How To Be Confident (5 Steps To Harvey Specter Confidence)

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How To Be Confident (5 Steps To Harvey Specter Confidence)

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The Attraction Switch

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@jevon246 7 жыл бұрын

fictional or not...posture, eye contact, preparation, self confidence are all things that work in everyday life

@nonethewiser8982 5 жыл бұрын

Jevon Collins nailed it man

@ouahraniyounes3245 4 жыл бұрын

Video Summary : RULE 1 : Confidence is all about self-image : the world sees you the way you see yourself . RULE 2 : Set Higher standards , high standards unlocks the doors to high places . RULE 3 : Practice makes Perfect , always plan ahead your way . RULE 4 : 80% of a conversation is body language , always express confidence through your gestures and body language , keep it classy RULE 5 : Don't Settle for average mindset , always think differently i hope i summarized well , if i forgot anything about this breakdown , be free to correct me in the replies Cheers !

@karthikkishore495 3 жыл бұрын

Super

@linhngo7398 2 жыл бұрын

Have the self image that you're the best

@Bookish_Haven Жыл бұрын

Cheers man

@googoldata6662 7 жыл бұрын

why the hell they don't make him the next James Bond? he so deserves it!

@BARATTI99 7 жыл бұрын

SNRTR true!

@nyuakgatluakruon4075 6 жыл бұрын

SNRTR yeah you're buddy They should start rethinking about it again hhh

@kewl800i 6 жыл бұрын

How about a US agent movie with him as the star? That would be great!

@madalenaveloso8103 6 жыл бұрын

SNRTR so does don draper!

@Jamesramz 6 жыл бұрын

I don't see hin as the next James Bond

@ArmyWolves 2 жыл бұрын

Harvey is so amazing because he also walks the walk... 1. He is a GREAT poker player which translates to him reading people, negotiating, dropping the hammer when closing. 2. He is confident because he looks good... his body, his face, his hair, his tailor-made expensive suits, his charming grin, smirk, smile etc as well as his stature when standing and walking. 3. He is a boxer and can stand nose to nose with someone during a confrontation and is scared of it escalating. 4. He is remarkably compentent at his job... great lawyer, great closer and has great confidence in his ability. 5. He keeps tabs on all the poeple he owes favors and those who owe him favors. 6. He chooses the fights that have a higher probability of him winning unless the fight comes to him and there is little or no choice. Smart. SUITS is extremely layered in regards to characters and character arcs (this was not so strong after season six or so but I still enjoyed the show until the final episode in season 9 and plan to rewatch it all on NETFLIX)

@grimreaper2680 4 жыл бұрын

Also gotta give credits to Gabriel Macht for playing the character "Harvey Specter" so well clean and smoothly really did an excellent job

@MultiXDDX 7 жыл бұрын

People dont understand the video : its not about becoming Harvey specter, Its about becoming more confident, alpha which Harvey is and is written like

@dexistence19 7 жыл бұрын

Not sure why people are getting so upset because he's a tv character... It's called character analysis, and there's nothing wrong with applying their characteristics to real life, keeping in mind there will be some limitations.

@dinozanki3831 6 жыл бұрын

people just get triggered over nothing

@kingjewelz9948 6 жыл бұрын

That’s what’s wrong with people instead of being wise and trying to learn something they shut it down I’m sure most of those morons don’t have 1 bit of confidence

@predator5124 6 жыл бұрын

The fact that so many people are not able to understand and grasp the basic elements of this video is sufficient to make me realize that we are indeed living in a world plagued by fools and eggheads

@user-by1sm4mt1i 5 жыл бұрын

thus we can stand out easier, which is a good thing, isn't it?

@mrr9108 5 жыл бұрын

@@user-by1sm4mt1i you stole those words from my mind ,and i can't agree more !

