Have you ever had a person who rarely calls and checks on you, but asks you for favors? This happens because we as a people has lost the tribal mentality today. How to deal with a person always asking for favors?
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@ashleyjones1046 жыл бұрын
The realest people don't have alot of friends, 2pac spoke facts!
@RAZASHARP5 жыл бұрын
Ashley Jones every 1 is a hater...it’s unbelievable
@ButterCookie1984 Жыл бұрын
"2 Pac" was a character
@BelchingBeaver69 Жыл бұрын
@@ButterCookie1984 yo momma was a character in my p0rn0
@softlife458 ай бұрын
Pac dead bro 😂
@Lovely_Diva5 жыл бұрын
If a person does me like that...I will stop answering their calls.. Because they are fake. And they just see you as a convenience💯💯
@sophisticatedmm36324 жыл бұрын
Precisely & don't give a shit about me or my wellbeing
@enjo98812 жыл бұрын
No appreciation No gratitude No compensation for my time Just a sense of self entitlement No thanks But thank you for highlighting the obvious brother.
@wandadacounselor3047 Жыл бұрын
Well I have crossed oceans for people who would not cross puddles for me. I'm done! I'm here for whose here for me
@nathankeefer96737 жыл бұрын
Dude you've added like 3000 subscribers in like 6 weeks by just being real... do a video about keeping it real cause no one does anymore.. you're solid! we love you man
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Nathan Keeffer. Much love to you and I enjoy your jokes.Especially, when I am being serious though . I will do a video on Keeping it real either next week or the week after. I will especially do that for you. Nathan. Peace and blessings to you.
@nathankeefer96737 жыл бұрын
i have an idea maybe you can think about it too. this is rocky ground i know. but I'm obviously white, well cherokee indian too. but I have a habit of say if I'm in a store I'll wait extra long to hold the door for a black person, or say something decent to them..not for the kiss ass, but for that moment when i do it racial relations are lifted just a bit if only for the person i did it for.. your demeanor is perfect for a video like that.. but its your channel man.. take it easy bro!
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Yes, it is. On my part, Racial tensions and racism are at all time high. I don't talk about or discuss racism. I avoid it.I will listen to other person, but I refuse to engage in that area unless that person says something out of order then I will speak and tell it how it is..Like some, they refuse to talk about religion or politics I say it like this there are good and bad apples in every race. You just have to look out to see who is no good, who is trying to con and trick you, or a lowdown individual. Peace and blessings to you.
@omgslimeisthebestteihya43197 жыл бұрын
a tribal mentality. rarely calls right eells all. 💯preciate you blu $ 🔷0 thnk. doing deeply alright
@Lovely_Diva5 жыл бұрын
Tell the person no each time.
@tyremanguitars2 жыл бұрын
good advice, I've cut off a lot of 'friends' because of this, a lot of people expect favours and don't do favours for you in return.
@tommyparkerparker22 күн бұрын
Family too.
@jack1uptone9635 жыл бұрын
Even if they appreciate it, you probably still shouldn't give it to them. Some people will appreciate it, and be asking you all the time, as they appreciate it.
@dawnmarieclayton24996 жыл бұрын
This was a great video... Very informative. Unfortunately we live in a self absorbed society. I have been on the receiving end way too many times where people only contacted me to use me or for a need. I am a giver by nature and sometimes it was hard for me to "say no" being the people pleaser that I was. But as I got older I realized that I have to think about me for a change and put me first...I call it life's little lessons that we all learn from. Users rarely give and Givers rarely take :) Peace to you Tyler. Thank You for another awesome video :)
@ElementalSunshine Жыл бұрын
I am tired of being DISappointed in people who were not meant to be APPOINTED in my life! Friendship is a two way street and one way relationships mean you need to BACKUP from that one way street. I am done!!!
@johncostello75022 жыл бұрын
I stopped doing favors a long time ago....I had one so called friend that would only call when he needed something the last time he called for a favor I told him I can't see he said you can't see i said yes I can't see myself doing favors for you anymore
@patriciaware887618 күн бұрын
Especially when they borrow money before and never paid you back, I mean really
@shaylanewlife Жыл бұрын
I will not be a damn fool as of Feb 25, 2023 I am done helping people. Everyone is on their own finna start moving in silence 🔕
@Geminidreamsz3 жыл бұрын
Please do not stop making videos! Through the years you have gotten me through so many Things. Your words helped me tremendously thank you Tyler god bless you 😇🙏🏾
@westernsellers91489 ай бұрын
Gemini suck 😂😂
@whatnow83624 жыл бұрын
Yup! It's the worst when you're someone who enjoys helping others and enjoys learning how to do things herself. Somehow that means take advantage. I'm sick of individualistic western society.
