Learn the psychology of alpha males and find out the signs of beta males and how to avoid being one.
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@jacquesnicolay92217 жыл бұрын
The way you become an alpha male is not giving a shit about being an alpha or beta or a kappa....
@tranquil317 жыл бұрын
key
@originnone7 жыл бұрын
Yes, being conceited, arrogant, and generally useless are indeed characteristics of an alpha male.
@godlies92574 жыл бұрын
Beta males
@cheetopuffs25803 жыл бұрын
Wtf is a Kappa.
@Cruelaid6 жыл бұрын
1. treat all people with respect 2. don’t give a fk what people think 3. Big heart - Back yourself 4. Always be humble
@SecretDefect5 жыл бұрын
NOICE
@t0jota5 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't say respect is the solution. Treat who deserves respect with respect, and treat others with common decency.
@hezekiahibin59655 жыл бұрын
Now that's a real man not know Alpha shit!!!!
@eskaban_edits_beats_and_more5 жыл бұрын
always be humple is exactly the opposite of alpha
@514Exc5 жыл бұрын
Wow i felt like you knew me personally.
@fmj_5565 жыл бұрын
I was an alpha then I got married.
@dilz20125 жыл бұрын
Worrying that married man is watching these videos.
@shyamshrestha93685 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@bahaatamer12455 жыл бұрын
@@dilz2012 that I must agree on! 🤣
@mrfaysal24854 жыл бұрын
@@carljohnson4128 in my class alot of girls look at me get close to me try to sit next to me i believe I'm alpha
@conkersquirrel88724 жыл бұрын
🤣😂 Dude! You kill me.😂🤣😂
@augustaverbian6 жыл бұрын
How to be alpha : 1. Deal with your fears 2. Being okay in the conflict 3. Get over self-Inhebitle(?) 4. Be assertive 5. Do not be a follower
@user-jq1ie7iy6s4 жыл бұрын
Augusta Verbian how can u be alpha with that profile pic
@flam89244 жыл бұрын
@@user-jq1ie7iy6s look at your you sound like a 7 year old kid trying to act like and alpha Male._.
@user-jq1ie7iy6s4 жыл бұрын
Retro girl just cuz u have the same gay profile pic ur trying to come at me
@flam89244 жыл бұрын
@@user-jq1ie7iy6s how does my profile pic look gay ._. Bruh use common sense
@void38194 жыл бұрын
@@flam8924wow i didnt know that, So 7 year old know how to be an alpha huh?
@Rawnfella7 жыл бұрын
I run a Seafood department in a supermarket and I saw more fish in this 5 minute video than in my 12 hour fucking work day.
@attiumeyami4177 жыл бұрын
omg I'm dying hahahah
@solarwolf8577 жыл бұрын
Rawnfella this is the best comment
@UNOwen-nn6ui7 жыл бұрын
Have a fish!
@gravitygas38917 жыл бұрын
What kind of fish were they? Catfish? Ok, me and my awful puns are going now.
@attiumeyami4177 жыл бұрын
I love eating pu$$y that shit is tasty, healthy and fucking expensive:(
@ChickenWings1037 жыл бұрын
Stop worrying about being the Alpha, Beta, or whatever the fuck. If you go along with this mentality you'll constantly be judging yourself against labels and the expectations they carry. They exist - sure - but fuck the labels. Focus on developing yourself, _for_ yourself, and the rest comes naturally. If you want confidence, work for it; *INVEST in yourself.* That's all there is to it. The more you push your own limits and discipline yourself (Exercise, read philosophy, Journal...), the more self-trust you develop in your own abilities, which equates to confidence. Exercise, meditation, and cold showers are the best for strengthening your self-discipline. Fuck cold showers - but that's the point; victory over yourself is power. After three years of having cold showers I still don't look forward to them, or working-out, but the command I have over myself seeps into all other areas of my life; my body language, communication, decision-making, and so on. Grab a pen and write; really consider your goals and make a plan. All that matters is your ability to lead yourself, which is only harnessed through self-reflection (which is why I recommend philosophy) and owning the discipline and self-control to follow your own plan. Every personal achievement will make you stronger and more confident in yourself. Men need purpose, which we primarily get from building things. Make it your purpose to build your own kingdom, every day, *for yourself.* The rest will follow in time. - If your focus is girls, change that focus. Women want a man who owns himself. This is what worked for me. Good vid nonetheless.
@TWFDeadzoneII7 жыл бұрын
ChickenWings103 you're exactly right. We shouldn't care about what other's think. achievement should be done for the self.
@randomrealistictone22317 жыл бұрын
That's what I'm currently doing now.
@abeaman96487 жыл бұрын
ChickenWings103 That was the most alpha comment I've ever seen.
@JokerScribe7 жыл бұрын
It is kinda like a psyop to make males thick as shit...all loud mouthed, unthinking, zombies that want to constantly prove themselves. I don't give a fuck about how I seem to dumbasses and nobody else should either.
@Fettclone17 жыл бұрын
Absolutely on point. The irony of all of the "alpha" advice is that even seeking those guidelines is weak. Just be the best version of yourself and try to be better than yesterday/last week.
@oii6477 жыл бұрын
just be confident bro
@YasinTheDuke6 жыл бұрын
I'm not handsome. :(
@gabrielguzman60186 жыл бұрын
Yasin Kılıç doesn't matter women will find you sexy
@imnotevensupposedtobeheretoday6 жыл бұрын
wow thanks my anxiety and depression is cured
@vree_6 жыл бұрын
wow forgot its actually that easy, suddenly Im good looking, smart and achieved anything meaningful in life :O
@excus5 жыл бұрын
not too confident
@ladycryptik5 жыл бұрын
As a girl, I can tell you that being confident and humble is the base of what you need to become an 'alpha male'
@cheetopuffs25803 жыл бұрын
Teach me
@davidceballos788 Жыл бұрын
You won't teach me how be alpha.
@josht60187 жыл бұрын
...Or just say fuck it, and become an omega male
@daimao73927 жыл бұрын
October Sky Or a phi male!
