How To Change Your Child's Behavior : Follow These 3 Rules!

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Murtaza Badri

Murtaza Badri

7 жыл бұрын

What to do if you don't yell, abuse and hit your child? Watch the second part of this video where I help you advance your bond and love with your child.
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With all due respect to parents, but I strongly believe that parents who hit, yell and abuse are stupid, dumb, arrogant, dominating and have no respect for themselves or the child. These parents lack love, empathy and need to update their parenting skills BIG TIME!!!
I have a solution for parents who are struggling with their child’s behavior. It could be stubbornness, aggression, lying, disrespect, back answering, hyperactive, attention disorder or something else, it really does not matter.
The solution is to follow 3 Rules that I personally use and have explained in the video. I promise you will see a change in your child's behaviour within a few days.
Only and only if you can sustain following the 3 Rule’s for 30 days and still don’t get results, send me an email on crm@murtazabadri.com and I will personally coach you for free. The reason is that it might be a little more complex and might need an intervention.
Some parents are going through a lot of stress and anxiety and I highly recommend they watch this video for an effective parenting solution.
Share the video and comment, which rule are you struggling with the most.
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@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
What to do if you don't yell, abuse and hit your child? Watch the second part of this video where I help you advance your bond and love with your child. English video Link - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qNiKqr1e1a2UfXk.html Hindi video Link - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ns5_jKlhqNe8fH0.html With all due respect to parents, but I strongly believe that parents who hit, yell and abuse are stupid, dumb, arrogant, dominating and have no respect for themselves or the child. These parents lack love, empathy and need to update their parenting skills BIG TIME!!!
@starqueenlotus3755
@starqueenlotus3755 5 жыл бұрын
MY PARENTS ARE NARCISSISTIC. I WANT TO GET OVER THEM, MOVE ON AND LIVE A HAPPY LIFE. I AM STUCK.
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
How old are you? if above 18 and can manage yourself and your life... then move on and live a happy life... who's stopping you?
@HappyKidsTVColoringForKids
@HappyKidsTVColoringForKids 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this information. I will surely be trying them out.
@carlosmendez3757
@carlosmendez3757 5 жыл бұрын
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@nishaabdul4670
@nishaabdul4670 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sir i will try this in shaa Allah
@mukramjabri3168
@mukramjabri3168 5 жыл бұрын
now a days as all knows raising a good child becomes a very big task. ... Allah help us and make khair
@RosaPBabu
@RosaPBabu 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382
@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 2 жыл бұрын
It sure is we need to get effective strategies
@AQ12804
@AQ12804 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this video. I watched and took on the challenge for 4 days now. I am loving the results. My 2 year old was going out of control and I felt really helpless.
@larrynewman7087
@larrynewman7087 5 жыл бұрын
nicely said.....keep promoting love and kindness . .the world is dying because people forgot to be humble and kind.....i wish everyone peace and happiness!
@MsUri26
@MsUri26 5 жыл бұрын
OMG. I had tears because this Is exactly what we going through.
@kryptickiddo8481
@kryptickiddo8481 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@shivaniagarwal8641
@shivaniagarwal8641 4 жыл бұрын
Yaaa same here....
@knbhargavi9009
@knbhargavi9009 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@fawad9254
@fawad9254 3 жыл бұрын
Same situation with me as well
@aguilarchristine3401
@aguilarchristine3401 2 жыл бұрын
OMG me too I ended up crying for my child I also feel so helpless when I cant control her. Thats really true.
@kuajohnbare4827
@kuajohnbare4827 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks brother, I have four kids and by watching this video I will try to change my approach to discipline my children
@JustME-zn2vu
@JustME-zn2vu 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this! I’m a first time mom and trying to figure out how to parent my baby and I find myself yelling all the time. I plan on stopping and getting my daughters attention and talk, that seems to help the best.
@naomirussell-tucker4578
@naomirussell-tucker4578 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! Much needed and I will strive to follow the 3 golden rules. Confirmed what the problem has been in my family.
