The way you become an alpha male is not giving a shit about being an alpha or beta or a kappa....

1. treat all people with respect 2. don’t give a fk what people think 3. Big heart - Back yourself 4. Always be humble

I was an alpha then I got married.

How to be alpha : 1. Deal with your fears 2. Being okay in the conflict 3. Get over self-Inhebitle(?) 4. Be assertive 5. Do not be a follower

I run a Seafood department in a supermarket and I saw more fish in this 5 minute video than in my 12 hour fucking work day.

Stop worrying about being the Alpha, Beta, or whatever the fuck. If you go along with this mentality you'll constantly be judging yourself against labels and the expectations they carry. They exist - sure - but fuck the labels. Focus on developing yourself, _for_ yourself, and the rest comes naturally. If you want confidence, work for it; *INVEST in yourself.* That's all there is to it. The more you push your own limits and discipline yourself (Exercise, read philosophy, Journal...), the more self-trust you develop in your own abilities, which equates to confidence. Exercise, meditation, and cold showers are the best for strengthening your self-discipline. Fuck cold showers - but that's the point; victory over yourself is power. After three years of having cold showers I still don't look forward to them, or working-out, but the command I have over myself seeps into all other areas of my life; my body language, communication, decision-making, and so on. Grab a pen and write; really consider your goals and make a plan. All that matters is your ability to lead yourself, which is only harnessed through self-reflection (which is why I recommend philosophy) and owning the discipline and self-control to follow your own plan. Every personal achievement will make you stronger and more confident in yourself. Men need purpose, which we primarily get from building things. Make it your purpose to build your own kingdom, every day, *for yourself.* The rest will follow in time. - If your focus is girls, change that focus. Women want a man who owns himself. This is what worked for me. Good vid nonetheless.

just be confident bro

As a girl, I can tell you that being confident and humble is the base of what you need to become an 'alpha male'

...Or just say fuck it, and become an omega male

Stop drawing the fucking fish.

I'm the alpha of the betas

Step 1: NoFap

i was surprised in the middle of the video he actually said what you can do to improve yourself, instead of i have a course you can buy down below.

My cat listened this this and now he's a lion. welp.

You're right about confidence. Everything falls into place when I begin to trust myself, as do things fall apart when I doubt myself.

Sign #1: you're watching this video.

That moment when your neither alpha, or beta, and just weird af.

Sometimes, when I pay attention to my own behavior I seem to lose all spontaneity, I create a feedback loop in my mind that makes me appear weak and doubtful to others. Other times, though, I am totally alive and awake, and my behavior is natural and powerful. Trusting and accepting oneself is so important...

"Girls are like metal detectors". Thanks for the advice mate.

I’m slowly becoming an alpha! 💪🏻

Im the type of guy to walk into my girlfriend cheating on me and say, " Oh sorry, I came at the wrong time."

I watched this, expecting it to be bullcrap. But it turned out decent. Just too much emphasis on not being nice. Aggressiveness will get you shut down faster than niceness. Assertiveness is the balance.

The defining trait that separates alphas from betas is the action taken in what is desired.

"He's going to stand up for his rights and get some fresh popcorn." 😂

Instructions were unclear, I became a gamma

Alpha and beta males? What about delta, sigma, gamma, epsilon males? Do an episode about epsilon males!

This is weird, because the majority of males I know do display traits of both Alpha and Beta!

-always put others above own needs -don`t be too nice choose one

Sign of an alpha male: Don't take shit from anybody.

Buying popcorn is an important decision?

I always thought being reserved about your talents and passions made you seem a bit more mysterious and interesting. I don't mean not telling people what u do, but such as having one major passion that most know about (for example tennis) but when people get to know u it comes as a shock that u also have other interest (guitar or social games of volleyball)

Obsessing over becoming an alpha male is the worst thing you can do.

"How to animorph into an orange fish every ten seconds"

The best part about this is the comment section...

All of this begs the question: "HOW???"

its not being nice, its not being ambitious. "too nice" guys roll over in confrontations and just generally give up easily. Has nothing to do with bad boy - good boy.

well after watching this good video ive come to the conclusion suicide is the way to go ! thanks !

Buying popcorn is an alpha decision

„Be confident“ Wow thanks

How to be Alpha: Step 1: Be the better man and walk away from this video

Fear of rejection, so I avoid every social interaction.

i feel personally attacked

This video is right on POINT I hope alot of men take this information to heart and not misunderstand what you are saying.

ME ALPHA MALE ME SMAAAASHH!!!!

