how to cultivate strong self-love | filling the void you feel

how to cultivate strong self-love | filling the void you feel | @tiffanylaibhen

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7 ай бұрын

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can we be honest for a sec? how many times have we been on the asking end of respect, love, honesty, compassion (the list goes on) ..that we fail to give ourselves? we're diving into self-awareness + taking responsibility for the role we play in our own longing... and also into the power we hold to change that immediately.. grab your bevvys + let's get into it 🍷
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@TiffanyTV 6 ай бұрын

good newwws! In addition to the physical deck, I’ve just dropped a digital copy of my “i’m listening self-love deck” journal … perfect for anyone outside of the U.S. or anyone who wants to have it on their phone.. find both here: www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop

@alkelangaspard 6 ай бұрын

“Everyone is actually doing the best they can at their level of emotional maturity.” Sheesh this is rich 👌🏾

@ariannacamacho4150 7 ай бұрын

Listening to this In the morning while showering was the best decision I’ve made✨ now I’m gonna get dressed and take myself out on a date and buy myself roses✨✨

@ariannacamacho4150 7 ай бұрын

Self love is beautiful

@TiffanyTV 7 ай бұрын

this made me smile so big 😌 have a beautiful day!

@ayo3070 6 ай бұрын

I will do the same….let’s start from there 😍

@AAA34FL448 7 ай бұрын

Girl, I needed this because I was barking all morning, and I just sat down and started crying. I'm crying as I'm typing this. The lack of love I've been showing myself looking for it in others lately is disappointing. I feel like I've lost myself lately. Thank you for these words. I needed them. It's always up to me

@TiffanyTV 5 ай бұрын

I’m a bit late but I’m sending you the biggest hug girl because I gettt it! praying your able to make a few shifts to find some more inner peace.. you’ll start to see it reflected on the outside 🤎

@menaaileen 7 ай бұрын

Literally just went through a breakup last night, that was completely unexpected so now today I have to move out after 2 years together. Thank you for dropping this. I love hearing your messages.

@S00DamJazzy 7 ай бұрын

Stay strong sis ❤

@baisinbu98 7 ай бұрын

Hugs 🤗 and kisses. You got this. 🤍💚

@chichimweetwa 7 ай бұрын

You got this sis❤️ your gonna love finding yourself again

@iesheamahogany3785 7 ай бұрын

Sending lots of love your way❤❤❤

@SadeCeara 7 ай бұрын

Going through a break up right now with my boyfriend of almost 8 years & my now child’s father as I am currently almost 7 months pregnant and it sucks. But through out this process I need to just focus on my baby & I! Stay strong sis! We got this

@jasmineasinati 7 ай бұрын

This was especially difficult for me because I couldn’t even define love, let alone give it to myself. I looked to 1 Corinthians 13 4-8 and my life has changed. Now I treat myself how the Bible defines love to be. And I’ve never been more full.

@emmarampf7354 5 ай бұрын

Thank you

@asamara673 7 ай бұрын

Am I the only one who has it the other way round. I just want a relationship. I’ve been single for so long. I know how to look after myself be by myself, go out with myself, push myself to do better motivate myself, but sometimes I just want a shoulder to cry on or some support to keep me going 😢

@asamara673 6 ай бұрын

@@user-st9fs6xu5yI’ve just said I don’t need someone to keep me going. I’m comfortable pushing myself and doing things on my own. BUT I WANT a partner. I don’t NEED one

@sandrasteward2059 3 ай бұрын

That's real. We are taught on one hand that we are strong black women, we can make it on our own, trust in God & keep it moving. All of that is true but we are human & we were NOT made to work everything out alone so we need to be loved, held, talked to & cry with by other humans. I do agree that the work starts with self bc "no man is an island"

@Fuzzyblossom 6 ай бұрын

Self-love is a different ball game if your single...You have 1 choice+ that is to LOVE YOURSELF ..it's hard but the journey is priceless+ empowering✌️✨💖

@reneeari45 7 ай бұрын

I was totally in this deep funk because of this very reason last week. I cried constantly all week. Thank you for this 🙏🏾💖

@SiobhanC.Quinones-ws7sw 3 ай бұрын

Tiffany!!!!! As a mental health professional I want to thank you for your energy and your support to empower others to seek self-love. Self love is sooooo crucial to your mental wellbeing. I have shared your video with my clients as a source of motivation. Keep up the work mama! It’s truly healing to others.

