This is going to be a video about nosy people on how to deal with them.
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@soulfulishgirl8166 жыл бұрын
What irritates me the most about nosey people is the fact that they're to stupid to know when they're over stepping a boundary...being disrespectful by asking inappropriate questions. I have zero patience for that type of ignorance.
@TylerJTI6 жыл бұрын
soulfish girl. I understand where you coming from. thank you so much for your comment peace. and blessings to you.
@gjjhwanderer63915 жыл бұрын
My co-workers keep asking me how much money I make. Because I'm Part time and they are full time. I keep telling them in a nice way to stop but they won't listen to me. How can I tell them to stop in a firm way but not rude?
@Ruth-vy1qj5 жыл бұрын
GJJH Wanderer What kind of place u work at? You might have to ask the supervisor they to nosy. Ask them what ur SSN number, how much is ur rent, etc . Sorry to said no more Mrs Nice girl because u said they want stop. It time to go up level. Some people was raise being nosy adults that normally for them. When u see they don’t like it tell her just like u don’t like it stay out of my business. U got a lot gossip people at ur job.
@michaelusi71174 жыл бұрын
@@Ruth-vy1qj most of them are outgoing person
@chrissmolik80914 жыл бұрын
@@TylerJTI Are nosy people considered to be bossy? Just wondering. Thanks
@HelloKitty-sq2jo6 жыл бұрын
Nosy people give of the impression that their trying to help u but really there plotting against u
@Dana_inc6 жыл бұрын
Hello Kitty yes! And come around and be nice to fool you.
@ci.ci.19985 жыл бұрын
Hello Kitty Omg! Yess!
@violet4825 жыл бұрын
Omfg yeeeessssss
@2bethankful484 жыл бұрын
Amen too that!
@beaulieuc89103 жыл бұрын
Exactly, they are often trying to be friendly and nice to manipulate you
@vanessalynn40645 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I’m not the only one who gets annoyed by them.
@KL-is3op3 жыл бұрын
When someone ask you a nosey question just ask them " why do you want to know?" That usually will shut them up quickly. I also like the uncomfortable feeling they get with the unexpected question.
@BigBishop6093 жыл бұрын
My Dad taught me that response too 👍
@victoriasegall34042 жыл бұрын
My mother taught me that reply when I was in my teens.
@medievalknievel13 күн бұрын
No one likes a nosy rosy….. always shut people down real quick lol especially in line at Walmart lol
@klueboy1315 жыл бұрын
I like to say to nosey people.. “what’s the long number on your debit card, and the last 4 digits on the back? They don’t say anything else after hearing that. Works a treat. Good talk
@nikkinichole15054 жыл бұрын
The nosiest people ask you questions but don't want you to ask them any
@beaulieuc89103 жыл бұрын
exactly it is all one sided, and then they will tell all the other neighbours your misfortune and then they will target you for all sorts of reasons
@victoriasegall34042 жыл бұрын
Exactly! They have a double standard.
@josephdouglas7765 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I have two nosey neighbors ask me who drop you off in that car me I said your mama bitch 🥃
@btytwwts2 ай бұрын
It's funny because I looked this up because my grandmother is the nosy person in question, but the thing is she tells me a lot about what's going on in her personal life too, I honestly just wish that she would leave me be and stop trying to talk to me every five minutes, she talks a lot and repeats what she already said too, but she's at the age so I guess she'll never really understand
@victoriacampbell44126 жыл бұрын
Can't stand it when people ask me where I live and what I dooooooo
@nashiffuadkhan98175 жыл бұрын
That ain't nosy
@SR777365 жыл бұрын
@@nashiffuadkhan9817 yes it is. It's nobody's business.
@asill.66684 жыл бұрын
I can't stand it either!!!!!
@Itsellasky4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@tarasowell26565 жыл бұрын
Hi Tyler, nosey people don't have no life to much time on they hand.Instead of minding other people business they missing out on there own business.There miserable people.
@Star-vg7ix10 ай бұрын
Someone from my past was brillant at answering these questions. He would usually answer "why?" to every question, and then again "why"? Hhehehhehe loved it.