So I can become the Harambe?

I hope guys looking for more confidence don't take this too seriously.. Pretty vague instructions on how to be fairly specific kind of dude. Human breeding doesn't really work quite like wolves and apes... there are more than two kinds of personality... Etc etc

Wow, so getting a refund on stale popcorn is all it takes to become an alpha male in 2018.

If you want to be Alpha you need to head over to Alpha M and buy some Tiege Hanley! Instant Alpha and the women love it.

Signs you're a beta male: Clicking on this video out of curiosity.

This was a very discouraging video. Thanks man.

Hi, it is I, a girl who has no idea why she watches these videos. IF YOU ARE A BETA MALE THIS IS PROBABLY WORTH READING TO THE END. AH FUCK IT. IT IS PROBABLY WORTH READING NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE. The Alpha male is a natural born person, as is the Beta. If you want to try to become a different person, that's your choice, and I understand the feeling. Maybe this is not the case with most girls, but I have a knack for very deeply understanding and relating to almost everyone. I am not sure what it is about me that makes people trust me so easily, but a girl who literally one person in school had a conversation that lasted longer than 10 seconds with just poured all of her unsaid thoughts on me, and now I am actually her only friend. What I am getting at is you don't need to change. (ACTUALY ADVICE AND MY POINT STARTS HERE): Let's call every person a kingdom. The buildings are all the nuanced things about someone's personality. The animals and people in the kingdom are the thoughts that pop up. Maybe it is not a big kingdom, but is still one. If nobody loves you now, somebody will someday. While, yes, putting a wall up in front of any side of your kingdom causes other kingdoms to try to connect their kingdom to yours through other sides, seeing in you what you want them to see, walls can also keep other kingdoms out. Maybe you don't know that another kingdom wants to join forces because you have built a wall too big on the part of your kingdom that they want you to show. If you build a big enough wall, no matter how many kingdoms are standing on the other side other side of that wall, wanting desperately to build a road in and form a deep alliance, you'd never notice. If I am the only kingdom trying to get in, then person's kingdom's walls come down almost immediately, but if there are kingdoms trying to enter from other directions, I am suddenly facing a wall that I cannot pass. Even if I like other aspects of someone's personality, I often enter their heart through parts of their personality that the person themself doesn't like, because when I think I like someone, I need to know a lot of things about them(but of course I don't ask people to spill all their secrets and emotions, just their personality). Too often, I find myself screaming and pounding on that wall for while, before just staying there, doing nothing. The person on the outside of that wall almost always ends up heartbroken, and you never know how many people's affection you are blind to. I wouldn't purposely ignore aspects of myself to get people to like me, if they don't like me and I like than, then hey don't like me. Even if it makes me cry, it's okay. I find that the warmest people will enter your heart through part of your personality you don't like. I get get people to let me into their hearts, and I let them in mine. Then as time moves on, some people start trying to attract more people, and they put up a wall, or they completely destroy or ignore he part of their personality I entered from. That causes us to loose our connection, as it is with most people who get a wall put uo in front of them. The people you leave outside the wall ends up heartbroken. So, please, if you ever choose to block offpart of your heart or personality, make sure you check on it every once in a while. Even if you have a mentality that letting people into your kingdom can lead to attacks from the inside, so you don't want to let people in, you are not wrong. But isn't love and trust going both ways when both kingdoms open their gates, giving each other the ability to comepletely wreck them and trusting them not to? The best thing about your kingdom is that it is yours. The people who are in your kingdom(remember, those are thoughts and feelings), are part of you. While you can choose whether or not the people in your kingdom decide to reproduce(this metaphor/simile is getting a little weird), but you don't have to let those thought-people become dictators. You should acknowledge and accept them, but a truly unified kingdom, in the end, functions better than a kingdom ruled in fear, hate, or sadness. This is my opinion, so you don't have to agree, but thanks for reading it. If you read this entire thing I am sending you a virtual hug. **hugs everyone who reads this entire thing**

Sadly I have exhibited all the beta male traits, & also been an aggressive beta at times. I think the reason is basically my past history (especially being gay). But recently I decided to change, & am working on that. This video has given me much to think about. Thanks.

I lost so many IQ points by watching this I became the animal he's depicting us as.

The best way to become an alpha male instantly and to attract all the women in the proximity is to show that you have money :))

This is exactly what I struggle with. It’s like I have an alpha and a beta fighting inside of me all the time. Love the video. Gonna study it not for just getting women... but for self improvement.