@santiagodaceprano39177 жыл бұрын
boy!! this comments are gold😂
@danextrinsic01747 жыл бұрын
omega refers to "last", while alpha refers to "first". so you mean to say go and be a loser instead? uh... LOL
@ByzantineCapitalManagement7 жыл бұрын
Be an emo kid
@almasih41507 жыл бұрын
I am the Alpha and Omega!!!
@CaptnKrksNippls7 жыл бұрын
Stop drawing the fucking fish.
@shecoduran7 жыл бұрын
he uses. the same few sprites over and over and over again :)
@dirkam477 жыл бұрын
cheaper that way , yuck
@Assimilator7027 жыл бұрын
Saturite He's drawing a beta fish.
@BRBallin17 жыл бұрын
Yes, I eat da fish.
@pswitch95537 жыл бұрын
The fish is running a beta version of macOS High Sierra. So it's a beta fish/Mac thing.
@michaelcdarby6 жыл бұрын
I'm the alpha of the betas
@gamingkenny70845 жыл бұрын
Same bro..
@purejokes39515 жыл бұрын
Facts bro, all you’ve gotta do is be an aggressive man & stand with confidence.
@jordanraney5815 жыл бұрын
69th like
@godspeed79865 жыл бұрын
Pure Jokes so all I gotta do is be an asshole? Sounds legit
@essencehd5 жыл бұрын
Step up then
@merrittpalmer43497 жыл бұрын
Step 1: NoFap
@arthur00235 жыл бұрын
Well Id sure as hell rather stay a beta
@armannixkhan5 жыл бұрын
Lmao don't even think of banging girls now
@ferrisclark33245 жыл бұрын
NoFap is all fun and games until you get her in your bed and you're done in 30 seconds.
@pabloazor35205 жыл бұрын
M m no no
@megacancer72315 жыл бұрын
@@ferrisclark3324 fapping does the exact opposite though
@SpecialOpsPepe7 жыл бұрын
i was surprised in the middle of the video he actually said what you can do to improve yourself, instead of i have a course you can buy down below.
@BizyGi7 жыл бұрын
Jalin Williams I know. That's what I was waiting for. Some book or website where we can learn the rest of the tips.
@nagato20467 жыл бұрын
My cat listened this this and now he's a lion. welp.
@ME-xh5zq7 жыл бұрын
Manhandle the lion, you beta.
@stratoskakalis15807 жыл бұрын
M E lmao
@SnowOwl01017 жыл бұрын
You're right about confidence. Everything falls into place when I begin to trust myself, as do things fall apart when I doubt myself.
@Legotank10005 жыл бұрын
True. Usually i am really confident (it's true, not just something i am saying) but idk why but for some reason in larger social gatherings i always without realising i start to self doubt myself. I guess it's pretty normal but im glad im now picking up on it and can hopefully change.
@MegaTroySmith7 жыл бұрын
Sign #1: you're watching this video.
@danabeatriceestabillo46583 жыл бұрын
@Ewan Jones Shit dad? Some dads just prefer their sons to grow up as respectful young men, who don't have the idea that either gender is superior to the other. They don't want their children to believe in that "aLpHa" shit. My dad taught me that there are no alphas in life, and even if there was, you didn't have to have certain traits to be considered an alpha, you find it in yourself to be an alpha. You don't lead anyone because everyone else leads their own lives.
@bamfowski7 жыл бұрын
That moment when your neither alpha, or beta, and just weird af.
@DABADAVISUAL7 жыл бұрын
lolololololol
@KaneJankeTwo7 жыл бұрын
You're an Omega :)
@AbusiveFilms6 жыл бұрын
So do you get laid often? and why would you be afraid
@panosa25026 жыл бұрын
Then you are a beta. There is no omega or anything (an omega basically is a beta who cannot accept his position as a beta but who can't confront alphas either thus avoids getting tangled with them). There is only alpha and beta, it is just that the alpha-to-beta is a continuum and is defined by social relations. I.e. if you put a 100 typical betas on an island, these will re-order and 10-15 of them will stand out as alphas. If you put a 100 top-alpha-dogs on an island the bottom 80 of them will start showing typical beta behaviour (... and those who refuse, will die fast and painfully, LOL!).
@Maluhia8086 жыл бұрын
me im just me
@MrThrashman6667 жыл бұрын
Sometimes, when I pay attention to my own behavior I seem to lose all spontaneity, I create a feedback loop in my mind that makes me appear weak and doubtful to others. Other times, though, I am totally alive and awake, and my behavior is natural and powerful. Trusting and accepting oneself is so important...
@ruhap93117 жыл бұрын
uhhh, me too, sometimes I'm good spontaneously, but a lot of times I wind up being out of tune and things come out poorly/rudely.
@lolsucks35997 жыл бұрын
I have the exact same problem xd
@7th808s7 жыл бұрын
Iggy Wake I have the same thing sort of. I think I'm actually very alpha, but I just don't present myself as one, partly because of the ongoing pondering my mind is occupied with. (I found out alcohol helps with that, but if you're underage, I didn't tell you that)
@IizUname7 жыл бұрын
Yup
@HippieP6297 жыл бұрын
I feel u bro. That's so natural, I'm like that too at times. Keeping working on it; you'll get there, more than you are already.
@herrklamm14547 жыл бұрын
"Girls are like metal detectors". Thanks for the advice mate.
@thefabulousoogabooga64104 жыл бұрын
*bEeEp*
@danabeatriceestabillo46583 жыл бұрын
@@thefabulousoogabooga6410 Lmao
@brandonvirgin27994 жыл бұрын
I’m slowly becoming an alpha! 💪🏻
@503NastyNate7 жыл бұрын
Im the type of guy to walk into my girlfriend cheating on me and say, " Oh sorry, I came at the wrong time."
@newtguy7 жыл бұрын
I would of joined in. The other person she's cheating on you with is another girl right?
@daoallegro13607 жыл бұрын
is it just me or was that a hilarious choice of words...sounds kinda weird.
@BariumCobaltNitrog3n7 жыл бұрын
newtguy *I would've...not would of. They sound the same but what you are actually hearing is would've, a contraction of would have. Don't shoot, just trying to spread some knowledge. Cheers.
@insaynt99247 жыл бұрын
That's just, lacking common sense.
@rhyness19697 жыл бұрын
Tf?
