In this episode, Julie ( @thesecurerelationship ) discusses the importance of creating healthy and secure attachment styles in relationships. She explains how the modern world has led to an increase in insecure attachment and offers insights into how we can shift towards a more secure and fulfilling relationship dynamic. Julie emphasizes the importance of validation, emotional support, and empathy in creating secure attachment. She also addresses the misconception of hyper-independence and the need for validation from others. Throughout the conversation, Julie provides practical tips and skills for developing a secure attachment with oneself and one's partner.