The realest people don't have alot of friends, 2pac spoke facts!

If a person does me like that...I will stop answering their calls.. Because they are fake. And they just see you as a convenience💯💯

No appreciation No gratitude No compensation for my time Just a sense of self entitlement No thanks But thank you for highlighting the obvious brother.

Well I have crossed oceans for people who would not cross puddles for me. I'm done! I'm here for whose here for me

Dude you've added like 3000 subscribers in like 6 weeks by just being real... do a video about keeping it real cause no one does anymore.. you're solid! we love you man

Tell the person no each time.

good advice, I've cut off a lot of 'friends' because of this, a lot of people expect favours and don't do favours for you in return.

Even if they appreciate it, you probably still shouldn't give it to them. Some people will appreciate it, and be asking you all the time, as they appreciate it.

This was a great video... Very informative. Unfortunately we live in a self absorbed society. I have been on the receiving end way too many times where people only contacted me to use me or for a need. I am a giver by nature and sometimes it was hard for me to "say no" being the people pleaser that I was. But as I got older I realized that I have to think about me for a change and put me first...I call it life's little lessons that we all learn from. Users rarely give and Givers rarely take :) Peace to you Tyler. Thank You for another awesome video :)

I am tired of being DISappointed in people who were not meant to be APPOINTED in my life! Friendship is a two way street and one way relationships mean you need to BACKUP from that one way street. I am done!!!

I stopped doing favors a long time ago....I had one so called friend that would only call when he needed something the last time he called for a favor I told him I can't see he said you can't see i said yes I can't see myself doing favors for you anymore

I will not be a damn fool as of Feb 25, 2023 I am done helping people. Everyone is on their own finna start moving in silence 🔕

Please do not stop making videos! Through the years you have gotten me through so many Things. Your words helped me tremendously thank you Tyler god bless you 😇🙏🏾

Yup! It's the worst when you're someone who enjoys helping others and enjoys learning how to do things herself. Somehow that means take advantage. I'm sick of individualistic western society.

Thanks. I needed this pep talk.

I don’t loan or borrow so it’s already settled!

Amen. I needed to hear this! Thank you Tylor and from now on will not find it hard to say NO. I fee it's better to be honest with ourselves dealing with ungrateful people.

Bingo! The Appreciation Factor! Now I know the new drama person in my life is an ungrateful player. Excellent video. I am grateful for this clear message. Many thanks! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼✅💖

The world doesn’t owe you anything, and you don’t owe the world nothing

Thank you beyond words for this video. I am extremely grateful that I found it. I appreciate you Tyler and content you've created. Many blessings to you. 🙏🏼🙏🏼 A couple of days ago I received an email from an ex-boyfriend's mother that I haven't spoke to an over four months. She said she was "checking in" on me and then she proceeded to ask me for a little favour. I haven't responded back, I felt as if, I needed to figure out how to properly and politely tell her no. I honestly wish that she would just contact my ex-boyfriend probation officer and leave me alone. However I am going to take all of the information you shared in your video and put it into practice with a response email. Hopefully, she will never message me again, will leave me alone to move on and live my life happily with my new relationship. Again, thank you for this video. 🙏🏼

A new acquaintance called me this week to ask if I wld sell her my sons bike, which was fine , even though she had changed her mind three times . And,,... here’s the cheeky part,,, she asked me to go buy the mudguards and a padlock and fix the dam mudguards onto the bike !!! 😳😱thought she had a darn cheek, considering she has let me down a few times when we had arranged to meet. I said yes, and did the job, but she is no friend of mine from now on. No text from her to say a sincere thankyou for doing the job. Selfish rude individuals make me sick. Why is it people keep asking me to do them favours this summer ?

I would block this type of person/leach.

I totally relate to this shit. My nephew sent me a message via FB asking for $. Mind you he never calls me or even acknowledge me buying gifts for his kids.

sometimes I still find it hard to say "No", because it maybe a child/teen in the family asking.

Thanks you Jesus for saving me and dying on that cross

Just subscribed😊, this channel has much needed insightful information!! Great vid!!

Your right mr. Tyler direct to the point.

