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How to Become More Popular without Turning Mean

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There's no exact science to achieving high-school popularity. But you definitely don't have to throw half your class under the bus to get there.
Step 1: Be likable
Popularity boils down to being liked by your peers. Be friendly, positive, and respectful to everyone. Don't act like you're too good for anybody - it's hard not to like a person who's fun and easy to be around.
Step 2: Be confident and visible
Confidence and visibility go hand in hand with popularity. Stand out, speak up, and burst out of your shell. Talk with or at least say hello to everyone within earshot and introduce yourself to anyone who doesn't already know you exist.
Step 3: Have diverse friends
Build a broad network of friends. Befriend people from all walks of high-school life by joining extracurricular activities.
Tip
Once every few days, during lunch, bounce around from table to table. You'll appear busy and important, and people will appreciate that you stopped by to chat.
Step 4: Get a gimmick
To be popular, you gotta get noticed - and nothing will garner attention like a well-crafted gimmick. Wear a funky hat, carry around a harmonica - anything that will attract interest.
Step 5: Have a sense of humor
Be funny! People always respond to humor. And don't be afraid to laugh at yourself now and then.
Step 6: Don't sell out
Never pick on unpopular kids or ditch old buddies. If you do manage to attain popularity, remember where you came from. Don't exclude people - you never know when the high school social ladder will flip-flop and knock you down a few pegs.
Did You Know?
According to a study, kids who were popular with their peers in school earned more money as adults.

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@alessandrameza8399
@alessandrameza8399 10 жыл бұрын
"Popular kids earn more money as adults" That's incredibly depressing.
@peacebewithyou365
@peacebewithyou365 10 жыл бұрын
:"(
@emileenedz6188
@emileenedz6188 9 жыл бұрын
Maybe it's because they are more motivated to work hard so they get higher paying jobs
@christianmenendez413
@christianmenendez413 9 жыл бұрын
how's that depressing?
@pingmatthews402
@pingmatthews402 10 жыл бұрын
Just stop wearing purple lipstick
@Wachtos
@Wachtos 8 жыл бұрын
How to be popular? Don't look up "how to be popular" on KZfaq lmao
@ephixgames1878
@ephixgames1878 7 жыл бұрын
Josh Wachtenheim XD
@nahedarahman6317
@nahedarahman6317 6 жыл бұрын
Josh Wachtenheim Absolutely.
@emilysmith3995
@emilysmith3995 5 жыл бұрын
Nope, it doesn’t. Ever seen a fake blonde, spray tanned bozo at Harvard?
@stevenrae08
@stevenrae08 8 жыл бұрын
there are 3 kinds of popular people 1st the people who are kind friendly and always gives out a smile 2nd pretty cute cool not really that mean but looks pretty 3rd the pretty bossy bully mean fashion diva
@fish4life100
@fish4life100 8 жыл бұрын
3rd one is in my class 😨😱
@nicholassansouci2840
@nicholassansouci2840 9 жыл бұрын
How to be popular: 1) Dress like you have money. 2) Talk like you have money.
@killjoy1693
@killjoy1693 8 жыл бұрын
K
@killjoy1693
@killjoy1693 8 жыл бұрын
^^
@centryl.
@centryl. 8 жыл бұрын
But you don't have money
@toasterking7588
@toasterking7588 6 жыл бұрын
I can barely afford a bag of fifty cent chips
@ciecienikolmelendez4886
@ciecienikolmelendez4886 10 жыл бұрын
How to be popular: Step 1-bring gum Step 2-bring your tablet or iPhone Step 3-take duck selfies every day Did you know that you can drink water
@johnm4801
@johnm4801 8 жыл бұрын
what we already know we can drink water duh
@centryl.
@centryl. 8 жыл бұрын
I got you
@pamarowan7587
@pamarowan7587 7 жыл бұрын
lol
@rosy5807
@rosy5807 7 жыл бұрын
CieCie XD
@tylerswiftancestor8381
@tylerswiftancestor8381 7 жыл бұрын
CieCie i love this
@cass3662
@cass3662 10 жыл бұрын
This is more of a "How to get your ass kicked at school" video.