@killersquir17 жыл бұрын
I watched this, expecting it to be bullcrap. But it turned out decent. Just too much emphasis on not being nice. Aggressiveness will get you shut down faster than niceness. Assertiveness is the balance.
@stockloc7 жыл бұрын
David Hoyle I find overly aggressive guys to be very similar to overly complacent guys. Very insecure.
@basilioskostantinoskomneno59137 жыл бұрын
What's even worse are the girls who are full of shit and videos such as these seem to suggest it is always the man's responsibility. I agree with self-improvement but I think the notion of accountability in this context ought to be reassessed in some respects.
@MrSun00076 жыл бұрын
You know your stuff david
@EllieManda6 жыл бұрын
yeah, mee too..but it helped:))
@thebarf92356 жыл бұрын
This post gets 135 likes but is completely wrong about what the video said. SMH.
@tiphotisted6 жыл бұрын
The defining trait that separates alphas from betas is the action taken in what is desired.
@laughernine43205 жыл бұрын
"He's going to stand up for his rights and get some fresh popcorn." 😂
@thekatyperrymemechannel21227 жыл бұрын
Instructions were unclear, I became a gamma
@kumarneelotpal79247 жыл бұрын
The Katy Perry Meme Channel bruce banner 😂
@aden31137 жыл бұрын
Alpha and beta males? What about delta, sigma, gamma, epsilon males? Do an episode about epsilon males!
@imacg57 жыл бұрын
You see, since alpha males are primates and beta males are fish, it's reasonable to say the supposedly gamma "males" are germs, which are asexual. So, no need to go down the road, man. No need.
@0766577 жыл бұрын
epsilon male? what's that? are you a trans or something?
@JoostEurovisionFans7 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahahahahahahahaah NotHuman687 > Typical respond of a zeta male 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@cringyboring6 жыл бұрын
Haha u r so funny omg
@silverelite25586 жыл бұрын
NotHuman678 Calm down.
@RandomUploads-ch3bh6 жыл бұрын
This is weird, because the majority of males I know do display traits of both Alpha and Beta!
@lazaroov16225 жыл бұрын
I guess majority of men overall show both traits
@java1.1305 жыл бұрын
Not if your gay. That makes you an Omega male.
@Weirdomanification5 жыл бұрын
Wow u are such a lying beta
@smurfyday5 жыл бұрын
It's a spectrum. Most things in life are not binary. That's one of the reasons why religious fundamentalists are always so dangerous.
@rydu13536 жыл бұрын
-always put others above own needs -don`t be too nice choose one
@hindsightpov42187 жыл бұрын
Sign of an alpha male: Don't take shit from anybody.
@GarveyToure7 жыл бұрын
another sign of an alpha male: has no real connections with anybody
@GarveyToure7 жыл бұрын
wow. i jus learnd sumthin. Thanks for the tip
@JJmastah7 жыл бұрын
Buying popcorn is an important decision?
@AliumMoAnn7 жыл бұрын
Valentin Constantine well do you wanna get hungry in the middle of a movie?
@peromxip_77107 жыл бұрын
I'm Caillou or just do intermittent fasting.
@gravitygas38917 жыл бұрын
Eat beforehand, save money.
@TheMwowner17 жыл бұрын
for a alpha male it is hahahahahaa
@Honeythief2127 жыл бұрын
Valentin Constantine I mean 9$ is a waste for stale popcorn
@rickyeldiablo8007 жыл бұрын
I always thought being reserved about your talents and passions made you seem a bit more mysterious and interesting. I don't mean not telling people what u do, but such as having one major passion that most know about (for example tennis) but when people get to know u it comes as a shock that u also have other interest (guitar or social games of volleyball)
@blinkymontreal46297 жыл бұрын
Obsessing over becoming an alpha male is the worst thing you can do.
@Weirdomanification5 жыл бұрын
Beda mail looser
@essencehd5 жыл бұрын
Not obsessing but caring about it
@Ben-ox5vs7 жыл бұрын
"How to animorph into an orange fish every ten seconds"
@nuclearnonsense22747 жыл бұрын
It really deters me from finishing the video
@imacg57 жыл бұрын
Or fishing it?
@anthonyjs80486 жыл бұрын
hahahahaha
@Zamedlolz6 жыл бұрын
Ben 10 what a coincedense... because animo and Ben
@Zamedlolz6 жыл бұрын
+Zamed2995 lolz no one cares
@andreim8417 жыл бұрын
The best part about this is the comment section...
@NickB19676 жыл бұрын
All of this begs the question: "HOW???"
@xAlcoholicGamer7 жыл бұрын
its not being nice, its not being ambitious. "too nice" guys roll over in confrontations and just generally give up easily. Has nothing to do with bad boy - good boy.
@chatmod15957 жыл бұрын
well after watching this good video ive come to the conclusion suicide is the way to go ! thanks !
@Rebius7 жыл бұрын
me too
@sonnyj2k7 жыл бұрын
Group suicide on skype? It'll set it up.
@ememmasorong96577 жыл бұрын
Suicide is not an option.
@DogDamour7 жыл бұрын
mcpartridgeboy what about living for yourself and not thinking about women all the time?
@screws2loose8347 жыл бұрын
lol exactlu what im thinkinh anout
@LucianC1377 жыл бұрын
Buying popcorn is an alpha decision
@johannesb70135 жыл бұрын
„Be confident“ Wow thanks
@harviebirdman25447 жыл бұрын
How to be Alpha: Step 1: Be the better man and walk away from this video
@Gibbslx5 жыл бұрын
Found the beta
@drummer7035 жыл бұрын
BETA
@deletedchannel-oj7if5 жыл бұрын
Astrozombie13 Donald is speaking straight faxx
@dezlovecraft52475 жыл бұрын
does this video hurt you? lol yeap a beta.
@victoriabrown33744 жыл бұрын
Naw, I am female. Just trying to lose some brain cells.
@alb123456727 жыл бұрын
Fear of rejection, so I avoid every social interaction.
@kakibackup2koujo6127 жыл бұрын
alb12345672 truth
@alb123456727 жыл бұрын
Wonder what it comes from? Genetics? Upbringing? Combinations? I take zero risk when it comes to everything. Probably the polar opposite of a bad boy.