@themusic6808 5 жыл бұрын

It’s important to note when watching shows like Suits that the dominance in a character like Harvey Spector isn’t so much he himself but the way the other characters and plot are written around him. In reality if you showed up to work acting like Harvey Spector you’re going to make a lot more enemies than admirers and probably get fired for either breaking the rules to win or violating some code of conduct lol

@katekarume8338 5 жыл бұрын

Truuuuw...couldn't be better said

@TanushPradhan 4 жыл бұрын

honestly speaking tru but no one is asking u to be exactly like harvey...this is abt how to be more confident and not a particular character..so its not fair to say that this video is showing the wrong premise

@yashvi1830 4 жыл бұрын

But in the show he has a reputation. And he has a reason to be confident on

@kczleon735 4 жыл бұрын

Well in the show it also states that he worked his ass off to get to a position like that. Everyone either admires or fears him, but only because they know what his genius is capable of. It still is a tv show so it still has some unrealistic aspects, but this video is about boosting your confidence and i think those techniques work fine

@meowuuu 4 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right! A new guy in my department tried to act all tough like Harvey Spector. And most people were just put off by his arrogance. Only 2 other nerdy guys in the office bought his tough guy act.

@Zgjimik 5 жыл бұрын

Did Louis Litt narrate this?

@AxelFlash220 5 жыл бұрын

Holy shit.

@specter1019 5 жыл бұрын

Yeah totally sounds like louis when he was a kid!

@jardelmiranda9714 5 жыл бұрын

Fuck 😂

@rishabhjha5178 4 жыл бұрын

On his Dectaphone😂

@Youbeentagged 4 жыл бұрын

I dont hear it....

@TheGreySage0 Жыл бұрын

Arrogance =Thinking you are better than others Confidence=Thinking you can achieve and withstand anything life throws at you +Humillity

@kss4652 Жыл бұрын

He is confident and know what he talks about. He is actually good at what he does. He shows it that is Great

@reddyfrench9792 6 жыл бұрын

Everyone wants to live a Harvey Specter life

@theotherschannel7087 5 жыл бұрын

Nope

@skaar118 5 жыл бұрын

mamat seking u Mad

@LukeRyan77 5 жыл бұрын

@@theotherschannel7087 ?? are you crazy??????

@theotherschannel7087 5 жыл бұрын

Be humble

@sorcus2144 5 жыл бұрын

Harvey is a great character but he has his flaws, he is always alone and doesn’t have a life outside of work, he doesn’t have a family and is emotionally damaged to the point where he struggles to maintain any relationship he begins. Everyone has their flaws, you can’t want one part of his life without the other.

@geogeo3733 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks I told a guy to take a swing at me after this video to prove my masculinity and I ended up in hospital.

@shaankumarjr.2202 6 жыл бұрын

Lol, unless if it really happened, then...ouch.

@sagelioneldsouza8230 5 жыл бұрын

You're welcome

@zedal46 5 жыл бұрын

You shouldn't have said that unless you were capable of dealing with what was about to come.

@HoyaSaxaSD 5 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@jeetsharma9892 5 жыл бұрын

That means you are not a man enough

@ilbgbg 9 ай бұрын

One thing: you can never fool people by acting confident if you’re insecure. You will end up being Louis. True confidence does not come from superiority, rather indifference to what people think of you. That’s a huge difference. Harvey acted from the position of power because he trusted himself and his abilities. Not because he stood upright and wanted to prove he knew better.

@rensvisser6504 6 жыл бұрын

God this guy is gold, you can learn a lot from him. I did

@_uditsingh 5 жыл бұрын

But first of all, you'll need a HARVARD'S LAW degree.

@riddheshsharma3684 5 жыл бұрын

😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 Lol

@AbhimanyuKumar-zw9vp 5 жыл бұрын

Just fake it like mike Ross😁

@jardelmiranda9714 5 жыл бұрын

lol word 😂

@marcosgreg9983 4 жыл бұрын

Litt haves it but he is a mess xd

@benshapiro8623 4 жыл бұрын

Marcos Greg Louis isn’t a mess lol.

