How To Deal With A Toxic Boss ? 05 Practical Tips Given | Watch Till End To Get Full Clarity On It

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Sango Life Sutras

Sango Life Sutras

2 жыл бұрын

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Tips - How to conduct at workplace.
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1. Don't fight your colleagues' battles.
2. Don't indulge in gossip (chugli) at the workplace.
3. Don't increase the aura of the boss by bitching about him/her. Whenever you make somebody an object of laughter (uphaas ka patra) or demonize him, you are increasing that person's energy. Don't make your boss Gabbar otherwise his aura keeps increases. (Politicians at times try to instigate you so that you hate them)
4. Do not make friends at the workplace. You would never know what would they tell and to whom which may be used against you.
5. Do not become vulnerable at the workplace by exposing your life, your personal troubles
6. Increase your Aura and presence at the workplace - Always wear better clothes than your boss. Your shoes should stand out. A person who gets better dressed gets more respect even in the same job.
7. Always speak with your boss in English even when he tries to speak in Hindi. It's a formal language and it helps in maintaining distance. Hindi brings you closer.
8. Boss may not have work himself, so don't talk to him all the time.
9. Show yourself as busy. Be efficient so that you can work fast but do not deliver fast. It should take the same time.
10. There is no point in being a team man / team player. Somebody else gets the benefit of it. Either somebody at the top or some other person in the team due to team politics.
11. Maintain professional boundaries with everyone at workplace.
Identifying a toxic boss
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1. Wants to own you, own your time, control your life
2. Has no personal life
3. Has completely set personal life
4. The person who doesn't let you have lunch
5. Doesnt do anything meaningful himself, so would not let you do the same.
Dealing with a toxic boss
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1. Call out his toxicity in private.
2. Don't discuss with other colleagues.
3. Tell your time, your boundaries.
4. Work will happen this much only and in this much time only.
5. Keep social distance with this person. Do not let him know about your personal life.
6. A person is same in all lives personal or professional - Not different in two places.
What if the boss says - "I am not happy with you"
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1. Don't defend or justify anything.
2. Say my wife, parents, kids no one is happy with me, even I am not happy with myself. But you seem to be happier - please guide.
Some Golden words
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1. Baatein wahi chubhti hain jo sach hoti hain
2. Pyass aise hi nahin bujhti, time lagta hai. Poori pyaas to marne pe hi bujhti hai
3. If you want to be like a king, remember that a king doesn't talk to everyone.

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@4x4affairs
@4x4affairs 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏼 awesome trainer and life guru
@abhijitkhopkar1500
@abhijitkhopkar1500 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes good people are fired due to internal politics. If a project failed, then the blame has to passed on someone chosen as scapegoat. Many times great people are eliminated this way. Sometimes straightforward and honest people are removed because they ain't bootlickers.
@Hetal28
@Hetal28 Жыл бұрын
Yes 💯
@krishna_raj9331
@krishna_raj9331 11 ай бұрын
I agree. Toxic people do exist in corporate. For no reason, no need they will trouble you. They'll ask you to be logged in even when you have competed your task but their task is not yet completed.
@ShaliniVerma-qy7jl
@ShaliniVerma-qy7jl 9 ай бұрын
I agree with you
@ku.S
@ku.S 2 ай бұрын
Very true
@SangoLifeSutras
@SangoLifeSutras 2 жыл бұрын
Tips - How to conduct at workplace. ---------------------------------- 1. Don't fight your colleagues' battles. 2. Don't indulge in gossip (chugli) at the workplace. 3. Don't increase the aura of the boss by bitching about him/her. Whenever you make somebody an object of laughter (uphaas ka patra) or demonize him, you are increasing that person's energy. Don't make your boss Gabbar otherwise his aura keeps increases. (Politicians at times try to instigate you so that you hate them) 4. Do not make friends at the workplace. You would never know what would they tell and to whom which may be used against you. 5. Do not become vulnerable at the workplace by exposing your life, your personal troubles 6. Increase your Aura and presence at the workplace - Always wear better clothes than your boss. Your shoes should stand out. A person who gets better dressed gets more respect even in the same job. 7. Always speak with your boss in English even when he tries to speak in Hindi. It's a formal language and it helps in maintaining distance. Hindi brings you closer. 8. Boss may not have work himself, so don't talk to him all the time. 9. Show yourself as busy. Be efficient so that you can work fast but do not deliver fast. It should take the same time. 10. There is no point in being a team man / team player. Somebody else gets the benefit of it. Either somebody at the top or some other person in the team due to team politics. 11. Maintain professional boundaries with everyone at workplace. Identifying a toxic boss ------------------------- 1. Wants to own you, own your time, control your life 2. Has no personal life 3. Has completely set personal life 4. The person who doesn't let you have lunch 5. Doesnt do anything meaningful himself, so would not let you do the same. Dealing with a toxic boss ------------------------- 1. Call out his toxicity in private. 2. Don't discuss with other colleagues. 3. Tell your time, your boundaries. 4. Work will happen this much only and in this much time only. 5. Keep social distance with this person. Do not let him know about your personal life. 6. A person is same in all lives personal or professional - Not different in two places. What if the boss says - "I am not happy with you" ------------------------------------------------- 1. Don't defend or justify anything. 2. Say my wife, parents, kids no one is happy with me, even I am not happy with myself. But you seem to be happier - please guide. Some Golden words ------------------- 1. Baatein wahi chubhti hain jo sach hoti hain 2. Pyass aise hi nahin bujhti, time lagta hai. Poori pyaas to marne pe hi bujhti hai 3. If you want to be like a king, remember that a king doesn't talk to everyone.