"don't be a follower" I just realized my goal was to follow what the alpha does

Confidence in women is very important too. If she isn't confident, how can she possibly hold a good job and support you? I had a woman flirt with me one time in a laundromat. Red Flags went up instantly. How could a woman who could not afford a washer and dryer possibly support me? I got out of there quick. If a woman wants to get laid, she's going to have to have earning power.

The one thing I would say about this that is most important is knowing what you want in a relationship. I personally am a Christian and I know what I would be seeking in a relationship. If you are looking to "build" something and it is not established on a foundation of honesty, then it is doomed for failure. We as people (not trying to judge) should try to develop the habits of resisting the temptation of compromise in the beginning for the desired outcome. It is easier to take a blow in the beginning, than in the end....divorce, damaged childhoods, depression..etc. These only add to the problems that we as human beings have in life. I say, just be who you are and love yourself (In the context of what is healthy) If you are seeking to build a "real relationship" there are plenty of people in the world and if you try hard enough, you will achieve your goal and meet your ideal person---there are just too many people in the world for there to not be someone compatible with a specific person. Don't worry about what others think. If you are not being who you truly are (again, in the manner of being healthy) then how will you be happy. We are human beings with choice of will as opposed to strictly acting on instinct. Alpha and Beta in the context of human will does not necessarily have to have significance. It takes variety of character and personality to maximize our accomplishments as human beings. If everyone was the same, we wouldn't have much ingenuity in our life. So basically, guys (and women) just be yourself and love yourself. You will accomplish a lot more out of life and be happier this way. "If there is a will, there is a way". There is too much bullying in the world and imagery of what a "person" should be. Don't succumb to anyone's pressure of trying to change the person you are....again, just love yourself :-)Sometimes these things can cause depression and other unhealthy experiences but there IS help out there...and everyone can get better. Don't ever give up. Be who you are and for the bullying out there, these people act the way they do due to a weakness within themselves that they need help with...remember, if you stay true to who you are, you are the stronger person...again, not trying to judge and fight hate with hate but keep that in your mind.Unfortunately there is too much suicide and oppression and unhealthy means others resort to when they don't feel connected...but I promise you there are other people in the world just like you that will love you and except you for who you are....so value yourself. If you truly want to meet someone, again, there are Plenty of people in the world that will have similar characteristics and values as yourself. (Remember to have discernment and try not to be too naïve yet too narrow as well---sometimes it's hit and miss with these things but with practice you will learn them)God Bless all the men and women and children reading this....If you are not religious, (which can be understandable --- not everyone has had the same life and walked in the same shoes as everyone) these values still within themselves lose no meaning to the truth behind them....we are all worthy of love and respectBe true to who you are and I wish the best for EVERYONE to have a happy life....find a healthy passion and purse it...Peace and Love everyone...take careAgain, best wishes people...remember this message :-) ....never give up

here are all rules for being the alpha: 1 Don't give a fuck 2. Don't give a fuck and 3. Don't give a fuck...

Guys do you want to know how to become an Alpha Male? Well i can tell you one thing: Not by watching Videos on how to become an Alpha Male!

Can you site any of the studies that would support the narrative with in this video? Or is this just your interpretation of pop psychology?

First tip: stop listening to this video

An alpha stands up for his rights for fresh popcorn. But what if the popcorn guy refuses? What to do then besides aggression?

There's no shame in keeping your plans & desires a secret. Most may do it out of fear but some do it so to not worry about others getting in their way. If you have a true passion for something, the last thing you want to do is to tell others. Like wise saying "Do not cast your pearls before swine."

i was a beta male. I ate teige hanley and now im an *alpha* male

except it is far easier to be an alpha if you were 6'4 and muscular af back then or today having tons of money. Those things just help...

Great Content Thank You Ffa Don't be too nice Don't doubt Too needy Don't think too mu Don't be secreti lead, tk risk, dir Be aggres Musc

Just be yourself and hope for the best. It's just life, man...

Great point about the popcorn !

I'm sorry but i think this is very shortsighted to say the least. You're talking about men like they are either A or B and I think the world is not that black and white. The Alpha male? really?

By the way great job with your videos man 💯🙏🏿 u been holding up for quite a while now ✊🏿 I just wanted to say I don’t agree with the last point about being secretive bc it’s better not to share your goals with everybody due to the fact some people may try to manipulate u knowing your goals I would put the last point as don’t be afraid to go after what u want in life bc of people but u can do this without having to say a word to anyone The element of surprise 🤙🏿💯

According to science, beta male is actually the second in the hierarchy of the group, ranked higher than all the others except the alpha. Males in a chimpanzee group are divided in high, middle and low ranking. It's like in human society, but our status can increase or decrease depending on the inviroment. Trust me. I've read a lot of academic works about this. I'm not american, so in case of some grammar misteaks just let it go

don't tell me what to do!