@jakegillbert941
@jakegillbert941 10 жыл бұрын
this won't work for me because people think I'm strange
@TheStaticable
@TheStaticable 9 жыл бұрын
And cause your 10
@johnsykes13
@johnsykes13 9 жыл бұрын
you look like one of them sea horses
@gabrielleking4197
@gabrielleking4197 9 жыл бұрын
***** your a bully and stop its not cool to pick on other people its rude and disrespectful and he does not!
@maryakhan1111
@maryakhan1111 9 жыл бұрын
You don't have to change. Be who YOU are, and don't let anybody stop you :)
@pamarowan7587
@pamarowan7587 7 жыл бұрын
same
@madicoyle9503
@madicoyle9503 9 жыл бұрын
In my grade, I can hang out with any group of friends just by running over to them. The kids at my school are pretty easygoing!
@kacylewis2470
@kacylewis2470 9 жыл бұрын
Same
@imanialanaa
@imanialanaa 9 жыл бұрын
kacy Lewis what if youre an awkward person?
@gracie1052
@gracie1052 7 жыл бұрын
This is what will happen 1. try to be popular 2. fail and actually have no friends at all 3. try to be bad like the other popular 4. get beat up for trying to be like them 5. try to talk/hug/interact with people 6. no one wants to even look at you and your jealousy 7. give up and be a emo kid with only 3 friends like me 8. listen to panic!at the disco forever..that's all you need to survive
@SupremeNaz
@SupremeNaz 10 жыл бұрын
Lol so much B.s. Just be who you are, people will recognise and if they think your nerdy or weak, beat them up.
@reyrivera119
@reyrivera119 10 жыл бұрын
um people we're in 2014 nowadays, try playing a harmonica in school and see how society pushes you down the social ladder, you'll be less popular than you were. Try befriending someone popular and from there getting to meet popular people,worked for me now I'm popular without being too "mean".
@pamelamabalot167
@pamelamabalot167 10 жыл бұрын
Lol what if they did "How to die"
@katholinethedepressedhedge3637
@katholinethedepressedhedge3637 10 жыл бұрын
*Haha!!!* That'd be so funny... oh my god...
@DJwolfpack122
@DJwolfpack122 10 жыл бұрын
this isnt how popular people act
@AznDemonLord
@AznDemonLord 15 жыл бұрын
What I think the statistic says is that popular kids get enough self esteem to make an impact in their career. This can relate to 'It's who you know, not what you know.' Also I think most people confuse popular kids with bullies such as the rude jockeys/cheerleaders.
@coopsman98
@coopsman98 10 жыл бұрын
If "you go round table to table" ppl will just think your in need of someone to talk to
@TheStillChillMimikyuOfficial
@TheStillChillMimikyuOfficial 6 жыл бұрын
step 1: Act like Poppy from Trolls. *Done!*
@c8linmorris
@c8linmorris 10 жыл бұрын
Sadly my school hasn't got much extra curricular after school and we are given seats we have to sit in at lunch
@dafabayuputranto3340
@dafabayuputranto3340 11 жыл бұрын
actually sense of humor is enough... i became more and more popular in school because i have strong sense of humor. what i did is just commenting funny things on my friends' pics, but i still try to keep not going too far... respect is number 1
@andreapatane4204
@andreapatane4204 5 жыл бұрын
Meanness and popularity don't mix. Thumbs up if you agree.
@devonharris5936
@devonharris5936 9 жыл бұрын
I make everyone I talk to laugh at least a few times in a conversation, I won 2 of my school's dance competitions, and I was voted most Artistically talented in our superlatives. Yet I only talk to a girl like once a month. "Can I borrow a pencil?" "Oh...uh...sure"
@rorkimaru
@rorkimaru 15 жыл бұрын
popularity is about having a load of friends. It's not overrated. I've about 20 friends I'm really close with but I know, chat and hang out with most people from my college course (~200 people) and a load of people from my area and old school. Just because I like people doesn't mean I don't have any real friends. You can have really close friends and people you aren't as close with but still like. Its a lot better than not talking to all those people you see every day
@popcornpages4335
@popcornpages4335 10 жыл бұрын
nerds get money (not say we're nerds just un-offending them!!)
@popcornpages4335
@popcornpages4335 10 жыл бұрын
I TAKE THIS BACK!!!!! I AM PROUD NERD, THIS COMMENT WAS RECOMMENDED, and i also dont want to be popular .......................................