@shiva.19
@shiva.19 Жыл бұрын
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@arjunsworld205
@arjunsworld205 Жыл бұрын
👍👏🙏
@rawishingyadav421
@rawishingyadav421 8 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ Bhaut sahi ❤❤❤❤
@ku.S
@ku.S 2 ай бұрын
Perfect
@dhanamjayas
@dhanamjayas Жыл бұрын
In one of my company I worked, my boss asked me to stay back, I stayed back, next day I claimed conveyance. He asked me" What work did you do? I replied" You ordered me to stay back and I followed it". From then onwards, he used to make sure I leave the office right time!😀😀😀
@rahusphere
@rahusphere Жыл бұрын
Lol😂
@mallusingh1318
@mallusingh1318 11 ай бұрын
super
@panktislifestyle2354
@panktislifestyle2354 3 ай бұрын
I think my boss is similar.
@arjunsworld205
@arjunsworld205 Жыл бұрын
You are so right .. all toxic bosses have horrid personal / married lives . So they can’t see another person happy . Many even have extra marital affairs or look forward to having one in the office premises . I know this much from my experience working as an officer in Govt sector .
@Doremon0891
@Doremon0891 Жыл бұрын
💯 true
@riyasoni4567
@riyasoni4567 2 ай бұрын
Lol My boss is married and got some other girl pregnant Lol
@AtharzReview
@AtharzReview 6 ай бұрын
Never make friendship at workplace----Million dollar quote. Workplace par kaam se kaam hi rakhna best hai
@raghbir1963
@raghbir1963 Жыл бұрын
You are a true Guru in simple cloths. Your advice will save people from heartattack. Great person
@pbork2068
@pbork2068 9 ай бұрын
Good and talented peoples are never fired because if they were fired, they will work for themselves and will create a better life...
@Jay-rv4ee
@Jay-rv4ee Жыл бұрын
I dealt with my toxic house-owner exactly in the same way. It has worked wonderfully well 😜😇
@UltaPultaReviews
@UltaPultaReviews Жыл бұрын
Jabardast sir...pls give this speech in offices too. It'll change work environment. You're great.
@nehashirodkar1273
@nehashirodkar1273 Жыл бұрын
I'm planning to sit and tell my boss that his disorganised work schedule is not something i want to manage. I want to work in an organized manner and leave on time. Also, WORK IS NOT A PLACE TO MAKE FRIENDS, IT IS ONLY A PLACE TO WORK .. most truthful
@AkhilDhanola-zu8ox
@AkhilDhanola-zu8ox 6 ай бұрын
Thank u guruji aap ne ye gyan hme batya ase realistic topics laate rehna please youth ko bhot zarurat h iski
@advovikramjeetsinghdahiyac8554
@advovikramjeetsinghdahiyac8554 11 ай бұрын
SIR THANKS AGAIN FOR "TRUE KNOWLEDGE."
@sagarchoukikar_chemistry
@sagarchoukikar_chemistry 4 ай бұрын
Awesome counseling sir Ji❤❤❤
@ashwinimc4413
@ashwinimc4413 8 ай бұрын
Thank you very much sir... Thanks for sharing knowledge with us. Respect you very much sir. Your teachings never found in any books, colleges , schools also taught by any parents. Really helping us to lead peaceful , relaxing and happy life.