@786salmay
@786salmay 4 жыл бұрын
Very difficult to do in my situation HOWEVER I will try to implement these three rules In Shaa Allah .. May Allah SWT make it easier for me and all ... Jazak Allahu khairn kaseera brother Murtaza
@khadijai.6270
@khadijai.6270 5 жыл бұрын
will try this 3 things InshaAllah 1) no yelling 2) no abusing 3) no hitting
@786inspirations7
@786inspirations7 5 жыл бұрын
🤗
@HappyKidsTVColoringForKids
@HappyKidsTVColoringForKids 5 жыл бұрын
Definitely worth trying. This is good information.
@rahimumar5175
@rahimumar5175 5 жыл бұрын
ee
@travisneely5754
@travisneely5754 4 жыл бұрын
Get out of here
@tousiyapendari556
@tousiyapendari556 4 жыл бұрын
Lol... Difficult to not yell when ur child pulls your hair, scratch your face and bites you everywhere
@robbinsnest6163
@robbinsnest6163 5 жыл бұрын
I'm guilty of yelling, thankfully not hitting or verbally abusing. But I hate yelling. I need to work on that.
@WA-hornet007
@WA-hornet007 4 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@babukannan2556
@babukannan2556 Жыл бұрын
Sir this is Rekha from Chennai my Son is13years old he is not leasing anything and not Even doing his own things Sir I'd don't have thing to do please give me some good point's to teach him
@robertomendez187
@robertomendez187 9 ай бұрын
You can do it! Children listen more when you don’t yell. Because they feel loved and respected
@nabilakhan7231
@nabilakhan7231 5 жыл бұрын
i'm so thankful to you for this video, i'll find a way to make my mother watch this (my father is lost already and can't change anymore).
@mohammedyasin4207
@mohammedyasin4207 5 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah..…................….......…. Very truly said Inshallah I will follow all these rules.Allah(SWT)has given us a precious gift..........that is our kids
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
A gift.. no one can buy or create without the creator.
@tamasha4
@tamasha4 5 жыл бұрын
1. Stop yelling and start respecting for who he/ she was. 2. Stop verbal abuse 3. Stop Physical abuse.
@tanziyafathima3611
@tanziyafathima3611 4 жыл бұрын
srrr
@umaannita1493
@umaannita1493 4 жыл бұрын
Im not doing any of this...but my son is naughty😭.
@anthonyfletcher8053
@anthonyfletcher8053 4 жыл бұрын
Uma Annita is their a man in the house?
@gamzeelmao1157
@gamzeelmao1157 4 жыл бұрын
My mom be like: im just going to pretend i didnt see that
@elizrebezilmadommdo1662
@elizrebezilmadommdo1662 4 жыл бұрын
You'd think this would be basic common sense but apparently not
@tasneemindorewala6697
@tasneemindorewala6697 7 жыл бұрын
it was a grt to c u sharing these basic rules. definitely if it would b applied by every single parent ,I m sure there would b magic or miracle I must say.. thnx for sharing this vedio..
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 7 жыл бұрын
The challenge is will parents use them.
@salsabilajanny9610
@salsabilajanny9610 5 жыл бұрын
you hit the spot brother.I think we all get the same problems with our kids.all what you sate today in this video is true.the majority of parents are yelling.abusing their kids verbally and physically.I will follow your advices and I hope improve and empower my relations with my little kids.
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the honesty and share.. hope you find the courage to apply these 3 rules.
@nosaefionayi7302
@nosaefionayi7302 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this wonderful video. I will put the 3 golden rule on my brain and I Will discipline myself to do it. Sometimes we parents release anger, frustrations, most especially when things are not going well, and they don't listen.
@lubnamirza7946
@lubnamirza7946 5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful advice. So true. I wish I watched this video 14 years ago.
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
Does not matter start now and make a good ending.
@bilalhyder8098
@bilalhyder8098 Жыл бұрын
📌 3 Golden rules: 1. Stop yelling and start requesting softly with postive tone. 2. When yelling continues his/her minds shuts, and the cycle continues. 3. Stop verbal and physical abuse. Start loving them and spend time with them.