@reciprocalhealing 7 ай бұрын

Ah, how synchronized... self love has been the center of my awareness lately. Thank you for this video ❤

@marywithane9166 7 ай бұрын

FINALLY someone who explains self love in a way that I understand bone deep. The idea about finding the void and filling it yourself is gold that I can practically apply straight away. Your content is excellent instant sub thank you 🙏

@einaj9 4 ай бұрын

Your comment really is the cherry on top to this quest of self love 🥹🥹🥹🥹 your comment has truly blessed me indeed❤ thank you

@yukisj673 7 ай бұрын

I used to give love and care to everyone but never giving it to myself I still have lots of insecurities but I'm trying my best to put me first this time it's a hard journey for me so please everyone pray for me 💙✨ and thank you Tiffany you've always been there since day one of my healing journey 💙✨

@MJmamita 5 ай бұрын

Same here

@rdaliz 7 ай бұрын

Another home run. This is beyond impactful, this is exactly where I am. Thank you once again for sharing. I am speechless and taken back by how well you managed to deliver this message. This is an amazing starting point for healing ❤😊 You are so amazing 🙌🏿

@samara.dadonnn 6 ай бұрын

💕 Steps start @ 15:48 💞

@kimiko_111 4 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

@chantelleg5529 3 ай бұрын

Don’t know how I found this video, but I’m so happy I did. My husband and I had a major argument three days ago. He asked for space but it’s been three days. I’ve been keeping busy for the last 72 hours waiting for him to talk to me( I’m anxious attached and semi- codependent). After watching this video, I’m inspired to work on myself, love on myself, take the time to pour into me. I’m so use to “us” that I’ve been forgetting me 😢

@TiffanyTV 3 ай бұрын

I relate to this alll too well… it’s almost impossible to fix things in a relationship before we’ve healed what’s going on within ourselves. sending you love + and big hug on this part of your journey + praying for health in your marriage 🫂🤎

@chantelleg5529 3 ай бұрын

@@TiffanyTV thank you very much !

@kathlynroach566 7 ай бұрын

Tiffanyyyyy, ! Shouting amen amen amen .. at my big age Lord knows you have reminded me to wake up! Hug myself ! Love myself, be okay ! Build me. Recognizing individuality, regulating boundaries, my family reminded me. I am the common denominator and I need to show up for SELF and not always allowing people to be codependent or vice versa. Lord I really have some cleaning up. I am not for everyone. You may have just saved 50 percent of my mental health😢.. thank you

@makeitcount8164 7 ай бұрын

Yes! To be honest I still get kind of iffy and listen with precaution when being told to continually love myself I do think however that you have a good balance

@TiffanyTV 7 ай бұрын

I’m tearing up reading this. sending you a big hug 🫂🤎 we love aha/realization moments 🙌🏾

@kathlynroach566 7 ай бұрын

@@TiffanyTVthank you .. everyday has been a challenge.. I pray for strength and positivity energy 🙏

@kathlynroach566 4 ай бұрын

Thank you sooo much for you all your feedback...I am continuously praying for the guidance and strength on my life attributes.. work everyday and push towards abundance. Today is February 1st and I inhale/ exhaled

@jeralynlangford1341 6 ай бұрын

“Is this really about him”😮‍💨 we truly project unhappiness onto others in the form of nitpicking. I’ve been guilty of that. Learning to go within and be content with self has done so much for me! Great video Queen🫶🏽

@TiffanyTV 6 ай бұрын

that part! thank you love 🤎

@donniep.1513 7 ай бұрын

I’ve realized this as well and I’m glad you said it so I know I’m not crazy. Whenever I feel unloved it’s due to a lack that I started slipping on ❤❤❤

@briannaevans2600 7 ай бұрын

Yes you shouldn’t look for happiness or joy from others. It should come from within. However, just like someone can add to your happiness and joy they can also take from it. Your surrounding influences your mood.

@AJventure13 7 ай бұрын

This is a very great timing❤

@TikaReed-dx6li 6 ай бұрын

I needed this!!1 SO HELPFUL

@__4theloveofkj 7 ай бұрын

I started back buying myself flowers yesterday. Each week I’m promising myself to do that. Also taking a least one day to do all self care things for myself. I also really enjoy cooking so that helps too. Don’t forget the gym!

@desiijae 7 ай бұрын

I definitely needed this ! thank youuu

@TheTishbell 7 ай бұрын

This is so powerful! Self-love

@kylacharter4885 7 ай бұрын

Wow, I needed this today. Thank you Tiff💜

@keoshastoolbox3797 7 ай бұрын

This was everything I needed. Here goes!!!

@Perfectpeace19 7 ай бұрын

You never miss Tiffany. Thank you.

@HiddenObjectsFoundSubjects 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for this! Love your words of wisdom ❤ keep shining!

@lacandysandy 6 ай бұрын

You're amazing and helping me through a tough situation.

