How to Escape Abusive Parents

How to Escape Abusive Parents | Nouman Ali Khan

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Do you feel trapped in a toxic household where you experience emotional, verbal abuse from your parents? It's a challenging situation to be in, and it's not easy to admit that your parents are abusive. Unfortunately, many young people experience this kind of abuse every day, but few know how to escape from it. That's why we created this guide to help you deal with it. In this video, Nouman Ali Khan shares her insights for escaping it.

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@Ukhti333 7 ай бұрын

I love my parents but they have honestly physically emotionally and mentally damaged me…

@fahadihsan2483 7 ай бұрын

same and it hurts. i cant stop crying since i realize they were toxic

@zaidkhan107 4 ай бұрын

Same with me, May Allah bless patience & ease. Ameen 🤲

@koulfehad_7238 2 ай бұрын

Fuck parents

@patriotlightning7791 Ай бұрын

Your bravery is admirable ❤

@n.t.a2528 25 күн бұрын

It hurts to I can relate keep making dua to Allah for a way out that's what I'm doing ❤

@zumeraaa 7 ай бұрын

Feels like a disconnect with what abusive relationships are like. You can’t draw a line, respectfully or otherwise. If it were possible to draw a line, they wouldn’t be abusive. If they respected boundaries, they would be reasonable.

@sidraqsa 5 ай бұрын

👏🏻

@thunderballzz 6 ай бұрын

My mother has never shown me affection. She would turn my father against me to the point where speaking to me was forbidden. She forbids me to marry so I may take care of her. Whenever angry she will do the silent treatment for years if she has to. My father has passed, and now I take her to the doctor, pickup her medicine and anything she needs. It is time to distance myself as I cannot bear anymore mental abuse.

@supermunie4096 4 ай бұрын

I'm going through something similar with my mother...my father talks to me with contempt and a hint of disgust in his voice....my opinions never matter...and when it comes to marriage she says, you'll embarras me! And what kind of tribe I shouldn't marry..turns the whole family against me....I want to leave home and never see them again

@nafeezabolia9724 2 ай бұрын

May Allah reward you for everything you have been through.Folliw your gut instinct and ask Allah to guide you.

@naimhassan17 23 сағат бұрын

One thing that I have learnt is that first and foremost become financially independent as early as possible. Especially when your parents are desi. It doesn't mean you should leave them but having financial independence gives you the strength and confidence to draw a line; be firm when the situation arises. It also helps you in fulfilling your duties towards your parents and stay away from the abuse, if needed.

@Moeezay Жыл бұрын

What if the child's mental health comes on stake and starts causing physical impact on a child as well and if then a child decides to leave home to save himself even then is he considered a sinful person in the eyes of Allah?

@shizaafzal1584 Жыл бұрын

I am under the same boat, I can't grow in this household.

@farahmehar4239 11 ай бұрын

@@Sarandib22you are brave, i wish i could do that, SO PROUD OF YOU!!

@nabilc1667 11 ай бұрын

If you just couldn't do anything else, then Allah is the most Just, the most Merciful. If the situation could've been resolved but you chose not to, then Allah is hard in punishment

@amirsidiqui9136 10 ай бұрын

Same situation

@ramshashahid2803 9 ай бұрын

same boat but im a girl cnt leave house

@tanjelaakthermukti5088 9 ай бұрын

Who will make them understand 😔😔😔

@Ukhti333 7 ай бұрын

My parents would never understand …

@richelle9563 7 ай бұрын

allah knows my pain. help me allah😢

@user-hk9kn7tm4p Ай бұрын

Allah always A capital name of the only King of all the worlds please always A capital

@elane288 Ай бұрын

@@user-hk9kn7tm4p yes we use a capital A when referring to Allah

@irimfiaz951 11 ай бұрын

Parents are terrible- evil men are for evil women for real

@manojmurali7462 Ай бұрын

We keep talking about our strong cultural values and family in front of westerners. But we all know the nonsense we deal with underneath

@Whatsmyname567 3 ай бұрын

My mother has absolutely NO RESPECT for any boundaries that I set, but I can't leave her because I'm all she got, like literally. It has come to a point where mine and my children's safety and security are at risk. Don't know what to do.

@nafeezabolia9724 2 ай бұрын

Set your boundaries and stick to them.Narcisistic people are very shallow weak individuals.May Allah help you.Aameen

@user-cb3jn8yc9v 6 ай бұрын

LOL.. I wish it was that simple..😪

@sottie9597 6 ай бұрын

SubhanAllah ❤

@bemindfulmuslimah 8 ай бұрын

Is there a full link on this lecture?

@lookbehindyou7313 10 ай бұрын

Does anyone know how to send a message to the sheikh please help

@Mus322. 2 ай бұрын

What do I do if my mother wishes and keep saying me may you die ? All my life I have been having biased parents I was never their priority I was the least for them faced enough in my life

@user-gu7ov9cn9t Жыл бұрын

I gave up on Islam my parents practice sihr and are kuffairs mother slept w family members Father maid claims about my deen to lock me up at the time I was a practicing Beliifing Muslim My sister slept w multiple enemies at the age of 12 my family is about 40 w brothers sister loyal parents I’m one just one I ask Allah why

@bemindfulmuslimah 8 ай бұрын

Brother/sister, that's heartbreaking. I obviously can't do anything to pull you out from such situation. However please kindly read w/ indepth understanding, QS Dhuha and QS Yusuf. The first surah, I pray that it will give you hope, and the latter surah is about being in abusive/manipulative environment.

@ramshashahid2590 6 ай бұрын

Despite of all this try to come back on religion atleast just least you can do.. come back.. recite kalma again.. May God Help you

@nafeezabolia9724 2 ай бұрын

Love yourself.Put your feelings first. Do not spoil your deen,dhunia and arkhirah because of them.Islam will give you peace and tranquility. May Allah guide you always.Aameen