know as a Queen I will do better and keep on working on myself trusting God to send me a godly man who knows how to be the king that he should be! I don't chase men but know what was the cause of my past relationships with men. I thank God everyday for protection of my purity Amen!!! Again thank you my Spiritual Father for your Ministry! May God continue to bless you and Queen Lisa!!

@zumbawithkelli6931 4 ай бұрын

My father wasn't present. My mother was abusive. I used to pick the male version of my mother because that's what love felt like to me. Thank God I have a heavenly Father who tells me how I should be treated🙌 I appreciate you. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us❤A true spiritual leader and father figure.

@justaskmomma1 4 ай бұрын

WOW! What a word that's greatly needed!!! Thank you Bishop!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@hollieelizabeth182 4 ай бұрын

I’m 27 years old and feel so bogged down by this. This was extremely enlightening I don’t even know where to start to repair so that I can think differently about relationships. A lot of these things were what I thought I did out of love but really it was coming from a wounded place… this is deep.

@giselemarks4402 2 ай бұрын

😊

@debbiecurrlin335 4 ай бұрын

This is so on point. Thank you for sharing. 😊

@thelmadouglas8942 4 ай бұрын

Hello Bishop Blake’s and First Lady Lisa I feel most of this teaching special when I took my brother home and was told why you bring him here I don’t want you got my dad to come home so he could stay just for him to leave months later to never return Yes those wounds stayed with me When I left at 17 I took my brother with me And look for my dad found him and the question was why got an answer I already knew bless his soul he pass on after a few yrs And that’s right husbands that broke me to pieces and my thing was I live this long making it without you and I can keep on making it I wanted it but did not want any man to think I need him ❤ I loved so much I couldn’t tell if I was angry or grieving Couldn’t explain the difference thank you for much for this teaching also I’m alone and finally got some peace in my life ❤😅

@iamqueen9696 4 ай бұрын

Great message this has helped me realize a lot of mistakes I’ve made in past relationships. Thanks pastor Blake’s you never fail me

@nedraford5461 4 ай бұрын

Bishop Blakes your ministry has helped me to be able to transend my father wounds and cultivate a place of healing and healthy relationships.

@heiditugers 4 ай бұрын

This was really tough for me to listen to since it brought up a lot of past hurts. Even though it was difficult I really needed to hear this. I appreciate you for telling us the truth and not trying to sugar coat things. We can’t heal unless we face the facts and do the work. Thank you!!! 🙏🏻

@tahomalewis2300 10 күн бұрын

Thank you for mentioning number 10. It truly resonated with me. Even after 5 years of therapy and being in a new relationship, I see that I was bringing some of the sentiments of my father into it. Awareness and doing the work are key.

@shanteljones520 4 ай бұрын

Ouch.. this one was painful.. made me look at something’s that I had covered up/closed out of my mind..

@fatoumatafatimaabubakartouray 4 ай бұрын

Hello. Once again, thank you from The Gambia. You are a spiritual father to many.

@montricec8795 4 ай бұрын

I had to listen to this twice, in order to gather what I needed to gather from this message. Thank you!

@ms.forever9282 5 ай бұрын

I'm so excited with anticipation, to hear this out from our beloved pastor and Bishop, RC Blakes, The King Among Kings, and The King of all generations of Princesses, and Queens; Man of God, Bishop RC Blakes! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@patriciamitchell1924 4 ай бұрын

Thank u Pastor Blakes, I'm just listening to u because my sister came ine from out of town..thank u again for a powerful sermon...my dad was in my life, he was a family man who loved his daughters more than himself..but because we was so bull headed we didn't listen to our father and we ended up learning the hard way about relationships with mens. ..A lot of mens will play on our intelligence because i had that happen to me numerous times..now I'm waitfor the right man..because i want the man to accept me for me and not for my body...i had to learn to love myself first,instead of look for love in all the wrong places...thank u again for being a good father figure for us Queens😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇

@CL-do5eq 4 ай бұрын

I realized it takes me longer to heal because I’m waiting on my father to return Ex: If a guy ends our connection it takes a long time for me to heal because I’m waiting for them to come back. I’m waiting on my dad to come back and see me…wow God just showed me this. So even though I respect their decision, we didn’t have sex, only kissing only emotional connection but apparently I’m still holding a secret space in my heart. And at times I’m upset with my heart for still caring for them in that way. It’s like it’s so easy for them to move on, but for me it takes longer. I run a business, I help my community, I love on myself, and pray to God, and still I think of them. It’s definitely gotten a lot better. They just weren’t the person that god has for me. I know it will make sense one day.

@ann-marierodney6387 4 ай бұрын

It's the prayers at the end Pastor Blake. They are so heartfelt and ALWAYS blesses my soul. I felt the healing from my father wound.