@Janianicolee 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for making content like this for us

@iam_luzmarie7928 7 ай бұрын

Talk about perfect timing!! I really needed to hear this today 🥰

@jackiek4159 7 ай бұрын

This video was right on time! Thank you for your wisdom Tiffany! 🙏🏻💕✨

@aisatacapri 5 ай бұрын

Absolutely love this! Have to fill up your own cup because it's not anyone else's responsibility 🤞🏾

@HelloLove97 7 ай бұрын

Thankyou so much! Everything was very well said !

@Selfloveisthebestdrug 7 ай бұрын

Love love love this !!! Keep shining beautiful

@IAmZuva 7 ай бұрын

Yes Ma’am. Well said. May God continue to bless you

@LoveJhanelle 7 ай бұрын

Your videos always hit at the right time. Thank you!

@yayasims16 7 ай бұрын

Ok so why is it that every time you drop a video it's exactly what I need! Thank you sis!❤

@Jaythedon7 7 ай бұрын

I love your videos. As a male follower I resonate with a lot of what you’re saying. Thank you!

@AlyUy 6 ай бұрын

This video is everything. Thank you!

@abbeyeligio8468 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for being the big sister I never had but always needed❤️

@Larue8807 7 ай бұрын

THE WAY I AM CRYING......😭😭 Thank you!! this was a real blessing. ❤

@kaylahwilliams7029 7 ай бұрын

Your videos have truly aided me so much in my journey. Thank you so much.

@KGMdh 7 ай бұрын

You are a gift. ❤

@IamNATALYYY 7 ай бұрын

Thank you Tiffany… this video was just what I needed now ❤ 🙏🏼

@helenribeiro5243 6 ай бұрын

This is literally what I needed to hear for today. Thank you so much ❤

@gold.marley 4 ай бұрын

this was such a beautiful & needed video ✨ thank you!

@chantellerivera-urena1087 7 ай бұрын

Okay but I loveee!! I had a tough moment yesterday with work and I needed to hear this! Know your someone I look up to when it comes to growth! ❤️🙏🏼

@kellentraylor4949 7 ай бұрын

Tiffany!!!! Oh my....you was in my head!!! I needed this!! I will be rewatching and writing down notes!! Thank u

@user-zs2cw5dd5p 7 ай бұрын

I’m so in love with your channel ❤️I can truly say it has helped me a lot.. continue changing lives lots of love

@niveahiett6051 6 ай бұрын

I needed to hear every word of this omg😫

@Keidrah 3 ай бұрын

Wow! I’m so glad I came across this. Thank you. ❤

@Okaythen193 7 ай бұрын

Girlll I be watching your videos wishing I has friends like you lol. I just feel like you’re so self aware about your actions and how your behaviors can contribute to how you feel and your environment. I loveee that about this channel because it’s hard to come by people who are self aware about themselves. Honestly even I have to work on being more self aware myself and it’s harder than it seems, so I don’t blame anyone who has a hard time doing that. It’s a lot easier said than done, and takes baby steps and a lot of time to fully understand it all. But anyways this is so true, keep up the great work ❤

@maximizedmoney 4 ай бұрын

This video is how I found you and I’ve been binging ever since! This was so good and just what I needed to hear as I found myself questioning a few decisions.

@amandatheeauthor 6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this video. I’m going through a divorce and I’m single for the first time in almost a decade… I didn’t fully realize just how much I’ve spent my life dependent on others for my happiness/ self-regulation/ self-love until I watched this! Thank you for giving steps to take to get to a place of self love. ❤️

@holi.spirits 6 ай бұрын

I’ve been focusing so much on this lately and maintaining my self awareness like this and it’s been game changing for me and those around me. Thank you for the confirmation and additional tips 🌸

@diallomady5184 7 ай бұрын

Hands down, the best cideo I've ever listened to about self-love. Thank you!

@Nickisthegreatest 3 ай бұрын

I love the way she presents herself

@thearidjakalsshow 6 ай бұрын

Absolutely love you !!

@Tiinae.club__ 6 ай бұрын

she brings out the best in me is swear

@_thelovelyliz_ 7 ай бұрын

This was another beautiful said reminder to fill my cup before anything I do. So that I can feel loved and good within myself and be able to pour out positive and loving energy with others. This was really really helpful for me, this week was a struggle and listening helped me see what I was missing. Thank you truly again for another impactful message! I truly believe god is working with you to help our generation ❤

@WhitneyBeeLibra 5 ай бұрын

I love your positivity! I just wish I could be like this

@aenealittle5278 7 ай бұрын

Thank you, Queen 👸🏾💖

@IntuitiveFlow1114 7 ай бұрын

This was so enlightening and beautifully articulated 😌 Thank youuuu 🙏🏾 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

@breannamagana 5 ай бұрын

WOW! I needed this video. And the way you say is everything is exactly how I need to hear it. I’m going to need to rewatch this a few times. And I just subscribed ❤

@emiliaaa6969 7 ай бұрын

Thank u so much for this video! It was a perfect reminder and I needed it!!! Have a nice day🧚🏻‍♀️🩷💌

@AlisonSharp 3 ай бұрын

thank you for this message

@giselle7026 7 ай бұрын

Still healing from my last relationship I truly needed to hear this. Thank you.

