The fact that you notice this about yourself and are looking to be better, already makes you a better person. Love this video!

3:59 In Germany we say "Mahlzeit" to such a great burp 😀 I try to be a good person every day. I always say - do what you want but don't hurt anybody.

I agree Sarah. When you declutter and organize your life it makes a huge difference. Eating healthy and drinking (water) also helps me.

okay your realness is one of the main reasons i still love youtube! this was amazing and i agree with you 100% :]

Make videos on the books you want to read and do monthly wrapups of what you read :) that will motivate you I think.

For me the ultimate way to be a better person is to empathize with others and consider them before yourself.

Loved this video. I loved how it felt like an inner talk, how it felt like an externalization of feelings and thoughts you have in your mind and need to hear yourself say out loud to really take everything in and put them into practice. It just felt real. I gotta say though, I've never thought of yourself as a know-it-all or selfish at all. You're typically quite sensible and humble and I've seen you taking criticism in a very positive way more than once. But I'm sure you know yourself better than we do, and I sincerely wish you stay motivated and inspired in this journey to better yourself. Ly Sarah.

The fact that you are aware of your weaknesses is actually a huge strength. Not many people are that self aware. Thanks for sharing your truth with us.

Know-it-all's UNITE. No but really, I have that problem too and it was my biggest insecurity in high school. It's honestly instinctual and it's so hard to monitor it. Everything you said about it is me exactly. Best of luck trying to improve💛

I love this and I think we should always try to be a better person then we were yesterday! :)

Sarah is amazing..I feel like she's so open minded and that's so rare on KZfaq. I'll sometimes comment on other KZfaqrs videos new useful information about the topic they're talking about & they'll get super defensive like they don't want to open their eyes to new things

I swear you look drop dead gorgeous in each and every video

You looks so pretty: the hair, the make up, just you!

i agree about being more positive bc i tend to complain a lot i think ? so i want to appreciate good things that happen to me instead of focusing on the bad. maybe just become a happier person in general. last year in school i closed myself off to people and hid behind an antisocial outlook but this year i want to make more friends and be more outgoing and you seem so lively and im so inspired. (:

the fact that you're admitting the problem and addressing your desire to change is a beautiful quality and it says how determined you are. especially the boldness to expose yourself in a positive intending manner. xoxo

I always think about the things I don't like about myself and changing them is the most difficult thing I've ever tried to do, but I won't give up :))

you've honestly never looked better. THIS IS SUCH A LOOK

I absolutely love your emphasis on humility. As people, I feel like we all have a tendency to put our stories, thoughts, and opinions on pedestals without realizing that we are doing so. I've been working on this a lot in myself, so thank you so much for sharing and reminding me that I'm not alone!

You're literally such an inspiration Sarah, so much respect ✨🌸

I just want to say that Guru Gossip is one of the saddest and most pathetic places on the Internet I have ever come across. Those people are professional mean girls and victims. They may have a valid point of criticism from time to time but that place really is a black hole on unnecessary negativity. Good for you, Sarah!

I love these kinds of videos where you just talk to the viewers. It's amazing.

you're truly so amazing thank you so much. lately i've done things i'm not proud of and i hated who i was for so long. knowing that i'm not alone makes me feel so much better ! this helped me so much more thank you

such an amazing video! it is hard to admit that there are things about ourselves that we actually don't like and would rather swap for better traits. your video is a kind reminder for people to look a little closer at our own characters and to not compensate suppressed discontentment by visibly judging others.

you look so wise and young and happy and old at the same time ♥ it honestly looks like you're glowing from within, I love to see you like that!

Loved the part about decluttering! I have seen it do amazing things for me as well. I started by just getting rid of 17 items a day and went from there. Not only did I feel lighter, but I feel like it got rid of a lot of negative energy that I didn't even realize that I was still holding onto.

i have a lot of drama in my life and im in middle school so that's saying a lot , iv'e messed up alot in life and want to be a better person :)

I really love this video. I have recently been noticing my flaws as a person and I love it how you are able to tell the world these things and just accepting them✨ thank you for making this

I loved this video so much. It was such a calm video, yet you definitely got some great messages out there. I love reading so much, it's definitely helped me out with my vocabulary, way of thinking, personal beliefs and so much more.

sometimes i'm very know-it-all too, and I'm like -it's ok to not know everything- but it's so hard to admit I don't know something!! I totally relate to you with that!

