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Great video! Reekay had one like this a while back, and he pointed out that it's hard to spend time with a working Filipina and that many guys tell girls to quit their jobs to spend time with them. That's a whole different level of breakup, because now she's out of a job and maybe she was the one supporting the family. I could easily see that happening, though.

I am here because I just watched a brutal 'cut-up and scatter' video done by Leah that a passport bro featured on his channel. In that video, Leah was reacting to a hate-filled, black American woman who had made a Tiktok video trashing passport bros and Asian women. I just couldn't stop laughing. Its seemed so unfair that a smart, young, beautiful woman like Leah got to have so much fun educating that sad and angry American woman. I had to come here to see more. And I have to say that I'm very happy for you guys that you found each other. But to come back to the point of this video, the things you are saying about Filipinas here are true about dating women in any culture. But please, please, please don't ever say 'it's not you, it's me'. That is a terrible cliche that has been panned in the dating vernacular for years. Women are not stupid, they'll know its them, they'll know they're being rejected, and they will feel hurt. Also, don't say 'I'm not ready to get into a relationship right now' if what you REALLY mean is 'I don't want to get into a relationship with YOU'. Again, women are not stupid, they will find out that you are still on the dating service and still meeting and dating other women. The better way to do this is to be straight up from the beginning. Tell her that you are NOT the type who falls in love right away and that you prefer to take your time to get to know somebody and just see how things go. You will know pretty much right away if you are physically attracted or not. Keep that in your pocket. If she's hot and sexy and fun and all the things you want in a woman you may already know in your mind that you want to 'lock that down' right away, but don't tell her that yet. Keep the dates fun, playful, and sexy. A woman who is seriously looking for a mate will be paying attention. She'll read your actions and your words and gauge your interest in her...and she'll know. Things will progress or they won't, and you can tell this fairly quickly too. If you're not feeling it, cut if off before the third date. 'I really like you but I don't feel like we're connecting on an emotional level, and that's a really important thing in a relationship', is what I would say. Its honest, and it's respectful.

Respect, honesty, kindness and humility is definitely the way to go… with anything really❣️

A Filipina I met when visiting Dumaguete started telling me she loved me after only one hour of meeting her. After a while she would bring up marriage. Finally, I had to tell her that I do not want a girlfriend. This seemed to have cooled her jets a bit. I try to remain friends only with her. She is ready to change that as soon as she can, but I intend to stay single without a girlfriend. I would rather be good friends for quite a long time. Wish me luck. Charles

Your husband is really a good guy miga.. I'm impressed The husband of Mia (Filipina Life with Mia) gave advice on this subject and I was sooo angry. He said the foreigner should take the girl to a restaurant, excuse himself to go to the CR, go back home, take all the Filipina's stuff outside, change the locks, and hide inside until she gets her stuff and leaves. What a jerk! He was totally serious. I'm glad you guys gave the best advice. It's about showing respect and humility Oh my daughter likes your channel too so that makes two of us.

At the end leah was like, Gary you're stuck with me forever lol 😂 And Gary was like it's a blessing lol... lucky man

I love watching the 2 of you together! Leah leans in towards Gary and looks at him with so much admiration! 😍 Gary is so gentle, caring and loving! He reminds me so much of a youth pastor I learned to know! In fact, I believe his name was Gary also! What a coincidence it would be if he is the same person! Lol Love you guys!

Your break-up scenarios start from the assumption that the girl didn't do anything really bad, like cheating you with other men. I divorced my Filipina after a 14-year marriage when I found out that she was sleeping around, not with just one guy but with many. I'm not going to tell you how I handled that, because that would take too much time. What I can tell you is that I didn't confront her on the spur of the moment. I waited a long time during which I collected evidence and had her followed. My story reads like an episode of Dallas, where I tricked her into a meeting with her priest and where I was wired when I walked into his office, hoping to get a full confession on tape. I still have a complete voice-recording of that conversation. I got myself a very good lawyer who got me through this divorce without too much damage. Not every break-up is the same, but when you want to get rid of an adultorous wife, a man's got to do what a man's got to do.