@jamiehuntington5563 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for the reminder to continuously look inward when heavy emotions are arising in our relationships. I needed that perspective shift. ❤

@ThePlantBasedPiggy 7 ай бұрын

This is by far one of the most important and beneficial videos I have ever seen on KZfaq. ❤ Thank you so much.

@lilanoue 6 ай бұрын

You’re speaking to me!! I am reclaiming my power and learning how to communicate directly. Getting to the root of what is, what I’m feeling, what I need, has helped me so much 🙌

@AutryPlusSKIN 7 ай бұрын

Thank you! This video came just in time. I really needed to hear this

@Charbylabs Ай бұрын

Thank you Tiffany. 😭❤‍🩹

@FeelinMe11 5 ай бұрын

Much needed video, thank you!

@jaimerose1297 5 ай бұрын

I loved the actionable steps you gave to sit with how I am feeling and take responsibility by implementing what I need for myself ❤

@ashantarandolph9652 6 ай бұрын

U said a word..Love your messages ! Please keep going and I pray God blesses u

@blackangel1194 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for this.. I'm saving it to revisit when I need it again. You're amazing.

@dearmelcee 6 ай бұрын

Your voice is so soothing ty for sharing and spreading this message ❤

@gvgrll 7 ай бұрын

This hair and the length is THE look! ❤

@racheledmonson572 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing with us. I am sitting at work, working listening to this!! ❤❤❤

@5HELENO 6 ай бұрын

Wow!!! Thank you so much!!! This was amazing and much needed!! You are beautiful! Thank you for sharing this with us!! God bless you! 🤎

@forevermoss4007 7 ай бұрын

I appreciate this channel ☺️

@55SilentShadow 26 күн бұрын

Thank you for this it is so meaningful. ❤❤❤

@reyyanlynn 7 ай бұрын

I just want you to know your words go a long way.. truthfully I needed to hear this because lately I’ve been relying on others for my happiness and it never works out in the end. I’ve been depressed for a long time but I’ve been watching your videos and I swear it’s my therapy. I’m becoming a better and smarter women every day. I feel your words really touch me. Thank you ❤️

@gracewanjiru1175 7 ай бұрын

i needed this.thanks alot 💖💖

@emmarampf7354 5 ай бұрын

I really like that you called us out not just told us to find it for ourselves but SHOWED us how what we seek, what’s missing is our job to cultivate

@sileayoboue8603 6 ай бұрын

beautifully said ❤

@Eriandniyah_roblox 7 ай бұрын

Oh I love this! My biggest problem is me not getting enough alone time and I can take that frustration out on others sometimes. This is something I’m currently working through and have been working through for a while. Thank you for this video ❤

@brookewebber154 27 күн бұрын

You have helped me discover so much I need to work on! Thank you❤

@tanzanekova 7 ай бұрын

I’m literally in a relationship where I have to love on myself because I’m definitely feeling like I’m not getting it in the relationship. But like you stated maybe it’s me. And that’s the mission I’m on to find out. Thank you for this video, right on time.

@user-ub4bx8dc9g 6 ай бұрын

GOD BLESS YOUR BEAUTIFUL SELF!!!! THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO… CHANGED MY LIFE!! I’ve shared this video with sooooo many people & they’ve shared it. Everything you’ve said is so true. THANK YOU… please continue to make videos like this because our sisters need to know. I’m now watching all your videos now😊

@LOVEBLACK999 5 ай бұрын

Love it Tiffany, keep it up! 💝💝💝

@soumayamajdoubbhiri4852 3 ай бұрын

Thank you, love your video ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@jazmynmiles09 4 ай бұрын

This video is everything! So much wisdom and amazing advice. Thank you for this! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@msdreams6838 3 ай бұрын

This was divine timing of this message 🙏🏾💓💓

@Kikipalmer88 5 ай бұрын

I absolutely love your videos ❤

@a.b2156 3 ай бұрын

I just clicked on the video and the vibes are vibing and I love that this popped up on my page!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ new subscriber is right on time.

@KemGem Ай бұрын

So powerful ❤

@denaekeizs5671 7 ай бұрын

Wow Tiffany this was so timely ❤ thanks for sharing your experience. I look forward to your videos ✨ they’re part of my morning routine when you drop ☀️