@CaneFumatore7 жыл бұрын
That doesn't mean you are a beta male. Beta males don't exist. Males with different brains exist, you can't divide men in strict categories. Fear of judgement is okay, don't worry.
@alb123456727 жыл бұрын
+C- Yes, I'll double up on safety equipment. I've done tons of complex repairs and never got a scratch. Problem is it takes me much longer. But I end up overanalayzing things to the extreme, always second guessing my decisions. I think my case was having a very weak, non-aggressive father and being raised mostly by overprotective, paranoid women. My father taught me things like never ask for a raise, just be thankful you have a job. Never quit a job under any circumstance. The advice women gave me about dating was useless (maybe 50 years ago it would work). I was brainwashed that if a woman has sex before marriage she is a worthless whore. Telling a woman you want to wait today is like telling ebay you will pay when your package comes. I also have fear of diseases. You are right about the inertia thing, I'm not going to starve but I'm far from rich. I live very frugally and become comfortable with being alone. Marriage is a pretty big risk, especially in 2017.
@cactusavian73637 жыл бұрын
That's lit bro! When you gonna release the mix tape?!
@ChiefPLUR7 жыл бұрын
i feel personally attacked
@Laetwalk7 жыл бұрын
TNasty 😂😂😂
@xCestLaVie17 жыл бұрын
TNasty I'm dying lol so many triggered betas in this comment section 😂😂
@DonCarlos5907 жыл бұрын
You feel personally attacked. Rofl. You're comment is hilarious. Were you speaking sarcastically?
@ricardogonzalez-om4gn7 жыл бұрын
Reflexez thats what beta males do talk shit online and you are display that behavior so don't count self an alpha cause you are not
@musardus7 жыл бұрын
I feel personally attacked by your comment
@damonjoseph18255 жыл бұрын
This video is right on POINT I hope alot of men take this information to heart and not misunderstand what you are saying.
@metfayeg23047 жыл бұрын
ME ALPHA MALE ME SMAAAASHH!!!!
@Maluhia8086 жыл бұрын
you are you are nobody can't take that away from you.
@danw13746 жыл бұрын
Bam! Bam!
@georgeaguirre7006 жыл бұрын
Sounds like alpha rape
@rtx_____6 жыл бұрын
*russian voice* deestrroy ze mazarfakerrz
@Weirdomanification5 жыл бұрын
HULK SMASHHHH
@COVID-19_Crab7 жыл бұрын
So I can become the Harambe?
@awkirkness7 жыл бұрын
I hope guys looking for more confidence don't take this too seriously.. Pretty vague instructions on how to be fairly specific kind of dude. Human breeding doesn't really work quite like wolves and apes... there are more than two kinds of personality... Etc etc
@imacg57 жыл бұрын
But we work like fish!
@swilliams9376 жыл бұрын
Wow, so getting a refund on stale popcorn is all it takes to become an alpha male in 2018.
@hellofromdave7 жыл бұрын
If you want to be Alpha you need to head over to Alpha M and buy some Tiege Hanley! Instant Alpha and the women love it.
@theartoflife28376 жыл бұрын
Sell out
@kingrei90145 жыл бұрын
and you will be a Senorita magnet
@conkersquirrel88724 жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂🤣
@flam89244 жыл бұрын
I dont like that :D
@chiefwiggem3257 жыл бұрын
Signs you're a beta male: Clicking on this video out of curiosity.
@pswitch95537 жыл бұрын
Hmmm...
@Williamwestp247 жыл бұрын
He's just joking.
@attiumeyami4177 жыл бұрын
I am not a beta male I am a flounder big difference dumbass
@Pooper7 жыл бұрын
No. Whether the video was really any good or not, clicking on the video is a sign that I am open to improving myself, and deciding its usefulness. A beta male would've gone so far as to call out people for clicking on this video in hopes of seeking improvement.
@pexfmezccle7 жыл бұрын
hehe so butthurt over a simple joke
@xagonent49427 жыл бұрын
This was a very discouraging video. Thanks man.
@originnone7 жыл бұрын
Don't let him get you down. He's describing the characteristic of being assertive. An alpha male is not assertive. He's a jerk.
@user-wd6sd5el8g7 жыл бұрын
That is the real purpose of this video. To make you feel a crap!
@Consolous7 жыл бұрын
Real alpha males aren't jerks (unless the person needed it). You are confused about what is a true alpha male
@originnone7 жыл бұрын
Again, you can change the definition of terms all you like, but the central characteristics of what most people consider an alpha male person are pretty negative.