@gerald828 6 жыл бұрын

But you have got to back up that confidence. Talk and posturing wont get you too far when they call you on it. You have to build a good track record first." Competence" !

@mrr9108 5 жыл бұрын

Off course

@jirensama1622 2 жыл бұрын

First of all, His confidence is backed by his supreme intelligence.

@theshaikhayaan 2 жыл бұрын

And his extreme beauty

@dejojoseph1470 5 жыл бұрын

I always fascinated to observe Harvey's eye contact while talking to people Brilliant expressions

@superlokar62 7 жыл бұрын

I am straight, have a man crush on this character.

@indiasupportstrumpwwg1wga927 5 жыл бұрын

Super Lokar his alpha traits got you wet and weak in the knees. 🥰

@Rkroe24 5 жыл бұрын

An straight man could never talk that way , gayyy

@savage8771 5 жыл бұрын

@@indiasupportstrumpwwg1wga927 WTF! u gays r weird xD

@yoyo8049 4 жыл бұрын

You forgot to say No Homo Tho

@sultansyed4749 3 жыл бұрын

i think you guys don’t know what man crush means 🤦‍♂️

@nerdock4747 5 жыл бұрын

I'd like to add that the main thing for Harvey is confidence in himself. The video does highlight that he feels superior and for guys to imitate that to a small degree. I do disagree a bit with that, as true confidence comes from within, not from viewing oneself as superior to others. Knowing you have the answers is different than knowing the other guy doesn't have the answers.

@notfunnysir8846 5 жыл бұрын

As I was watching the video, I noticed how well acted & Directed each of the roles are. To be used as a model of confidence including body language. Impressive stuff. Great de-coding of it as well. Good job!

@zindgikekuchhpal12345 7 жыл бұрын

He has such a great confidence because he made his life great.

@belworld3966 2 жыл бұрын

I feel like one point should be added before all the others: "Give them a reason to fear or like you. One of the two, no in between." This entails you need to MASTER a skill, become the best of the best, of atleast try to be. Show up for work/your appointments and work your ass off. Results will show soon enough. But the steps mentioned can definitely improve your mindset.

@naleparyan 5 жыл бұрын

"You know why I win???... because I don't hope" --- Patrice O'Neal (RIP)

@therobinx20 7 жыл бұрын

there is a thin line between confidence and arrogance. I think one should always keep that in mind as u may seem to have strong personality but are very low on the grounds of morality.

@divyanshmishra7135 5 жыл бұрын

Right

@manurazgoit 7 жыл бұрын

Everything is possible you just need to have will

@galenblack8321 6 жыл бұрын

While I do tend to agree with what you are saying. I feel like you have self-esteem and self-confidence mixed up. Self-esteem is about your self-image and how you feel about yourself and self-confidence is how you feel about your abilities and aptitudes. It is taught in psychology. I do not mean to be nit-picky, but too many people use these terms synonymously when there are distinct differences between the two and they should not be used like that. Thanks for understanding. Yes, I do have a degree in psychology. While other people may be pickier than me, I do feel like you have valid content. Keep practicing and getting better. I enjoy your videos along with Charisma on Command. This kind of content is what a lot of guys need. Keep up the great work.

@aliimalu469 4 жыл бұрын

Good point

@KeesJansma7689 4 жыл бұрын

But if my self-image is better, I also feel more confident in my abilities. So they are correlated with each other, aren't they?

@galenblack8321 4 жыл бұрын

@@KeesJansma7689, yes they are. I have done some more recent research since my last post and learned something new. Self esteem is a product of the media and supposed gurus of self help. In all reality. Self esteem is nothing more than controlled narcissism. Whereas Self confidence is confidence in your abilities and yourself. Yes, self image is correlated with self confidence. Without a decent self image, your self confidence will suffer. In fact through research it has been discovered that how you dress also helps determine how you feel and not just self image and past successes.