@lapu213
@lapu213 9 ай бұрын
Very practical advice, sir. 🙏
@sujatahanumanthu501
@sujatahanumanthu501 Жыл бұрын
Sir bilkul apt hai mere liye...
@ashwinimc4413
@ashwinimc4413 8 ай бұрын
Thanks sir....your advices are very knowledgeable and practical..
@tanmaymohiley5878
@tanmaymohiley5878 2 жыл бұрын
What an analysis sir👌
@SangoLifeSutras
@SangoLifeSutras 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@kikask3824
@kikask3824 Ай бұрын
Great knowledge..!! Really connects with times 🎱
@viralpatel6090
@viralpatel6090 6 ай бұрын
Are sirji.... Apke mantra ne to Kamal hi kr diya. My boss is completely change and her boss is also in fear that I do not complain HR. The boss of boss has given a tight slap to my boss😂
@pintucool21
@pintucool21 10 ай бұрын
Very true sir❤...
@AllEnglishShorts
@AllEnglishShorts 10 ай бұрын
Always respect your self esteem.
@vinodpatil8955
@vinodpatil8955 2 жыл бұрын
Very well explained sir... notes are really worth following...
@SangoLifeSutras
@SangoLifeSutras 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Vinod ji .pls share
@geetapaliya6032
@geetapaliya6032 11 ай бұрын
Yes ,sir !
@anusharma6809
@anusharma6809 2 жыл бұрын
well expressed
@akshaygaikwad7484
@akshaygaikwad7484 8 ай бұрын
Sir thanks for creating this video It’s a superb content which is difficult to get without experience This knowledge shared by you would indeed be a blessing for many
@sushmaraj9136
@sushmaraj9136 2 жыл бұрын
You are 100% rght🙏
@s.vijayakumari5222
@s.vijayakumari5222 9 ай бұрын
bas aap hi ho .baht motivate karte hi hume
@panktislifestyle2354
@panktislifestyle2354 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir. U r absolutely right.
@shivsharma6847
@shivsharma6847 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Sir 🙏
@motivationzlife6637
@motivationzlife6637 2 жыл бұрын
Y, nice tips 👍🏽
@sparkwithrajesh6568
@sparkwithrajesh6568 2 жыл бұрын
Thanx sir . These all things is happening with me in govt. Job in punjab .
@SapiensIndica
@SapiensIndica Жыл бұрын
Dekhi hai Sholay, gabbar bhi yaaf hai, baki 90s ke bachpann mei Kaala bandar chalta tha. Ps - Bohot badhiya video
@ashutoshbhatt566
@ashutoshbhatt566 23 күн бұрын
Thank you sir I need this tonic
@PriyankaSingh-jy9kk
@PriyankaSingh-jy9kk Ай бұрын
Thank you🙏
@Vaayu62
@Vaayu62 2 жыл бұрын
Very practical suggestions. 👍👍
@SangoLifeSutras
@SangoLifeSutras 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks.pls share
@shivsharma6847
@shivsharma6847 2 ай бұрын
​​@@SangoLifeSutrasit's ofcourse without saying 😊👍
@raveenanaidu2584
@raveenanaidu2584 5 ай бұрын
Superb ❤
@sanjaynitnavare1515
@sanjaynitnavare1515 3 ай бұрын
Yes sir you are truy👍🌹
@harendrasaini2505
@harendrasaini2505 4 ай бұрын
Very nice Sir, so valuable information. Please share the information for toxic lady boss.....
@mrRinku1975
@mrRinku1975 Ай бұрын
Sir ji tussi great ho 🎉
@Secrets369
@Secrets369 4 ай бұрын
Dear Sir I follow your videos, aap jo jo bolrahe ho... ek ek word i can feel.. thank you for your guidance.