@cliffimages17856 жыл бұрын
Nosy people are irritating, and ignorant. Great advise, Tyler.
@josephdouglas7765 Жыл бұрын
They have no life
@josephdouglas7765 Жыл бұрын
Today my white old neighbor ask me what you're drinking In the cup I said shit 👀
@Lovely_Diva5 жыл бұрын
Nosy people are the reason why Iam PRIVATE. I refuse to tell my business to anyone. Nosy people are gossips. If people attempt to get in my business I let em know it's not up for discussion. Or if its mild I give them a vague answer that they cant run and spread rumors with.
@thejessman14603 жыл бұрын
Ill intentions seem to be the motivation. No respect for boundaries or basic human rights for privacy. Lazy and manipulative. Unsettling. Thanks for the insight.
@victoriasegall34042 жыл бұрын
You're right. Also, not a good upbringing.
@1thankful6 жыл бұрын
If someone wants to get nosey with me ....i feel they just bought themselves a ticket to hell 🙄
@MelModica4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for ideas to deal with these nosy people! I cant stand obnoxious rude nosy people!!! I treat people with respect and don't intrude on others life!!! My brothers friend was at my house the other day snooping around my house and going through my trash and I swear to God he was snooping in my bathroom!!!! He then had the nerve to try to invite himself over my house the next day to do yard work that I never asked him to do!!! I am furious that people think they can invade peoples privacy!!!
@beaulieuc89103 жыл бұрын
The thing is there are so many people who are untrustworthy and will use your information to their advantage.
@sntmdsa36284 ай бұрын
You don’t have to say all that in a robotic voice. When they ask nosey questions just say “unhuh” and don’t even look at them. Works like a charm. Eveytime some ask you a personal nosey question that you don’t feel like answering just say “unhuh” can keep it pushing
@Voldemort3186 жыл бұрын
Man you are the greatest on preaching and being funny at the same time always lighting me up keep up the great work brother
@devinwelborn52112 жыл бұрын
Major Payne
@starkid776 жыл бұрын
Thank you this was exactly what I've been looking for and for a very long time. It took me getting older, smarter, angrier, and too tired of some of the same people casually asking stuff they have no business knowing. I realized these types of people need to not only be called on their inappropriate behavior but straight up hung out to dry by embarrassing them. No one owes anyone personal info about their lives, not even family who may think they have the right when they don't. It feels good to not only be as serious as I need to be and smile only when I feel like it, but putting people tactfully in their place, assertively, and sweetly can be a joy if it's effective and and reduces stress knowing that those nosy people are taking it somewhere else because we let them know they won't be getting their thirsty, desperate gossip from me or my life. Thanks for the help to be more assertive.
@bijou1213825 жыл бұрын
I hate all questions... Honestly I'm getting to the point that I don't want to communicate with most ppl... I don't care what they got going on and I'm always taken back by the fact that they even care to ask my personal business in the first place...😑
@karinam41155 жыл бұрын
bijou fofana feel the same. Now I want to be more in solitude
@bijou1213825 жыл бұрын
@@karinam4115 I have mastered creating the solitude I desire while having selective/limited contact with any/all in my life... I don't care who that somebody is. Their comfort NEVER overrides my personal comfort...
@sisSonders4 жыл бұрын
It sucks because, I work close to a nosy coworker... And it makes me uncomfortable. Trying to keep it courteous though.
@MJay30602 жыл бұрын
The nosy type I'm dealing with is the one that the more you stray away from the more it gets interpreted as "please keep asking me more questions and talk to me more" for some reason. I got to the point where I just completely ignored their presence. Exhaustion of teaching the untaughtable is unbearable.
@lucillesamuel73316 жыл бұрын
nosy people want to be in your business because they have know of there on .so that's why they nosy about your business.nosy need to take 6months to mind there own business and leave other people business alone.great video Tyler.✌✌✌✌✌
@TylerJTI6 жыл бұрын
Lucille Samuel. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@pinkgypsytees6 жыл бұрын
None of your DAM business, it ain't none of your business...LOL...TELL EM TYLER! LOL..
@margaretcooper7975 жыл бұрын
People who give you the third degree when you don’t immediately return their phone calls or texts.