Love how Leah look at her husband in admiration and love. Us men wish we all had that.

Well that's the first thing you both should sit down to talk about when first sit down and talk to see what are you really both looking for. That should eliminate a lot of expectations. So you both will have the understanding both are looking for. But if you see signs of her getting attached then you need to sit down and have another talk.

I met a Filipina in Toronto and after a few dates. We did sleep together. She says to me when do I get a key to your apartment ? She was in for a shock when I told her she wasn't getting one. Then she got mad at me because I wouldn't give her a key. The relationship was very short it ended after 3 months and the reason was I wouldn't let her move in

Great video. I think it’s important to not avoid the hard conversation. Just look in the eyes and be honest. His way of suggesting it’s the man’s fault is good. For me it’s very important to watch out for emotional instability from the beginning. This and immaturity avoids a lot of trouble. I also tell the woman from the beginning “can we agree that if at any time this doesn’t work for either one of us just tell the other person so they can move on”. This works well. Can you do a video for how to healthily handle the break up as a caring man who went through that?

It does work both ways. I had a Filipina just drop me like a bag of sh*t when her ex-partner came back into her life. They share a child together and it really didn't take much for her to go back to him even after he had cheated on her with 3 other women that she knew of. This was about 9 months after we hooked up. Her excuse was, "I need to do it for my child also". Half a year later, she is back on the streets with black eyes and looking worse than ever. I suppose Karma also had a say in how this would actually end.

I am naturally affectionate and want to say I love you earlier than I should. A guy can decide to love someone for the most part. Choose to commit and work through issues as they come as you are committed. The problem is that a guy's heart can lose steam when they think the filipina is not trustworthy. If they aren't wanting to change their relationship status or other red flags. For me, I have to fight against my own affectionate side to build the friendship and pursue the person to figure out if they are being disingenuous before any of the I love yous can come about. Lead by example, protect her heart by taking it slow incase it will not work out, etc. Great video, this was a good conversation to have.

11:26 In the Philippines, where adultery is considered a criminal offense, it is unlikely that a married woman would report her ex-partner, who is not her husband, for having a relationship with another married woman. This is because doing so could potentially put her in as much legal trouble as her ex-partner.

Great video Gary and Leah. I think another important (and obvious) point is don't promise your filipina girlfriend false promises that you are in love with her/want to marry her, etc in the beginning. Whether it's to get her into bed or to increase her interest in you, etc, it's just plain dirty pool in my book. Thanks for sharing and kind regards from Adrian and Che.

I agree and disagree on "ghosting", sometimes it's the only way, especially with western women that are going to play victim, complain, argue, blame everything on him, add drama and stress that doesn't need to be, but that can also apply to a Filipina. If she's a kind hearted lady then ghosting her is wrong, she should have a reason. Perhaps those men running into married women should have asked her if she could provide a CENOMAR, even if he has to pay for it they're cheap, earlier on before the relationship gets too serious, if she can't/won't, move on, separated is NOT single. Another thing you should do early on is let her know you aren't making any guarantees or promises, you want to go slow and see if she's the right one or not, that may help ease the pain if things don't work out, she'll know it was a possibility. One thing I can add to the DON'T DO list is, don't do it in public (Unless of course she's proven she's psychotic, then have as many witnesses as possible), it'll be embarrassing enough for her already, you don't need to add to that by doing it in public with all the marites around. I agree with being honest, but you contradicted your own statement, by saying put all the blame on yourself. You can't be honest and blame yourself if she's the problem. I will go with honesty every time, if she's to blame let her know she is, what she did that you won't accept or what boundaries she crossed, and the reason for breaking up with her. Again, this should be done in private. As far as not making her angry, all you can do is your best not to, some people are just prone to getting angry, it's a defense mechanism. No matter how polite, respectful, and kind you try to be, some are just going to go off the deep end. Either way, you should ALWAYS be polite and respectful, not just to her, but everyone.