@whyunicorns
@whyunicorns 12 жыл бұрын
I'm in highschool, but when I was in elementary, being popular meant to be absolutely stupid, dumb, not-smart (everything is the same) and you couldn't talk to girls if you were a boy. Being smart was a sin back then. Right now, being popular is more like being good to everybody, make a lot of friends, and take right decisions :)
@lydiaminx666
@lydiaminx666 8 жыл бұрын
I'm going to be in highschool
@lydiaminx666
@lydiaminx666 8 жыл бұрын
RrikooProductions i love it
@briannadonat5256
@briannadonat5256 8 жыл бұрын
I am going to be in 5th grade
@thebluegaming7706
@thebluegaming7706 8 жыл бұрын
+Brianna Donat me 4rth lol
@thebluegaming7706
@thebluegaming7706 8 жыл бұрын
+Arturo Hernandez 4th
@usernotavailable98
@usernotavailable98 14 жыл бұрын
Just one easy step: Talk and be friend with the popular Or just walk up and sit next to that person and say: "hi! I like ur shirt. Where did you get them?" Or "you look pretty" especially to girls Or just asking or came up with a random questions But remember never act kool
@hkfan1980
@hkfan1980 14 жыл бұрын
im 29 and when i was in school the popular kids were either cheerleaders, football kids or rich kids.
@JaiThePunkRockTiger
@JaiThePunkRockTiger 11 жыл бұрын
Here's what to do and not to do at my school: 1. Be really funny 2. When there aren't assigned seats try sitting by new people 3. Don't ALWAYS copy stuff like clothes and jokes 4. Shop at Justice 5. Don't get on people's nerves 6. Go to something like Young Rembrandts or Basketball,soccer, or tennis try outs when trying a sport
@shazbotji
@shazbotji 13 жыл бұрын
Popularity in alot of highschool cases actually lead to problems as an adult due to the fact that every popular kid is typically scoring a 70 or bellow
@pledzpln1719
@pledzpln1719 11 жыл бұрын
Just so everyone know's if you want to be my friend in real life, you need to start the conversation first I don't start conversations with new people.
@jocelynwong1779
@jocelynwong1779 12 жыл бұрын
How to be popular: 1.smile all the time 2.be all ears even if u don't give a damn 3.don't be friends with the enemy in school 4.(when u r popular)talk to the upopular kids,show that u care unlike the other popular kids,this way,u get the unpopular kids to follow u 5.be humourous 6.act like u don't care about sex or ur virginity(if u haven't lose it)
@Angelbaby7041
@Angelbaby7041 10 жыл бұрын
Eeh. We didn't have popularity in my high school. It was a small all girls school so everybody pretty much new everybody. Even if they never saw that person before lol. We didnt have popularly. Just cliques pretty much. Everyone had their own group of friends. I guess you could say I was a drifter. I had my main group of friends I'd hang out with but every so often I'd float to a group of people for a little while, chat, and then float back to my main group.
@Aussiegirl265
@Aussiegirl265 12 жыл бұрын
The popular ones are probably just better at interviews because of better confidence.
@GlimmerBelle
@GlimmerBelle 15 жыл бұрын
Same here! It's like this in the working world too. You can be nice to everyone, well liked and be well known, but get left out of stuff since there are always little circles of people and cause drama. One day they love you the next day they shun you and you can't figure out why or what the heck you did. Then the next day they love you again. Ugh I just want my paycheck k thanx.
@josephmarchesi8750
@josephmarchesi8750 9 жыл бұрын
So.. Doing all what this video suggests will make you popular??.. Ain't nobody got time for that!!
@Chanelle208
@Chanelle208 12 жыл бұрын
School is about learning and making friends.(true friends not those who come to you only when they need you)
@KamiOfBlaze
@KamiOfBlaze 11 жыл бұрын
Screw popularity, I like my quiet life with a few, yet awesome, friends.
@Strawbz7209
@Strawbz7209 15 жыл бұрын
lmao why does the snail evolve into a butterfly?
@dream0eater
@dream0eater 12 жыл бұрын
what do you do after playing the harmonica?
@peanutbutter452
@peanutbutter452 12 жыл бұрын
I got popular by always chatting and being nice to everyone and kinda making myself look like an idiot. Lol. Just have confidence and spark up a conversation with anyone who you dont know.
@Bearox98
@Bearox98 12 жыл бұрын
kid carries around harmonica and wears a funny hat automatically popular! yeah right
@CottonHeartCandy
@CottonHeartCandy 10 жыл бұрын
Popular kids earn more money? You mean like a hobo
@lunaluna245
@lunaluna245 11 жыл бұрын
Step one: Don't watch this.
@sarahlee9325
@sarahlee9325 11 жыл бұрын
Popular kids are just a huge group of friends, and carrying a harmonica all day will get you called retarted
@rebeldiamond601
@rebeldiamond601 14 жыл бұрын
wow this is very helpful. i already am popular at school, but this is definatly something to keep in mind, even if you are already popular.
