I’ve watched this several times because it’s so true. Being 61, watching the lines appear on my face, things on my body heading south, more jiggly bits than ever before you realize it’s a privilege just to be here. To wake up in this beautiful place. I feel grateful. Kindness. Such a simple word for such a life altering thing. I’m so sorry people have been unkind. And so happy it hasn’t dimmed your light .

My spouse was terminal at age 38. We were engaged 4 2 weeks Given 3 days 2 live. He has had 21 cancer related surgeries, chemo, radiation to the brain. My mother did chemo next door in the hospital with the same doctor, same time, of the same disease He is 75 this July 24th 2019 You r doing great,. I only share because y r a brave and lovely women ...very Best wishes

Is it possible to love a person I don't even know personally? Cos I know I love you. Yes I love you. Saying that you are an inspiration is an understatement. You are more than an inspiration. You are sent from heaven to grace us with your being 😚

You amaze me, Selena. I’m old enough to be your mother, and still find a heart connection with you. This video is reason to love you even more. You’re wise. I pray God’s blessings and watch care over you. Xoxo

I am a sixty-four year old woman who found you through your recycled life channel. I just watched your How to be Beautiful and See Beauty, My Story on your Vintage Bombshell channel. You are just the kindest sweetest young person I have been exposed to in a long time. Your words are powerful and honest. Thank You, I will be a viewer for life!!!

I am praying for healing for my brain from my stroke!

Selena, YOU are TRULY BEAUTIFUL!!!!

The truly beautiful are the pure of heart. 💖

You were never ugly. Your brave, sweet self managed to glow through it all, and sharing your story will help any woman who faces a cancer diagnosis. I am happy that you feel your experience has opened your eyes and taught you valuable lessons. Thank you for reminding us to be kind always and to love ourselves. Being a woman is so hard sometimes because we are so hard on ourselves. We want to have lovely homes, happy mates, well behaved children, fulfilling jobs, taut bodies, a well groomers appearance, terrific sex lives, exciting experiences, strong mental health and to do it all with grace and ease. It's a good thing we have each other to lean on now and then.

I know this is a 3 year old vlog, but it is refreshing to hear your words of self love as well as connecting with one’s own spirit. It just open your eyes to the reality of your soul is more precious then the shell we live in. Love you Sabrina and all you bring to us each day❤️ God bless and always protect you ❤️🙏♥️

Oh Selena! You are so precious! I’m old enough to be your mom and I know this video is over 4 years old but it serendipitously came up on my phone and I felt compelled to watch it. Fast forward- watching you and Pete refurbish a seaside home and watching the lovely job you’ve done on your Victorian home- I’m so genuinely happy for you and this journey you’ve been on. Watching you with your parents, I sense you have a wonderful heart and certainly have your priorities in order. Being 65 now, into beauty as a retired hairdresser and decorative painter- I too have made a career of making things beautiful and putting a lot of weight on that. Fast forward, beauty fades even under the best of circumstances and truly being comfortable in your own skin and truly realizing what and who is important in your life is where you put your worth in. I still put on my make up every day but there’s a different women staring back at me in the mirror andI too have a sense of gratitude for what I do have as opposed to what I don’t. Life can be cruel and unfair sometimes but there’s always a silver lining a a major life lesson in even the toughest times. When you come out with that sense of gratitude then you’re ahead of the game. I’m so happy for your health. I share your passion for interior design and refurbishing beautiful old stuff because I can appreciate it. Appreciating beauty in the most simplest form is a true gift. I don’t even know if you’ll read this quite frankly because it’s such an old blog but know I’m sending you heartfelt love. Good energy is always received. It’s the law of the universe ❤.

Hi Selena, I went through breast cancer, too, and I had the harsh chemo. I lost all of my hair on my body. I remember I was at work one morning and I was teaching preschool. I took off my winter hat before the kids got there and my coworker said, "Oh my God, Tina, your hair is coming back!" I remember quietly crying. I was so happy. And relieved.

Excellent video! I followed you through your cancer and continue to follow you because your a wonderful person inside and out. Thank you for sharing this, and God has truly blessed you!☺️

Just a quick note regarding this video. I have followed you for over a year and had no idea of your past medical challenges. It would explain why you have such a wonderful connection with your viewers. You've come a long way and I wish you many, many more years of searching for the pretty and beautiful. I look forward to them all. My best to your mom,also.