@jeeveshkidgaming2203
@jeeveshkidgaming2203 8 ай бұрын
U r great person 🎉
@sudesharora6701
@sudesharora6701 2 жыл бұрын
Very much convinced
@roshanisingh6731
@roshanisingh6731 Жыл бұрын
Ek video..how to deal with toxic partner /husband par bhii bna dijiye 😅
@Hetal28
@Hetal28 Жыл бұрын
Sir Please expand on the point of how people get powerful if others gossip or hate them Good topic - gabbar syndrome
@Sanju-Sir1000
@Sanju-Sir1000 2 жыл бұрын
Maza aa gaya
@nareshghildiyal6261
@nareshghildiyal6261 2 жыл бұрын
Notes in the description are worth to read. If you can understand, apply it. Nothing like it. 👍👍👍
@sushmaraj9136
@sushmaraj9136 2 жыл бұрын
Good evening Sir🙏
@saleemshaikh1486
@saleemshaikh1486 Ай бұрын
CORRECT EXPLAIN THANKS
@ambujsharma2844
@ambujsharma2844 2 жыл бұрын
Gabbar wala example nice
@sumanchugh8889
@sumanchugh8889 Жыл бұрын
true sir
@NR-xx6ly
@NR-xx6ly 11 ай бұрын
Nice video
@user-by6px5xq1h
@user-by6px5xq1h 7 ай бұрын
Aaj kal log physical relationship tak bana lete hai...or pata chala eska promotion ho gaya..agar boss har 3mahine me outing rakhee sanjhaao.....pta nahi log office place le kise kerlete hai
@uthsavirkodal
@uthsavirkodal Жыл бұрын
Omg so true, i have been treated bad not given valuable work and im working in a hostile environment. My direct lady manger not sure what personal problem she has with me. She has problem for me on each and everything i do. Please advise what i must do
@akshatsingh6821
@akshatsingh6821 2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@Sanju-Sir1000
@Sanju-Sir1000 2 жыл бұрын
Nice informative video boss's???
@imaginemindjalota803
@imaginemindjalota803 6 ай бұрын
hope this video reach every toxic boss
@ambujsharma2844
@ambujsharma2844 2 жыл бұрын
Y, sir you are just amazing
@SangoLifeSutras
@SangoLifeSutras 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@avnisharma2032
@avnisharma2032 Жыл бұрын
Plzz make video on toxic colleagues...as in communication they don't response
@jyotsnasharma4105
@jyotsnasharma4105 2 күн бұрын
Yes G
@User06150
@User06150 Жыл бұрын
Nice topic Sir but there are less opportunities available as far as job is concerned in our country what one should do in that situation? Please clarify. Thanks
@carameshwaragarwal7438
@carameshwaragarwal7438 11 ай бұрын
Improve your knowledge and skills related to your Job. Improve your communication.
@tanvichemistry
@tanvichemistry 9 ай бұрын
How female should mange finances before and after marriage?
@saleemshaikh1486
@saleemshaikh1486 Ай бұрын
YES SHOLAY
@AkhilDhanola-zu8ox
@AkhilDhanola-zu8ox 6 ай бұрын
🔥🔥
@user-uc7tf4pc5t
@user-uc7tf4pc5t 9 ай бұрын
Kacche baniyana nahi pehen ke jana chahiye 😂😂 guruji mauj karadi
@sparkwithrajesh6568
@sparkwithrajesh6568 2 жыл бұрын
👍
@urmilamann747
@urmilamann747 2 жыл бұрын
@atulyabharat87
@atulyabharat87 10 ай бұрын
@ku.S
@ku.S 2 ай бұрын
Meri boss itni toxic hai retirement ke baad bhi picha nahi chod rahi building walon se mere pith piche milkar dosti kar rakhi hai aur yahan(residence) mein bhi harassment kar rahi aur ek stupid relative se bhi mil kar yeh log dimag kha gaye hai,jooth phela rakha(highly jealous)...life destroy kar di.want to get rid of them.
@kapilbhardwaj4559
@kapilbhardwaj4559 Жыл бұрын
🙏
@jyotsnasharma4105
@jyotsnasharma4105 2 күн бұрын
Sach mai mai bhi बड़ी परेशान hoon na to job kerte बन reha hai na kerte बन reha hai
@vandanasharma6646
@vandanasharma6646 9 ай бұрын
Staff pr b bnaie . Unhe lgta hmare bina kaam hi ni chlega . Tarref kro to choude hote h . Kuch smjhao to argue krte h . Shrafat ka fayda uthati h .