I respect tf out of you for this

good video Tyler!! so true. peace and love to u brother!!

thank you for this vid Tyler. The timing couldnt have been better😨 im a person who always helped others a lot, i can rarely say "no" to ppl. I help where I can ...idk it's a helper syndrome or my pisces fishy nature.😷🤕🤒🤓 i don't see this as a flaw, i think i am here to do so 😇😜 But when nothing returns...?!? When i needed help, i always stand alone. It seems my whole life is going to be that way..I received a request from my "man of my dreams" a few hours ago. He needs money....again. But he is lying and cheating😥 (for God's sake..GOD only is judging...its a long story, i can write a book about that🤔I love him so much...that is divine, but i have to say no. God knows i've done my best 😢 Wish you happy may Tyler 🤗😘💓🌻🌷💚💖

Literally my friend. She flakes everytime I try to make plans with her and when she actually did text me first to hang out first it was coz she needed something from me. Cant seem to cut her off though since we've known each other for a decade and used to do everything together. I dont expect us to do everything together but a call and a chat over coffee every once in a while goes a long way

I don't have a lot of friends because I got tired of doing favors for them🤷🏽‍♂️

The one I can’t stand is when you only hear from them when they are down. When they are good, you hear crickets. I’ve had family on multiple occasions get help from me and then discard me like trash. I’m done. All I want is respect, that shouldn’t have to be asked for. If people respect you, they don’t use you.

Great advice Tyler!!

I love you Tyler you are so smart

Love your videos!!! I've been having a hard time with some people in my life for the past week or so, would you mind doing a video on how to know when to cut someone out of your life? Thanks so much!

You have to block sad to say it could leave you into emotional distress

Very informative.Thanks pal.U r the man.

Great video!!

when they want s you to do something or ask you for something that's when they call..I want because they don't appreciate it.

Thanks for the video. By the way you’re a Kat Williams voice double lol.

Amen brother !

Great video. I needed to hear this.

Good advice

Tell the truth brother !

Thanks for making a 2nd video, and yes you are pronouncing my username correctly.

They not gonna care They think U ought To . it's the least U Could do .

POWERFUL " JTI BRILLIANT THANX YOU! Daphne Cotton! ●Castano BROWN FAMILY. INCREDIBLE.

Great video Tyler.

Please do a video on karmic relationships v. twin flames. I feel like I'm in a karmic relationship and it's draining.

Don't start it then you won't have to put up with it.

I appreciate your advice :-)

I don’t have time for the people that I deal with a lot . So I can’t even give the time for a fake friend

Thank you Sir!

GREAT 🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈VIDEO TYLER AMAZING THANKS ☺FOR YOUR TIME AND SHARING YOUR FOR GIFT .● BROWN FAMILY DAPHNE COTTON 💜

💪💪💪💪💪 thanks alot youtube needs more of this...

Im feeling this.

Like very informative info

Ppl also appreciate just coz they want something from u(temporary,superficial words) but in yr gut u know they dont really care ...always call when they need when u needsomething they will make lame excuses everytime....so words means nothing but action does....Goodbuy🕉️

I always appreciate your videos however the sound quality is a bit irritating for the ears. Please get a better mic. Thank you.

Subscribed a lot you talk does have to do alot with me

Hopefully ive changed my ungratefulness thank you ive learned my lesson

Block

I WAS CAUGHT UP IN THAT TYPE OF LIFE WHILE I WAS LIVING IN MY SON'S HOUSE WITH HIS WIFE AND I AM DISABLED AND NEED TO HAVE HIP REPLACEMENT SURGERY IN BOTH HIPS SO YES I DIDN'T CUT MY SON OR MY GRANDCHILD BUT HIS WIFE I SURLY DID BECAUSE SHE HAS NOT ONLY THIS TO ME ONCE BUT THIS WOULD BE THE THIRD TIME AND IT IS OVER WHEN IT COMES TO HER!!!!!!! 😀👍🏾

I have trust issues.Lie once and I'll forgive you and I'll pay very close attenttion.Lie again and plan on never have in contact with my life again.

3:28 💯

Facts 100

hallo Tyler How to deal with a toxic family member ,,,, "he don't respect you "talk bad to you all the time " and alway ask you for favors Tyler can you make a video about that ?

So called friend asked me to get some food for her kids since they had coro.I said yes but I'll have to do it in the morning since I'm busy....She hasn't spoke to me sonce.Same lady that told me she loved me 3 years ago so I'd pay attention to her.. Ya,I pay attention when someone lies and does even a precise having a true friend...lol

AMEN!!!!

What if they're related to you and threaten to tell lies if you don't obey and do what they say?

I don't even answer there calls i stop answering I been this guy I know on my job I think he quit or got fired think he stoled stuff and he call me and told me about it he ast me for get me themcredit cards I pay you im like nah I never answer

Delete

Ignore

or what to do if walking in the woods and you find a meth lab.. thanks..just in case it comes up. hahaha. ok bro... i was just playing

Tyler is real

Yep. Delete