Hi, we have a news anchor here where I live. She is a lovely young woman who survived breast cancer going thru chemo. She went back to anchor on air after losing her hair, no wig and I was so proud of her. I saw her recently for jury duty, turned around to congratulate her and thank her for her courage and conviction.

Hi Selena you always radiate beauty. You have a beautiful spirit. I am a breast cancer survivor, and l think it makes you more compassionate, l am just so happy to be alive. I love your channel so much. Being kind to one another is the best. Xxxxxx

Sharing your experiences with others helps more than you can even imagine. I thank you, Selena, for celebrating your life and loving your imperfections.

I know how late I am to this video. I went through Stage IV colon cancer...lost my hair twice. I was called every name in the book by complete strangers. I decided to rock the Sinead O'Connor look during my treatment. Now I embrace my gray and don't give a crap what anyone else thinks. Big love from your neighbor (in Beaverton!).

A wonderful message. You’re a bright spot on this earthly plane.

More spiritual is more natural! Thank you for sharing your testimony. I've almost died 3 times but God has a purpose in all of it. It has helped me realized who i am on the inner woman and my spiritual intimacy with my creator helps me grow. I've been a selfish brat most of my life but through these life challenges I've grown more mature. Your story is helping others and we so appreciate you putting yourself out there!

Since you are being so honest I feel like I can be honest too. I have had self loathing my whole life. I was never thin enough, tall enough, pretty enough or successful enough. I tried like crazy to be all those things. I became a runner to be the ideal weight and ruined my knees thru the years. I ran so much that it was a race to get away from the negativity. I finally reached a point in my life that I just didn't care anymore what the ideal woman was supposed to be. So I know that your words are right on point. I followed you thru your cancer battles and Selena? I really thought we were gonna lose you at one point. I prayed and prayed for God not to take you home. The thought of what your family would have had to endure was too much for me to think about. It is amazing to me what all you have struggled with and you have remained so positive and loving. I appreciate your kind words and I want you to know that they struck my heart like an arrow filled with truth. Thank you Selena, thank you kindly for your precious wisdom. We love you out here and we consider ourselves lucky to be able to have you on our side. Thanks for sharing!

I had cancer and had chemo for 9 months Lost all of my hair on my body. I lost one breast and some lymph nodes . God gave us the power to heal ourselves. We are living our lives everyday and when we are sick we must think and act positively because it is vey healing and I’m still here very much alive. I’m a survivor of 25 years..Thanks for sharing your story. I admire you very much and you are very talented ,,...Margaret n Iceland

Well I am not a breast cancer survivor, but my mom passed about two years ago from breast cancer, so I do understand somewhat where you are coming from. And I am 67 years old now. You know what, I feel like you do. I used to wear everything every hour of the day that I was awake. The eyeliner, false lashes. Hair was styled and long also. My family and friends also ribbed me about it. I always felt I had to do all that to be who I was, and to be liked and, I based everything I did and was, on how I looked and dressed. Everything had to be perfect or I would not leave my house. Now when I look back, just taking care of me was a lot of work and stress. I am glad I am more relaxed now. Still take good care of myself, but not so obsessed...lol. Life seems a bit easier now. Now I know that beauty is based on many other real things, not makeup. 🐣🌸🐞🐇🐝🌺👒🏵💐🌹💛🌻

I was diagnosed with cancer January 4, 2019. I was unable to have surgery until February 4.2019. Bad weather forced me to cancel surgery three times. I was a mess to say the least. Finding your videos was so helpful for me. You are a true beauty, inside and out. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. Connie

I just rewatched this video and I have to say what an astonishing message!This was something I really needed to hear at this time.Selena you are something else!

Who could ever see something wrong with you.. You are so beautiful inside and out! I am so sorry you went through cancer. I have a prayer ministry and will pray you stay HEALTHY .Unfortunately people dont care what others go through or went through. I love your videos ...God Bless you!

I'm sure this was a tough vlog to make, but I'm glad you did. After surviving a brain aneurysm in 2014 and being in a coma for 3 months after, I have periods when I'm down on myself. I'm almost nothing like I was. I'm not as physically strong. I'm not as energetic. I'm not graceful any more. This was one of my best attributes, in my opinion, and it's gone. I'm awkward now, sorta like being spun around too many times. It's a terrible feeling. I get so frustrated and angry. But I survived. So many people die each year from brain aneurysms it's unreal. I survived. I need to focus on that. Thanks for sharing Selena.