@monical28409 ай бұрын
Thanks. I needed this pep talk.
@shiamaxwell34822 жыл бұрын
I don’t loan or borrow so it’s already settled!
@terriali6455 жыл бұрын
Amen. I needed to hear this! Thank you Tylor and from now on will not find it hard to say NO. I fee it's better to be honest with ourselves dealing with ungrateful people.
@yesyoga10 ай бұрын
Bingo! The Appreciation Factor! Now I know the new drama person in my life is an ungrateful player. Excellent video. I am grateful for this clear message. Many thanks! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼✅💖
@MonsterAddict2210 ай бұрын
The world doesn’t owe you anything, and you don’t owe the world nothing
@PhoenixfromCanada2 жыл бұрын
Thank you beyond words for this video. I am extremely grateful that I found it. I appreciate you Tyler and content you've created. Many blessings to you. 🙏🏼🙏🏼 A couple of days ago I received an email from an ex-boyfriend's mother that I haven't spoke to an over four months. She said she was "checking in" on me and then she proceeded to ask me for a little favour. I haven't responded back, I felt as if, I needed to figure out how to properly and politely tell her no. I honestly wish that she would just contact my ex-boyfriend probation officer and leave me alone. However I am going to take all of the information you shared in your video and put it into practice with a response email. Hopefully, she will never message me again, will leave me alone to move on and live my life happily with my new relationship. Again, thank you for this video. 🙏🏼
@Ski74404 жыл бұрын
A new acquaintance called me this week to ask if I wld sell her my sons bike, which was fine , even though she had changed her mind three times . And,,... here’s the cheeky part,,, she asked me to go buy the mudguards and a padlock and fix the dam mudguards onto the bike !!! 😳😱thought she had a darn cheek, considering she has let me down a few times when we had arranged to meet. I said yes, and did the job, but she is no friend of mine from now on. No text from her to say a sincere thankyou for doing the job. Selfish rude individuals make me sick. Why is it people keep asking me to do them favours this summer ?
@GodsProphet232 жыл бұрын
But you allowed it you should’ve said no there not entitled lesson learned block and delete number no contact
@glennrobinson7193 Жыл бұрын
I would block this type of person/leach.
@sophisticatedmm36325 жыл бұрын
I totally relate to this shit. My nephew sent me a message via FB asking for $. Mind you he never calls me or even acknowledge me buying gifts for his kids.
@aquamarine24163 жыл бұрын
sounds like my story, this nephew ask me for money and wants to como over, he wants me to go get him, I'm like your mom can bring you. she never did , so I had to stop contact.
@mariamays8037 жыл бұрын
sometimes I still find it hard to say "No", because it maybe a child/teen in the family asking.
@bettabelieveit346 жыл бұрын
maria mays Hell just say no I always learned the parents even teach their own kids to be users just like them or they just pushing them up to ask you for money that's just it I'll say NO if I where you
@shaniquegrant57586 жыл бұрын
StillStanding exactly. Just say no without feeling guilty.
@user-jg6gz2xj7s Жыл бұрын
Thanks you Jesus for saving me and dying on that cross
@rachelalexandria16917 жыл бұрын
Just subscribed😊, this channel has much needed insightful information!! Great vid!!
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Rachel Alexandria. Thank you so much for your comment.Peace and blessings to you.
@laurendinamiller12255 жыл бұрын
Your right mr. Tyler direct to the point.
@benitob203711 ай бұрын
I respect tf out of you for this
@narc_free45277 жыл бұрын
good video Tyler!! so true. peace and love to u brother!!
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Queen keesta Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
@sandras.65737 жыл бұрын
thank you for this vid Tyler. The timing couldnt have been better😨 im a person who always helped others a lot, i can rarely say "no" to ppl. I help where I can ...idk it's a helper syndrome or my pisces fishy nature.😷🤕🤒🤓 i don't see this as a flaw, i think i am here to do so 😇😜 But when nothing returns...?!? When i needed help, i always stand alone. It seems my whole life is going to be that way..I received a request from my "man of my dreams" a few hours ago. He needs money....again. But he is lying and cheating😥 (for God's sake..GOD only is judging...its a long story, i can write a book about that🤔I love him so much...that is divine, but i have to say no. God knows i've done my best 😢 Wish you happy may Tyler 🤗😘💓🌻🌷💚💖
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Sandra S. Thank you so much for taking the time to tell your experience and your comment. I hope that everything gets better with you and everything will work out for the best for you. Peace and blessings to you.