Love when you keep it real! I recently de-cluttered my life, and like you said, it really did make me feel so much lighter. I loved it, and I can find everything so much easier now!! 😀

This video made me subscribe. I havent been the best person and I'm glad I watched this video. I want to change and be more positive and become a better person.. just within myself and become more happier. I appreciate this video so much more than you can imagine. Thank you ! ♡

Thank you so much for this video. In June I just graduated high school and it was the worst years, and I'm really wanting to declutter and detox my life of the people, material things, and negative thoughts that I have been hoarding with me since this is an opportunity to get rid of it all and move on. I'd gotten rid of old letters/pictures that are huge triggers for my depression, and cleaned through my entire closest in a similar way that you did so far. This video gave me a push of motivation to really start working on it with greater determination. I hope you realize what a wonderful and inspiriting influence you are.

this video gave me a new outlook on things, ilysm

I love this video so much. You're so real, and so inspiring. This brought me a sense of peace. And it made me feel like I can improve so much about myself, and accomplish so much in life.Thank you for this great video 💕

I am totally with this! I'm always looking for things in myself that I don't like and try to change them. I find it so odd when others don't. Never stop growing, never stop improving! My goal was also to read 12 books! I'd been saying that I needed to read more forever, but setting a numerical goal with monthly deadlines was really helpful for me. So far I've already read 12 books. I've definitely slowed lately because of school, but I'm still ahead and I'm proud of myself!

This was great Sarah. This really made me think about certain things I may want to start implementing in my life. De-cluttering is definitely up there on the list.

Beautiful video! Very genuine. I needed this, especially at the halfway mark of the year. Thank you 💛

Love this vid and hearing other people's thoughts on life and what they have learned. Imagine if everyone did these kinds of vids and shared their life experiences and what they have found to have a better life. If I ever have enough subscribers and make KZfaq a career I would do these vids all the time.

Just the fact that you made this sincere video makes you a brave woman and obviously a good person. knowing exactly what you need to change about yourself is the first step on the right path. I love your videos and I've never missed any of them , Greetings from Tunisia xoxo

This video is so real and you got so unashamedly vulnerable with us. It's amazing and it's why I'm subscribed to you.

Loved your advice in trying to be positive!! Such great advice. We can ALL work on that. You're honesty and openness are truly inspiring.

I really want to hug you right now! And from me I can add that is really important to stop yourself for a moment and think about life, past, future, what's really important. People are. Not things. What's makes us really happy is sharing love with others even If we don't feeling that way. I'm living in London, this city is a massive mix of everyone and sometimes when I'm in the bus I'm just looking at them and I can see that most of the faces are sad - why? Because we always want more and more, but hey look what's you've got right now! You living! Now! That's a such a beautiful thing to realised that you're in this moment and appreciate that you can breathe. Breath slowly. Smile. Most incredible things in life didn't happen yet:) x

i loove this kind of videos, they put me in a really good mood

Sarah I've been watching your videos since 2 years now (even though i wasnt a sub) and i really feel like right now you seem more like a person who knows better what she wants to do and you might seem happier aswell. If thats, then im really happy about youu. Have fun xxx

I loved this video! It's the kind of stuff I think about on a day to day basis and it's great to know that you do too. It seems we struggle with similar things and from what I've learned from my experience, the fact that you have acknowledged your flaws as flaws and that you are trying to change is a huge step in the right direction. I sometimes hate myself because I find fault in the actions of others but afterwards realize that I make the same mistakes. It kills me because I don't want to be that kind of a person, and I hate being a hypocrite. I've found that writing all of this down helps a lot in organizing my thoughts and not forgetting the mistakes I've made. Obviously you've made a video for similar purposes and I think it's great! I hope you keep uploading these kinds of videos! Thank you, and love you Sarah!!💕

I clicked on this video because I was thinking that I wanted to better myself, and as I was watching, I found your "dialogue," very relatable. Thanks for helping me motivate myself to change some of my ways.

I just wanted to say such a big thank you for introducing me to the life changing magic of tidying!!!! As soon as I finished your video yesterday, I went and downloaded the book and have almost finished it. Please if you can keep everyone and I updated with your progress of tidying, I would be so thrilled! I'm so excited to declutter my life and create a space I love and would really love to see how everything works out for you. Thank you again so much, for everything. So much love, Michele.

I love everything about this video!!! You are so inspiring~ thanks for sharing your thoughts!

I love these kinds of videos, very reflective. Definitely agree with you on the humility and decluttering. Great video!