@Flamingosu
@Flamingosu 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the reminders.. I do the rules but get back to yelling. I will try my best. I am praying.
@shanthiebenezer203
@shanthiebenezer203 5 жыл бұрын
thats true. its a wonderful msg for us to follow. keep sharing. starts with yelling and ends with physical abuse. its all bcos of parents expectations are not met. we shall try and keep you informed
@rajamanickamgnanasekaran6594
@rajamanickamgnanasekaran6594 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this information. I will follow this rules my entire life. Once again Thank you sir 🌹
@jeyasuthatamilarasan5560
@jeyasuthatamilarasan5560 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you brother I'm really undergoing this problem. Very much needed for me. I did all those you said. Now I got my mind going to apply your rules. Hope it works.
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
wish you courage, patience and love.
@iLuvTheMostHigh
@iLuvTheMostHigh 5 жыл бұрын
Hello, I would recommend : Echart Tolle: “A New Earth”/“Power of Now”.... Eckhart Tolle also did a 10 episode series live w/ Oprah Winfrey here on: KZfaq.
@rakshaabishekkanna2856
@rakshaabishekkanna2856 5 жыл бұрын
Every parent shud follow this. Thanks lot. God bless you bro
@treecytreez23
@treecytreez23 5 жыл бұрын
Shurkan my brother.. as a muslim woman mother and wife it gets extremely hard.. mahshallah!!! I needed to hear this.. Shukran🧕🏾
@user-B3autifu7
@user-B3autifu7 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@fancysonja
@fancysonja 5 жыл бұрын
thank you very much for your advices. I am a mother of 3 children (25,18,13) . I have always communicated with them in the way you are talking about. I must say it´s worth it. They are very understanding, helpful and open minded. Now I´m working with kids of parents I don´t even know. I´m helping them with the homework for school and I am with them for breakfast and lunch, but I realized, that I am not getting heard, if I talk to them like I talked to my own kids. (Would you please get off the shoes..?...…and so on) They don´t even give me the chance to talk to them;; either they run away or they say nasty things to me or they even kick with the foot in my direction. There are children who have almost no rules at home or there mothers go on holiday an leave the children at home with grandma. I don´t say anything against grandmas. Most of them do a very good job, but I ask myself: " Is this the way how children should grow up. And what can I do as a nanny to teach them how to get a friendly and successful person ?" Sometimes I´m really frustrated and don´t know anymore what to do and how to react. If everybody would follow your 3 rules, there would be less squarrels and disputes all over the world.
@vanessamcdonald1585
@vanessamcdonald1585 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you im a single parent of two and i need help with this . i am also young too . and trying my best to be calm
@magicbox2331
@magicbox2331 6 жыл бұрын
Thanku soo much
@nidahusain8034
@nidahusain8034 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sir.you explained things very well
@robertomendez187
@robertomendez187 9 ай бұрын
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Love your advice. I’m grateful I have never done any of these things. But we parents must fight against harming children 100%. Wonderful advice though. Thank you!
@teKKiJishan
@teKKiJishan 5 жыл бұрын
Im going to share this video with all my friends...jazzak allahu khairan brother....im a mother of 2 yrs daughter....Alhamdulillah im not hit my baby and my husband also....Allah hame sahi rah dikhaye...Ameen
@daaniausrat9500
@daaniausrat9500 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot sir I will apply this obviously
@ramannaik2078
@ramannaik2078 5 жыл бұрын
Very well said brother... god bless u
@khayrsheegmedia4311
@khayrsheegmedia4311 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks your advising. I appreciate.
@marcialovell5868
@marcialovell5868 Жыл бұрын
I completely agree with everything you are saying. Most parents become very frustrated dealing with their children.
@divinasantosh2853
@divinasantosh2853 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this video !!!
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
Most welcome : )
@jfkfashion8378
@jfkfashion8378 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@tabasumbs584
@tabasumbs584 5 жыл бұрын
Shukriya. . .