Alpha man single, selfish and savage!

I don't know why I'm watching this. Maybe I just want to be an alpha. Watch out there's a new alpha in town.

this is so true about myself. but, this video has helped me to improve that alpha thing.

Do I have to feel bad now that I know that I'm a 100% Beta Male? Oh man science pisses me off

How to be more alpha step 1: don't be a liberal

9:24 "girls would pick up on this quickly" i don't think so, many have witnessed a nice guy or two pretending to aggressive with girls and they get them in the end

I think this video has changed my vision on how I'm living my life for the better. Thank you!

I pissed on my cat because it looked at me alpha life

I was what you call a beta male for so long, but since i began working out in the gym and started to see myself getting bigger, my confidence became sky high. Since then i wear what i want and say whats on my mind, because im confident doing so and if you are you should never be embarassed. Now i get so much attention from girls that its annoying. So basicly if you are like i was, you just have to start working out

Dude you're channel is AWESOME. Thanks for the tips.

Why is it that years of getting rejected, heart aches and stressed emotions this is finally suggested to me? Does my phone know how I feel?!

im early. hi mum!

This video is a complete joke. You say alpha male stands up for himself (popcorn example) Every sane person on earth knows that standing up for yourself is a must. What people do not know, however, is HOW to stand up for yourself. Instead of making a completely useless video and giving guidelines that are clear to everyone, you should make a video which actually explains HOW to act and WHAT to say in these conflict situations. But it is kinda clear you have no idea yourself. You just provide cliche bullet points of general ideas without explaining how to actually achieve those ideas. A 6 year old kid can google some general ideas ant make presentation like yours in a video. Please, try harder to provide content that is actually useful to people. :)

Amazingly I'm a woman, but I derive a lot of benefit from teachings about alpha males. in this video in particular I like what you said about confidence. I can use that! !

most think they are alpha until its time to stand for yourself i learned so much growing up in the system not glorifying it but it made me the man i am today .

I've gone to more than 5 zoos in my life, just like the fish popping up, I see a damn gorilla every 5 seconds. Jesus Christ new drawings PLEASE!

I'm Turning into Harambe, thanks !

I am alpha male who is level 52 dungeon master...NAIL IT!!!!!!!!!!

You can't become a personality type...but you can becoming more educated, aware and create a better version of yourself

I feel bad ,like I don't like the feeling of awkwardness in trying something new or stepping out and being the odd one out This is stopping me to achieve my dreams and goals I always imagine my goals but never do try to follow them cauz the feeling of awkwardness is jst very awkward Pls Answer this and give me a solution Ily and your Vids

Its actually smart to conceal your desires sometimes.

I started my own business, because I had too many jobs where I had managers who exhibited an overly aggressive beta-male overcompensating type behaviour. I was not able to tolerate people bullying me or telling me what to do only if I felt they were intentionally being rude. I went from one job, to the other and to another. Then I realized that I don't give me myself enough credit and automatically discounted my own abilities. Sometimes men become or think they are beta through abusive situations in childhood or through tough situations. The key is to forgive and accept others and then do your own thing. Make mistakes and accept that we are all flawed individuals. When you humble yourself, you become thankful without resentment for others, thus clearing your mind to focus on your life's desires. Some people try so hard to appear like a big boss by intentionally being mean to others and it just doesn't work. It's hilarious that people are so weak like this. I go to some of my clients and I routinely see middle management employees or sons/daughters of business founders/CEOs exhibit these insecure qualities. These types tend to be highly triggered especially when regular employees bring up better ideas than them. Overall, the only problem I have with this video is that not all men can become alphas and it's mean to pressure them to become one. Many men will get the wrong message and continue to overcompensate. People need to be themselves....If you are a beta, you can still get what you want if you believe enough in yourself to not pay attention to the alpha/beta complex.

This video is quite good. What makes you alpha isn't really how many women you get, it's how much you believe in your own self-worth and happiness.

Oh, to late. I already took the red pill.

Human don't have alpha/beta social structures. The stupid, it hurts...

My only problem is that I am too nice I am trying to fix that now.

As a business man I found this very useful for the business world too. Good job