Thank you Selena. I was thinking just today, “I wonder if she realized when she started this how much enjoyment she would be giving to so many strangers”? I’ve struggled with obesity all my life, and my self worth has suffered as a result of the idea of feminine beauty and the rejection I experienced. Your spirit comes through in each of your videos. I feel like we’re friends (though I’m your mom’s age) simply because you share your experiences in such an honest and delightful way. My heart broke for you when I watched your struggle with cancer and the horrible sickness with chemo. I’ve had my share of heartbreak also over the years; but girl, we just keep doing what we love, keeping it simple and giggling at ourselves. 💕

Wow, the tears are flowing. You are truly beautiful and because you have reached that place inside of yourself, it emanates from the inside out. Thanks so much for Sharing.

I saw your beautiful spirit before your gorgeous looks, your fun style your laugh, always so happy. Excellent relationship with your husband and mother. You are what they call the total package. God has Blessed you, thank you for sharing your story.

Love you for your brave statement. My son had cancer at the age of five and my husband lost his fight three years ago. Thank you.

Thank you so much for sharing your journey and this very important message. I’ve always thought you were beautiful and your most beautiful feature is your laugh. 💕

It is your friendly and kind demeanor that first made me want to watch you videos. You are what it is all about.

Well said. You are beautiful inside and out. I used to feel so insecure about my body. I have 2 chronic illnesses. The type of Crohn’s disease I have causes me to actually gain weight. But I’ve reached a point where I have started counting my blessings. If I wake up and feel healthy and I have love and kindness inside, then it radiates through me. If you give love, you’ll get love. You are so special and lovely. And I’m so grateful for the day I clicked on one of your videos all those years ago. 💕💕💕

Thank u for the beautiful words!! So needed to hear this!! Ur beautiful in n out!! 💜

You should be a life coach Selena!!! I went through cervical and ovarian cancer this last year and it has torn me apart so than you for this video!!! If you’re ever In Tri cities Washington hunting I would love to hunt with you girls 🖤

This is your best video EVER! Thank you !

What a touching video. I sent it to my three daughters. You are absolutely beautiful!

God 's blessings for your continued health! You are a witness and blessing to all!

Selena, I had no idea what you've gone through...I've been watching for awhile but see this was posted 3 years ago. What you've said is beautiful and so heartfelt...just like YOU! Thank-you for being you, girl.

You are a brave woman, i went true that 3 years back 2016 . It changes your life, but all i wanted is to live. It changes the perpective that you have in life.

Right on ! What a beautiful message . Thank you!

Love you Selina! You see beauty in so many things. ❤️

I can't believe anyone would have something negative to say about you. You're so genuine & have a heart of gold. I just stumbled upon your channel a week ago & it makes me feel happy when I'm watching a thrift haul or vlog bc you're not on here trying to be someone you're not & that's rare to find so thank you for showing us all we can thrive in being authentically ourselves.

Why would anyone give you "thumbs down👎" ? There is inner beauty in everyone, you just have to find it. I think it took COURAGE for you to show us what it's like go through what you did on camera. Although I always felt like shaving my head because I'm sick of the up keep, I've never done it. We all have our inner self cutting us down, we don't need trolls or bullies doing it too. We should be bringing each other up.🤷‍♀️💖

"In a world where you can be anything, Be Kind"

You stated that beautifully. Everyone has a story. We need to be nice to each other. I was stressing with 2 sons in the military deployed overseas at the same time when a coworker pointed that out to me. He wanted to show some support. You can't always tell by looking, what people are going through. I wish you health and happiness. I enjoy your videos on health tips, making a space that brings you joy, saving money, and enjoying nature. keep it up.

You are a champion! So beautiful inside and out. So thankful God heal you and you are still here. Keep enjoying life and b thankful for everything you have.

Salena your so amazing ,your strong thinking woman, may the lord keep you smiling like you always do , your beautiful inside and out❤😊

You're such a beautiful person inside and out, and inspirational❣️ THANK YOU! I am with everyone else, you are loved. Watching your videos with your mom, makes me happy. Brings back memories of me, my sisters and mom when we used to thrift shopping. You are such a breath of fresh air!

I’m just watching this today November 28, 2023. I’m going through your old videos. I’ve been watching you for a while but I never watched the old ones and I’ve always thought you were so beautiful. You should be a model don’t listen to what other people say ever your trolls they’re just jealous.

