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The first thing you notice when you see Harvey Specter is his undeniable, immense self-confidence.
He thinks fast on his feet, always has a witty remark up his sleeve and he always gets what he wants from others.
Today I’m gonna break his character down and show you what exactly makes him so confident, so that you can gain that Harvey Specter confidence yourself.
You would think that people like Harvey were born confident, yet here’s the truth:
Confidence is all about self image, how YOU see YOURSELF.
And since Harvey Specter sees himself as better than anyone else, he is confident around anyone: his clients, women, his boss, his colleagues… H ie believes he’s higher status than any of them… And, while that may sound arrogant, seeing yourself as higher or, at least, equal status as the person you’re talking with is the key to confidence.
Just by looking at this short clip, you will understand how to have more confidence around women. Harvey knows how to be self confident around women: He sees himself as superior in every department to the guy he’s talking with…
Harvey knows how to be alpha: he straight up tells him that.
There’s no doubt… No insecurity… No shame…
Harvey says what he thinks about himself, and he doesn't care if the guy doesn't like it… he knows how to be charming and how to be charismatic, but he doesn't care. He decides to be an alpha male and act confident.
You see: how you see yourself is how other people will see you. So, if you see yourself as a high-status, successful guy, other people will see you that way, too…
So, you can apply the same logic to girls as well… If you’re a guy, and you think that hot girls are out of your league… Then, the next time you’re in a bar… And you’re talking with a hot girl… You’re going to start feeling uncomfortable… And she will notice that…
The reason why that happens is because you let her hotness influence your perception of her…
And, you give her more value that you should.
Listen to me: Whether you’re confident around a person depends only on the fact if you see yourself as higher status than that person.
So, to act confident around those hot girls, you need to accept the fact that her looks have nothing to do with you. If you’re high-status [which you will be], you’re going to act that way around any girl regardless of her looks.
Another key to being confident like Harvey Specter are his high standards. You see, if you ever watched a couple of episodes of Suits, you’ve probably noticed that Harvey doesn’t simply want to win a case… He expects to win it…
Those high-standards are also applicable to girls. You see, when you go out with a girl, you should replace hoping that she likes you with expecting that she does.
And from the first moment you talk to a girl, you can start being playful with her assuming she is already attracted to you.
The third reason why Harvey is always so confident is that he always - comes - prepared. Just look at what Harvey said about himself: