Clarity during breakups is the way to go because ghosting someone is so cruel and insensitive
@kurhulandlovuzulu67583 жыл бұрын
Some men deserve to be ghosted
@sofi16723 жыл бұрын
Yes, he ghosted me for 6 months. He texted me last week. It’s my time for me to be the ghost forever.
@abigailkahiga51793 жыл бұрын
When someone ghosts you, respect the dead and move on - credit to the owner
@vilmaheslop3223 жыл бұрын
Wow Benjamin you have hit 🎯 some high notes,I wish you and social media were around in my day's when I was young... you are a well of welth for today's youngsters... hope they take notes......👍 watching fr Jamaica keep up the good work.
@lamaranabalde60843 жыл бұрын
Nice talks. I'm a huge fan of Mwikali from Dubai
@felixosongo55843 жыл бұрын
The show everyone should listen to 🔥👌Zulu and Mwikali God bless you abundantly
@sycostiirene74393 жыл бұрын
I wish people would think like this before hurting others. Thanks Benjamin
@versitymuthoni26973 жыл бұрын
we forgive weakness and mistakes and not wickedness.this was so powerful.thank you Benjamin.
@ImeldaMargaret3 жыл бұрын
The loyal people are waiting patiently for the premier 😂
@LifeWithSittie Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅
@sibusisondlovu74913 жыл бұрын
You look beautiful Ms Mwikali
@TheTwinkleGG3 жыл бұрын
This here is one of the best Benjamin Zulu videos. Thanx you for this. It is amazing.
@Byronwanjau3 жыл бұрын
No words, but I leave everything to God.
@itsdelidory3 жыл бұрын
You forgive mistakes and weaknesses but you shall not forgive wickedness and character flaws .. I need to keep reading this
@valerieesther55493 жыл бұрын
Good. It is important that the person is clear that they are ending it because ambiguity is just cowardly and mean. It attracts curses to trifle with someone's heart!
@gordononyango26503 жыл бұрын
Hi zulu and Mwikali anice topic , i have learnt alot from this show , continue with the good job
@fatmanasir66913 жыл бұрын
Mwikali your dress is glorious. My kind..please stand up. As for exits, do it respectfully. I can bear witness. Most of my exes we are friends. I'm glad I never was dramatic. But I would be careful still cos of the amicable breakup lest you find yourself in their arms..
@anonymoustube13 жыл бұрын
benjamin zulu! speaks all factsss👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@janejanny6723 жыл бұрын
I love your show Mwikali and Zulu good advice indeed
@traceytembo92063 жыл бұрын
We r humans first and as such we need to treat each other with sensitivity, even in break ups..
@sofi16723 жыл бұрын
Yes, he ghosted me for 6 months. He texted me last week. It’s my turn to be the ghost forever.
@vennahopiyo38653 жыл бұрын
Block that number and delete it
@sofi16723 жыл бұрын
@@vennahopiyo3865 Thank you 💕
@faithmakumbo40602 жыл бұрын
Let bygones be bygones
@poulapoula63543 жыл бұрын
Wow my future sweetheart if your here hop you are taking notes me too am just doing the same thank you zulu and mwikali for this wonderful talk
@lifeisforthelivingwithyoly73603 жыл бұрын
I am 😂😂😂😂
@anaksa44123 жыл бұрын
Sometimes its better to remain silent 🤐to know wat kind of a person you're dealing with, "then i got a text, saying 🙄🙄i never know that i was that burden to you
@Ombande753 жыл бұрын
Great information. Breakups are hard ., but the way you break up and move on is what matters. Maybe Zulu should talk about divorce .. should the two people never ever talk again ? What if children are involved ? I got divorced after 15 yrs of marriage , two kids involved.. my exe snd I have not seen or talked for 9 years because it was a very bad vicious divorce .. we just started talking a year ago because we had kids together snd wanted our kids to have access to both of us . Can Zulu talk about bad divorces snd how to handle life after divorce
@dinahjane29213 жыл бұрын
Silence for me is the best medicine 🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐luvly show
@urbanusmutunga25463 жыл бұрын
You guys have helped me a lot, I'm in the same situation now but I thank God you came at the right time. Thank you for your advice
@nyiranezamollen62073 жыл бұрын
Can't say much, but I really appreciate for all your dvices Mr.Zulu. Blessings
@virginiahnjoroge45433 жыл бұрын
Benjamin,I love your energy.