Wow, you two really communicate well together. I wonder has it always been that way for you two or was it something that developed over time?

Great video and a great topic. Thank you for sharing. 🙂👍👍👍🙏

Awesome pointers guy's 🙏

Nice video, Gary and Leah. 👍

Well done video on the topic 😊

Thank you excellent video. ! 🌺

Great subject guys,we need alot more of them thank you both for your great insight.

Great video. I have wondered about this topic and leaned some things I didn't even know about thanks to this vid. I would hate to break someones heart which is why I'm not going to do online dating unless I meet the girl in person first. I already planned on being friends first to get to know them but still understand that they may get attached quickly. Thanks for tackling a topic that I haven't seen anyone else do.

Th ank you , excellent video !

thank you found this to be very interesting

I have a question. How do you date several Filipinas to find who is "the one", without dis-respecting them? Filipinas have this idea that the first time you see her, then it's marriage time. Nope, I want to meet 7-8 and see which one is more compatible with my lifestyle and personality. But how do I meet 7-8, if every one of them is super-jealous and want to marry by yesterday and be totally exclusive?

very good advice on everything you said .

That's the best way to do it just be honest with the person that you meet in the Philippines or any where in the world

Yes! Thank you . I tried you’re way 7 times and it worked very well each and every time!😊

I needed this video. I’m about to broke up with my Filipina of 1 year 4 month of LDR. I was going to visit her this December, but I will be visiting not to meet her, but to fine a nice Filipina on my visit. She I understand that she’s from a very poor family, but she’s self centered and has a survival mindset. She’s so financially demanding almost like she’s trying to extract as much as she can.

I agree totally with you on the whole subject. I loved it totally ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Excellent video! If she doesn't meet to your requirements you shouldn't involved with her at all.

Just tell her that you don't have money and struggle like most Filipinos and they will automatically lose interest in you

Listening to this makes me grateful. I’ve never broken up with anyone. My wife and I wrote to each other at least a year before we ever met in person. We both agree on one man, one woman, for life. We’ve been married for just shy of 30 years.

It's easily to break-up someone especially ur partner cheated on u,,, because now a days it's really hard to trust someone ,, Leah ur very very lucky to have Gary in ur life he's really hands-on man.

Great Video! I can relate to this topic as I have had to break up with a couple Filipinas because they got too serious too quick. After just one conversation I was called honey, darling, dear, and baby. They demanded that I make constant contact with them (visit, call, text) even before we had been on a proper date. The clinginess only got worse with each passing day. After two weeks I felt smothered and knew I had to end it. I tried to be as respectful as possible, but let me say hell hath no fury like a Filipina scorned. Upon letting them know that I no longer wanted to talk to them, never have I been subjected to such name calling, threats of violence, and legal action. I never even kissed these Filipinas, and I told them it was me and not them. I feel very fortunate that I got out when I did.

Lol great video 😂 so.. “How to breakup” answer = “Don’t” 🤣🤣 [squirrel 🐿️ giggle] 👏👏😋

That was funny at the end , Leah says "cuz you're stuck with me forever, hehehe" It actually sounded pleasant hearing it from a Filipina woman! Its different when an american woman says something like that. American women make it sound like they are going to torture the man for the rest of his life when they say that! Im over american women... they require too much time, effort, and resources with often little to no return on the emotional & financial investment. A relationship is supposed to be a partnership, it takes two people investing in each other for a better happier life full of love and happiness TOGETHER. Im happy for you and your husband. Im getting my passport soon as i can. Im open to talking to a 20+ year old single woman from there online in the meantime. Find me an online date? Im ready

Fifty ways to leave your lover by Paul Simon. Slip out the back, Jack. Make a new plan, Stan. You don't need to be coy, Roy. Hop on the bus, Gus. Just drop of the key, Lee. If this song were written now, you could add, Send an SMS, Jess. And get yourself free!