@Felix-rc4wv7 жыл бұрын
Knowing the problem is the first step to overcoming what it is that is discouraging you. I'm just assuming this video has very accurately addressed beta characteristics and that's what you find discouraging. Please be thankful to the messenger if that's the case. Because it's open up the opportunity to change
@AK-jl2wm6 жыл бұрын
Hi, it is I, a girl who has no idea why she watches these videos. IF YOU ARE A BETA MALE THIS IS PROBABLY WORTH READING TO THE END. AH FUCK IT. IT IS PROBABLY WORTH READING NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE. The Alpha male is a natural born person, as is the Beta. If you want to try to become a different person, that's your choice, and I understand the feeling. Maybe this is not the case with most girls, but I have a knack for very deeply understanding and relating to almost everyone. I am not sure what it is about me that makes people trust me so easily, but a girl who literally one person in school had a conversation that lasted longer than 10 seconds with just poured all of her unsaid thoughts on me, and now I am actually her only friend. What I am getting at is you don't need to change. (ACTUALY ADVICE AND MY POINT STARTS HERE): Let's call every person a kingdom. The buildings are all the nuanced things about someone's personality. The animals and people in the kingdom are the thoughts that pop up. Maybe it is not a big kingdom, but is still one. If nobody loves you now, somebody will someday. While, yes, putting a wall up in front of any side of your kingdom causes other kingdoms to try to connect their kingdom to yours through other sides, seeing in you what you want them to see, walls can also keep other kingdoms out. Maybe you don't know that another kingdom wants to join forces because you have built a wall too big on the part of your kingdom that they want you to show. If you build a big enough wall, no matter how many kingdoms are standing on the other side other side of that wall, wanting desperately to build a road in and form a deep alliance, you'd never notice. If I am the only kingdom trying to get in, then person's kingdom's walls come down almost immediately, but if there are kingdoms trying to enter from other directions, I am suddenly facing a wall that I cannot pass. Even if I like other aspects of someone's personality, I often enter their heart through parts of their personality that the person themself doesn't like, because when I think I like someone, I need to know a lot of things about them(but of course I don't ask people to spill all their secrets and emotions, just their personality). Too often, I find myself screaming and pounding on that wall for while, before just staying there, doing nothing. The person on the outside of that wall almost always ends up heartbroken, and you never know how many people's affection you are blind to. I wouldn't purposely ignore aspects of myself to get people to like me, if they don't like me and I like than, then hey don't like me. Even if it makes me cry, it's okay. I find that the warmest people will enter your heart through part of your personality you don't like. I get get people to let me into their hearts, and I let them in mine. Then as time moves on, some people start trying to attract more people, and they put up a wall, or they completely destroy or ignore he part of their personality I entered from. That causes us to loose our connection, as it is with most people who get a wall put uo in front of them. The people you leave outside the wall ends up heartbroken. So, please, if you ever choose to block offpart of your heart or personality, make sure you check on it every once in a while. Even if you have a mentality that letting people into your kingdom can lead to attacks from the inside, so you don't want to let people in, you are not wrong. But isn't love and trust going both ways when both kingdoms open their gates, giving each other the ability to comepletely wreck them and trusting them not to? The best thing about your kingdom is that it is yours. The people who are in your kingdom(remember, those are thoughts and feelings), are part of you. While you can choose whether or not the people in your kingdom decide to reproduce(this metaphor/simile is getting a little weird), but you don't have to let those thought-people become dictators. You should acknowledge and accept them, but a truly unified kingdom, in the end, functions better than a kingdom ruled in fear, hate, or sadness. This is my opinion, so you don't have to agree, but thanks for reading it. If you read this entire thing I am sending you a virtual hug. **hugs everyone who reads this entire thing**
@RSN22776 жыл бұрын
Random Weirdness I'd agree with your thoughts. However, I do agree with some things in this video as well. If you take chances and try to go beyond your limit, people will notice you. You need to start living your life the way you want to do it, but don't change who you are in the process. It never works out in the end if you change who you are.
@mattdg19816 жыл бұрын
Guess I don't get a hug.
@Ashbringer366 жыл бұрын
Random Weirdness I do appreciate both the words of advice and the hug, however I do have a few points I'd like to make See you are mixxing up changing and evolving, to stick with your kingdom metaphor (or I'll just use a castle to make it easier) You assume that video's like these ask one to demolish bits of the kingdom whereas in reality they are telling you to add furnishings, add insolation, fly your banner and add a flag blowing in the wind above. To give an example of myself, I am a writer and an artist at heart, I tell stories and I make people think and feel, my carreer path (my main one) is a web designer with novel writing and game design as somthing of a hobby that might turn into more in the future who knows. Regardless I know why I do these things, but I can improve upon my craft by learning the balance between knowing when my vision is more important, have confidence in my own skills to not be torn down by the slighest hint of negative critisiscm, to have the confidence to go out and go talk to the publishers etc etc. To improve is not to change, your castle should be as pristine as possible, it can still be yours but it has to be the best you've got
@theartoflife28376 жыл бұрын
Ash bringer, she is a girl. She knows what she is talking about
@MurdermiesteR6 жыл бұрын
The importance of self reflection, discipline, and self improvement can never be overstated. Never be happy with who you are. Be happy with who you are becoming.
@Anton_the_Vampire4 жыл бұрын
Sadly I have exhibited all the beta male traits, & also been an aggressive beta at times. I think the reason is basically my past history (especially being gay). But recently I decided to change, & am working on that. This video has given me much to think about. Thanks.
@DaddyCreggus7 жыл бұрын
I lost so many IQ points by watching this I became the animal he's depicting us as.
@stiergesichtbrigade91267 жыл бұрын
Daddy classic beta talk
@mcpartridgeboy7 жыл бұрын
yeah being smart doesnt get you anywere with women, but enjoy being smart anyway, maybe ill see you on the chess circuit one day !
@DaddyCreggus7 жыл бұрын
UwU!!! bEtA ANS PROUD!!1!! -im joking please dont hurt me-
@shneebly56197 жыл бұрын
mcpartridgeboy ya or maybe all the girls you talk to are just dumb fucks who talk about men all day😂😂
@chickenstrangler38267 жыл бұрын
NOT AN ARGUMENT! This video seems to be correct. If this video is not correct, explain how?
@Mosotti7 жыл бұрын
The best way to become an alpha male instantly and to attract all the women in the proximity is to show that you have money :))
@FlombaeEdge6 жыл бұрын
Mosotti loser
@jayf94186 жыл бұрын
80% right.
@chrismc4103 жыл бұрын
That also draws in people that are more trouble than they're worth.
@joelweekes42672 жыл бұрын
Hope you joking, you can have money and women could still view you as a beta male provider
@Leuthen575 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I struggle with. It’s like I have an alpha and a beta fighting inside of me all the time. Love the video. Gonna study it not for just getting women... but for self improvement.
@_kikizaman_2 жыл бұрын
As a woman, if any guy ever let the word “alpha male” leave his mouth I’d run. Alpha males are the most cocky misogynistic guys ever. Please just be yourself, women make fun of guys like this. I came to this channel for a good laugh and I’ve gotten it.
@CloudyMedzzz6 жыл бұрын
"don't be a follower" I just realized my goal was to follow what the alpha does
@bajikimran23047 жыл бұрын
Confidence in women is very important too. If she isn't confident, how can she possibly hold a good job and support you? I had a woman flirt with me one time in a laundromat. Red Flags went up instantly. How could a woman who could not afford a washer and dryer possibly support me? I got out of there quick. If a woman wants to get laid, she's going to have to have earning power.
@andrewlewis-brown6647 жыл бұрын
This is golden! I love this
@Felix-rc4wv7 жыл бұрын
This is only the case if you expect the women to support you. In most cases, the man supports the woman. I hope you were being sarcastic with the rest of your comment. Your comment is hilarious
@pinkpriss7 жыл бұрын
What town was that in? I knew a girl who hated bars and was screamin' rich who would sometimes take a load of clothes to a laundromat just to meet guys.