@KeesJansma7689 4 жыл бұрын

@@galenblack8321 Interesting research, thanks for your reply!

@MissTronik 5 жыл бұрын

What makes him confident are Mike and Donna giving him all the Infos he needs to use them against the other people 😂🙈 we need a video being as smart as Mike and all-knowing like Donna. But really. Jessica is the greatest 😊

@abhishekshinde897 7 жыл бұрын

I met a girl who was so confident and good looking but unlike this guy she was very very humble and respectful. People just give her what she wanted. Harvey specter is just arrogant. That's where his confidence comes from, Real deal is to be confident and humble.

@prajotasolkar7927 7 жыл бұрын

truly amazing video learned a lot from it

@nanireddy7576 6 жыл бұрын

I was about to close this video and all of a sudden it said listen to me.. 😂

@charlottebishop299 6 жыл бұрын

Harvey is my icon !

@yashSs30 7 жыл бұрын

Just put this guy in next Kingsman movie, he is the best fit for that role. Nice video tho.

@kathyphillips1272 5 жыл бұрын

The deep knowing and belief has got to be there..otherwise its fake ! With the character of Harvey..he is completely confident in his ability as a Lawyer..so his competence feeds his confidence. Like the saying goes.. If you think you're good..you'll tell everyone..but when you're great..everyone will tell you !🙏

@chukwuebukanwana3536 6 жыл бұрын

Great videos man. Very insightful breakdown of the characters. Keep on!!!

@SoleilandSoul 3 ай бұрын

Harvey is what most women love about men. Also, most people neglect #3. They neglect to do their homework. That’s what makes them arrogant. They’re just as cocky, but wrong because they talk without thinking. That’s a big part of what distinguishes confidence from arrogance.

@stevenundisclosed6091 5 жыл бұрын

I've never seen this show before. Might be worth checking out. Good breakdown.

@dianasendt9509 5 жыл бұрын

This show gets me out of bed on the morning. I watch it on the train to work!

@Mattschindig 4 жыл бұрын

In truth though on what you really need and even Harvey Specter will admit is you need a "Donna"

@Thefreesoul841 7 жыл бұрын

Actually The character had influenced me a Lottttttttt .

@vikashbhuyan8955 5 жыл бұрын

Your profile pic says a lot.

@r.a.28 5 жыл бұрын

@@vikashbhuyan8955 I shouldn't be laughing, but I did. And I laughed hard.

@MrAbhishekricky 5 жыл бұрын

@@vikashbhuyan8955 never judge a book by it's cover

@randomperson493 7 жыл бұрын

The First is Tip is Everything for Confidence.

@BabaaYaga888 7 жыл бұрын

Can someone please analyze Ragnor Lathbrok from Vikings and tell me what is it that makes him ooze confidence and power?

@zach2352 6 жыл бұрын

BISWAJIT DAS ^^^^^^^^

@matt3606 5 жыл бұрын

That's a good suggestion.

@VampiresCrypt 5 жыл бұрын

Harvey is clearly a stand user, he can erase time to back away out of frame at 1:38 xDD

@rockkhan8097 5 жыл бұрын

Make Your Dreams Life Goals And Do That Everything To Get Them On Any Cost And Don't Make Excuses....

@vishnumenon9815 4 жыл бұрын

Guys he is saying. That confidence is the main key in everything it doesn’t matter who u are

@karanagarwaal1716 4 жыл бұрын

1st thing you need to do is BUILD A CARREER LIKE HARVEY SPECTER

@zippo_muk9254 2 жыл бұрын

*Jensen Ackles (Dean from Supernatural) and Gabriel (Harvey) should both be in James Bond type films.*

@francescorusso7812 7 жыл бұрын

Hi "The Attraction Switch", your videos are amazing. Could you make a video on Tomas Shelby?