@stealthone60805 жыл бұрын
Wow u on point brother..Stay sharp
@mk82snakeye82 жыл бұрын
It's not a matter of if, but when. The moment they don't get what they want, you will see. Better still, just don't bother with the risk. Kudos Tyler.
@RobynR0006 жыл бұрын
You keep it so Real. Love it. So grateful to have found your channel. Dealing with family looking at my bank receipts asking me about my MONEY! Absolutely insane. I'm a grown woman.
@asiaparks7158 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯they want to devour u the devil comes to steal kill and destroy same here the devil uses them I'm glad there permanently out of my life
@Thecrows_eye Жыл бұрын
I work with the ultimate nosey Parker, liar and gossiping backstabber. Always asking did I meet a girlfriend? Wanting to see pictures of my female friends. I don’t know how to answer it.
@ahunter95033 жыл бұрын
Why do nosey people exist? THIS IS A GREAT UPLOAD...Thank you so much Tyler JTI.
@niecys6 жыл бұрын
Nice Strategy you've suggested. I'm going to use this tactic at work!
@ZE308AC2 жыл бұрын
You could always say something vague or say like CrisBemmer "I don't answer those questions"
@lifeslessons988910 ай бұрын
I must remember that one !
@josephdouglas7765 Жыл бұрын
Extra facts 💯
@codelicious65905 жыл бұрын
Nosy people that hide the fact they are nosy is more irritating than anything, at least someone that's obviously nosy you can say straight up, mind your own damn biz, but when they're nosy on the dl you have to leave them notes😂
@iwapelemovement6 жыл бұрын
You’re on point my brother. You had me laughing about the nosy 🐜 .
@TylerJTI6 жыл бұрын
tribal unity organization.you have great content thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@iwapelemovement6 жыл бұрын
Tyler JTI you’re welcome brother. Likewise. What you say is relevant and realistic.
@HealingThroughInspiration6 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing my biological father always wants to know about my business I am running, trying to give me advice I didn't ask for like he's helping me. But hasn't even started his own when he said he would. He's has been jealous of me my whole life.
@TylerJTI6 жыл бұрын
healingthroughinspiration. thank you for telling your experience. thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.
@lifeslessons988910 ай бұрын
Move on and away then …jealousy is a road to hell .
@donnah.3278 Жыл бұрын
I'm dealing with this for the last several years .Thank you for posting this. I literally live by neighbors from H*ll
@beaulieuonnp5932 жыл бұрын
My neighbour doesn't understand boundaries, I get her talking through my hedge and I have had to block of my hedge. And when I go out of my house and she sees me I say I am busy and walk on i am now getting a Do not Disturb sign #uk
@garylawton586 жыл бұрын
This guys funny as fuck and right most nosey mofos are snitches
@victoriasegall34042 жыл бұрын
I am totally in agreement with you! Just one quick little fyi: They are ALL snitches. Trust me, Gary. They aren't kindly folks.
@ShinySilverBunny3 жыл бұрын
This is the best advice Tyler I needed this lesson. I might bring up the fact I got diarrhea and gotta go 🚶🤣 as that's the type of subject nobody wants to talk about!! LOL. Your ideas are great. Thank you
@yeosin_guluem76453 жыл бұрын
This boy is so nosy he’s so annoying thank you for making this video
@abbagirl88196 жыл бұрын
Just stare at them...lol
@Dana_inc6 жыл бұрын
nina renee good advice! That what my cousin says.
@ryanfresh8521 Жыл бұрын
I’m just going to put this out there but in my case I’m in such a happy relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years. Most disturbing is that now this gives more nosey people more ammunition to pry into my love life that is generally happy and these nosey people are miserable with their spouses or partner or whoever.
@llr1961 Жыл бұрын
I love your conviction. We don’t owe nosey people anything.
@playboymaxim3 жыл бұрын
He reminds me of Katt Williams lol But great video man!
@cleighdesaez31043 жыл бұрын
GM , and Thanking you for the reminder that there are polite and tactful ways of handling these situations. A person may give themselves over with out editing before the words come out . 🙏
@sharonanderson69264 жыл бұрын
Yes!And the family is one of them if they can't get in your business they don't have any thing to do with you.