@Angelbaby7041
@Angelbaby7041 10 жыл бұрын
**plus it was a small 12 the grade class, so literally all the cliques had the same science class together, so during that class all the cliques would just be one whole group XD then after the class we'd just drift apart until lunch lol.
@lolgal1996
@lolgal1996 11 жыл бұрын
1:wear osiris if you can 2:shop at hollister, abercrombie, aero, etc. 3:make fun of the nerds 4:you're done!
@burnwitchh
@burnwitchh 11 жыл бұрын
1.We wear a uniform so it doesn't matter how we dress 2.Draw on long thick black eyebrows 3.Blonde hair dye(optional) 4.Make fun of unpopular people 5.If you start getting less friends, do something wild and crazy like sleep with someone and then brag about it. My school's popularity.
@AgentSomethingCool
@AgentSomethingCool 12 жыл бұрын
Step 1: Go to a private school step 2: Be yourself step 3: There.
@mulan6
@mulan6 13 жыл бұрын
If I carry a harmonica, I'll get beat up.
@JessePinkman08
@JessePinkman08 11 жыл бұрын
To be popular you just have to bring your tablet to school everyday
@meekocmere
@meekocmere 11 жыл бұрын
If you carry around a harmonica you will be popular in the sort of way where everyone is like "eeeew, stay away from her. She's so stupid."
@DrPhr0
@DrPhr0 15 жыл бұрын
Shy or unwilling to be noticed. Sometimes consumed with yourself falls under this word too.
@jensenskinner
@jensenskinner 12 жыл бұрын
you dont get noticed by wearing a hat.. you get noticed by throwing a kick ass party
@GrandAkuma
@GrandAkuma 13 жыл бұрын
@jadiejade92 now i just wanto let clear that being populat doesn't mean you're gonna get screwed afterwards, doing fast-food or wathever. Neither being nerd brings all the good stuff or something. Other than that i get your point and i can see that you're right,
@eeblihp
@eeblihp 13 жыл бұрын
"Don't have to throw half the class under a bus" Oh shit, too late.
@HeartButerfly
@HeartButerfly 13 жыл бұрын
Non of the popular people in my school act like this.
@bigblackbats
@bigblackbats 12 жыл бұрын
The other day I accidently did a front-flip, but I landed on my neck, at least I have a sense of humor about it
@red81511
@red81511 12 жыл бұрын
It's imposible to be popular if you are socially awkward. What gets me mad is that I would've been popular because in kindergarten I was realy popular but then I got awkward and I lost all my friends:(
@PykohYT
@PykohYT 12 жыл бұрын
0:33 Snails don't turn into butterflies...
@Videogamelocker
@Videogamelocker 13 жыл бұрын
i would like to know how to get out of something you do not want to do
@MelaCherryCoke
@MelaCherryCoke 12 жыл бұрын
How to become a butterfly : Step 1:hang on trees Step 2:wait there like for 3 months Step 2:grow wings Did u know this is just stupid (don't hate me -_-)
@Imp3rf3ctAng3lXOXO
@Imp3rf3ctAng3lXOXO 13 жыл бұрын
*nerd keeps getting answers right* Popular girl: Oh my gosh your such a nerd! Teacher: I would be nice to him, he might be your boss someday Nerd: I dont think thats true mam, i dont plan on becoming a pimp
@tacoblueberries
@tacoblueberries 12 жыл бұрын
i wish i could mute the pictures instead of the sound.
@FarGamingJunior
@FarGamingJunior 11 жыл бұрын
nobody does this...
@blueberrycakecz
@blueberrycakecz 13 жыл бұрын
I'm kind of middle rated and I want to stay that way.
@ArsonistAntonio
@ArsonistAntonio 12 жыл бұрын
WHO COMES TO SCHOOL DRESSED LIKE A BUTTERFLY?
@AwesomePaws13
@AwesomePaws13 11 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY and wear the shortest, tightest jean shorts you can find
@JakoyahAlexis
@JakoyahAlexis 11 жыл бұрын
that thingy at the end with the popular kids is a lie
@MusicStar184
@MusicStar184 13 жыл бұрын
.. You don't HAVE to throw half your class under that bus... but you'll regret it if you don't.
@CazzCazzz13
@CazzCazzz13 12 жыл бұрын
My gimmick: I have a wooden leg. WHY AM I NOT POPULAR?!