@keshavkesuu 4 жыл бұрын

There is thin line in between Arrogance and Self confidante. If you always succed in what you are doing that self confidence and if you fails with the situations that is Arrogance.

@overkill2818 2 ай бұрын

The frame of the body language Tyrion lanster he used with his grandson

@chei5saad 7 жыл бұрын

I dont usually comment on videos ... but this is really a very good clip abt confidence ... short yet very effective and informative !

@amritangshubaruah7368 6 жыл бұрын

Probably, the best video on Harvey Specter.

@Athletics2.0 5 жыл бұрын

Please make one on Tommy Shelby 🙏🙏🙏

@adibhutani9977 7 жыл бұрын

Oh man. This was really amazing!!

@rajivuniyal4346 7 жыл бұрын

This is your first content I am going through..!! And let me tell u I never comment in videos..!! But your content made me do that..!! Awesome..!!

@aashiv93 4 жыл бұрын

Why does this remind me of Harvey Dent, a smart, cocky, extremely handsome American lawyer who said "I make my own luck."

@professora5927 3 жыл бұрын

Hi your work is so great i loved it so i have advice for you : what about attach your video with some translations? 😕 It will make you work better and better. And thank you again for your impressive work. Your brather from Egypt 🇪🇬

@VideoUploader00 6 жыл бұрын

I don't usually watch videos till the end lately but Oh My this was such a good and useful video to watch and half way there pressed like button! I know I am like a year later to watch this but I am glad I've seen it now. Harvey is a God and you, my friend, is a legend! Keep it up!

@DavyDeloom 5 жыл бұрын

Amazing video,good work!

@renanlinard7 5 жыл бұрын

Excellent job, bro! Excellent!

@arnoldchristian9501 6 жыл бұрын

I’m short af man. I’m 5’4 and people point that out quite often, that’s the only thing that’s making me see myself as lower status haha

@shubhamsai3333 7 жыл бұрын

plz make video about stephan amell, AKA The oliver queen, AKA green arrow.

@tartaric2040 5 жыл бұрын

Excellent video

@thomasbayer2832 5 жыл бұрын

Excellent advice and wise words ☝🏻

@FernandoFlores-ut8ic 6 жыл бұрын

LOVE IT DD !!!!!!!!!!

@jemilagulston7742 2 жыл бұрын

I never knew Harvey was a real lawyer until I researched

@leonardspeicher7443 6 жыл бұрын

Well, the thing about harvey is: He is the best. If you‘re the best, there‘s no point in not being confident... he worked for it and he is superior. Bad example tbh.

@pratham2797 5 жыл бұрын

well you got the msg wrong tbh . he wins because he is confident , confidence =belief in one's self... you will be successful only when you believe in yourself

@Bebbolove 5 жыл бұрын

Pratham Dhamija Let’s be real. 😋Harvey’s a competent person & has high standards for himself that he lives up to & expects others around him to follow suit.. he only hires ppl who are competent, worthy & talented - Donna, Mike & even the sportscar CEO (late CEO & even going to the lengths of preventing the interim CEO from permanently taking over & replacing with another one who will maintain quality- the best engineering; early seasons). He’s willing to take high risks so Long as there’s substance, high chance of quality control & it will pay off in the Long run. He’s willing to hire Mike despite not having a law degree because of Mike’s thoroughness, potential & talent. There are plenty of confident ppl who fall through too who lacks substance. It goes hand in hand. In the later Seasons flashbacks, younger Harvey tells Donna how he’s the lawyer that he is because of the secretary she is & offers her to follow him when he goes back to Pearson Hardman. He hires the best & don’t waste time or effort on anything that undermines quality. He goes for quick settlement in cases not worth his time, $ & effort but in all others he plays to win. He believes he’s the best coz he ensures the best- strategy, outwit, outplay, ppl he has to partner up with & gain leverage on their expertise even if it means at times with Louis Litt in the earlier seasons when they are more at odds. He’s only flexible to maintain what’s best for him. But there are times that he pushes his luck to have his way & clashes with Jessica!

