What makes a good Muslim mom? Let's look at the 3 main core competencies each Muslim mom should focus on so she can become the best mom she can be insha'Allah.
Core Competencies (your unique strengths and qualities that cannot be outsources and things none does better than you)
1. Self Care
*Spiritual (prayer, du'as, dhikr, fasting, reading Qur'aan etc)
*Physical (sleep, hydration, nutrition, movement, exercise, etc)
*Mental (mood, focus, intellectual stimulation, etc)
2. Marriage
*Healthy Communication and Emotional Intelligence
*Intimacy
*Boundaries and Triggers
3. Mothering
*Looking at the child in front of you and meeting their particular needs
*Figuring out their and your love languages and communicating in those
*Figuring out your own triggers and re-mothering yourself if need be
**Focusing on building a relationship with them and a healthy attachment
There are more core competencies in a life of a Muslim mom such as home management and/or making a difference in the ummah (sadaqah jaariyah) etc. but these top 3 mentioned above are the key to figuring out how to be the best mom you can be insha'Allah according to your own unique circumstances.