@bajikimran23047 жыл бұрын
Sweetcheeks Babycakes It was in the quad cities area of California. Alta Coma, Alta Luna, El Tijo and Merchandise.
@Felix-rc4wv7 жыл бұрын
Baji Kimran dude...is your comment serious???
@jakes27597 жыл бұрын
The one thing I would say about this that is most important is knowing what you want in a relationship. I personally am a Christian and I know what I would be seeking in a relationship. If you are looking to "build" something and it is not established on a foundation of honesty, then it is doomed for failure. We as people (not trying to judge) should try to develop the habits of resisting the temptation of compromise in the beginning for the desired outcome. It is easier to take a blow in the beginning, than in the end....divorce, damaged childhoods, depression..etc. These only add to the problems that we as human beings have in life. I say, just be who you are and love yourself (In the context of what is healthy) If you are seeking to build a "real relationship" there are plenty of people in the world and if you try hard enough, you will achieve your goal and meet your ideal person---there are just too many people in the world for there to not be someone compatible with a specific person. Don't worry about what others think. If you are not being who you truly are (again, in the manner of being healthy) then how will you be happy. We are human beings with choice of will as opposed to strictly acting on instinct. Alpha and Beta in the context of human will does not necessarily have to have significance. It takes variety of character and personality to maximize our accomplishments as human beings. If everyone was the same, we wouldn't have much ingenuity in our life. So basically, guys (and women) just be yourself and love yourself. You will accomplish a lot more out of life and be happier this way. "If there is a will, there is a way". There is too much bullying in the world and imagery of what a "person" should be. Don't succumb to anyone's pressure of trying to change the person you are....again, just love yourself :-)Sometimes these things can cause depression and other unhealthy experiences but there IS help out there...and everyone can get better. Don't ever give up. Be who you are and for the bullying out there, these people act the way they do due to a weakness within themselves that they need help with...remember, if you stay true to who you are, you are the stronger person...again, not trying to judge and fight hate with hate but keep that in your mind.Unfortunately there is too much suicide and oppression and unhealthy means others resort to when they don't feel connected...but I promise you there are other people in the world just like you that will love you and except you for who you are....so value yourself. If you truly want to meet someone, again, there are Plenty of people in the world that will have similar characteristics and values as yourself. (Remember to have discernment and try not to be too naïve yet too narrow as well---sometimes it's hit and miss with these things but with practice you will learn them)God Bless all the men and women and children reading this....If you are not religious, (which can be understandable --- not everyone has had the same life and walked in the same shoes as everyone) these values still within themselves lose no meaning to the truth behind them....we are all worthy of love and respectBe true to who you are and I wish the best for EVERYONE to have a happy life....find a healthy passion and purse it...Peace and Love everyone...take careAgain, best wishes people...remember this message :-) ....never give up
@jakes27597 жыл бұрын
Hey, thanks buddy. Just speaking the truth to you and to everyone. Glad to be inspirational, my friend. Take care and blessings!
@Knoxman7 жыл бұрын
here are all rules for being the alpha: 1 Don't give a fuck 2. Don't give a fuck and 3. Don't give a fuck...
@oo7porschemgs9957 жыл бұрын
Ernest Lekota dumb dumb and dumb.
@MrBsaudios7 жыл бұрын
Guys do you want to know how to become an Alpha Male? Well i can tell you one thing: Not by watching Videos on how to become an Alpha Male!
@egyptianking47266 жыл бұрын
MrBsaudios you have to start somewhere bud no one watching these videos will magically become an alpha male tomorrow it's a gradual process respect the process trust the process
@MrLaddy1016 жыл бұрын
MrBsaudios he's right
@stephaniec64585 жыл бұрын
Lmao. True
@Weirdomanification5 жыл бұрын
Whuadt a week beta mail u r
@Legotank10005 жыл бұрын
MrBsaudios Is it just me or do you sound insecure?
@dreamcoma22137 жыл бұрын
Can you site any of the studies that would support the narrative with in this video? Or is this just your interpretation of pop psychology?
@Cortesevasive7 жыл бұрын
No study could cover 3.5billion women ,different cultures ,nationalities ,etc
@CaneFumatore7 жыл бұрын
No study could cover all women on the planet, they don't always want the confident one.
@BenjiCollege7 жыл бұрын
yes a study can u just lazy fool
@hermanubis967 жыл бұрын
maybe read a book on social dynamics and social psychology
@hermanubis967 жыл бұрын
and maybe jung's work on the individuation of the self and everything that came after? don't pretend to be a smartass when you really don't know shit.
@AppleKingFPV7 жыл бұрын
First tip: stop listening to this video
@luissantiago44917 жыл бұрын
greynox this video is bs
@luissantiago44917 жыл бұрын
greynox why would you want to live your life based around a video you seen on KZfaq
@luissantiago44917 жыл бұрын
greynox the maker of the video is a so called "beta male" don't listen to this bs
@luissantiago44917 жыл бұрын
greynox ok
@AppleKingFPV7 жыл бұрын
the structure of our modern society isn't based around an alpha and beta dynamic and it hasn't been that way since we all started to live in caves. Everything is based around mutual constructive collaboration.
@fallenhero13387 жыл бұрын
An alpha stands up for his rights for fresh popcorn. But what if the popcorn guy refuses? What to do then besides aggression?
@connorcoutantcontent53487 жыл бұрын
Throw the popcorn away, demand a refund, and decisively leave and go to another theater and or do whatever he feels, he doesn't need to ask what to do next because he can decide on a reasonable thing to do.
@oo7porschemgs9957 жыл бұрын
Vlog It Up only a dumbass ape...err... "alpha male" LOL would leave a theater cuz his popcorn wasnt prefect. These stupid videos teach men to be dumb jackasses, not real men.
@stockloc7 жыл бұрын
Fallen Hero Direction. Outweigh the pros and cons of confrontation and if there are less pros than cons, take the stale popcorn and eat it. The thing with being a true alpha male (likeable, fun guy everyone wants to impress) is that they don't care that their popcorn is stale in the first place.