@martinmwenda35513 жыл бұрын
Unafanya nini kwa kichaka🤔🤔
@virginiahnjoroge45433 жыл бұрын
@@martinmwenda3551 Just chilling 😎
@lucieblessing13 жыл бұрын
Mwikali and Zulu your making my life fit
@annengei28143 жыл бұрын
Sandwiching words hahaha!Benjamin will kill me with laughter ...really
@MathewKenyi183 жыл бұрын
Oh! Switch TV, why cut short the last question? Please lets finish all the questions. Some of us watch on KZfaq Only or we are not in Kenya. keep it up Benjamin Zulu.
@irenenjeri35443 жыл бұрын
Hii segment ya benjaa inakaa haki before u upload...the way i kp on checking...how slowly benja is becoming an addiction..he needs to start thinking of paying my dowry 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😍😍😍😍
@SwitchTVKenya3 жыл бұрын
Will upload soon
@raelnzulu1433 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣really???? 👧 You ain't serious
@irenenjeri35443 жыл бұрын
@@raelnzulu143 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣wewe ata ushachukua jina yake kama sirname???
@raelnzulu1433 жыл бұрын
@Irene Njeri, no my dear, What if I say he is my young bro?
@irenenjeri35443 жыл бұрын
@@raelnzulu143 then i must say u are blessed ooo
@okwarepatrick55253 жыл бұрын
I love the inspire skills...I am great I learn alot
@upendofancy17813 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I love everything about this show..
@leonidahayuma95283 жыл бұрын
Thanks Benjamin and Mwikali , learning alot
@ruthmutinda65223 жыл бұрын
interesting topic indeed Wa musyi, mwiks 🥰 ya looking gorgeous
@kammusic223 жыл бұрын
Someone just told me am going to marry and that was a break up. So I don't tolerate no sense if am breaking up with you I don't have mercy I just break up my life matters . You know if pple still have their mothers they don't know what love is . Me I know what love is you don't tell me how to break up there is nothing I fear to lose.
@julianangwira93383 жыл бұрын
Mwikali's outfit👌🔥🔥🔥
@marionmassaquoi89823 жыл бұрын
Pink is my favorite color, she looks beautiful.
@elizabethwanjiku30123 жыл бұрын
Ts pink
@marionmassaquoi89823 жыл бұрын
@@elizabethwanjiku3012 Thanks
@felixosongo55843 жыл бұрын
Nikama amepata jiko na makaaa😅
@joycemiracle15883 жыл бұрын
MEMORIES OF THE PAST ARE ALWAYS EXAGGERATED; IMAGINATIONS OF THE FUTURE ARE ALWAYS EXAGGERATED
@barnicerayzy32913 жыл бұрын
Am good at this i never wished to break heart badly but i sugarcoatted it 😊😊
@elizabethwanjiku30123 жыл бұрын
So educative
@joycemiracle15883 жыл бұрын
EMOTIONS DON'T REASON
@claricekish57123 жыл бұрын
Joyce omondi alienda wapi ?....loving the show
@rhodachao34493 жыл бұрын
Wisdom dripping
@caduss21743 жыл бұрын
We need this guy in KM live
@janemuthoni84043 жыл бұрын
Learn to get indirect messages, people expose their true character by how they talk about others. That was deep,, was in such a scenario and I hated any time he would talk negative things of his ex's, thankfully I walked away earlier.
@morineakinyi11163 жыл бұрын
Thank you zulu
@lukubwelydia89253 жыл бұрын
Perfect advice.. Wooow
@Nakitende2563 жыл бұрын
Am shaking my head like mwikali
@Shee_Wainaina3 жыл бұрын
Why am I relating to all this, good thing is I made up my mind and it was not a discussion,it was a decision,my decision.
@oliviaisezerano10863 жыл бұрын
Thank you Zulu.
@thebaddie3913 жыл бұрын
Benjamin Zulu is good shame. Everyday he confirms things for me 😱
@AuntyZippy3 жыл бұрын
Aki this is 💯 me.... thank you so much Zulu
@damarismwande14333 жыл бұрын
Mwiks UA outfit is super
@carolerbph.d35673 жыл бұрын
Great video, pack of valuable info.!