@sandras.65737 жыл бұрын
Tyler JTI thank you. Yeah i hope that way too ☺💪 and GOD bless you too. 💕📿
@gudprou7 жыл бұрын
Sandra S. i don't know y they do that!U give them there all but give u crap at the end of it all but God will bless u more!
@bettabelieveit346 жыл бұрын
Sandra S. same here that is exactly how I feel I will help out but always standing alone but no more I'm cutting that off so it's NO FOR NOW ON
@-Jesus-daughter2 жыл бұрын
@@sandras.6573Sister its not fear same here you helped, to much but you give enough for returns let it go God give you are husband. God bless you🙏🏽❤
@itwasaizensplan00710 ай бұрын
Literally my friend. She flakes everytime I try to make plans with her and when she actually did text me first to hang out first it was coz she needed something from me. Cant seem to cut her off though since we've known each other for a decade and used to do everything together. I dont expect us to do everything together but a call and a chat over coffee every once in a while goes a long way
@arnellehardy10914 ай бұрын
Absolutely your gut is actually spelling out what a simple gesture would mean in your book 📕 ❤ I wish you good friends
@SoMuchSoy Жыл бұрын
I don't have a lot of friends because I got tired of doing favors for them🤷🏽♂️
@HTHTNT772 ай бұрын
The one I can’t stand is when you only hear from them when they are down. When they are good, you hear crickets. I’ve had family on multiple occasions get help from me and then discard me like trash. I’m done. All I want is respect, that shouldn’t have to be asked for. If people respect you, they don’t use you.
@debbie91137 жыл бұрын
Great advice Tyler!!
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Debbie Reid. Thank you so much for your comment.Peace and blessings to you.
@debbie91137 жыл бұрын
+Tyler JTI 😊
@angelb75787 жыл бұрын
I love you Tyler you are so smart
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Angel B. Thank you so much for your comment .Peace and blessings to you.
@Luckyprincesspup7 жыл бұрын
Love your videos!!! I've been having a hard time with some people in my life for the past week or so, would you mind doing a video on how to know when to cut someone out of your life? Thanks so much!
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Katlin O Brien. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
@arethaboddy749010 ай бұрын
You have to block sad to say it could leave you into emotional distress
@Anderson-um9lb7 жыл бұрын
Very informative.Thanks pal.U r the man.
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Peter Peterson. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
@freebiebean99867 жыл бұрын
Great video!!
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
James Redd. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
@sharonanderson69267 жыл бұрын
when they want s you to do something or ask you for something that's when they call..I want because they don't appreciate it.
@makegoodcoffee2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video. By the way you’re a Kat Williams voice double lol.
@anthonyesparsen77764 күн бұрын
Amen brother !
@RachaelBluee5 жыл бұрын
Great video. I needed to hear this.
@bettyarmstrong88582 ай бұрын
Good advice
@anthonyesparsen77764 күн бұрын
Tell the truth brother !
@MisterUrbanWorld7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making a 2nd video, and yes you are pronouncing my username correctly.
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
MinsterUrbanWorld. I hope that video helps and it spoke to you. Peace and blessings to you.
@lorriekelly9645 жыл бұрын
They not gonna care They think U ought To . it's the least U Could do .
Daphne Rodriquez. Thank you so much for your comment .Peace and blessings to you.
@carolborela4077 жыл бұрын
Great video Tyler.
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Carol Borela. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
@NaturalMonroe7 жыл бұрын
Please do a video on karmic relationships v. twin flames. I feel like I'm in a karmic relationship and it's draining.
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Natural Monroe.Thank you for your video request, i have been some people who asked me the question about that. Consider it done, It will be done either this week or next week. Keep on the look out for it this week or next week. Give it some time!!!! Keep on the look out for it. Peace and blessings to you.
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Natural Monroe your video request is finally up. Feel free to comment. on that video. Peace and blessings to you.
@rebeccasharpe8792 жыл бұрын
Don't start it then you won't have to put up with it.
@jannybennett12877 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your advice :-)
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Janny Bennett. Thank you so much for your comment .Peace and blessings to you.