@oo7porschemgs9957 жыл бұрын
Skimtar funny how u boys love to make up your own ideas of what am alpha male is lol, just so u feel like you're one ;) Do what you want, there is no "alpha male" in humans, everyone makes their own damn choices.
@Ashbringer367 жыл бұрын
Don't even have to make a big scene, you just ask with a stern but calm voice "get your manager" if the person refuses.. no major scene that bodes ill on you but the guy who threw you the stale popcorn (also depends on how stale we're talking, if we're talking, the crap is at least a couple hours unheated then by goodness that is not flying)
@jack12344734 жыл бұрын
There's no shame in keeping your plans & desires a secret. Most may do it out of fear but some do it so to not worry about others getting in their way. If you have a true passion for something, the last thing you want to do is to tell others. Like wise saying "Do not cast your pearls before swine."
@sethz57477 жыл бұрын
i was a beta male. I ate teige hanley and now im an *alpha* male
@attiumeyami4177 жыл бұрын
I was a beta male and now I am a fish
@AdonisGaming937 жыл бұрын
except it is far easier to be an alpha if you were 6'4 and muscular af back then or today having tons of money. Those things just help...
@snakeace07 жыл бұрын
Yeah i hate Beta´s assuming that all my muscles just came out of nowhere. If people in wheelchairs can get fit and muscular , then they really have no more excuses. If someone worked hard for their money , then they earned it. If you cant backup your lack of humour , fitness or confidence with money , then you lost my friend. The reason why women appreciate some level of fitness is because of the associated mental traits that come with it, like Discipline , mental toughness, stamina and self identification. Same goes for finances. The only one holding you back is YOURSELF.
@OhhLoz7 жыл бұрын
You can't gain height.
@snakeace07 жыл бұрын
Yeah but you can gain confidence.
@ARGENT2317 жыл бұрын
Bitch please, how can you gain confidence if the reason of the lack of confidence is the fucking height which can't be gained?
@snakeace07 жыл бұрын
If your height is the reason of lack of confidence , then you are one whiny ass beta. Play with the cards you have been dealt. Bitching about circumstances that you cant change is insanity and wasted energy. If a few centimeters is all it takes to break your will , then youre simply not tough enough to be an alpha YET. my best buddy is 1,62 cm in height. He was lanky as fuck and the most shy mofo around. He started lifting and taking care of himself mentally and physically. He developed his sense of humour , which he always possesed , just never refined and expressed. Not a fucking year later and the went on a humping spree with women you dream of every day. BE FUN TO BE AROUND, and dont demand the attention of others if yours isnt worth it.
@BeOutstanding4 жыл бұрын
Great Content Thank You Ffa Don't be too nice Don't doubt Too needy Don't think too mu Don't be secreti lead, tk risk, dir Be aggres Musc
@godfreycarmichael6 жыл бұрын
Just be yourself and hope for the best. It's just life, man...
@deletedchannel-oj7if5 жыл бұрын
Godfrey Carmichael preach ma brother
@dudewat2127 жыл бұрын
Great point about the popcorn !
@V0LTCF7 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but i think this is very shortsighted to say the least. You're talking about men like they are either A or B and I think the world is not that black and white. The Alpha male? really?
@thenew45597 жыл бұрын
We've found the beta.
@marcosramirez5737 жыл бұрын
The New Patriot How is he a beta? explain.
@abudabisas7 жыл бұрын
V0LT ye true, in group of five year olds u automaticaly alpha as adult,etc there is all grades in hierarchy
@jojivlogs_42557 жыл бұрын
+The New Patriot If he's a beta, then you're an aggressive beta.
@Aryzo7 жыл бұрын
We're just apes in the end. Or at least something like that. So saying that our social structures aren't even a bit like theirs would be ignorant.
@kevinboss554 жыл бұрын
By the way great job with your videos man 💯🙏🏿 u been holding up for quite a while now ✊🏿 I just wanted to say I don’t agree with the last point about being secretive bc it’s better not to share your goals with everybody due to the fact some people may try to manipulate u knowing your goals I would put the last point as don’t be afraid to go after what u want in life bc of people but u can do this without having to say a word to anyone The element of surprise 🤙🏿💯
@hugomartins6286 жыл бұрын
According to science, beta male is actually the second in the hierarchy of the group, ranked higher than all the others except the alpha. Males in a chimpanzee group are divided in high, middle and low ranking. It's like in human society, but our status can increase or decrease depending on the inviroment. Trust me. I've read a lot of academic works about this. I'm not american, so in case of some grammar misteaks just let it go
@George758697 жыл бұрын
don't tell me what to do!
@takm3der4amin7 жыл бұрын
Alpha man single, selfish and savage!
@vg23245 жыл бұрын
I don't know why I'm watching this. Maybe I just want to be an alpha. Watch out there's a new alpha in town.
@clinchknot82247 жыл бұрын
this is so true about myself. but, this video has helped me to improve that alpha thing.
@beat_master77667 жыл бұрын
Do I have to feel bad now that I know that I'm a 100% Beta Male? Oh man science pisses me off
@halox88007 жыл бұрын
Beat_master77 No, you can stay that way
@jps01176 жыл бұрын
This isn't science. Relax.
@NeymarJr-vg8mn6 жыл бұрын
Start hitting the gym
@tenpenny41897 жыл бұрын
How to be more alpha step 1: don't be a liberal
@christophershawncourtney97977 жыл бұрын
Tenpenny all the fit alpha males are in liberal California .healthy, built ,in Good physical shape making a fortune.Their success is their dominance in the financial world, and capability to achieve more.If you buy this garbage your a fucking idiot. You have an impressionable point of view imposed by others or collective view of what a man is. I'm a liberal and have had many fights won more than I lost don't give two shits what someone has to say.I take it into consideration and make my own decisions.I don't buy into this alpha male bullshit.Men in prison tend to have higher testosterone levels on average than most men.They're physically more muscular and have committed crimes from not following orders made by other men being subjugated to others will. Guys that date to challenge authority.If you believe in alpha males, well their you go.Because you like guns and trucks and sports doesn't make you more manly.Being independent,humble respectful,have integrity.To go against the grain .not follow the pack of what others do .Just to feel more secure.To be like your supposed to be because you want to fit in.I'm showing dominance through words.I must be an alpha.....what the fuck ever tuff guy.