@Amir19347
@Amir19347 5 жыл бұрын
Jazakalllahu kher bro
@mkvkhuptong1833
@mkvkhuptong1833 5 жыл бұрын
I wish i see this before my son is born,i really appreciate it,thnks alot.
@kadeejaali1364
@kadeejaali1364 2 жыл бұрын
same regrets here😣😢
@nailsbymaz7214
@nailsbymaz7214 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so guilty of these things! Your right I need to change my behaviour and spend more time with my kids playing with them. Thank you
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 3 жыл бұрын
Most welcome
@tanyabullock5657
@tanyabullock5657 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your advice.
@affan2915
@affan2915 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much sir...... This is what I needed..... I'll follow it sir
@rockstar-rb4yl
@rockstar-rb4yl 5 жыл бұрын
Really true sir golden words
@alimulla7709
@alimulla7709 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks sir.... I will try to follow this 3 thinks... I think it will help... Thanks once again
@shireenhendricks2194
@shireenhendricks2194 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@kamamujawar3297
@kamamujawar3297 2 жыл бұрын
I promise I will stop abusing and hitting my child. Thanks for reminding me that I gave birth to my kids. So they are special to me. Thanks bro.
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 2 жыл бұрын
Most welcome 👍❤️
@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382
@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 2 жыл бұрын
You are special and your child is special please know that hitting is not Necessary there are more effective strategies that work
@azhargaming1485
@azhargaming1485 5 жыл бұрын
Yes you are right bro
@sayedhashimi2925
@sayedhashimi2925 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the information. We all struggling with the same difficulties as you said. May the Almighty help us all. Again Thank you for the video.
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
Most welcome!
@yasirmpr
@yasirmpr 5 жыл бұрын
Jazak Allah brother. I have one daughter I love her more than my life ..
@gamotventures7083
@gamotventures7083 5 жыл бұрын
This video made my day.I will put it in practice
@1amnickii329
@1amnickii329 4 жыл бұрын
I will try it starting this secound,Thank you.
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 4 жыл бұрын
You are awesome! Wish you courage, patience and persistence. Thanks for sharing.
@legendsbeast244
@legendsbeast244 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@SamiKhan-ev1rl
@SamiKhan-ev1rl 2 жыл бұрын
So glad I found this.
@fcmfamilycreatingmemories6746
@fcmfamilycreatingmemories6746 5 жыл бұрын
I so agree with this... Kids won't listen to us if we are frustrated, I learned for experience and change it and saw the different! thank you for sharing this and keep the good work of spreading the good parenting!
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@neetufarook6288
@neetufarook6288 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks sir I will follow ur golden rules🙏
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@mmkidsfunbymusfirahmusab7968
@mmkidsfunbymusfirahmusab7968 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot to show me a right way.
@katieowen4676
@katieowen4676 11 ай бұрын
You have delivered this message this message very compassionately! Well done and thanks YOU
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 9 ай бұрын
You are so welcome... thanks for your kind words.
@JayJay-lr5wm
@JayJay-lr5wm 5 жыл бұрын
Good video. Valuable information. I love your enthusiasm as you present this....
@lysa7211
@lysa7211 5 жыл бұрын
Needed to watch this again. I was doing good then I lost track
@mathanikayogachanthiran1579
@mathanikayogachanthiran1579 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, You open my eye. I really feel guilty, I definitely flow thees.
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 3 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! best of luck
@khatijahbinth-samad5199
@khatijahbinth-samad5199 5 жыл бұрын
Jazakallahu khairan wa kaseeran jidda brother.
@sanacraftlifetamil5062
@sanacraftlifetamil5062 6 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much...I'm facing these problems rite now... He s 6 years old...not going to school coz we changed his Skool for 2nd std...yesterday I hit him n scolded as u said..felt very bad n inshaallah I will change n accept your golden rules..thank u sir
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing and wish you love and patience with your child... the first step is to regret, the second step is to create an alternate behaviour and then start changing.
@worshipthecreator9081
@worshipthecreator9081 5 жыл бұрын
Never hit a child.