@knowbodiesfull57684 ай бұрын
Nosy person : "What's your sign?" Me : " Do Not Enter."
@jacquelinemanzano93285 жыл бұрын
This is interesting, because intrusive people are everywhere! I happen to live in a town where gossip travels at the speed of light. My favorite response to intrusive people is as follows; " I am so sorry, I realize you may be asking a simple question, but with all due respect, I take my right to privacy very seriously and you should do the same.
@justjoey693910 ай бұрын
Thank you for message. I enjoyed the video. Stay blessed.
@Doodlefisher5 ай бұрын
Coworkers being nosy: I have work to do. They don’t want to hear that!
@helpme97665 жыл бұрын
This video is dedicated to Paul and Morgan Ogglies...the noseyest married couple in the world.
@happystarhappystar14777 ай бұрын
Thank you, Tyler.
@langchauvin11214 жыл бұрын
We have a nosey neighbor, who spies on me and my wife. I could see him his shadows peeping on his blinds at night when we come home. He always says he is a vegetarian which means we can't do barbecue.
@saudaumunna17124 жыл бұрын
😂😂 your neighbor seems to be desperately!! nosey
@lacretiagiddens53593 жыл бұрын
Wow😂😆
@cestmagnifique79324 жыл бұрын
What do I do with housemate who is sitting for hours in the living room and the minute I step in the kitchen, they come running and stick their nose to what I'm cooking.. WTF
@beaulieuc89103 жыл бұрын
that's annoying
@thejessman14603 жыл бұрын
I hate that
@deletelater793 Жыл бұрын
Listen I got this one nosey ass neighbour who's always watching people outside his window always getting into people's business and asking an hour others! Nosey as hell! 👃The man just can't keep to himself
@freakinthegardenfreakinthe48402 ай бұрын
Thank you very much- I enjoyed this video, but it’s NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS! 😂😂😂
@foodtoys84263 жыл бұрын
I’m having that problem right now. They complain about everything we do. We can’t even put a pop up gazebo in our own yard without them telling us to take it down.
@tarasowell26565 жыл бұрын
Hi Tyler you not lying. I like your video!👈
@clausm22038 ай бұрын
Great video
@martyshousecommunityorg.28905 жыл бұрын
I love you keep it real Tyler
@codelicious65905 жыл бұрын
I hate when my roommate goes looking around in my space and through my stuff every time I leave the room. What's worse is when she stalks my KZfaq history also and monitors absolutely everything I do that she can, I hope you see this and stop your bullshit Cassy, it's none of your business, get your own life- your own hobby.
@miguelcruz2682 Жыл бұрын
All u got to say is : I Rather NOT SAY!!.🙌
@lifeslessons988910 ай бұрын
That’s polite …but sends them into curiosity mode ..seeking more answers
@vaytring92652 жыл бұрын
IF THEY TALK ABOUT PEOPLE THEY TALK ABOU YOU.
@robrob70112 жыл бұрын
Thanks man!!
@beaulieuc89103 жыл бұрын
I was in the car with my bro at home and my NN turned up and started talking to him and being nosy. I said to my brother hurry up we do have to go, keep going on at him to move. My bro talks to anyone, but I think he told him too much already in 1 minutes, but I watched her start her next nosy question and shut her down and she moved on, most of the damage had been done but she certainly made it clear that I was unhappy. #england
@eysanhatun6522 жыл бұрын
im botherd by them comming to me and tell me random low level basic shit. i work with these people
@cookiedough3629 Жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@Mike_CosentinoАй бұрын
Nosy people are narcissistic and narcissists are more often than not nosy people. I’ve noticed this correlation
@lisamyrie54905 жыл бұрын
Hi, How to deal with harrassment from nosey people, Who thinks everything is, Funny.