@TheOraware
@TheOraware Ай бұрын
I love your insights and a regular viewer, though I understand hindi but has some trouble with some vocublaries, please keep your audience like us in context and use some simple lingo - dont mind please, i dont want to miss your even a single word
@tanmaymohiley5878
@tanmaymohiley5878 2 жыл бұрын
Y 😊
@tuljaramborawake8268
@tuljaramborawake8268 3 ай бұрын
मैने monster boss की गळतिया collect करके company owner के जरिये ब्यांड बजाया...🔥
@urmilamann747
@urmilamann747 2 жыл бұрын
Seen sholey
@ashutoshbhatt566
@ashutoshbhatt566 23 күн бұрын
Par one thing if he says k ham bhi to esa hi kare hai ye hi hai hamara bhi schedule to ham kya baat kahe sir ..
@ritugaur8797
@ritugaur8797 7 ай бұрын
नहीं आप सही बोल रहे हो
@aadityashaw6771
@aadityashaw6771 Жыл бұрын
25% टाइम टू स्टाफ का व्हाट्सएप और मैसेज में ही चला जाता है। ऊपर से घर का फोन abd बॉयफ्रेंड का फोन अलग से अटेंड करना है। बेचारा बॉस का काम कौन करे और मंथ एंड पर टाइम पैसे मिल जाना चाहिए
@junsangjz1242
@junsangjz1242 2 ай бұрын
My boss always keeps bringing up my personal matters. And when he starts asking/ sayin things,he goes on n on n on ,it gets irritating. M jus frustrated. He's got no life literally n even he knows it and admits he's toxic that's the reason fr it. N yet he harrasses others.
@user-zq4fn4gj7r
@user-zq4fn4gj7r 5 ай бұрын
Toxic mother video plz 🙏
@gdmca4331
@gdmca4331 Жыл бұрын
I regret that i find the video very late.
@MaviNK
@MaviNK Жыл бұрын
MAG
@thakurtilak2860
@thakurtilak2860 3 ай бұрын
I have seen many videos for proper solution but none of them are as clear as you.
@gautamsakuja6159
@gautamsakuja6159 2 жыл бұрын
Sholay
@pradeflx
@pradeflx 2 жыл бұрын
Y
@monadesai4021
@monadesai4021 Ай бұрын
I hate the 2nd kind of boss.
@jairathore1850
@jairathore1850 6 ай бұрын
hi
@raghbir1963
@raghbir1963 Жыл бұрын
Mag
@ambujsharma2844
@ambujsharma2844 2 жыл бұрын
Id
@pradeflx
@pradeflx 2 жыл бұрын
S
@inamdarmrudula3064
@inamdarmrudula3064 Жыл бұрын
S G
@sanjoonri70
@sanjoonri70 4 ай бұрын
S srg
@aadityashaw6771
@aadityashaw6771 Жыл бұрын
Bad employees से कैसे डील करे ये भी बताए। ऐसे स्टाफ है जो 7 घंटे काम करके 9 घंटे का पैसा मांगते है।
@harmansingh2013
@harmansingh2013 Жыл бұрын
Koi bhi robot nhi hai agar 9 ghnte office bulaya to 9 ke 9 ghnte kaam kre
@aadityashaw6771
@aadityashaw6771 Жыл бұрын
@@harmansingh2013 whatsapp log addict ho gaye hai. Har 5 Minutes par message check karna rahta hai
@aadityashaw6771
@aadityashaw6771 Жыл бұрын
@@harmansingh2013 9 ghante me 1 ghanta khana phone thik hai baki 8 ghante to thik se kaam karo
@nishantgupta6619
@nishantgupta6619 Жыл бұрын
Why look for ghanta, if he work faster and smartly and complete in 7 hr is better than who take 2 days and work 9 hr daily.
@krishna_raj9331
@krishna_raj9331 11 ай бұрын
Manage your employees by their work not their time. Don't keep a watch on when they are working and when they are not. Check what they have achieved at the end of the day. I've seen people working 7-8 hours + relaxation period of 1-2 hours performing much much better as compared to people who are sitting seeing the screen and doing things continuously in wrong way for 12-13 hours and eventually achieving nothing.
@bangforboy
@bangforboy 4 ай бұрын
Agar tumhare pass paise nhi hein aur tumahare pass property hein tumhare paribar vale tumhara paisa kha rha hein
@siddhanthsharma2021
@siddhanthsharma2021 10 ай бұрын
@Kiranarora-xe8in
@Kiranarora-xe8in 5 ай бұрын
Maza aa gaya
@CreativityEducation
@CreativityEducation 10 ай бұрын
Y
@rakheejamwal6368
@rakheejamwal6368 7 ай бұрын
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