@afsahfarooq710
@afsahfarooq710 5 жыл бұрын
Never hit a child its a killer thats always an alternative
@fatimarazzaq7282
@fatimarazzaq7282 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you sooo muchhh for sharing these rules. I am a teacher and i really wanted to know what is getting wrong with my kids... Identifying these points are really what I wanted to hear right now... May Allah bless you with success and peace.
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 4 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you being honest and sharing... Thank you for your kind words.
@DeenOverDunya90
@DeenOverDunya90 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the advice.
@samrintaj418
@samrintaj418 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@memeiammemagic6263
@memeiammemagic6263 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so frustrated at my four year old son right now. He broke my new flat irons. And I haven't had them for a week yet. I want to whip his butt. Somehow I ran across this across this video and now I see I need to find a different approach. I thank you for thework that your doing. Cause now I know I am not alone in the battle of frustrations and parenthood.
@siyamahmed9907
@siyamahmed9907 5 жыл бұрын
Melissa Jasper Girl mine broke my iphone7 pluse and his new ipad his dad brougt .he broke the ipad with a screw drive and i just looked at him i felt my heart ace and i just cried .i didnt tell his bad yet coz its make me looking irrisponsiable
@dhchoudhury10
@dhchoudhury10 5 жыл бұрын
@Murtaza Badri, I suggest that you should keep your dumb satanic logics with yourself⚠ ....So kindly stop fooling the people here for your personal gain, just for the sake of making money persons like you have now started to flood the youtube with videos full of bullshits in the name of spreading knowledge⚠ ....Have you came here simply to improve your English speaking skills⚠ ....Today the world is going through the time phase of anti-christ, therefore majority parents all over the world are giving birth to children without knowing or infact don't want to know how to upbring a child⚠ ....Let me educate u, that only two true Prophetic and time tested policies exist in this world to educate and discipline any child, which are: 1) RELIGIOUS EDUCATION ALONGSIDE SECULAR EDUCATION WITH A FOCUS ON TEACHING THE CHILD ABOUT THE PUNISHMENTS FROM THE LORD IN BOTH THE WORLDS FOR DISRESPECTING ONE'S OWN PARENTS, and 2) STRICT GUARDIANSHIP ALONGSIDE GIVING JUST THE RIGHT QUANTITY OF LOVE"⚠ ....Using stick on the child upto the age of 15 years is compulsory inorder to create fear and respect for parents in the heart and mind of the child, this way the child will remain obedient and disciplined⚠ ....Pleasing the child too much by agreeing to fullfil all his/her wishes under the excuse of Love is the root cause of all the evils⚠ ....If you cannot discipline and make your child obedient than it is better to kill the child rather than succumbing to his/her's pressure or blackmailing tactics⚠ ....Otherwise, it would be better not to become parents if you can't remain strict with your children bcoz loose guardianship is a total "NO"⚠
@sonapurple2882
@sonapurple2882 5 жыл бұрын
Melissa Jasper please don't whip him. Poor boy didn't do it purposely. He loves u. Why will he hurt u. All my love to ur sweetie pie
@roohijamal
@roohijamal 5 жыл бұрын
Nice
@anasomar7863
@anasomar7863 5 жыл бұрын
Melissa Jasper jjq
@LindseyDawnArt
@LindseyDawnArt 5 жыл бұрын
I live by positive reinforcement with my kids and it works. I do yell im not going to lie and i hate myself for it afterwards and feel so guilty x
@nayimkhalil5780
@nayimkhalil5780 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your good advise
@evanthomas816
@evanthomas816 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you ...