@wakandawildman20437 жыл бұрын
Christopher Shawn Courtney shut up libtard
@abdisg20857 жыл бұрын
FUCK 12 how you gonna say fuck 12 but your conservative lmfaoooo
@wakandawildman20437 жыл бұрын
ABDI cuz the cops ain't right
@dakodabaldur30377 жыл бұрын
FUCK 12 You're weaker and lower on the foodchain.
@mrwarmind7 жыл бұрын
9:24 "girls would pick up on this quickly" i don't think so, many have witnessed a nice guy or two pretending to aggressive with girls and they get them in the end
@BenHailu7 жыл бұрын
I think this video has changed my vision on how I'm living my life for the better. Thank you!
@83maller5 жыл бұрын
I pissed on my cat because it looked at me alpha life
@bkarnhem8746 жыл бұрын
I was what you call a beta male for so long, but since i began working out in the gym and started to see myself getting bigger, my confidence became sky high. Since then i wear what i want and say whats on my mind, because im confident doing so and if you are you should never be embarassed. Now i get so much attention from girls that its annoying. So basicly if you are like i was, you just have to start working out
@classygirrafe72076 жыл бұрын
MKG - COMMENTATOR Yeah dude confidence is key, and I guess working out also gave me confidence, and masculinity
@octaviodealmeida97065 жыл бұрын
Dude you're channel is AWESOME. Thanks for the tips.
@I_O2465 жыл бұрын
Why is it that years of getting rejected, heart aches and stressed emotions this is finally suggested to me? Does my phone know how I feel?!
@tim57607 жыл бұрын
im early. hi mum!
@Will-qv6es7 жыл бұрын
Mr Fulcrum I'm mum. Hi early!
@samesadface90447 жыл бұрын
Will Jenks Im Hi early mum!
@vegetajr60407 жыл бұрын
SameSadFace mum early Hi Im
@StratMatt7777 жыл бұрын
You must be really bored to have made that user name and post regularly using it. To be honest, I understand that level of boredom. May the "troll" be with you!
@StratMatt7777 жыл бұрын
When I said "May the "troll" be with you!", that was a positive humorous remark... I thought that "Triggered" people are usually angry and pissed off. However, if triggered only means that the post caused a person to respond... then it looks like you were triggered too! Karan triggered. :)
@Sodoiable7 жыл бұрын
This video is a complete joke. You say alpha male stands up for himself (popcorn example) Every sane person on earth knows that standing up for yourself is a must. What people do not know, however, is HOW to stand up for yourself. Instead of making a completely useless video and giving guidelines that are clear to everyone, you should make a video which actually explains HOW to act and WHAT to say in these conflict situations. But it is kinda clear you have no idea yourself. You just provide cliche bullet points of general ideas without explaining how to actually achieve those ideas. A 6 year old kid can google some general ideas ant make presentation like yours in a video. Please, try harder to provide content that is actually useful to people. :)
@shakos41055 жыл бұрын
Albert J so why don’t you make the video then, Mr. Smart?
@CheriLexvold5 жыл бұрын
Amazingly I'm a woman, but I derive a lot of benefit from teachings about alpha males. in this video in particular I like what you said about confidence. I can use that! !
@Dee-mo3oj5 жыл бұрын
most think they are alpha until its time to stand for yourself i learned so much growing up in the system not glorifying it but it made me the man i am today .
@machoman62957 жыл бұрын
I've gone to more than 5 zoos in my life, just like the fish popping up, I see a damn gorilla every 5 seconds. Jesus Christ new drawings PLEASE!
@diaboloo92137 жыл бұрын
I'm Turning into Harambe, thanks !
@domagojkersun96307 жыл бұрын
I am alpha male who is level 52 dungeon master...NAIL IT!!!!!!!!!!
@nospoontobend26562 жыл бұрын
You can't become a personality type...but you can becoming more educated, aware and create a better version of yourself
@mystiquefox3807 жыл бұрын
I feel bad ,like I don't like the feeling of awkwardness in trying something new or stepping out and being the odd one out This is stopping me to achieve my dreams and goals I always imagine my goals but never do try to follow them cauz the feeling of awkwardness is jst very awkward Pls Answer this and give me a solution Ily and your Vids
@MrTaxMan6667 жыл бұрын
Its actually smart to conceal your desires sometimes.
@rapideye856 жыл бұрын
I started my own business, because I had too many jobs where I had managers who exhibited an overly aggressive beta-male overcompensating type behaviour. I was not able to tolerate people bullying me or telling me what to do only if I felt they were intentionally being rude. I went from one job, to the other and to another. Then I realized that I don't give me myself enough credit and automatically discounted my own abilities. Sometimes men become or think they are beta through abusive situations in childhood or through tough situations. The key is to forgive and accept others and then do your own thing. Make mistakes and accept that we are all flawed individuals. When you humble yourself, you become thankful without resentment for others, thus clearing your mind to focus on your life's desires. Some people try so hard to appear like a big boss by intentionally being mean to others and it just doesn't work. It's hilarious that people are so weak like this. I go to some of my clients and I routinely see middle management employees or sons/daughters of business founders/CEOs exhibit these insecure qualities. These types tend to be highly triggered especially when regular employees bring up better ideas than them. Overall, the only problem I have with this video is that not all men can become alphas and it's mean to pressure them to become one. Many men will get the wrong message and continue to overcompensate. People need to be themselves....If you are a beta, you can still get what you want if you believe enough in yourself to not pay attention to the alpha/beta complex.
@conkersquirrel88724 жыл бұрын
This video is quite good. What makes you alpha isn't really how many women you get, it's how much you believe in your own self-worth and happiness.
@lwrapoza51506 жыл бұрын
Oh, to late. I already took the red pill.
@Rushmanyyz7 жыл бұрын
Human don't have alpha/beta social structures. The stupid, it hurts...
@CommonTateW5 жыл бұрын
My only problem is that I am too nice I am trying to fix that now.
@harryabb79926 жыл бұрын
As a business man I found this very useful for the business world too. Good job