@lindsay3043 4 ай бұрын

58:08 fear is a sign of an idol. I don’t fear anything but God 🙏🙏🙏

@TyMekaDa1 4 ай бұрын

Lord have mercy on any broken woman that has not learned of you Mr. Blakes, and that have not come upon your videos. You are 100 percent correct 😢😢😢😢

@DoctorCarrieHall 4 ай бұрын

Praying for my daughter Vikeertra. Listening to this learning how to help her.

@fionakarbel258 4 ай бұрын

who else is ballin 😭

@cassondrad2280 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for the information. So on point. The 2 men I trusted in my life, both verbally abused me. My father and brother and it so make it hard to trust any man that comes into my life. Choosing the wrong yet abusive men in my life. I look to men who "know how to keep their word", their word lines up with what they say and what they follow thru on, their word. My Father would promise you the world but never came thru on any of his promises.

@buzzzzzd 2 ай бұрын

My father favored my sister over me, would push me away, shrink away in disgust, look at me with a disgust expression on his face, plug his ear when I would sing, told me to keep my voice down over and over again for my whole childhood and up to my thirties. But did the complete opposite with my sister, praised her, told us all to be quiet and listen to her speak, told her and all of us how beautiful and smart she is, made us all be quiet to listen to her, told us all she was "so wonderful, so perfect". My sister treated me similarly for a long time and began to treat my kids in comparison to her own, like that. I put a stop to it. I married a man who couldn't love another person. He abused and isolated me and the kids. I left him when I finally saw the truth. I'm working on filling the father wound, the void I have.

@RCBlakesJr. 2 ай бұрын

I will be praying for you🙏🏽

@shirlspark_stardust 4 ай бұрын

My father was a malignant narcissists there was never no father daughter relationship he smeared me bad mouth us me amd my brothers just did horrible things to us growing up and. I went back home to live his narcissism grew worse i wind up marrying a narcissist who reminded me of my father to a T. I left him and file my divorce papers there is no goimg back ever thank God for saving me thank you Bishop Blakes for this video it is the truth 🙏🏾 ❤

@josannebritto6898 4 ай бұрын

If you don't love your self. U won't know wen u being love well by someone else! This is so true. I choose guys who had a lot of qualities like my dad who never raise me or even try to know me. The relationships didn't last and within the relationship I realized they had a lot of my dad qualities. They even have the same birthdays ,day and month.

@Tocasmile4091 4 ай бұрын

My father was a great father but very tough. No game playing. I was so scared of him we truly never talk about life. I lost him at a very young age. He was 64. Fast forward to now. With a man for 16 years Married 9 to a man that does not resemble my dad. My husband does not value me nor has as he ever valued my relationship. I question a lot of time why this is the type of guy I attract. I am not sure how I can possibly have father wound.

@YoBoyJu 4 ай бұрын

I am completely blown away because I've heard of the father wound but never learned about it. I am a daddy's girl so, when I listened to the message every single point applied to me! I am forever grateful and praise The Most High God for sending this message through you and your obedience and commitment to the ministry❤❤❤❤ May God continue to guide, protect, and provide for you and your family!❤

@toshaperry6396 2 ай бұрын

“The healing is in the understanding of the why” 🙏🏽

@TequilaTurner 4 ай бұрын

This is so GOOOOD!!! ❤❤❤❤

@gladysmuthara1904 4 ай бұрын

Many blessings for this and the powerful prayer. I needed it. Healing and understanding oneself is a journey. May the good Lord see us through. Thank you, Bishop🙏

@joeyjo7553 4 ай бұрын

Thankful for the day I found your channel! 🙏🏻💜 thank you a million pastor RC Blakes

@meli7315 4 ай бұрын

I have found him after a call with a guy who I wanted to go out for a date, his video “watch out for the energy from a man” and I watched it and everything what he said I just felt in this call. He was sent from heaven that’s for sure!

@joeyjo7553 4 ай бұрын

@@meli7315 woah 🤯 that was definitely not a coincidence. God is always looking out for us some way or another. Always trust your gut

@meli7315 4 ай бұрын

@@joeyjo7553he was sent from the Holy Spirit. Later I told the man I won’t go out for a date and he insulted and threatened me out of nowhere in the message- so it was the right choice, the day after he just messaged me and pretend he did not insulted and threatened me the day before. I just blocked and deleted.

@angelacurry3555 4 ай бұрын

Amen.Same here.

@meli7315 4 ай бұрын

@@joeyjo7553 yes god is good 😇

@londontyler6598 4 ай бұрын

My God. I knew I felt this in my past relationships. I constantly give . I thought it was because I wanted them to feel the love that I had, not understanding that it stems from my Father Wound. My dad & I have a good relationship with, I remember going to him about how I was feeling with the choices I made in my life due to him being emotionally unavailable for me, however he provided financially.

@user-eb6ri2sf4d 4 ай бұрын

I’m still single now 4yrs after bad heartbreak. I’m afraid to get involved with a man because of this. I don’t want to be alone but I’m waiting on our Heavenly Father. I thank God for your videos four years now I have been watching. It really helped me. God Bless.