@chadduff054 ай бұрын
I don’t have time for the people that I deal with a lot . So I can’t even give the time for a fake friend
@RG-mk9fn3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir!
@daphnerodriguez99806 жыл бұрын
GREAT 🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈VIDEO TYLER AMAZING THANKS ☺FOR YOUR TIME AND SHARING YOUR FOR GIFT .● BROWN FAMILY DAPHNE COTTON 💜
@mcesar530384 жыл бұрын
💪💪💪💪💪 thanks alot youtube needs more of this...
@EarthAngel__11113 жыл бұрын
Im feeling this.
@kevinturner34007 жыл бұрын
Like very informative info
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Kevin Turner. Thank you so much for your comment .Peace and blessings to you.
@dr.tapasyadiwakar1246 Жыл бұрын
Ppl also appreciate just coz they want something from u(temporary,superficial words) but in yr gut u know they dont really care ...always call when they need when u needsomething they will make lame excuses everytime....so words means nothing but action does....Goodbuy🕉️
@ironbutterfly127 жыл бұрын
I always appreciate your videos however the sound quality is a bit irritating for the ears. Please get a better mic. Thank you.
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Iron Butterfuly. That is not the mic that you are hearing with the sound quality, that's my voice being raised up because I have a very loud voice. Don't put that on the sound quality being irritating, because the sound quality is fine, that's my voice you are hearing. I am not changing that for your liking which you are getting mislead thinking it's the sound quality. So, i am not buying no mic just because for your liking.
@edwardbalboa55283 жыл бұрын
Put the mic further away ....as the sound is too loud for phone speakers
@alexandremonteiro12506 жыл бұрын
Subscribed a lot you talk does have to do alot with me
@Serratosteven3 жыл бұрын
Hopefully ive changed my ungratefulness thank you ive learned my lesson
@issimplysaying3 жыл бұрын
Block
@arethaboddy749010 ай бұрын
You have to block sad to say it can leave you into emotional distress
@jacquelinehartfield5295 жыл бұрын
I WAS CAUGHT UP IN THAT TYPE OF LIFE WHILE I WAS LIVING IN MY SON'S HOUSE WITH HIS WIFE AND I AM DISABLED AND NEED TO HAVE HIP REPLACEMENT SURGERY IN BOTH HIPS SO YES I DIDN'T CUT MY SON OR MY GRANDCHILD BUT HIS WIFE I SURLY DID BECAUSE SHE HAS NOT ONLY THIS TO ME ONCE BUT THIS WOULD BE THE THIRD TIME AND IT IS OVER WHEN IT COMES TO HER!!!!!!! 😀👍🏾
@michaelmadsen17743 жыл бұрын
I have trust issues.Lie once and I'll forgive you and I'll pay very close attenttion.Lie again and plan on never have in contact with my life again.
@leataylor92776 ай бұрын
3:28 💯
@knatural77542 жыл бұрын
Facts 100
@nikopara77377 жыл бұрын
hallo Tyler How to deal with a toxic family member ,,,, "he don't respect you "talk bad to you all the time " and alway ask you for favors Tyler can you make a video about that ?
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Niko Para. Thank you so much for your video request. Consider it done!!!!!! Look for the video today or either tomorrow. It might be done sooner or tomorrow. Thank you so much for your video request.
@michaelmadsen17743 жыл бұрын
So called friend asked me to get some food for her kids since they had coro.I said yes but I'll have to do it in the morning since I'm busy....She hasn't spoke to me sonce.Same lady that told me she loved me 3 years ago so I'd pay attention to her.. Ya,I pay attention when someone lies and does even a precise having a true friend...lol
@phemery1182 Жыл бұрын
AMEN!!!!
@jefff2009 Жыл бұрын
What if they're related to you and threaten to tell lies if you don't obey and do what they say?
@leataylor92776 ай бұрын
🙄
@alfredbaxter10613 жыл бұрын
I don't even answer there calls i stop answering I been this guy I know on my job I think he quit or got fired think he stoled stuff and he call me and told me about it he ast me for get me themcredit cards I pay you im like nah I never answer
@issimplysaying3 жыл бұрын
Delete
@issimplysaying3 жыл бұрын
Ignore
@nathankeefer96737 жыл бұрын
or what to do if walking in the woods and you find a meth lab.. thanks..just in case it comes up. hahaha. ok bro... i was just playing
@TylerJTI7 жыл бұрын
Nathan Keefer. I knew that you was going to have a joke up your sleeves lol. haaaaa.