@sancrosanct5070 3 жыл бұрын

Harvey is the best because he sees himself as it. If you see yourself as dumb then your dumb. He worked for it and that made him better than most. The fact that you can't understand that is just frikin sad

@drasticgamerstv1025 7 жыл бұрын

subscribed dude....i liked everything u said in the video

@poonamsawant9798 4 жыл бұрын

You are just Amazing... I love the way you dedode these characters, is there any plan to decode the confident Female Characters on your channel... would be appreciated if you do!

@thecat4272 7 жыл бұрын

"The next time you have a business meeting, you have to make sure you do your homework on the person sitting across the table." WOW!!!! What extraordinary insight. What next? "If it is raining, make sure you have a umbrella with you to avoid getting wet."

@mariosb5806 5 жыл бұрын

It's funny how most people rather blame others than get their shit together and focus on wining and making their life big.

@rushikeshchattekari78 7 жыл бұрын

Helped a lot. Do more such videos.

@FernandoFlores-ut8ic 6 жыл бұрын

NOW I AM GONNA GET ALL THE GIRLS I WANT !!!

@guiihc4916 7 жыл бұрын

Very good!!!!!

@Abbey_Studio_Animation 7 жыл бұрын

please make a video about my boi vlad putin

@abhishekshinde897 7 жыл бұрын

Argie christophorus lol 😂

@thestig0075 6 жыл бұрын

He’s not a boi

@carr_liito688 6 жыл бұрын

Vlad is one of the baddest man on the Planet for sure

@someoneanonymous2740 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much

@briankanyinge4205 5 жыл бұрын

thanks.good tips.

@ashmeetamehendiratta2066 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. :)

@mohammednagdy6661 7 жыл бұрын

Amazing keep it up please do more videos about how to make your voice more confident

@mridulksuresh 7 жыл бұрын

make a "How to be likable like Johnny Depp"

@appletechpro4u506 4 жыл бұрын

What makes Harvey specter so charming

@narasimhamg684 4 жыл бұрын

Awesome!!

@polatozgen6377 7 жыл бұрын

We can learn a lot of things from harvey specter.Make more video about him.

@hadarbalanga7887 5 жыл бұрын

my perspective just changed to the bone. I will remember you when I become the best.

@moniquegonzales9321 5 жыл бұрын

He’s an ENTJ.

@DouglasLee9 5 жыл бұрын

This is targeted more for picking up women but it crosses over and was a good video.

@arongroen6655 5 жыл бұрын

There is one very important mistake believing that you have to be Harvey Specter. To get real social relationships, you need to be able to be vurnerable as well. Harvey has issues with this. That's why he places himself above others, and that's why the 1st advice is wrong. You can't really always be better than anyone else, which means thay if you think that you'll just become more insecure. Learn to accept your weaker points, that is a much needed addition if you want to gain REAL self confidence.

@siddhantganguly 7 жыл бұрын

I always get what i want from udders too, just need the right technique and speed in the pulling.

@deanolson2581 6 жыл бұрын

do a breakdown of Han solo

@LPrulezhard 6 жыл бұрын

nah man, mel gibson in real life

@terminal-velocity111 4 жыл бұрын

Harvey Spector’s character was based on me 🤣

@kevincounselling 6 жыл бұрын

Great vid

@ashchrou5815 6 жыл бұрын

did anyone noticed that the police man at 4:43 is attila the hun from night at meusem?

@QuiK075 2 жыл бұрын

He’s a sociopath/narcissist that’d the reason he doesn’t flinch in bad situations. Most lawyers have a ASPD which in result they get what they want and are very successful. Because they have no remorse or feelings to get in between their goals and will always be too proud to show off their achievements.