I've started doing the positive changes in my life too. I've started cycling to places were I'd have just hopped in the car before. I've been trying to turn my 'mean' automatic thoughts (e.g. "Those shoes are horrible!") into positives (e.g. "They have their own style, that's cool!") and all round I can feel I have more energy, I'm happier and although I'm not as social as I used to be I'm reconnecting with old friends which is pretty cool :D Love your videos and really enjoyed this one especially. :3 aiwxo xxx

Wow first 5 min and it's like you read my mind and spoke it out loud!!! Thank you for being SO honest!!! Makes me feel like less of a horrible person!! I'm gonna work on myself too and hopefully become a better person!!

Thanks for this video, been feeling down lately and this video lets me reflect about life and me.

Right video at a right time. I've been struggling with the same kind of problems and not being able to put them in words. Now that you had, I am thankful : )

You have me addicted to depop now! And also thank you for such an amazing video. It helped me. ❤️

love this video and you look flawless omg 10/10

Great message, I can hear in your voice, that you speak from your heart! :-) Life is indeed a learning process and I am working on trusting in myself more (i.e. acknowledging what I have achieved so far and not stressing out over and over again about the littlest presentation for uni or a meeting with a friend or an acquaintance) xxx

I just want to say thank you. I did a random search for "how to" (I do that sometimes when I'm bored) and clicked on to your video. I loved the way you were just your self. Inspiring

Love these kind of videos. I totally get what you mean with the know-it-all stuff, i'm guilty of acting like that myself. I think that the thing i want to work on for myself is keeping a positive vibe. I've been struggling with depression for a long time, and i'm hoping that i will finally be able to close that chapter of my life. Lots of love xoxo

That burp, was beautiful and inspirational in itself 😂😂😂 I almost peed with laughter.

Dam I relate so much with all those issues you talked about :| Ive been working a lot on that thing you call being "selfish" since the beginning of my twenties. But I'd say it's just being an introverted type of person and maybe dealing with a bit of a form of social anxiety because, basically, it's just that spending a lot of time around people can be quite draining for us introverts and it's not something to be ashamed of. You shouldn't be so hard on yourself and I think it's great that you're working on it. Personnally, I decided I'd rather keep only my very close friends and be available for them so I'm not too tired for them when they really need me than try to be a social butterfly. I don't think I can be kind and reliable to my friends if I'm constantly desperate for ME time. And I'd like to have the humility to call myself a know it all but I just feel like a cultured person who won't accept to hear others speak insanity! :P should I work on that?

In my life I have gone through alot, so I have a tendency to be critically of challenges people struggle with, if it is not to the severity of what I've had to endure. I have been working on being more sympathetic towards others and making them feel validated in their emotions. I get pretty severe anxiety so I am also working on accepting that I am human and just like any human I will make mistakes and it isn't the end of the world.

Thank you so much for this video! I really loved it!

i can't even tell you how much i have missed those videos. everything you say i somehow find a way to relate to it and it touches me so very deeply. (i try to think it's not because you're looking absolutely 100% gorgeous in here!) but like, the thing about cleansing your life and all, i really do hope you would make a video about it (and about the book that inspired you.) i just really love you.

I found this video to be very inspiring and it made me think about all the things I would like to change within myself like my shyness and learning to say no. I've struggled with those two things ever since I can remember. I could be throwing up in the morning but agree to go somewhere with someone that afternoon just because I can never bring myself to say no to anyone, which probably goes hand in hand with my shyness. Although this video really served as a push and gave me some motivation to work on those things about myself. Thank you, Sarah!

I finish a book in one or two days cuz I don't know why reading is fun and yes I'm a bookworm btw i love you so much and thanks for the amazing inspiration, all the love and support stay positive, D xx

I love this video! I too am trying to work and improve myself, and your video inspired me and showed me that it's possible. You are such a positive person- thank you :)

Such an inspiring video :) you're amazing!

Listening. I know a lot of us get wrapped up in ourselves, or just things and thoughts that don't pertain to where we are or who we are with at the exact moment. A lot of us can probably learn to FOCUS a lot more on what people are saying to us all the time

These kind of videos are my favorites from you, Sarah. It kind of feels like we get to know you a little better, and I love it that you show how people are all about changing and improving themselves. It's really easy to judge others when you're sitting behind a computer screen and are completely entitled to your own life and opinions. I'm sorry you've been hurt by internet comments in the past and I hope you keep seeing opportunities to become a better person and be happier. I would love it if you kept sharing these parts of your life with us. I wish you have a lovely week and send you lots of love.