@CleanKenya3 жыл бұрын
Mwikali is something tho! Alipata mtu btw?
@lucymwangi65293 жыл бұрын
True naked truth develop n build ur self
@agaltoto85063 жыл бұрын
Mazee......Benjamin Zulu is such a vibe. I have laughed like crazy.
@dorcaskirimi20233 жыл бұрын
wisdom flowing thanks zulu and mwikali.mwikali bring zulus wife on full circle plz we want to hear her wisdom too
@charlottemakala21063 жыл бұрын
I looove Mwikali's dress!!
@lydiakanah44783 жыл бұрын
That is me since that day we have never met again. Break up no drama
@stellahmiles23693 жыл бұрын
Am here
@janetmbula7893 жыл бұрын
Zulu reality talk always
@bondiblugirl3 жыл бұрын
Zulu that's a situationship😂😂😂
@positivesoul.94903 жыл бұрын
Here we are
@annagrethareses79083 жыл бұрын
very imformative!
@mutheujoy60933 жыл бұрын
One morning someone woke up and told me ,"He is no longer interested"😂 Me :Nisawa pia ,Mimi sioni shida🤣 After 3 weeks we met somewhere ,He couldn't face me Alikuwa anajificha. Why thou?😂🤣
@NS-ru1yf3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@esthermutua12873 жыл бұрын
Good subject
@keysremasarah82543 жыл бұрын
ohhh 😂😂😂😂 it's the laugh for me
@mercylinesato12373 жыл бұрын
So which is the right age to date?
@Bee-wd4mh3 жыл бұрын
Zulu, thank you!
@mahlodinorah4873 жыл бұрын
Ah, I hv just said all ugly things abt a person. Ag, but some need to be told man, especially after 3 break ups, going n coming. I had to bring a Sr top to things.
@ondiekimonginah89633 жыл бұрын
Can I just ghost them
@tshegofatsolentsoana62423 жыл бұрын
Ke mo tseleng ya go ya Dubai. Ke tla e lebelela gabotse ge ke fihla 🙂
@carolinek66873 жыл бұрын
Am in that point where have grown apart, am just not happy😭😭😭
@stephaniemarlon3 жыл бұрын
Sorry😔
@joywairimu23723 жыл бұрын
😳😳😳😳
@MAQHIKS3 жыл бұрын
Good morning my fav people 💖🤩
@kimberlytv78953 жыл бұрын
This is reality show,anaeleza vizuri but still inauma🤣
@mwajumanyorido70563 жыл бұрын
Zulu uko sawa
@evalynphillips55613 жыл бұрын
Hey Zulu and Mwikali. You dont tell straight like that. How about distancing and going upcountry to visit your parents on weekends. After a small quarrel you can call se that chance to walk away ?
@anaksa44123 жыл бұрын
Those lines 😁😁ziko saafi but our kenyan men😌😌😌1% out 100😔😔
@felixamollo59263 жыл бұрын
Unatuonea 😅😹😅
@anaksa44123 жыл бұрын
@@felixamollo5926 am not, 😁😁but our men🤔🤔to apologize n ngumu sana😔
@stellahnjagiakaemma90573 жыл бұрын
On Km lñ lñ pm pm lol lñ Ok n0pj ink p
@singalonglyrics63873 жыл бұрын
wawawawawawa he he he eti Romance to romans are still the same thing
@sarahniyel16272 жыл бұрын
Lv u zuru from ug but after broke up but immaginwtions
@erikaasen40813 жыл бұрын
Break up because trust ended and his family is toxic
@clareowens64763 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏
@joram.51273 жыл бұрын
Good Stuff, Hakuna msee aliambia BENJA akona uchafu kwa trouser apanguse...
@emmakaruri92673 жыл бұрын
True
@kiito_s_World3 жыл бұрын
Emotions never grow up. Chaai
@lilynaisiaenchoko34032 жыл бұрын
In life pay attention to the exits..alah
@blackmanmaina93243 жыл бұрын
100 percent!!
@everlynnyaberi11203 жыл бұрын
If time's would change
@nitawilliams97263 жыл бұрын
omg
@neemawairimu26563 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@shirowapk3 жыл бұрын
He is too dramatic....but good message....he needs to breathe as he advises