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How to be more confident - how you need to be more confident at work.
Need more confidence in specific situations? There are lots of strategies for gaining more confidence but in this video I’m going to give you a powerful one that I bet you have never used before…
How to be more confident - how you need to be more confident at work.
I was thinking this morning about the #1 thing I needed early on in my career, that I didn’t realise I needed...
But it was the thing that gave me huge amounts of confidence when I communicated… helping me persuade and influence other people and be at my best in important conversations.
And actually it kind of took me a long time to figure it out.
In the beginning I was going to these important interactions, meetings, interactions, feeling pretty tense before and I’d come out of them totally frazzled.
So I went to my coach at the time, and said..
“Is there a way to stop feeling like this, and doing this to myself before and during these meetings?”
My coach got me to go through how I prepared, what I said to myself, what went on in the meeting, and what I was saying to myself afterwards..
And then said... "I know exactly what your problem is"
Isn’t it great when your coach says that?
You’re like… oh ok I thought it was just me.
She said… "you're lacking certainty in the way you’re communicating."
She said “because what goes on inside of you... is what you communicate outside of you, most of the time”
"So if you are freaking out inside, then people are going to pick up on that in the meeting…. And if you're feeling uncertain about what you’re saying.. how do you expect others to be certain in what you are saying?"
Makes sense right?
So my next question was…
"ok so how do I become certain in the way I communicate and what I’m saying?"
Did you know there is a way?.
I'm going to give you more detail in a video tomorrow on exactly how to do this, feels like this email is getting very long, but in essence, feeling the certainty and seeing and hearing the meetings go well in your mind beforehand, in the same way you think about things that have already happened.. that you're certain of.
It's like wiring up your brain with the route you want it to take, rather than the route you don't want it to take before you go in there...
Sounds a bit woo woo but it's not and super effective.
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