@Killa1442
@Killa1442 15 жыл бұрын
I know, 3 comments on the same page by the same guy, but I gotta say this. The people popular at my school are mostly jackasses, which pisses me off. They're not nice to anyone, yet they still get that girl that you've always wanted, but were too shy to ask, and they're cheating on her with another girl anyways... I hate my school
@Carthrine327
@Carthrine327 12 жыл бұрын
SNAIL HAS NOW EVOLVED. ...into butterfly?
@NekoN28
@NekoN28 12 жыл бұрын
Step 1: Have a popular sibling that's mean.
@floatingpineapple
@floatingpineapple 13 жыл бұрын
"how to be that kid that who doesn't realise that everyone thinks theyre anoying"
@rosy5807
@rosy5807 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you I needed this because the whole class hates me
@Jermz1997
@Jermz1997 13 жыл бұрын
Well I am popular because I am that dude over there EVERY morning spitting out water in a mist.
@babyjack8248
@babyjack8248 10 жыл бұрын
In my school I'm very popular because I get straight A's.
@babyjack8248
@babyjack8248 10 жыл бұрын
I am girl BTW
@lexicon9388
@lexicon9388 10 жыл бұрын
Baby jack nobody gives a flying frog
@MsAnitaPink
@MsAnitaPink 9 жыл бұрын
Lexi Con then why do you click on the video, you should know what to expect on this video
@Cutecraftable
@Cutecraftable 9 жыл бұрын
Actually at my school, people who have straight A's are unpopular
@madicoyle9503
@madicoyle9503 9 жыл бұрын
The smart kids in my class are called "Smarticles". And we always want them to sit at our group. And they go to gifted... Being smart at my school means you're popular most of the time...
@ChadWardenPS3
@ChadWardenPS3 15 жыл бұрын
Sounds like I'm not going to be making too much money as an adult...thanks a lot Howcast.
@amaried98
@amaried98 13 жыл бұрын
Can someone help me I'm shy and I dnt want to be shy and quite anymore. I'm 13 and in 7th going to 8th. Plz can someone from KZfaq help me.
@pokelover223
@pokelover223 12 жыл бұрын
does this really work?
@izzydharmasiri777
@izzydharmasiri777 11 жыл бұрын
this is so not going to work.
@rorkimaru
@rorkimaru 15 жыл бұрын
the gimmick thing is a bit strange, especially you're ideas. I suppose I used to stand out more because I had long hair (stands out on guys) but all you need to start making friends is a positive attitude and a smile on your face. I like almost everyone and always try to be in a good mood. It works for me =D
@solhesten
@solhesten 14 жыл бұрын
@Colbatros Yeah i know right?
@xilent234
@xilent234 13 жыл бұрын
i do all of that but i don't know if i AM popular
@moonlady3000
@moonlady3000 15 жыл бұрын
No, people didn't really know who I was. But if I was face to face with them they liked me. Maybe I just didn't leave an impression on people.
@DaChillinVillan
@DaChillinVillan 11 жыл бұрын
Why did you click on this video.
@btopishere
@btopishere 15 жыл бұрын
Howcast, where were you when I was in highschool?
@Webkinzarethecoolest
@Webkinzarethecoolest 13 жыл бұрын
you forgot the perfect wardrobe part.
@girlygirl4495
@girlygirl4495 11 жыл бұрын
yea
@wantstoScooter
@wantstoScooter 13 жыл бұрын
1:25 DONT PISS ME OFF
@SharpieTheBlack
@SharpieTheBlack 13 жыл бұрын
just because you popular doesn't mean your automatically mean.
@EasternPancakes77
@EasternPancakes77 12 жыл бұрын
2 CAMELS IN A TINY CAR the end.
@Tiffany9988667
@Tiffany9988667 12 жыл бұрын
Thanks this helped a lot!! I'm popular in Summer camp now :D (School Ended May 25)
@lucy219759
@lucy219759 11 жыл бұрын
adults...
@ellomoto3000
@ellomoto3000 13 жыл бұрын
Does being greenish blu count as a good gimmick?
@ParsoProductions
@ParsoProductions 11 жыл бұрын
They forgot you have to say "TURNUPPPPPP"
@misscam2005
@misscam2005 12 жыл бұрын
GUYS! the title is "How to become more popular without turning mean". NOT "how to become a good popular person". don't do these steps unless u wanna be popular for being WEIRD! :3 hear me out ppl...
@Lihaschu
@Lihaschu 13 жыл бұрын
if you watch this without laughing about it...you got a serious problem...
@BarlytheDwarf
@BarlytheDwarf 13 жыл бұрын
Who wants to be popular? Even the idea of that makes me tired.
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