Such an eloquent discussion. Great use of analogies to illustrate, and emphasize, your points. What so many of us are lacking, is courage, and the presence that comes from having self-esteem. Too many people mistake bravado for courage. Bravado is a performance. It is an attempt to convince OTHERS of our greatness. It is a needy energy. Courage comes from a willingness to persist in the face of fear. It is rooted in a determination to meet whatever challenge confronts them. Courage allows a man to walk into the unknown, with the confidence that he can face it, without a sense of fatalism, and impending catastrophe. How do we do that? We summon the strength that we have gained from our experiences. Both the triumphs, and the lessons garnered from our failures. We confront our fears. We change our internal dialog, regarding the possibilities life holds. We release our sense of shame, and embrace our sense of conviction. Conviction does not mean an absence of fear, but the persistent presence of a solid foundation, that empowers you to persist in the face of that fear. A weak man, denies that he feels fear at all, or runs in the face of it. A grounded man, acknowledges his nervousness, and presses forward, with the belief that he can handle it. The dauntless man, is assertive, and in tune with his emotions. My father-in-law, Rinaldo, and his wife, Elly, were much like the couple you describe. He was a martial arts instructor, and was very in tune with his body, and those around him. He was such a stabilizing force in his family. A great listener, and a wise man. The key to his wonderful marriage, was his convictions and his confidence. His one persistent emotional expression, was compassion. He was not into histrionics, and when others were emotional, they went to him because he was a calm, reassuring presence. People always felt better after being in his presence. The great thing about him, was that he understood that to support a woman, does not mean mimicking feminine behaviour. He was always calm, a great listener, and a strong encouraging presence. A thoughtful man, he was judicious with his words. This made him magnetic to people, young, old, male female, people just loved to be in his presence. He has since passed away, and we speak of him often. It was amazing that for a man of few words, his family was positively effusive, standing at his bedside, expressing gratitude for the man he was. Know yourself, have convictions and virtues, own your faults, work to improve them, and soldier on in the face of fear. Be a good listener, a perceptive partner, and a positive force. Such a man is rare, in todays world. Women will gravitate towards you!

That’s an awesome illustration of 3rd stage development: It’s not about what I want , it’s not about what she wants, it’s what the moment needs to be the best possible…poetic. Thanks, man.

Brian Begin is the epitome of a true man!

Thank you! You have no idea how much this really helped

This is gold.

That fella in the demo shifted a lot towards the end. Good stuff

This guy really is good at what he does

45:02 she’s on camera and in front of all those guys and still gives the choosing signal clear as day

This is incredible. For men who have difficulty with getting their voices correct, I suggest running or do anything else which requires hard breathing. The body can only perform at its best if breathing correctly your body will automatically fix this in order to function better.

His voice is deep. its super easy to come across as confident and smooth with a voice like that. He sounds like george clooney. So if youre a guy whose voice isnt as deep, sure this will still work but it wont have the quite same effect.

This was such a captivating topic to explore guys nice one!!!

Great video !

Wow, this is life changing! You earn a sub. I am raised from a family with the opposite view of what you have discussed. This will definety change the way I relate with women bacause they are really special. I am a very analytical guy and always talking with my "head". I am excited to do the work.

This is amazing

Well this goes into the best of the best playlist. 💪🙏

Great example Thanks

Very intressting, thanks :)

Can we please get a version without the jazz music? Doesn't really help. Also we guys with ADHD have trouble focusing on what you are saying.

Impressive 👏🏻

Good video.

Yes brother let's do it together

My deal is that I think stage 1 is so goofy that I err on the side of caution and don't reach stage 3. I have a deep voice, so no problem there. Good video.

34:27 - 38:30 pure gold! Thank you Brian

if more women only knew how powerful, amazing and beautiful their natural feminine is..they can get literally anything they want from a man and yet have the man thinking he's running shit all at the same time..both win and get what they need..that'show u stayed married for 60yrs..I loved watching my grandparents go back and forth..papa was all man and thought he was in charge..oh he was in charge alright, of doing whatever my Grammy wanted him to🤣 he'd sometimes give her a hard time, being all masculine, then go right about doing exactly what she asked and she'd smile and wink at me..but she'd also then let him alone and didn't nag..they knew who they were and it worked so beautifully..Oh Lawd I wish they were still alive..I wish more of this generation had the luxury of seeing this in action..instead we think we're so smart and gonna accomplish something resembling sanity by literally doing everything backwards

@ 52:00 LOL "I like you uh-lot." -Lloyd Christmas, Dumb and Dumber (1994) 😅🤣

Brian, come and save us in Norway!

Great content, but please drop the cheesy elevator music in the background. No music is necessary at all.

Love your videos, especially on letting go of outcome, but I have a question regarding a kind of paradox: How do you let go of the outcome if the very reason you're trying to let go is to get the outcome? Hope that question is clear.

Wow. This all sounds really difficult!

42:15 summarises this video. "that's the whole thing".

I dont understand the flower analogy. Males tend to show off and be more atractive and exposed than females in the animal kingdom. However and after checking with some of my female friends, I can conclude that they(women) prefer and will choose a masculine guy over a beautiful one, so when it comes to human sexual attraction/interaction, masculinity wins over beauty.

turn down your volume...

30:28 - 31:06 The best bit for me: "Men are afraid of their own death. They're not warriors. Warriors in the sense of going out and fucking the world over." 41:40 The different levels of operation.

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Can I have a free copy of your book the art of fearless seduction

The best female soccer player in the world? Mia Hamm? @ 14:10

Maybe it's because I've never had much of an issue with holding a conversation, standing out in public, or attracting a reasonable quality of woman, but this feels like it's going to lead to a lot of over analysis on the part of people who most need to get out of their heads. This whole stage description of women is giving them way way way too much credit. Still putting them on a pedestal. A lot of the emotional testing and judging they're doing in these situations is completely unconscious. They aren't mystical creatures with supernatural abilities to play mind games and manipulate dudes to their will. If they were capable of this, don't you think they'd have the self-awareness to not all have triple digit body counts, no partner, and a selection of cats? They're just operating according to their biology. All you need to do to overcome it is hold natural masculine traits. All these hacks, posture, voice tonality stuff really doesn't make fuck all of a difference (and will be transparent as hell through incongruency), own your personality. Just imagining all these confused guys in their 40's wandering up to people with fake artificially dropped voice expecting some new outcome is beyond cringey. If you're leading your life where you want and aren't making chicks the center of your emotional universe this stuff is irrelevant. Treat her like a goofy bratty little sister, give it time, you're gold. Hope this clears things up lol

I don't bump into women. Maybe in the shop 😂 there are no women at my workplace, I don't go to pubs, I don't do public transport, that 2-3 women in the gym has their heaphones welded onto their ears and women in England are not really into foreigners anyway. Been trying for 3 years, not even a single date. I only have matches on dating apps if I use a fake account with an English name 😒 I'm alright alone, I'm 35, have a nice place to live, good job, car etc and I live a busy life in general.

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