@CL-do5eq 4 ай бұрын

I understand it just may not be time just yet seek god. But know god didn’t give you the spirit of fear verify with god on men that approach you.

@CL-do5eq 4 ай бұрын

Don’t let the enemy make you fearful that you miss out on your husband be sure to do the things you love volunteer be in your purpose and watch god work. If you’re afraid it’s not time yet and truly forgive the person and any person.

@user-eb6ri2sf4d 4 ай бұрын

Amen .

@Get_your_clarity 4 ай бұрын

I feel that healing my inner child helped me to become an adult, responsible women who love herself. It took me 4 years of healing each day. Still not sure if I am ready to meet someone new. I would need to meet a special guy who would understand my situation. I am doing my best ❤

@fabiennepdt4898 4 ай бұрын

Just bought your course. I had no idea my father wound had such an impact on my life and relationships, friendships included. Thank you for everything you do and be blessed!

@edithhopkins4956 4 ай бұрын

BISHOP THIS WAS SO AWESOME I GOT MORE CLARITY YES I SEE MYSELF IN EVERYTHING YOU GAVE SAID ABOUT THE FATHER WOUNDS

@michellesimpson4093 4 ай бұрын

This is so helpful and awesome 👌thanks pastor you are always bringing us the much needed knowledge for growth and development

@MoniqueHarvey-ny4ec 4 ай бұрын

Im the black sheep of my family. Ive been trying to get the women in my immediate family to recognize the father wound patterns. I truly appreciate you and the messages you preach. We need to wake our queens and Kings!

@crystalgrose 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely! This really hit home for me Bishop RC! Thank you so much for going in depth on this subject which provides a lot of clarity for many of us daughters. God bless you 🙏🏾

@roseep1 4 ай бұрын

This was excellent! Thank you so much!!

@Didi-fr5ic 5 ай бұрын

Hi RC can you please talk about the risk of a women staying in a relationship for to long, after listening to so many men like you they say a man should know within 2 years if he wants to marry you so I am confused about that and another topic that might help is why it is not a good idea to move in with a man before marriage 😅 thank you for everything you do :)

@sarahpeyton3824 4 ай бұрын

Good Evening Bishop RC & Lady Lisa, New Home Family, and Everyone!👋🏼

@Ianu5 4 ай бұрын

I'm working on myself for a couple of years now, but this ... from first till last minute, It's my hole story in one video. Thank you RCB! I cried. I have a lot more work to do than I wished, but the right man will understand and be supportive. At least now I know and believe that

@dioneplummer8269 4 ай бұрын

Thank You Bishop I need to hear this word 🙏🏾🙏🏾

@theliterarytarot 4 ай бұрын

I already know this is going to be good.

@HTHTNT77 4 ай бұрын

Fantastic talk. Thank you for sharing such precious advice. I have just purchased The Father Daughter Talk on audible and very much looking forward to listening. Thank you again

@annaa6259 4 ай бұрын

What a divine timing ❤

@ninawilliams7764 4 ай бұрын

🙌🏾 Thank you I needed to understand what I’m going through. I just started therapy with Better Help last month. I need to fix my father issues. I apply to every bullet point you discussed today 😔 It has taken me 46 years to realize my problem.

@unbothered7429 4 ай бұрын

I am here I cannot wait to receive the lesson today unk.. thank you for being obedience being a vessel a father or uncle or dad or brother you are so much to so many and I just want to say you have helped me grow as a mother as a woman because some of the things that you're telling me or you telling others i was not taught so im forever greatful

@ProseConsYT 4 ай бұрын

You talking right at me tonight. Thank you ❤

@sljcsu 4 ай бұрын

I wish that I was able to give you a million thumbs 👍 up for this video!!!

@KKP20111 4 ай бұрын

Wooow, that couldn't be more Real Talk! 💯💯💯 Make me feel very sad, though. 😔

@GigiGreene 4 ай бұрын

6 minutes and 38 seconds 😮‍💨 that’s how long I had to wait for you to start speaking lol longest intro in history! But you always bring a good message. Thank you! ❤

@Alyciah Ай бұрын

That's me 100%😢😢😢😢wish i knew u in 2013, when i was left to fed for myself...... mistakes i made abt relationships ha!....nw that i known u for sometime, am adjusting my crown little by little.I feel woke, the awareness....never late than never❤

@marilynoverton8142 4 ай бұрын

Pastor Blakes, you are such a gift and a blessing. This episode has been so very helpful and healing. Thank you and may God bless you always.

@joycelynlawrence 4 ай бұрын

This answers a lot for me personally. Thank you. I shared this with my sons too, 2 of which are fathers of daughter. I really hope they watch and get insight

@maatx9718 4 ай бұрын

During my unhealthy faze , I was choosing based off telling me what I NEEDED TO HEAR without discerning if capable of understanding how I needed to be LOVED...now I'm learning how to observe without movement, next thing I know , I've guaged more than enough to know it's a NO ahead of time , as it should be for us Ladies 💗