Sarah I love you so much! You are a beyond beautiful and insightful human being and every time I watch your videos I feel comforted and uplifted. We all have things we can work on always and I value that you can recognize what you feel you need to work on. It's funny the things we think about ourselves but others don't see at all. I like that you are still gentle and kind to yourself when recognizing what you feel inside you could improve on . I think your amazing the way you are and thanks for being you!

I love your self awareness and sense of self. It's a very attractive quality

I really admire you and your personality. I like your sense of humor and honesty. Keep doing what you're doing.

You should check out the booktube community if you want reading inspiration 😊 such a fun lot of people and it might give you more reading ideas! I'm with you on decluttering, I find it so refreshing. And I'm constantly up for working on myself so I loved this!

honestly, I can be such a know it all as well. I haven't taken a step back to really think about it, just realized that I was acting like my mother and was disgusted by it. I'm usually only this way around my boyfriend, and he ends up feeling stupid at the end of an argument because I always feel the need to be right. But I think you are amazing for trying to change this and improve yourself. I may be admitting to it now, but I'm mostly in denial of it/don't care enough to even try to change. But maybe that should change...

i love everything about this video.. Now I really want to check out that book!

I hear you on the storage. I ended up having to move back in, and 2 years later, I still have 90% of my stuff in storage. I would totally clean out some of my stuff too, but it's in another state. :P

I really enjoy this kind of videos coming from you 😊

you're such a beautiful person sarah omg

I rarely comment on videos but what you talked about is something Iv been struggling with myself when you said it it made me realize it I was being negative and judgmental and I despise myself for that I know people are starting to hate me for it but nothing is unfixable Im gonna work on it in the future thank you so much for the inspiring vid

I love your videos so inspiring

Please do more of these videos! I loved this one.

Love this! I am having a terrible, but I came across this video and it definitely helped. It was definitely inspiring! :)

Just wanted to say really quick not saying your channel hasn't been good but this year so far has been my favorite year watching your videos I've watched u for two years now and you just seem happy which is great!:) thank you for putting so much great effort in all your videos to your horror,beauty channel , vlog channel and the nonblondes!!!!! Thank you sarah! You have been great ! Keep up the good work!

This was a great video, honestly. It's such a great thing that you're taking control of things you see as flaws. This made me realize things about my own life and kind of gave me a boost to take control of things in my life, as I am going through difficulties at the moment. I didn't realize how much I missed these sit down, down to earth videos. Love the way how you view things. Also the music was very relaxing and thought provoking almost! I hope all is well and love you and your videos, Sarah.

It's been so great to watch you grow over the past years! It's honestly very incredible to listen to you open up and share your flaws. I've recently decided to simplify my life and I've seen a dramatic change to becoming more positive and open. I think it would be interesting idea to have a video on your dreams and aspirations in life, things you want to do. Thanks for being a positive and open person :)

I feel that part about being selfish... I was often refusing to hang out with someone 'cause I couldn't be bothered to actually get up, or I felt I'll have better time playing games or whatever but I forgot to think about how does the other person feels when I decline. Maybe my presence will help someone in some way, maybe they need me around...so I thought about it and started changing my behavior. And I actually feel better now, my "me" time is still here even if I spend time with others :)

also i love what you said about instagram and positivity!! i think that is such a good tip honestly for everything in general. lately i have found instagram and twitter to be bad for my mood/well being. i feel like i always end up comparing myself to other people. so i have been staying away from those sites lately and i really think it's helping. i challenge you to spend less time on instagram as well!!

Sarah, I loved this video it has inspired me so much. Thank you.

You're definitely one of my favourite youtubers, maybe even my number one!

Love these kind of videos :) love u girl !

I'm from Brazil, and watching this video made me feel really better, thank you!

This video was amazing, I loved it !

Loved this so much! and you seem to be getting so much more beautiful every day. Thank you for all your positivity. Definitely a great start to the day to be watching this as I've been noting things I'm trying to better myself on. (oh and i really have to declutter my life too!!) Much love xx

I love this video, and I love your makeup! I'd love it if you could do a tutorial on this look, it's beautiful and so flattering. x

idek this was just so sincere and beautiful i loved it

its funny that in spanish (my first language) a word that sounds very similar to "condescending" is "condescendiente" and it means the total opposite: a person that adapts to and tries to please other people wants, needs, likes and taste, to make things easy and avoid confrontation.

If somebody asked me why Do i like your channel so much, id definitely show them this video, you are such an inspiring person.

I am honestly so happy I found your channel I find that I relate to you on a spiritual level 😂 And I love you and your videos so much❤️

Great ideas! I've been trying to be more patient with people, I think we can all learn to be better friends/ family members!

Thank you! You made my day so much better