@shesgoneforeverlife
@shesgoneforeverlife 2 жыл бұрын
Being a mom of five, I’ve always tried talking first and communicating. It’s hard because others in the home tend to not have the same patience and yell, verbally abuse and shame them. I can’t stand it. Have I yelled, absolutely. I always try the talking to them with manners first. It takes a lot for me to yell. I don’t like to ever lay any hands on my kids either. I’m now a new Grandma and love it. I’m still raising my young boys. Thank you for this great advice
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations ... you are doing a fantastic job! thanks for the share
@shesgoneforeverlife
@shesgoneforeverlife 2 жыл бұрын
@@MurtazaBadri I try my absolute best everyday. They are my gifts and I treat them as such. Thank you for the kind words. 😊
@jaredfigueroa1317
@jaredfigueroa1317 Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate this video. I was raised by a single mother who worked constantly, and through no fault of her own, wasn't able to spend as much time on herself and her child (me) as is necessary for healthy development. As a father of three now, a real fear of mine is not providing them the best environment possible for healthy mental and emotional development. I have been researching child psychology and putting a lot of thought into this, and videos like yours are worth their weight in gold. It feels like a literal lifeline to someone who at times feels like they're drowning. Thank you so much for what you do.
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 9 ай бұрын
Most welcome... thank you for your kind words
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 9 ай бұрын
Pls schedule a call at www.murtazbadri.com/call for us to help you with your current parenting challenge.
@smrity8520
@smrity8520 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks.
@ghousiyakazi5179
@ghousiyakazi5179 4 жыл бұрын
Super.. My eyes had tears lisning this This is what every parents should behave. Awesome talk 👌🏻👌🏻👍🏻👍🏻😊
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks a ton... sending you more love and peace
@verasverrucktevideos1810
@verasverrucktevideos1810 5 жыл бұрын
yelling and calling a child names is killing the bond. hitting kills trust and most of all the child is having self esteem issues later on. I grew up like this. now I am a mother of a 15 year old son and I don't yell at him. and I never hit him. talk, communication and logical consequences do the job. give them rules and also responsibilities. and trust me...my son was quite one hand full. he went through one hell of puberty with all you can imagine. I kept telling him that I love the person he essentially is. we had horrible 14 last months but now it's getting back to being respectful and loving. he even verbally said" thank you mom for loving me the way I am" those were the best words I have ever heard cause it showed me love is most important and not ego. thank you for sharing and confirming I always knew I wasn't wrong.
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
You are an Awesome Mom! You are proof that with love, belief and being Alive & Fearless you can help a child find and accept who they are with confidence.
@verasverrucktevideos1810
@verasverrucktevideos1810 5 жыл бұрын
+Murtaza Badri thank you 😊. yes I believe in unconditional love towards children. We as adults should lead the way and show them how to do right. we're responsible to form their personalities and this can only be accomplished with love and not with violence -physically and or verbally. we need to show them and tell them were here and love them. also with rules but never by withdrawing love.
@samrah1130
@samrah1130 5 жыл бұрын
U r lucky thy u hv child like that sb ayse ni hoty
@judithsonoiya922
@judithsonoiya922 5 жыл бұрын
Tinú Nes
@moonmirza7
@moonmirza7 5 жыл бұрын
How you managed...i had a tough time with my son...
@jm90929
@jm90929 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this wisdom, very informative, much appreciated :)
@malikaelyadiri7005
@malikaelyadiri7005 4 жыл бұрын
Every normal human been knows that,whe dont need him to tell us that.
@SamSam-ic4he
@SamSam-ic4he 5 жыл бұрын
Jazakallahu kahaira! Bro insha allah!
@knbhargavi9009
@knbhargavi9009 4 жыл бұрын
I will do it for sure. Thank you sir🙏
@9888342744
@9888342744 5 жыл бұрын
I love you sir with respect u give sach a great advice and very. Useful for me I really satrgel with my 2year old daughter I am thankful to u
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
Most welcome, happy to help.
@aishaabdullahi8188
@aishaabdullahi8188 5 жыл бұрын
Salam brother, I am a Nigerian a mother of three, 2 daughters & a son... My first daughter is 7, she is not listening to any of my words that I get frustrated so I yell & even hit her..... Honestly after watching this I regretted everything, In sha Allah I will use the 3 golden method.... Astagfirullah!!!
@nalusibajuliet4717
@nalusibajuliet4717 5 жыл бұрын
My boy likes fighting back ..is it age coz is three
@olidabegum9092
@olidabegum9092 5 жыл бұрын
😂
@khaledmahmood6599
@khaledmahmood6599 5 жыл бұрын
May God guide you..