I just started talking to a lovely Filipina online and she already started with the mahal KO and as much as I appreciate it, it does make me wary because I feel that she’s only doing that because thats what she thinks I want to hear. I’m very apprehensive when a women tells me she loves me after 48 hours of barley knowing each other.

Make a video on how to deal with demanding and controlling filipinas.

I love your voice

Just don't pay anything

There is no thing as a right girl, she could be right one day and wrong the next.

Yeah… I tried to talk to her about how it’s not working. You know. Calmly and rationally and explained how it’s best if we just move on. Well after I finished each sentence she hit me. Then she cried. Then she threatened suicide. Keeping all that in mind… the only option is to send a message, leave town, and block. Tried to be respectful. Didn’t work.

When I was there in the US Navy, we were told never tell a Filipina "I love you" . They said she could report to the authorities that you promised to marry her and they could put you on a hold. Causing you to miss ships movement. Is that true? This was in 1986

Thanks for this video. Now that I here how the Filipino women can get wow. I don't think getting into a relationship is a good thing for me. Thanks again for this information.

Talk is cheap when you pull all of the emotions out and then give relationship advise

The better one is the most honest. Lol

A break up should be the last opinion

So I'm on a dating site Christian filipino. I'm talking with about 5 women they don't know I talking with other ladies they are in Manila and Iloilo some of them have told me they love and want to spend the rest of their lives with me. So what is a good way to break with these women that say they love me when we haven't even seen each other face to face we just send pictures of each other and talk on Google chat. I've been to the philippines I live in California. They is one woman that I really like and want to be in a serious relationship with her. How can I end it with these other women I've never seen face to face.

Gary used to tell women he loved them so he could bed them in his bad days, lol... I think I did that once or twice

Leah looking beautiful in this video by the way.

Just tell them you dont have anymore money. Fights always start over money. 1st find one thats already working 2nd no kids 3rd smart and educated 4th established and isn't needy 5th older and understands life , over 35 plus .

Lol, let's be honest, it's not you, It's me 😂

Hell hath no fury, like a Filipina scorned!

you are so correct you guys cuz my Philippine fiance is the most amazing person we're going on 22 months we never met in person yet but it's amazing relationship honest loyal she does not hide nothing you can never ask a woman what my fiance does Super honest keep up the good work guys enjoy your videos I'm a foreigner from Canada and my fiance Philippine

it should be normal to be respectfull to each other and end it in an personall discusion, but actually in my live it was allways opposite, they tried to steel money at the end was very disrespektfull to me even i tried to be respektfull, and yes it was all my fault and i dont like to have to tell thats the mans fault all i mean both made mistake but important to be respektfull also at the end, but my wife treatet me like dort under her feet, hope in your country its better. Good conversation but a little haevy on the woman side like all man are bad and make woman sad its also opossite 😎 important to stay positive with the next partner and ket such things behind you

Gary. A man I know is also married to a filipina here in the States. He told me when he retires he wants to move to the Philippines. But his wife wants to become a US citizen and she doesn’t want to move back to her own country (I think he married her there in the Philippines then brought her here to America) He told me that if she doesn’t want to return with him to her country, once he retires, he will leave her here in the States. I didn’t know what to say about that. What advise would you give him…or her?

just tell her then wait till your dead then she might move on

Just be honest and lie to her ,saying it's all me not you, it's illegal to be with a married woman, but wouldn't that work both ways?

Well I love sex but postponing sex as long as possible smart find out who you're dealing with before you get too serious. If she has an incompatible personality are some other characteristics that are highly negative you can always abandon ship a lot easier if you have Not up her body count. You want to thoroughly investigate a woman before you think about making her your wife. Take your time mistakes can cost you big time.

If you all are Christians, like you say you are, why aren't you speaking up for God. You shouldn't sleep together before marriage. Only a Christian should marry a Christian. Gary, if you claim to be a Christian, take a stand for what God's word says.

No, it's not a good idea to suggest people how to beak off with a filipina, people are already too bad

The easiest way is to say "It's not you, it's me. I'm gay."

🤣this is a first

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The worse advice I've ever heard. Lol