@renew78282 жыл бұрын
I hit them on the job with, I'm busy with work, so I don't make time to answer personal questions. 😂😂
@Homegrown421 Жыл бұрын
Made me feel like barking or turning around and sniffing them back 😂
@mk82snakeye82 жыл бұрын
The uninteresting stuff. Fantastic. Otherwise known as 'grey rock'. Boring, lacking in drama, it bores them stupid. Then they go elsewhere looking for trouble
@abdulayaan2734 Жыл бұрын
you really helped me with life
@andreaharris2443 Жыл бұрын
I moved one in with me and I want it out ASAP please tell use how to get it out of my house please please please
@rainynightz7573 Жыл бұрын
My neighbors ….
@mercedesguerrero49765 жыл бұрын
Well. Said. ,,,. My. Kids. Listen. , To this with me. ,**. We. Lived. It. Well. Said. ___ subscribed
@Homegrown421 Жыл бұрын
💯
@RondaSmith144Empress3 жыл бұрын
👌👌👌
@mariasophialopez9249 Жыл бұрын
I HAVE THE PERFECT SONG FOR NOSEY NEIGHBORS. IT'S CALLED SMILING FACES BY THE UNDISPUTED TRUTH. PLAY IT, LISTEN TO IT.
@stephenwilkins64382 жыл бұрын
I have an aunt that's really nosey so nosey she gets my personal business she is not something trustworthy
@littlestbroccoli2 жыл бұрын
Haha that's smart
@Iamrosyd2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it best just to say that’s none of your damn business. Ugh 😑 they are so stupid.
@victoriasegall34042 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Stupid like bottle caps!
@kevinturner34006 жыл бұрын
Like
@TylerJTI6 жыл бұрын
Kevin Turner. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@haasanjacobs14622 жыл бұрын
Yup and they'll keep asking you in your business until they get it. And they'll get off the phone because it Aggregates them
@margaretbatson833 жыл бұрын
I've got nothing to hide on youtube. All I do is make comments on videos. I cannot stand people going through my shit.
@dakine4238Ай бұрын
What if it's your roommate?
@so7iane886 жыл бұрын
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@TylerJTI6 жыл бұрын
4d. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.
@leonardwills4268 Жыл бұрын
I'm sick of nosy people myself they don't know how to money on damn business
@Homegrown421 Жыл бұрын
Have you ever been to the grocery store after gardening , then someone be behind you sniffing you
@majinbuu16872 жыл бұрын
Terrence Norris 👃
@bunnyrabbits3511 ай бұрын
How irritating are nosy people?
@arionnarhome93605 жыл бұрын
I deal with nosey people by telling them Mind your business
@michaelusi71174 жыл бұрын
But this can offend them and might get physical on u trust me i been there nosy people get offended easily
@jameshiaconcrete39684 жыл бұрын
@@michaelusi7117oh well.. so what?? Get people out you're business..
@michaelusi71174 жыл бұрын
@@jameshiaconcrete3968 if they see u doing something and ask u nosy question just say " im busy repeat if they ask u again say not important
@victoriasegall34042 жыл бұрын
I also tell these bozos to mind their own business. If they get offended by that, good! It serves them right, and if they were to touch even a hair on my head, oh, boy, would they be sorry!
@wilsDav35 жыл бұрын
You not need to speak to people like this you can speak to people nicely
@jameshiaconcrete39684 жыл бұрын
Man whatever....this world isn't a nice place to live in. Not everyone is nice or kind or friendly in the world.
@BigBishop6093 жыл бұрын
@@jameshiaconcrete3968 I agree
@UnknownUnknown-cd4hh Жыл бұрын
If you want to say it nicely, just reply once. “Sorry, I’m busy”. If they continuing asking why? Just ignore.
@mischellagreen19914 жыл бұрын
Stop being nosy 😒
@jeremy7904Ай бұрын
Tell them straight up Wow you're Nosey You need to mind your own business im going to keep reminding them stay out of my business. Didn't i tell you to mind your own business?
@michaelusi71174 жыл бұрын
Just say ' not important i'm busy
@OvertIntelligence4 күн бұрын
Mf on the bust just out the blue asking me if I was going to work. People loove to be in your business…
@ellaluvs21suarez325 жыл бұрын
one nosy hater dint like the video
@knowbodiesfull57684 жыл бұрын
There are two now. (Hint: I'm not either one of them.)