@JannatJannat56
@JannatJannat56 5 жыл бұрын
Aisha Abdullahi Never hit her specially your first child .Even if she doent listen to you .First child is very sensitive .I lost my daughter I used to hit her when she was young now she is grown up and she stopped talking to us she is not talking to anybody in the house .
@nooreharam9574
@nooreharam9574 5 жыл бұрын
@@JannatJannat56 Mujh sy b yeah glti Hu Mera baby 2.5 years Ka h Mai ab boht pachtati Hu Plzzzz btay kya abhi m usko change kr skti hu?
@dbm903
@dbm903 Жыл бұрын
Wow Ma’sha’Allah amazing rules n I’m going to try that Jazak Allahu khairyn brother
@naichatafofana9168
@naichatafofana9168 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much
@sangiprabakar
@sangiprabakar 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed brother! 👌👍👏
@joyhsiuyinkwa3435
@joyhsiuyinkwa3435 5 жыл бұрын
Good job well done brother.......God bless........
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@user-pp6jd3ub8n
@user-pp6jd3ub8n Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the advice,all you said it's true .I will keep on listening to your videos.
@Idont_YT
@Idont_YT 3 ай бұрын
I Agree with you i am going through the same situation thank you so much for your help
@vi_illusionworld111
@vi_illusionworld111 5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely right
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@e.shivpriya1176
@e.shivpriya1176 5 жыл бұрын
Bhai u are right, I some time do it. I feel shame of myself. I will follow it.
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
awesome!
@jamesoumar
@jamesoumar 5 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you. People think I spoil my boy because I always talk to him nicely even he is wrong but thank God my child at the moment he is the sweet and respectful child. He is 13 years now🙏
@vandanajoshi633
@vandanajoshi633 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you...so much..
@NJWAANAA
@NJWAANAA 4 жыл бұрын
I love ur possitive energy that you charge us with😍😍😍
@johnnyappleseed6960
@johnnyappleseed6960 5 жыл бұрын
#1 Take their phone away #2 Explain clearly and calmly how to get it back #3 Dont give it back until the behavior change agreement is achieved/demonstrated for the time period agreed upon. No "yelling" needed, no hate involved.
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks.
@EnlightenedEndeavor
@EnlightenedEndeavor 5 жыл бұрын
No cell phone, until 16 years of age, thats the rule in our family. Kids got used to that rule, and no more questions.
@seekingknowledge488
@seekingknowledge488 5 жыл бұрын
JazakAllahu Khair for your response and that you wish my dad has good health and life, ameen
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
: )
@sunnieenglishmedium7082
@sunnieenglishmedium7082 5 жыл бұрын
Tnq brother, I will try these rules
@user-ft9tp4ss2d
@user-ft9tp4ss2d 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video and made me guilty, I sure follow these rules and take care of my sons...
@ns5827
@ns5827 5 жыл бұрын
My son and his wife were to have a baby. He asked me once that what does it take to be a good parent? I responded: you only need three things; 1) love your child unconditionally, 2) be a good example, 3) keep in-laws and non-immediate family at bay - that’s right even they should know their limits. For sanity sake, don’t preach your kids to death. Action speaks louder than words.
@mickeyjojoone4692
@mickeyjojoone4692 5 жыл бұрын
just my strategy and ofcourse constantly teaching them God's way.
@Ayesha-Siddiqa573
@Ayesha-Siddiqa573 5 жыл бұрын
You're such a sweet mom and mom-in law
@MurtazaBadri
@MurtazaBadri 5 жыл бұрын
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@ishwaakahmed9132
@ishwaakahmed9132 2 жыл бұрын
@@tousiyapendari556 lool exactly
@sam5687
@sam5687 2 жыл бұрын
Inlaws at bay? What about your own family
@khadijachaar9114
@khadijachaar9114 5 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right thanks for the video
@samadtupsy4138
@samadtupsy4138 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah you are right thank you so much bhai
@johnreeve-hayes7040
@johnreeve-hayes7040 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this wisdom. A reminder to not shout!
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