I’m 64 and I have watched you and your mum are so enjoyable to watch, I feel like you are my far away daughter. You are wonderfu

Yep and yep and yep, I too am a breast cancer survivor, and single. Not fun. So true to all you said. Lots of love to you!

I see a person who's beautiful on the inside and the outside. 💞 I'm so glad that you're doing well after breast cancer, unfortunately I've just lost my father due to cancer and it does make you realise what is really important. The unconditional love and support of my partner means more than any amount of money.

You are precious, Selena. Your light shines!

Wow! I have been watching you a lot lately, and have watched you and Laura many times. I have always thought you are BREATHTAKING beautiful! I have a channel too. I am 70 years old. I get mostly friendly, loving comments, but I have had some doozies too. My husband went through cancer and chemo and no hair. It changed my way of looking at things for sure. God bless you sweet girl!

Well said! I am 50 and just celebrated 6 years breast cancer free. What you said is very much what I discovered during my cancer treatments and surgeries. I've always said I would never wish cancer on anyone, but I do wish that everyone could experience what cancer teaches you if you let it.

This year I will turn 54. I was always what others consider pretty; but due to illness, I am losing said prettiness. Thankfully, in my youth, I focused on my inner self, specifically developing 'pretty' QUALITIES. And so, no matter how skinny I am, no matter how quickly I lose my youthful looks, I know that I still have my inner beauty to proyect outwards. Thank you for this beautiful reflection that reinforces my point of view about physical beauty. God bless you!

I think God said it best...Isaiah 66:9 I will not cause pain without allowing something new to be born. I have been a subscriber for awhile but had no idea about your back story. I just saw a beautiful young women who gave me great joy just watching her creative channel and her interactions with her husband and parents. Oh, and of course I love thrifting. That being said, I now see you in a new light. You are just as beautiful inside as you are on the exterior. You have made this 71 yr. old "grammy" very happy. Blessings and prayers...

Thank you! Im going to start loving myself. All my life others have sucked the life out of me. Thank you dear Selena!

I found your channel in Feb 2018 as I was healing from mastectomy. I have watched you since, but typically don't comment a lot. I come back to this video, when I need to hear this, and today....I needed to hear this!

You are so beautiful inside & out. I haven't had Cancer, my Aunt has gone through Breast Cancer twice & us being separated by several states I felt helpless. She refused to go through having her breasts taken. And this April she will be 17 years Cancer free. She went through so much & is my hero. As are her.

You have been through SO MUCH Selena! What an amazing soul you are - and your beauty shines SO BRIGHT from within - back outward. You are spot on about not letting ourselves get caught up in our looks and beauty, (not only because of health issues - to which I have had many autoimmune issues over the years and I'm now 58 - but also from the aging process) because beauty does fade, but the light in our hearts can forever be beautiful - if we are happy, taking care of ourselves and have some kind of passion in our lives. I am very happy that your health is back again and I enjoy watching you and Laura and all the fun you are having together!! Come back to Montana some day 😊 - I live in Lewistown and we have a cool Antique store and several thrift stores for our smaller town. My husband and I live in, what was once a Motel - he remodeled it for us almost 40 years ago. I have guestrooms for you and Laura 🙂🙂!!

This was a wonderful video and something important for women to think about! It may be too personal an issue, but I think it would be great to have your husband share his perspective on this whole subject and also the process he went through as you were going through it.

"Very Fairy Wings" look good on you they Radiate rays of sunshine and love. You are awesome!

Selena, this is amazing! I have been following you guys on the Recycled Life for a few months as I love a bargain and quirky thrifted style! I live in Ireland and teach empowerment to teenagers. I would love permission to show this video during our self-image lessons...stories are the most powerful form of teaching and yours is incredible! Big hug on the way to your kind, stylish, sassy and strong soul! XXX

You are one of the few you tubers who stand out from the rest of soooo many superficial people out there. Keep growing and passing on your beautiful kindness to humanity.

Hi, I watched this video in the past and it just showed up today. I think this is something we need to see every once in a while. It makes me appreciate all of myself and even my faults because I have never experienced such a difficult life experience in 67 years of life.

I am in that journey of self love and kindness. I needed to hear this, thank you. I have been following your for a couple of years because I felt a connection with you. Now I know what happened to you and I understand.

You are beautiful inside & out and a true inspiration. I don’t mean to gush, but your honesty & tell it like it is style is part of your beauty. ❤️❤️❤️

Profound and wonderful - you lost so much but have chosen to gain so much - and yes

Hi sweet girl. This is why I love you and ur videos.So much love n sincerity about life! And this why God healed you he knows ur heart.❤ Sometimes we get lost in that attitude of criticism we all do.But to be able to reflect and make changes is what really matters.just receive a huge hug from me .You are so sweet n kind. Blessings to you always.

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you! I needed to hear this today!

What a beautiful message. The gift in that trial is learning what's truly important early in your life. Some people reach the end of their lives without that blessing.

LOVE THIS!!! Thank you so much for sharing your journey! Your light does shine in all you do.

You are truly a deeply beautiful person. When I am feeling low I like to watch you and I find that your good feelings flow into me at a time when I need it most.

Amen to this ! I’m so happy to hear so much truth about us woman being kind to ourselves and others . My mom and I have been battling her cancer for 2 1/2 years and after going through all of this it has changed my perspective on so much ... I thank you for being so genuine and for having such a beautiful soul

You are an incredible human being. I’m thrilled I have found you♥️

My sister is about to start chemotherapy and radiation and I hope at some point I can share this message with her. I love your courage and you are a testimony that we can overcome any obstacle and still be positive and joyful.

You’re positive outlook is contagious and encouraging. Thank you.

This is such a great message and one I really needed to hear. Thank you Selena 💗🌼💗

Beautiful message!! ❤️❤️❤️. You are glowing girl! Keep shining!! ❤️❤️❤️

I went thru the same exact thing, and your message is wonderful. Beautifully put into words!

I agree! I wish my husband could be here! I miss him a lot but life goes on! My motto is to enjoy everything you love and your family is what makes me happy! Went to one thrift store and I got some beautiful stuff! You are very nice and you both keep me entertained! I scored mason and atlas jars at thrift store with hold covers! Love them! Got a bumblebee canister set from garden party 4 total for 9.00$

You're awesome. Thank you for being so open and honest and wise.

I come to you for so much beauty, style, and decor advice. Thank you for all of it. Thank you so much 🌹 I've got nerve damage from Bell's Palsy, so I kinda get it.

You have my heart girl!! I love your story and how true it is. Thank you for sharing!

I've only been watching your Vintage thrifts for a short time...but after watching this video, now I know why! You have Powered through some heavy stuff....only to come out Shining Brighter, and sharing your Light with others ✨ You speak to my Soul, and resonate with my Spiritual side...so much is going on with so many of us in the Universe! We need more people like you to help others to stay positive 🙏 as we All push to a higher level in 2023! Thank you for sharing your Soul's journey......A Kindred Spirit, Katie

YESSSS!! Speak the truth, I think everybody needs to hear this. Your such a beautiful person!!!

Selena read ahead and never doubt yourself about anything! I can’t imagine those who are putting you down. These women have poured their heart out for you. They all love you and are as moved by this video as I am. All your walls are down and we know you and we love you! There are times you doubt Gods decision to let cancer happen to anyone. But He knows you and knows what you are all about. Selena you have helped more people than you will ever know about! That was his plan and it worked!🌹

You’re amazing! I just started following you and had no idea what you had been through. I found your videos about your cancer journey and I’m even more impressed by you. You are a beautiful person. Keep telling people to love themselves and the people around them. The world would be a better place if we would follow your advice.

Aww...just love you and your spirit! Great advice for any woman who deals with body image. :)

Sometimes it's easier to be kind to someone else than yourself. Thank you very much for your words of wisdom.

Love your spirit, beautiful message!

You are a beautiful, kind soul. Thank you for this.

You are such a inspiration. Thank you for making this video.

You are so amazing and such a strong woman & fighter! Your video made me cry. So inspirational. 💚

Bombshell I've been with you through the entire cancer process, you have always been beautiful inside and out. I'm so happy you put this video out. You were on point with all you said. I've put on some pounds on my 57 year old self but that's ok🙅🏻🙅🏻🙅🏻🙅🏻🙅🏻🙅🏻🙋🏻👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Just watched this today and want to pass on Selena you do radiate love and BEAUTY with in thank you from a two time cancer survivor we are warriors who are still here to spread love and to live in the moment indeed love to you my dear 🙏💪✌🏼💕

You are incredible! Such an important message! Thank you for being the real deal, as such, your beauty is energizing and you are lovely, inside AND out!!